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Chicago Tantra Summer of 2020

Well hello and I hope everyone here is having a beautiful evening! It’s been a series of strange events in our city starting with our enforcement of Stay put Stay at Home orders. Most of us actually stayed active and useful during these times; especially if you are a professional driver, grocery store clerk, nurse and private restaurant owner fulfilling take out orders.

I spent this time blogging to keep my mind hopeful and active and I did work with a handful of old clients from my past, repeat clientele whom I consider “family” and a few very loving, open and sensitive new guests who trusted me implicitly.

I must say I truly miss going to the movies because cinema is a form of deep relaxation for me not just a source of entertainment. I truly miss meeting all the new business people and tourists who visited our city each month to participate in Medical conventions, IT conventions, furniture shows and other important events that took place weekly in Chicago.

I miss receiving calls from visitors from all over the world who know exactly what tantra is and entrusted me with their sacred energy for hours at a time. I miss bringing my essential oils to their private hotel rooms then afterwards relaxing at the Hotel Intercontinental to enjoy a cheeseboard and charcuterie board after a long day of working with tourists and business professionals.

I miss the vibrancy of our city during the summer season and the block party festivals such as an annual art festival that takes place on wells street. I miss getting henna at the art booths and browsing for art, jewelry or crystals.

I also miss Chicago’s farmers markets and purchasing fresh flowers, baked goods and fresh fruit from local organic farmers each weekend.

I miss going to Lincoln Square and enjoying the weekend farmer’s markets where I could purchase Italian flatbread or wild blueberries. After the farmer’s market I’d take a seat outside at Cafe Selmarie and order an iced chai and a slice of pastry or European torte while people watching. After people watching and enjoying the fresh air I’d go to the Music box theater to enjoy a Midnight movie like The Shining or a unique art house independent horror film.

I’m sure no one here in Chicago, Illinois anticipated this long, overdrawn extended stay at home order. At first we were advised that beauty salons, nail salons, restaurants and movie theaters would probably reopen sometime in April. April of course came to an end and here we are now still living in a city that’s practically shut down completely especially after a looting took place two weeks ago that destroyed many private, small mom and pop businesses and larger chains such as Macy’s and a few Walgreens locations.

I’m deeply disappointed with how our political figures decided to handle the quarantine in black and white regulations rather than shades of grey.

I had so many creative ideas how we could have allowed most of our businesses to flourish during our quarantine by simply having these stores and nail salons accept advanced deposits for services rendered and advanced reservations. If you knew you could have a special dining experience in advance with proper sterilization of your table before you even arrived I’m sure you would have been delighted to comply knowing your favorite waitstaff would successfully remain gainfully employed.

Everything in Chicago could have continued to flourish and remain open with advanced planning especially movie theaters. For instance let’s say you wish to see a movie tomorrow and you have the opportunity to look at the seating online. Certain seats would be crossed off to prevent overcrowding of the theater so now it’s only half full; but at least the theaters are still open!

I’m not a politician nor am I a business person. But I do have enough common sense to know that isolating everyone from one another and doing a hard close with certain businesses is too extreme and completely unnecessary.

These are my opinions and I had to share them here because I’m truly disappointed to see so many of our most favorite businesses have closed their doors permanently and we still aren’t allowed to enjoy the arts; yet it’s already mid June!

We can’t live our life in a self contained, overly sanitized bubble. These bubbles are only an illusion of safety and do not build our immunity.

Let’s just say I’m here for you with welcoming arms! Since 2012 I hadn’t raised most of the rates on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because I want my services to be affordable to most people. I just recently raised some of my rates in order to keep up with the current price of tantra services from my competitors here in Chicago; but I’m always willing and open to meeting people in the middle with their goals and budgets because I absolutely love what I do and I believe in the healing aspects of sensual massage and alternative medicine.

