Archive for August, 2020

Chicago tantra yoga massage and couples tantra goddess πŸ‡

Good afternoon! It’s so beautiful today here in Schaumburg, Illinois and I just felt the urge to blog here and hopefully gain some new followers.

I think I would love to write about my ideal client because sometimes what we wish for magically manifests for us as we envision what we are actively seeking.

Who is my ideal client? If I could pick anyone, first I’d love to talk about the fact that most people who call me have not read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and don’t even know my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com exists! In fact many people who call me don’t even know my name which is legally Diana. My ideal client therefore is any individual who treats me like a real human being with real feelings and who addresses me by my real name (Diana).

There are many instances where I receive calls or texts from strangers who just call me “babe” or I pick up my phone and instead of being addressed as a person I’m objectified and a random stranger asks me my rates (which are printed on my site) or they ask me for my location. These strangers don’t sound incredibly kind nor do they introduce themselves to me.

Can you imagine how difficult it can be for me to not feel threatened or objectified during these brief exchanges?

My ideal potential new client would be a thoughtful individual who spent 90 minutes perusing my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and going through my options carefully before even calling me directly at (312) 339-7707.

My ideal tantra client who is indecisive will openly admit to me that they had no prior experience with tantra so they would like to hire me for an in depth coffee consultation in person so they can discuss their concerns and goals with me. The advantage of scheduling a meet and greet is the fact that you can meet me in person and not feel intimidated. You can ask me an hour’s worth of questions and then afterwards if you felt like proceeding with a session I will use your consultation fee as your first deposit towards any tantra session you choose.

My ideal potential client is willing to provide me with a real legal name and their social media accounts so I feel safe and relaxed knowing exactly with whom I’m speaking with.

A great client treats me with complete honesty about who they are, what they do professionally and what type of session they are seeking so I can make good suggestions based on their background in alternative healing.

My ideal client treats me like a friend and doesn’t force or push an agenda by seeking services that are not listed as offerings on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My new client is open minded and communicative and will hopefully agree to refer me to their closest friends or write me a good review if they honestly enjoyed the services I provided them. They do not see my chicago tantra massage services as something shameful to hide nor do they view the experience as an embarrassment or a stigma.

Hopefully my potential client will realize that tantra yoga massage is going to be part of their monthly or weekly maintenance program on a route to spiritual growth, physical well being and mental balance. I’d love it if clients would see me more often and be honest about their monthly budgets so I can be a part of their ongoing ritual towards better self care and health.

If my services seem intriguing to you just introduce yourself to me by calling me directly at (312) 339-7707 or send me a detailed email about yourself via email here:

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Let me know who you are; what you’re seeking; your budget and time constraints and your background in energy work.

Please consider subscribing to my YOUTUBE channel TANTRA BUTTERFLY and if you’re reading my blog and you’ve already seen me before in the past please reintroduce yourself to me!

Goddess Diana Www.tantrabutterfly.com

Certified Usui Reiki Master

Certified Tantra Educator

Certified massage therapist

Sound Healer

Aromatherapist

Certified pranic Healer

Licensed lomi lomi massage therapist

Licensed hot stone therapist

Please note I require a small deposit towards all ceremonies where I am asked to host a spa tantra ceremony. The more notice you give me the better able I am to prepare something memorable and exquisite. I care deeply about creating a beautiful session that will incorporate healing sounds, heady and aromatic scents and an eye catching, colorful environment that enhances our shared time together as we co create sacred space.

Ah before I forget! Back in the day before we used Smartphones my best clients would simply call me directly rather than inundate me with text messages. You see, your voice reassures me you are serious about seeking one of my healing tantra ceremonies. I am very intuitive and I’m able to better assist you if you call me directly and I can tune into your energy to see if the two of us would make a great energy match. There are so many people out here who have replaced text messages in lieu of a simple less time consuming and direct phone call. The only time a text message is appropriate is if you are at work and would like to schedule a real phone call or if you’re at an airport and would love a session with me once you physically land in my city.

The perfect text message would include your full legal name, your profession and the reason for your call.

Let me give you an example of the ideal and concise text message I prefer to receive from potential tantra students:

[Hello Diana, I’ve already read your website extensively and I definitely would enjoy a session with you soon. My name is Earnest Young and I’m a teacher at Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois. I have time to see you between Monday through Wednesday of this week. What time shall I call you to discuss the arrangements?]

The above paragraph meets my standards for the perfect text message. This individual was considerate and polite enough to introduce himself to me so I feel safe. He willingly volunteered as much personal information as he could so I feel comfortable once we chat live. It makes a world of difference on how I perceive my new potential client if I’m treated with complete respect. I do not enjoy endless text messages from complete strangers who keep me guessing as to who they are.

I hope this particular blog entry has enlightened you on the very best ways you should introduce yourself to your future tantra goddess. Please treat us as equals so that we can provide you with the very best!

Chicago Tantra & the vilification of Sex Work & Sex Workers in Chicago, Illinois

Late yesterday evening I received a few very ugly, inappropriate and disturbing text messages sent to my business cell phone.


You can’t possibly imagine how people are still jealous and threatened by healers and educators in my field. People with weak, fragile feelings of self worth find time to attack strangers they never met before.


We who provide healing tools are still treated with complete disdain and misguided anger from strangers daily.


For these reasons I always verify new guests because in a world full of fearful and aggressive people I take nothing for granted. I feel I’ve been extremely transparent on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and you can find information about my services on all social media sites including YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn. Because I hide nothing I deserve to receive the same respect by my potential clients seeking a potential tantra massage ceremony in Chicago, Illinois.


A client of mine had a stroke last week. He only calls me randomly when he got past the point of too much stress. My intuition told me to reach out to him and he is in a hospital bed. Unfortunately he let his levels of stress get to the breaking point by placing work first, money priorities second, his family needs third and his personal health last.


Do you work past your stress limits? You see tantra is a form of yoga and I teach you how to breathe, meditate, slow down your senses and be in the moment. I honor all paths that lead to complete healing; yet I encounter dark energies daily because of the stigma attached to the work I do.

Tantra weaves your Soul with a Universal Source and Grounds your energies.
Contact me for #chakrabalancing #reiki #massagetherapy and #tantramassage & #bathceremonies

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Please visit my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com You will find many options from cuddle therapy, reiki and heart chakra ceremonies to a full day of Advanced tantra spa retreats.

These sessions are for students seeking alternative healing services, opportunities for spiritual growth and immunity boosting options for self care rituals ❀

My sessions are meant to be a meaningful respite from the noisiness of the World we interact with. You will receive caring, sacred touch, guided breath coaching, Aromatherapy, sound healing, usui reiki and I’m open to helping you with a simple tantra retreat for a half day or full day of an enjoyable journey into the chakras.

I welcome men, women, gender fluid and couples into my tantra practice here in Chicago and neighboring suburbs.

Please email me at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Or butterflyshadows@aol.com and introduce yourself if you are seeking alternative healing services and traditional tantra yoga massage in Chicago.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I understand we live in a major city and how stress can build up to the point where your immunity is weakened and your thoughts become irrational and cloudy. There is no time in my heart for drama and misdirected anger. I personally make sure I go on meditative walks daily and that I take a chakra bath as often as I need to.