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May 14, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra Massage by Goddess Diana

The following information is to help you as a potential client gain a greater understanding of how I’m currently conducting my tantra massage practice while I’m still in Chicago, Illinois.

First of all I treat each person uniquely and I do not follow a set recipe. You will be given an opportunity to fully explore my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for yourself prior to meeting me in person.   If you have never had a tantra massage before and you are genuinely confused over the choices found on my website then you are invited to hire me for phone consultation.  I don’t usually spend more than fifteen minutes of my time going over all the details on my website so if you are honestly in need of my advice and attention simply hire me for thirty minutes or more and we will go over all your goals and concerns.

About Goddess Diana

Tantra Goddess Diana offers sensual full body pleasure and Goddess worship lessons to men, women and couples.
I offer sessions in your home, hotel or a separate Upscale private spa space which includes a traditional tantra massage, Goddess Worship, mutual cuddling, aromatherapy, reiki, a jacuzzi for 2 and deep tissue massage.
I also offer half day and full day tantra retreats at a beautiful spa space in the city of Chicago with advanced planning and a small deposit.
If Chicago is not convenient for you to get to I can hold tantra ceremonies in all the nearby suburbs such as Oakbrook Terrace,  Rosemont, Schaumburg, Buffalo Grove, Arlington Heights, Evanston, Illinois, Oak Park and the O’Hare airport area.  I myself am a Native Chicagoan and I’m comfortable traveling to most of these neighborhoods just in case you prefer a private visit to your home instead.
If you call me any day of the week before 3PM and agree to send me a deposit immediately I can acquire a luxury spa space with a jacuzzi experience for two!
If you are unsure what type of session would best suit your needs you are encouraged to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and I will use your fee as a deposit towards a future tantra ceremony. If you can’t meet me in person for coffee you may book a 35 minute phone consultation or hour long phone consultation with me to discuss all your concerns.
I strongly suggest scheduling tantra for 2 full hours to ensure you receive my undivided attention and to help you fully relax and understand every nuance of sensory awareness and Kundalini activation.
My sessions are meant to bring you a blissful escape that will leave you deeply relaxed and empowered. You will feel waves of electricity as I teach you how to breathe in every moment of pleasure. You will feel tingling sensations from your toes and fingertips to the top of your skull.
PLEASE NOTE: If you call me the day of for an appointment then you must have a space for me to go directly to you. I’m strictly outcall only for same day scheduling needs. If you need me to provide a space then I need 24 hours notice and a deposit from you so I may secure an appropriate and lovely space for our tantra ceremony. If however you provide me with an immediate deposit the day of your session before 3 PM then I can acquire a luxury space that will suit your needs!
I do not work from my home. I acquire a beautiful luxury space that meets your expectations and budget so please plan ahead if you need to visit me.
I am a seasoned and educated tantra professional with 25 years of experience and a strong social media presence. I am well reviewed and even have my own YouTube channel that you may peruse prior to connecting with me. You are invited to subscribe to my YouTube channel, follow my blog and connect with me on LinkedIn if you wish!
Because I choose to be so straightforward, honest and transparent I expect the same of you. I will ask you to provide me with your real legal name and profession prior to our first meeting so I feel safe and comfortable. I have had the pleasure of serving high profile Ceo’s, Executive chefs, attorneys, film directors, producers, writers, physicians, Educators, Inventors and other creatives and I am very mindful of discretion. I prefer to work with corporate men and women seeking multi hour spiritual journeys in tantra, alternative healing and spa retreats.
Please thoroughly read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com prior to contacting me and I’d love to offer you some wonderful suggestions for our first session together. If you wish to learn more about me you are encouraged to subscribe to my YouTube channel under TANTRA BUTTERFLY. You will be able to view fresh content weekly and get a strong sense of my personality and what it is tantra massage and tantra yoga can do for your emotional well being, mental outlook and physical health.
I stand behind the heart healing work that I do and always recommend a session of 2 hours in length or longer for your complete understanding of the process of sensual well being and alternative healing. When you schedule a session with me you are in professional, nurturing hands and I am always generous with my guests.
If you need me to go directly to your home and you haven’t given me notice make it simple for both of us and provide me with an Uber or Lyft or send me a small deposit to cover my traveling expenses to you. My desire is to be expedient and offer you my exquisite services at the most desirable time for your needs so please be thoughtful and provide me with transportation so I may arrive promptly.
Reasons why you should consider hiring me as your Tantra Guide are manifold because I have life experience as a healer and Sensual guide and I’ve been formally trained by several masters of reiki, tantra, chakra balancing and traditional massage modalities. I am not a clock watcher and I have a great passion for creating sacred space! I hope you choose me soon for yourself or as a couple seeking authentic tantra and sensual bliss therapies.
When you agree to contracting my tantra services you need to also understand that I am not a prostitute.  I will be offering you tantra lessons, breathing exercises, chakra balancing, sound healing, sensual massage, therapeutic massage, chanting lessons, cuddle therapy, couples education and traditional tantra yoga bodywork.   We will not be engaging in sexual intercourse so please don’t ask that of me before booking time with me or during our tantra ceremony.
What I do is a form of Pink Tantra. I combine my knowledge of Kundalini Yoga and sensual massage that will activate your sexual energy trapped within the lower part of your tailbone known as your base chakra or root chakra.
The combination of breathing exercises, chanting, trigger point massage and alternative chakra balancing will help you feel sexual energies travel throughout your entire being and bring you waves of tingling sensory bliss we call Kundalini Skakti.
Congratulations! You’ve got this far and you’ve carefully read my brief description of how I present tantra to my students seeking unconventional healing and nurturing touch.
The paragraphs below will detail my current pricing system.
There is some slight wiggle room with some of the prices you see listed here on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.  Once you enter my website you will see a page entitled Ceremonial Donations.  The donation page covers non sensual ceremonies like pure reiki which are priced lower than my tantra ceremonies.  All non sensual sessions are created to address your energetic body and you and I will be fully clothed if you choose to hire me for an hour or 90 minute session of reiki.  When you choose a tantra massage session reiki will be completely complementary to you at no additional charge to you.