I’m healthy and keeping myself active getting as much fresh air and sunlight as I possibly can. I’d love to help you on your journey to good health, immunity boosting sessions and nurturing touch.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m praying our city will open fully soon! We only get four blissful months of summer and I’m sure everyone will agree that we miss patio dining, art festivals, music festivals and independent film festivals.

Let’s all visualize this city reopening its doors and invite art, beauty and conventions back into our city before the end of summer. So many people need a sense of community and hopefulness to return soon. There may never be a “perfect ” time to reopen so why are we wasting precious time waiting and watching for a “sign”?

How about this for a “Sign”; I’m open and I open my heart to receiving new and old guests who are desirous of healing, nurturing touch. I’m open to working with people seeking chakra balancing, reiki, sound therapy, aromatherapy, deep tissue massage, bathing ceremonies, chanting, tantra yoga, kundalini activation and sensual sacred touch.

I’m here to serve anyone or any couple seeking a multi hour journey of sensory delights, creative visualization and inner calm. I’m available seven days a week to empower, captivate, align, nurture and heal anyone seeking a soothing half or full day of blissful escape.

Please introduce yourself to me via email at

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com or call me directly via my cellular phone at 312 339 7707

Tell me your goals and your budget. Be honest about everything you’re dying to experience even if it’s just pure relaxation therapy.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Chicago Tantra Massage lessons by Goddess Diana

Diana Grossman
Diana Grossman
Massage Therapy, Usui Reiki Master, Tantra Educator at Tantra Butterfly

I would be delighted if you would subscribe to my YouTube channel. I share a bit of information on tantra yoga and it’s also an opportunity for me to vent and share some personal life events that happen to me here in Chicago, Illinois.

I’m a native Chicagoan but I’ve enjoyed traveling throughout the United states with my pets during my career as a licensedtantra educator,  reiki master and yogini.

I offer traditional authentic tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and always implement nurturing  reiki touch, energetic healing, massage,  yoga and chakra balancing during my sessions.

One way to explore Tantra is through eye-gazing. As we gaze deeply into one another’s eyes we keep our mind and heart open and free of judgments. Your heart will expand and unfold like a blossoming flower and you will begin to be fully in the moment and honor the soul of another being.

When we gaze and focus upon the left eye of the one facing you you can look directly into their Soul. We mirror eachother and learn Empathy for another.

We are all human beings making mistakes but we can take time away from the Mundane and learn how to connect to our Higher Selves by co creation of Sacred Space.

The simple act of joining hands, looking into each other’s eyes and breathing together is part of how we establish and Co create sacred space.  We honor one another with the breath and acknowledge the Divine Creator within each of our physical bodies.

Tantra is a very intimate and Sacred way of sharing your compassion with another being. We are focused solely on the current moment and we try and empty our minds and free ourselves of self judgment.

Join me if you are seeking a journey in transcendence.   My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com will provide you with a full array of options from the non sensual to a complete day of tantra spa ceremonies that encompass chakra balancing, nurturing tantra sensuality and bathing ceremonies.

You are encouraged to schedule a paid phone consultation if you simply wish to connect with me and ask me questions prior to scheduling a session with me.  I can even take you on a journey of the chakra bodies through chanting and breathing exercises if you would like to be fully prepared prior to our session and practice a bit of tantra yoga before we meet.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

You may send me an email and introduce yourself to me or call me directly if you are ready to schedule your first tantra massage with me in Chicago.

Chicago Tantra Massage by Goddess Diana

The following information is to help you as a potential client gain a greater understanding of how I’m currently conducting my tantra massage practice while I’m still in Chicago, Illinois.

First of all I treat each person uniquely and I do not follow a set recipe. You will be given an opportunity to fully explore my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for yourself prior to meeting me in person.   If you have never had a tantra massage before and you are genuinely confused over the choices found on my website then you are invited to hire me for phone consultation.  I don’t usually spend more than fifteen minutes of my time going over all the details on my website so if you are honestly in need of my advice and attention simply hire me for thirty minutes or more and we will go over all your goals and concerns.

