Decriminalize sacred sensuality 🐦

Hello! My name is Diana Lynn Grossman , shapeshifter 🐼 playful muse   reiki master, and psychic, alternative healer for over twenty five years and proud to be a part of the sexual industry.

I have a sweet tooth, adore my cuddly pets, am playful, and strongly passionate about working with a select few of incredibly sensitive and consciously aware individuals who accidentally find my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com while seeking a tantra massage in Chicago!

Lately the government has passed a new law which has shut down many adult oriented websites such as Backpage, the massage sections of Craigslist, cityvibe, foxylist, the erotic reviw in the united states and many others I may have left out.

This new law will criminalize any adult message board forum or certain adult content advertising portals and hold them legally responsible for sex trafficking!

I am strongly against sex trafficking but now sex workers have lost a viable and safe option for advertising their services online indefinitely unless you the general public decide to get involved and pass laws decriminalizing sex related fields and finding new healthier options to keep escorts and sex workers educated, safe, regulated and legalized.

I propose any woman or man who is truly excited to teach sexual education or offer healing massages or escort services be screened for mental and physical health including a criminal background check to see if they are emotionally prepared to create sacred space for their potential clients.

Potential clients will also be pre screened by the government prior to a sensual encounter and they will also go through the same rigorous testing to make sure they are disease free and of sound mind before being eligible to hire a sex worker.

My proposal will benefit everyone creating mutual rules, boundaries and self respect.  Sex workers will be regulated and licensed with free health insurance benefits and increases in salary based on their client’s feedback and positive reviews.

Clients who act harmfully or disrespectfully towards any escort or sex surrogate will be penalized and subject to counseling until they are deemed harmless to any sex worker they choose to employ.

 

Sex workers must take classes in alternative healing, abnormal pychology, classes in tantra yoga and traditional massage therapy modalities.  Sex workers will take new classes every  year and earn more money based on their increased skill set rather than their good looks and youth.  The younger, more inexperienced sex workers first starting out will earn less but they will have the potential to grow income based on good reviews and the willingness to take on extra classes in alternative healing and traditional bodywork like chakra balancing.

Each month, sex workers will go through a health check preventing any unforeseen illness or STD.  Every sex worker must also pass a drug test to ensure they are clear headed and emotionally fit to heal others.

Every sex worker will have gracious tax deductions for being independent contractors and their tax dollars will go to their retirement fund and health insurance because they are providing a needful service to anyone who is touch starved or going through marital challenges.

As the sex worker ages he or she will go through a fully subsidized retraining program meaning they can now be trained to become sex educators in schools, lead tantra yoga retreats or go into a completely brand new career with free housing until they are fully capable of embarking on a brand new career path.

Does this sound fair and comforting to all of you? Would you like to see these new ideas being implemented soon?  Please support your sex workers and fight the new bill that has been passed.  Sex workers typically love what they do!  Let us be respected, honored, adored, educated and legalized so we can finally be protected by the law rather than violated and raped by law makers who have not given this new law serious thought.  We want to protect our civil liberties not destroy what we have fought so hard to uphold!

Get in contact with Congress and legalize sacred sensuality 🐦large

Engaging in a tantra massage enhances your intuition 🐦

Picture 5Happy Mercury retrograde 💓 I’ve always found this a challenging time personally in my career as a tantra guide because most of my days are spent communicating with the verbal and written word and Mercury retrograde can invoke miscommunication and even irritability.

I’m going to celebrate this retrograde by focusing on intentions and being more patient with people contacting me for the first time.  Be careful with how you phrase your words and my best advice is to be clearly honest before you speak or write to avoid arguments and confusion.

My sessions will benefit you in multiple ways but mostly you will leave my space being more open, more communicative, less inhibited and more empathic.  Empathy is the ability to place yourself deeply in someone’s situation.  You understand fully all the emotions of anyone whether they are content, confused, angry or despondent.  An empath can tune into the wavelength of a single individual or room full of people and feel that distinctive vibe as if it was their own emotion.

