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Just two wonderful reasons to schedule a tantra ceremony soon ⭐

The following information has been written by me last year or so because I wanted to discuss the fact that tantra yoga is a legitimate form of yoga. Yoga’s purpose is to teach you mindfulness and help you stay in the present time.

Honestly tantra yoga helps balance your metabolism and heals your endocrine system while stimulating your endorphins.

If you’d like to read the full article in it’s complete entirety then just click directly to my main website online
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And click onto a tab entitled ARTICLES.

Please read and enjoy this excerpt from my website and if you are inspired you may schedule a session with me soon if you are visiting Chicago or Live in Illinois.

Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

If you have any hesitation you may schedule a paid coffee consultation with me. You have absolutely nothing to lose by meeting me in person prior to a session.  You sending me a long narrative via email won’t allow me to help you confront your unnecessary fears and anxieties either.

Once we schedule your first paid coffee consultation I will be listening to you face to face and you will have an opportunity to see how we interact with each other in real time.

Your fee is used as your deposit towards any tantra ceremony of your choosing. You are not obligated to work with me if you decide against scheduling a session with me; but at least your questions were answered and you and I met in person.

I’d love to be your very first tantra guide so once you do decide to meet with me please do not text me as an introduction. I’d rather you send me either a brief introduction or just call my number directly 312 339 7707.

I look forward to meeting you hopefully soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

The process of wellness and healing yourself should be carried out in a joyful and playful way.  Remember that when we begin this process together we are Co Creators of Sacred Space.  The key word here is “together “.

I use my personal powers of intuition, magical intentional touch, reiki, aromatherapy, chakra balancing and tantra knowledge to bring you to a state of deep calm and bliss.  My goal is to awaken and empower you and help activate the dormant kundalini energy within you.

I look forward to helping you receive the healing energies you were born to experience and explore.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

 

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

 

Why you should boycott the Eros Guide♥️

I’m having a hard time staying cheerful this week.  I’m sure all of you out there in social media are used to mostly cheerful, uplifting and inspiring messages; but I’m not a fake person.  I’m a very honest transparent woman who has literally been involved in the healing arts and sensual massage practice for over 25 years.  Many of my peers can’t say the same of themselves though.

Today I noticed a ton of visiting goddesses from San Francisco visiting Chicago this week especially for the holidays.  Trust me the majority of these women are in my age range from mid 40’s to 50 yet they are posting fake chronological ages because they are not forced by the Eros Guide to share their true chronological age.  I also wish to mention that San Francisco has much better weather than we currently have here in Chicago but the reality of the situation is the tantra and sensual massage markets are extremely over saturated for these visiting Goddesses who come here and charge almost twice to three times what I charge my guests. You have to understand that if these women were not struggling financially in their own market they certainly wouldn’t wish to suffer the colder climates here not to mention incur costly travel fare and hotel fees.

