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🌷 how to know your psychic reader was a fraud 🌷

Hey audience, I decided to write this article mostly as a reminder to myself and perhaps a cautionary tale to you that not all psychic readings are balanced or particularly healing.

I hadn’t had a legitimate reading in two years mostly because my traveling expenses and separate sets of storage fees give me limited access to fund all my desires.  I was perusing my Facebook feed a few months ago and noticed this well meaning young woman raving about her Facebook friends healing skills.  Naturally I love networking with other healers so I promptly sent this healer a friend request and found out she lives in the Chicago land area.

Later I realized the well meaning girl from new York had never received an actual healing she just thought based on their friendly interactions that Kerri had great healing abilities without actually receiving a real reading over the phone or in person.

Kerri and I had casual interchanges via Facebook messenger and I was seeking someone who could not only give me a clairvoyant reading but karuna…arch reiki for lower back pain I was experiencing.  I told Kerri that I was primarily intrigued about karuna and I was seeking more of an energy healing to open up any potential blocks in my chakras with an emphasis on opening up my opportunities for greater abundance.  Kerri assured me she would do her best to help and also suggested a psychic reading.  She mentioned she hosts a radio show and would even love to have me as a guest speaker to hopefully promote my tantra practice and gain a broader audience.  Of course that never happened ever as I would eventually discover for myself.

One week pain in my body made me  decide to hire a professional massage therapist in Humboldt park who I found to be incredibly profound.  Neil took his time with my spinal column and even tried cupping with me so at the end of our time together I opened up to neil and admitted I would be hiring a psychic for a reading soon.  Neil got very quiet and warned me about giving too much of my power to a complete stranger.  I assured him I’d be careful and as I left his massage studio I noticed how happy I looked and felt.  I felt tingly and much lighter energetically than I had felt in such a long time!

I then contacted Kerri and she was open to the idea of actually picking  me up at the closest train station to her home.  I don’t drive a car  and rely on trains and buses so she would agree to meet me at the closest blue line to her home.  The  next day however I realized there were two completely different Harlem ave stops on the blue line which was confusing and really changed the dynamics of me getting to her. I accidentally got off at the wrong stop and finally about two hours later met Kerri for the first time as she drove up to get me in her car.

Upon meeting Kerri I noticed she wasn’t smiling much but she seemed sincere about wanting to help me so when I entered her home I felt comfortable and confident but she was definitely lacking humor and her stern demeanor made me feel worried.  In fact I had every right to worry because as she shuffled her cards sternly I never felt like a human being I felt judged by her and belittled.  Not once during our session did she even seek anything positive to share with me it was just gloom, doom and tomb!  My God she never even cracked a smile and then when I needed to vent and genuinely express my concern and worries Kerri went on a long rant about her journey as an ex Playboy bunny who is now a single mother and how she just recently got ghosted by her boyfriend.  I spent a good twenty minutes listening to how she continues to prevail amidst all her challenges as a single mother! Then she had the nerve to suggest that I remove all the gallery images on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so that I could attract better clients because she personally felt I wasn’t conveying an image of spirituality!  If you go online and do your own research you will find not hundreds but thousands of erotic photographs of miss Kerri Kendall touching other women, exposing her vulva, making suggestive sexually explicit poses and then you accidentally find her new age website with her psychic readings available and her model mayhem account.  Does that make her less credible?  What made her less credible to me was how horrible I felt about myself as a healer after she spent two full hours belittling me and assuming I had absolutely no knowledge of healing or the chakra bodies after I had told her many times prior on Facebook that I had learned about alternative healing, chakra balancing, reiki, pranic healing, tantra yoga, and hot stone therapy since my early twenties.

Kerri pointed to her rudimentary chakra chart and I simply had to interrupt her and ask her why she didn’t realize that I would already have a real understanding of chakras based on the fact that I practice tantra yoga with my clients.

She apologized and finally lead me to her table where I instantly drifted off and practically fell asleep.  It wasn’t the healing or the reading I was hoping for so at the conclusion of our time together she suggested I purchase an abundance candle for $15 and she then drove me back to the blue line without even using a sage stick on my aura or sealing off my energies!

