
“Resting Maiden”, probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O’Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.
If you are a couple here in Orlando, Florida and you feel you are a ready to establish a more meaningful connection with your lover I would love to help you facilitate something special this December.
Many people need more play in their life. I realize many of you are Ceo’s and are professional so you are expected to show up at your work place calm, ready for anything and well polished.
Tantra teaches us to be comfortable with being ourselves. You are not expected to be anything or pretend to be someone you are simply expected to be ready to be accepted and loved unconditionally.
We begin the practice of unconditional love by sitting in silence with our partner. You may love the outdoors so maybe you might want to take your lover outside in a private place without distractions and stay seated in front of each other comfortably. You can gaze into your lover’s eyes and the just be present for her or him. You are not allowed to think of anything. Now that is more difficult than it seems. We sometimes think of the past, present and future but during this exercise you are a blank canvass, releasing all concerns and you are going to beam a strobe of complete, unconditional love into your partner’s eyes. You can try practicing this for fifteen minutes initially and then as you get better at it maybe prepare to spend a full 45 minutes just staring and smiling at each other contentedly. You will breathe together, holding hands and in this way all your chakra centers are in complete alignment.
These are exercises that are for couples seeking unity, understanding and an opening of their heart chakra centers.
Many people are confused about the true intention of tantra yoga. Yes you will grow as a couple more intimately and yes you will even crave each other more but this is created from a true heart intention and if you are able to make your partner feel safe and loved without raw, physical contact; just imagine how much more profound your love making ritual will grow once you become more sensitive to who your partner really is. You will be asking very little of each other but the honor of seeing through each other without judgement and without any hurry to go anywhere after the exercise is finished.
I am sure that many couples misconstrue the meaning of learning tantra. There are couples who are impatient and only want to get to the excitement of kama sutra and sexual positions but when they skip over the honoring of one another and deny the slow moving spiritual path of this work they will not reap the healing benefits of transitioning from a physical experience to a spiritual elevation.
I am open to teaching couples in the Orlando, Florida area now that I am here enjoying winter with all of you in this lush, laid back environment. I hope to attract a few couples or singles who have a half day to let go of their normal routines or their opinions of what tantra yoga is and is not.
I am here, present, open and willing to share my knowledge of tantra yoga for private sessions and couples sessions and I hope to connect with you during the week of Christmas. If you have time to grow please contact me this week in Orlando.