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Couples Tantra in Chicago to help regenerate trust in your relationship and self awareness.

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Dear Audience, I hope everyone here had a peaceful Labor Day Holiday. I myself balanced play, work and some wonderful fun self love activities into my weekend.

I met a wonderful couple this weekend from Missouri and it was their first opportunity to receive couples Tantra so not only were they open to touch but they came here to Chicago without any misconceptions, bias, bad experiences or expectations.

I feel that when you are open to what the energy of Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage can do for you and your relationship you end up receiving so much more than what you could have possibly anticipated. Of course when you have misconceptions and you base your new experience on sex videos then yes you might be let down. Not everyone is going to receive multiple orgasms the first time they come to work with me with their partner. Some people feel a tingling in their limbs or a gentle heat vibration along their spinal column but do not actually have the ability to reach orgasm in front of their partner especially not if they are shy or self conscious when meeting with a sex educator.

I am so pleased when people are just open to sensing their own energies and finally being aware of the transference of energy from their own body to their partner’s body. We have a tendency to numb our body’s ability to sense touch and tantra yoga and massage helps your body open up so that your concerns are gone and all you are aware of is your own body. You might feel weightless or timeless during a couples tantra ceremony and my goal is to make both of you feel more vital, awakened but centered and calm.

The following is a testimonial I just received and I am happy to share it with all of you especially if you have never tried a couples tantra session before in the hopes that you will understand what Tantra Massage can do for you and your frame of mind.

Goddess Diana,
Thank you for your gift of touch this past weekend and thank you for accommodating my wife and I for our second year anniversary and making this a most unique Labor Day Holiday. My wife encouraged me to try tantra through out the years we dated but I really was not ready for the journey and honestly I had no real idea besides videos we had watched together what Tantra Massage or Tantra yoga practices involved. I don’t normally even receive massages and when you touched me and I could actually feel your presence I understood exactly what I’ve been missing all this time and now I do realize I have a lot of “catching up” to do.

I could feel your energy move through me and when you and I started working on my wife I felt a tingling sensation vibrating between my fingers and my wife’s skin as if we were electrically charged and feeding each other energy. I almost felt weightless and timeless if I can put all this into words for you. We scheduled you for a full three hours and to me it felt like we spent a good seventy five minutes together because our session moved through so quickly and without effort. I had no expectations and I just trusted you to guide me.

My wife and I were tingling for hours after our session and we both felt awake but peaceful at the same time. I can say I felt safe, loved, renewed and peacefully content after our couples session. Also I am so happy with your hotel suggestion because we had a gorgeous view of the city and loved the spa bath that we all shared together so now I even know of a great place to stay in the future the next time we visit Chicago.

I want you to know I am more open now to the possibility of exploring other aspects of Tantra and I do now wish to learn more about the energy centers involved especially when you helped activate my sexual energy. Our session as a couple this weekend meant a lot to us and I am now better prepared to want to explore other venues like tantra workshops because I feel a lot less self conscious about this entire journey. Your patience, your compassion and your ability to infuse laughter into our ceremony has left a strong impression on me. I guess I never valued touch till I saw the smile on my wife’s face this weekend and I never felt so open and ready to learn more! Thank you for being so generous with your time. I know I paid you for three hours but I noticed maybe it went on a bit longer even though the time went so fast. Next time we might see you for a whole day if we have the time and if you are still in Chicago.

Thank you again for taking the time to reach deep within me and helping me feel and sense energy I never felt before. I never realized how touch starved I was or how energetically charged a good massage could be till I experienced your touch! I realize now that touch, sexual chemistry, love, connection, and energy are all interwoven. I am even expressing myself much differently than I used to and I am thankful for people like you that actually do have passion for the work they do! I don’t ever want to let myself get so “shut down” again.