They are all allowed to continue using The Eros Guide and announce their visits to Chicago consistantly and their ads are never banned or modified like mine were in the past when I once was a paying advertiser on the eos guide.
I of course was permanently banned two years ago because my supervisor who was in charge of my ongoing advertisement decided I could no longer use certain key words because I was in violation of their new terms.
When Lisa (my eros supervisor) called me I was visiting St. Louis, Missouri with my two pets and spending most of what I earned on our hotel costs, storage fees and other ongoing bills I must pay.
I was in the midst of a very bad menstrual cycle and I suffered a lot of blood loss during each of my cycles while traveling abroadI was very tired and in absolutely no mood or mindset to argue with anyone.
Lisa asked me to give her new text or rather she DEMANDED that I change the words on the spot that she had physically removed from my tantra advertisement.   I asked her to let me replace the words later in the day when I could return to my hotel room and correct the text on my laptop.
I asked her what she had against me and why the Eros Guide allowed my competitors to post paraphrased text from poems; yet I myself was never allowed to use a line of poetry and include credits to the author’s works.
I asked Lisa why the Eros Guide played favorites. I told her I’m most definitely not an escort service and that I was a Sex Educator and a formally trained professional, licensed tantra massage therapist.
I told Lisa that I don’t sell sex; rather I teach people how to feel more sexual energy within their entire body through breathing techniques and intentional interactive guided touch.  I told her I never engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients and that I’m not a GFE or girl friend experience like most of the women that currently advertise there.
The next day Tim from the legal department announced they had now banned me for life. I had paid handsomely for many years to an entity known as Dark side productions A.K.A the Eros guide; yet Tim said that based on my tape recorded phone conversation with Lisa I could never advertise with Eros again.
Why is this devastating? Because Eros guide was created in San Francisco, California and it appears it’s no more than a 3rd party source or Brothel which caters to the Eros guide administrator’s personal group of friends.
In the past I had noticed my ads and tiny banners would receive a total of 2,000 clicks from visitors  to my website per week; so I’m assuming my ongoing presence on their website was harmful and direct competition to the staff of the eros guide team.  The Eros Guide was formally created in San Francisco and the staff’s  close personal friends consistently visit Chicago from San Francisco every major holiday season and during our Conventions.
I logged onto the Eros Guide today and noticed most of the ads are from visiting tantra Goddesses who only live in Chicago part time and only visit our city during major conventions and holidays.
I’m no longer allowed to advertise on the Eros Guide and I’ve even asked another site called Sacred Eros if I could be included but Betty Martin who owns Sacred Eros told me I could not advertise with her because she had issues with my cc card in the past when I had been the victim of cc fraud living in new Orleans.

It’s the lack of overall loyalty here in Chicago that is the brunt of the problem though. You see as we all know men tend to enjoy variety. They stick with a woman for a limited amount of time and then they like to explore other options.  If these visiting goddesses were truly busy in San Francisco with their loyal group of clients then trust me they would have no desire to wish to visit Chicago during the dead of our typically brutal winter seasons. It isn’t so much that these Goddesses have more knowledge of tantra; it’s simply that their clientele lost interest and now they rely on travel to other cities to stay busy.

Men in general tend to like variety over consistency. I’m not saying all men do; but the majority of men I have seen as clients are now hiring these women who “just visit Chicago” temporarily. In fact I know that one Goddess who goes by two different aliases rents a loft space near The United Center and she splits the cost of this space between her and her other tantra colleagues who all come from San Francisco.  These women take turns renting the space on a weekly basis but no one lives there full time. These women are merely here to hustle their services; makes as much money as they can within a time frame and return to San Francisco which is where they reside full time.

It’s hard for me to stay afloat when I’m not afforded the same opportunities that these women are given. I’m no longer allowed to market myself on these two websites and the clients that live here are less keen and inclined to stay loyal to the people that live here permanently.

I’ve been abnormally slower than I should be.  It could be many factors like lack of professional SEO services and the fact that tantra sites I once used no longer exist on the internet. The market here for tantra is now completely and utterly oversaturated with competitors that don’t live here full time but just visit Chicago temporarily to SEIZE AND PLUNDER and fatten their wallets to be able to afford their expensive loft properties in San Francisco, California.

I truly hope people understand the stress I’m under now. I have fewer websites to advertise on and there is now an oversaturation of tantra goddesses who visit and or have permanently relocated to Chicago.
It’s been a tough holiday season for me just trying to subsist and what hurts most is I myself am not allowed to advertise on the same equal leverage as everyone else who just visits here.

I wish to add one more important fact.  Perhaps you aren’t aware of this but The Eros Guide was raided by homeland security two years ago at their headquarters in North Carolina.  Every woman that was still advertising actively on that site had their legal names, social security numbers and physical addresses shared by these people who raided the Eros guide.  I also need to let the general public understand that Eros Guide will most definitely agree to cooperate with the FBI and any court of law and share their data base and the advertiser’s names with the police and with the Feds.  If you continue to contract the services of women on the Eros Guide then you need to know their personal information is being shared with the authorities and with the Eros Guide’s consent.

