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What does the title “goddess” trigger in you?

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.

First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.

I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.

Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very yin in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.

I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.

A Goddess 🌹 is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.

The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.

A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play which is the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self.  🎈

When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.

Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!

Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

 

 

Chicago Tantra Massage presented authentically by Goddess Diana

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Eros Guide continues to Ban established providers from advertising on their site

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.

And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.

I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.

Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.

I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.

In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.

Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.

I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.

Here is the copied text:

I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:

Hello Mary,

I hope this email finds you well.

We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.

We wish you well with any future endeavors.

Regards,

Eli
Customer Service Representative

WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH

I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.

Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?

They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.

I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.

My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707

Couples Massage and Couples Tantra in Chicago ♥❤

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.

You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breath into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.

I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.

I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.

My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist

Tantra Etiquette before contacting your Muse Goddess Diana

amy-winehouse-black-and-whiteHello everyone! I am here to share a new page I have uploaded to my main website which is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com. I am human just like you! I have good days and foul days. I speak to many people on a daily basis and most people don’t have a clue what I am offering because they think I am a “madam” with “girls” working for me or they looked at my photo galleries and they are assuming I am offering much more than tantra massage. I am assuming most of these people are finding my main google page but they never bothered to read my main website at all.

I even speak to a great deal of Indiam men from India who seem super excited that I am offering traditional tantra yoga massage but then after I spend a good thirty minutes speaking to them on the phone they bombard me with extra GFE requests asking me for the same price will I spend the night?! So tell me how would you feel after speaking to a majority of men or women who have not read your site and after explaining repeatedly what you do and don’t offer and the still expect much more than tantra massage?

For anyone that is deeply confused with what I am offering I am sharing all my information here on etiquette so there is no more confusion again.

Etiquette for the Optimal Tantra Experience

Dear potential new Guest, due to the large numbers of calls I receive, I felt it necessary to include this index page to help you understand how to make a good connection with me initially.

I do know how “awkward” it can be to reach out to a complete stranger you find on the internet. New guests might be fearful or have misconceptions about the nature or definition of Tantra. After reading the contents of my site you may still be confused about what i am offering or you might be genuinely shy. You are welcome to engage in a thirty minute question and answer over the phone with me but I will charge you a fee for my time.

My site is extremely informative in fact the testimonials section will give you a very graphic idea of what I can offer you. If however you are still in doubt you are encouraged to arrange a private and in depth phone conversation with me for the fee of $50 for a full thirty minutes. I am happy to answer your questions but I will not spend my time with anyone explaining in a graphic nature what we will be doing on the phone for FREE. My website is very detailed and I am happy to hear from you only if you are prepared to hire me for your first tantra session or only if you are prepared for the simple verification process before I receive you as a new guest.

All new Guests are expected to provide me with a real legal name, age range and occupation. I am not comfortable working with anyone who provides me with an “alias”. All your information will be kept private and I will never share your personal information with anyone but I do need to know who you are before we meet in person. If you have met with me before in the past feel free to remind me of who you are again and if you send me a photograph that will definitely jar my memory. I want this process to be seamless, and your cooperation and willingness to share yourself with me will make me feel more comfortable about seeing you either for the first time or for a repeat session.

I am always polite and I work best with people who respect me as a good friend or confidante. If I feel a lack of concern or brusk tone in your voice, I might not wish to see you, especially if you are awkward and nervous on the phone when you communicate with me. I suggest you be yourself and help me understand what your goals are for our shared time together even if your only goal is relaxation therapy. Introduce yourself to me and If we have a bad connection on the phone where we are both in an area of bad reception please do not be aggravated with me or frustrated if I ask you to repeat yourself twice. I know cell phones are not perfect and I’d love to be able to see you and answer your “brief” concerns over the phone. If you honestly think you have too many questions for me then be honest with yourself and hire me for a thirty minute conversation before you commit to seeing me for the first time.

