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What exactly happens during a Couples Tantra ceremony

What actually happens at couple tantra sessions? Will having a 3rd person in personal space eventually lead us to a threesome?

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Diana Grossman

Tantra Master, Massage therapist, Reiki Master

Hello 👋 I find myself to be extremely ✨ helpful here because I’m a leading tantra educator and tantra practitioner in Chicago, Illinois.

I just received a call from a very deluded man who assumed if he hired me for couples tantra all three of us would be engaged in a sexual threescore.

I myself am celibate and never engage in sexual intercourse with my students.

During my couples tantra massage I teach both partners how to breathe properly during the art of giving their lover a tantra massage and help them access kundalini energy.

I focus on reiki, nurturing touch, Lingham..honoring, yoni worship and balancing of the Chakras. I do not want to witness these couples engage in the sexual act of kama sutra nor do I offer it to my clients.

Tantra is about aligning all your chakras with your partners, eye gazing, unconditional love and boundaries. Tantra is not about wild sex or engaging in orgies. Tantra involves the co creation of sacred space ✨ and honoring the divine within yourself and your partner.

I ask you to refrain from contacting me if your intentions as a couple are impure in nature. I’m not interested in watching the two of you engage in sexual intercourse in front of me. I’m also not interested in getting involved in a threesome.

I’m a tantra massage therapist and teacher. I’m not a kama sutra coach.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website if you’d love a list of options and by all means please send me an email if seeking an opportunity to learn couples tantra massage

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Celebrity restaurants: Evelyn Nesbit’s tea room

Restaurant-ing through history

Hundreds, maybe thousands, of celebrities have gone into the restaurant business when their careers waned. Their level of direct involvement may be high or low but all these ventures bank on the idea that a famous name will attract customers.

When Evelyn Nesbit opened her NYC tea room in May of 1921 she made sure that her name was prominently displayed. Located on West 52nd street just off Broadway, the sign saying “Evelyn Nesbit’s Specialty Shop” was visible from the theater district’s Great White Way.

She was then in her mid-30s, years away from her peak as a teenage artist’s model [above, age 16], “Gibson Girl,” Floradora showgirl, and millionaire’s wife. Her fame derived not only from her former good looks – from the years her image was displayed everywhere – but also from her involvement in a romantic triangle with prominent architect Stanford White and her insanely jealous husband…

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Rituals and Sacred Space define Tantra

Have a lovely #chanukah & #Merryyule no matter what you practice & where you are on your path I consider myself to be Spiritual but not Religious.

I practiced #Judaism in my family home but once my Hebrew studies were formally over & I left my parent’s home I consider myself to be a Mystic and not a strict  follower of any religion or religious figures.

I love Ritual and I love playing with energy, balancing #chakras & connecting people with their higher power.  We all have the capability of opening our 3rd 👁 and our unlocking our #kundalini

email me tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com if interested in learning more

#chicagotantra #yogini #reikimaster #soundhealing

You don’t have to be religious to engage in the co creation of sacred space. You don’t have to be an expert with the breath or practice yoga daily to get something out of our time together.

I welcome anyone who sincerely wishes to try alternative healing with a sensual twist. My sessions will enhance your intuition and empower your latent energies. You can be Catholic, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim ☪️ or an Agnostic to reap the benefits of reiki combined with chakra balancing and full body kundalini activation.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I have mini half day workshops for couples and singles and you can begin a basic tantra ceremony with a commitment of 90 minutes on up to a full day.

Happy holidays and I hope to see you as soon as this weekend. I will be available on Christmas Eve 🎄 Christmas 🎄 Day and New years Eve. Hope to see you

It’s the slow 🐌 season for sex workers

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and it’s just come to mind that I point out the obvious to my clients who live here in Chicago that the winter months are the slowest time of year for people who live here full time.

Chicago tends to have much more tourism and conventions during our most desirable seasons such as Spring and summer and if you pay close attention hotel rates are extremely high during our warmer months because EVERYONE wants to be a part of our outside music, art and restaurant events.

If you want to take advantage of cheaper hotel rates though I’d advise all tourists and Businesses to visit Chicago during our dead 💀 season…our coldest months like December, January and February. Book 📖 a session with your favorite Tantra Goddess; whether it’s me or another person you prefer. I guarantee your tantra practitioner will be grateful 🙏 for the opportunity to work since our phones go quiet at this time of year and our work opportunities go fallow.

Perhaps you live too far away to make a visit happen or you yourself are feeling the economic crunch. You can still send gift cards to your favorite Goddess or write ✍ positive reviews of their services online as a means of showing your support.