Please understand I’m not a mean spirited person.  I do however understand the dynamics now of how this game is run. THE EROS GUIDE is here first and foremost to serve themselves.  MANY of the advertising team members were or currently are escorts themselves.  If the team members at Eros take notice that any individual is attracting a huge portion of clicks they may choose and will decide to deactivate any known competition. If you haven’t noticed, the Eros Guide was barren for a while. They got rid of more than half the regular and loyal advertises like me from ever being able to advertise again.  New people and or close friends of the eros guide staff are only permitted to advertise there now.  New rules were always being made by the Eros Guide legal team and every phone conversation we ever had with our representatives were being recorded without our knowledge or consent.

When you continue to advertise with the Eros Guide you must understand that your physical identity state cards will be shared with law enforcement services and the Eros Guide must comply and give your information away to these entities.

When you as a client contract the services now from women who currently advertise on the Eros Guide then you are hiring a circle of women who probably already have a close friendship with the staff team members of Eros so in essence you are most likely indirectly contracting the services of a state wide brothel.

I’m wishing everyone here a safe holiday.  Knowledge is power.  Two years ago after the Eros Glllllllllllllllluide banned me I consulted with a professional psychic.  She told me that being banned was a blessing in disguise because she saw exactly what was going to happen when homeland security invaded the Eros Guide’s main headquarters. She said I was spared so much trouble and that the women who advertise on the Eros Guide are technically just “window dressing” for the higher crimes and money laundering currently going on that these people hide from you the consumer and me the former advertiser.

Everything I shared with you today comes from my heart and from my personal knowledge after having dealt with these dishonest group of people.  If you don’t believe most of what I’ve written today all you need to do is go on Google and type in The Eros Guide RIP off Report in your browser.

The Eros Guide is no longer owned by the same group of people I originally advertised with back in the 1990’s.   There are so many innocent providers who have paid the Eros Guide faithfully for many years that are now formally banned for life for reasons unbeknownst to us. The original staff is probably long gone or may have changed the way they do things; but regardless they have cheated a lot of people and played favorites to their personal friends and colleagues.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am an independent tantra educator and massage therapist.  I use reiki, intuitive touch, chakra balancing, tantra yoga massage, sound healing, chanting and aromatherapy during my tantra massage ceremonies.

You are welcome to visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a comprehensive list of ceremonial options or you may arrange to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and discuss your goals and budget with me prior to your first tantra session with me here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana 312 339 7707

 

When should you receive and request a Reiki healing?

Ideally I shouldn’t have to remind you; but ideally your body will let you know when you positively NEED a reiki atunement.

Here are the following symptoms, bodily signals and symptoms that indicate you’re in need of attentive care.

The first obvious signs are social withdrawal from all activities you once loved. You have difficulty leaving your home yet you still don’t “feel at home”.  Does this make sense to you? You feel restless yet mopey and when you try to get genuinely good rest or sleep you wake up tired, as if you never even had a good sleep cycle.

Another symptom is you feel shy almost as if you are contracting your energy rather than expanding energy.  You have a hard time thinking clearly and creating anything.  It feels like you are stuck or stagnant without making progressive moves forward.

When you are confused, isolated and deeply depressed you should find a Reiki Master and schedule a chakra cleansing for an hour or 90 minutes just to clear your mind and get rid of psychic debris you are holding onto.

Trust me; there’s nothing worse than spinning I’m circles and getting mired down in self doubt or endless grief.  Reiki is a perfect way to process your grief and shorten your mourning period whether it’s from a lost job, an end of a love relationship or a hard transition period you are currently experiencing.

Talk therapy is most definitely useful; but when you truly need to kick start a brand new beginning then Reiki helps ready you gracefully and graciously into the next major life change with greater ease.

When we get depressed our natural inclination is to withdraw from our friends. Most people don’t like to burden their family and friends with their personal emotional drama. In fact, most business professionals would prefer to appear emotionally strong and without any emotional weaknesses.   Keeping all these anxieties to yourself leads to blocks in your chakra bodies and these emotional blocks eventually lead to physical stress like ulcers, eating disorders, insomnia, chronic pain and hopelessness.

