Archive for August, 2012

Being Spritual has Nothing to Do with Suffering ♥❤

The healing work I do is in service first and foremost to the Goddess and The Wounded Warrior.

What is a wounded Warrior?  The wounded warrior is healer who selflessly sets aside time to his closest friends.  He is a shaman, he is a poet, he is a thoughtful friend and he will go out of his way to make sure you are comforted during a crisis.

And here is where I come in the picture.  I am a Muse or a divine priestess of unconditional light.  Now

this does not mean that I am a punching bag for what ails you but I am here to assist in any way even if only to make you relax in the present with me and focus on sensory pleasures through essential oil scents or the lightest stroke of my fingertips on your skin.

Sensual healing or abandon in Eros is a gift we must receive. It keeps us alive and it gives us hope if we can find something joyful to look forward to.  In order to give your very best you must restore and balance your own energy and to deprive yourself a natural impulse is to deny that your body even exists in this space and time.   We ground our senses through the first chakra known as the base chakra.  When we get a true sense of our sexual energy we cord firmly to the present and we align ourselves to the very core of the Earth.  We are like trees.  We need water, sunlight and a pristine environment that sends us unconditional love.   We branch out when we feel secure and loved. 


Goddess Energy is healing energy and it is the fountain of hope and youth.  When you are able to achieve full body orgasm you remain vital, active and refreshed.  Your skin glows and your mind becomes clearer with your truest intentions.  During Tantric yoga we learn that the initial intention directs our focus and our energies.  Don’t simply exist in your present reality.  Learn how to master your sensory gifts and expand your consciousness.  Set aside some ME time and be decadent!Image

Tantra teaches us how to honor Our Divine Feminine ❤♡

Ideally I recommend women schedule a two hour healing with me for their first journey into tantra and Yoni empowerment.

Why do we need so much time?  Because women were born with the natural ability to have multiple waves of orgasmic bliss and thus we are very blessed and very fortunate –we are naturally tantric!

Our goals may all be varied.  Perhaps you are out of tune with your own body’s needs.  Maybe it has been a long time since you experienced the pleasure of touch without limiting goals and expectations.  Some of us are very blessed and we can achieve full body bliss naturally with little guidance.  Some of us are very much attune and in the moment as we open up to receive full body pleasure with expectations. 

But what do we do if are not multiorgasmic?  How do we express our unique needs to our partners unless we uncover our hidden treasures and our strong divine feminine presence?

We all want to feel feminine and empowered.  We want to carry ourselves as Goddesses and we want to explode in passion for our lovers being overcome in the joy of Goddess hood.

But what do we do if we came from repressive childhood experiences?  What if we were not honored but simply “controlled” by our parents and we were not made to feel safe or powerful?  This complicates our sexual aura and we might have challenges picking partners who reflect our powerful Goddess energy.  If we feel powerless and misunderstood how can we attract a man or a woman in our lives who can honor our creative life force?

Tantric yoga is the empowering of your yoni.   A goddess reawakening is like a Baptism and we are allowed to really feel for the first time in our lives.  Our gentle yonis can become numbed if our backgrounds did not allow us to receive the gentle touch we deserve.

The work we do together is necessary work and one of these days you might wake up realizing time has gone by too quickly and you still have needs and strong desires that have not been fulfilled or explored.

Women are sensitive, caring, sensual creatures.  When we are fully awakened our sexual energy has the power to create more abundance in your life and make you a far more intuitive being with a grounded confidence and assuredness.  When you are allowed to release your pent up sexual energy in the form of amrita you gradually awaken your pineal gland and you heal your endocrine system without the need for medication.  We can poison our bodies with negative self thought and medications or we can become empowered healers and shaman women who are fully in control of our bodies and our choice in partners.