Jonathon and Krysten from Kansas, Missouri

As I leave you with this information and thoughts to ponder I invite you to peruse my website for additional offerings just in case you have that urge to free up your own energy or come visit me here in Chicago or sponsor me in your city for Couples Tantra Massage. Please visit my main site at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly here at 312-339-7707

I look forward to your call.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Couples Sensual Massage and Couples Tantra Coaching in Chicago by Goddess Diana

Well it’s been a while and it’s raining hard outside so I thought this would be the perfect time to blog online! This summer I have been fortunate enough to attract some wonderful new guests including two new couples who were completely new to tantra.

If you would still love to try tantra and you are still uncertain about what tantra is I suggest you just plunge in and enjoy the experience because the worst that can happen is you leave with new skills on tantra breath, and new techniques to share with your partner such as healing with sound and light, energetic touch.

My suggestion for new couples of Tantra is that we set up sacred space in your home or a separate spa boutique space so we can share a jacuzzi tub for three. During the bathing ceremony we focus on just opening up your energies and I teach both of you how to hold each other during yab yam. When you are facing each other in the bath all your Chakras are completely open and connected leaving you feeling much lighter energetically and physically.

After the bath your muscles are fully relaxed and the debris from your Chakras have left so you are freer and more trusting of touch. Your mind is peaceful and you can hear the sounds of your own heart beat.Seasons of the Goddess
Your mind is free to travel and you are ready to explore astral travel and your own powerful energies are released as we perform the four handed massage.

You are not going to just quietly watch as you and your partner receive Tantra Massage. You will be assisting me in every aspect of your lover’s healing process and unlimited pleasure. The best way to learn tantra massage and pick up new skills is to practice and actively be my massage assistant. While I focus on your partner’s sexual energy you yourself will be able to watch me but you will also hold sacred space and caress your partner’s hair, their face, their heart and their belly.

The four handed Tantra Massage is healing and profound keeping you in a suspended state of bliss. You will both have your turns to be giver and receiver and you will both be actively learning and allowed to ask me questions. I suggest you schedule me for one long ceremony of at least 3 to four hours for the first time you visit me and then shorter increments of time for follow up visits to keep your progress and understanding of Basic tantra moving forward.

Videos and books are wonderful tools to use in between my tantra ceremonies but books are not a substitute for profound energetic shifts you will make when you visit me for a Tantra Ceremony.

Couples I recommend you give me at least two days notice and I will give you suggestions on where we can create Sacred Space here in Chicago. I even welcome a coffee date before we have our first session and always keep your mind free of expectations because energy is unpredictable and these sessions will uncover aspects of you that you may have buried from your own ego.

Please read my main website in great detail here at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and take time out this week to ask me at least twenty minutes worth of questions by phone here (312) 339-7707
Please consult with your partner first before you contact me and if both wish to meet me for coffee before you are ready to embark I am open to your questions.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Massage therapist
Reiki Master
Sound Healing
Tantra Educator
Psychic Healer

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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Tantra to calm your mind and amp up your capacity for Eros!

It’s time for me to blog again! Every so often I am drawn to my online habit of writing because just like energy work I always find great pleasure in letting my fingers etch out my thoughts. Creative writing has always been something I loved so it doesn’t surprise me that I find myself here trying to spark up anyone’s interest in Tantra Yoga through the written medium!

First if you haven’t found my main tantra website I wish to include a link in here for you to peruse ~> http://www.tantrabutterfly.com. My site was first developed by a client of mine and he and I exchanged a few tantra sessions so that he could put together the bare skeletal system of my ongoing tantra process and

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project. Lately I am immersed in writing here because this word press site costs me nothing to upload fresh content for you and It helps me with SEO that I don’t have to pay for.

In case you don’t know me personally I have been a sensual healer since my early twenties and have never worked for anyone but myself no matter how busy I got or how sluggish I am with the occasional lapse of work. In the past two years I have taken my tantra show on the road and took my two beautiful pets with me sharing rides with strangers or chipping in with gas if someone requested gas fare to get to where we needed to go.

