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Chicago Tantra Goddess Diana

Greetings! Today is Monday February 10th and we are now formally immersed in the tail end of our Chicago winter season.

The purpose of today’s new blog entry is manifold and so I hope everyone reading this article today will be compelled to let go of their fear, introduce themselves to me soon and begin their first journey into tantra here in Chicago.

In the past I was virtually one of three major tantra teachers and tantra providers available for hire within the city of Chicago.  I started my career path as a sensual massage therapist in my early twenties and in the past my clients could easily find my nude massage services printed in a free publication known as The Chicago Reader.

The Chicago Reader had a section known as Adult Classifieds and because the newspaper was privately owned the Reader would allow all sex educators, bdsm professionals and sex workers to purchase advertising.

Our advertising fees are what helped keep the Chicago Reader thriving and business was stable and always good for me because all of Chicagoland had easy access to our content and contact information.

Life was so much less complex and convoluted back in the 1980’s and 1990’s because we didn’t rely so heavily on social media platforms to be found online.  Clients could simply pick up a copy of the Chicago Reader and turn to the Adult section to acquire the services of their favorite providers and or new providers to satisfy their needs for adult fun or sensual healing.

At a very young age I was always studying alternative healing techniques and learning more about the chakra bodies and reiki.  I decided that I’d love to try out the sex industry field because it seemed intriguing and a fun way to make money and meet new people.

I had no premeditated thoughts regarding the adult entertainment industry; I simply plunged in by purchase a pager because we didn’t have cell phones yet and I purchased my first ad with the Reader.

Now the Chicago Reader no longer has an adult section and let’s be honest people now rarely read printed papers anymore because they can just use their cellphones and search for services using a Google search.

Well if you found me here now please have patience with my stream of consciousnessness writing. I promise I’ll always be honest and be as descriptive as possible when you read my blog or read information on my main tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

Times have most definitely changed and I’ve moved away from Chicago multiple times during my career only to find a huge surge of other tantra professionals have moved here permanently.

Most of the tantra professionals now divide their time between Chicago and their own hometown to keep their work opportunities fluid.  The market for tantra now here is overwhelming and oversaturated and my efforts to be seen here now on the internet have made it necessary for me to continue to be seen here on social media.

My budget is tight these days so I am much more conservative with my spending and I’m not investing in SEO services like my competitors.

My only endeavor is to spread positive energy with people who are seeking authentic traditional tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicagoland.

My focus is on alternative healing, tantra yoga, breathing instructions, cuddle therapy, sound healing, hypnosis, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and spa retreats.

Part if the reason I’m writing today is to emphasize to all new clients to formally introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable responding to your questions over the phone.

You need to provide your full legal name to be considered for a future session and I always accept and accommodate same day requests for tantra in Chicago from anyone who introduces themselves to me over the phone, via my contact form or my email address tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

I have so many interesting and informative articles on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com that you should not have too many questions for me. In the event that you find yourself unsure about which ceremony to choose I suggest we meet in person for a paid coffee consultation so you feel comfortable moving forward.

Just understand that the term tantra yoga itself is esoteric and reading about tantra yoga is not the same as experiencing a tantra massage for yourself in real time. You have to decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the plunge and indulge in a session.  You can spend money on a coffee consultation and at least meet me in person to carefully go over my website with me so I can advise you before you decide to invest on a half day, full day or 90 minute tantra immersion.

The following paragraphs you read are taken directly from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so you can understand more about my writing style and my tantra offerings. Please take time to read my main website at your leisure and only ask me educated questions if you’re still confused.