When you isolate yourself and guilt yourself into thinking you don’t deserve healing touch you create a vacuum of sadness and normal daily tasks become insurmountable.

Take a moment and schedule some sacred touch with me here in Chicago.  All my tantra ceremonies will include sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, trigger point massage and sacred tantra yoga massage.  Reiki is implemented in ALL my tantra massage sessions in Chicago; but you are also welcome to schedule a stand alone reiki atunement for an hour or 90 minutes just to get you feeling better again.

I have copied and pasted the following information from my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com to help you fully understand the healing benefits of Usui Reiki.

 

Reiki

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive. If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy.

The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”. So Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force.

 

The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras.

The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

It would be my greatest desire to introduce you to my unique approach to traditional tantra yoga massage.

Please dont allow yourself to get to the lowest point in your energy level before reaching out to me.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Tantra massage in Chicago

About Diana offull-image-for-tantra Tantra Butterfly

Many of my prospective clients ask me the all important question:

“What exactly is Tantra?”

My initial reaction is to pause and think to myself if I were a new student to this tantric path what would make me wish to continue or begin this new journey? If I were a new student to Tantra what would make me grasp this concept and take this belief system from its place in the esoteric realm to a more solid level of my own understanding? What would I gain in experiencing a tantric healing? Does Tantra simply mean sex? Will the study of this practice heal my old wounds or would it take me into a scary place I do not wish to explore? Of course all new students of Tantra may share these fears and some new students might even fear it will be a shallow or even disappointing experience. All these fears are valid and this is why I am now taking the time to explain a little bit about the word Tantra and what it is I do and the role I play as your tantric teacher and tantric healer.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry . The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole. We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide. A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.

My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Do you have additional questions? Your questions can be answered if you directly follow the link to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My website is explicit and directly to the point. In the event you have issues understanding the tantra verbage then I advise you to schedule a one hour coffee consultation with me and your consultation fee acts as a deposit towards your future tantra massage here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly

Tantra massage in Chicago is geared towards your specific goals.

Tantra massage in Chicago aides in your ability to stay focused in the moment and be fully present to receive healing energies.

Your chakras will be fully accessible and activated during our tantra ceremony here in Chicago.

Kindly read all the information on my tantra massage services here in Chicago or if you are already prepared for this healing journey and process call me directly at 312 339 7707 and let’s share positive energies.

You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

Treat me like you would treat a dear friend and I will easily be inspired to Mirror your thoughtfulness.IMG_20190828_200535_708

Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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Chicago Tantra Massage is for Anyone ready for a healing Journey

I feel the need to write today mostly because I am always spot on correct when I read an email from a new potential client and know deep down they simply wanted to VENT to me but they honestly weren’t Emotionally prepared to begin a tantra ceremony in real life.

In all fairness tantra isn’t for everyone and everyone is motivated by different reasons to try a session whether it’s strictly curiosity, too much personal stress in their life or they love healing connection.

Half the people that reach out to me are high achievers who know what they want and how to get it. They love their partners, love their career and they want a session as a treat because they feel they deserve it.

Other people are involved in reiki, yoga, music and creative pursuits so they crave chakra balancing, and breath coaching along with the sensual touch.

I also receive requests from single mothers, caregivers, independent business owners and men whose wives are chronically ill.  These people are under a lot of stress and so they contract my services as a means of letting go and treating themselves.

Other people want and deeply desire tantra but they don’t fully understand what tantra is. They send me “novels” instead of a brief emails which to me is a “red flag” because it’s almost as if they are trying too hard to convince themselves and me that they are ready to jump in without having spoken to me on the phone or meeting me in person!

I’m not a guru and I truly don’t feel like conning anyone into the false idea that one or even several tantra sessions will shift you from previous abuse into a new paradigm of being victorious.