If you are experiencing some financial difficulties now but still desire a session we can discuss a slight price adjustment. The only services not available for a discount are my Couples tantra sessions and Goddess Worship ceremonies. If however you are experiencing Abundance right now please do not attempt to exploit my pricing system and pretend to need deep discounts if you truly do not

need one. I’m seeing fewer people now which means you will receive my genuine attention if we decide to work together. If you are thriving feel free to tip me and share your Good Karma. I’ve had many people trying to exploit my generosity which isn’t fair to me or the people that truly do need a discount. My prices are comparable to other major tantra professionals in my field and I’m always appreciative and generous to clients who treat me with complete respect and kindness. Let’s be Karmically correct with one another during these times!

Reiki Master
Licensed Tantra Master
Licensed Pranic Healer
Hot stone therapist
Couples tantra coach
You are welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn and Subscribe to my YouTube channel under Tantra Butterfly
Mobile Contact:  312 339 7707
Email addresses
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com
May 8, 2020 No comments

Chicago tantra Goddess explains the true meaning of tantra yoga

The true purpose of exploring tantra yoga is to expand consciousness and learn how to use your heart and your latent kundalini energy as a healing medicinal tool.

We all have the ability to be more compassionate and open to receiving and giving unconditional love.

I will teach you how to be more open and yet I will also help you delineate and establish healthy boundaries between you and your partner.

As you grow within you realize how complete you already are. You are your own soulmate and you accept yourself completely for all your flaws and past choices. You learn to move on with grave and forgive yourself.