Now I find myself in Washington D.C. which of course borders Virginia and Maryland. I picked this area for the past month and a half so I could run into old guests from my past and hopefully catch people in transition or en route to their ultimate destinations while they are headed to work or vacation.

Whether or not you are familiar with tantra or new to tantra in Washington D.C. there are some simple things to know about how this type of massage can potentially change you.

First of all this is a form of energy work so if you have any unfinished business buried in your psyche or sub conscious mind they will come to be awakened during or shortly after our session is over. I can’t always promise it will be a pleasant memory but it will be healing for you as we learn to help you peal away debris and old layers of your persona.

Nothing would delight me more than to have you deliriously laugh and or giggle during and after our time together because that sometimes happens as a result of triggering kundalini shakti. I can assure you you will leave completely altered and changed. You might taste food with acumen to the point where bitter is too strong for you or salt too salty for your taste buds to endure.

You might see colors more intensely and your sense of audio might be crisper and well honed. All these sensory awakenings are part of your body’s unique way of adapting to the new you. You should not feel afraid if your mouth vibrates with pleasure or your finger pads and toes are tingling. All of these symptoms are clear proof that your energy has been fully activated during our shared Tantra Ceremony.

Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage promotes full body healing and wellness. We will be breathing deeply and soundly during our time together and so much of your own natural oxygen will be used throughout your entire body building stamina and strength in your erogenous zones and all your energy circles or chakras.

When I work on people I feel fed because I am being of use. I am quieting and unwinding your mind and body helping you feel safe and grounded. My tantra techniques are enhanced and amplified by my own natural ability to spend more time on areas of your body that I feel are problematic or blocked. For instance, if you recently suffered from a trauma or injury I may intuitively spend more of my time on that part of your body helping you breathe pleasure into those areas that were bringing you discomfort.

Sensual energy is intensely powerful and any journey we take together will be special with it’s own outcome whether it be rage, joy, increased abilities to understand yourself or a more tender heart that is awakened within you.

Many people leave my space feeling more elevated, hopeful and Compassionate and that is honestly what my goals are for you; but some people who have deep seated trauma or self loathing or guilt might feel enraged or unsure of themselves either because of their upbringing or due to what they believe is right or wrong morally.

I feel tantra is medicine for your soul and the biggest muscle I hope to awaken in you is your ability to love and we do this together, face to face as I endeavor to open up your heart chakra wider and wider till you feel an overflow of self love and more compassion for others.

Join me in yab yam or mutual cuddling if that interests you more. Ask me questions as we go along because I want you to understand every hand placement and every shared gaze. I don’t want you to leave feeling confused or “cheated” because you were too afraid to ask for something special that peaked your curiosity. When we meet together for the first time we will have a chance to laugh, chat briefly and if you are a beginner I want to know one or two goals that we can fit into our tantra session. The only people that leave here unenlightened are those individuals that had expectations of me or themselves that were not explored or met. Just remember you are a beginner and I am not completely telepathic. I might start out much slower than you wish during our first tantra session together especially if you have never mastered the breath or had any introduction to energy work before.

Please be patient with me and be loving and patient with yourself. You can’t become an expert at the tantra breath just by partaking and dabbling with one session or two spread far apart. You on your own have to have the desire to learn by practicing a little each day and by attending workshops and private classes that interest you. You can take one class a week in white tantra which is Kundalini tantra and helps you activate your hormones by chanting, holding poses and breathing slowly. If you take one white tantra class a week you are slowly adapting your body to the value of the breath work that needs to be done in order for you to transfer energy and charge up your energy centers during sensual awakenings.

You are encouraged to buy some books on the male and female orgasmic centers so you can practice at home by yourself or with your partner. You will learn how to breathe, charge up your own chakras and contract your kegels more readily by reading these books which include diagrams of the female and male sexual centers. Don’t just dabble in one session or two or jump from one tantra expert to the next. You are cheating yourself and you won’t be able to master the baby steps if you constantly starting and stopping with new people. New teachers can always enhance your awareness and peak your curiosity but if you can’t gain trust with one or two or three trusted masters of tantra you won’t have a sense of gaining more knowledge you will just be avoiding your own self. Self awareness and patience is developed through this practice so learn to take the baby steps first and eventually the breath will be so natural for you, you won’t even be thinking of consciously breathing into your chakras you will just be fully present in the moment and pulsing with energy!

