What exactly happens during a Couples Tantra ceremony

What actually happens at couple tantra sessions? Will having a 3rd person in personal space eventually lead us to a threesome?

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Diana Grossman

Tantra Master, Massage therapist, Reiki Master

Hello πŸ‘‹ I find myself to be extremely ✨ helpful here because I’m a leading tantra educator and tantra practitioner in Chicago, Illinois.

I just received a call from a very deluded man who assumed if he hired me for couples tantra all three of us would be engaged in a sexual threescore.

I myself am celibate and never engage in sexual intercourse with my students.

During my couples tantra massage I teach both partners how to breathe properly during the art of giving their lover a tantra massage and help them access kundalini energy.

I focus on reiki, nurturing touch, Lingham..honoring, yoni worship and balancing of the Chakras. I do not want to witness these couples engage in the sexual act of kama sutra nor do I offer it to my clients.

Tantra is about aligning all your chakras with your partners, eye gazing, unconditional love and boundaries. Tantra is not about wild sex or engaging in orgies. Tantra involves the co creation of sacred space ✨ and honoring the divine within yourself and your partner.

I ask you to refrain from contacting me if your intentions as a couple are impure in nature. I’m not interested in watching the two of you engage in sexual intercourse in front of me. I’m also not interested in getting involved in a threesome.

I’m a tantra massage therapist and teacher. I’m not a kama sutra coach.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website if you’d love a list of options and by all means please send me an email if seeking an opportunity to learn couples tantra massage

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Empowerent via a Tantra ceremony

Did you know #tantra is the quickest route to access and take back your personal power?

There are no short cuts to Good Health but I’ve had clients tell me one session with me saved them trips and visits to a psychologist. I’m not bashing the mental health field; but I’m saying that how you view yourself affects your physical well being.

For instance if you suffer from chronic gut issues it indicates an imbalance in your 3rd chakra (solar plexus).  You would need to understand how to send positive healing messages to your belly to help heal whatever is going on in your gut.

During my #chicagotantra ceremonies I employ breathwork, sound healing, Aromatherapy and nurturing touch.  I help you activate any trapped energies encouraging your kundalini to awaken which is used like medicine πŸ’Š for your body to heal itself.

You are encouraged to send me an introductory email πŸ“§ Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com 

if you wish to explore your energy in a safe, non judgmental setting

Please visit my main website πŸ™ for a full list of possibilities http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Contact me directly 312 339 7707 to book either a session or paid coffee β˜• consultation

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly πŸ¦‹

#chicagotantra empowers you

Tantra teaches us to establish boundaries & be honest with ourselves

When I first started my career in this industry I was a huge people pleaser. Other people’s needs including my client’s and friends always came before my needs.
I wasn’t one to cancel a promise or a date unless I was DEATHLY ill.
I didn’t realize what a huge disservice I was doing to myself by putting myself last till my physical well being and emotional frame of mind deteriorated.
I’d stifle and store up my pent up frustration and disappointment till I’d explode breaking those bonds with friends and clients irreparably.
Now I temper and pace myself and I’ve aligned myself to attract clients who understand and respect my limitations and boundaries.

tantra will Give you your backbone back

Your chakras will be activated and you will have no choice left but to find your own voice and use your intuition instead of relying upon others to make these choices for you.
It’s #Martinlutherkingday and I’m here available to help set up and co create #sacredspace with you if you want the opportunity to clear out what doesn’t suit you anymore– whether it’s intolerable living conditions, a stale job, or unhealthy toxic relationships.

You shouldn’t spend your days walking on eggshells πŸ₯š

chicagotantra πŸ•‰ invokes empowerment

Never forget who you are
Endeavor to protect those who haven’t found their voice.

Do you feel a connection to what I write ✍

Do you feel comfortable working with me based on my blog and my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly πŸ¦‹

If you are ready to choose me as your tantra guide please follow the link to my online Chicago based tantra website here—>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Send me an introductory email to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Please include your full legal name and profession for Verification purposes

Send me a few links to your social media profiles such as LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and Google and give me a brief synopsis of your goals, expectations and budget.

