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January 27, 2016 No comments

Check into your Feelings using Tantra as your Tool here in Virginia Beach

Good afternoon! Writing is part of my journey and part of my self medicating process because I spend a good part of the day alone when I am not in Sacred Ceremony.

I wanted to share some common knowledge about how Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage is a gateway to tap into your intuition, gain greater balance of your emotions and simply feel more hopeful.

I am also going to hopefully alert a few people here in Virginia Beach of my existence so while I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia I’d love to make myself available for any man or woman who needs and feels a desire to connect with themselves and feel more in command of their bodies and emotions.

Tantra is a shared energy ceremony where you and I connect. I breathe with you and my hands are always in contact with your body so I might coach you to breathe deeply into certain areas of your chakras so you are aware of how powerful your own energy is. Once again Tantra and Reiki are not separate entities. Just because you called me and you were drawn to Tantra to somehow rejuvenate your sensory awareness and sensual energy does not mean you will leave my space with only your sensual energy awakened; you will leave refreshed, more intuitive, more balanced, calmer and fully fed.

Energy is energy whether I choose to share my sensual energies with someone or simply administer healing touch that is non sensual in nature you are still going to feel a surge of your own energy running through you, streaming through each of your chakra bodies and giving you a sense of calm, inner strength and warmth.

So many people go around needlessly absorbing other people’s energies like a psychic sponge or toxic waste dump. If you are an empath or if you realize you are an extra sensitive soul you might feel agitated after immersing yourself amongst others and you might not realize it but you are carrying energies that do not belong to you. During these moments when you find yourself becoming irritable it is now time for you to administer a bit of psychic healing on yourself by breathing into all areas of your body and placing your hands on your crown chakra, your throat chakra, your solar plexus and other areas that give cause for concern because this is self administered reiki/chakra healing.

My other suggestion for ridding yourself of negative energies is to spritz yourself and your home with palo santo spray. A brand that I recommend is found in whole foods market and is made by The Crystal Garden, Inc. It is medicinal, high grade, organic palo santo placed in a spritz bottle and convenient if you are not allowed to use fire in your hotel room or work place. I spritz my aura with it throughout my sessions and spritz my guests before and after tantra ceremonies to simply cleanse and activate the chakras so there is no psychic debris carried into our ceremony from other unclean energies that may have been brought into our sacred circle.

Honestly breathing is the easiest way to cleanse your aura so when you consciously take time out in your day or evening to breathe slowly and deeply in and out you are allowing yourself to ground back into your body and place yourself back into a safe place with the forces of the earth. We can’t just rely on ourselves to replenish we have to ground with the earth’s energies and deep breathing allows you to feel your body connect back to Source.

When you commit to a tantra healing you are engaging in breath, touch, mindfulness and magic. Our shared time is about co creation and sending healing vibes back and forth with common touch, common breath and intentions. I will bring you back into your body with breath coaching and keep you in the moment as I touch you gently or forcefully. Touch is the most vital medicine when you are on a path of self healing. If you find yourself doubting your own choices or feeling extra “touchy” and or combative then it’s time for you to work on your spiritual body and visit me for Tantra yoga and massage. I am not asking your to separate your physical needs from your bodily needs I am simply making you aware that there is no separation from body and spirit when you are on a path of self discovery.

Let me be your Muse here in Virginia Beach. I would love to help you heal old wounds and be a master of your own body again.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Here in the body of my essay is a beautiful goddess painting by the artist Chie Yoshii who celebrates the Goddess form in all her works of art. I am quite fond of Chie Yoshii and her honoring of the divine feminine.

January 24, 2016 No comments

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

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So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
Giorgione~

January 21, 2016 No comments

Virginia Beach, Virginia is for Lovers of Tantra ❤ and couples Coaching.

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My travels have now taken me to Virginia Beach Virginia this week and I am quite in awe of the few wonderful new guests and lovers of Tantra I have met here!
Tantra is a very organic, natural experience which takes you into a state of deep trance and peacefulness. Many people here in Virginia Beach are already aware of the serenity of Tantra Massage and Tantra Yoga but I love to take my practice a notch or two or step above and beyond what you should normally experience during a Tantra frame of mind.
If you find yourself listless or just craving touch Tantra will recharge you because all touch held with sacred intentions can release your body’s abilities to heal itself.
Tantra is about conjoining your sacred energy with the person in front of you and being in a state of non judgement as you pass positive energy back and forth between each other.
If you feel yourself getting nervous or self conscious during a session with your Tantra Partner here in Virginia Beach just know I can help you feel less aware of your separateness just be the act of holding hands with me and breathing deeply or spooning each other with slow deep rhythmic breathing techniques.
I have never before been to Viginia Beach, Virginia and this happens to be the “off season” where people tend to want to stay at home during the colder weather. This is the ideal moment to join me for intimate healing and letting lose and shedding your layers.
I personally invite anyone here traveling through Viriginia Beach to receive my unique tantra healings. For me ❤ Tantra is always heart centered, mindful touch that transcends you, stimulates you, challenges you to reach deeper and simply makes your body and mind smile.
I love the interaction and cuddles that come as a care package with my vocation. If I were not such a lover of sensitive and caring, thoughtful touch I would never wish to engage on this level of deep intimacy with anyone. There is a difference here between raw, carnal, empty touch and skilful, respectful touch that heals you, vibrates you and makes you feel sacred.
Please give me a try. My main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com is entertaining and I wrote each article from my heart as I keep changing my mindset and my personal journey as a Tantra healer and educator.
I hope to work with open minded lovers of Tantra yoga here in Virginia Beach and I am always excited to be sponsored if you have a workshop setting where you would like me to teach your small group of excited tantra couples anywhere in the Virginia or Washington D.C. area.

I try and keep myself child like and refrain from judging as I meet new people in all cities. What is most important to me is connecting with the right energies and the right group mind set where new guests are seeking to exchange some moments of blissfulness here in Virginia beach and elsewhere. Tantra is not about changing who you are but about the enhancement of your unique sensitivities. When you become more sensitive and self aware you become more “mystic”. We are all mystics on a journey. We learn that colors can heighten and intensify as we become one with the breath. Breathing and eye gazing are just two focal points of Tantra Yoga. When we let go enough simply to surrender to the moment we realize we are not separate from each other but intimately connected to each other no matter how different we “appear” to be.

Being separate is only the “illusion” and the natural state of Being is attaining a mindset of non judgement where touching is sacred and the placing of our hands from heart to sacrum helps open up our old wounds and “scarring” or scar tissue from the battle of being misunderstood.