I hope to meet you soon whether you have years of experience under your tantra belt or you have never even enjoyed a massage in all your adult years. I have worked with sex workers, virgins, patients recuperating from cancer, military men, corporate business women, housewives, and the very young adult male to older men in their mid seventies. I am dedicated to making you feel more alive, accepted and loved.

Fondly,
Your Sensual Muse Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Best contact number (312) 339-7707

Astral travelling while receiving Sacred Spot Massage during Kundalini Shakti

Maya Derren The relector (meshes)I promised I would write a brief essay on a couple of experiences I had with clients who did actually go into a lucid/dream trance and were able to coherently share bits and pieces after our session so we could both enjoy the story of their “whereabouts” in the astral plane!

The first incident and the most profound took place during a trip I made to visit San Diego, California a few days after my mother died of cancer. At the time I was living in New Orleans and visiting my mother once a month in Chicago while keeping my client base in Chicago. I decided to visit San Diego and walk along the ocean and I attracted one individual who said he’d always wanted a session with me and was following my website for a long time but we were never in the same city during his business travels.

He admitted to me that he practiced yoga and meditation for a long time now and he enjoyed vision quests, transcendental meditation and tantra yoga was now part of his path so he told me he was very comfortable with me exploring his sacred spot and to feel free at the end to do this since he had no boundaries and was excited to try anything.

I had some beautiful music and in the background a man was taking you on a journey to the depths of the earth and you could hear sounds of the cave and dripping water from caverns.

At the end when I was triggering his sacred spot I noticed he actually convulsed steadily and his eyes rolled back till all I could see were the whites of his eyes. He was no longer with me and I did not know how to pull him back in but I figured I would just let him ride and not panic. After his eyes were rolled back for a considerable time he spoke in an Ancient language that sounded like Ancient Hebrew or Aramaic but it was incredibly real and lovely to listen to. Again I refused to panic and I just held the space for him to do what he needed to do.

Finally after he was triggered into full body orgasm he came back to me gradually breathing deeply and I asked him if he remembered speaking in tongues.

He looked blankly at me and said he had no recollection but could I share with him what he was saying. I said I can’t translate ancient hebrew but it was beautiful like a reverent chant and I really was not sure of the language origin but it was pretty so i was not scared.

He did say he had visions during his awakening and he said it involved two different goddesses. The first Goddess that encountered him danced around him in circles and she had a gold body and long, blood red hair. She danced and left. The second Goddess was the white goddess and she had long, silver hair and as she danced around him he realized she was going to become famous and author many books on tantra yoga.

I did not know what to say but I thanked him for sharing his story with me. I do know one thing with regards to tantra yoga. If a student comes to you with a pre knowledge of proper breath and the yoga postures then he or she will have a more profound experience rather than just telling you they felt some “heat”. He obviously trusted me enough to go into the astral plane and just zone out there for a while so I was very grateful to be a witness to his journey!

My second experience with astral travels occurred years later in the city of Chicago. I met a really nice, slightly out of shape man with a huge teddy bear heart. He was just so open and caring and when he arrived at my apartment he hugged me and he kept saying repeatedly that he felt like he has known me forever.

He also gave me permission to work with his prostrate and again I noticed he got very quiet at me towards the last half hour of our session. We were still together and I could still feel his energy near me but somehow his breathing became much heavier sounding and when it was again time for his full body awakening his entire body became electrical like a wire overflowing with energies. I did bring him back to reality and I encouraged him to speak about his journey.

