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June 16, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra Summer of 2020

Well hello and I hope everyone here is having a beautiful evening! It’s been a series of strange events in our city starting with our enforcement of Stay put Stay at Home orders. Most of us actually stayed active and useful during these times; especially if you are a professional driver, grocery store clerk, nurse and private restaurant owner fulfilling take out orders.

I spent this time blogging to keep my mind hopeful and active and I did work with a handful of old clients from my past, repeat clientele whom I consider “family” and a few very loving, open and sensitive new guests who trusted me implicitly.

I must say I truly miss going to the movies because cinema is a form of deep relaxation for me not just a source of entertainment. I truly miss meeting all the new business people and tourists who visited our city each month to participate in Medical conventions, IT conventions, furniture shows and other important events that took place weekly in Chicago.

I miss receiving calls from visitors from all over the world who know exactly what tantra is and entrusted me with their sacred energy for hours at a time. I miss bringing my essential oils to their private hotel rooms then afterwards relaxing at the Hotel Intercontinental to enjoy a cheeseboard and charcuterie board after a long day of working with tourists and business professionals.

I miss the vibrancy of our city during the summer season and the block party festivals such as an annual art festival that takes place on wells street. I miss getting henna at the art booths and browsing for art, jewelry or crystals.

I also miss Chicago’s farmers markets and purchasing fresh flowers, baked goods and fresh fruit from local organic farmers each weekend.

I miss going to Lincoln Square and enjoying the weekend farmer’s markets where I could purchase Italian flatbread or wild blueberries. After the farmer’s market I’d take a seat outside at Cafe Selmarie and order an iced chai and a slice of pastry or European torte while people watching. After people watching and enjoying the fresh air I’d go to the Music box theater to enjoy a Midnight movie like The Shining or a unique art house independent horror film.

I’m sure no one here in Chicago, Illinois anticipated this long, overdrawn extended stay at home order. At first we were advised that beauty salons, nail salons, restaurants and movie theaters would probably reopen sometime in April. April of course came to an end and here we are now still living in a city that’s practically shut down completely especially after a looting took place two weeks ago that destroyed many private, small mom and pop businesses and larger chains such as Macy’s and a few Walgreens locations.

I’m deeply disappointed with how our political figures decided to handle the quarantine in black and white regulations rather than shades of grey.

I had so many creative ideas how we could have allowed most of our businesses to flourish during our quarantine by simply having these stores and nail salons accept advanced deposits for services rendered and advanced reservations. If you knew you could have a special dining experience in advance with proper sterilization of your table before you even arrived I’m sure you would have been delighted to comply knowing your favorite waitstaff would successfully remain gainfully employed.

Everything in Chicago could have continued to flourish and remain open with advanced planning especially movie theaters. For instance let’s say you wish to see a movie tomorrow and you have the opportunity to look at the seating online. Certain seats would be crossed off to prevent overcrowding of the theater so now it’s only half full; but at least the theaters are still open!

I’m not a politician nor am I a business person. But I do have enough common sense to know that isolating everyone from one another and doing a hard close with certain businesses is too extreme and completely unnecessary.

These are my opinions and I had to share them here because I’m truly disappointed to see so many of our most favorite businesses have closed their doors permanently and we still aren’t allowed to enjoy the arts; yet it’s already mid June!

We can’t live our life in a self contained, overly sanitized bubble. These bubbles are only an illusion of safety and do not build our immunity.

Let’s just say I’m here for you with welcoming arms! Since 2012 I hadn’t raised most of the rates on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because I want my services to be affordable to most people. I just recently raised some of my rates in order to keep up with the current price of tantra services from my competitors here in Chicago; but I’m always willing and open to meeting people in the middle with their goals and budgets because I absolutely love what I do and I believe in the healing aspects of sensual massage and alternative medicine.

I’m healthy and keeping myself active getting as much fresh air and sunlight as I possibly can. I’d love to help you on your journey to good health, immunity boosting sessions and nurturing touch.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m praying our city will open fully soon! We only get four blissful months of summer and I’m sure everyone will agree that we miss patio dining, art festivals, music festivals and independent film festivals.

Let’s all visualize this city reopening its doors and invite art, beauty and conventions back into our city before the end of summer. So many people need a sense of community and hopefulness to return soon. There may never be a “perfect ” time to reopen so why are we wasting precious time waiting and watching for a “sign”?

How about this for a “Sign”; I’m open and I open my heart to receiving new and old guests who are desirous of healing, nurturing touch. I’m open to working with people seeking chakra balancing, reiki, sound therapy, aromatherapy, deep tissue massage, bathing ceremonies, chanting, tantra yoga, kundalini activation and sensual sacred touch.

I’m here to serve anyone or any couple seeking a multi hour journey of sensory delights, creative visualization and inner calm. I’m available seven days a week to empower, captivate, align, nurture and heal anyone seeking a soothing half or full day of blissful escape.

