Archive for April, 2015

Goddess Worship is the Sacred Act of Pure, unconditional Love ❤♡

Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.

Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.

There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.

My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.

Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.

Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.

The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.

Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.

The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.

I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.

Goddess Diana
Muse, Educator, friend, Holistic Healer,
Couples Coach and Tantra Massage therapist

Come♬ join me for Tantra and Couples Massage in New Orleans for Jazz Fest ♬♪



THERE IS a lot of feminine energy in this city and I want to help introduce that feminine energy back into your life whether you are here exploring the city by yourself or a as a couple ❤

What compliments outstanding food and the Jazz festival? If you are in New Orleans, Louisiana for Jazz fest come by yourself or as a couple and indulge in some pampering here today or this weekend.
I love spoiling my guests with an infusion of soulful and healing music that will tune up the vibrations of your chakras and we can co create some magic together.
If you are a couple who wants to learn the basics about breath or touch you will be able to train with me for some practical and easy massage practices this weekend here in New Orleans. I am not just a tantra healer but a gifted massage and reiki teacher and we can choose a half day or just a simple 90 minutes session together so you both can learn how to touch with compassion.

Massage is the most wonderful medicine. I use organic aromatherapy oils to enhance your ability to breathe more profoundly and get your diaphragm muscles to work. Constricted diaphragm muscles are caused by inappropriate breathing and we learn this as we get older through bad posture or unhealthy habits like smoking cigarettes or cigars.

After the party is over for jazz fest come visit me or I will visit you at your hotel or time share here in New Orleans Lousiana. My passion is to make you feel alive, awakened, empowered, lively and profoundly passionate about yourself again.

Consider tantra as a vehicle to put you in a better frame of mind to receive love, return love and have your body spin in the right circles again. Chakra healing and Chakra balancing are part of our tantra ceremony.

I hope to join you these next few days for Massage, aromatherapy, reiki, tantra yoga, couples massage and sound healing here in the heart of New Orleans, Louisiana. New Orleans is such a romantic and feminine city ruled under Scorpio. She is sexual city but she is also yielding, soft and appealing so let your heart petals unfold and join me for Compassion exercises, deep peaceful breaths and mutual cuddling.

New Orleans is for lovers… ❤ ❤ ❤

Goddess Diana
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The healing Aspects of a Sensual Massage ☆★

When was the last time you were touched? Do you work long hours at your computer for the type of work you do? Are you in a job where you are consistently giving more and more of yourself and your time to your coworker? Do you give of yourself to your colleagues but don’t receive the same consideration back?

If you answered yes to any of these questions chances are your body and mind are eventually going to burn out and your ability to cope with stress will reach its limit. You will begin to feel a bit “rough” around the edges and might even feel yourself becoming “short” with people you converse with or a bit “nippy” when you meet people randomly on the streets.

How can this be happening to you so suddenly? If all you do is give of yourself 24/7 without receiving a bit of love or kindness back eventually your body will give out on you to the point where you can make yourself sick and run down or you will have an accident.

Yes — accidents are our body’s way of dealing with stress in stressful times because if you don’t treat yourself with kindness your body will give you an ENFORCED time out even in the form of a sprained ankle or a small mishap. I can assure you this will happen to you because little incidents like this used to happen to me in my past if I did not value time out and appreciate the fact that my body needs to be pampered once in a blue moon too.

Where does sensual massage factor into the Equation? If you have not been in a loving relationship in eons perhaps sensual massage is going to be more of a bridge for you to acclimate your body back into receiving mode and help you release some of your boundaries so you are better prepared to dive into a relationship once again with a healthy partner.

Good touch is most important not just for lifting our moods but so that we can know the difference between a healing and loving tender approach and the more unsettling touch that is not so loving and is very “conditional”.

Sometimes people have no clue how to approach us with tender care. Sometimes we can go out on a date and have an agenda in mind but the date ends in rough touch. Sometimes the people we go out with are seeking something more akin to friends with benefits. Friends with Benefits can work for some people but not all of us. Some people do not have tine in their lives for intimacy but others truly crave intimacy more than straight on sex and that is where sensual massage and tantra massage comes into play.

If you have gone months or years without touch your body can break down on you. Everyone needs a bit of tender loving care and people simply perform better under stress when they receive a hug or a gentle massage. Deep tissue massage, sensual massage, tantra yoga and reiki all are powerful sources of tenderness when we don’t have time in our lives for a real life partner.

Some of us have jobs that involve constant travel. If you travel a bit and you maybe only spend a quarter of your time in your home you still have needs. You can only go without touch for so long before you start feeling a bit “off” or imbalanced. Your immune system starts to shut down and you begin to feel a bit exhausted or confused during day to day activities.

Sensory pleasure, cuddling, gentleness and healing light energetic touch completes the balance inside of you and the back and forth positive interaction between you and your healer opens the pathway for greater things to come to you because you are in a better frame of mind.

I love making people feel whole again and needed and loved. This work I do is my passion and I can’t think of a more fulfilling path than helping people feel touch in a safe and sane arena of healing and sensual play.

Goddess Diana
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