About Goddess Diana

Tantra Goddess Diana offers sensual full body pleasure and Goddess worship lessons to men, women and couples.
I offer sessions in your home, hotel or a separate Upscale private spa space which includes a traditional tantra massage, Goddess Worship, mutual cuddling, aromatherapy, reiki, a jacuzzi for 2 and deep tissue massage.
I also offer half day and full day tantra retreats at a beautiful spa space in the city of Chicago with advanced planning and a small deposit.
If Chicago is not convenient for you to get to I can hold tantra ceremonies in all the nearby suburbs such as Oakbrook Terrace,  Rosemont, Schaumburg, Buffalo Grove, Arlington Heights, Evanston, Illinois, Oak Park and the O’Hare airport area.  I myself am a Native Chicagoan and I’m comfortable traveling to most of these neighborhoods just in case you prefer a private visit to your home instead.
If you call me any day of the week before 3PM and agree to send me a deposit immediately I can acquire a luxury spa space with a jacuzzi experience for two!
If you are unsure what type of session would best suit your needs you are encouraged to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and I will use your fee as a deposit towards a future tantra ceremony. If you can’t meet me in person for coffee you may book a 35 minute phone consultation or hour long phone consultation with me to discuss all your concerns.
I strongly suggest scheduling tantra for 2 full hours to ensure you receive my undivided attention and to help you fully relax and understand every nuance of sensory awareness and Kundalini activation.
My sessions are meant to bring you a blissful escape that will leave you deeply relaxed and empowered. You will feel waves of electricity as I teach you how to breathe in every moment of pleasure. You will feel tingling sensations from your toes and fingertips to the top of your skull.
PLEASE NOTE: If you call me the day of for an appointment then you must have a space for me to go directly to you. I’m strictly outcall only for same day scheduling needs. If you need me to provide a space then I need 24 hours notice and a deposit from you so I may secure an appropriate and lovely space for our tantra ceremony. If however you provide me with an immediate deposit the day of your session before 3 PM then I can acquire a luxury space that will suit your needs!
I do not work from my home. I acquire a beautiful luxury space that meets your expectations and budget so please plan ahead if you need to visit me.
I am a seasoned and educated tantra professional with 25 years of experience and a strong social media presence. I am well reviewed and even have my own YouTube channel that you may peruse prior to connecting with me. You are invited to subscribe to my YouTube channel, follow my blog and connect with me on LinkedIn if you wish!
Because I choose to be so straightforward, honest and transparent I expect the same of you. I will ask you to provide me with your real legal name and profession prior to our first meeting so I feel safe and comfortable. I have had the pleasure of serving high profile Ceo’s, Executive chefs, attorneys, film directors, producers, writers, physicians, Educators, Inventors and other creatives and I am very mindful of discretion. I prefer to work with corporate men and women seeking multi hour spiritual journeys in tantra, alternative healing and spa retreats.
Please thoroughly read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com prior to contacting me and I’d love to offer you some wonderful suggestions for our first session together. If you wish to learn more about me you are encouraged to subscribe to my YouTube channel under TANTRA BUTTERFLY. You will be able to view fresh content weekly and get a strong sense of my personality and what it is tantra massage and tantra yoga can do for your emotional well being, mental outlook and physical health.
I stand behind the heart healing work that I do and always recommend a session of 2 hours in length or longer for your complete understanding of the process of sensual well being and alternative healing. When you schedule a session with me you are in professional, nurturing hands and I am always generous with my guests.
If you need me to go directly to your home and you haven’t given me notice make it simple for both of us and provide me with an Uber or Lyft or send me a small deposit to cover my traveling expenses to you. My desire is to be expedient and offer you my exquisite services at the most desirable time for your needs so please be thoughtful and provide me with transportation so I may arrive promptly.
Reasons why you should consider hiring me as your Tantra Guide are manifold because I have life experience as a healer and Sensual guide and I’ve been formally trained by several masters of reiki, tantra, chakra balancing and traditional massage modalities. I am not a clock watcher and I have a great passion for creating sacred space! I hope you choose me soon for yourself or as a couple seeking authentic tantra and sensual bliss therapies.
When you agree to contracting my tantra services you need to also understand that I am not a prostitute.  I will be offering you tantra lessons, breathing exercises, chakra balancing, sound healing, sensual massage, therapeutic massage, chanting lessons, cuddle therapy, couples education and traditional tantra yoga bodywork.   We will not be engaging in sexual intercourse so please don’t ask that of me before booking time with me or during our tantra ceremony.
What I do is a form of Pink Tantra. I combine my knowledge of Kundalini Yoga and sensual massage that will activate your sexual energy trapped within the lower part of your tailbone known as your base chakra or root chakra.
The combination of breathing exercises, chanting, trigger point massage and alternative chakra balancing will help you feel sexual energies travel throughout your entire being and bring you waves of tingling sensory bliss we call Kundalini Skakti.
Congratulations! You’ve got this far and you’ve carefully read my brief description of how I present tantra to my students seeking unconventional healing and nurturing touch.
The paragraphs below will detail my current pricing system.
There is some slight wiggle room with some of the prices you see listed here on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.  Once you enter my website you will see a page entitled Ceremonial Donations.  The donation page covers non sensual ceremonies like pure reiki which are priced lower than my tantra ceremonies.  All non sensual sessions are created to address your energetic body and you and I will be fully clothed if you choose to hire me for an hour or 90 minute session of reiki.  When you choose a tantra massage session reiki will be completely complementary to you at no additional charge to you.