Please introduce yourself to me via email at

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com or call me directly via my cellular phone at 312 339 7707

Tell me your goals and your budget. Be honest about everything you’re dying to experience even if it’s just pure relaxation therapy.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

May 20, 2020 1 Comment

Chicago Tantra Massage lessons by Goddess Diana

Diana Grossman
Diana Grossman
Massage Therapy, Usui Reiki Master, Tantra Educator at Tantra Butterfly

I would be delighted if you would subscribe to my YouTube channel. I share a bit of information on tantra yoga and it’s also an opportunity for me to vent and share some personal life events that happen to me here in Chicago, Illinois.

I’m a native Chicagoan but I’ve enjoyed traveling throughout the United states with my pets during my career as a licensedtantra educator,  reiki master and yogini.

I offer traditional authentic tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and always implement nurturing  reiki touch, energetic healing, massage,  yoga and chakra balancing during my sessions.

One way to explore Tantra is through eye-gazing. As we gaze deeply into one another’s eyes we keep our mind and heart open and free of judgments. Your heart will expand and unfold like a blossoming flower and you will begin to be fully in the moment and honor the soul of another being.

When we gaze and focus upon the left eye of the one facing you you can look directly into their Soul. We mirror eachother and learn Empathy for another.

We are all human beings making mistakes but we can take time away from the Mundane and learn how to connect to our Higher Selves by co creation of Sacred Space.

The simple act of joining hands, looking into each other’s eyes and breathing together is part of how we establish and Co create sacred space.  We honor one another with the breath and acknowledge the Divine Creator within each of our physical bodies.

Tantra is a very intimate and Sacred way of sharing your compassion with another being. We are focused solely on the current moment and we try and empty our minds and free ourselves of self judgment.

Join me if you are seeking a journey in transcendence.   My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com will provide you with a full array of options from the non sensual to a complete day of tantra spa ceremonies that encompass chakra balancing, nurturing tantra sensuality and bathing ceremonies.

You are encouraged to schedule a paid phone consultation if you simply wish to connect with me and ask me questions prior to scheduling a session with me.  I can even take you on a journey of the chakra bodies through chanting and breathing exercises if you would like to be fully prepared prior to our session and practice a bit of tantra yoga before we meet.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

You may send me an email and introduce yourself to me or call me directly if you are ready to schedule your first tantra massage with me in Chicago.
May 8, 2020 No comments

Chicago tantra Goddess explains the true meaning of tantra yoga

The true purpose of exploring tantra yoga is to expand consciousness and learn how to use your heart and your latent kundalini energy as a healing medicinal tool.

We all have the ability to be more compassionate and open to receiving and giving unconditional love.

I will teach you how to be more open and yet I will also help you delineate and establish healthy boundaries between you and your partner.

As you grow within you realize how complete you already are. You are your own soulmate and you accept yourself completely for all your flaws and past choices. You learn to move on with grave and forgive yourself.

Please join me soon while I am still residing in the city of Chicago. Take advantage of my healing services and create more opportunities for spiritual growth that will enhance your creativity, your emotional well being and your intuition.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
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You are encouraged to subscribe to my YouTube channel at TANTRA BUTTERFLY

If you are committed to trying one of my tantra ceremonies you may call me directly at 312 339 7707 and or write me an email at
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Goddess Diana
Certified Tantra Master & Tantra Educator
Usui Reiki Master
Certified in Pranic Healing
Aromatherapist
Couples Tantra instructor
Sound Healer
Certified Hot Stone therapist
Creative Muse and Guide
Oracle
Long distance healer

Please be advised I do require all my potential new students of tantra to be completely transparent about who they are and what they are seeking.  I am NOT an escort and yes I have had formal training in alternative healing, Usui Reiki, chakra balancing, sound healing, massage and tantra yoga.

You will be required to share your legal name with me and your professional profile with me prior to any tantra ceremony.  You can include a bit of background information on yourself and a few goals including the budget and timeframe you wish to work within.  I honor all genders and races but I only choose to work with a select few of responsible and respectful individuals that understand tantra yoga is primarily about spiritual expansion, personal growth, healing and safe boundaries.

I come from a place of deep respect when I connect with your energies and I wish to attract like minded Beings who want to flourish, prosper and wish to learn how to touch their partner with respect and unconditional love.

You are always welcome to Subscribe to my YOUTUBE channel by searching for Tantra Butterfly.  You may show your support by liking my pages on Facebook

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You may also find me on Twitter and Instagram just click directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and follow the links.

Act NOW if you are desirous of a healing tantra ceremony with me here in Chicago because I do love to travel and I’m here to serve you while I’m physically here to do so!

 
June 28, 2017 No comments

New couples in Chicago I would have been delighted to see you but….