A natural born empath must be cautious not to confuse other people’s emotions as their own mood and so an empath is s psychic sponge able to soak up all the joy or drama of anyone they are close to.  Because of their strong intuitive nature’s they do need to protect their own aura by perfecting some grounding and self cleansing rituals so they won’t take on the psychic debris of people they have interacted with.

Tantra massage is an organic art and ritual which will include all the basics of helping you become more aware of your boundaries and better able to implement tools to keep your energy vibrant and cleansed.

Breathing deeply is the first step we engage in to activate our chakra centers.  I’ll change into your energy bodies and you’ll learn how to use seed sounds to cleanse, heal and activate your aura.  Each breath we take helps create a circular flow of positivity between the two of us and with just one session you’ll feel comfortable enough to share these breathing techniques with a good friend or your love partner so you can create a bond of understanding and trust with anyone you care about.

Many of my tantra massage sessions involve mutual cuddling and sacred touch.  As everyone knows human beings thrive on healing, compassionate touch and our moods improve as well as our  ability to learn about ourselves and others.  Touch is a gateway to understanding your limitlessness as well as your boundaries.  During our shared tantra ceremony you’ll be sharing your boundaries with me and we’ll be giving each other feedback on what feels comforting and loving or what feels threatening or unpleasant.  Your tantra massage is a time for you to grow but also a time for you to unplug and escape mundane concerns.

If you really wish to blow away your veil I’d suggest a three hour journey which includes a bath ceremony similar to watsu where I will be partially supporting your weight in the bouyant water and you will be guided in three dimensional breathing while I sing into your chakra bodies.  Your third eye or ajna in Sanskrit  will be gently coaxed into awakening.  Nothing will feel rushed to you as I chant into your body.  You’ll simply feel comforted and loved as your body vibrates to the bija mantra chants.  These are baby steps to awakening your intuition.  As your kundalini energy is coaxed into awakening your ability to see and feel emotions will increase your capacity to love without condition and potentially be more compassionate.

There is a difference between being empathic and having compassion for others.  Being compassionate involves actively seeking to create a better condition of mental well being for anyone who you see is suffering.  You are consciously activating your heart center and you are making a choice to help someone so you are using your gift of empathy but actively seeking to create a positive change in a being’s life.

When  you actively engage in energy exchanges you practice heart centered and mindful touch activating your heart chakra with the intention of sending unconditional love to your partner.  All your chakra centers are pleasantly engaged in compassionate touch and your intuition is at the forefront allowing you to take pleasure at the lightest of caresses to move the greatest energies.  You will learn the difference between subtle touch and baser more clumsy non sensate energies.

 

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete understanding of what tantra massage and reiki can offer you!  You will have an opportunity to explore your aura and learn how to be an empath while exploring the sensual realms of kundalini Shakti 🐍 I can briefly summarize all your immediate benefits in my final paragraph.  Tantra enables you to be more present, more focused, more compassionate and more intuitive.  You will be both giver and receiver and you will be a student and teacher.  Your chakras will be cleansed, honored and rebirthed.  Your sense of inner calm will be restored as your core is centered and reawakened.  You will be calm but joyfully teased and aroused as we go from edge play to soothing breathing practices.  Your sensual energy will become your body’s restorative medicine and you will leave our shared space a completely different person.  It will be up to you to decide to practice this healing journey a little bit every day until our next session.  You will become more sensitive to your own energy as your intuition and empathy awakens within you.   You can return to being numb again or continue on this meditative path by joining tantra workshops or practicing with a partner.  Tantra yoga opens portals of pleasure, gratitude and self awareness.  We always attract exactly who we are as our mirrors so isn’t it wonderful to see through clear,  untainted glass?

🌷 how to know your psychic reader was a fraud 🌷

Hey audience, I decided to write this article mostly as a reminder to myself and perhaps a cautionary tale to you that not all psychic readings are balanced or particularly healing.

