Posts from the “Tantra Massage New Orleans” Category
April 29, 2015 No comments

Goddess Worship is the Sacred Act of Pure, unconditional Love ❤♡

Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.

Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.

There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.

My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.

Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.

Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.

The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.

Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.

The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.

I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, Educator, friend, Holistic Healer,
Couples Coach and Tantra Massage therapist
Marilyn-Monroe-on-Bed-09
March 30, 2015 No comments

What makes a Tantra Ceremony special? ❤♡

There are many roads to happiness in this lifetime and my number one passion will always be the ability to carry the work I do anywhere I want to in the United States. There are some cities where tantra is well known and well received and other cities that are far more challenging such as New Orleans, Louisiana.
Let’s face it, this is a DRINKING town. People come here to let loose and this is one of the few cities that will allow anyone to walk around with cups of gargantuan sized lethal doses and quantities of alcohol so the fact that I exist here might not pique enough tourist’s interests because this city is known for stripping bars, great food, late night drinking establishments and of course casinos where you can win a lot or lose everything.

Why on Earth should anyone drop everything and come see me ? Well I can assure you during my sessions I work on tight areas first because sexual energy can only flow freely when your body is completely relaxed and muscle tension can and will inhibit your sexual energies from traveling where it needs to go.

Sexual energy can travel up towards the top of your skull or it can even travel downwards to your ankles and personally I feel the energy knows exactly where to go because if you have had old injuries anywhere in your body your sexual energy is going to go directly to that area of your body that needs some extra TLC.

Tender loving care is exactly what you will receive during any of my tantra ceremonies. Tantra is not simply a journey in arousal and testing your sexual boundaries; tantra is an exploration of you living completely in the moment and being aware of the weight of your body.
All tantra ceremonies involve a connection between me and you but also a deeper connection and link to your own body.

You will be made to be aware of the temperature of the room that we both inhabit and the feeling of my hands as I wander all over your body. You will be aware of the weight and pressure of your own body on the bed and you will be breathing deeply and slowly alternatively into your heart center and your abdomen as I touch you so you can feel energy open up where formally you were numbed out.

If all you do as a tourist is simply numb out by drinking you are missing you. You are missing the gentle nuances of energies and the subtle smells and tastes that bring about heightened awareness. You can numb yourself out when visiting New Orleans or you can spend some time getting to know your own body more intimately.

I enjoy teaching beginners how to breathe deeply for maybe the very first time of their life. We tend to breathe very shallowly as we get older. We become more self conscious and when we listen to others we might even stop breathing altogether. The central nervous system relies on proper breath to work properly and to sustain our bodies. If you constantly breathe shallowly this leads eventually to stress and over taxes your body. Little things and annoyances begin to bother you. Tantra yoga allows you to learn how to gain more control of the way you breathe and it sets a pace so that you feel you have more control and command over your nervous system and your body’s ability to heal.

Tantra massage is a very unifying, healing exploration in full body orgasmic bliss. We start with blockages in both your physical body and then your astral body. The focus is on healing and preparing you for extreme weightlessness and timelessness. A good session should feel as if you are floating and your natural breathing rhythm will set the pace so you feel as if time has never passed.

Share some sacred time during your next vacation. There will always be time enough for drinking but there is never enough time to learn more about your body’s natural abilities to heal itself.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.comGoddess Diana soft erotic Tantra Butterfly 1
March 15, 2015 No comments

♼ What exactly happens during Your first Tantra Session? ♻

First of all I do follow a “recipe” and I do not both at the same time. If you over think what may or may not happen during your first tantra session you may not fully understand that there is no thinking involved but there is an awakening of all latent energy and trapped trauma. I find that it’s best to follow a simple process of connection, breathing, mutual touch and open communication.

I encourage everyone for the first time to ask me as many questions as they wish. You can ask me why we are singing together or why we are breathing so deeply. Most people don’t realize that 60% of our “panic” attacks are caused by breathing improperly and breathing too shallow. Shallow breathing translates into muscular pain in your diaphragm and when you connect with me I will make sure to slow down your breathing pace for every touch you receive.