You did not give me advanced notice!!!! Don’t let this happen to you and don’t let me have to turn you away due to bad timing, bad scheduling and zero notice. Yes I know most couples come to Chicago for a purpose; I know you most of the time you did not come to Chicago specifically for me or you would have called a week before.

In the event that you did come to Chicago specifically as a potential treat of relaxation for you and your partner and you decided to visit me for couples Tantra Massage in Chicago then by all means give me several days notice so we can brainstorm together. Brainstorming means we all have a three way conversation on the phone like a phone interview. You both have your chance to discuss boundaries and goals and what you love or don’t love.

I will give you suggestions and give you my recommendations on the best hotels to stay at in the suburbs or inner city of Chicago. I will give you the best times that work for YOU both so you don’t need to worry if I am available or not available at a moment’s notice. I do not want to turn you away– I want this to work out for everyone and plan out my own transportation needs in advance so you do not need to worry.

Yes I know sometimes couples find me online at the very last minute and it’s very rare for me to promise you a session with less than four hours notice so you are always welcome to try me at the last minute and if it’s meant to be I might literally be a mere half hour away from you and have all my massage oils with me (but I might not). I might have to give you a strong no but I might give you a yes or a maybe if you are extremely flexible with what time we begin our session and If I even have the energy to devote to both of you after working on others that same day. Do you understand? Tantra is about mutual shared respect and circulating only the best most positive energies between the three of us so wouldn’t you want to give me as much notice as possible so I am fresh for you and have not over scheduled or feeling healthy and refreshed that day?

So yes I know most people find me by accident and you might not have another day in Chicago to spare. In that event work around my schedule, send me an uber, have payment ready and we are good to go because I want to be of service to you but you have to meet me more than halfway for that to happen.

Here is an excerpt I pulled directly from my own personal tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please read and enjoy!

Couples coaching and Sacred bodywork

Couples, during our ceremony I invite you to join me in the timelessness of tantric shamanism. All three of us will comingle our unique energies and learn the art of Just “being” letting all our cares go as I teach you the fundamentals of Yoga breathe work and holding sacred space and forgiveness for your partner. I will teach the both of you how to send and transmute unconditional love and healing from your heart and hands into your lover’s most intimate places of wounding, hurt, shame and deep joy.

Our time together will be spent in a place of healing and reverance and we can use this time as you wish. It can be a time of quiet meditative discussion and connecting or we can each take turns learning the sacred art of being “giver” and “receiver”.

I can teach the two of you Beloveds special practices that will allow you to be the perfect, compassionate lover to your mate. Some examples of these practices are aura massage, Heart to Hand breath, spoon breathing, chanting, and traditional effluerage strokes that will bring your partner to a sense of deep peace and complete trust.

I will spend our time together teaching you both the art of energy sensing and nurturing the senses in tenderness.

I would consider our time together a sacred journey that will enable the two of you to grow as healers to each other.

I consider myself to be a very intuitive and compassionate teacher and I would ask the two of you to refrain from any activities in my prescense that would lead to Kama Sutric Sex. If after our time together my sessions enabled the two of you to be more tender and passionate together that would be a blessing. If our time together ignited a spark of deep love and exploration I would ask that you hold that dear sacred space in your hearts and share that passion with eachother in the sanctity and privacy of your own home after we have concluded our special time together. I do not consider myself to be merely a “fluffer”, I am a deeply respectful and nurturing soul, a student just like you but I would not wish to be present during any Kama Sutric explorations while we share sacred tantric space together.

There will be moments during our time together when I will ask for your help as we work on your partner’s sensual energies and I would teach you four handed massage and kundalini massage so you can take these practices home with you to begin your own unique Tantric Journies.

Please understand I am not a sex worker. I am primarily a healer, a teacher and an empath here to facilitate a major opportunity for your personal intimate growth and I would not be able to provide tantric sex during our sacred time together nor would I feel comfortable teaching you sexual positions or any practices that were too explicit. We would all be nude in a state of comfortable undress or you may even bring saris and light robes to our ceremony if that made you more relaxed. Our time together would be a celebration of the mind, soul, and physical pleasures with conscious heart connection.

Namaste,
Goddess Diana

You can find these paragraphs specifically at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/couples.htm

Do you want to call me on impulse? It’s flattering that you need me but are you prepared for me to tell you that I am only available at 1 am or 4pm or not in the evening hours like you wanted. Are you willing to drop anything and everything for me if I say yes I am available for both of you? If you are very malleable and you can change all your plans at the last minute then the answer is a firm yes I can see you, you can hire an uber, or lyft or driver for me and we are in agreement!

If you have a life and important plans in Chicago like a play to attend or friends to visit then give me three days notice and let’s all make sure I get there at the time you need without you having to pay my cab fare because I will make sure I take a train to see you and be ready fifteen minutes early just to make sure I am not late for you! Treat me like a professional and you will receive the best I have to offer you.

The labyrynth by Alexia Sinclair