I’m not a shy person; but I do understand and empathize with anyone who is hesitant about embarking on a new journey ✨ when they barely understand what they are committing to.
I offer paid coffee consultations for couples and singles who are interested in tantra but never had prior experiences in energywork or sexual wellness.
My tantra ceremonies focus on full body well-being and healing. The focus isn’t just your sexual energy; it’s an organic experience that helps you understand your own body better and amplify the latent energies already stored within you.
I will help direct your focus on being fully present in the moment by guiding you with breathwork and visualization exercises. The chakras within your body respond to touch, sound and breath. If you’ve never had reiki or alternative healing before then all these techniques are going to seem esoteric to you.
A coffee consultation will give you an opportunity to digest all this information beforehand and you can ask me any questions you wish so I can alleviate your concerns and make some suggestions based on your goals and budget.
Let me know more about you by sending me an introductory email 📧
Once we meet in person and become friends instead of strangers the process of self awareness and self healing becomes much easier.
I can help you make life changes, introduce you to new activities, develop more meaningful relationships and find the courage to become fully alive in your life.
A paid coffee date with me is like no other. I am an expert in alternative healing and have studied and practiced massage, Tantra, and meditation for many years. I can provide you with healing techniques and beneficial services that do not involve a physical touch. My recommendations and advice will help you to make better decisions and live a more balanced, fulfilling life.
I believe that everyone deserves healing, rejuvenation and empowerment. Through my paid coffee dates I can help you remove blockage, create new paths and adopt a better lifestyle. During our few hours together, I will guide you through spiritual healing processes and provide you with the tools to take responsibility for your life.
Booking a paid coffee date is your chance to learn from an experienced practitioner and start a new direction in life. Whether you’re shy, anxious or simply looking for something new and different, I will be there to support and guide you towards a happier and healthier version of yourself.
Did you know #tantra is the quickest route to access and take back your personal power?
There are no short cuts to Good Health but I’ve had clients tell me one session with me saved them trips and visits to a psychologist. I’m not bashing the mental health field; but I’m saying that how you view yourself affects your physical well being.
For instance if you suffer from chronic gut issues it indicates an imbalance in your 3rd chakra (solar plexus). You would need to understand how to send positive healing messages to your belly to help heal whatever is going on in your gut.
During my #chicagotantra ceremonies I employ breathwork, sound healing, Aromatherapy and nurturing touch. I help you activate any trapped energies encouraging your kundalini to awaken which is used like medicine 💊 for your body to heal itself.
When I first started my career in this industry I was a huge people pleaser. Other people’s needs including my client’s and friends always came before my needs. I wasn’t one to cancel a promise or a date unless I was DEATHLY ill. I didn’t realize what a huge disservice I was doing to myself by putting myself last till my physical well being and emotional frame of mind deteriorated. I’d stifle and store up my pent up frustration and disappointment till I’d explode breaking those bonds with friends and clients irreparably. Now I temper and pace myself and I’ve aligned myself to attract clients who understand and respect my limitations and boundaries.
tantra will Give you your backbone back
Your chakras will be activated and you will have no choice left but to find your own voice and use your intuition instead of relying upon others to make these choices for you. It’s #Martinlutherkingday and I’m here available to help set up and co create #sacredspace with you if you want the opportunity to clear out what doesn’t suit you anymore– whether it’s intolerable living conditions, a stale job, or unhealthy toxic relationships.
You shouldn’t spend your days walking on eggshells 🥚
chicagotantra 🕉 invokes empowerment
Never forget who you are Endeavor to protect those who haven’t found their voice.
Do you feel a connection to what I write ✍
Do you feel comfortable working with me based on my blog and my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋
If you are ready to choose me as your tantra guide please follow the link to my online Chicago based tantra website here—>
Surprisingly many professionals would love to try my services; but they’re more in love with the idea and concept 💡 of #tantra and fearful of forging ahead.
#tantramassage is a wonderful way to amp up your energy while healing trauma and balancing your #chakras
I’m working with your #kundalini energy that you might not even be aware of.
Together we activate these #chakras (power stations) within your physical & spiritual bodies 🙌 to keep you in a positive place of self love & self awareness ❤
Join me soon & introduce yourself to me initially w/ an introductory 📧 email—Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com let me know who you are, what you do, your background in #alternativehealing and 2 major goals you wish to achieve
Im always accepting new students ✨ even if you haven’t had prior experience in #reiki or #chicagotantra
Interested in a Workshop? If you are a group of three couples let’s all plan an afternoon of fun together here in Chicago’s Gold Coast! I can work with your small group and teach all of you some basic fundamentals of tantra massage so all of you will leave understanding how to offer your spouse an authentic tantra massage.
I intend to work this weekend–> not because I have to; but because I want to.
A new client from India visited me recently this week and asked me questions and one of his questions really stuck out.
He asked me if I get bored with my job since I do this every day. I was very surprised and amused and gave him the simplest answer. I said If I were miserable and bored I’d find another job to do.
I love my job…I hate NOT BEING BUSY!
I AM available every day at any time with proper notice, Preverification and a Deposit….
#tantra is a fulfilling and satisfying journey of self awareness, self healing and self empowerment.
When a client meets me in the middle, follows the breathing instructions and allows the process to unfold Miracles happen within one’s body and mind. It’s not a fluffy for entertainment purpose experience although I will not judge anyone for needing a blissful escape as their main goal.
