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Couples Tantra in Chicago to help regenerate trust in your relationship and self awareness.

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Dear Audience, I hope everyone here had a peaceful Labor Day Holiday. I myself balanced play, work and some wonderful fun self love activities into my weekend.

I met a wonderful couple this weekend from Missouri and it was their first opportunity to receive couples Tantra so not only were they open to touch but they came here to Chicago without any misconceptions, bias, bad experiences or expectations.

I feel that when you are open to what the energy of Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage can do for you and your relationship you end up receiving so much more than what you could have possibly anticipated. Of course when you have misconceptions and you base your new experience on sex videos then yes you might be let down. Not everyone is going to receive multiple orgasms the first time they come to work with me with their partner. Some people feel a tingling in their limbs or a gentle heat vibration along their spinal column but do not actually have the ability to reach orgasm in front of their partner especially not if they are shy or self conscious when meeting with a sex educator.

I am so pleased when people are just open to sensing their own energies and finally being aware of the transference of energy from their own body to their partner’s body. We have a tendency to numb our body’s ability to sense touch and tantra yoga and massage helps your body open up so that your concerns are gone and all you are aware of is your own body. You might feel weightless or timeless during a couples tantra ceremony and my goal is to make both of you feel more vital, awakened but centered and calm.

The following is a testimonial I just received and I am happy to share it with all of you especially if you have never tried a couples tantra session before in the hopes that you will understand what Tantra Massage can do for you and your frame of mind.

Goddess Diana,
Thank you for your gift of touch this past weekend and thank you for accommodating my wife and I for our second year anniversary and making this a most unique Labor Day Holiday. My wife encouraged me to try tantra through out the years we dated but I really was not ready for the journey and honestly I had no real idea besides videos we had watched together what Tantra Massage or Tantra yoga practices involved. I don’t normally even receive massages and when you touched me and I could actually feel your presence I understood exactly what I’ve been missing all this time and now I do realize I have a lot of “catching up” to do.

I could feel your energy move through me and when you and I started working on my wife I felt a tingling sensation vibrating between my fingers and my wife’s skin as if we were electrically charged and feeding each other energy. I almost felt weightless and timeless if I can put all this into words for you. We scheduled you for a full three hours and to me it felt like we spent a good seventy five minutes together because our session moved through so quickly and without effort. I had no expectations and I just trusted you to guide me.

My wife and I were tingling for hours after our session and we both felt awake but peaceful at the same time. I can say I felt safe, loved, renewed and peacefully content after our couples session. Also I am so happy with your hotel suggestion because we had a gorgeous view of the city and loved the spa bath that we all shared together so now I even know of a great place to stay in the future the next time we visit Chicago.

I want you to know I am more open now to the possibility of exploring other aspects of Tantra and I do now wish to learn more about the energy centers involved especially when you helped activate my sexual energy. Our session as a couple this weekend meant a lot to us and I am now better prepared to want to explore other venues like tantra workshops because I feel a lot less self conscious about this entire journey. Your patience, your compassion and your ability to infuse laughter into our ceremony has left a strong impression on me. I guess I never valued touch till I saw the smile on my wife’s face this weekend and I never felt so open and ready to learn more! Thank you for being so generous with your time. I know I paid you for three hours but I noticed maybe it went on a bit longer even though the time went so fast. Next time we might see you for a whole day if we have the time and if you are still in Chicago.

Thank you again for taking the time to reach deep within me and helping me feel and sense energy I never felt before. I never realized how touch starved I was or how energetically charged a good massage could be till I experienced your touch! I realize now that touch, sexual chemistry, love, connection, and energy are all interwoven. I am even expressing myself much differently than I used to and I am thankful for people like you that actually do have passion for the work they do! I don’t ever want to let myself get so “shut down” again.

Jonathon and Krysten from Kansas, Missouri

As I leave you with this information and thoughts to ponder I invite you to peruse my website for additional offerings just in case you have that urge to free up your own energy or come visit me here in Chicago or sponsor me in your city for Couples Tantra Massage. Please visit my main site at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly here at 312-339-7707

I look forward to your call.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Couples Sensual Massage and Couples Tantra Coaching in Chicago by Goddess Diana

Well it’s been a while and it’s raining hard outside so I thought this would be the perfect time to blog online! This summer I have been fortunate enough to attract some wonderful new guests including two new couples who were completely new to tantra.

If you would still love to try tantra and you are still uncertain about what tantra is I suggest you just plunge in and enjoy the experience because the worst that can happen is you leave with new skills on tantra breath, and new techniques to share with your partner such as healing with sound and light, energetic touch.