Please join me soon while I am still residing in the city of Chicago. Take advantage of my healing services and create more opportunities for spiritual growth that will enhance your creativity, your emotional well being and your intuition.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

You are encouraged to subscribe to my YouTube channel at TANTRA BUTTERFLY

If you are committed to trying one of my tantra ceremonies you may call me directly at 312 339 7707 and or write me an email at
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Goddess Diana
Certified Tantra Master & Tantra Educator
Usui Reiki Master
Certified in Pranic Healing
Aromatherapist
Couples Tantra instructor
Sound Healer
Certified Hot Stone therapist
Creative Muse and Guide
Oracle
Long distance healer

Please be advised I do require all my potential new students of tantra to be completely transparent about who they are and what they are seeking.  I am NOT an escort and yes I have had formal training in alternative healing, Usui Reiki, chakra balancing, sound healing, massage and tantra yoga.

You will be required to share your legal name with me and your professional profile with me prior to any tantra ceremony.  You can include a bit of background information on yourself and a few goals including the budget and timeframe you wish to work within.  I honor all genders and races but I only choose to work with a select few of responsible and respectful individuals that understand tantra yoga is primarily about spiritual expansion, personal growth, healing and safe boundaries.

I come from a place of deep respect when I connect with your energies and I wish to attract like minded Beings who want to flourish, prosper and wish to learn how to touch their partner with respect and unconditional love.

You are always welcome to Subscribe to my YOUTUBE channel by searching for Tantra Butterfly.  You may show your support by liking my pages on Facebook

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join my network on LinkedIn and be sure to follow this blog for additional updates.

You may also find me on Twitter and Instagram just click directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and follow the links.

Act NOW if you are desirous of a healing tantra ceremony with me here in Chicago because I do love to travel and I’m here to serve you while I’m physically here to do so!

 
April 23, 2020 No comments

Chicago tantra massage by Goddess Diana

Good evening!

I felt inspired to write on my blog this evening because I’m trying to attract certain types of energies and potential new cliebts to my offerings and unique skillset.

If you are seeking an Escort service kindly leave my blog or you are welcome to continue reading knowing that I’m not offering escort services nor am I a Tantra Courtesan or even a Sexual Surrogate.

I’m not interested in offering up my body to random strangers for a set price; nor am I a poor man’s substitute for people seeking a traditional escort service.  I’m not a professional prostitute because I don’t enjoy the act of sexual intercourse with anyone unless I feel a deep chemical attraction and or soulmate connection with that individual.

If you are seeking Usui Reiki,  sensual massage, bodywork, energy healing, cuddle therapy, lomi lomi massage, aromatherapy, yoga, meditation, visualization, and traditional tantra massage then I’m the perfect fit for your heart healing needs.

When you decide to contract my services you are doing so because of your strong desire to receive heart nurturing touch.  I also have enthusiasm for any individual seeking Goddess worship sessions which is the art of opening up a woman’s body and sensual energy to Sacred sensuality.

If I feel you aren’t coming from a place of knowledge or sincerity I might initiate you by solely working on your sensual energy first so you may experience what it’s like to be a receiver of Kundalini Shakti. My opinion is that you must feel comfortable receiving energy prior to learning how to be a give of sensual pleasure.

If I feel you are ready for the advanced Goddess honoring ceremonies then I strongly advise you to schedule a full 3 hour ceremony with me and the prices quoted on my website strictly for Goddess Worship will be set in stone and never offered at a discounted price because I’m using and offering up my body as a model in order to properly teach you a skill you can use with your partner forever.  These sessions and services must be respected and you will learn more about the Divine Feminine as I guide you into the art of serving the Goddess.  The Goddess Worship session isn’t about you nor is my body used for your personal pleasure.  Goddess ceremonies are for men seeking a greater understanding of healing a woman using sacred and intentional touch.  If you decide to contract me for Goddess Worship you will be guided and instructed on breath, reiki, eye gazing and yoni healing.  These sessions are for people who are emotionally mature and who have a desire to be selfless for their lovers.