In accordance with traditional hindu Yogis and buddhist Tantra practices. The Sanskrit word Anahata literally means unstruck or unbeaten. The sound of this sacred chakra is the sound of serenity and completeness within one’s self and all chaos is destroyed by this powerful sound of self love.
Too many times during the day we can forget how important positive self talk can be after dealing with people we encounter either through our casual encounters or our repetitive dealings with people in our work environment.
Do you ever catch yourself hunching over and caving in your chest after receiving negative feedback from a colleague or after being misjudged by a new person who barely knows you?
It’s impossible for us to avoid pain or hurtful commentary but not impossible for us to have compassion for our mistakes and learn how to correct our self talk and correct our bodily posture so that we can open our heart to receiving love and make ourselves more ready to accept positive feedback.
For instance do you find it difficult to accept compliments? Are you able to smile and warmly receive a genuine hug from a close friend or stranger or do you feel guarded and awkward? I am not asking you to willingly accept all interactions, compliments and random hugs without setting your boundaries. I am simply suggesting that you empower your heart so you can make wiser choices and send loving messages to your own Heart chakra during times of stress.

To read more please log onto my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you would like to schedule a session you may call me directly at 312 339 7707.
When you call me introduce yourself to me formally. I do not answer more than 10 minutes worth of questions unless you introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable.

If you know you definitely have additional questions that last more than ten minutes of my time then commit to a full hour of questions and answers during a paid #coffeeconsultation. Your coffee consultation will allow you to share your goals with me and will also serve as a deposit towards your first tantra ceremony or reiki session.

My blog here serves a purpose.  I want you to have as much information on tantra massage and alternative healing as I can share with you via the written word. I want you to feel comfortable committing to a future session or at least understand that I’m passionate about what I have to offer you.

I don’t like wasting my valuable time with game players who hide their true identity eith aliases or blocked and restricted numbers. In order for me to answer your questions you must first gain my trust just as I’ve taken years to upload public information for everyone to read.

 

Just two wonderful reasons to schedule a tantra ceremony soon ⭐

The following information has been written by me last year or so because I wanted to discuss the fact that tantra yoga is a legitimate form of yoga. Yoga’s purpose is to teach you mindfulness and help you stay in the present time.

Honestly tantra yoga helps balance your metabolism and heals your endocrine system while stimulating your endorphins.

If you’d like to read the full article in it’s complete entirety then just click directly to my main website online
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
And click onto a tab entitled ARTICLES.

Please read and enjoy this excerpt from my website and if you are inspired you may schedule a session with me soon if you are visiting Chicago or Live in Illinois.

Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

If you have any hesitation you may schedule a paid coffee consultation with me. You have absolutely nothing to lose by meeting me in person prior to a session.  You sending me a long narrative via email won’t allow me to help you confront your unnecessary fears and anxieties either.

Once we schedule your first paid coffee consultation I will be listening to you face to face and you will have an opportunity to see how we interact with each other in real time.

Your fee is used as your deposit towards any tantra ceremony of your choosing. You are not obligated to work with me if you decide against scheduling a session with me; but at least your questions were answered and you and I met in person.

I’d love to be your very first tantra guide so once you do decide to meet with me please do not text me as an introduction. I’d rather you send me either a brief introduction or just call my number directly 312 339 7707.

I look forward to meeting you hopefully soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

The process of wellness and healing yourself should be carried out in a joyful and playful way.  Remember that when we begin this process together we are Co Creators of Sacred Space.  The key word here is “together “.

I use my personal powers of intuition, magical intentional touch, reiki, aromatherapy, chakra balancing and tantra knowledge to bring you to a state of deep calm and bliss.  My goal is to awaken and empower you and help activate the dormant kundalini energy within you.

I look forward to helping you receive the healing energies you were born to experience and explore.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

 

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

 

Tantra massage in Chicago

About Diana offull-image-for-tantra Tantra Butterfly

Many of my prospective clients ask me the all important question:

“What exactly is Tantra?”

My initial reaction is to pause and think to myself if I were a new student to this tantric path what would make me wish to continue or begin this new journey? If I were a new student to Tantra what would make me grasp this concept and take this belief system from its place in the esoteric realm to a more solid level of my own understanding? What would I gain in experiencing a tantric healing? Does Tantra simply mean sex? Will the study of this practice heal my old wounds or would it take me into a scary place I do not wish to explore? Of course all new students of Tantra may share these fears and some new students might even fear it will be a shallow or even disappointing experience. All these fears are valid and this is why I am now taking the time to explain a little bit about the word Tantra and what it is I do and the role I play as your tantric teacher and tantric healer.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry . The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole. We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide. A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.