I’m available this weekend contact me if interested in a #chicagotantra ceremony for yourself or as a couple
Well hello and I hope everyone here is having a beautiful evening! It’s been a series of strange events in our city starting with our enforcement of Stay put Stay at Home orders. Most of us actually stayed active and useful during these times; especially if you are a professional driver, grocery store clerk, nurse and private restaurant owner fulfilling take out orders.
I spent this time blogging to keep my mind hopeful and active and I did work with a handful of old clients from my past, repeat clientele whom I consider “family” and a few very loving, open and sensitive new guests who trusted me implicitly.
I must say I truly miss going to the movies because cinema is a form of deep relaxation for me not just a source of entertainment. I truly miss meeting all the new business people and tourists who visited our city each month to participate in Medical conventions, IT conventions, furniture shows and other important events that took place weekly in Chicago.
I miss receiving calls from visitors from all over the world who know exactly what tantra is and entrusted me with their sacred energy for hours at a time. I miss bringing my essential oils to their private hotel rooms then afterwards relaxing at the Hotel Intercontinental to enjoy a cheeseboard and charcuterie board after a long day of working with tourists and business professionals.
I miss the vibrancy of our city during the summer season and the block party festivals such as an annual art festival that takes place on wells street. I miss getting henna at the art booths and browsing for art, jewelry or crystals.
I also miss Chicago’s farmers markets and purchasing fresh flowers, baked goods and fresh fruit from local organic farmers each weekend.
I miss going to Lincoln Square and enjoying the weekend farmer’s markets where I could purchase Italian flatbread or wild blueberries. After the farmer’s market I’d take a seat outside at Cafe Selmarie and order an iced chai and a slice of pastry or European torte while people watching. After people watching and enjoying the fresh air I’d go to the Music box theater to enjoy a Midnight movie like The Shining or a unique art house independent horror film.
I’m sure no one here in Chicago, Illinois anticipated this long, overdrawn extended stay at home order. At first we were advised that beauty salons, nail salons, restaurants and movie theaters would probably reopen sometime in April. April of course came to an end and here we are now still living in a city that’s practically shut down completely especially after a looting took place two weeks ago that destroyed many private, small mom and pop businesses and larger chains such as Macy’s and a few Walgreens locations.
I’m deeply disappointed with how our political figures decided to handle the quarantine in black and white regulations rather than shades of grey.
I had so many creative ideas how we could have allowed most of our businesses to flourish during our quarantine by simply having these stores and nail salons accept advanced deposits for services rendered and advanced reservations. If you knew you could have a special dining experience in advance with proper sterilization of your table before you even arrived I’m sure you would have been delighted to comply knowing your favorite waitstaff would successfully remain gainfully employed.
Everything in Chicago could have continued to flourish and remain open with advanced planning especially movie theaters. For instance let’s say you wish to see a movie tomorrow and you have the opportunity to look at the seating online. Certain seats would be crossed off to prevent overcrowding of the theater so now it’s only half full; but at least the theaters are still open!
I’m not a politician nor am I a business person. But I do have enough common sense to know that isolating everyone from one another and doing a hard close with certain businesses is too extreme and completely unnecessary.
These are my opinions and I had to share them here because I’m truly disappointed to see so many of our most favorite businesses have closed their doors permanently and we still aren’t allowed to enjoy the arts; yet it’s already mid June!
We can’t live our life in a self contained, overly sanitized bubble. These bubbles are only an illusion of safety and do not build our immunity.
Let’s just say I’m here for you with welcoming arms! Since 2012 I hadn’t raised most of the rates on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because I want my services to be affordable to most people. I just recently raised some of my rates in order to keep up with the current price of tantra services from my competitors here in Chicago; but I’m always willing and open to meeting people in the middle with their goals and budgets because I absolutely love what I do and I believe in the healing aspects of sensual massage and alternative medicine.
I’m healthy and keeping myself active getting as much fresh air and sunlight as I possibly can. I’d love to help you on your journey to good health, immunity boosting sessions and nurturing touch.
I’m praying our city will open fully soon! We only get four blissful months of summer and I’m sure everyone will agree that we miss patio dining, art festivals, music festivals and independent film festivals.
Let’s all visualize this city reopening its doors and invite art, beauty and conventions back into our city before the end of summer. So many people need a sense of community and hopefulness to return soon. There may never be a “perfect ” time to reopen so why are we wasting precious time waiting and watching for a “sign”?
How about this for a “Sign”; I’m open and I open my heart to receiving new and old guests who are desirous of healing, nurturing touch. I’m open to working with people seeking chakra balancing, reiki, sound therapy, aromatherapy, deep tissue massage, bathing ceremonies, chanting, tantra yoga, kundalini activation and sensual sacred touch.
I’m here to serve anyone or any couple seeking a multi hour journey of sensory delights, creative visualization and inner calm. I’m available seven days a week to empower, captivate, align, nurture and heal anyone seeking a soothing half or full day of blissful escape.
Please introduce yourself to me via email at
Butterflyshadows@aol.com or call me directly via my cellular phone at 312 339 7707
Tell me your goals and your budget. Be honest about everything you’re dying to experience even if it’s just pure relaxation therapy.