I would prefer several hours notice if you would like a late evening session with me. I try and keep myself available for scheduling sessions between the hours of 10am till midnight but this does not mean I want to accept your call at 10 pm or later. If you are seeking an evening session please call me between the hours of 10 am till 9pm. Do not assume I am available at YOUR beck and call. You may come across one of my ads online late at night at the very last minute impulsively but I may not be able to receive you on your “whim”. Treat me like a professional and give me a few hours notice if you want a late evening session. I can work with your late schedule but I need to be prepared to receive you for a late night session. If you know you need a session with me early in the morning then please call me the day before so I am ready for you before my normal business hours.

I have the right to refuse any caller who I do not feel a good connection with. If you seem brusk, inebriated, irritated, or otherwise rude I may not wish to see you. I am always willing to work with your schedule as long as you give me adequate notice. If this is your very first time calling me and I do not know you personally I will not answer your text messages or answer your questions by text ever. Text messages are reserved for clients who I already recognize as being part of my contacts list of known guests. I will delete all your text messages to me unless I already know you and unless you introduce yourself to me so I know who you are. Text messages do not take the place of a good email or a good phone conversation. Please only contact me by email at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and call me directly on my cell phone at 312-339-7707 when you are ready to schedule your session with me.

If you are a couple seeking Couples Tantra, contact me by email first and give me as much information about the two of you as you possibly can. Tell me what your goals are and let me know what days and times suit your schedules. I require a small deposit for all new couples who are visiting me — no exceptions. I need at least a full 24 hours notice for all couples Tantra sessions and need both of you to be prepared to commit to a full three hour session or longer. Do not expect me to shorten your first session with me but if you have seen me at least once before we can condense our second session to a full 2 hours.

Gender and Races

I cordially welcome all gender fluid people to my Tantra Services whether you are a same sex couple or you identify as both masculine or feminine or in transition. All races are accepted to receive my services the only requirement I have is that I feel safe so all new guests or old guests may verify who they are using their real legal name and treat me with the kindness and respect that I will give to you whether you call me directly over the phone or decide to email. If I have seen you before I again must remind you I would love it if you would email me your photograph and legal name and occupation so I can remember you as our safety and discretion will always be foremost in my mind. My only requirement is that you are polite and courteous to me on the phone or by email during our initial contact. The only people I refuse to see are individuals I can not even carry out a good conversation with. All polite, educated, caring and thoughtful beings of any race or gender is always welcomed to try one of my Tantra Ceremonies.

I would also like to include boundaries as a subject matter of importance for both you and me. Tantra is about establishing healthy, positive boundaries and being able to communicate your goals and boundaries in a healthy, positive and loving way. I never want you to feel violated in any way during our shared time together. If you have never met me before you are welcome to send me an email with a list of your goals and healthy boundaries. Let me know what you feel safe exploring and please let me know what your limits are. If you were violated, raped or molested please let me know this important information. The very last thing I wish to do is make you feel unsafe or frightened. Tell me what your limitations are and let me know again when you meet me for the first time in person.

I myself have boundaries that I will share with you now. I am not an Escort service but I do consider myself to be a Muse and a companion. I do not feel comfortable being expected to engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients. I am an educator, a friend, a professional tantra massage therapist and a Reiki master but I do not wish to engage in intercourse during my tantra ceremonies under any circumstance. When you agree to hire me for the first or second or fifth time you are contracting my healing services solely for your pleasure or education but not as your Sacred Prostitute. Do not expect me to bend these rules for you. I also do not feel comfortable working with you if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If you are inebriated chances are you won’t remember much about our session and it will be a complete waste of your money. Treat me with respect and make sure to give me adequate notice if you want to see me. If you are too drunk for the session I may decide not to work with you at all until you are sober at a future date and time. Our shared ceremony is sacred and I myself will be prepared to be clear headed and lively enough to give you the attention you deserve so I expect the same etiquette from you.

If you are seeking a half day or full day of Tantra with me please give me a full 24 hours notice so I can prepare a very elegant ceremony you will find memorable. I require a small deposit for half day and full day Tantra ceremonies and if you have a true emergency please give me as much notice as you can and your deposit will be used for a future session. I do understand that sometimes medical or family emergencies can prevent you from seeing me so you are welcome to rebook for a future session without any drama. If however it is your first time seeing me and you cancel an hour before our session you will be expected to pay for a future session in FULL before we establish trust.