He told me he saw the two of us in a very dark room, dimly lit only by the light of candles. He was wearing a heavy ceremonial crown upon his head and he felt the vibe was joyful and festive rather than being sombre. He knew for a fact we were together enjoying a joyous occasion in Ancient Egypt. I was so excited to hear this and I wanted to know what I looked like because when I participated in a DNA activation ceremony in Boulder, Colorado I heard a song of the Goddess Isis during my activation ceremony so I knew I was of her DNA lineage and she had importance to me.

He said it was too dark for him to see my face clearly but he knew it was me from my energy and my vibration. Well you can’t believe how excited I was to share this experience with a new client whom I had never met before! I felt deeply grateful that he was able to remember such detail as he traveled back into one of his past lives with me.

If anyone needs to know why I am so passionate about assisting people with the Sacred Sensual energies I think it is the unknown and all the wonderful unexpected surprises you can find and feelings of deja vu when you meet new clients who seem familiar to you on your path.

It takes a strong sense of self to put yourself in such a vulnerable and open position and if you can let yourself zone out and can fully trust your body takes you places and your spirit tunes into Universal flow so easily and so readily. Being receptive to these sexual energies is a gift and involved maturity, trust, joy and complete openness. One thing both of these men had in common was inner joy and a blind belief in the miracles of energetic healing. Both men trusted me with their sacred energy implicitly without holding anything back and without any cynicism.

If anyone wishes to learn more Sacred Spot Massage there are wonderful authors everywhere on the internet who compile a collective of stories but you can only “conjecture” when you read a book. If you are brave enough and willing to let go then I welcome you to take your first step with Sacred Spot Massage and we can go as slowly as you need working within your comfort zone and your boundaries.

Please visit my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and if you feel ready and if you do feel a connection to me I would be flattered to be your first Tantra Muse on your new path to self discovery and greater body awareness. Your third eye takes it’s own sweet time to awaken and Sacred Spot Massage assists you in your awakening process with gentleness and arousal of all your erogenous zones.

Goddess Diana Sensual Muse
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
(312)339-7707

❀Healing the Warrior within ❀

steampunk cat 2I have not logged on here for a while and maybe it’s because I really did not feel the need to say much. I was online browsing a Tantra group on face book earlier this afternoon and there were several different tantra practitioners all debating about the true meaning of tantra. Besides involving the sexual aspects of Tantra yoga and Tantra massage we must closely examine our intentions as healers and students of tantra.

I can tell you honestly more than half the men who come to see me are simply “touch starved”. I work with men who are in loveless, sexless marriages where there is no loving touch or cuddling exchanged. I work with men who are single and have no time to be settled into a meaningful relationship because their focus in life in their work and career path. I work with men who are retired from the work force and they may have suffered as severe stress related injury and so they either rely on pain medications or find they can not be involved in a normal sexual relationship with anyone either out of shyness, a social phobia or a lack of desire from their injury.

I find that these past few years for me have been a harsh lesson in feast or famine. I either am so busy and in demand that I find myself turning away callers or I can go days without work due to bad timing issues and the fact that I have a life too and I can not always receive a guest just because they happen to have the time to see me for a tantra session.

I have been traveling for two full years now simply getting a taste of every city I have toured and everyone’s purpose for wanting a session is pretty much the same. Everyone needs touch. Everyone craves touch and everyone has a need to be desired and to feel lovable by someone who has time to be attentive.

I think every tantra Guide, healer or Muse is here to be authentic and present for their guest. I myself chose this path because I believe that the human body craves touch and we become more creative, more joyful and more loving when we are touched in “just the right way”.

We as healers present our sessions in such different ways and I decided that the best way to be is simply be your authentic Self no matter where you are in life and you can’t go wrong.

When you are a healer there is no need for arrogance. I have witnessed that what happens to many healers is they are judged inappropriately. When we focus on any kind of energy work whether it is sexual energy or working innocently with someone’s “tummy” aches we are shifting someone’s perspective of “being”. Some people can feel deeply threatened when they do not understand the changes they are undergoing after leaving the healer’s sacred space. Surely if you have been touched inappropriately in the past or if you have been traumatized emotionally you will have to take time out to “process” the healing touch you have received whether the touch is sexual or purely energetic healing touch like reiki.