If you are experiencing some financial difficulties now but still desire a session we can discuss a slight price adjustment. The only services not available for a discount are my Couples tantra sessions and Goddess Worship ceremonies. If however you are experiencing Abundance right now please do not attempt to exploit my pricing system and pretend to need deep discounts if you truly do not

need one. I’m seeing fewer people now which means you will receive my genuine attention if we decide to work together. If you are thriving feel free to tip me and share your Good Karma. I’ve had many people trying to exploit my generosity which isn’t fair to me or the people that truly do need a discount. My prices are comparable to other major tantra professionals in my field and I’m always appreciative and generous to clients who treat me with complete respect and kindness. Let’s be Karmically correct with one another during these times!

Reiki Master
Licensed Tantra Master
Licensed Pranic Healer
Hot stone therapist
Couples tantra coach
You are welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn and Subscribe to my YouTube channel under Tantra Butterfly
Mobile Contact:  312 339 7707
Email addresses
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Chicago tantra massage kundalini massage in Chicago by Tantra Butterfly

I truly hope to see you very soon for the following Masterfully prepared tantra ceremonies and unique journeys in Kundalini yoga and Shakti activations here in Chicago and Schaumburg, Illinois.

Yes tantra has always been a form of yoga and it is a sacred ritual and rite of passage providing you with a unique opportunity to alter your perception of reality and increase your intuition.  In tantra yoga we use our own kundalini shakti within the base of our spinal column (tailbone area) to charge up our chakras, promote prosperity, peace of mind, build up protection, increase creativity, intuition and increase our natural immunity.

The art of practicing tantra yoga daily keeps you hopeful, youthful, builds your stamina and keeps you in the moment.

I suggest you schedule a session with me initially for longer increments of time to receive the full benefits of my healing touch and to be fully educated in breathwork soundbaths, cuddle therapy, chanting of the bija mantras and to simply indulge in one of my chakra balancing seasalt bathing rituals.

A half or full day of tantra gives you a strong foundation to build upon and the experience we share will not only be memorable but a life changing experience for you.  You will immediately feel a shift in your energies both physically and emotionally.  These tantra ceremonies are impactful and a consecration of sacred space and a demonstration of the healing powers within you.