I finally got back to my space feeling so emotionally raped and unlovable that I went online, did sincere research and actually did find a legitimate psychic reader by the name of Aria who felt my sadness instantly and gave me a real healing!  Aria empowered me and helped me understand the Dynamics of energy vampirism and the techniques energy vampires use to steal their victim’s energy by making their victim feel an emotion strongly.  A vampire doesn’t need happy or positive energy rather the energy can be morose, fearful or purely anger based.  After I got off the phone with Aria Norman I felt instant relief and Aria insisted on letting me know I was so intuitive I didn’t have to hire psychics ever again and she refused to charge me for her advice just so I could heal.

My advice to anyone is to be super selective about choosing your clairvoyant reader.  A good reader will want to give you positive solutions and any true psychic doesn’t need to rely on tarot cards as a crutch or tool!  A legitimate psychic reader is never judgmental of your path! If they can’t comprehend what true gifts you already possess yourself then you can assume they are purposefully placing you in a weakened emotional state so that you become doubtful and dependent upon their future assistance with endless readings that will ultimately leave you spiritually bankrupt.

If you yourself are in need of reiki, healing touch, guided visualization and traditional tantra massage please go directly to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com now and spend time reading my articles, my testimonials and my chakras section.  I’m a highly intuitive tantra guide with over twenty years of experience in alternative healing practices and the paranormal.  Once you feel you are ready for your own special journey simply call me directly at 312-339-7707 and feel free to fill out my contact form being completely honest about your short term goals and expectations.  Tantra is a heart  💓 conscious journey and I am sincere in my intentions to help you feel limitlessness, weightless and transcendental.received_10102650271916000.gif

 

 

 

 

Chicago Tantra massage by Goddess Diana of Tantra butterfly 💓

mr valentino in my scarfIMG_20180202_145017IMG_20180202_144958.jpgwelcome to my world http://www.tantrabutterfly.com where you are allowed to be yourself.  You will be listened to, your body will be held sacred and we can both be real together.  If I have advice to give you based on my intuition during our session I promise I’ll be fair to you because I make plenty of happy mistakes which lead me here to you right now.

You’ve created your reality and your story whether you found me by someone who encouraged you to try reiki, energy work or tantra massage.  Maybe you suffer from depression, post traumatic stress disorder or you’ve numbed your needs out because your last relationship was disastrous or unfulfilling.

This is the part where I tell you I’ve likewise made poor judgements that kept me in toxic, unfair, unbalanced relationships because I didn’t realize how powerful I am just by myself and that I contain within me the capacity to heal my own wounds.  In tantra a sense of fairness and healthy boundaries are explored as part of your healing process.

I’m here to help you breathe self love back into your being and help you recapture your sense of innocent play.  Tantra massage encompasses more than sports massage and reiki; tantra works with your desire and creativity using three dimensional breathing and visualization.  As as I lay my hands in stillness I’m consciously awakening your vitality, your DNA, your life force and your inner child.

Do you wake up not remembering your dreams?  Do you wake up in pain stressed out even before your day has begun?  Have you silenced who you are because someone or done life event silenced you into submission?  Tantra yoga is a lavish ceremony that celebrates life and if you have the time to spend on yourself I will engage you in activities for self healing that are highly playful, stimulating and decadent.

You can join me for a half or full day of alternative tantra delights here in Chicago or we can plan a full weekend of touch positive, sensually healing and life changing retreats in your city if you wish to sponsor me.

So many tantra body workers neglect to tell you how powerful you truly are and that just one focused session of tantra yoga can permanently change you, making you more intuitive and determined to alter your current path.  The primary reason for you to engage in a tantra ceremony is because you are ready to seek change and you’re tired of feeling shut down energetically or half awake.

I see so many sex workers here using fake aliases, rebranding themselves, hiding behind a fake persona and I’m amazed at the fact that they can’t be real and can’t admit to their clients that they themselves are in need of healing and compassion!

When you choose me as your guide you are choosing a fellow being who understands abuse and gas lighting because I myself am a survivor of emotional and physical abuse as a child and I have every desire to continue growing my skills as not just a healer but as an evolving human imperfect in so many ways but willing to conquer my own fears.

I welcome gender fluid couples, male and female singles,  newly married couples and just about everyone out there recuperating from illness or tolerating chronic pain or self doubt.