I witnessed some of my clients crying, feeling anger (misdirected at me) or laughing so jovially I felt genuine happiness oozing out of me.
What ever happens it’s best to be without judgment.

I have been ridiculed, falsely accused of being a “trust fund kid” online and harangued by former clients of mine who were hoping I was a traditional escort service (GFE) when that was never my intention. When I graduated from a well know tantra yoga school I still had a lot left to learn but my true intention was to learn more about the circular breath and to learn how to breathe deeply while I focused on sending female energy to my mostly male clientele. I was not offering my “body” up but rather giving men choices. I wanted to use my body as a living model so that men who are shy or less aware of bodily sensations can practice with me and I could give them feedback as to whether their touch was sensitive enough or a bit too harsh and jarring.
Some past clients of mine came to me with all the wrong intentions and selfishly assumed that the term Goddess Worship meant they could do as they please to me or my body without worrying about whether or not I was feeling “used” or abused during our time together.

Goddess Worship is not a chance for you to learn how to “grope” or molest a woman by the hour. Goddess Worship is learning how to yield to the Divine Feminine or the Divine Mother that is in all women. Women are delicate Vessels of light and unconditional love. We deserve and crave to be honored and loved without conditions meaning we want to be adored no matter what our body shape or age. The true meaning of Goddess honoring is to heal your past relationships with your lovers, your sisters and your mother. Yes we all have deep wounds from our past but Goddess Worship Ceremonies present you with the opportunity to tap into your past feelings and process the pain or the misunderstanding so you can release your fears and your anger and your sense of abandonment and finally be fully present with real love to offer your future partner.

You might have misdirected anger at me during our time together because I might remind you of your past frustrations or be a Mirror to you while you process any pain from your childhood. I can only guide you and clear out those negative patterns if you give me feedback and speak up during our shared time together but I can not help you if you wait till our session is completely over or if you decide to hold your silence and never share your feelings of anger with me.

I can say that all energy workers perform a vital service and like energies attract like energies meaning no matter your level of expertise you will be able to help and heal those who have a similar issue that you have.
If you are a healer and If you experienced abuse as a child you will tend to attract those clients who were also abused by their parents. If you led a carefree life but just wanted to learn more about your sexuality in a safe and loving way you will attract individuals who also seek “play”. When you limit yourself and point the fingers of blame on other healers you are performing and committing an act of self hatred and self loathing.
Healers focus on your own gifts. Focus on what needs to be honed and well refined in your own sacred body . Focus on who you are now and where you want to be and forget about making comparisons between you and other healers if you want serenity.

I want to also include that anyone who comes to me to receive any of my services has the potential to become a tantra Healer or Daka. I am a Dakini by choice. I fell into this career path when I was in my early twenties constantly taking classes on the chakra systems and learning about subtle energies that affect our moods and ability to self heal. I can only assume that any new Guest I meet is trying to heal that child inside that wants a taste of true contentment and bliss

Check into your Feelings using Tantra as your Tool here in Virginia Beach

Chie-Yoshii-6 Good afternoon! Writing is part of my journey and part of my self medicating process because I spend a good part of the day alone when I am not in Sacred Ceremony.

I wanted to share some common knowledge about how Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage is a gateway to tap into your intuition, gain greater balance of your emotions and simply feel more hopeful.

I am also going to hopefully alert a few people here in Virginia Beach of my existence so while I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia I’d love to make myself available for any man or woman who needs and feels a desire to connect with themselves and feel more in command of their bodies and emotions.