My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Do you have additional questions? Your questions can be answered if you directly follow the link to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My website is explicit and directly to the point. In the event you have issues understanding the tantra verbage then I advise you to schedule a one hour coffee consultation with me and your consultation fee acts as a deposit towards your future tantra massage here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly

Tantra massage in Chicago is geared towards your specific goals.

Tantra massage in Chicago aides in your ability to stay focused in the moment and be fully present to receive healing energies.

Your chakras will be fully accessible and activated during our tantra ceremony here in Chicago.

Kindly read all the information on my tantra massage services here in Chicago or if you are already prepared for this healing journey and process call me directly at 312 339 7707 and let’s share positive energies.

You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

Treat me like you would treat a dear friend and I will easily be inspired to Mirror your thoughtfulness.IMG_20190828_200535_708

Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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Chicago Tantra Massage is for Anyone ready for a healing Journey

I feel the need to write today mostly because I am always spot on correct when I read an email from a new potential client and know deep down they simply wanted to VENT to me but they honestly weren’t Emotionally prepared to begin a tantra ceremony in real life.

In all fairness tantra isn’t for everyone and everyone is motivated by different reasons to try a session whether it’s strictly curiosity, too much personal stress in their life or they love healing connection.

Half the people that reach out to me are high achievers who know what they want and how to get it. They love their partners, love their career and they want a session as a treat because they feel they deserve it.

Other people are involved in reiki, yoga, music and creative pursuits so they crave chakra balancing, and breath coaching along with the sensual touch.

I also receive requests from single mothers, caregivers, independent business owners and men whose wives are chronically ill.  These people are under a lot of stress and so they contract my services as a means of letting go and treating themselves.

Other people want and deeply desire tantra but they don’t fully understand what tantra is. They send me “novels” instead of a brief emails which to me is a “red flag” because it’s almost as if they are trying too hard to convince themselves and me that they are ready to jump in without having spoken to me on the phone or meeting me in person!

I’m not a guru and I truly don’t feel like conning anyone into the false idea that one or even several tantra sessions will shift you from previous abuse into a new paradigm of being victorious.

On the contrary I do believe if you personally have been molested or victimized or similarly violated emotionally and or sexually you need to visit a real counselor like a licensed psychiatrist or talk therapist first.

Sexual molestation is a very harmful blow to your psyche and I certainly don’t wish to trigger anyone who has been molested and hasn’t done some inner healing work first.

I know while reading these emails who is emotionally able to receive kundalini Shakti and who is lying to themselves by the way they express themselves through the written word. I also know that most sexual molestation victims typically can’t reach out on the phone to even talk to me in real time because they may not be ready to start the healing process just yet.

I do receive many earnest emails from new clients who won’t ever call me and that to me speaks volumes because if they can’t use their own throat chakra to express their goals and desires to me or anyone then their personal power is being blocked and it isn’t part of their truth to want a real shift or change to occur.

When I read emails I’m not expecting anyone to really follow through until I hear it in their voice first.  I can always tell who is ready to relax and be healed and who is just too nervous and kidding themselves .

I myself have had a few disappointments with psychic readers who just weren’t tapping into my consciousness. These readers might be great with other people who aren’t as self aware as I am but I do know what it’s like to seek real help and realize no one has the ability to fix me…I have to fix myself.

One tantra session with me will clear away some cobwebs of debris and make you feel more hopeful, motivated and refreshed; but then you yourself are responsible every day afterwards to pursue your own self healing journey, whether it’s counseling, journaling, self reiki, better diet, walks in nature or positive visualization.

Whenever anyone was traumatized I always suggest we meet eachother for coffee first and get together so I can take notes and ascertain what is the very best session I can offer to someone I don’t personally know. I will charge a small fee however because I’m a professional and I’d like to be honored for my time. The fee is nominal and is used as a deposit towards reiki, chakra balancing or tantra for a future session.

