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Just two wonderful reasons to schedule a tantra ceremony soon ⭐

The following information has been written by me last year or so because I wanted to discuss the fact that tantra yoga is a legitimate form of yoga. Yoga’s purpose is to teach you mindfulness and help you stay in the present time.

Honestly tantra yoga helps balance your metabolism and heals your endocrine system while stimulating your endorphins.

If you’d like to read the full article in it’s complete entirety then just click directly to my main website online
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Please read and enjoy this excerpt from my website and if you are inspired you may schedule a session with me soon if you are visiting Chicago or Live in Illinois.

Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

If you have any hesitation you may schedule a paid coffee consultation with me. You have absolutely nothing to lose by meeting me in person prior to a session.  You sending me a long narrative via email won’t allow me to help you confront your unnecessary fears and anxieties either.

Once we schedule your first paid coffee consultation I will be listening to you face to face and you will have an opportunity to see how we interact with each other in real time.

Your fee is used as your deposit towards any tantra ceremony of your choosing. You are not obligated to work with me if you decide against scheduling a session with me; but at least your questions were answered and you and I met in person.

I’d love to be your very first tantra guide so once you do decide to meet with me please do not text me as an introduction. I’d rather you send me either a brief introduction or just call my number directly 312 339 7707.

I look forward to meeting you hopefully soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

The process of wellness and healing yourself should be carried out in a joyful and playful way.  Remember that when we begin this process together we are Co Creators of Sacred Space.  The key word here is “together “.

I use my personal powers of intuition, magical intentional touch, reiki, aromatherapy, chakra balancing and tantra knowledge to bring you to a state of deep calm and bliss.  My goal is to awaken and empower you and help activate the dormant kundalini energy within you.

I look forward to helping you receive the healing energies you were born to experience and explore.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

 

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

 

Why you should boycott the Eros Guide♥️

I’m having a hard time staying cheerful this week.  I’m sure all of you out there in social media are used to mostly cheerful, uplifting and inspiring messages; but I’m not a fake person.  I’m a very honest transparent woman who has literally been involved in the healing arts and sensual massage practice for over 25 years.  Many of my peers can’t say the same of themselves though.

Today I noticed a ton of visiting goddesses from San Francisco visiting Chicago this week especially for the holidays.  Trust me the majority of these women are in my age range from mid 40’s to 50 yet they are posting fake chronological ages because they are not forced by the Eros Guide to share their true chronological age.  I also wish to mention that San Francisco has much better weather than we currently have here in Chicago but the reality of the situation is the tantra and sensual massage markets are extremely over saturated for these visiting Goddesses who come here and charge almost twice to three times what I charge my guests. You have to understand that if these women were not struggling financially in their own market they certainly wouldn’t wish to suffer the colder climates here not to mention incur costly travel fare and hotel fees.