We all need your support; especially if we run our own tiny tantra practice. We rely on word of mouth so if you know of a close friend or family member that might need healing touch let them know we exist. Send your friends links to our websites first though just to give them extra information beforehand so they can make an educated choice for themselves. Tantra massage isn’t everyone’s cup of tea so give them detailed information before you give them the phone number of your favorite tantra Goddess here in Chicago.

Here’s my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Happy Holidays and if you found yourself losing your sense of humor or inner joy be sure to take care of yourself. Tantra is a soothing way to explore your energy ✨ while activating your heart center ♥

Tantra helps you clear trauma, heal your heart, activate your intuition and express your boundaries.

Never forget to honor yourself as you take care of people around you. Book sessions on a regular basis with someone you trust instead of just once in a blue moon. And don’t forget to keep your tantra Goddesses busy and appreciated during Chicago’s slow season.

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

#chicagotantra #yogini #couplestantra #reikimaster #tantraretreats

Misconceptions about Tantra and Delightful side effects of the healing process of tantra massage ceremonies

Well I haven’t been inspired to post for a while because I ran out of ideas; but last Thursday I met a very lovely Indian Ceo who provided me with an exciting outlook on his experiences during our two hour tantra ceremony.

I’m a believer in the healing powers of sacred touch and I make the time to receive at least one type of bodywork per week just for myself and to heal my mind and decompress.

I have not been busy unfortunately since last Thursday because everyone calling me was either extremely rude, very shy or misunderstanding the purpose of tantra massage. I tend to turn people away who are not in alignment with alternative healing and tantra yoga. I’d rather work with new guests who would appreciate my offerings and enjoy subtle energy and bodywork.

Last Thursday was different though because I noticed my new client knew exactly what he wanted– an opportunity to let go and receive vital energy.

During our time together he told me he saw a black tree in his mind’s eye 👁 and that beautiful colors of white, green, and purples were surrounding the 🌳 tree’s branches and flowers 💐 gathered everywhere. I let him go into great detail of everything he saw and felt. He shared that most of the energy was pulsating around his heart and torso during his kundalini Awakening.

He had no idea why all these colors were everywhere so I explained that when our chakras are aligned and activated you can actually see the colors affiliated with each major chakra body. Seeing the color green means your heart ❤ chakra is open; seeing white and purple 💜 lights signifies your crown chakra and Ajna have been activated. Our crown chakra is our connection to our higher selves and pranic..energies such as Chi. When our crown chakra is activated we can see beautiful white and purple lights and have a stronger more vital connection to Source or God energies.

You see you simply can’t learn about tantra yoga by reading a book or scanning information on YouTube or online on Google. Tantra is a legitimate and viable form of yoga that heals parts of your Soul, aligns your energy bodies (chakras), speeds up your metabolism, detoxifies, and opens up your intuition (ajna).

My new client got up to use my restroom frequently during our time together too because all forms of massage and energywork encourages waste product to move out of your body. He said he felt lighter like he had lost weight which obviously is a positive side effect of tantra yoga and massage therapy.

Tantra isn’t just about receiving a sensual massage. Tantra isn’t a fluffy experience where I merely focus on your pleasure. My tantra sessions are a unique journey of the chakras where I implement sound healing, breathwork coaching and deep tissue massage on your tight muscles. You will definitely feel lighter, more grounded and centered. You will feel tingly and the world 🌎 around you will be more rich and colorful.

If you are seeking compassionate and nurturing touch please visit my main website first–>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website and then simply call me directly 312 339 7707 or email 📧 me for a faster response here

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

You don’t have to write me a novel in your email but do include your goals, your full legal name, your profession, social media about yourself online and how many hours you’re seeking. I’d love to work with you if you are trying to achieve full body kundalini Shakti. If you are extremely sensitive to energy you will appreciate my offerings.

Hope to see you soon in Chicago’s Gold Coast ✨

Goddess Diana

certified tantra educator

certified reiki master

certified massage therapist

Available for paid coffee ☕ consultations and phone consultations

Couples tantra is available and tiny workshops in groups of three couples are welcomed if interested 🌟

Testimonials make me feel fulfilled 🐉

There’s nothing more satisfactory than meeting new tantra guests who are open to giving me a chance and an opportunity to work with them and introducing them to authentic tantra.

There are many tantra goddesses here in Chicago now all with different skill sets, techniques and unique gifts

Every Goddess has preferences including a special rapport with clients who are extremely receptive and responsive to energy work.

If you accidentally found this blog online please 🙏 go directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com it’s taken me years to perfect my craft and my techniques are always evolving to suit the needs of my clients.

Running a blog and a website brings me such pleasure and the reason why I continue to create fresh material 🙌 for my readers is because I wish to attract the right guests who will appreciate my combination of tantra yoga, chakra balancing, trigger point massage, reiki, kundalini activation and aromatherapy.