When you focus on the moment and we learn circular breathing techniques we become fully alive and we have the potential to achieve orgasms anywhere and everywhere in the body if we learn to release guilt and expectations of ourselves and others.  Even the mere touch of a feather will send mind blowing waves of electricity throughout your being.  We learn to activate our chakra system with light, water touch a touch so powerful it supersedes the need for a deep tissue massage.

When you focus on healing your yoni your physical pain subsides and your pelvis is freer and less tight to the touch.  When you have a juicy yoni and a relaxed pelvis you activate the waters in your second chakra and this is known as “stirring the waters”.  It is not necessary for you to engage in sexual intercourse in order to heal your trauma.  It is a conscious touch activated with your conscious breath that allows you to open up the opportunity for kundalini shakti or full body awakening.

Sometimes due to social conditioning women are expected to be vocal or orgasm on command or simply fake it for the sake of not injuring the fragile ego of her lover.  Some women have shut down their sexual drive because of their religious belief systems or a sense of guilt or a feeling that sex is not important.  Some unfortunate few have never known the pleasure of gentle foreplay in a non rushed and loving environment.  Here is where tantric yoga becomes the healing agent of the Divine feminine.  We have a right as women to state our sexual needs so that we can be honored and held sacred in a state of complete honor and non judgement.  We have the right to receive pleasure without feeling guilty.  We deserve this and bliss is our birth rite!

Tantric massage focuses on openness and teaches us how to accept our bodies and be fully present and relaxed during the sacred act of receiving pleasure from ourselves or from our partner.

Did we even begin to mention that this pathway can change our outlook on life and can change your opportunities for enhanced confidence and more creative flow?  You are a sexual being.  You are a fully energized being with Kundalini Shakti energy just waiting to be active and empowered.  Our possibilities are endless and our bodies should be honored and explored as sacred temples.  If you can learn to control and connect your breath with your body and your sexual power you can lose yourself for that one moment in time and taste unbridled passion.  I am not saying this will happen all at once in session.  In fact I am not even promising you can achieve all this in the span of a year.  Since we are constantly changing and evolving we can explore our orgasmic potential and realize we are expanding heart and yoni consciousness safely and intuitively ON OUR TIME and no one else’s time table.

  Our heart chakras hold the key to our Yoni. When we massage around our breasts and tap our sternums we awaken our fragile emotions.  We circumvent the yoni initially starting with our hearts and holding hands because our inner palms are an extension of our heart chakra energies. 

In a Tantric Massage, your whole body will be sensually awakened.  As we know, it takes time and a full body approach to arouse women fully.   As a woman’s positive sexual pole is in her heart, around your breasts will be massaged to open your heart, which then opens the channel between your heart and your yoni.   Only then would a woman be ready for yoni massage, and only if she wants it.  It may take a couple of sessions before you feel ready, and that’s ok. 

The main goal of a tantric massage is to help you learn more about your body and to help you establish healthy boundaries on touch.  You will be in complete control during our shared time together.  You will actively give a voice to all your needs and goals.  I am here to help you uncover trauma with gentle and intentional touch.  Our vaginal walls can collect tension, stress, scar tissue and armouring from years of neglect or abuse.  If we send out harmful thoughts to our yonis our yonis contract energetically and become shut down.  The purpose of our time together is to help you open up these wounds and help you get rid of unneeded and unhealthy negative self talk.  We don’t necessarily look for a full body orgasm when we honor and heal the yoni but we do send healing light and try for a tender approach so that you feel honored and you can slowly get in touch with your feminine desire.

We Goddesses Form the Collective Juicy Shakti Pat ☼★ So be Juicy!!!