They are all allowed to continue using The Eros Guide and announce their visits to Chicago consistantly and their ads are never banned or modified like mine were in the past when I once was a paying advertiser on the eos guide.
I of course was permanently banned two years ago because my supervisor who was in charge of my ongoing advertisement decided I could no longer use certain key words because I was in violation of their new terms.
When Lisa (my eros supervisor) called me I was visiting St. Louis, Missouri with my two pets and spending most of what I earned on our hotel costs, storage fees and other ongoing bills I must pay.
I was in the midst of a very bad menstrual cycle and I suffered a lot of blood loss during each of my cycles while traveling abroadI was very tired and in absolutely no mood or mindset to argue with anyone.
Lisa asked me to give her new text or rather she DEMANDED that I change the words on the spot that she had physically removed from my tantra advertisement.   I asked her to let me replace the words later in the day when I could return to my hotel room and correct the text on my laptop.
I asked her what she had against me and why the Eros Guide allowed my competitors to post paraphrased text from poems; yet I myself was never allowed to use a line of poetry and include credits to the author’s works.
I asked Lisa why the Eros Guide played favorites. I told her I’m most definitely not an escort service and that I was a Sex Educator and a formally trained professional, licensed tantra massage therapist.
I told Lisa that I don’t sell sex; rather I teach people how to feel more sexual energy within their entire body through breathing techniques and intentional interactive guided touch.  I told her I never engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients and that I’m not a GFE or girl friend experience like most of the women that currently advertise there.
The next day Tim from the legal department announced they had now banned me for life. I had paid handsomely for many years to an entity known as Dark side productions A.K.A the Eros guide; yet Tim said that based on my tape recorded phone conversation with Lisa I could never advertise with Eros again.
Why is this devastating? Because Eros guide was created in San Francisco, California and it appears it’s no more than a 3rd party source or Brothel which caters to the Eros guide administrator’s personal group of friends.
In the past I had noticed my ads and tiny banners would receive a total of 2,000 clicks from visitors  to my website per week; so I’m assuming my ongoing presence on their website was harmful and direct competition to the staff of the eros guide team.  The Eros Guide was formally created in San Francisco and the staff’s  close personal friends consistently visit Chicago from San Francisco every major holiday season and during our Conventions.
I logged onto the Eros Guide today and noticed most of the ads are from visiting tantra Goddesses who only live in Chicago part time and only visit our city during major conventions and holidays.
I’m no longer allowed to advertise on the Eros Guide and I’ve even asked another site called Sacred Eros if I could be included but Betty Martin who owns Sacred Eros told me I could not advertise with her because she had issues with my cc card in the past when I had been the victim of cc fraud living in new Orleans.

It’s the lack of overall loyalty here in Chicago that is the brunt of the problem though. You see as we all know men tend to enjoy variety. They stick with a woman for a limited amount of time and then they like to explore other options.  If these visiting goddesses were truly busy in San Francisco with their loyal group of clients then trust me they would have no desire to wish to visit Chicago during the dead of our typically brutal winter seasons. It isn’t so much that these Goddesses have more knowledge of tantra; it’s simply that their clientele lost interest and now they rely on travel to other cities to stay busy.

Men in general tend to like variety over consistency. I’m not saying all men do; but the majority of men I have seen as clients are now hiring these women who “just visit Chicago” temporarily. In fact I know that one Goddess who goes by two different aliases rents a loft space near The United Center and she splits the cost of this space between her and her other tantra colleagues who all come from San Francisco.  These women take turns renting the space on a weekly basis but no one lives there full time. These women are merely here to hustle their services; makes as much money as they can within a time frame and return to San Francisco which is where they reside full time.

It’s hard for me to stay afloat when I’m not afforded the same opportunities that these women are given. I’m no longer allowed to market myself on these two websites and the clients that live here are less keen and inclined to stay loyal to the people that live here permanently.

I’ve been abnormally slower than I should be.  It could be many factors like lack of professional SEO services and the fact that tantra sites I once used no longer exist on the internet. The market here for tantra is now completely and utterly oversaturated with competitors that don’t live here full time but just visit Chicago temporarily to SEIZE AND PLUNDER and fatten their wallets to be able to afford their expensive loft properties in San Francisco, California.

I truly hope people understand the stress I’m under now. I have fewer websites to advertise on and there is now an oversaturation of tantra goddesses who visit and or have permanently relocated to Chicago.
It’s been a tough holiday season for me just trying to subsist and what hurts most is I myself am not allowed to advertise on the same equal leverage as everyone else who just visits here.

I wish to add one more important fact.  Perhaps you aren’t aware of this but The Eros Guide was raided by homeland security two years ago at their headquarters in North Carolina.  Every woman that was still advertising actively on that site had their legal names, social security numbers and physical addresses shared by these people who raided the Eros guide.  I also need to let the general public understand that Eros Guide will most definitely agree to cooperate with the FBI and any court of law and share their data base and the advertiser’s names with the police and with the Feds.  If you continue to contract the services of women on the Eros Guide then you need to know their personal information is being shared with the authorities and with the Eros Guide’s consent.