The breathing is the key ingredient and if you start this practice every day it will be a new practice that gradually becomes easier so you will naturally breathe deeply every time you receive a tantra healing or a sports massage. Breathing facilitates complete oxygenation of your body’s cells and when you learn to breathe deeply you will feel warmth and tingling everywhere in your body. I have seen people shake a bit and this is trapped energies that have remained stagnant but during a tantra yoga session your energy is free to roam everywhere and you will literally feel a vibratory “tingle” that will permeate from the tips of your toes through the roof of your mouth!

Don’t over stress about what will or what will not happen. What ever happens is your unique response to your body’s ability to process kundalini energy. Use your sexual energy to regain your sense of grounding. Use your energy to activate all muscles and chakras in your physical and spiritual body by breathing and keeping your mind free of clutter.

Talk therapy can also be a part of our shared time together. It’s only natural and healing for you to release pent up feelings and I encourage beginners to share anything that should crop up as your memories are triggered.

Goddess Diana

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

blonde-fashion-gorgeous-hair-marilyn-monroe-marilynnnda-favim-com-42836
February 25, 2015 2 Comments

Tantra is cooperation and flexibility ♡❤♡

Tantra is not a rigid arena — Tantra is a playful seduction of letting yourself go without any self judgments and without any expectations. You say you want to become Tantric? Do you always have to have YOUR way or can YOU be more flexible and positive? Can you change your plans at the drop of a hat or are you always Wanting to control the people in your life?

The more we study and practice tantra yoga the more we realize it’s not about what we can get but what we can mutually learn from each other. I approach each tantra session as a mutual arena and opportunity for play. It is not about ME and it’s not about YOU– it’s about US.
We exchange energies therefore we learn what buttons to push or not to push. You have a chance to learn more about your body and how your body reacts to mutual healing and breathing.

We might not be able to breathe in and out at the same pace but once we calm our minds and slowly match our energies we can focus on how similar we are and we become ONE unit and one main source of SHARED energy. IN time the breathing practice will become so organic and natural to you that you won’t be thinking about having to breathe while receiving and giving touch; you will feel this natural desire to take in a breath of air every time you sense a reaction in your body.

I like to think of tantra yoga and tantra massage as a pure transference of energy and there is no need for control and there is no right or wrong way to touch because we make the rules as we share and participate together. I want you to give me feedback because I am NOT you but I deeply desire to get to know you as we share sacred space.

When you think upon the idea of sacred space truly there is no such law that states that sacred space MUST be in one’s home or sacred temple. I can make any space sacred with my intentions, focus and positive affirmations. We together Co Create sacred space with the intentions of combining our energies, our chakras and our hearts to create shared harmony and unconditional love.

You can spend time at your friend’s home and create Sacred Space simply by being filled with Gratitude. The act of being deeply grateful leads to openness and abundance because you are acknowledging the blessings of what you already have therefore you are attracting more love to you based on your open spirit.

No matter where you are and no matter what hotel you are in even when you travel on a plane you are in solely responsible for your outlook and your open heart. You can practice gratitude and self healing affirmations when you are in line at the bank!

Change your outlook on what a Tantra Ceremony must be or SHOULD BE because there is no wrong time to cherish yourself and honor your boundaries. Chant your first and middle name aloud and empower yourself in a mantra of a state of positive being. Shout out all your positive traits and why others should honor you and find you Sacred. We all have some wonderful qualities and we can take time out each day to call upon our higher power and acknowledge ourselves for our gifts. If we can recognize ourselves as being all powerful and capable of positive changes then we begin to really believe we can have anything we wish because we do deserve it!

Sacred Space is you. Sacred Space is any environment you experience and any locale you trespass. The magic is within you not the Temple Space itself. Be kind to yourself and be kind to your own Temple –your own physical body does so much for you already and be grateful for what you already have because we only have the present to enjoy!

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
marilyn monroe smiling
February 14, 2015 No comments

Happy Valentine’s Day Lovers ❤♡

This week is Mardis Gras here in New Orleans, Louisiana but it is also Valentine’s Day weekend so don’t forget to tell your partner how much you appreciate them! Do something out of the ordinary. Try a new mini adventure together — something that is decadent and completely out of the box.
Surprise your lover with something they may have been dreaming about but never dared to try like a vacation someplace off the beaten path or scuba lessons or a Tantra Massage Session!