I specialise in Usui Reiki kundalini activation, full day tantra retreats and chakra alignment allowing you to feel the great and deep power within YOU!

let me electrify your being and infuse you with your own kundalini energy latent within you during a shared journey we call co creation of sacred space.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
312 339 7707

Mention where you found me here on my blog and receive a discount towards a half day or full day of tantra yoga and tantra massage ceremonies while I am here in Illinois to serve you.

You are encouraged and welcome to subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly to get a strong sense of who I am and what I am capable of offering you.  Cumulatively I have over 25 years of experience and education in the healing arts and I have taken many classes and workshops not just in tantra yoga but other alternative bodywork modalities which makes me highly qualified to assist you on your journey.

I would be deeply honored to be your yogini, your Chicago tantra professional,
your healer, Muse and Wysewoman.  Ever session I prepare is co created and crafted with your unique goals in mind.

Deposits are required prior to our intricate tantra ceremony because I am reserving a special place for our session to take place and allocating a time and date specifically for you and your needs.

For details and additional information call me today at 312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

Www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantra Massage Chicago by Goddess Diana

Good morning! I’m so glad you found me here! I take great pains to write on my blog diligently to provide my audience with factual information on the healing, life changing benefits of tantra massage.

I’m currently in Chicago, Illinois which is where I’m originally from and if you are a TRUE native Chicagoan you probably have Midwestern values which includes keeping your word, being brutally honest and letting people know how you feel in front of their faces and not behind their backs.

I constantly write here not just because I’m passionate about being an independent, free thinking dakini; but because I honestly believe energy work builds a solid foundation for your core and your Soul’s journey.

Many people read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com very briefly and on the surface they mistakenly take me for a religious zealot trying to convert people into my way of thinking.

This truly isn’t the case! I’m spiritual but I’m not religious.  Although I was raised by my two Jewish parents who enforced their religious doctrines upon my upbringing I had retained my own beliefs systems and I’d routinely make visits to the Oakton public library in Skokie to study numerology, Greek mythology, the paranormal and Astrology.

I definitely attended Hebrew school like all my Jewish peers and was formally Bat Mitzvahed and even agreed to three additional years of confirmation classes at B’nai Emunah synagogue in Skokie. In other words I agreed to conform to my parent’s wishes and guidelines but all I really wanted to study was classical ballet.  It was their house I was living in and their rules.

I however haven’t attended a formal Sabbath or high holiday ritual since my teenage years because inherently these ceremonies never spoke to my heart; but I definitely made the best of it to please both my parents from age seven to sixteen because I knew how much it meant to them.

Here I am now promoting a spiritual practice that I honestly believe increases your intuition, speeds up your metabolism and keeps you focused on the here and now.

Tantra massage is tantra yoga and there’s no escaping the fact that Tantra is a valid form of yoga that you should practice daily in little increments.

I truly wish people would schedule mini sessions with me monthly because treating yourself to just one tantra healing once in a blue moon isn’t as effective as a daily practice or a monthly commitment to yourself.

If you feel ready for a long term journey please reach out to me and be honest about your budget and your goals. We can work out and plan ahead for a series of tantra massage ceremonies that will help build endurance within you.

I’m very passionate about spiritual growth, self healing, chakra balancing and spiritual cleansing.  When you commit to a series of tantra massage lessons over an extended period of time; you are giving yourself space to grow.

I love when people formally introduce themselves to me by directly calling me on my phone 312 339 7707.  I am definitely not a fan of text messages (initially); but if you’re in a meeting at least give me your name and tell me what you’re seeking and what time to call you live so we can have a real conversation.

I don’t charge people money for 15 minutes worth of questions; but if you have 30 minutes worth of questions or longer why not book a paid phone consultation with me so you feel comfortable prior to meeting me?

I’d be delighted to meet you for a coffee consultation as well and the money you spend will be used as a deposit towards our first tantra massage ceremony.