Please understand I’m not a mean spirited person.  I do however understand the dynamics now of how this game is run. THE EROS GUIDE is here first and foremost to serve themselves.  MANY of the advertising team members were or currently are escorts themselves.  If the team members at Eros take notice that any individual is attracting a huge portion of clicks they may choose and will decide to deactivate any known competition. If you haven’t noticed, the Eros Guide was barren for a while. They got rid of more than half the regular and loyal advertises like me from ever being able to advertise again.  New people and or close friends of the eros guide staff are only permitted to advertise there now.  New rules were always being made by the Eros Guide legal team and every phone conversation we ever had with our representatives were being recorded without our knowledge or consent.

When you continue to advertise with the Eros Guide you must understand that your physical identity state cards will be shared with law enforcement services and the Eros Guide must comply and give your information away to these entities.

When you as a client contract the services now from women who currently advertise on the Eros Guide then you are hiring a circle of women who probably already have a close friendship with the staff team members of Eros so in essence you are most likely indirectly contracting the services of a state wide brothel.

I’m wishing everyone here a safe holiday.  Knowledge is power.  Two years ago after the Eros Glllllllllllllllluide banned me I consulted with a professional psychic.  She told me that being banned was a blessing in disguise because she saw exactly what was going to happen when homeland security invaded the Eros Guide’s main headquarters. She said I was spared so much trouble and that the women who advertise on the Eros Guide are technically just “window dressing” for the higher crimes and money laundering currently going on that these people hide from you the consumer and me the former advertiser.

Everything I shared with you today comes from my heart and from my personal knowledge after having dealt with these dishonest group of people.  If you don’t believe most of what I’ve written today all you need to do is go on Google and type in The Eros Guide RIP off Report in your browser.

The Eros Guide is no longer owned by the same group of people I originally advertised with back in the 1990’s.   There are so many innocent providers who have paid the Eros Guide faithfully for many years that are now formally banned for life for reasons unbeknownst to us. The original staff is probably long gone or may have changed the way they do things; but regardless they have cheated a lot of people and played favorites to their personal friends and colleagues.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am an independent tantra educator and massage therapist.  I use reiki, intuitive touch, chakra balancing, tantra yoga massage, sound healing, chanting and aromatherapy during my tantra massage ceremonies.

You are welcome to visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a comprehensive list of ceremonial options or you may arrange to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and discuss your goals and budget with me prior to your first tantra session with me here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana 312 339 7707

 

When should you receive and request a Reiki healing?

Ideally I shouldn’t have to remind you; but ideally your body will let you know when you positively NEED a reiki atunement.

Here are the following symptoms, bodily signals and symptoms that indicate you’re in need of attentive care.

The first obvious signs are social withdrawal from all activities you once loved. You have difficulty leaving your home yet you still don’t “feel at home”.  Does this make sense to you? You feel restless yet mopey and when you try to get genuinely good rest or sleep you wake up tired, as if you never even had a good sleep cycle.

Another symptom is you feel shy almost as if you are contracting your energy rather than expanding energy.  You have a hard time thinking clearly and creating anything.  It feels like you are stuck or stagnant without making progressive moves forward.

When you are confused, isolated and deeply depressed you should find a Reiki Master and schedule a chakra cleansing for an hour or 90 minutes just to clear your mind and get rid of psychic debris you are holding onto.

Trust me; there’s nothing worse than spinning I’m circles and getting mired down in self doubt or endless grief.  Reiki is a perfect way to process your grief and shorten your mourning period whether it’s from a lost job, an end of a love relationship or a hard transition period you are currently experiencing.

Talk therapy is most definitely useful; but when you truly need to kick start a brand new beginning then Reiki helps ready you gracefully and graciously into the next major life change with greater ease.

When we get depressed our natural inclination is to withdraw from our friends. Most people don’t like to burden their family and friends with their personal emotional drama. In fact, most business professionals would prefer to appear emotionally strong and without any emotional weaknesses.   Keeping all these anxieties to yourself leads to blocks in your chakra bodies and these emotional blocks eventually lead to physical stress like ulcers, eating disorders, insomnia, chronic pain and hopelessness.

When you isolate yourself and guilt yourself into thinking you don’t deserve healing touch you create a vacuum of sadness and normal daily tasks become insurmountable.