I do not feel it’s fair of anyone to expect me to give a free psychic healing or free consultation through email alone or a long phone conversation because it means the new client is feeling me out.  I can’t convince anyone that the time is right for a tantra ceremony or tantra massage.  I’m not dissuading anyone from plunging ahead but when I receive too much information in my first email from a complete stranger and no phone call after I respond to them then I know I’m being lied to.

Only a handful of people who have tried tantra before know that every teacher or tantra yogi presents their sessions individually and if the teacher is any good he or she will use their intuition along with a couple of goals from their new student as a guide.

If I suggest a meet and greet over coffee it’s because I do want to get to know you as a friend so that when we have our first tantra session you won’t be worried or self conscious or scared.

When I meet new guests for coffee it’s because I feel that person needs a nudge and because I feel that individual needs to vent and share more of their story with me.  I only charge $50 for our initial consultation fee and it’s used as a deposit towards any session you choose.

I also encourage everyone to read my website at least once so that they can ask me educated questions rather ask me what my fees are. My fees are determined by the session you choose.  I have many choices on my website from cuddle therapy to reiki to advanced tantra, to Goddess Worship.  I have basic sensual massage all the way up to a full day of spa tantra retreats for people who have the time and the budget.

My ideal candidate is anyone emotionally mature to enjoy a journey of chakra balancing, therapeutic bodywork, reiki, aromatherapy and kundalini tantra massage.  I do not solicit anyone who isn’t psychically ready because that’s a waste of time for everyone involved. I’m not a free, unpaid, advisor.  I am not obligated to continue emailing anyone who can’t simply pick up the phone and find ten minutes out of their day to talk to me like a mature adult.  I do not need to read your life’s history in order to give you a good healing.  I do understand it takes a lot of trust to begin any alternative healing journey and that’s why I recommend meeting me for a paid consultation if you have any doubt prior to meeting me.

I needed to write this article today because I do get frustrated and disappointed when new guests make prejudgments about my skillset or my motivations.  My motivation is to work with new clients who will benefit from my healing touch and who will appreciate and enjoy my services.  I do this work because I’m good at moving energy and I love healing through touch.  I do not however like being used as a free psychotherapist.  I do not need to read through lengthy emails from people who are fooling themselves and trying to fool me.  I do offer paid talk therapy and paid coffee consultations for anyone that has even a shred of doubt.

I hope this article helps you understand that tantra is just one of many healing paths to help you achieve self awareness and balance; but you yourself have to continue following your own path of magic and self love.

If you know you are ready for one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago please call me today at 312 339 7707.  If you want to meet me for coffee this week in Chicago or nearby suburbs I will work around your schedule and have a real time honest discussion with you so you can make an educated choice and give you advice.

My main website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so spend an hour reading it prior to calling me in person.  If you want to break the ice by sending me a brief email you can use my primary contact form or either of these email addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Introduce yourself briefly using your real name so I know you are sincere and so I know you are a legitimate new student of tantra.

You do not need to send me your life story; in fact I discourage you from divulging too much information because part of our tantra ceremony will include us meeting together and chatting briefly before our tantra massage even begins in real time.  We will have ample time to talk about anything you wish once we have our first tantra session together.

Do not be worried if you do not have prior experience in energy work. You are contacting me because you are either curious about what tantra truly is or you’ve had tantra massage and you absolutely love it so you wish to repeat your positive experience with me as your guide.

I’d be delighted and excited to meet you here in Chicago which includes the suburbs of Schaumburg, O’hare, Oakbrook, Elk grove Village, Rosemont and the Magnificent Mile near River North.  I will travel anywhere to you within the city of Chicago or neighboring suburbs.

When you call me directly let me know who you are and briefly introduce yourself to me .  Everything we decide to do will be planned based on your time constraints, budget and personal goals.  FB_IMG_1557631910360

Here’s to a bright new 2019 ♡

Health goals

Hello everyone who happened to find my blog either out of happenstance or because you followed the link directly from my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com!

If you aren’t familiar with astrology I myself always loved reading up on both Eastern and Western astrology ever since I was a teenager and my enthusiasm for Occult studies, Astrology and the Paranormal never wanes instead just like the waxing of the new Moon my curiosity always grows.

During our new moon last week I made sure I focused on some new goals for myself so I lit a very special manifestation candle because candle magick is especially powerful and magically infused as the moon gains in strength.

I trimmed my wavy hair just a bit at the ends to promote healthier growth and I did some self marketing to increase the potential for new clients discovering my offerings online. I also realized that my physical health should be examined more closely. I tend to love sweets especially good chocolate so I did a bit of personal research and read up on the proper way that fruits should be consumed for optimal health and that fruit consumption should be strictly on an empty stomach!

I read up on how fruits are better absorbed when you eat them raw and always before any other food group never after. In other words fruit should be eaten as a dessert rather fruits should be eaten early in the day prior to any other meals you intend to consume. I’ve naturally followed this new diet regime and I must say not only does my stomach feel better but my skin seems to glow more!

Ginger, turmeric and carrot juice

I have also made more of an effort to drink more raw vegetables so it’s much easier to make sure my new health goals are met painlessly and with very little effect on my part.

Tonight and tomorrow our super moon will be in Virgo which translated into Layman’s terms simply means we’ll be shedding layers and unhealthy, unrealistic expectations of what we should be and just be easier on ourselves.

Part of this super moon energy will be our willingness to part ways with toxix situations and or people interfering in our progress to achieve self awareness and contentment. We will stop comparing ourselves to others and become more self accepting rather than materialistic.

This year is also the year of the Boar in Chinese astrology which to me is wonderful news because I was born during the year of the Goat and Boar, Goat and Rabbit make up a triad of creative, peace loving, and emotionally based signs that go very well together! I am prepared to see beautiful changes unfold for 2019 and I hope all of you reading this message will be more mindful of creating small, positive changes in your life rather than focusing on what you don’t have.

If you focus on tiny projects that you know you can potentially accomplish then the impossible goals that no longer serve you won’t seem that essential to your personal happiness.

Goddess Diana
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
I am always available for sponsorships to your city or you can schedule sacred time for yourself here in Chicago while I’m still here.

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

🌷 how to know your psychic reader was a fraud 🌷

Hey audience, I decided to write this article mostly as a reminder to myself and perhaps a cautionary tale to you that not all psychic readings are balanced or particularly healing.

I hadn’t had a legitimate reading in two years mostly because my traveling expenses and separate sets of storage fees give me limited access to fund all my desires.  I was perusing my Facebook feed a few months ago and noticed this well meaning young woman raving about her Facebook friends healing skills.  Naturally I love networking with other healers so I promptly sent this healer a friend request and found out she lives in the Chicago land area.

Later I realized the well meaning girl from new York had never received an actual healing she just thought based on their friendly interactions that Kerri had great healing abilities without actually receiving a real reading over the phone or in person.

Kerri and I had casual interchanges via Facebook messenger and I was seeking someone who could not only give me a clairvoyant reading but karuna…arch reiki for lower back pain I was experiencing.  I told Kerri that I was primarily intrigued about karuna and I was seeking more of an energy healing to open up any potential blocks in my chakras with an emphasis on opening up my opportunities for greater abundance.  Kerri assured me she would do her best to help and also suggested a psychic reading.  She mentioned she hosts a radio show and would even love to have me as a guest speaker to hopefully promote my tantra practice and gain a broader audience.  Of course that never happened ever as I would eventually discover for myself.

One week pain in my body made me  decide to hire a professional massage therapist in Humboldt park who I found to be incredibly profound.  Neil took his time with my spinal column and even tried cupping with me so at the end of our time together I opened up to neil and admitted I would be hiring a psychic for a reading soon.  Neil got very quiet and warned me about giving too much of my power to a complete stranger.  I assured him I’d be careful and as I left his massage studio I noticed how happy I looked and felt.  I felt tingly and much lighter energetically than I had felt in such a long time!

I then contacted Kerri and she was open to the idea of actually picking  me up at the closest train station to her home.  I don’t drive a car  and rely on trains and buses so she would agree to meet me at the closest blue line to her home.  The  next day however I realized there were two completely different Harlem ave stops on the blue line which was confusing and really changed the dynamics of me getting to her. I accidentally got off at the wrong stop and finally about two hours later met Kerri for the first time as she drove up to get me in her car.

Upon meeting Kerri I noticed she wasn’t smiling much but she seemed sincere about wanting to help me so when I entered her home I felt comfortable and confident but she was definitely lacking humor and her stern demeanor made me feel worried.  In fact I had every right to worry because as she shuffled her cards sternly I never felt like a human being I felt judged by her and belittled.  Not once during our session did she even seek anything positive to share with me it was just gloom, doom and tomb!  My God she never even cracked a smile and then when I needed to vent and genuinely express my concern and worries Kerri went on a long rant about her journey as an ex Playboy bunny who is now a single mother and how she just recently got ghosted by her boyfriend.  I spent a good twenty minutes listening to how she continues to prevail amidst all her challenges as a single mother! Then she had the nerve to suggest that I remove all the gallery images on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so that I could attract better clients because she personally felt I wasn’t conveying an image of spirituality!  If you go online and do your own research you will find not hundreds but thousands of erotic photographs of miss Kerri Kendall touching other women, exposing her vulva, making suggestive sexually explicit poses and then you accidentally find her new age website with her psychic readings available and her model mayhem account.  Does that make her less credible?  What made her less credible to me was how horrible I felt about myself as a healer after she spent two full hours belittling me and assuming I had absolutely no knowledge of healing or the chakra bodies after I had told her many times prior on Facebook that I had learned about alternative healing, chakra balancing, reiki, pranic healing, tantra yoga, and hot stone therapy since my early twenties.

Kerri pointed to her rudimentary chakra chart and I simply had to interrupt her and ask her why she didn’t realize that I would already have a real understanding of chakras based on the fact that I practice tantra yoga with my clients.

She apologized and finally lead me to her table where I instantly drifted off and practically fell asleep.  It wasn’t the healing or the reading I was hoping for so at the conclusion of our time together she suggested I purchase an abundance candle for $15 and she then drove me back to the blue line without even using a sage stick on my aura or sealing off my energies!

I finally got back to my space feeling so emotionally raped and unlovable that I went online, did sincere research and actually did find a legitimate psychic reader by the name of Aria who felt my sadness instantly and gave me a real healing!  Aria empowered me and helped me understand the Dynamics of energy vampirism and the techniques energy vampires use to steal their victim’s energy by making their victim feel an emotion strongly.  A vampire doesn’t need happy or positive energy rather the energy can be morose, fearful or purely anger based.  After I got off the phone with Aria Norman I felt instant relief and Aria insisted on letting me know I was so intuitive I didn’t have to hire psychics ever again and she refused to charge me for her advice just so I could heal.

My advice to anyone is to be super selective about choosing your clairvoyant reader.  A good reader will want to give you positive solutions and any true psychic doesn’t need to rely on tarot cards as a crutch or tool!  A legitimate psychic reader is never judgmental of your path! If they can’t comprehend what true gifts you already possess yourself then you can assume they are purposefully placing you in a weakened emotional state so that you become doubtful and dependent upon their future assistance with endless readings that will ultimately leave you spiritually bankrupt.

If you yourself are in need of reiki, healing touch, guided visualization and traditional tantra massage please go directly to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com now and spend time reading my articles, my testimonials and my chakras section.  I’m a highly intuitive tantra guide with over twenty years of experience in alternative healing practices and the paranormal.  Once you feel you are ready for your own special journey simply call me directly at 312-339-7707 and feel free to fill out my contact form being completely honest about your short term goals and expectations.  Tantra is a heart  💓 conscious journey and I am sincere in my intentions to help you feel limitlessness, weightless and transcendental.received_10102650271916000.gif