Hello Loverly Ladies….Have you been touched lately?
Are your Lush, rivers flowering or have they been neglected?
Did you know a loved yoni can attract the most positive and attentive energies towards you? Are you stuck in a career or cross roads in your life where you are not sure of your footing anymore? Who isn’t a bit “stuck” now in again. We can not always be “in flow” or in a state of gr

ace so that is where tantric yoga fits into your ritual of healing. We have Reiki for smoothing out our aura bodies. We have true, trigger point massage to drain the exhaustive and toxic waste from our muscles. We have sound healing to bring tears to your eyes. We have deep breathing and re birth breathing to help you along with your daily anxieties and panic attacks. And we have Conscious touch which allows us to be better in alignment with our bliss.
Tantric yoga like any other Yogi ritual is a dance you learn. We share a Sacred Space where we can simply unfold and get “lost” in our Divine Feminine Essence.
We are not “weak” by exploring our Goddess side we are actually far more strong than our Masculine energies and we can move more energy and influence with our tenderness more so than our roughness.
Let me be your patient Guide and reawaken your Divine Feminine energies again.
Open your yoni in a safe sacred space. Perhaps it has been a while since you were tenderly touched. Perhaps your yoni needs the remembrance of a soft voice or gentle encouragement again that she can come out to play.

Women tend to naturally “tantric” in nature so once we teach you how to send positive thoughts into your yoni you will be in a state of emotional release and the time we spend will feel un rushed and soothing to you.
Women tend to need two full hours of tantric healing whereas a man typically can be satiated with a full 90 minute healing. I always recommend women schedule two hours for a thorough reawakening to bliss session and if you feel your husband or partner should participate and be fully present we can invite him as my assistant during a slow moving four handed massage.

Your joy is our shared journey and each healed Yoni yields so much Divine life force we are each powerfully activating Universal Shakti Pat ♥Image

Tantric Yoga and The Small Group workshop NOT ORGY ♥♡

Part of the Art of True Tantric Yoga is the choice that the Dakini has in hr life. Part of the art of selectively and hand picking your Dakini is to honor her boundaries and establish your goals and desires.
Do you feel at easy with the person on the phone you are talking to?
If not this is probably not going to be a good or healing experience for the dakini or the seeker who is wanting to connect with their sensual pleasures.

I have boundaries even though I teach couples tantra.
I am a moving, healing, sentient being who requires mutual trust and connection.
I simply desire everyone call me with an open heart and an open mind and a need to learn something powerful.
But let us uphold each other’s boundaries and when we do decide to meet let us use real names not fake stage names and not fake google numbers.
if you can’t be mature about your needs don’t expect me to be able to work with you on your bliss.
Bliss is everyone’s true birthright to explore and this is not some crazy, hedonistic, sex orgy but a real opportunity to explore your inner divinity in a Sacred setting with real boundaries.

I am sharing you a true account so you can gain some understanding of the work I do and the sometimes childish behavior I must encounter on my path.
I don’t find it flattering at all to know that after spending in depth time answering someone’s questions I was used as their private sick fantasy or “joke”. To dishonor me and dishonor the work I do is simply not in alignment with the work of the Goddess.

by Diana Grossman on Saturday, August 11, 2012 at 1:27pm ·

Dear audience,

I choose to share this open letter sent to me this past Thursday by a prospective

couple who misunderstood what I have to offer.

I had spent 30 minutes on the phone with her husband “frank” on his google

subscription number which might have been my first big mistake.

Typically people who are seeking thrills only entertainment call me from a google

number and typically include an alias.

frank told me the last time he set up a couples session a young woman came to his

home wearing jeans and informed them an additional $50 would be required for their

1.5 hours session so that he would need to cough up $250 for 90 minutes of a couples


I explained to him my pricing and asked if it was affordable.

I offered workshop training and said I would be overjoyed to use each person as a

class demo so that each person of the four could enjoy an authentic healing.

I never never said I was on the menu.

I never said I would be dressed up as an escort or hooker.

I never said I expected tips for extras.

I said I offered chanting, Reiki training and true breathing techniques and that they

would all have a turn as the class demo and I would even observe how they understood

my demo by giving each one a chance to work on each other so that if they had questions

they could have time to inquire and stop me if they did not understand what we were doing.