Let me help build your confidence back and while doing so we’ll both create new challenges in ourselves because as you grow and heal I’ll be fine tuning my skills and transfer my positive energy back into you like a sacred circle of woven cloth.  You deserve to feel passion, inner strength, laughter and hopefully rediscover who you essentially are. You will learn to breathe not just for survival but breathe fully to expand your energy and your inner intuition.  Once you have tried at least three separate tantra sessions you won’t feel as if you have to rely on others for making important life decisions.  You also will understand that you yourself contain everything you need to manifest your own reality with or without a life partner.

I welcome your call after you’ve had time to explore my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com  💓

Become more psychic, become less afraid of claiming your right to be powerful and filled with creative fire 🔥 besides all these wonderful goals….you get to hear me sing!!!! No extra charge for sound healing ^_^

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.

 

If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… http://www.Tantrabutterfly.blogspot.com 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach

312-339-7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.

What does the title “goddess” trigger in you?

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.

First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.

I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.

Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very yin in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.

I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.

A Goddess 🌹 is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.

The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.

A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play which is the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self.  🎈

When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.

Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!

Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

 

 

A full day of tantra with goddess Diana 💓 in Chicago 🐦

So hypothetically, you randomly found me while doing a Google search using two key words–tantra and massage respectively.  You may have searched under alternative healing, chakra balancing, sounds healing and reiki.  Tantra includes all of these aspects and if you want to really delve into the realm of tantra yoga and tantra massage here in Chicago, I’d strongly advise you to plunge in and indulge yourself in a five hour or full day and night of sensory overload 🌒!

I’m professionally trained to help you reconnect to your power centers which includes a full body awakening 🐯 called kundalini Shakti 🐍.  You will be engaged in sound healing, fresh fruit, trigger point massage and a chakra bath that I will prepare for you so you feel embraced and safe.

Our tantra journey will begin with an intimate conversation so I can understand all your goals fully 🎈.  We will be holding hands, touching our heart centers, chanting and laughing.  Laughter is the most healing and empowering medicine and you will feel your pelvic muscles loosen up as I use my intuition to help you create more flow and energy in your power centers we call chakras.

Tantra is about mutual touch, mutual trust, mutual connection and breaking through all the stumbling blocks currently preventing you from acquiring abundance and creativity.  We work together creating a space of healing and gentleness.

Five hours of tantra is as effective as five separate tantra sessions and it will help speed up your awakening through pranayama, third eye activation and an open heart center which helps you heal past the cellular level helping you find the courage to make dramatic changes in your physical and emotional bodies.

Please take some time to read my main website http://www.tantabutterfly.com because i want you to read about my journey as a healer, reiki master, and tantra educator.  Read the testimonials and see if you feel a connection to the words I’ve written over the years.

Each tantra session in Chicago and other cities is unique and we focus on issues you wish to heal or maybe you are innately curious and you wish to let down your guard and help co create sacred space with me.

I welcome your questions so you may email me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or simply call me at 312-339-7707.

Tantra will change your body, electrify your spirit and help you regain your sense of connectedness.

Goddess 🌹 Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

❤♡Couples Massage and Couples Tantra in Schaumburg, Illinois

Have you been tempted to try tantra but just never could fit the time in your busy day to come to downtown Chicago or the West Loop? This week I am visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and offering my Tantra Massage therapies to all residents and visitors of this suburb.

If you are a couple seeking beginners couple therapy feel free to visit my main website for detailed information at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly with additional questions at 312-339-7707.

I welcome couples, and offer private one on one healing therapies to all of the Chicago land area and nearby suburbs. During couples tantra you will learn how to touch your partner with healing and loving intentions followed by a few masterful techniques to help you connect better and delay and hold off on orgasm.

You will be confident, relaxed and enlightened after just one session. My recommendation for all beginners of couples tantra here in Schaumburg is to allot enough time at least 3 to four hours to understand the very basics of tantra breath, reiki, and tantra postures so you can practice on each other after our session is over.

You are going to be actively involved and will have a chance to become receiver and giver. You will learn the art of the Conscious Cuddle and learn how to communicate better with your lover and establish healthy boundaries.

All couples Tantra Massage in Schaumburg, Illinois are to be held in your private home, condo, apartment or hotel only. I feel that couples should have that yummy energy stay with them and you will feel more safe and relaxed in your own home environment.