Take a moment and schedule some sacred touch with me here in Chicago.  All my tantra ceremonies will include sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, trigger point massage and sacred tantra yoga massage.  Reiki is implemented in ALL my tantra massage sessions in Chicago; but you are also welcome to schedule a stand alone reiki atunement for an hour or 90 minutes just to get you feeling better again.

I have copied and pasted the following information from my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com to help you fully understand the healing benefits of Usui Reiki.

 

Reiki

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive. If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy.

The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”. So Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force.

 

The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras.

The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

It would be my greatest desire to introduce you to my unique approach to traditional tantra yoga massage.

Please dont allow yourself to get to the lowest point in your energy level before reaching out to me.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Tantra massage in Chicago

About Diana offull-image-for-tantra Tantra Butterfly

Many of my prospective clients ask me the all important question:

“What exactly is Tantra?”

My initial reaction is to pause and think to myself if I were a new student to this tantric path what would make me wish to continue or begin this new journey? If I were a new student to Tantra what would make me grasp this concept and take this belief system from its place in the esoteric realm to a more solid level of my own understanding? What would I gain in experiencing a tantric healing? Does Tantra simply mean sex? Will the study of this practice heal my old wounds or would it take me into a scary place I do not wish to explore? Of course all new students of Tantra may share these fears and some new students might even fear it will be a shallow or even disappointing experience. All these fears are valid and this is why I am now taking the time to explain a little bit about the word Tantra and what it is I do and the role I play as your tantric teacher and tantric healer.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry . The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole. We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide. A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.

My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Do you have additional questions? Your questions can be answered if you directly follow the link to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My website is explicit and directly to the point. In the event you have issues understanding the tantra verbage then I advise you to schedule a one hour coffee consultation with me and your consultation fee acts as a deposit towards your future tantra massage here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly

Tantra massage in Chicago is geared towards your specific goals.

Tantra massage in Chicago aides in your ability to stay focused in the moment and be fully present to receive healing energies.

Your chakras will be fully accessible and activated during our tantra ceremony here in Chicago.

Kindly read all the information on my tantra massage services here in Chicago or if you are already prepared for this healing journey and process call me directly at 312 339 7707 and let’s share positive energies.

I don’t like hypocrites don’t patronize me

Most people I meet here who are true native Chicagoans don’t make sense to me at all.

I’ll give you an example. I was at chiya chai in logan square over the weekend and this random female stranger with her friend knew my name and sat down beside me so excited because she said she’s a “HUGE fan of mine”.

She said she watched and appreciates my YouTube videos because she’s deeply interested in tantra.Yet when I asked if she personally subscribed to my channel she said No.
She is a licenced massage therapist who works In Chicago and said she sees me everywhere and she just invested $6000 of her money towards an online long distance course so she can be certified in sexual energy work.
She said part of the course required her to hire and receive sexual healing services from a trained professional yet she admitted she’s getting people she knows off the internet who aren’t truly trained but who are obviously excited about these studies so they are all working on eachother for free as trades yet not one of them is formally licensed yet.
She said she was THINKING of hiring me but she hasn’t supported my public Facebook pages nor has she subscribed to my channel nor has she called me to discuss the possibility of booking a session for herself. Oh and furthermore while she’s actively enjoyed my YouTube channel she hasn’t ever brought herself to actually hire me. Here’s the funny part though; she strongly suggested I contract her massage therapy services but isn’t that solicitation?  In other words I should hire her but I’m not professional enough according to her standards to be hired for my knowledge of traditional tantra massage and yoni healing.
She admitted to me her mother recently died leaving her with money and this woman is my age and definitely doesn’t take good care of her physical health because she definitely didn’t age well yet she’s deeply desirous of obtaining a degree long distance online yet not interested in hiring a trained professional to work on her– yet I’m supposed to believe SHE’S A FAN WHO ADMIRES ME!?

oh yeah so then she offered me a free passcode into her online course illegally so I could take the course instructions for free and cheat this school?!

I’ve learned a lot in my lifetime…mostly that my peers are hypocrites.

They claim to be admirous of the work I do yet they aren’t keen on hiring me, nor liking my Facebook pages, or referring me to friends or even subscribing to my channel. For some odd reason I’m viewed here as an oddity or a stigma.