I hadn’t had a legitimate reading in two years mostly because my traveling expenses and separate sets of storage fees give me limited access to fund all my desires.  I was perusing my Facebook feed a few months ago and noticed this well meaning young woman raving about her Facebook friends healing skills.  Naturally I love networking with other healers so I promptly sent this healer a friend request and found out she lives in the Chicago land area.

Later I realized the well meaning girl from new York had never received an actual healing she just thought based on their friendly interactions that Kerri had great healing abilities without actually receiving a real reading over the phone or in person.

Kerri and I had casual interchanges via Facebook messenger and I was seeking someone who could not only give me a clairvoyant reading but karuna…arch reiki for lower back pain I was experiencing.  I told Kerri that I was primarily intrigued about karuna and I was seeking more of an energy healing to open up any potential blocks in my chakras with an emphasis on opening up my opportunities for greater abundance.  Kerri assured me she would do her best to help and also suggested a psychic reading.  She mentioned she hosts a radio show and would even love to have me as a guest speaker to hopefully promote my tantra practice and gain a broader audience.  Of course that never happened ever as I would eventually discover for myself.

One week pain in my body made me  decide to hire a professional massage therapist in Humboldt park who I found to be incredibly profound.  Neil took his time with my spinal column and even tried cupping with me so at the end of our time together I opened up to neil and admitted I would be hiring a psychic for a reading soon.  Neil got very quiet and warned me about giving too much of my power to a complete stranger.  I assured him I’d be careful and as I left his massage studio I noticed how happy I looked and felt.  I felt tingly and much lighter energetically than I had felt in such a long time!

I then contacted Kerri and she was open to the idea of actually picking  me up at the closest train station to her home.  I don’t drive a car  and rely on trains and buses so she would agree to meet me at the closest blue line to her home.  The  next day however I realized there were two completely different Harlem ave stops on the blue line which was confusing and really changed the dynamics of me getting to her. I accidentally got off at the wrong stop and finally about two hours later met Kerri for the first time as she drove up to get me in her car.

Upon meeting Kerri I noticed she wasn’t smiling much but she seemed sincere about wanting to help me so when I entered her home I felt comfortable and confident but she was definitely lacking humor and her stern demeanor made me feel worried.  In fact I had every right to worry because as she shuffled her cards sternly I never felt like a human being I felt judged by her and belittled.  Not once during our session did she even seek anything positive to share with me it was just gloom, doom and tomb!  My God she never even cracked a smile and then when I needed to vent and genuinely express my concern and worries Kerri went on a long rant about her journey as an ex Playboy bunny who is now a single mother and how she just recently got ghosted by her boyfriend.  I spent a good twenty minutes listening to how she continues to prevail amidst all her challenges as a single mother! Then she had the nerve to suggest that I remove all the gallery images on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so that I could attract better clients because she personally felt I wasn’t conveying an image of spirituality!  If you go online and do your own research you will find not hundreds but thousands of erotic photographs of miss Kerri Kendall touching other women, exposing her vulva, making suggestive sexually explicit poses and then you accidentally find her new age website with her psychic readings available and her model mayhem account.  Does that make her less credible?  What made her less credible to me was how horrible I felt about myself as a healer after she spent two full hours belittling me and assuming I had absolutely no knowledge of healing or the chakra bodies after I had told her many times prior on Facebook that I had learned about alternative healing, chakra balancing, reiki, pranic healing, tantra yoga, and hot stone therapy since my early twenties.

Kerri pointed to her rudimentary chakra chart and I simply had to interrupt her and ask her why she didn’t realize that I would already have a real understanding of chakras based on the fact that I practice tantra yoga with my clients.

She apologized and finally lead me to her table where I instantly drifted off and practically fell asleep.  It wasn’t the healing or the reading I was hoping for so at the conclusion of our time together she suggested I purchase an abundance candle for $15 and she then drove me back to the blue line without even using a sage stick on my aura or sealing off my energies!