When you contact me please understand I’m primarily a trained yogini and empath. I am highly skilled with sound healing, opening up chakras  and  I am very adept at activating your kundalini Shakti or sleeping serpent. I pride myself at understanding the subtle intricacies of your physical and energetic bodies and I truly enjoy setting up Sacred Space so that we can both co create something beautiful and memorable together.

My tantra massage sessions are currently held in slSchaumburg, Illinois and Chicago.  During our time together I will conscoously activate, soothe and electrify you.  My desire is to bring you waves of bliss and full body euphoria that will replenish and restore your sense of humor and inner peace.

When you read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com I hope you will decide to take the plunge and put your complete trust in me.  Please ask me about full or half day tantra spa retreats and or couples tantra if you are married but need a boost.

I’m available for sponsorship to your home city within the United States or you may schedule a paid phone consultation with me to discuss the possibilities of a future tantra ceremony with me exclusively.Tantra is a valid form of yoga and helps alleviate chronic pain, insomnia and depression.

Tantra massage and tantra yoga is a valid form of energy work if you take it seriously and practice it daily.

Sessions can last 90 minutes in length up to a full day and I can bring the session to you or we can set up the ceremony at a beautiful spa space with a deposit and a firm date.

You are encouraged to call me if these services interest you and if you feel emotionally prepared for the journey.

I’m a licensed tantra educator and reiki master and I have been formally trained in many massage modalities including energy work and chakra balancing.

If you feel more comfortable introducing yourself via email contact me here ~>
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Be honest about your budget, goals and time constraints. DO NOT request my most expensive sessions at a deep discount. I do my best to provide new clients some leeway with sliding fees scale options but Couples tantra and Goddess Worship sessions are never offered at a discounted price.

If you need me to appoint a space for our session to take place an advanced deposit is always required prior to our ceremony ( no exceptions ).  If your deposit isn’t paid the session will be canceled.

I do not work from home at this current moment in time.  It’s my personal choice at the present time to separate my living quarters from the healing and sacred work I do.

Please respect my boundaries 🦡

You will need to introduce yourself to me properly by including your social media presence, your full legal name and your profession in order to be considered for a future potential session.

If I’m unable to accommodate your specific needs I’ll gladly refer you to someone else in my field.

I’m on LinkedIn, Google, Facebook, Twitter and many other Social Media networking platforms.  I purposefully make myself transparent to allow future clients to feel more comfortable about contacting me. I expect the same transparency from you.

You are invited to follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly.

If I refuse you services perhaps you didn’t honor my boundaries. I will not purchase a special space unless I receive a deposit first and I will not accept a potential student of tantra who is either attempting to exploit my pricing system, generosity or using my services for ulterior motives that go against my personal boundaries.

Don’t use graphic language in the body of any emails you send me.
If I’m unable to accommodate you because my intuition informs me we aren’t a good energy match do not send me harassing messages and or texts.  There is no reason for you to take my rejection personally.  If you are seeking an escort service or girlfriend experience I will decline your offer to book a session with me and refer you to an Escort site instead.

There are so many wonderful tantra Goddesses here in Chicago and other cities that might be more suitable for your needs and I use my intuition and integrity to decide if we should meet for a session in person.

If I ask you for a deposit to secure a space please do not play games with me. I will not spend money on a space without first securing a deposit from you first to assure you are serious about committing to a firm date and time.

I am a trained professional with many years of experience and positive feedback and reviews from clients who have trusted me.  When you contact me over the phone please treat me like you would any professional career person or business colleague.

I require all new students of tantra to honor my boundaries and have the emotional maturity to communicate with me with politeness and proper etiquette.

Tantra yoga will include breathwork, sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy and above all Mutual respect.

If I feel you don’t respect me over the phone the process of healing simply will not work.