I have no ulterior motives– I simply love what I do and I love meeting people who hold this work sacred just as I do.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

I welcome email introductions but after the second email I do expect to hear from you in person so we can connect and communicate openly and honestly.

A good phone connection means we will definitely enjoy one another’s company in person. I’m also very ethical with accepting new clients.  If I feel your issues are too complicated and complex I might refer you to another healer with a different skillset.

Many people reach out to me by email only and I never have the opportunity to chat with them over the phone or in person which is a shame because there should be no stigma attached to nurturing touch and feeling vibrant kundalini energies running through your body!

 

Why you should boycott the Eros Guide♥️

I’m having a hard time staying cheerful this week.  I’m sure all of you out there in social media are used to mostly cheerful, uplifting and inspiring messages; but I’m not a fake person.  I’m a very honest transparent woman who has literally been involved in the healing arts and sensual massage practice for over 25 years.  Many of my peers can’t say the same of themselves though.

Today I noticed a ton of visiting goddesses from San Francisco visiting Chicago this week especially for the holidays.  Trust me the majority of these women are in my age range from mid 40’s to 50 yet they are posting fake chronological ages because they are not forced by the Eros Guide to share their true chronological age.  I also wish to mention that San Francisco has much better weather than we currently have here in Chicago but the reality of the situation is the tantra and sensual massage markets are extremely over saturated for these visiting Goddesses who come here and charge almost twice to three times what I charge my guests. You have to understand that if these women were not struggling financially in their own market they certainly wouldn’t wish to suffer the colder climates here not to mention incur costly travel fare and hotel fees.

They are all allowed to continue using The Eros Guide and announce their visits to Chicago consistantly and their ads are never banned or modified like mine were in the past when I once was a paying advertiser on the eos guide.
I of course was permanently banned two years ago because my supervisor who was in charge of my ongoing advertisement decided I could no longer use certain key words because I was in violation of their new terms.
When Lisa (my eros supervisor) called me I was visiting St. Louis, Missouri with my two pets and spending most of what I earned on our hotel costs, storage fees and other ongoing bills I must pay.
I was in the midst of a very bad menstrual cycle and I suffered a lot of blood loss during each of my cycles while traveling abroadI was very tired and in absolutely no mood or mindset to argue with anyone.
Lisa asked me to give her new text or rather she DEMANDED that I change the words on the spot that she had physically removed from my tantra advertisement.   I asked her to let me replace the words later in the day when I could return to my hotel room and correct the text on my laptop.
I asked her what she had against me and why the Eros Guide allowed my competitors to post paraphrased text from poems; yet I myself was never allowed to use a line of poetry and include credits to the author’s works.
I asked Lisa why the Eros Guide played favorites. I told her I’m most definitely not an escort service and that I was a Sex Educator and a formally trained professional, licensed tantra massage therapist.
I told Lisa that I don’t sell sex; rather I teach people how to feel more sexual energy within their entire body through breathing techniques and intentional interactive guided touch.  I told her I never engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients and that I’m not a GFE or girl friend experience like most of the women that currently advertise there.
The next day Tim from the legal department announced they had now banned me for life. I had paid handsomely for many years to an entity known as Dark side productions A.K.A the Eros guide; yet Tim said that based on my tape recorded phone conversation with Lisa I could never advertise with Eros again.
Why is this devastating? Because Eros guide was created in San Francisco, California and it appears it’s no more than a 3rd party source or Brothel which caters to the Eros guide administrator’s personal group of friends.
In the past I had noticed my ads and tiny banners would receive a total of 2,000 clicks from visitors  to my website per week; so I’m assuming my ongoing presence on their website was harmful and direct competition to the staff of the eros guide team.  The Eros Guide was formally created in San Francisco and the staff’s  close personal friends consistently visit Chicago from San Francisco every major holiday season and during our Conventions.
I logged onto the Eros Guide today and noticed most of the ads are from visiting tantra Goddesses who only live in Chicago part time and only visit our city during major conventions and holidays.
I’m no longer allowed to advertise on the Eros Guide and I’ve even asked another site called Sacred Eros if I could be included but Betty Martin who owns Sacred Eros told me I could not advertise with her because she had issues with my cc card in the past when I had been the victim of cc fraud living in new Orleans.