I finally got back to my space feeling so emotionally raped and unlovable that I went online, did sincere research and actually did find a legitimate psychic reader by the name of Aria who felt my sadness instantly and gave me a real healing!  Aria empowered me and helped me understand the Dynamics of energy vampirism and the techniques energy vampires use to steal their victim’s energy by making their victim feel an emotion strongly.  A vampire doesn’t need happy or positive energy rather the energy can be morose, fearful or purely anger based.  After I got off the phone with Aria Norman I felt instant relief and Aria insisted on letting me know I was so intuitive I didn’t have to hire psychics ever again and she refused to charge me for her advice just so I could heal.

My advice to anyone is to be super selective about choosing your clairvoyant reader.  A good reader will want to give you positive solutions and any true psychic doesn’t need to rely on tarot cards as a crutch or tool!  A legitimate psychic reader is never judgmental of your path! If they can’t comprehend what true gifts you already possess yourself then you can assume they are purposefully placing you in a weakened emotional state so that you become doubtful and dependent upon their future assistance with endless readings that will ultimately leave you spiritually bankrupt.

If you yourself are in need of reiki, healing touch, guided visualization and traditional tantra massage please go directly to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com now and spend time reading my articles, my testimonials and my chakras section.  I’m a highly intuitive tantra guide with over twenty years of experience in alternative healing practices and the paranormal.  Once you feel you are ready for your own special journey simply call me directly at 312-339-7707 and feel free to fill out my contact form being completely honest about your short term goals and expectations.  Tantra is a heart  💓 conscious journey and I am sincere in my intentions to help you feel limitlessness, weightless and transcendental.received_10102650271916000.gif

 

 

 

 

Chicago Tantra massage by Goddess Diana of Tantra butterfly 💓

mr valentino in my scarfIMG_20180202_145017IMG_20180202_144958.jpgwelcome to my world http://www.tantrabutterfly.com where you are allowed to be yourself.  You will be listened to, your body will be held sacred and we can both be real together.  If I have advice to give you based on my intuition during our session I promise I’ll be fair to you because I make plenty of happy mistakes which lead me here to you right now.

You’ve created your reality and your story whether you found me by someone who encouraged you to try reiki, energy work or tantra massage.  Maybe you suffer from depression, post traumatic stress disorder or you’ve numbed your needs out because your last relationship was disastrous or unfulfilling.

This is the part where I tell you I’ve likewise made poor judgements that kept me in toxic, unfair, unbalanced relationships because I didn’t realize how powerful I am just by myself and that I contain within me the capacity to heal my own wounds.  In tantra a sense of fairness and healthy boundaries are explored as part of your healing process.

I’m here to help you breathe self love back into your being and help you recapture your sense of innocent play.  Tantra massage encompasses more than sports massage and reiki; tantra works with your desire and creativity using three dimensional breathing and visualization.  As as I lay my hands in stillness I’m consciously awakening your vitality, your DNA, your life force and your inner child.

Do you wake up not remembering your dreams?  Do you wake up in pain stressed out even before your day has begun?  Have you silenced who you are because someone or done life event silenced you into submission?  Tantra yoga is a lavish ceremony that celebrates life and if you have the time to spend on yourself I will engage you in activities for self healing that are highly playful, stimulating and decadent.

You can join me for a half or full day of alternative tantra delights here in Chicago or we can plan a full weekend of touch positive, sensually healing and life changing retreats in your city if you wish to sponsor me.

So many tantra body workers neglect to tell you how powerful you truly are and that just one focused session of tantra yoga can permanently change you, making you more intuitive and determined to alter your current path.  The primary reason for you to engage in a tantra ceremony is because you are ready to seek change and you’re tired of feeling shut down energetically or half awake.

I see so many sex workers here using fake aliases, rebranding themselves, hiding behind a fake persona and I’m amazed at the fact that they can’t be real and can’t admit to their clients that they themselves are in need of healing and compassion!

When you choose me as your guide you are choosing a fellow being who understands abuse and gas lighting because I myself am a survivor of emotional and physical abuse as a child and I have every desire to continue growing my skills as not just a healer but as an evolving human imperfect in so many ways but willing to conquer my own fears.