I accept new students and couples seeking a solid and unique journey of the Chakras.

It’s Martin Luther King Day

Celebrity restaurants: Evelyn Nesbit’s tea room

Restaurant-ing through history

Hundreds, maybe thousands, of celebrities have gone into the restaurant business when their careers waned. Their level of direct involvement may be high or low but all these ventures bank on the idea that a famous name will attract customers.

When Evelyn Nesbit opened her NYC tea room in May of 1921 she made sure that her name was prominently displayed. Located on West 52nd street just off Broadway, the sign saying β€œEvelyn Nesbit’s Specialty Shop” was visible from the theater district’s Great White Way.

She was then in her mid-30s, years away from her peak as a teenage artist’s model [above, age 16], β€œGibson Girl,” Floradora showgirl, and millionaire’s wife. Her fame derived not only from her former good looks – from the years her image was displayed everywhere – but also from her involvement in a romantic triangle with prominent architect Stanford White and her insanely jealous husband…

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Don’t be shy! Book your Chicago tantra ceremony with me soon!

Surprisingly many professionals would love to try my services; but they’re more in love with the idea and concept πŸ’‘ of #tantra and fearful of forging ahead.

#tantramassage is a wonderful way to amp up your energy while healing trauma and balancing your #chakras

I’m working with your #kundalini energy that you might not even be aware of.

Together we activate these #chakras (power stations) within your physical & spiritual bodies πŸ™Œ to keep you in a positive place of self love & self awareness ❀

Join me soon & introduce yourself to me initially w/ an introductory πŸ“§ email—Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
let me know who you are, what you do, your background in #alternativehealing and 2 major goals you wish to achieve

Im always accepting new students ✨ even if you haven’t had prior experience in #reiki or #chicagotantra

Please refer to my main website here —>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Interested in a Workshop? If you are a group of three couples let’s all plan an afternoon of fun together here in Chicago’s Gold Coast! I can work with your small group and teach all of you some basic fundamentals of tantra massage so all of you will leave understanding how to offer your spouse an authentic tantra massage.

Contact me soon 312 339 7707 πŸ•‰

My work as a tantra practitioner is fulfilling hope to see you soon!

I intend to work this weekend–> not because I have to; but because I want to.


A new client from India visited me recently this week and asked me questions and one of his questions really stuck out.


He asked me if I get bored with my job since I do this every day.Β  I was very surprised and amused and gave him the simplest answer.
I said If I were miserable and bored I’d find another job to do.


I love my job…I hate NOT BEING BUSY!

I AM available every day at any time with proper notice, Preverification and a Deposit….

#tantra is a fulfilling and satisfying journey of self awareness, self healing and self empowerment.

When a client meets me in the middle, follows the breathing instructions and allows the process to unfold Miracles happen within one’s body and mind.  It’s not a fluffy for entertainment purpose experience although I will not judge anyone for needing a blissful escape as their main goal.

I’m available this weekend
contact me if interested in a #chicagotantra ceremony for yourself or as a couple

#soundhealing #chakrabalancing #couplestantra

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
312 339 7707

Rituals and Sacred Space define Tantra

Have a lovely #chanukah & #Merryyule no matter what you practice & where you are on your path I consider myself to be Spiritual but not Religious.

I practiced #Judaism in my family home but once my Hebrew studies were formally over & I left my parent’s home I consider myself to be a Mystic and not a strict  follower of any religion or religious figures.

I love Ritual and I love playing with energy, balancing #chakras & connecting people with their higher power.  We all have the capability of opening our 3rd πŸ‘ and our unlocking our #kundalini

email me tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com if interested in learning more

#chicagotantra #yogini #reikimaster #soundhealing

You don’t have to be religious to engage in the co creation of sacred space. You don’t have to be an expert with the breath or practice yoga daily to get something out of our time together.