Tantra is a shared energy ceremony where you and I connect. I breathe with you and my hands are always in contact with your body so I might coach you to breathe deeply into certain areas of your chakras so you are aware of how powerful your own energy is. Once again Tantra and Reiki are not separate entities. Just because you called me and you were drawn to Tantra to somehow rejuvenate your sensory awareness and sensual energy does not mean you will leave my space with only your sensual energy awakened; you will leave refreshed, more intuitive, more balanced, calmer and fully fed.

Energy is energy whether I choose to share my sensual energies with someone or simply administer healing touch that is non sensual in nature you are still going to feel a surge of your own energy running through you, streaming through each of your chakra bodies and giving you a sense of calm, inner strength and warmth.

So many people go around needlessly absorbing other people’s energies like a psychic sponge or toxic waste dump. If you are an empath or if you realize you are an extra sensitive soul you might feel agitated after immersing yourself amongst others and you might not realize it but you are carrying energies that do not belong to you. During these moments when you find yourself becoming irritable it is now time for you to administer a bit of psychic healing on yourself by breathing into all areas of your body and placing your hands on your crown chakra, your throat chakra, your solar plexus and other areas that give cause for concern because this is self administered reiki/chakra healing.

My other suggestion for ridding yourself of negative energies is to spritz yourself and your home with palo santo spray. A brand that I recommend is found in whole foods market and is made by The Crystal Garden, Inc. It is medicinal, high grade, organic palo santo placed in a spritz bottle and convenient if you are not allowed to use fire in your hotel room or work place. I spritz my aura with it throughout my sessions and spritz my guests before and after tantra ceremonies to simply cleanse and activate the chakras so there is no psychic debris carried into our ceremony from other unclean energies that may have been brought into our sacred circle.

Honestly breathing is the easiest way to cleanse your aura so when you consciously take time out in your day or evening to breathe slowly and deeply in and out you are allowing yourself to ground back into your body and place yourself back into a safe place with the forces of the earth. We can’t just rely on ourselves to replenish we have to ground with the earth’s energies and deep breathing allows you to feel your body connect back to Source.

When you commit to a tantra healing you are engaging in breath, touch, mindfulness and magic. Our shared time is about co creation and sending healing vibes back and forth with common touch, common breath and intentions. I will bring you back into your body with breath coaching and keep you in the moment as I touch you gently or forcefully. Touch is the most vital medicine when you are on a path of self healing. If you find yourself doubting your own choices or feeling extra “touchy” and or combative then it’s time for you to work on your spiritual body and visit me for Tantra yoga and massage. I am not asking your to separate your physical needs from your bodily needs I am simply making you aware that there is no separation from body and spirit when you are on a path of self discovery.

Let me be your Muse here in Virginia Beach. I would love to help you heal old wounds and be a master of your own body again.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Here in the body of my essay is a beautiful goddess painting by the artist Chie Yoshii who celebrates the Goddess form in all her works of art. I am quite fond of Chie Yoshii and her honoring of the divine feminine.

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

Giorgione_-_Sleeping_Venus_-_Google_Art_Project_2So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
Giorgione~