I welcome gender fluid couples, male and female singles,  newly married couples and just about everyone out there recuperating from illness or tolerating chronic pain or self doubt.

Let me help build your confidence back and while doing so we’ll both create new challenges in ourselves because as you grow and heal I’ll be fine tuning my skills and transfer my positive energy back into you like a sacred circle of woven cloth.  You deserve to feel passion, inner strength, laughter and hopefully rediscover who you essentially are. You will learn to breathe not just for survival but breathe fully to expand your energy and your inner intuition.  Once you have tried at least three separate tantra sessions you won’t feel as if you have to rely on others for making important life decisions.  You also will understand that you yourself contain everything you need to manifest your own reality with or without a life partner.

I welcome your call after you’ve had time to explore my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com  💓

Become more psychic, become less afraid of claiming your right to be powerful and filled with creative fire 🔥 besides all these wonderful goals….you get to hear me sing!!!! No extra charge for sound healing ^_^

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.

 

If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… http://www.Tantrabutterfly.blogspot.com 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach

312-339-7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.

What does the title “goddess” trigger in you?

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.

First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.

I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.

Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very yin in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.

I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.

A Goddess 🌹 is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.

The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.

A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play which is the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self.  🎈

When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.

Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!

Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

 

 

A full day of tantra with goddess Diana 💓 in Chicago 🐦

So hypothetically, you randomly found me while doing a Google search using two key words–tantra and massage respectively.  You may have searched under alternative healing, chakra balancing, sounds healing and reiki.  Tantra includes all of these aspects and if you want to really delve into the realm of tantra yoga and tantra massage here in Chicago, I’d strongly advise you to plunge in and indulge yourself in a five hour or full day and night of sensory overload 🌒!

I’m professionally trained to help you reconnect to your power centers which includes a full body awakening 🐯 called kundalini Shakti 🐍.  You will be engaged in sound healing, fresh fruit, trigger point massage and a chakra bath that I will prepare for you so you feel embraced and safe.

Our tantra journey will begin with an intimate conversation so I can understand all your goals fully 🎈.  We will be holding hands, touching our heart centers, chanting and laughing.  Laughter is the most healing and empowering medicine and you will feel your pelvic muscles loosen up as I use my intuition to help you create more flow and energy in your power centers we call chakras.

Tantra is about mutual touch, mutual trust, mutual connection and breaking through all the stumbling blocks currently preventing you from acquiring abundance and creativity.  We work together creating a space of healing and gentleness.

Five hours of tantra is as effective as five separate tantra sessions and it will help speed up your awakening through pranayama, third eye activation and an open heart center which helps you heal past the cellular level helping you find the courage to make dramatic changes in your physical and emotional bodies.

Please take some time to read my main website http://www.tantabutterfly.com because i want you to read about my journey as a healer, reiki master, and tantra educator.  Read the testimonials and see if you feel a connection to the words I’ve written over the years.

Each tantra session in Chicago and other cities is unique and we focus on issues you wish to heal or maybe you are innately curious and you wish to let down your guard and help co create sacred space with me.

I welcome your questions so you may email me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or simply call me at 312-339-7707.

Tantra will change your body, electrify your spirit and help you regain your sense of connectedness.

Goddess 🌹 Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

New couples in Chicago I would have been delighted to see you but….

You did not give me advanced notice!!!! Don’t let this happen to you and don’t let me have to turn you away due to bad timing, bad scheduling and zero notice. Yes I know most couples come to Chicago for a purpose; I know you most of the time you did not come to Chicago specifically for me or you would have called a week before.

In the event that you did come to Chicago specifically as a potential treat of relaxation for you and your partner and you decided to visit me for couples Tantra Massage in Chicago then by all means give me several days notice so we can brainstorm together. Brainstorming means we all have a three way conversation on the phone like a phone interview. You both have your chance to discuss boundaries and goals and what you love or don’t love.