Private sessions for single men or women are conducted in your space or mine and again longer sessions for beginners tantra are always encouraged for beginners of Tantra yoga in Schaumburg.

I can’t wait to meet you
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Beat the Winter Hibernation syndrome in Chicago with your Tantra Muse!

the-shining-jack-nicholson-stanley-kubrickWell I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.

So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.

So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.

My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.

I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!

Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.

Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.

You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.

During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.

Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.

I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.

Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.

Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.

If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.

Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!

Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
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Tantra Massage therapist
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Current Advertisers I Suggest you Boycott the Eros Guide indefinitely till Changes are made to benefit you.

diana-soft-focus-nudes-tantra-butterflyAs the title of this blog states I am strongly urging all current advertisers to formally BAN the site known as http://www.erosguide.com indefinitely until changes are made to benefit YOU the consumer.

You are the consumer. You pay a ton of your money to receive inferior services. I know this because I do remember when the eros guide was actually a great place to find wonderful clients. I remember when my phone “used to” ring off the hook because the earlier version of the eros guide was basic and much more pleasing to the eye. Now as you notice the site now known as http://www.erosguide.com has been taken over by a new group of people and the original owner who was a former prostitute/sex worker no longer owns this business.

You the consumer hold all the cards not the other way around. If everyone would simply not use the eros guide for several months I can assure you many positive things would happen. I found out the hard way that long years of loyalty meant nothing to them. They certainly no longer needed my business because I was just pennies to them and not a real human being with genuine feelings. Eros guide did not care about my well being and they do not care about you. All it takes is for you to use one word that they deem “illegal” and you are banished promptly from their site and all evidence of your ad will be destroyed forever. They won’t let you argue your way back or listen to you. You will be another banned useless commodity because the truth is Eros guide is also a privately owned Brothel.

About a year ago after I was banned I noticed a change in the way I was being treated. My opinions were ignored and instead of positive changes made I did notice the eros guide was actively seeking “models’ or paid sex workers and they wanted these new women to send them Id’s and photographs. All women who were attractive and between the ages of 18 to 36 were encouraged by the eros guide to send in their information online and if they were selected they could earn 2,000 and up to 5,000 per week as “models’ or escorts in New York city. I saw this ad because I researched top escort sites on google in New York city. I found that ad quite by accident and the ad stated that these women could have a two week trial period just to see how it worked out. I believe in all fairness that eros guide is now serving as a huge “brothel” and has every desire to promote their privately hired entertainment prospects and get rid of people like me and other well known major providers in the industry that serve as a threat to their personal adult entertainers or shall we say it—prostitutes and GFE’s.

There is nothing wrong with being a GFE or a prostitute but it is highly unethical to promote a handful of women and play favorites allowing these women to say what they wish to say in their ad copy then get rid of innocent women like me whose accounts are being closely monitored and restricted then BANNED permanently.

I also remember a time when I called the eros guide because I noticed changes to my text were made and I could hear a manager in the background scream out “oh it’s that BITCH again…”

So here we go again. If you want to advertise at the erosguide I can’t stop you but just know there are women that receive special favors from the staff so that their ads are outstandingly attractive and there are other people like you and me who will eventually be BANNED for using a phrase they deem incorrect. In the meantime if you still advertise with the eros guide you are feeding their fat wallets and potentially exposing yourself to being victimized by undercover stings because police troll the eros guide much much more than backpages.com to receive their easy prey. If you advertise on http://www.erosguide.com the way it is now and they way it is currently corrupt you are playing Russian Roulette.

Here is more information including a conversation via email I conducted with the eros guide last week when I was invited to enjoy a premier service because of my “loyalty”. Obviously the eros guide made a huge mistake and forgot that they banned me. When I applied to get back on I was told to send money first then told I was Banned. If you are into “bait and switch” then by all means continue to use the eros guide.
Dear potential consumer of the new http://www.erosguide.com I wish to share the following information with you since I do have experience in the adult industry and I have been a well known advertiser with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 15 years since the very beginning of its inception.

I am suggesting all current advertisers to STOP advertising with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 6 month period until certain changes are met. You may be a new advertiser and you may have witnessed that some of your friends are currently being BANNED WITHOUT DUE CAUSE OR ANY PRIOR WARNING.