I welcome anyone who sincerely wishes to try alternative healing with a sensual twist. My sessions will enhance your intuition and empower your latent energies. You can be Catholic, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim β˜ͺ️ or an Agnostic to reap the benefits of reiki combined with chakra balancing and full body kundalini activation.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I have mini half day workshops for couples and singles and you can begin a basic tantra ceremony with a commitment of 90 minutes on up to a full day.

Happy holidays and I hope to see you as soon as this weekend. I will be available on Christmas Eve πŸŽ„ Christmas πŸŽ„ Day and New years Eve. Hope to see you

It’s the slow 🐌 season for sex workers

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and it’s just come to mind that I point out the obvious to my clients who live here in Chicago that the winter months are the slowest time of year for people who live here full time.

Chicago tends to have much more tourism and conventions during our most desirable seasons such as Spring and summer and if you pay close attention hotel rates are extremely high during our warmer months because EVERYONE wants to be a part of our outside music, art and restaurant events.

If you want to take advantage of cheaper hotel rates though I’d advise all tourists and Businesses to visit Chicago during our dead πŸ’€ season…our coldest months like December, January and February. Book πŸ“– a session with your favorite Tantra Goddess; whether it’s me or another person you prefer. I guarantee your tantra practitioner will be grateful πŸ™ for the opportunity to work since our phones go quiet at this time of year and our work opportunities go fallow.

Perhaps you live too far away to make a visit happen or you yourself are feeling the economic crunch. You can still send gift cards to your favorite Goddess or write ✍ positive reviews of their services online as a means of showing your support.

We all need your support; especially if we run our own tiny tantra practice. We rely on word of mouth so if you know of a close friend or family member that might need healing touch let them know we exist. Send your friends links to our websites first though just to give them extra information beforehand so they can make an educated choice for themselves. Tantra massage isn’t everyone’s cup of tea so give them detailed information before you give them the phone number of your favorite tantra Goddess here in Chicago.

Here’s my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Happy Holidays and if you found yourself losing your sense of humor or inner joy be sure to take care of yourself. Tantra is a soothing way to explore your energy ✨ while activating your heart center β™₯

Tantra helps you clear trauma, heal your heart, activate your intuition and express your boundaries.

Never forget to honor yourself as you take care of people around you. Book sessions on a regular basis with someone you trust instead of just once in a blue moon. And don’t forget to keep your tantra Goddesses busy and appreciated during Chicago’s slow season.

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

#chicagotantra #yogini #couplestantra #reikimaster #tantraretreats

Misconceptions about Tantra and Delightful side effects of the healing process of tantra massage ceremonies

Well I haven’t been inspired to post for a while because I ran out of ideas; but last Thursday I met a very lovely Indian Ceo who provided me with an exciting outlook on his experiences during our two hour tantra ceremony.

I’m a believer in the healing powers of sacred touch and I make the time to receive at least one type of bodywork per week just for myself and to heal my mind and decompress.

I have not been busy unfortunately since last Thursday because everyone calling me was either extremely rude, very shy or misunderstanding the purpose of tantra massage. I tend to turn people away who are not in alignment with alternative healing and tantra yoga. I’d rather work with new guests who would appreciate my offerings and enjoy subtle energy and bodywork.

Last Thursday was different though because I noticed my new client knew exactly what he wanted– an opportunity to let go and receive vital energy.

During our time together he told me he saw a black tree in his mind’s eye πŸ‘ and that beautiful colors of white, green, and purples were surrounding the 🌳 tree’s branches and flowers πŸ’ gathered everywhere. I let him go into great detail of everything he saw and felt. He shared that most of the energy was pulsating around his heart and torso during his kundalini Awakening.

He had no idea why all these colors were everywhere so I explained that when our chakras are aligned and activated you can actually see the colors affiliated with each major chakra body. Seeing the color green means your heart ❀ chakra is open; seeing white and purple πŸ’œ lights signifies your crown chakra and Ajna have been activated. Our crown chakra is our connection to our higher selves and pranic..energies such as Chi. When our crown chakra is activated we can see beautiful white and purple lights and have a stronger more vital connection to Source or God energies.