I suggested that each person join me for the hands on healing and each member of the group

will assist me so that the receiver will actually give us all feedback and we can learn from

the receiver.

I never never said I would be engaging in sexual intercourse as it is not an offering on my


Since “Susan Gibson” decided to “get off” on my energy for that day without my permission

I decided in fair energy exchange and I am sharing her letter to me with all of you


everyone who chooses to read my notes today .

I will also be uploading this on my blog today as fair and equal exchange of energy since

they basically wasted my time for their private entertainment and titillation AT MY



You talked to my Husband Frank last night about a tantra class/massage for us and another couple. First off, I am not sure what you two talked about in detail, but I should thank you because when I got home last night, he meet me at the door and we never made it out of the hallway, something that has not happened in awhile!!

What you are suggesting for an eveing sounds very exciting, and I want to pursue this more, but we need a little more time before we can do this with the other couple. We need to talk about this a little more since this will be a level of intimacy we have not done before. Yes we all have been to nude beaches together and nude on our back deck and in our hot tub, but not to this level. The most we have done is our husbands talked her and I into kissing and playing a little with each other for them to watch, but we would need to talk some more since I am sure there will be intercourse between all 5 of us. If I am wrong on that, please let me know. I know this is not sex, this is much more and I am open, in fact very aroused about doing this, so let make sure its going to be well received by all.

Sorry if I am rambling, this is new for me to talk about. We may have you come for just us next week sometime, and we will talk to the other couple about it more this evening. Just need to be sure we are all on the same page first.

BTW, I love the Blue Hair!

Diana Grossman

Aug 9 (2 days ago)

to Susan

My dear friend. I do not engage in sexual intercourse with anyone 🙂

I do allow mutual touching, healing, kissing of the chakras if that is

something YOU would enjoy.

I am very pure and pristine. I am not a hooker or escort service but

a genuine shaman. Yes I am not angry

with you at all for implying we shall have sex. This is not a fivesome 🙂

I am happy to see you tonight or this weekend or just you and your

husband next week if that is what YOU


I have been reviewed on message boards by low class people and people

who have valued me.

Because I do not engage is sexual intercourse some people chose to

write the cruelest remarks about me

online and the one true blue clients who loved what I had to offer (a

real healing) wrote some wonderful

reviews of me online.

It is a pity that tantric yoga is not fully understood and this is

truly the fault of HBO. Yes we can have the

potential to have multiple orgasms and you can share a greater bonding

with your friends and your husband

with singing, breathing, mutual touch and real healing.

I told your husband the truth about what i offer. I told him you

would all have a turn at being a class demo meaning I will work on

each one of you. Then I would have all of YOU join me and assist me

in the massage so

the receiver of this sensual and therapeutic massage will be

thoroughly in bliss and loved and that person will give us good feed

back or suggestions for how we can all help heal them more.

It is a profound experience. If you have questions for me call me

today. I am low key today and I ended up

not working early this morning as I planned. A lawyer (chickened out

so to speak).

This is supposed to be enjoyable and not complex or creepy. We are

not “molesting” each other or having an

orgy this is hands on healing and I take my work seriously since this

is what I enjoy doing.

I was a born healer and touch is what I do best. I will teach all of

you how to give an authentic healing tantric yoga

massage that stimulates and calms the energy down.

Do reach out to me today and discuss this with your friends. You have

my permission to have them call me and or you have my permission to

forward this email to them.

I am not an escort i don’t have sex with anyone (but the stupid

message boards online sometimes lie).

I can only say you would have a fun time and hopefully learn some

valuable skills. This is not complex it’s meant to be simple, organic

and easy on the body!!!

If I don’t hear from you today hopefully call me when you have some

time to chat.

Thanks so much,

Goddess Diana

On Thu, Aug 9, 2012 at 8:45 AM, Susan Gibson

Goddess Diana Sacred Space Tantra Butterfly

The yoni is a Sacred Temple