I ask that you please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com thoroughly.  Be fair to me and spend at least 90 minutes reading a site that took years for me to develop.

If you call me be ready to book a session with me. It’s truly not my responsibility to solicit you over the phone and attempt to go over every little detail or nuance that is described on my website.  If however you are genuinely confused and not sure which ceremony to select I suggest you HIRE me for a phone consultation and I’ll spend 30 minutes or a full hour on the phone with you to discuss all your options and goals.  A phone consultation might clarify everything for you and it might make you more comfortable and confident before our first meeting.

I’m truly seeking new students of tantra who have already done their own personal research and who are committed to learning more about energy work, chakras and alternative healing.
December 31, 2019 No comments

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

 
June 17, 2019 No comments

Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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February 5, 2019 No comments

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
September 7, 2016 No comments

Couples Tantra in Chicago to help regenerate trust in your relationship and self awareness.

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Dear Audience, I hope everyone here had a peaceful Labor Day Holiday. I myself balanced play, work and some wonderful fun self love activities into my weekend.

I met a wonderful couple this weekend from Missouri and it was their first opportunity to receive couples Tantra so not only were they open to touch but they came here to Chicago without any misconceptions, bias, bad experiences or expectations.

I feel that when you are open to what the energy of Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage can do for you and your relationship you end up receiving so much more than what you could have possibly anticipated. Of course when you have misconceptions and you base your new experience on sex videos then yes you might be let down. Not everyone is going to receive multiple orgasms the first time they come to work with me with their partner. Some people feel a tingling in their limbs or a gentle heat vibration along their spinal column but do not actually have the ability to reach orgasm in front of their partner especially not if they are shy or self conscious when meeting with a sex educator.

I am so pleased when people are just open to sensing their own energies and finally being aware of the transference of energy from their own body to their partner’s body. We have a tendency to numb our body’s ability to sense touch and tantra yoga and massage helps your body open up so that your concerns are gone and all you are aware of is your own body. You might feel weightless or timeless during a couples tantra ceremony and my goal is to make both of you feel more vital, awakened but centered and calm.

The following is a testimonial I just received and I am happy to share it with all of you especially if you have never tried a couples tantra session before in the hopes that you will understand what Tantra Massage can do for you and your frame of mind.

Goddess Diana,
Thank you for your gift of touch this past weekend and thank you for accommodating my wife and I for our second year anniversary and making this a most unique Labor Day Holiday. My wife encouraged me to try tantra through out the years we dated but I really was not ready for the journey and honestly I had no real idea besides videos we had watched together what Tantra Massage or Tantra yoga practices involved. I don’t normally even receive massages and when you touched me and I could actually feel your presence I understood exactly what I’ve been missing all this time and now I do realize I have a lot of “catching up” to do.

I could feel your energy move through me and when you and I started working on my wife I felt a tingling sensation vibrating between my fingers and my wife’s skin as if we were electrically charged and feeding each other energy. I almost felt weightless and timeless if I can put all this into words for you. We scheduled you for a full three hours and to me it felt like we spent a good seventy five minutes together because our session moved through so quickly and without effort. I had no expectations and I just trusted you to guide me.

My wife and I were tingling for hours after our session and we both felt awake but peaceful at the same time. I can say I felt safe, loved, renewed and peacefully content after our couples session. Also I am so happy with your hotel suggestion because we had a gorgeous view of the city and loved the spa bath that we all shared together so now I even know of a great place to stay in the future the next time we visit Chicago.

I want you to know I am more open now to the possibility of exploring other aspects of Tantra and I do now wish to learn more about the energy centers involved especially when you helped activate my sexual energy. Our session as a couple this weekend meant a lot to us and I am now better prepared to want to explore other venues like tantra workshops because I feel a lot less self conscious about this entire journey. Your patience, your compassion and your ability to infuse laughter into our ceremony has left a strong impression on me. I guess I never valued touch till I saw the smile on my wife’s face this weekend and I never felt so open and ready to learn more! Thank you for being so generous with your time. I know I paid you for three hours but I noticed maybe it went on a bit longer even though the time went so fast. Next time we might see you for a whole day if we have the time and if you are still in Chicago.