New experiences help build trust and help you explore sides of each other that you never knew existed. Sometimes we take advantage of the one we love. We dress the same, we don’t take chances or we tend to go to the same restaurants we know because it becomes a part of the routine and makes you feel more comfortable.

Do something bizarre together! Tantra Massage for couples is a four handed massage opportunity that lets you explore each other’s sexual ecstasy in a supportive and safe zone. Tune into each other and slow down. Sometimes we think we know everything there is to know about our significant other but when you schedule a couples tantra massage you find out more about tenderness and vulnerability.

During a couples session I take my time to teach you basic breathing exercises while you are assisting me with a four handed tantra spa massage. There is a pelvic heart connection that takes place and your partner will be the recipient of touch with intentions of awakening latent sexual energies.

During Mardis Gras weekend participate in each other and slow down and listen to your partner’s unique biorhythms and cadence. This is a romantic weekend full of strange sounds, colorful costumes and the mystique and romance of a very feminine and alluring city that supports the Divine Feminine

Goddess Diana
Butterfly Muse
http://www.tantrabutterfly.comsoft pink marilyn monroe
February 4, 2015 No comments

Be youthful (indefinitely) just engage in a Tantra Ceremony and Rejuvenate!

You saw the title and why would I have any reason to LIE to any of you! What is the Key ingredient we need to survive besides nurturing tenderness and water? Guess… it’s Oxygen!
I can’t help but notice that at the very closure of any of my tantra ceremonies my face is flushed and I am GLOWING as much as my client’s face. Apparently there is something right I am doing!

The key ingredient that makes a Tantra session profound is the act of BREATHING slowly and deeply into your heart while being touched and feeling pleasure. It’s not enough to be simply “aroused”. Anyone can be aroused just by staring at someone you find attractive or being touched in a very sensual and teasing way. The art of having profound waves of full orgasmic Bliss is by learning how to properly breathe the bliss EVERYWHERE simultaneously into your body while unconsciously absorbing some delicious energies.

Energy is more deeply felt when you can hypnotize your body into a state of trance. Trance mind is achieved when you QUIET your mind and fully focus on the weight of your body on your bed and focus on the temperature of your core, the temperature of the air around you and the sounds of musical chords or complete silence. No matter what you do the BREATH brings you back into your BODY and you are in the MOMENT.

Oxygen feeds our sexual energy and feeds our cells. It’s like a face lift when you feel so much joy and breathe so deeply you pulsate with aliveness and decrease years off your face. The act of breathing alleviates stress, disease, panic disorder and aging. Indulging in a Tantra massage is akin to going to a full day at the “Spa” and you will notice your aura is so much lighter and you will become a lot more approachable because your aura and your heart are more “open” to receiving.

You will attract more love to you. You will feel quietly calm and safe and you will feel young and vital.

Enjoy life and be touched!

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.commarilyn perfume oils
February 1, 2015 No comments

The simple steps that keep you fully present for your Tantra partner ❤

Diana O66 eros magicI am going to make this simple for all of you to digest. Here is the ideal way to be completely in tune with your partner or your teacher.

The easiest thing one can do is get adequate rest. Yes rest and do not drink alcohol or smoke pot before you decide you want to engage with your partner. Don’t cheat yourself and don’t fool yourself into believing that alcoholic beverages or any type of drug will put you in the right frame of mind for relaxation therapy.

Any drug you take places you at the risk of not only “deadening” and numbing out your energy but being “out of it”. You want to be completely awake but calm before you decide to touch your partner or work with your tantra teacher.

Drugs distance us from energy and distance us from being able to really read and interpret body language. We don’t want interference or “distortion” to block us from being able to really be present for our partners so my advice is you stay alert but calm and speak in hushed tones but use clear inflection when communicating with your tantra partner.

There are going to be times where there is complete silence. Don’t be afraid of the silence instead connect with your partner’s breathing patterns and when you place your hands over your partner’s stomach be mindful not to place too much pressure on their body you simply want to “support” their breathing by being very gentle on their inhalation and then using gentle pressure as they exhale.