I’ve nothing more to contribute today…

I’m tired of trying to understand what motivates people into deceiving themselves and others.

One thing I truly hate most though are liars and hypocrites.  If you can’t support fellow healers by OPENLY liking their public pages or YouTube channels then you’re not a TRUE FAN.  When you decide I’m simply not good enough to hire for private reiki or tantra healings then don’t profess to be my fan.

I hate lukewater people. You either decide to forge ahead with a session to give their services an honest try for yourself or you’re deceiving yourself.

Sex workers should support eachother.  I’ve been following my true passion for 25 years and if my own Native Chicagoans can’t fully honor my convictions and my skillset then don’t profess to be my fan or ally. You are neither.yQlt5q0FaVzNpY4iYTFzNqBJZy9

Chicago Outcall Tantra Massage🧸

The title should be apparent that I prefer to offer my tantra massage services as an outcall therapist available to visit you in your home, Airbnb, and hotel.

Please take note that I am not a professional Courtesan nor am I a Nuru therapist or a GFE. If you are truly seeking the services of a Professional prostitute then you should definitely do a thorough search on the internet specifically for those key words.

I also offer half day and full day tantra spa journeys and retreats that I can set up for you anywhere in the city of Chicago with an advanced deposit from you to cover the cost of the spa space I pick out for our ceremony together.

If you choose to pick out the space ahead of time we can discuss all the details over the phone or in person over a paid coffee consultation.

There is absolutely nothing complicated about arranging a session.  If you already are visiting the city of Chicago you are encouraged and welcome to contact me the day of your arrival or a day before and I’ll visit you at your Airbnb, Corporate residence or hotel with everything needed to create a perfect tantra massage ceremony.

You can hire me multiple times during your visit or block out a specific portion of time with me and I’ll accommodate your free time. If you are a Chicago resident and already have a home base here in the city you can have me visit you in your private residence or we can book a special day together away from your home to keep your private address discrete.

I am focused on separating my private space from all tantra ceremonies.  If anything changes I’ll keep everyone informed.  For now I truly enjoy designing a cozy haven in your space or hotel so you can completely relax and enjoy all the positive energies we shared together and you don’t need to travel to another destination.

If you have the desire and budget for a half day or full day of tantra I can arrange a beautiful space with an advanced deposit and a firm date based on our availability.

The title of this article should make it clear that your session will be including a traditional massage, sensual touch, breathing coaching, edge play, mutual cuddling, aromatherapy and anything included on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

I’d love to be given the honor and opportunity to be your future tantra guide and outcall massage therapist here in Chicago.

Tantra is extremely nurturing, nourishing, relaxing and invigorating.  Your needs will be met within the boundaries stipulated on my website.

Tantra promotes full body sensory awareness and a greater ability to be more psychically aware.  Tantra teaches you about setting healthy boundaries with yourself and your partner.  You can become more centered and communicative which will definitely help you attract healthier sexual partners and opportunities for self growth.

Chicago outcall tantra massage is ideal for everyone seeking a blissful escape from work.  So many of us become distracted or over stimulated during a work day.  Some people have such a difficult time letting go of their thoughts and worries.  Tantra and proper breath coaching helps you release all that background noise going on in your mind. I will keep you in the moment and help your body unwind.

For further information please introduce yourself to me via email or by phone.  You may also fill out the contact form on my website them call me directly at 312 339 7707

Please be aware you are always welcome to call me the day of a session if you already have a place for us to meet.

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

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You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

Treat me like you would treat a dear friend and I will easily be inspired to Mirror your thoughtfulness.IMG_20190828_200535_708

Do not disrespect me or violate my boundaries

Right after I finished eating my delicious sushi meal …I had a very strange urge to go online and Google up my public tantra page TANTRA BUTTERFLY and found this ugly and SLANDEROUS review which of course brought my score of 4.6 back down to 4.4

On Monday against my better judgment I accepted an extremely low almost HUMILIATING discounted price for my tantra massage services by a legally blind and EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE blind man who is a life coach who actually has a Facebook profile.

