Here’s food for thought for all of you who follow my blog or found my Chicago tantra services online by accident.


Remember when certain cities here in the United States were ordered to shut down completely or certain industries were restricted that were considered non essential businesses?


I certainly Remember! I cut my own hair so I didn’t panic because salons were shut down; but I love having my nails manicured by a professional.

Both my longterm nail artist and private manicurist unceremoniously removed me from their books, didn’t advise me how to remove my acryllic powder and didn’t check up on me. They never sent a text to my phone to officially remove my appointment times from their books; they just removed me from their square calendars or let me figure it out on my own.


Neither of them saw me as a human being yet I noticed my female uber drivers were well manicured and they told me their stylists were secretly working with their loyal customers.

I myself remained open & lost business because of the convention shutdowns & many of my clients were furloughed from work. Some of my customers had large families and chose to stop working with me completely to ” stay safe”.


I stayed afloat & persevered because unlike most people I actually LOVE 🧑 my job with a great passion because I love healing people and opening up energy.

Remember those that were of service to you during the shutdown. Stop bouncing around from one #tantra therapist to the next. You see greater progress when you keep up with one or 2 people and stay on a set program.

When you see tantra massage as just a rare treat or occasional novelty you will not see long lasting results.

Many new students of tantra massage think their tantra professionals must be of service to them and do all the work; but honestly it’s not up to us to do the “work ” for you.

If you don’t breathe deeply, drink enough water or eat a somewhat healthy diet then you simply won’t reap the dramatic health benefits of tantra yoga and alternative healing.

Do the breathing! Do the work by meeting your tantra goddess half way. Book sessions with one person every three weeks and be honest about your goals and your budget. Be consistent and keep your body healthy and active.

Please visit my primary tantra website here http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly at 312 339 7707 or send me a descriptive email to tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and introduce yourself to me.

I work with both single and married men and women and work with couples seeking authentic couples tantra massage in Chicago, Illinois and Schaumburg, Illinois.

My tantra ceremonies are comprehensive and will include a dreamy landscape of beautiful colors, sounds, chakra balancing, chakra alignment, aromatherapy, and guided, nurturing, intuitive touch.

Every inch of your body will be lovingly explored as we co create sacred space. Me sessions are meant to be a blissful escape from the mundane and I strongly recommend you schedule a Chicago tantra ceremony no less than 90 minutes in length to fully enjoy the experience.