Goddess Diana offering Tantra Massage in Louisville, Kentucky ❤♡

For the past two days I have been exploring Louisville, Kentucky with my two wonderful pets Mishka the Bear and Mr. Valentino the Mobster Pussy!
Sometimes plans change and I found myself stranded here in Kentucky as a sort of “pit stop” before heading towards Asheville, North Carolina but I am beyond grateful because I had the chance to introduce Tantra Massage and Tantra/Reiki with some wonderful new guests.
Temporarily I am stumped at the fact that I did have to turn away a repeat guest of mine tonight visiting from out of town. I am sorry to relay the fact that Pay pal is living in the stone age and after working with pay pal for many years and never receiving any bad feedback from anyone or clients pay pal decided that Tantra is lewd and lascivious rather than a healing and positive way to balance the body and mind.
I love my work with a passion. I always always encounter some hostile and angry individual who use my “work” as a weapon against me whether it’s me applying for a new job or finding a nice apartment.
People in my field are often misjudged and placed in a nifty box so it becomes easier for people to reject us whether it’s a new love relationship or a beautiful home we might wish to purchase.
Sadly we are living now in the “dark ages” and we need to revise certain laws that discourage people from exploring their sexual energy in a safe and nurturing environment.
I have encountered slander and libel on adult message boards from petty and immature men who misconstrued my offerings and decided to fit me into a box and ridicule me online many times over.
If society can not accept tantra as a healing and viable tool for creativity and self awareness then this is not a golden age this is a repressive and uptight place that needs to move forward and heal itself.
I am proud to explore energy whether it be sensually oriented or infused with light healing touch such as reiki and hot stone therapy. I work on every aspect of the auric field not just the physical realm.
Tantra is the focus of intention and being present for your partner.
Sure I sometimes find my mind dwelling when I am in ceremony but the breath brings me back into the present which is why I often encourage my students to gently breathe and hum and “tone” with me.
The body responds to sight, sound, taste and touch. If we ignore just one small part of who we are we are not in balance. Tantra is the Co creation of “magical” manifestation. We breathe into our hearts and circulate the energies between ourselves in unison.
I am a spontaneous Being and I love travel. Travel is a major part of how I define myself. My time here in Louisville, Kentucky was graced with self healing, exploring new neighborhoods and sharing my energy and intentions with some very powerful new guests who showed me tenderness and vulnerability during our tantra sessions here in Kentucky.
I enjoyed some wonderful shopping and great latte. I had time fit in a bit of everything here In Louisville, Kentucky and I have so much more to see, taste and experience. Part of Tantra is the act of being open to change and embracing a change of plans with an open mind and heart.
I have gratitude for every step I take and every new guest I have the pleasure and delight of meeting.
Thank you gentlemen of Louisville, Kentucky for being you and being fully thoughtful and present for you Goddess! I love tenderness in men and I found the men here to be very soft spoken and open hearted which is a gift in itself ❤

Thank you for giving me the chance of gracing me with your presence
Goddess DianaMedieval rabbit riding dog

Please don’t judge me based on my career Path!

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I wanted to share this with everyone here today! Sadly the work I do is not always revered or regarded with respect by a majority of people who reside here in the United States or other countries for that matter.
Just two days ago I was victimized on Craigslist because I responded to an ad from a man seeking a “gal friday” in exchange for reduced or no rent and a potential to earn extra money on the side.

I was toying with the idea of spending a month in Miami beach soon and I was hoping to find a nice live in situation where I could work and trade my skills which includes writing and cooking for a place to live.

I innocently responded using my email address butterflyshadows@aol.com and I asked how I could be of use to this man so I could share a space in exchange for work. This man without even responding to my email somehow linked me to my tantra website and started sending me text messages to my cell phone accusing me of being an “unwelcome pet” and he was going to monitor my account and my IP address as a violation of conduct.

So why am I the victim of harassment? Why did he decide that I am unworthy and I am a horrible human being because I teach tantra yoga and because I work with sacred sensuality? Am I committing a crime for wanting to help people and restore balance in someone’s life? Am I a horrible human being because I wanted to offer my skills or my ability to cook and clean and organize someone’s office space?

Instead of people judging first I wonder why people can’t be more civilized and humane and simply call directly on the phone rather than project their fear and their previous bad experiences or “wrongs” onto others. I feel this man had the need to misjudge and victimize me and report my account because he was taken advantage of by someone from his past and he felt the need to judge me and lash out on me because he sent me three angry text messages and said my account was going to be reported and monitored simply because I wanted to have reduced rent and respond to his ad using my real email address.

We have such a long long way to go before sex workers and healers are considered as equal as any other professional in this country. I don’t feel ashamed of who I am or what I represent I just wonder why there is so much ignorance and anger sent towards people in my field.
There seems to be so much misdirected angst and anger and so much healing that needs to be done on our inner psyche.

Why should we project a sense of anger or unworthiness unto anyone without first getting to know that person first? Shouldn’t we be judged by our actions and our conduct first?