It’s the lack of overall loyalty here in Chicago that is the brunt of the problem though. You see as we all know men tend to enjoy variety. They stick with a woman for a limited amount of time and then they like to explore other options.  If these visiting goddesses were truly busy in San Francisco with their loyal group of clients then trust me they would have no desire to wish to visit Chicago during the dead of our typically brutal winter seasons. It isn’t so much that these Goddesses have more knowledge of tantra; it’s simply that their clientele lost interest and now they rely on travel to other cities to stay busy.

Men in general tend to like variety over consistency. I’m not saying all men do; but the majority of men I have seen as clients are now hiring these women who “just visit Chicago” temporarily. In fact I know that one Goddess who goes by two different aliases rents a loft space near The United Center and she splits the cost of this space between her and her other tantra colleagues who all come from San Francisco.  These women take turns renting the space on a weekly basis but no one lives there full time. These women are merely here to hustle their services; makes as much money as they can within a time frame and return to San Francisco which is where they reside full time.

It’s hard for me to stay afloat when I’m not afforded the same opportunities that these women are given. I’m no longer allowed to market myself on these two websites and the clients that live here are less keen and inclined to stay loyal to the people that live here permanently.

I’ve been abnormally slower than I should be.  It could be many factors like lack of professional SEO services and the fact that tantra sites I once used no longer exist on the internet. The market here for tantra is now completely and utterly oversaturated with competitors that don’t live here full time but just visit Chicago temporarily to SEIZE AND PLUNDER and fatten their wallets to be able to afford their expensive loft properties in San Francisco, California.

I truly hope people understand the stress I’m under now. I have fewer websites to advertise on and there is now an oversaturation of tantra goddesses who visit and or have permanently relocated to Chicago.
It’s been a tough holiday season for me just trying to subsist and what hurts most is I myself am not allowed to advertise on the same equal leverage as everyone else who just visits here.

I wish to add one more important fact.  Perhaps you aren’t aware of this but The Eros Guide was raided by homeland security two years ago at their headquarters in North Carolina.  Every woman that was still advertising actively on that site had their legal names, social security numbers and physical addresses shared by these people who raided the Eros guide.  I also need to let the general public understand that Eros Guide will most definitely agree to cooperate with the FBI and any court of law and share their data base and the advertiser’s names with the police and with the Feds.  If you continue to contract the services of women on the Eros Guide then you need to know their personal information is being shared with the authorities and with the Eros Guide’s consent.

Please understand I’m not a mean spirited person.  I do however understand the dynamics now of how this game is run. THE EROS GUIDE is here first and foremost to serve themselves.  MANY of the advertising team members were or currently are escorts themselves.  If the team members at Eros take notice that any individual is attracting a huge portion of clicks they may choose and will decide to deactivate any known competition. If you haven’t noticed, the Eros Guide was barren for a while. They got rid of more than half the regular and loyal advertises like me from ever being able to advertise again.  New people and or close friends of the eros guide staff are only permitted to advertise there now.  New rules were always being made by the Eros Guide legal team and every phone conversation we ever had with our representatives were being recorded without our knowledge or consent.

When you continue to advertise with the Eros Guide you must understand that your physical identity state cards will be shared with law enforcement services and the Eros Guide must comply and give your information away to these entities.

When you as a client contract the services now from women who currently advertise on the Eros Guide then you are hiring a circle of women who probably already have a close friendship with the staff team members of Eros so in essence you are most likely indirectly contracting the services of a state wide brothel.