I will give you suggestions and give you my recommendations on the best hotels to stay at in the suburbs or inner city of Chicago. I will give you the best times that work for YOU both so you don’t need to worry if I am available or not available at a moment’s notice. I do not want to turn you away– I want this to work out for everyone and plan out my own transportation needs in advance so you do not need to worry.

Yes I know sometimes couples find me online at the very last minute and it’s very rare for me to promise you a session with less than four hours notice so you are always welcome to try me at the last minute and if it’s meant to be I might literally be a mere half hour away from you and have all my massage oils with me (but I might not). I might have to give you a strong no but I might give you a yes or a maybe if you are extremely flexible with what time we begin our session and If I even have the energy to devote to both of you after working on others that same day. Do you understand? Tantra is about mutual shared respect and circulating only the best most positive energies between the three of us so wouldn’t you want to give me as much notice as possible so I am fresh for you and have not over scheduled or feeling healthy and refreshed that day?

So yes I know most people find me by accident and you might not have another day in Chicago to spare. In that event work around my schedule, send me an uber, have payment ready and we are good to go because I want to be of service to you but you have to meet me more than halfway for that to happen.

Here is an excerpt I pulled directly from my own personal tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please read and enjoy!

Couples coaching and Sacred bodywork

Couples, during our ceremony I invite you to join me in the timelessness of tantric shamanism. All three of us will comingle our unique energies and learn the art of Just “being” letting all our cares go as I teach you the fundamentals of Yoga breathe work and holding sacred space and forgiveness for your partner. I will teach the both of you how to send and transmute unconditional love and healing from your heart and hands into your lover’s most intimate places of wounding, hurt, shame and deep joy.

Our time together will be spent in a place of healing and reverance and we can use this time as you wish. It can be a time of quiet meditative discussion and connecting or we can each take turns learning the sacred art of being “giver” and “receiver”.

I can teach the two of you Beloveds special practices that will allow you to be the perfect, compassionate lover to your mate. Some examples of these practices are aura massage, Heart to Hand breath, spoon breathing, chanting, and traditional effluerage strokes that will bring your partner to a sense of deep peace and complete trust.

I will spend our time together teaching you both the art of energy sensing and nurturing the senses in tenderness.

I would consider our time together a sacred journey that will enable the two of you to grow as healers to each other.

I consider myself to be a very intuitive and compassionate teacher and I would ask the two of you to refrain from any activities in my prescense that would lead to Kama Sutric Sex. If after our time together my sessions enabled the two of you to be more tender and passionate together that would be a blessing. If our time together ignited a spark of deep love and exploration I would ask that you hold that dear sacred space in your hearts and share that passion with eachother in the sanctity and privacy of your own home after we have concluded our special time together. I do not consider myself to be merely a “fluffer”, I am a deeply respectful and nurturing soul, a student just like you but I would not wish to be present during any Kama Sutric explorations while we share sacred tantric space together.

There will be moments during our time together when I will ask for your help as we work on your partner’s sensual energies and I would teach you four handed massage and kundalini massage so you can take these practices home with you to begin your own unique Tantric Journies.

Please understand I am not a sex worker. I am primarily a healer, a teacher and an empath here to facilitate a major opportunity for your personal intimate growth and I would not be able to provide tantric sex during our sacred time together nor would I feel comfortable teaching you sexual positions or any practices that were too explicit. We would all be nude in a state of comfortable undress or you may even bring saris and light robes to our ceremony if that made you more relaxed. Our time together would be a celebration of the mind, soul, and physical pleasures with conscious heart connection.

Namaste,
Goddess Diana

You can find these paragraphs specifically at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/couples.htm

Do you want to call me on impulse? It’s flattering that you need me but are you prepared for me to tell you that I am only available at 1 am or 4pm or not in the evening hours like you wanted. Are you willing to drop anything and everything for me if I say yes I am available for both of you? If you are very malleable and you can change all your plans at the last minute then the answer is a firm yes I can see you, you can hire an uber, or lyft or driver for me and we are in agreement!