On the contrary I do believe if you personally have been molested or victimized or similarly violated emotionally and or sexually you need to visit a real counselor like a licensed psychiatrist or talk therapist first.

Sexual molestation is a very harmful blow to your psyche and I certainly don’t wish to trigger anyone who has been molested and hasn’t done some inner healing work first.

I know while reading these emails who is emotionally able to receive kundalini Shakti and who is lying to themselves by the way they express themselves through the written word. I also know that most sexual molestation victims typically can’t reach out on the phone to even talk to me in real time because they may not be ready to start the healing process just yet.

I do receive many earnest emails from new clients who won’t ever call me and that to me speaks volumes because if they can’t use their own throat chakra to express their goals and desires to me or anyone then their personal power is being blocked and it isn’t part of their truth to want a real shift or change to occur.

When I read emails I’m not expecting anyone to really follow through until I hear it in their voice first.  I can always tell who is ready to relax and be healed and who is just too nervous and kidding themselves .

I myself have had a few disappointments with psychic readers who just weren’t tapping into my consciousness. These readers might be great with other people who aren’t as self aware as I am but I do know what it’s like to seek real help and realize no one has the ability to fix me…I have to fix myself.

One tantra session with me will clear away some cobwebs of debris and make you feel more hopeful, motivated and refreshed; but then you yourself are responsible every day afterwards to pursue your own self healing journey, whether it’s counseling, journaling, self reiki, better diet, walks in nature or positive visualization.

Whenever anyone was traumatized I always suggest we meet eachother for coffee first and get together so I can take notes and ascertain what is the very best session I can offer to someone I don’t personally know. I will charge a small fee however because I’m a professional and I’d like to be honored for my time. The fee is nominal and is used as a deposit towards reiki, chakra balancing or tantra for a future session.

I do not feel it’s fair of anyone to expect me to give a free psychic healing or free consultation through email alone or a long phone conversation because it means the new client is feeling me out.  I can’t convince anyone that the time is right for a tantra ceremony or tantra massage.  I’m not dissuading anyone from plunging ahead but when I receive too much information in my first email from a complete stranger and no phone call after I respond to them then I know I’m being lied to.

Only a handful of people who have tried tantra before know that every teacher or tantra yogi presents their sessions individually and if the teacher is any good he or she will use their intuition along with a couple of goals from their new student as a guide.

If I suggest a meet and greet over coffee it’s because I do want to get to know you as a friend so that when we have our first tantra session you won’t be worried or self conscious or scared.

When I meet new guests for coffee it’s because I feel that person needs a nudge and because I feel that individual needs to vent and share more of their story with me.  I only charge $50 for our initial consultation fee and it’s used as a deposit towards any session you choose.

I also encourage everyone to read my website at least once so that they can ask me educated questions rather ask me what my fees are. My fees are determined by the session you choose.  I have many choices on my website from cuddle therapy to reiki to advanced tantra, to Goddess Worship.  I have basic sensual massage all the way up to a full day of spa tantra retreats for people who have the time and the budget.

My ideal candidate is anyone emotionally mature to enjoy a journey of chakra balancing, therapeutic bodywork, reiki, aromatherapy and kundalini tantra massage.  I do not solicit anyone who isn’t psychically ready because that’s a waste of time for everyone involved. I’m not a free, unpaid, advisor.  I am not obligated to continue emailing anyone who can’t simply pick up the phone and find ten minutes out of their day to talk to me like a mature adult.  I do not need to read your life’s history in order to give you a good healing.  I do understand it takes a lot of trust to begin any alternative healing journey and that’s why I recommend meeting me for a paid consultation if you have any doubt prior to meeting me.

I needed to write this article today because I do get frustrated and disappointed when new guests make prejudgments about my skillset or my motivations.  My motivation is to work with new clients who will benefit from my healing touch and who will appreciate and enjoy my services.  I do this work because I’m good at moving energy and I love healing through touch.  I do not however like being used as a free psychotherapist.  I do not need to read through lengthy emails from people who are fooling themselves and trying to fool me.  I do offer paid talk therapy and paid coffee consultations for anyone that has even a shred of doubt.