After going all the way from Schaumburg in the pouring rain and incurring my own personal expenses to take transportation to him I accepted a fee of $250 for 2 full hours of tantra massage.  Please note the price was agreed on for a tantra massage NOT an escort session!

I am not a prostitute nor am I an escort service. I am a trained Reiki Master and Licensed tantra educator from Source School of tantra with 25 years of experience in alternative healing, tantra massage, reiki and deep tissue massage.

During the final 30 minutes of our time together Muhammed Noman asked to go down on me not once but twice! I declined his PROPOSITION, packed up all my belongings and left unceremoniously. At this particular point I felt disgusted, disgraced, disrespected and dishonored.

He was warned that if he attempted to charge back our session or slander me online I would post his actions against me on my online blog and on all forms of my social media here and on my YouTube channel.

I’m warning people in my field not to take him on as a client because he chose to retaliate against me and because he has in some way defiled me online and tried to violate my personal boundaries and safety.

Here is the review he posted of me two days ago on my public business page:

Muhammad Noman Ahmed

2 reviews

2 days ago

My personal experience with Diana was very obnoxious. I am disabled and her behavior towards me was very disrespectful. She is very unfriendly and rude and I would never recommend her services

TONIGHT I decided to include his behavior because I have every right to end a session if my boundaries are violated and my personal safety is threatened.

Please do not think that just because you have a disability you are entitled to a huge discount and that you are entitled to any services you wish to receive even though it is not part of the menu of offerings.

I will not tolerate being violated, slandered and blackmailed especially if I was overly generous and went out of my way to offer a greatly reduced price for my tantra massage services.

There is a VAST difference between what I offer and what an escort service chooses to offer.

I am not comfortable crossing that fine line with any of my clients. If I were a professional escort service I would be changing $600 per hour and not $250 for two full hours at a whopping bargain basement price for a selfish, manipulative, emotionally abusive misogynist like MUHAMMAD NOMAN AHMED.

I actually had a very strong premonition against working with him especially since he wanted to know if I give discounts to people with disabilities. I have no qualms offering a BIT of a discount but he actually received my services for less than half of what I normally charge.

From this point on I will need to be much more DISCERNING and careful about who I work with.
Just because someone has a DISABILITY doesn’t mean they are allowed to disrespect you or violate your work and personal boundaries.

Just because an individual is a professional therapist or life coach it doesn’t mean they are not emotionally unstable, retaliatory and MANIPULATIVE.

I have boundaries and I am allowed to state my boundaries and end a session prematurely or abruptly if I am not being honored and respected.

People in my field are often manipulated, taken advantage of, slandered, belittled and blackmailed if we refuse to offer certain services that violate our personal code of safety and ethics.

I have morals and boundaries just like any other trained business professional and I am allowed to have genuine feelings if I’m being emotionally abused by any of my clients.

I will not tolerate bullies who hire me under the false assumption that my VALUE and WORTH is less than any other human being.

No one has an right to force me to do any sexual act that goes against my freewill.
My body is sacred. It may be that this particular individual MOHAMMED NOMAN AHMED doesn’t feel I have value considering how much time he received from me for less than half my normal price but I see things differently.

I was sent in excess of 20 text messages from this unsavory, unethical man who calls himself a life coach. He was incessant that Monday was ideal for us to meet and that he could only afford $250 for 2 hours.

I personally had to travel all the way from the suburbs, incur my own traveling expenses and visit him in a dangerous neighborhood only to be insulted by him when he requested to EAT ME!

YES he asked me twice for sexually exploitive services for a BARGAIN BASEMENT PRICE.
Muhammed Noman Ahmed is an example of a client I DO NOT WISH TO WORK ON.

I May decide not to accept anyone who requests sliding fees based on this particular negative and exploitive experience.

I had of course missed my last bus for the evening and I was forced to spend $30 of my own money just to get home safely and when I did get home trust me I had a good cry.

I hope that people understand that EMPATHY and COMPASSION and RESPECT should always be extended to any sex worker or sex educator that you encounter.

Please treat us as you would treat any business professional and if you are refused a service and you are told A FIRM NO then don’t be childish by retaliation with fake, unfair, unjust reviews.