My suggestion for new couples of Tantra is that we set up sacred space in your home or a separate spa boutique space so we can share a jacuzzi tub for three. During the bathing ceremony we focus on just opening up your energies and I teach both of you how to hold each other during yab yam. When you are facing each other in the bath all your Chakras are completely open and connected leaving you feeling much lighter energetically and physically.

After the bath your muscles are fully relaxed and the debris from your Chakras have left so you are freer and more trusting of touch. Your mind is peaceful and you can hear the sounds of your own heart beat.Seasons of the Goddess
Your mind is free to travel and you are ready to explore astral travel and your own powerful energies are released as we perform the four handed massage.

You are not going to just quietly watch as you and your partner receive Tantra Massage. You will be assisting me in every aspect of your lover’s healing process and unlimited pleasure. The best way to learn tantra massage and pick up new skills is to practice and actively be my massage assistant. While I focus on your partner’s sexual energy you yourself will be able to watch me but you will also hold sacred space and caress your partner’s hair, their face, their heart and their belly.

The four handed Tantra Massage is healing and profound keeping you in a suspended state of bliss. You will both have your turns to be giver and receiver and you will both be actively learning and allowed to ask me questions. I suggest you schedule me for one long ceremony of at least 3 to four hours for the first time you visit me and then shorter increments of time for follow up visits to keep your progress and understanding of Basic tantra moving forward.

Videos and books are wonderful tools to use in between my tantra ceremonies but books are not a substitute for profound energetic shifts you will make when you visit me for a Tantra Ceremony.

Couples I recommend you give me at least two days notice and I will give you suggestions on where we can create Sacred Space here in Chicago. I even welcome a coffee date before we have our first session and always keep your mind free of expectations because energy is unpredictable and these sessions will uncover aspects of you that you may have buried from your own ego.

Please read my main website in great detail here at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and take time out this week to ask me at least twenty minutes worth of questions by phone here (312) 339-7707
Please consult with your partner first before you contact me and if both wish to meet me for coffee before you are ready to embark I am open to your questions.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Massage therapist
Reiki Master
Sound Healing
Tantra Educator
Psychic Healer

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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Healing aspects of Sensual Massage and Sensual Surrender

jean harlow faceHello! I am inspired to graze over the topic of sensual massage and Tantra Eros on my blog today. I can’t promise there is a cure all to what ails you but I can only offer my humor, healing presence and gentleness to teach you how to be more loving to your partner.
If however you have deep seated anger issues against your significant other or if you have an axe to grind against women in general I would prefer to suggest you seek professional counseling because my sessions are more suitable for men who love women and honestly I would prefer you seek counseling if you have passive aggressive tendencies.

I value anyone’s feelings who come to me for a sacred healing. I am currently visiting the Washington D.C. and Maryland borderline and I hope to attract men or couples who do have a desire for connection. I am not a licensed psychotherapist so if you feel anger towards your partner please seek a licensed therapist and I think you can move on with a greater perspective on your life and what’s eating you.

My sessions are for men going through hunger pains either due to physical illness, transitions in career paths or divorce. If you have been without touch my sensual massage sessions will include cuddling exercises that will help you feel more grounded and centered. I allow cuddling, mutual conscious touch, light feathery sensory touch and exercises that can amp up your energy into a full body tingling awakening. If you are ready for a full body kundalini activation I include male g-spot massage during my traditional tantra ceremonies and all tantra ceremonies include sensual touch. You may find my g-spot massage helpful if you are feeling a bit stuck in life or if you are doubting your ability to manifest what you want in your life.

Sensual Massage is good for your brain activity and your central nervous system. The lightest touch can make you feel more hopeful about life and help you find more creative approaches to problem solving. Sensual Massage does not always have to culminate in the most mind blowing orgasm because that may not be where your body is in the moment. There will be alternative times where you feel blissfully awakened and vibrating with energy and other moments when you feel trance like and calm. You might leave your body and drift off peacefully for a while as you receive my healing sensual touch but I will always allow you to be what you need to be in the moment.

Please join me this week in Washington D.C. for sensual massage, traditional tantra ceremonies and Reiki. I can to the best of my ability focus on your needs and I can promise positive results for as long as you are open to the healing aspects of sensuality without guilt or shame.

You are welcome to read my testimonials on my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/testimonials.htm and get a feel for what is possible. No two people can expect the same results but I can assure you what ever aspects you carry in your consciousness will come out more clearly after you receive a sensual massage or a traditional tantra activation.