New Testimonials also help me align myself to the best audience seeking a journey of the chakras. I always appreciate new Testimonials so if you’ve seen me in the past please consider sending me a couple of thoughtful 💕 paragraphs describing your experience and simply include how the energy made your body feel. I do reward guests with discounts towards a future session for well written reviews. Send one to my email 📧 account tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and your confidentiality will be assured if you prefer to use an Alias instead of your legal name.

Here’s an example of a review that was recently sent to me this Sunday afternoon–>

My experience with goddess Diana was such a blissful experience! I was quite nervous in the beginning, even during booking the appointment. However, the anxiety lifted the minute we spoke on the phone. I felt like I had known her for years, and I’m very introverted so this was a big deal for me. She was extremely helpful in suggesting what sessions would be best for what I was looking for and made me feel more comfortable asking questions.

My actual session was just incredible! Although I did bring a bit of those nerves with me upon initially meeting her, she quickly dissolved them with a relaxing series of breathing and connection exercises. I learned how to remove those walls that I tend to naturally put up with in meeting new people and learned to simply just be! I felt so relaxed and relieved by the time our session ended, that I am already looking to book another session with my new Goddess! 

As you can see my client’s legal name hasn’t been revealed nor his email address. I would be so grateful if any of my old or new clients would take some time out to write ✍ me a testimonial so I can help people understand the value of alternative healing, breathwork and kundalini activation.

Don’t forget to Breathe!

It’s so easy for us to forget to breathe; and yet our central nervous system relies on proper oxygenation to keep us vibrant and in our best most optimal physical & mental health.

As we breathe deeply we send life affirming messages to ourselves that we are here for a purpose, we are worthy and we are deserving of love.

We don’t always receive love from others but we can give it to ourselves through the act of deep breathing.

As you fill your diaphragm with a focused breath, you send a positive affirmation that you are sacred, worthy and loved.  Keep remembering to do this daily and nightly as a means of maintaining a healthy central nervous and relaxing your muscles.

Shallow breathing leads to panic attacks and a slower more sluggish metabolism.

Can’t remember to breathe? Book me for a #reiki treatment or schedule a 90 minute #chicagotantra ceremony and breathwork coaching, chakra balancing and energywork is included within your #kundalini activation.

More information is found on my main website
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
and feel free to subscribe to my blog
http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707
introduce yourself to me here:
butterflyshadows@aol.com
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

subscribe to my YouTube channel for free #soundhealing

Book me for a paid phone consultation or coffee consultation if you’re shy and or just have tons of questions and goals.

sound healing and deep breathing exercises by Tantra Butterfly 🦋 in Chicago’s River North

Chicago tantra to soothe you during Mercury Retrograde May 10, 2022 🧿

Chicago tantra massage ceremonies by Tantra Butterfly 🦋 

Chicago tantra massage ceremonies by Tantra Butterfly 🦋  with Tantra butterfly

Chicago tantra massage ceremonies by Tantra Butterfly 🦋

My unique tantra ceremonies are a landscape of  reiki, sound healing, breathing lessons, chanting, intuitive touch, aromatherapy, deep tissue trigger point massage and kundalini activation.


You will leave your tantra ceremony coming away with knowledge about your own body and how your chakras work. Your lips, fingers, toes  and skull will tingle with warmth and your heart ❤ will be more open and responsive.

Another wonderful benefit of tantra yoga is an increase in your self awareness and intuition.  Your crown chakra will be more receptive to Universal Chi giving you a feeling of reassurance and being less alone.  

As we breathe together and focus on increasing your sexual energy you will feel an expansion of your Auric field.  As your aura expands you will be more aligned with your purpose ✨ and more receptive to the opportunities around you to achieve your goals.

Your sexual energies will travel from the base of your spinal column all the way up your vertebrae to your stomach (solar plexus) and  heart chakra. As your kundalini is awakened you will feel a tingling sensation within your fingertips and toes all the way up to the top of your skull 💀 (your crown chakra).

If you are unsure about which ceremony would suit your needs or you’re confused about my offerings please feel free to schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me this month.  

All men, women and married couples are encouraged to schedule a multi hour journey of alternative healing, sound healing, therapeutic massage and authentic tantra yoga.

Call directly for additional information 312 339 7707

or introduce yourself via an introductory email 📧 to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com 


Http://www.tantrabutterfly.com 

Don’t be caught off guard during our upcoming Mercury Retrograde which starts tomorrow (March 10) and lasts till June! During Mercury Retrograde expect last minute travel snafus, arguments, breakups, miscommunications and internet issues to occur.