I’m wishing everyone here a safe holiday.  Knowledge is power.  Two years ago after the Eros Glllllllllllllllluide banned me I consulted with a professional psychic.  She told me that being banned was a blessing in disguise because she saw exactly what was going to happen when homeland security invaded the Eros Guide’s main headquarters. She said I was spared so much trouble and that the women who advertise on the Eros Guide are technically just “window dressing” for the higher crimes and money laundering currently going on that these people hide from you the consumer and me the former advertiser.

Everything I shared with you today comes from my heart and from my personal knowledge after having dealt with these dishonest group of people.  If you don’t believe most of what I’ve written today all you need to do is go on Google and type in The Eros Guide RIP off Report in your browser.

The Eros Guide is no longer owned by the same group of people I originally advertised with back in the 1990’s.   There are so many innocent providers who have paid the Eros Guide faithfully for many years that are now formally banned for life for reasons unbeknownst to us. The original staff is probably long gone or may have changed the way they do things; but regardless they have cheated a lot of people and played favorites to their personal friends and colleagues.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am an independent tantra educator and massage therapist.  I use reiki, intuitive touch, chakra balancing, tantra yoga massage, sound healing, chanting and aromatherapy during my tantra massage ceremonies.

You are welcome to visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a comprehensive list of ceremonial options or you may arrange to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and discuss your goals and budget with me prior to your first tantra session with me here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana 312 339 7707

 

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

Goddess Massage in Metro D.C., Maryland, and Alexandria, Virginia

art work by Chie Yoshii  sphinx

art work by Chie Yoshii
sphinx

Do you know that we spend at least half of our time connecting and breathing together during our shared tantra Ceremony? It’s so easy to get lost in thought even if you are receiving a healing massage because most corporate men and women are used to being “switched” on all day. You are used to your planned out day or ritual so you can make the most use of your time. You wake up at a certain hour to make sure you are not late. You read your notes for the day to make sure you are well prepared for your meeting so you don’t look foolish to your peers. You squeeze your lunch hour in somehow all the while constantly checking your phone for incoming emails and last minute emergencies or conference calls and then you go home and do your home ritual to make the most of your leisure time either alone or with your close family members and friends.

When do you actually take time for the breath? When do you find time to unplug and just be? When you decide that you have extra time to indulge and co create sacred space please consider me as your personal Muse and Tantra Guide. I will give you lessons on the Ocean breath which will help you relax and calm down your overwrought central nervous system.

Just like a good athlete you will need a few moments of complete rest or a breather from your normal routine to relax the most overworked muscle of your body—your brain.

Your brain and heart requires oxygenation and when you engage with me during one of my Tantra Ceremonies here in Metro D.C. and Maryland I will teach you how to breathe fully and with ease so you won’t be able to think of anything but the sounds of the room or the touch of my hand.

I will guide you in a calming meditation that will recharge your Chakra centers and hopefully retrain your nervous system to give up control and be more sensitive to all types of touch. My hands will be guided to certain power centers of your body and after our time together your body will memorize where my hand has been almost like an imprint you will feel energetically.

Please take advantage of my presence here now that I am visiting Maryland, Metro D.C. and Virginia.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for many optional ceremonies and I will be here to discuss anything that arouses your curiosity.

Graciously,
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you feel more comfortable traveling to your home in Georgetown, Du Pont Circle or any part of the Metro D.C. area just provide me with a taxi or Uber driver round trip and I will happily offer my healing instructions at your home or hotel. I am easily reachable between the hours of 9am till midnight. I work with small workshops, couples and individuals who wish to lose track of all time and get lost in exploratory touch. I am skilled with alternative healing, Reiki, deep tissue, and Tantra Yoga. I will be available in Maryland, Virginia and Metro D.C. to work on your ability to be fully present and in the moment.

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

Giorgione_-_Sleeping_Venus_-_Google_Art_Project_2So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
Giorgione~