If you have a life and important plans in Chicago like a play to attend or friends to visit then give me three days notice and let’s all make sure I get there at the time you need without you having to pay my cab fare because I will make sure I take a train to see you and be ready fifteen minutes early just to make sure I am not late for you! Treat me like a professional and you will receive the best I have to offer you.

The labyrynth by Alexia Sinclair

Goddess Diana ❤ Benefits of Tantra Massage in Chicago ♡

Tantra is a skill and a form of meditation that has been practiced by Tibetan monks, Buddhists and Hindus for well over 9000 years. We can trace Tantra yoga’s origins to the mountains of India where religious sects practiced sexual, sacred ceremonies called Pujas for a specific purpose such as planting seeds of abundance for a good harvest or simply leading one to a path of higher enlightenment by using sexual energy as a magical component to awaken the third eye via Kundalini Shakti.

Today people are intrigued enough to meet with a Tantra provider to see if there is anything Tantra can do for their emotional frame of mind or simply out of complete curiosity.

Today’s culture embraces a more pragmatic ritual where we combine a full body hands on healing rather than a random puja ritual of meeting in a sacred circle to team up with a complete stranger for a sacred sexual act to consecrate the land.

Modern Tantrikas invest their time in you– teaching you the right way to breathe fully and connect with you so that you are fully in the moment and not distancing yourself or detaching from your own body.

Modern tantra yoga involves full body Tantra Massage, belly breathing, eye gazing, mutual touch, mutual connection, and opening up your boundaries during peaks of pleasure. All your erogenous zones are awakened playfully and are used to tenderly heal your old emotional wounds to prepare you for sacred space.

You will learn to give up your need to control as your tantra guide stimulates your sexual energies with compassion and slow, soothing strokes. This is not about an end result nor is tantra about obtaining an orgasm.

Tantra helps you use your own sexual energy as medicine for your body. If you have a hard time falling asleep at nights your tantra session will help get you in a more relaxed frame of composure; but if you are too tired all the time tantra can also give you that extra zing for life and boost your energy level because Tantra can either be a stimulant for those who are too tired to function or it can act as a sleeping aide for insomniacs. Your body will determine what it needs from the tantra session so what ever does happen will be for the best.

Here are some wonderful reasons to try a tantra session for the first time.

1. Relax and Restore your Body and Mind

Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.

I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation

My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.

Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.

As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

3. Emotional Healing

One’s journey into Tantra involves emotional healing and the pealing of all your layers so that you evolve and become more open and honest with yourself. Tantra is designed to help you receive love with a more open heart.

As I teach you breathing techniques your chest cavity is more open and this leads to emotional healing and more heart openness. You will deal more honestly with yourself rather than burying your feelings.

You might find yourself crying or laughing during your state of openness and all this leads to greater compassion for yourself and others. Your emotional blocks are skillfully addressed during an extended ceremony as you let down your shields and learn the art of self acceptance.

When you learn how to receive pleasure and unconditional love your self esteem grows and your relationship with others is enhanced and improved.

4. Experience PEACEFULNESS AND Pleasure

Peace of mind is achieved during our shared Tantra ceremony. We will both experience mutual pleasure because I love making sure you are enjoying yourself and getting lost in the moment which brings me pleasure because I love making people feel good.

Your pleasure will come in many forms which includes complete muscle relaxation, full body waves of bliss, emotional restoration and the physical release that comes from having a spiritually infused orgasm which is called Kundalini Shakti activation and leads to even more bliss.

5. Tantra leads to Self awareness

The true goal of any tantra student is to attain Nirvana in a very natural and non invasive way. As I teach you how to breathe deeply into your Chakra bodies I may have you visualize that your pineal gland is getting brighter and clearer and this helps activate your Crown chakra leading you to a greater connection to Source.