It’s so important you distance yourself from the “drama” by realizing you do not have control over all these challenges. You should focus on relaxation, being centered and engaging in peaceful communication. Whatever you do, don’t sign new leases or contracts during a Mercury in Retrograde. Be mindful with the words you use; whether it’s verbal or written communication.

Book me during this Mercury Retrograde for an adventure of alternative healing, chakra balancing and kundalini activation. Once your body is fully relaxed you will be fully able to conquer any challenges that get thrown your way. Just focus on self care ❤ and I promise you this Mercury Retrograde will be a breeze!

Chicago tantra in the Gold Coast by Tantra Butterfly 🦋

Support your local tantra Goddess in Chicago, Illinois

Maintaining a website is expensive and I’d love to receive monetary support in my efforts to add future photos 📷 and develop a more smartphone friendly site.

If you are a client of mine please consider writing ✍ me public 5 star 🌟 reviews on platforms such as Google, Alignable and LinkedIn. More people need to learn about the healing aspects of receiving energy work and authentic tantra massage here in Chicago, Illinois.

I’m a small independent female business owner and like all businesses I rely on positive reviews, word of mouth and the testimonials you write me.

Booking a session with me once a year is not enough to maintain the positive results you’re seeking especially if you’ve experienced a Kundalini Awakening and you are eager to continue onto a higher vibration.

If you aren’t quite sure you’re ready for tantra you are encouraged to book me for a paid phone or coffee consultation. You will be able to ask me questions and get to know me as a friend rather than a stranger online.

If you would like to sponsor the growth and expansion of my tantra practice and main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com please send me an email to tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or Butterflyshadows@aol.com and introduce yourself to me. Your donations and or loyalty keep me afloat during very challenging times.

I like to think of myself as a healer which is why I address myself as a “Goddess”. I started learning reiki at the age of 19 but I always had a strong connection to the paranormal ever since I was four years old. I’m extremely sensitive to energy which is the main and only reason I continue on the tantra path.

Sound healing, chanting, breathing, chakra balancing, reiki and intuitive touch ♥ is so essential to experience a balanced Kundalini activation. People don’t realize tantra is a form of yoga and these sessions are enhanced when your tantra practitioner has a natural affinity for energywork and alternative healing.

If you wish to offer a donation or book a session please tell me more about yourself and why you are drawn to the art of tantra. Please be detailed with all your goals and include more about who you are and where you’d like to be. If you prefer to remain anonymous I am open to receiving your donation but in order to book a future tantra retreat or ceremony with me I will need your full legal name and social media links.

Hope to meet you soon and always keep your heart open to receiving energy. Once you ignore and neglect your needs your heart ❤ tends to shut down. Once your heart shuts down it leads to a chain reaction subsequently leading to disease, emotional distress and challenges with your prosperity. I chant mantras and listen to hertz frequencies daily and nightly. I make sure to include weekly bodywork as part of my routine so I never run on empty. I can’t be of service to others if I’m run down and on edge. Nurturing touch is vital to maintaining good health. Never short change yourself especially if you’re a caretaker.

Chicago Tantra Massage by Goddess Diana ✨

Chicago Tantra is a Portal for opportunities & healing 🙏

My intention as your tantra muse is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. Tantra teaches you about stillness and connecting and listening to your body and its unique needs.

My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it!

Imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

I’m a master at teaching people how to open and awaken their untapped kundalini energies. I never make solid promises; but the majority of men and women who see me for an authentic tantra ceremony definitely feel intense heat and pulsing electricity running throughout their body after kundalini is released.

Other people might find it more challenging; but each person is unique and the physical body will always react to energy differently and only when it’s ready to receive kundalini.

I absolutely enjoy teaching new students of tantra how to properly breathe and receive nurturing touch. I’ve practiced reiki since the age of 19 and always use it to open my client’s chakra bodies so that sexual energies flow more easily.

Each chicago tantra ceremony of ninety minutes in length or longer will include layers of alternative healing, chakra balancing, sound healing, breathwork, trigger point massage, light sensual touch and kundalini massage.

Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of all my options. If you are shy or confused or simply wish to get to know me first before committing to a session then you may book a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me for $100 and use the fee as your deposit if you decide to see me within that same day or week towards your first Chicago tantra massage ceremony with me.

Men, women, gender fluid and all couples are encouraged to schedule tantra retreats or ceremonies with me for educational purposes, deep healing and nurturing touch.

chicago tantra ceremonies by Goddess Diana ✨

Please introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

My mobile number is (312) 339-7707

When you are ready to schedule a ceremony with me please include your full legal name, profession, social media presence and let me know your goals and budget. If I think I can help you it would be my pleasure to introduce you to healing touch.