You see you simply can’t learn about tantra yoga by reading a book or scanning information on YouTube or online on Google. Tantra is a legitimate and viable form of yoga that heals parts of your Soul, aligns your energy bodies (chakras), speeds up your metabolism, detoxifies, and opens up your intuition (ajna).

My new client got up to use my restroom frequently during our time together too because all forms of massage and energywork encourages waste product to move out of your body. He said he felt lighter like he had lost weight which obviously is a positive side effect of tantra yoga and massage therapy.

Tantra isn’t just about receiving a sensual massage. Tantra isn’t a fluffy experience where I merely focus on your pleasure. My tantra sessions are a unique journey of the chakras where I implement sound healing, breathwork coaching and deep tissue massage on your tight muscles. You will definitely feel lighter, more grounded and centered. You will feel tingly and the world 🌎 around you will be more rich and colorful.

If you are seeking compassionate and nurturing touch please visit my main website first–>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website and then simply call me directly 312 339 7707 or email πŸ“§ me for a faster response here

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

You don’t have to write me a novel in your email but do include your goals, your full legal name, your profession, social media about yourself online and how many hours you’re seeking. I’d love to work with you if you are trying to achieve full body kundalini Shakti. If you are extremely sensitive to energy you will appreciate my offerings.

Hope to see you soon in Chicago’s Gold Coast ✨

Goddess Diana

certified tantra educator

certified reiki master

certified massage therapist

Available for paid coffee β˜• consultations and phone consultations

Couples tantra is available and tiny workshops in groups of three couples are welcomed if interested 🌟

Testimonials make me feel fulfilled πŸ‰

There’s nothing more satisfactory than meeting new tantra guests who are open to giving me a chance and an opportunity to work with them and introducing them to authentic tantra.

There are many tantra goddesses here in Chicago now all with different skill sets, techniques and unique gifts

Every Goddess has preferences including a special rapport with clients who are extremely receptive and responsive to energy work.

If you accidentally found this blog online please πŸ™ go directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com it’s taken me years to perfect my craft and my techniques are always evolving to suit the needs of my clients.

Running a blog and a website brings me such pleasure and the reason why I continue to create fresh material πŸ™Œ for my readers is because I wish to attract the right guests who will appreciate my combination of tantra yoga, chakra balancing, trigger point massage, reiki, kundalini activation and aromatherapy.

New Testimonials also help me align myself to the best audience seeking a journey of the chakras. I always appreciate new Testimonials so if you’ve seen me in the past please consider sending me a couple of thoughtful πŸ’• paragraphs describing your experience and simply include how the energy made your body feel. I do reward guests with discounts towards a future session for well written reviews. Send one to my email πŸ“§ account tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and your confidentiality will be assured if you prefer to use an Alias instead of your legal name.

Here’s an example of a review that was recently sent to me this Sunday afternoon–>

My experience with goddess Diana was such a blissful experience! I was quite nervous in the beginning, even during booking the appointment. However, the anxiety lifted the minute we spoke on the phone. I felt like I had known her for years, and I’m very introverted so this was a big deal for me. She was extremely helpful in suggesting what sessions would be best for what I was looking for and made me feel more comfortable asking questions.

My actual session was just incredible! Although I did bring a bit of those nerves with me upon initially meeting her, she quickly dissolved them with a relaxing series of breathing and connection exercises. I learned how to remove those walls that I tend to naturally put up with in meeting new people and learned to simply just be! I felt so relaxed and relieved by the time our session ended, that I am already looking to book another session with my new Goddess!Β 

As you can see my client’s legal name hasn’t been revealed nor his email address. I would be so grateful if any of my old or new clients would take some time out to write ✍ me a testimonial so I can help people understand the value of alternative healing, breathwork and kundalini activation.