Visit my main website for a full listing of offerings at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and feel free to ask me questions prior to your first visit. My best contact number is 312-339-7707 and feel free to address me as simply Diana.

Sensual massage is offered during my visit to Washington D.C. and I love to include essential oils, aromatherapy, reiki, tantra and breathing exercises to help lift you up and bring you to a brighter place. My sessions are best suited for men or women who are touch starved and who have an open and loving heart and or sensitivity to touch.

Hope to hear from you when you are ready to shift your energy.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Massage in Metro D.C., Maryland, and Alexandria, Virginia

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Do you know that we spend at least half of our time connecting and breathing together during our shared tantra Ceremony? It’s so easy to get lost in thought even if you are receiving a healing massage because most corporate men and women are used to being “switched” on all day. You are used to your planned out day or ritual so you can make the most use of your time. You wake up at a certain hour to make sure you are not late. You read your notes for the day to make sure you are well prepared for your meeting so you don’t look foolish to your peers. You squeeze your lunch hour in somehow all the while constantly checking your phone for incoming emails and last minute emergencies or conference calls and then you go home and do your home ritual to make the most of your leisure time either alone or with your close family members and friends.

When do you actually take time for the breath? When do you find time to unplug and just be? When you decide that you have extra time to indulge and co create sacred space please consider me as your personal Muse and Tantra Guide. I will give you lessons on the Ocean breath which will help you relax and calm down your overwrought central nervous system.

Just like a good athlete you will need a few moments of complete rest or a breather from your normal routine to relax the most overworked muscle of your body—your brain.

Your brain and heart requires oxygenation and when you engage with me during one of my Tantra Ceremonies here in Metro D.C. and Maryland I will teach you how to breathe fully and with ease so you won’t be able to think of anything but the sounds of the room or the touch of my hand.

I will guide you in a calming meditation that will recharge your Chakra centers and hopefully retrain your nervous system to give up control and be more sensitive to all types of touch. My hands will be guided to certain power centers of your body and after our time together your body will memorize where my hand has been almost like an imprint you will feel energetically.

Please take advantage of my presence here now that I am visiting Maryland, Metro D.C. and Virginia.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for many optional ceremonies and I will be here to discuss anything that arouses your curiosity.

Graciously,
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you feel more comfortable traveling to your home in Georgetown, Du Pont Circle or any part of the Metro D.C. area just provide me with a taxi or Uber driver round trip and I will happily offer my healing instructions at your home or hotel. I am easily reachable between the hours of 9am till midnight. I work with small workshops, couples and individuals who wish to lose track of all time and get lost in exploratory touch. I am skilled with alternative healing, Reiki, deep tissue, and Tantra Yoga. I will be available in Maryland, Virginia and Metro D.C. to work on your ability to be fully present and in the moment.

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

Giorgione_-_Sleeping_Venus_-_Google_Art_Project_2So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
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How to initiate a Traditional Tantra Session with your Partner ❤♥

"Resting Maiden", probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O'Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.

“Resting Maiden”, probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O’Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.

Are you up for a true challenge this Christmas? I always am and I am currently visiting Orlando, Florida hiding away from winter snow because I happen to love tropical weather and walking around in my sandals without worrying about wearing a coat. I am always ready for change and a change of scenery.
If you are a couple here in Orlando, Florida and you feel you are a ready to establish a more meaningful connection with your lover I would love to help you facilitate something special this December.
Many people need more play in their life. I realize many of you are Ceo’s and are professional so you are expected to show up at your work place calm, ready for anything and well polished.
Tantra teaches us to be comfortable with being ourselves. You are not expected to be anything or pretend to be someone you are simply expected to be ready to be accepted and loved unconditionally.
We begin the practice of unconditional love by sitting in silence with our partner. You may love the outdoors so maybe you might want to take your lover outside in a private place without distractions and stay seated in front of each other comfortably. You can gaze into your lover’s eyes and the just be present for her or him. You are not allowed to think of anything. Now that is more difficult than it seems. We sometimes think of the past, present and future but during this exercise you are a blank canvass, releasing all concerns and you are going to beam a strobe of complete, unconditional love into your partner’s eyes. You can try practicing this for fifteen minutes initially and then as you get better at it maybe prepare to spend a full 45 minutes just staring and smiling at each other contentedly. You will breathe together, holding hands and in this way all your chakra centers are in complete alignment.
These are exercises that are for couples seeking unity, understanding and an opening of their heart chakra centers.
Many people are confused about the true intention of tantra yoga. Yes you will grow as a couple more intimately and yes you will even crave each other more but this is created from a true heart intention and if you are able to make your partner feel safe and loved without raw, physical contact; just imagine how much more profound your love making ritual will grow once you become more sensitive to who your partner really is. You will be asking very little of each other but the honor of seeing through each other without judgement and without any hurry to go anywhere after the exercise is finished.
I am sure that many couples misconstrue the meaning of learning tantra. There are couples who are impatient and only want to get to the excitement of kama sutra and sexual positions but when they skip over the honoring of one another and deny the slow moving spiritual path of this work they will not reap the healing benefits of transitioning from a physical experience to a spiritual elevation.
I am open to teaching couples in the Orlando, Florida area now that I am here enjoying winter with all of you in this lush, laid back environment. I hope to attract a few couples or singles who have a half day to let go of their normal routines or their opinions of what tantra yoga is and is not.
I am here, present, open and willing to share my knowledge of tantra yoga for private sessions and couples sessions and I hope to connect with you during the week of Christmas. If you have time to grow please contact me this week in Orlando.