Now I still have a lot left to say because I’m not quite over my anger.  I have two pets I take care of, no family members, two separate sets of storage fees, a huge monthly phone bill for my private business, ongoing website costs and high weekly rental fees. If you think I will tolerate abusive behavior and bullying I won’t.  I have ZERO tolerance for slander especially when I know I issued a genuinely generous discount to anyone who needed a sliding fee discount.

When I contracted to work with Muhammed Noman Ahmed (life coach at 310-536-6289) he claimed he had read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com in full. If you read my website CAREFULLY you will plainly see I have a full page dedicated to ETIQUETTE.  On my ETIQUETTE page you will read that I’m not a professional escort.  I am not offering services that you would receive from a paid escort. My fair pricing is not a substitute or POOR MAN’S version of a low budget option for clients who are seeking escort services but simply can’t afford these higher prices.  I was BEYOND ANGRY AT this man Muhammed Noman Ahmed for taking advantage of my generous discount then asking me twice towards the end of our session if he could EAT MY PUSSY.  Obviously this individual had shown me he regards me as a bargain basement cheap whore for rent because he devalues women in my field or all women in general.

I do not offer escort services.  I teach goddess worship, I offer tantra bathing ceremonies, I’m a level 3 reiki master and I’m a licensed tantra educator.  I am not for sale. My body is NOT FOR SALE.  I AM NOT a human punching bag. My services are available to anyone who genuinely seeks a traditional tantra session or a fully clothed reiki session or cuddle therapy session.  This particular individual thought he could get away with lying about what truly transpired during our time together in his small studio apartment on Foster Avenue.

Can you imagine how upset and violated I felt being PROPOSITIONED after I spent half my day traveling to his apartment in the rain, unpacking all my essential oils and incense and working DEEPLY on his major muscle groups?  I put everything I spiritually had within me to create a safe, loving, healing vibe to this unsavory, ungrateful, perverse pervert whose only true motivation was to see if he could take full advantage of me based on his disability then solicit me for something I don’t even offer on my website! If this is the way most Muslim men view women in my industry then I need to advise my fellow sex workers to be extremely cautious about who they choose to work on simply for safety reasons.  No one likes to be grossly taken advantage of or psychically abused.

I warned him that I would share publicly what he did to me on my social media if he chose to slander me and tonight I am sharing this factual story of what transpired in his home.  I of course had missed my last bus to my home and incurred an additional expense late at night just to make it back to my place by midnight.  I had a good cry that evening and felt deeply hurt, enraged and disappointed with how I was treated with complete disdain and disrespect.  It is NOT OKAY for anyone to treat a sex educator or tantra yoga therapist this way.  Every individual has triggers and boundaries and I felt energetically raped that evening by a so called, self proclaimed life coach.  I definitely have a strong sense of foreboding before taking on certain clients and in Mohammad’s case I feel regretful that I worked with him despite my strong intuition against seeing him.

I’ve said everything I wish to say here this evening and I decided that tomorrow I’ll be creating a special video about how awful it feels to genuinely give someone your very best and then have that same individual cheapen the healing experience by soliciting illegal sexual favors that you are uncomfortable offering.  I also wish to add that when Muhammed Noman Ahmed chose to write a derogatory google review two days ago he not only insinuated I was abusive to people with disabilities but he lied about my normally kind and generous giving nature. If I wish to defend myself based on my moral code and end a session because I no longer feel safe and respected then that is my freewill and choice to make based on someone’s disrespectful and vile actions and behavior.  Being legally blind does not excuse anyone for acting disceitfully or being manipulative.  If I feel threatened and or dishonored I have every right to leave 20 minutes early especially after I’ve already overextended myself by giving someone an overly GENEROUS discount.

I hope anyone reading this article will digest everything I have written and KEENLY intuit that everyone has boundaries and everyone no matter who they are and no matter what profession they choose is entitled to complete respect as a human being with valid emotions and sensitivities.

Just because you choose to hire a sex worker doesn’t mean you own their soul or their body.