As you gain trust in your ability to connect to a higher Power or your own inner power you begin to trust in your inner voice and inner intuition. There will be no more room in your life for self doubt; you will simply trust yourself each time you schedule a tantra session. Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to breathe and simply “Be” the more you will begin to have faith in yourself rather than relying on others to guide you.

6. Your Quality of Life Improves

Tantra yoga teaches you self discipline because we do everything slowly together and I teach you how to curb your impulses and your natural inclination to get to the “good stuff” first.

Whether you decide you wish to hire me to focus on your pleasure only or you wish to learn the art of sexual orgasm I am here to teach you how to touch with intention and with slowness so that you are not rushing into anything for the sole purpose of an end goal.

There is no end result we need to achieve. Our shared time is considered sacred and life in itself is an act of celebration and we make mistakes and learn along the way. Its okay to make mistakes and repeat sessions for the sake of learning how to slow down.

We focus on the present moment and we are not worried about where you were or what you need to become. We share a moment in time during our tantra ceremony and I teach you how to expand time so that you can no longer feel the passage of time and space.

Men who are concerned about ejaculatory control or premature ejaculation will find benefits to spending time practicing tantra massage and tantra breath with me. I will make sure you are not worried about an end result. You will feel more composed and secure so that your quality of life will improve as you keep yourself focused on the now.

8. Acquire Abundance

So you are probably wondering how abundance comes into play with our sacred ceremony. After all you are spending good money to see me and you wish to invest your money into a positive experience that will potentially benefit you emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially.

There is a special sacred ceremony we can partake in together during your session and it is called a Muladhara Chakra awakening or prostate activation.

Prostate massage is a gateway to help you establish a better sense of trust and self awareness. You learn to let go as I gently penetrate you with my finger and send you healing but powerful energy that will help awaken your kundalini energy and bring you the abundance you crave.

I personally find that men who are by nature very secure in their ability to make a good living love prostate massage the most and they are completely open and trusting feeling waves of insurmountable pleasures as I activate their prostate.

It is interesting to note that men who have a hard time giving up “control” and men who do not feel completely secure have a tendency to tighten up and feel nervous as I attempt to activate their kundalini energy this way.

Everything takes practice and patience and if the thought of acquiring abundance intrigues and excites you; but the thought of being penetrated repulses and alarms you then we can take slow steps getting you to the point where you trust me enough to stimulate you in this way.

I can assure you that if this idea appeals to you but you are too afraid you can let me know your boundaries ahead of time and I can still activate your prostate from the outside without fully penetrating your anal area.

Energy is energy and intentions can carry energy just as skillfully as a more firm touch or caress.

9. Combat Stress and Fatigue

Tantra massage is a gateway to helping you combat fatigue and stress due to adrenal fatigue failure.

During my sessions I place a very strong emphasis on your core which is your third Chakra or solar plexus. Your solar plexus is your mini solar system and helps you with your intuition as it helps you with body signals.

I am sure you know what it’s like to feel butterflies in your stomach right before a performance, a speech or before meeting with someone you have deep feelings for.

Your stomach carries a great deal of stress and so I will be massaging your tummy during our session so you can feel safe and loved. This massage aides your digestive system and encourages your body to produce less cortisol so you are not in a constant state of fight or flight.

If you see me on a regular basis I can assure you you will be on your way to greater rest, less stress, and you can start losing weight with ease.

During your belly massage I will encourage you to take deep, slow belly breaths and all this deep breathing will improve your energy levels and get oxygen flowing to your brain and other organs decreasing your fatigue and helping you to get to a prolonged feeling of ecstasy when we address your erogenous zones.

Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantra massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantra focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress levels as a result of your tantra ceremony.

In summary if you want to gift yourself the pleasure of unsurpassed sensuality, dedicated deep tissue massage and the ability to withhold and sustain heightened sensory awareness then call me immediately and schedule an extended tantra ceremony with me soon!

Please read my personal website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of ceremonial options then call me directly 312-339-7707

Goddess Diana
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*
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The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Chicago Tantra Massage presented authentically by Goddess Diana

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
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I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer