Archive for February, 2023
February 27, 2023 No comments

Choosing a tantra healer for skillset rather than physical appearance

Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.

I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website.  Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.

So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.

By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.

Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.

New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.

Thanks for following my blog.

If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.

February 15, 2023 No comments

Couples Tantra in Chicago’s Gold Coast by Goddess Diana

A Question to ponder ~>
Are all relationships Equal? 
When you find someone you feel a strong affinity for do you feel Butterflies 🦋
In your belly when they enter the room?
Do you feel crushed & devastated when they break plans with you? 🩺💔

One person may love  more than the other… The individual who gives more to the relationship is going to get hurt the most.

I see this ALL THE TIME when new couples reach out to me. It might be married partners or dating couples but I can always tell who is more committed and devoted to solidify the bond.

When one partner acts wishy washy and or hesitant about working with me it’s typically because that individual isn’t 100% committed to the relationship.

I remember a female CEO reached out to me last year around this time. She was gung-ho about scheduling several hours with me and said price wasn’t a factor and that her husband had been engaging in extramarital affairs but she still adored him, they had 2 kids and she felt comfortable with me and wanted to bring renewed excitement into her marriage.  It was worth it to her.
She was determined to book a #couplestantra ceremony with me–but guess what? Her husband wasn’t ready…he decided it wasn’t worth his time and there you have an answer

He was ok with how things were in their marriage.  He could indulge in affairs, remain married and continue on his path.  His wife I’m sure was crushed or maybe they found someone else to work with. I’m going to safely assume she was the Giver in the relationship.

I’m not suggesting all relationships are like this but most of the couples who end up not working with me chose not to because one person in the relationship didn’t want to progress and they were happy with everything as is because they didn’t have to work hard to please their partner.

My prerequisite before working on couples is very basic
I want the full legal name & professional background of both partners for verification purposes

I want to know the goals of each partner (separately)
I’m working on two different people so I need twice as much information

I want 24 hours & a substantial deposit

I’m doing most of the work and trust me I do get drained after teaching new students of tantra all the basic fundamentals of chakras, breathing, yoni worship, lingam honoring, sacred spot massage and therapeutic couples massage.

All couples must read my website thoroughly http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

After carefully reading my website please send me an email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or paid phone consultation with me to discuss anything you wish.

As always I welcome everyone to book a tantra ceremony with me whether you have a partner or not.

Couples tantra requires much more energy and attention to detail so there will be a considerable price difference.

Thanks for reading 📚 my blog and feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly to learn more.
February 8, 2023 No comments

Establish your goals & boundaries regarding #chicagotantra before we meet

No one likes to be disappointed after receiving a massage and so it’s completely up to you to delineate healthy boundaries prior to receiving a holistic service.

On Monday morning 🌄 I woke up in extreme pain…my jaw ached, my neck muscles ached, and my shoulders were stiff.

I was in so much pain I tried to force vomit to change the pressure in my skull 💀 cavity and that actually did bring me some form of relief.

I decided to book myself a last minute massage 💆‍♀️ and instead of my Therapist letting me relax all she wanted to do was pry about my life because I made the mistake of telling her I was a massage Therapist too.

She was incessant and I did tell her where the areas of pain were in my body and even though I mentioned it was sinus related she started me facedown in the massage cradle.

I should have spoken up and suggested we begin face up first but I deferred to her wishes instead hoping for the best.

After about 25 minutes of laying facedown I spoke up and stated it’s gotten to the point where laying face down is aggravating my sinus cavities and we need to finish face up so we can work on my TMJ issues.

She knew rudimentary moves but not advanced myofascial release and the massage was “decent enough ” but I still left the table in pain and felt a bit better.

What shocked me though is upon payment I was charged 165 for a 50 minute massage 💆‍♀️ because gratuity was built into the experience and this most definitely wasn’t a medical grade massage.

I left absolutely disappointed because I spent my session chit chatting and answering questions about my massage practice with my masseuse and entertaining her instead of being allowed to fully relax.

I’m sharing these details with all of you because I don’t wish to ruin anyone’s #tantra massage ceremony when booking a session with me.

I want you to tell me how much pressure you need, where the areas of soreness reside, whether you love chit chat or complete silence and how often you need a bathroom break.

it’s your session and your time to decompress so let me know more about your goals and don’t feel bad about interrupting the flow of the session by taking breaks, asking for water and telling me you need a blanket.

The co creation of #sacredspace is about both of us feeling comfortable and accepted. 
We both need to communicate our needs and honor one another’s boundaries.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

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send me an introductory email 📧
to
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
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312 339 7707
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Let’s work together soon ❤