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How to receive the most from your future tantra massage🎈

The following few paragraphs are for new clients who want to get the most out of their time with me prior to their first tantra ceremony.

First of all read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com if you haven’t already done so and if you are truly not someone who likes to read meet me for a coffee consultation soon.

My website is several pages long and provides you with testimonials, a services section, articles, my fees and a thorough description of what tantra is and what tantra massage will do for you and your health.

If you are the kind of person who doesn’t enjoy going through websites I will meet you before our session for a paid coffee consultation and answer your questions in person then use your payment towards a deposit for our future session.

In order for you to receive all the healing benefits of a tantra massage make sure you are well rested prior to your session.  I’d advise anyone to be well hydrated so avoid any beverages like coffee and alcohol that tend to rob your body of fluids.

You should drink enough water beforehand, during our session and after our session because I will be administering bodywork, reiki, traditional tantra yoga and chakra balancing on your physical body and you’re going to need to stay hydrated to release built up toxins after our time together.  You don’t want to wake up feeling sluggish the next day so drinking enough pure water will help your body push out those toxins so you are alive and clear headed the following morning rather than run down.  Trust me I’m going to be giving you a thorough massage as part of our tantra session and you need twice as much water as you normally drink.

Do you have special goals for our shared time together? If you do have secret goals that you wish to accomplish write those requests down and share them with me PRIOR to our session.  I’m not a mind reader and leaving your requests hidden from me will be frustrating for both of us.  I want to make sure we are on even footing beforehand so that you receive the session you have been aching for rather than being resentful towards me afterwards.

Book enough time with me the first time we work together so that you feel refreshed.  Make sure you see me for longer increments of time initially so you have a clear understanding and appreciation for tantra massage and breathing techniques.  There are so many beautiful changes that will happen in your body and I strongly recommend you not cheat yourself  so go in all the way and book 90 minutes to a half day of tantra massage because you will have absolutely no true concept of time.

Tantra yoga massage is a highly enjoyable out of your body experience that keeps you focused on the present.  You will experience tingling, deep relaxation and lightness so make sure you schedule enough time to let go and relax.  Spa retreats are full day journeys that will include pampering services like aromatherapy, tantra bath ceremonies, sound healing and Advanced tantra teachings for beginners and more experienced students of tantra.

I suggest you make sure you are well rested before our session and avoid anything chemical that overstimulates  you or has numbing effects on your physical body.   You should avoid all alcoholic beverages beforehand and simply be ready for a unique journey that you will definitely enjoy.   Get enough rest before we see eachother or if you love to exercise do a light workout prior to our session and get your blood flowing!

Try not to overthink before we meet.  Your session will empower you, refresh you, relax your muscles and give you new insight into bliss, self awareness, self confidence and bodily sensitivities.   I will keep you focused on the present and make sure you are relaxed and breathing deeply during moments of sacred touch.

Your tantra massage session will be flowy, organic and natural so your normal feelings of self consciousness will disappear under my tender and thoughtful touch. I’m highly intuitive and you will be able to let go of your thoughts and just be fully present in the moment and unaware of the passage of time.

Be prepared to receive pleasure because everything we do together will be based on your goals and boundaries and my intuitive knowledge of your body’s needs.  If you can afford to schedule a longer stretch of time do so without regret or hesitation because your body will thoroughly enjoy the sacred touch and the extra time will help you let go of all your blockages that keep you in a stuck place.

Tantra is about moving forward and feeling lighter.  Tantra helps you release negative energies and thought patterns that no longer serve you on your journey.  Tantra will jump start your new career path and help you through all life changing experiences.  Tantra massage will rejuvenate you and even help you focus more on your health especially if you are trying to lose weight or simply be healthier and kinder to your physical body.  Tantra yoga and tantra massage will keep you feeling positive and hopeful despite whatever negative experiences are currently holding you back.   Even if your love life is currently unsatisfying our shared tantra session will brighten your Aura and give you  renewed sense of hope because you will rediscover your potential for bliss.

I look forward to meeting you and helping you create a mind out of body experience that you will remember long after the conclusion of our ceremony no matter how long or short. FB_IMG_1563417179634