I hope this article helps you understand that tantra is just one of many healing paths to help you achieve self awareness and balance; but you yourself have to continue following your own path of magic and self love.

If you know you are ready for one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago please call me today at 312 339 7707.  If you want to meet me for coffee this week in Chicago or nearby suburbs I will work around your schedule and have a real time honest discussion with you so you can make an educated choice and give you advice.

My main website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so spend an hour reading it prior to calling me in person.  If you want to break the ice by sending me a brief email you can use my primary contact form or either of these email addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Introduce yourself briefly using your real name so I know you are sincere and so I know you are a legitimate new student of tantra.

You do not need to send me your life story; in fact I discourage you from divulging too much information because part of our tantra ceremony will include us meeting together and chatting briefly before our tantra massage even begins in real time.  We will have ample time to talk about anything you wish once we have our first tantra session together.

Do not be worried if you do not have prior experience in energy work. You are contacting me because you are either curious about what tantra truly is or you’ve had tantra massage and you absolutely love it so you wish to repeat your positive experience with me as your guide.

I’d be delighted and excited to meet you here in Chicago which includes the suburbs of Schaumburg, O’hare, Oakbrook, Elk grove Village, Rosemont and the Magnificent Mile near River North.  I will travel anywhere to you within the city of Chicago or neighboring suburbs.

When you call me directly let me know who you are and briefly introduce yourself to me .  Everything we decide to do will be planned based on your time constraints, budget and personal goals.  FB_IMG_1557631910360

Here’s to a bright new 2019 ♡

Health goals

Hello everyone who happened to find my blog either out of happenstance or because you followed the link directly from my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com!

If you aren’t familiar with astrology I myself always loved reading up on both Eastern and Western astrology ever since I was a teenager and my enthusiasm for Occult studies, Astrology and the Paranormal never wanes instead just like the waxing of the new Moon my curiosity always grows.

During our new moon last week I made sure I focused on some new goals for myself so I lit a very special manifestation candle because candle magick is especially powerful and magically infused as the moon gains in strength.

I trimmed my wavy hair just a bit at the ends to promote healthier growth and I did some self marketing to increase the potential for new clients discovering my offerings online. I also realized that my physical health should be examined more closely. I tend to love sweets especially good chocolate so I did a bit of personal research and read up on the proper way that fruits should be consumed for optimal health and that fruit consumption should be strictly on an empty stomach!

I read up on how fruits are better absorbed when you eat them raw and always before any other food group never after. In other words fruit should be eaten as a dessert rather fruits should be eaten early in the day prior to any other meals you intend to consume. I’ve naturally followed this new diet regime and I must say not only does my stomach feel better but my skin seems to glow more!

Ginger, turmeric and carrot juice

I have also made more of an effort to drink more raw vegetables so it’s much easier to make sure my new health goals are met painlessly and with very little effect on my part.

Tonight and tomorrow our super moon will be in Virgo which translated into Layman’s terms simply means we’ll be shedding layers and unhealthy, unrealistic expectations of what we should be and just be easier on ourselves.

Part of this super moon energy will be our willingness to part ways with toxix situations and or people interfering in our progress to achieve self awareness and contentment. We will stop comparing ourselves to others and become more self accepting rather than materialistic.

This year is also the year of the Boar in Chinese astrology which to me is wonderful news because I was born during the year of the Goat and Boar, Goat and Rabbit make up a triad of creative, peace loving, and emotionally based signs that go very well together! I am prepared to see beautiful changes unfold for 2019 and I hope all of you reading this message will be more mindful of creating small, positive changes in your life rather than focusing on what you don’t have.

If you focus on tiny projects that you know you can potentially accomplish then the impossible goals that no longer serve you won’t seem that essential to your personal happiness.

Goddess Diana
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
I am always available for sponsorships to your city or you can schedule sacred time for yourself here in Chicago while I’m still here.

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly