Tantra teaches us how to honor Our Divine Feminine ❤♡
Ideally I recommend women schedule a two hour healing with me for their first journey into tantra and Yoni empowerment.
Why do we need so much time? Because women were born with the natural ability to have multiple waves of orgasmic bliss and thus we are very blessed and very fortunate –we are naturally tantric!
Our goals may all be varied. Perhaps you are out of tune with your own body’s needs. Maybe it has been a long time since you experienced the pleasure of touch without limiting goals and expectations. Some of us are very blessed and we can achieve full body bliss naturally with little guidance. Some of us are very much attune and in the moment as we open up to receive full body pleasure with expectations.
But what do we do if are not multiorgasmic? How do we express our unique needs to our partners unless we uncover our hidden treasures and our strong divine feminine presence?
We all want to feel feminine and empowered. We want to carry ourselves as Goddesses and we want to explode in passion for our lovers being overcome in the joy of Goddess hood.
But what do we do if we came from repressive childhood experiences? What if we were not honored but simply “controlled” by our parents and we were not made to feel safe or powerful? This complicates our sexual aura and we might have challenges picking partners who reflect our powerful Goddess energy. If we feel powerless and misunderstood how can we attract a man or a woman in our lives who can honor our creative life force?
Tantric yoga is the empowering of your yoni. A goddess reawakening is like a Baptism and we are allowed to really feel for the first time in our lives. Our gentle yonis can become numbed if our backgrounds did not allow us to receive the gentle touch we deserve.
The work we do together is necessary work and one of these days you might wake up realizing time has gone by too quickly and you still have needs and strong desires that have not been fulfilled or explored.
Women are sensitive, caring, sensual creatures. When we are fully awakened our sexual energy has the power to create more abundance in your life and make you a far more intuitive being with a grounded confidence and assuredness. When you are allowed to release your pent up sexual energy in the form of amrita you gradually awaken your pineal gland and you heal your endocrine system without the need for medication. We can poison our bodies with negative self thought and medications or we can become empowered healers and shaman women who are fully in control of our bodies and our choice in partners.
When you focus on the moment and we learn circular breathing techniques we become fully alive and we have the potential to achieve orgasms anywhere and everywhere in the body if we learn to release guilt and expectations of ourselves and others. Even the mere touch of a feather will send mind blowing waves of electricity throughout your being. We learn to activate our chakra system with light, water touch a touch so powerful it supersedes the need for a deep tissue massage.
When you focus on healing your yoni your physical pain subsides and your pelvis is freer and less tight to the touch. When you have a juicy yoni and a relaxed pelvis you activate the waters in your second chakra and this is known as “stirring the waters”. It is not necessary for you to engage in sexual intercourse in order to heal your trauma. It is a conscious touch activated with your conscious breath that allows you to open up the opportunity for kundalini shakti or full body awakening.
Sometimes due to social conditioning women are expected to be vocal or orgasm on command or simply fake it for the sake of not injuring the fragile ego of her lover. Some women have shut down their sexual drive because of their religious belief systems or a sense of guilt or a feeling that sex is not important. Some unfortunate few have never known the pleasure of gentle foreplay in a non rushed and loving environment. Here is where tantric yoga becomes the healing agent of the Divine feminine. We have a right as women to state our sexual needs so that we can be honored and held sacred in a state of complete honor and non judgement. We have the right to receive pleasure without feeling guilty. We deserve this and bliss is our birth rite!
Tantric massage focuses on openness and teaches us how to accept our bodies and be fully present and relaxed during the sacred act of receiving pleasure from ourselves or from our partner.
Did we even begin to mention that this pathway can change our outlook on life and can change your opportunities for enhanced confidence and more creative flow? You are a sexual being. You are a fully energized being with Kundalini Shakti energy just waiting to be active and empowered. Our possibilities are endless and our bodies should be honored and explored as sacred temples. If you can learn to control and connect your breath with your body and your sexual power you can lose yourself for that one moment in time and taste unbridled passion. I am not saying this will happen all at once in session. In fact I am not even promising you can achieve all this in the span of a year. Since we are constantly changing and evolving we can explore our orgasmic potential and realize we are expanding heart and yoni consciousness safely and intuitively ON OUR TIME and no one else’s time table.
Our heart chakras hold the key to our Yoni. When we massage around our breasts and tap our sternums we awaken our fragile emotions. We circumvent the yoni initially starting with our hearts and holding hands because our inner palms are an extension of our heart chakra energies.
In a Tantric Massage, your whole body will be sensually awakened. As we know, it takes time and a full body approach to arouse women fully. As a woman’s positive sexual pole is in her heart, around your breasts will be massaged to open your heart, which then opens the channel between your heart and your yoni. Only then would a woman be ready for yoni massage, and only if she wants it. It may take a couple of sessions before you feel ready, and that’s ok.
The main goal of a tantric massage is to help you learn more about your body and to help you establish healthy boundaries on touch. You will be in complete control during our shared time together. You will actively give a voice to all your needs and goals. I am here to help you uncover trauma with gentle and intentional touch. Our vaginal walls can collect tension, stress, scar tissue and armouring from years of neglect or abuse. If we send out harmful thoughts to our yonis our yonis contract energetically and become shut down. The purpose of our time together is to help you open up these wounds and help you get rid of unneeded and unhealthy negative self talk. We don’t necessarily look for a full body orgasm when we honor and heal the yoni but we do send healing light and try for a tender approach so that you feel honored and you can slowly get in touch with your feminine desire.
You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this
topic to be really something that I think I would never understand.
It seems too complex and extremely broad for me. I am looking forward for your next post, I will try to get the hang of it!