Be ready for constructive criticism and encourage the input and feedback. Make your partner feel safe enough to engage in complete communication without them fearing you will judge then or be upset. This is your shared session and this is a joint venture for both of you to get to know each other during a state of connection and trance.

Tantra yoga is a gentle balance of energy healing, deep breathing, concentrated touch and intention. Before the session even begins you may decide you wish to state your intentions verbally and then you may wish to engage in eye contact for a full fifteen minute period just so you both feel comfortable with each other and acknowledge each other fully.

Being present is so simple. Blank out your mind while you are in session. Healing means we leave our worries behind. In order to truly heal and create opportunities for shared growth you need to let go of expectations and disappointments. Don’t worry about work …keep your phone shut off and make sure your clock is off. Don’t be concerned if the session runs over the deadline. You want to make sure your partner knows how very important THEY ARE and you don’t want to rush them into relaxation or keep a time clock on.

Time is a valuable commodity and you sharing your time and energy and focus is the most healing transference of love you can exchange.

December 26, 2014 No comments

It is a beautiful Christmas and DO you Love yourself completely?

Funny I have this odd habit of reading poetry where ever I can find it. I can find poetry scribbled on art work at galleries; I can find poetry in the bathroom stalls written in night clubs and I find the saddest poetry on craigslist.com If I search for it. I read a sad little message today. Someone wrote the following… ” Bah humbug…I can’t wait for this day to be over…christmas without you ….”
Wow! I mean right now I am “dating” anyone nor am I in love with anyone or craving anyone I am just in “travel mode” which means I have the traveling jones and I am just grateful I am avoiding winter and the cold that comes with.
Being here in the now is where it truly is at. I am in the NOW today and I am in the NOW on New Year’s Eve and Yes I do have regrets and I do wish I could travel in this huge time machine and avoid making tragic mistakes I made when I was younger but I never regret spending holidays in serenity whether I am with people or by myself enjoying the company of my pets.
I guess I am lucky because I don’t have to have someone special in my life to feel complete although having a someone special is always going to be even more fun I just don’t understand why anyone would wish the day away if their loved one is gone for the holidays or they are in between relationships.
I am in a relationship with myself. As trite as that sounds I can find so many wonderful things to do like walk around the french Quarter and eat out with my dog just relaxing, taking photos of flowers and having random conversations with people I meet.

Tantra is about the NOW. Are you having a Good relationship with yourself NOW? I know some people are even afraid of going to a good play or movie all by themselves. Maybe they feel there is some stigma attached to be completely alone but it’s when you are alone that you are in the NOW. Consciously have that ongoing relationship with yourself. Are you only happy with a partner? Are you only happy in large gatherings where you know you will be seen?

I tend to be happiest when I have time to myself but SURROUNDED by people so if I wish to interact and be SOCIAL the option is there but if I wish to hide away and retreat and just take some steps away that option is there.

I love being alone. I only hope that if anyone reading this today is alone for Christmas they are finding ways to make this day special. What is so bad about being alone? Just place both hands around your heart center and send your heart a sacred smile. It’s okay to cry if you have to. Have a good cry if there is some trigger to this Holiday that makes you wonder about a lost love. Have that cry and get it out of your system… Hold onto your heart as you cry and send only unconditional love to that child inside of you that is misunderstood or ignored or treated unfairly.

You have the whole day to love yourself. You have the whole day to lick your wounds or create or destroy or let go of anything or anyone in your life that no longer brings you the joy and caring you deserve. Time to get rid of old habits or people that don’t appreciate you. We have gifts…appreciate any gift you have that consoles you whether it is a fondness for painting or literature or sports. Delve into anything that makes you feel comforted today. Today it’s not about how many lovers you have or how many friends invited you to parties. Today is about self awareness, self healing and self preservation. You can enjoy this day and be grateful that you are still on this journey to learn and grow and experience new arenas.

If today brought you pain be grateful because we learn from pain. If you ended up missing someone special then try and figure out what that person did for you that made you feel so loved. Can you send that same unconditional love to yourself without guilt?

Merry X-mas everyone! May you continue to heal any parts of yourself and accept your flaws without any embarrassment. flower etching