Goddess Diana offering Tantra Massage in Louisville, Kentucky ❤♡

For the past two days I have been exploring Louisville, Kentucky with my two wonderful pets Mishka the Bear and Mr. Valentino the Mobster Pussy!
Sometimes plans change and I found myself stranded here in Kentucky as a sort of “pit stop” before heading towards Asheville, North Carolina but I am beyond grateful because I had the chance to introduce Tantra Massage and Tantra/Reiki with some wonderful new guests.
Temporarily I am stumped at the fact that I did have to turn away a repeat guest of mine tonight visiting from out of town. I am sorry to relay the fact that Pay pal is living in the stone age and after working with pay pal for many years and never receiving any bad feedback from anyone or clients pay pal decided that Tantra is lewd and lascivious rather than a healing and positive way to balance the body and mind.
I love my work with a passion. I always always encounter some hostile and angry individual who use my “work” as a weapon against me whether it’s me applying for a new job or finding a nice apartment.
People in my field are often misjudged and placed in a nifty box so it becomes easier for people to reject us whether it’s a new love relationship or a beautiful home we might wish to purchase.
Sadly we are living now in the “dark ages” and we need to revise certain laws that discourage people from exploring their sexual energy in a safe and nurturing environment.
I have encountered slander and libel on adult message boards from petty and immature men who misconstrued my offerings and decided to fit me into a box and ridicule me online many times over.
If society can not accept tantra as a healing and viable tool for creativity and self awareness then this is not a golden age this is a repressive and uptight place that needs to move forward and heal itself.
I am proud to explore energy whether it be sensually oriented or infused with light healing touch such as reiki and hot stone therapy. I work on every aspect of the auric field not just the physical realm.
Tantra is the focus of intention and being present for your partner.
Sure I sometimes find my mind dwelling when I am in ceremony but the breath brings me back into the present which is why I often encourage my students to gently breathe and hum and “tone” with me.
The body responds to sight, sound, taste and touch. If we ignore just one small part of who we are we are not in balance. Tantra is the Co creation of “magical” manifestation. We breathe into our hearts and circulate the energies between ourselves in unison.
I am a spontaneous Being and I love travel. Travel is a major part of how I define myself. My time here in Louisville, Kentucky was graced with self healing, exploring new neighborhoods and sharing my energy and intentions with some very powerful new guests who showed me tenderness and vulnerability during our tantra sessions here in Kentucky.
I enjoyed some wonderful shopping and great latte. I had time fit in a bit of everything here In Louisville, Kentucky and I have so much more to see, taste and experience. Part of Tantra is the act of being open to change and embracing a change of plans with an open mind and heart.
I have gratitude for every step I take and every new guest I have the pleasure and delight of meeting.
Thank you gentlemen of Louisville, Kentucky for being you and being fully thoughtful and present for you Goddess! I love tenderness in men and I found the men here to be very soft spoken and open hearted which is a gift in itself ❤

Thank you for giving me the chance of gracing me with your presence
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Please don’t judge me based on my career Path!

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I wanted to share this with everyone here today! Sadly the work I do is not always revered or regarded with respect by a majority of people who reside here in the United States or other countries for that matter.
Just two days ago I was victimized on Craigslist because I responded to an ad from a man seeking a “gal friday” in exchange for reduced or no rent and a potential to earn extra money on the side.