This new site http://www.erosguide.com is not the same ENTITY I enjoyed working with when it was just starting to become a huge “hit” on the internet. I used to religiously use the Chicago Reader when I first worked in this Adult industry and to be honest the true chaos began when I decided to enroll in a FREE advertisement as a trial basis for the new eros guide that was soliciting me and others in my industry for business.

In the very beginning we were treated with genuine kindness and respect. We had a great template that allowed us to upload a series of pictures of us fully nude without childish restrictions. We could write as much text as we wished and there were no “bad” no no words that would get us BANNED or BANISHED indefinitely and or without prior warning.

Everything was peaceful (at first) but then Erosguide.com decided to ad features, reduce the body of our text and change our pictures into tiny square blocks you had to click onto. Visually the erosguide.com was no longer aesthetically pleasing to the eye and of course customer service always encouraged your feedback but nothing would be done to pacify the advertiser. Our pricing was promptly hiked up but I noticed fewer callers and some clients told me the erosguide.com was harder to navigate.

I had no idea what was going on but as the years rolled by I did notice all these cumulative changes and new restrictions on photos were hurting my potential to attract new customers to me. I had to choose words that no longer offended and my one sentence which included the word “I will help you find your inner child” was BANISHED AND DEEMED FILTHY BY upper management at the erosguide.com.

Now my intentions were good so I suggested we change the word to inner psyche and so these small changes in wording were made. I however noticed a huge HYPOCRISY going on in upper management because while my ads were being picked apart there were other advertisers allowed to infer many more graphic and lurid sexual details in the body of their lengthy ads.

I even mentioned to customer service that other women in my field were mentioning the words “edge Play” and other women were allowed to include prose and poetry from well known authors but when I wished to include a phrase from Alice in Wonderland and gave credit to the author I was chastised for it and the few sentences were removed without reason or warning.

I still see so many ads on the current erosguide.com that is allowed to intimate “suggestive” sexual connotations and yet my harmless phrases “yoni healing” and “multiple waves of bliss” were removed and even when they were removed permanently I was BANNED the very next day from “Tim” from the legal department.

I was even given permission to use the word “yoni” by Lisa who was assigned to me about two years ago. I told her I no longer wanted to use the term “Goddess Worship” because callers were confused and expected me to offer them BDSM rather than a tantra healing and education about the “yoni”. I wanted to attract men and women who were already very comfortable in their bodies and had some prior experience in yoga and or tantra massage. My intentions were good when I picked that word and if you google the word Yoni it has many varying meanings and is Sanskrit for womb or birthplace. It can also mean lotus flower or “female genitalia” but according to the new rules on eros last summer it no longer met their standards. I was given a very frantic phone call by Lisa who was a nightmare for me to deal with explaining that the word yoni is not allowed and figure out something else. She suggested Yoni healing and or Yoni education and or yoni training. I complied and allowed her to make a living mess of my once beautiful advertisement.

I allowed Lisa to butcher my ad and remove words that other providers were using on their website. I let her make me look foolish online and then without any warning Tim from the legal department called me the next day and told me according to the “tape recorded” and “monitored” conversation that I had with “lisa” or Lysette or what ever they call her I was BANNED . So in essence I did comply with their rules; I did remove the necessary text and I see plenty of women that are their “favorites” receiving as much attention online as I used to receive but they are not BANNED OR BANISHED.

if you are a new customer expect the following treatment from the “nazi crew”
a. You will not be listened to when they ask for your opinions on ad
layouts. Your conversations are being recorded and they are seeking to trap you into making mistakes so they can label you as a trouble maker and have you gleaned off their site.

B. they are using you as window dressing only. I found proof online that eros guide is involved is sex work trafficking online. I saw strong evidence from erosguide.com offering women works as “models” or sex workers and eros requesting women between the ages of 18 to 36 to apply for “modeling” gigs that will pay them 2,000 to 5,000 a week in New York city.

C. You are supporting unethical people with illegal business practices.

I have so much proof that the Erosguide.com uses you the advertisor to money launder their more shady activities. They have cam girls online on their site 24/7 which by the way is a huge distraction and it makes it impossible for clients to even find an entertainer with all the pop up ads interfering. I saw many ads online where women are advised to apply for work as models in new york and honestly part of the reason that eros guide is okay with banning so many women is because they probably have their own privately owned brothel and using the eros portal as a front and advertisers who don’t know this are being used as “window dressing”.