Thank you again for taking the time to reach deep within me and helping me feel and sense energy I never felt before. I never realized how touch starved I was or how energetically charged a good massage could be till I experienced your touch! I realize now that touch, sexual chemistry, love, connection, and energy are all interwoven. I am even expressing myself much differently than I used to and I am thankful for people like you that actually do have passion for the work they do! I don’t ever want to let myself get so “shut down” again.

Jonathon and Krysten from Kansas, Missouri

As I leave you with this information and thoughts to ponder I invite you to peruse my website for additional offerings just in case you have that urge to free up your own energy or come visit me here in Chicago or sponsor me in your city for Couples Tantra Massage. Please visit my main site at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly here at 312-339-7707

I look forward to your call.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
July 20, 2016 1 Comment

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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January 24, 2016 No comments

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

Giorgione_-_Sleeping_Venus_-_Google_Art_Project_2So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
Giorgione~
December 21, 2015 No comments

How to initiate a Traditional Tantra Session with your Partner ❤♥

"Resting Maiden", probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O'Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.

“Resting Maiden”, probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O’Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.

Are you up for a true challenge this Christmas? I always am and I am currently visiting Orlando, Florida hiding away from winter snow because I happen to love tropical weather and walking around in my sandals without worrying about wearing a coat. I am always ready for change and a change of scenery.
If you are a couple here in Orlando, Florida and you feel you are a ready to establish a more meaningful connection with your lover I would love to help you facilitate something special this December.
Many people need more play in their life. I realize many of you are Ceo’s and are professional so you are expected to show up at your work place calm, ready for anything and well polished.
Tantra teaches us to be comfortable with being ourselves. You are not expected to be anything or pretend to be someone you are simply expected to be ready to be accepted and loved unconditionally.
We begin the practice of unconditional love by sitting in silence with our partner. You may love the outdoors so maybe you might want to take your lover outside in a private place without distractions and stay seated in front of each other comfortably. You can gaze into your lover’s eyes and the just be present for her or him. You are not allowed to think of anything. Now that is more difficult than it seems. We sometimes think of the past, present and future but during this exercise you are a blank canvass, releasing all concerns and you are going to beam a strobe of complete, unconditional love into your partner’s eyes. You can try practicing this for fifteen minutes initially and then as you get better at it maybe prepare to spend a full 45 minutes just staring and smiling at each other contentedly. You will breathe together, holding hands and in this way all your chakra centers are in complete alignment.
These are exercises that are for couples seeking unity, understanding and an opening of their heart chakra centers.
Many people are confused about the true intention of tantra yoga. Yes you will grow as a couple more intimately and yes you will even crave each other more but this is created from a true heart intention and if you are able to make your partner feel safe and loved without raw, physical contact; just imagine how much more profound your love making ritual will grow once you become more sensitive to who your partner really is. You will be asking very little of each other but the honor of seeing through each other without judgement and without any hurry to go anywhere after the exercise is finished.
I am sure that many couples misconstrue the meaning of learning tantra. There are couples who are impatient and only want to get to the excitement of kama sutra and sexual positions but when they skip over the honoring of one another and deny the slow moving spiritual path of this work they will not reap the healing benefits of transitioning from a physical experience to a spiritual elevation.
I am open to teaching couples in the Orlando, Florida area now that I am here enjoying winter with all of you in this lush, laid back environment. I hope to attract a few couples or singles who have a half day to let go of their normal routines or their opinions of what tantra yoga is and is not.
I am here, present, open and willing to share my knowledge of tantra yoga for private sessions and couples sessions and I hope to connect with you during the week of Christmas. If you have time to grow please contact me this week in Orlando.