I was toying with the idea of spending a month in Miami beach soon and I was hoping to find a nice live in situation where I could work and trade my skills which includes writing and cooking for a place to live.

I innocently responded using my email address butterflyshadows@aol.com and I asked how I could be of use to this man so I could share a space in exchange for work. This man without even responding to my email somehow linked me to my tantra website and started sending me text messages to my cell phone accusing me of being an “unwelcome pet” and he was going to monitor my account and my IP address as a violation of conduct.

So why am I the victim of harassment? Why did he decide that I am unworthy and I am a horrible human being because I teach tantra yoga and because I work with sacred sensuality? Am I committing a crime for wanting to help people and restore balance in someone’s life? Am I a horrible human being because I wanted to offer my skills or my ability to cook and clean and organize someone’s office space?

Instead of people judging first I wonder why people can’t be more civilized and humane and simply call directly on the phone rather than project their fear and their previous bad experiences or “wrongs” onto others. I feel this man had the need to misjudge and victimize me and report my account because he was taken advantage of by someone from his past and he felt the need to judge me and lash out on me because he sent me three angry text messages and said my account was going to be reported and monitored simply because I wanted to have reduced rent and respond to his ad using my real email address.

We have such a long long way to go before sex workers and healers are considered as equal as any other professional in this country. I don’t feel ashamed of who I am or what I represent I just wonder why there is so much ignorance and anger sent towards people in my field.
There seems to be so much misdirected angst and anger and so much healing that needs to be done on our inner psyche.

Why should we project a sense of anger or unworthiness unto anyone without first getting to know that person first? Shouldn’t we be judged by our actions and our conduct first?

Kundalini Awakening is different for everyone but always uniquely yours to experience

What is kundalini Energy? Unless you have had a lucid dream or unless you have awakened in the middle of the night with an out of body experience it’s hard to understand exactly what a kundalini activation feels like.

I have had several kundalini experiences and MOST of them were non sensual in nature. I do have good memories of a rather soothing kundalini activation right after I received a good sports massage that was not sensual at all but rather healing. After my therapist left the room I received warm, soothing vibrations of gentle electricity along each of my vertabrae. I was unable to move my limbs or even open my eyes. I heard a gentle humming vibration buzzing and sounds in the room became muffled. I was a bit scared but realized it was me. My own energy was surging and I just had to go with it and relax without being scared and without judging. I must admit it is a bit scary when you feel your limbs are going numb or tingling but if you simply allow the energy to flow it can be revitalizing, uplifting or emotional. You might find yourself especially raw or over emotional for a day or two afterwards so I am not saying it’s fuzzy and cotton candy enjoyable. Sometimes a kundalini awakening is raw and jagged and jarring. You feel like you are becoming more irritable but if you see it as a process or a building block towards enlightenment then it is a trip worth taking and it is completely organic in nature.

During tantra we breathe a lot together. In fact during a session I will often take a moment to breathe deeply into my heart so I can activate my heart more fully and give more of my heart energy to my guest. I will encourage my guest to breathe fully so that energy is not just trapped in one chakra or space but circulates everywhere.

Last night I felt a more intimidating activation that was more forceful in nature. I was awakened from a lucid dream to a “back massage” and my spinal column felt as if there was a hand held back massage machine going over each area of my spinal column. By the time the vibration hit between my shoulder blades I even felt my heart palpitating! Obviously the kundalini energy I was storing these past few months was released and the energy was deeply felt by me to the point where my own heart chakra was being awakened and healed.

If you think Tantra massage and Tantra yoga is for “entertainment” purposes only then think twice. If you think you are ready to be awakened and make progressive baby steps towards becoming more spiritually and physically alive and awakened then tantra is a viable tool that will allow you to let go of what you don’t need. You will find that your priorities are changing and you will find yourself being more open to engaging in new activities and new routines or people and places.

Because kundalini energies can express themselves differently depending upon your energy level and where you are right now you can expect that your own sensitivities will be much different from mine because you are unique and my journey is not yours. I can only promise you that you will eventually be able to have a “safe” kundalini activation when the time is right for you for you to receive YOUR OWN unique ENERGIES.

If you feel ready to begin your first tantra healing with me I can be reached at (312) 339-7707. I strongly advise you to combine tantra massage, tantra kundalini yoga, white tantra and reiki together so that you feel more benefits. You will potentially become more open minded and less fearful of trying new ways of being and existing. You will definitely become more aware of your body and potentially become more in tune or psychic. I am open to working with you in tiny baby steps or you can explore a full day of tantra with me and learn all the basics in one day.

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