I truly do miss the old Erosguide.com and the simplicity of the site and the way the original owners treated you. There are new hands running this corrupt machine and providers are being banned for making mistakes in the bodies of their texts and nothing more.

I was even lured back two weeks ago. I was sent invitations to redeem coupons for Premier services so I thought maybe I was welcomed back. I jumped through hoops and sent the erosguide.com a money order but two days after my money was received my ad was not up. I asked what was wrong and said my old account had been banned so they would send my money back but I have not received my money back just yet.

No one from customer service would explain anything to me other than I am BANNED and when I explained Lisa had given me permission to use a word instead of Lisa being fired I was FIRED for being a victimized client.

The following information I am sharing with you is my communication with the people from the Eros guide. Please take all my information seriously. I have no reason to lie or make anything up and the information I shared with you is not slander since it is 110 percent true. There are very few legitimate places to advertise but I assure you if you are considering advertising with the eros guide you can and will be banned without any warning down the road. You are simply taking a gamble.

Eros Guide Customer Service
Fri, Dec 9, 2016 at 10:55 AM

Diana Grossman

Thu, Dec 15, 2016 at 2:44 PM
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Dear Brenda,
apparently I was BANNED permanently 17 months ago because a new
account manager with an alias of Lisa who is now known as Lisette gave
me permission to use the word Yoni healing . Three months after she
told me the word was deemed acceptable she called me to have me remove
the term. I complied and asked her why my account was being picked
apart since I was a loyal customer of 16 years. I was Banned. You
are now responsible for sending me back my money order which I sent to
you in the amount of 130. Failure to comply will lead to me writing
about how you treat your loyal customers on my blog which comes up
number one on google and the BBB and rip off report.

Yours
Diana

On 12/9/16, Eros Guide Customer Service wrote:
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Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing, Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach, & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact: 312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!

An introduction to Cuddle therapy as I head to Los Angeles, California to explore Tantra

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Hello Fellow Native Chicagoans! This may be my final week here as I am being called to travel to Los Angeles, California this winter season. As you all know if you are a long standing client of mine; winter is my very least favorite season and so I do return to Chicago each year as summer begins and I tend to leave during the very beginning of our winter.

I am offering a brand new ceremony that might appeal to you before I head West so please call me at (312)339-7707 for my new Cuddle Session priced at only $90 per hour. If you have been reading and following my blog http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com then you may have been compelled to try one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago. I will be heading to Los Angeles, California very soon to offer Tantra Massage, Kundalini Massage, Goddess worship ceremonies and Reiki healings to enjoy the warmer weather and participate in more Tantra workshops that are offered in California. It is my strong desire to immerse myself in new offerings in Los Angeles, California so that I can continue to grow as a spiritual being and hopefully share all of that good energy with all of you no matter what city I happen to travel to.

If you are a native of Los Angeles, California but you have never tried one of my Tantra Ceremonies please do peruse and enjoy the visual beauty of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because everyone is very unique in how they present Tantra. I am a formally trained hot stone therapist, Reiki Master, Pranic healer and Tantra Educator and no matter how skilled you are I invite you to schedule your first Tantra Massage Session with me once I arrive in Los Angeles. This will be the first winter season I spend in California and I wish to meet any couple or private student of Tantra, man or woman who needs a bit of healing and Sacred Sensual touch.

My intentions for being in Los Angeles this winter are pretty simple; I wish to escape Chicago’s brutal winter and I truly want to manifest some wonderful new opportunities which includes networking with others in my field and potentially growing and expanding as a healer so I can share more with all of you. I am sure Tantra Massage and Goddess Worship is heavily practiced in California and I will be one of many but remember we each present Tantra so differently from each other and all Goddesses can gift with something special that you never felt before.

Here are the details of my newest Ceremonial Offering that will soon be shared on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Cuddling Ceremonies in Los Angeles, California by Sensual Muse Diana of Tantra Butterfly

I have noticed a new craze going around all over the United States; but honestly this is nothing new to me because I have included the Sacred Spoon or Sacred Cuddle during all my Beginners Tantra sessions and I personally love to cuddle everyone who comes to see me (even if they did not request it).

The reason why cuddling is so essential is the fact that it enhances your Creativity and I work with so many Creative people which includes film directors, writers, educators, musicians and independent business owners who all have one thing in common—they love touch! Touch and cuddling stimulates your mind and helps increase your levels of oxytocin which prevents heart disease, ulcers and chronic illness. Cuddling helps clear the cobwebs from your mind and each time I meet a new guest I love to simply spoon and breathe quietly together during at least a quarter of the time we spend together during any of my Tantra Ceremonies to help instill trust and complete surrender.

I have spent three years traveling everywhere in the United States and I always seem to come back home here in Chicago to the Midwest because I grew up here all my life and miss many of my clients from 20 years ago. Now I am going to be heading to Los Angeles, California to meet new people and hopefully to attend workshops in my field and maybe a few cuddle parties which are very popular now in California and all over the United States.

It is becoming the new “hot trend” to become a licensed cuddler and so now I wish to provide this essential healing service to men and women who need to be held sacred and who are touch starved. Maybe you are getting over the illness of a loved one and you are their primary care taker so now you feel depleted yourself. Cuddling will fill your cup and help you feel connected to your body so that you are being given something back. I can help you if you suffer from Chronic fatigue syndrome or depression simply by spooning you for an hour or more and using my reiki hands to cleanse your chakras and help you release negative emotions that are holding you back from being abundant and positive about life.

The long term effects of a good cuddle are numerous but here are just a few benefits you will receive from the Conscious cuddle:

Cuddling releases oxytocin a chemical that is produced in your brain that keeps you feeling satiated!
Cuddling boosts your immune system preventing you from acquiring colds or chronic illness.
Cuddling relieves pain and gives you a brighter outlook so you can tackle stress with gracefulness.
Cuddling helps deepen your relationships whether they are romantic interludes or pure platonic friendships.
Cuddling can lead to more bonding and intimacy between you and your partner.
Cuddling helps women bond in a group setting and trust their partner more.
Cuddling reduces social anxiety and makes you feel confident about yourself giving you a good dose of self esteem.

Now that you know of all the benefits of my Sacred Embrace I welcome you to spoon with me for a full hour of cuddling! I am a naturally cuddly person and I am very confident about my body so I welcome all body types because there is no need for you to feel self conscious or fearful especially around someone as natural and bohemian as me! I have been surrounded by people since my early twenties and I truly enjoy hugging everyone I meet so you will feel my genuine ease and hopefully this will help you to reach out to more people for a huge hug or cuddle when ever you need one. You might even decide to throw a cuddle party yourself after working with me for a few sessions.

During our time together we can engage in some quiet breathing exercises or you can open up to me about something that is pestering you and preventing you from going to the next step. I am highly intuitive and sometimes I am able to draw out something inside of you that needs to come out. I am also a Reiki Master and during our Sacred Cuddle you will feel a sense of true relief and hopefully you will be more aligned at the end of our shared cuddle.

My fees per each hour are $90 and during our cuddle you can also ask for additional Reiki if you are suffering from heartbreak or physical pain such as a backache, sprain or headache because Reiki is a very subtle, warm form of energetic healing that helps your body heal by itself on its own time frame.

During our Cuddle session in Los Angeles, California we will both wear either pajamas or comfortable clothing such as yoga outfits. If you feel most comfortable in a fluffy costume or footie pajamas then bring those items with you because we will be “cuddling” and “snuggling” but we will be wearing clothing and we will not be “molesting” one another. During my cuddling session the main goal is to make you feel safe and held sacred and there are boundaries so this will not be a hot, steamy, sexual interlude; this is more about getting you to feel loved in a very warm, platonic healing way that is akin to complete unconditional love. I need for you to feel completely safe and I will not be inviting you to “grope” my body nor will I be “groping” your body in a sexually charged way. I have Tantra Massage Ceremonies that are listed on my site that are more geared towards mutual touch and Goddess Worship but my Sacred Cuddle Ceremony in Los Angeles, California and Chicago are purely Sacred HUGS and spooning.

Let me Create more Sacred Touch in your life and get your body flowing with positive CHI! Contact me directly on my mobile phone for questions regarding my Cuddle Ceremonies in Chicago and California (312) 339-7707

Chicagoans Please see me one last time before I head to California. I will truly miss all of you and I thank all of you with trusting me with your sacred energy. If you are going to be visiting Los Angeles, California for the winter season I would love to reconnect with you once I am there!

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707