Overnight Stays are Possible for night owls like you and me:

I am always available to help you achieve a well thought out Tantra Escape and my fees for an overnight stay are 1600 which covers an exclusive overnight stay package with foods you wish for me to stock up on ahead of time and a very posh setting for our overnight Tantra Ceremony. My rate for this overnight stay is not up for negotiation under any conditions and you will be able to modify the time we begin our session if there is a delay in your schedule. A deposit for an overnight stay is required before our evening together and you are welcome to pay me the remainder once you arrive. My rates reflect the time, energy, and creativity I put forth to make our overnight stay a memorable one so please do not ask me graphic or explicit questions via text, phone or email or I will not be able to accept you as a new Guest.

POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS and PRAISE for the Goddess

If you have enjoyed our shared time together please provide me with a paragraph or two in a private email to me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com You can provide me with an alias you wish for me to use and naturally I will keep your legal name a mystery as I will never betray your confidence ever on my public website. I can always use wonderful new reviews and testimonials on my testimonials section and I will only use the name you have provided at the end of your review. If you feel moved I would especially love it if you referred me to your close personal friends or business coworkers and you are welcome to write me a review on TER or any review board. If you were not especially pleased with our time together I would prefer if you would share that feedback with me in private by email so that I can improve my performance and see what I am doing wrong but please refrain from airing your grievances in a public forum I’d rather receive these messages from you in private just like I would never place your real name in a public setting If I were unhappy with an event.

GIFTING MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED AND LOVED

I never expect gifts from you but in the event you wish to surprise me with something special and it’s a gift from your heart I would love to list my favorite items to receive:

Gift Certificates: Free People, Verizon Wireless, Sephora, AMC movie theaters, Top Shop, and Agent Provacateur a lingerie boutique in Chicago and New York.

Scent: I love organic essential oils so you may indulge me with pure essential Vanilla oils, Lavender oil, Bergamot oil, chocolate oil or pure organic coffee essential oils.

Computer: I am in dire need of a new laptop as my apple computer here is out of date and I would love to add new features which I can not do with my current laptop from 2008 🙂

Edibles and Perishables I love a good dessert wine such as Moscato or Sauterne. My favorite chocolates are from Leonidas, Teuscher and La Maison du Chocolat. My most favorite flowers to receive are roses or any purple flower you can find such as a french tulip

I hope all your questions have been answered after reading these brief paragraphs. I enjoy meeting new guests and I love it when I hear from old clients from my past. I want you to feel completely safe and loved during all of our shared ceremonies and I truly want to keep our phone interactions just as positive, professional and loving.

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Namaste, Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator A Specialist in Unconditional Love* Journey with me Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

Phone: 312.339.7707 (mobile)

Beat the Winter Hibernation syndrome in Chicago with your Tantra Muse!

the-shining-jack-nicholson-stanley-kubrickWell I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.

So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.

So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.

My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.

I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!

Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.

Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.

You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.

During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.

Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.

I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.

Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.

Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.

If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.

Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!

Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
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Current Advertisers I Suggest you Boycott the Eros Guide indefinitely till Changes are made to benefit you.

diana-soft-focus-nudes-tantra-butterflyAs the title of this blog states I am strongly urging all current advertisers to formally BAN the site known as http://www.erosguide.com indefinitely until changes are made to benefit YOU the consumer.

You are the consumer. You pay a ton of your money to receive inferior services. I know this because I do remember when the eros guide was actually a great place to find wonderful clients. I remember when my phone “used to” ring off the hook because the earlier version of the eros guide was basic and much more pleasing to the eye. Now as you notice the site now known as http://www.erosguide.com has been taken over by a new group of people and the original owner who was a former prostitute/sex worker no longer owns this business.

You the consumer hold all the cards not the other way around. If everyone would simply not use the eros guide for several months I can assure you many positive things would happen. I found out the hard way that long years of loyalty meant nothing to them. They certainly no longer needed my business because I was just pennies to them and not a real human being with genuine feelings. Eros guide did not care about my well being and they do not care about you. All it takes is for you to use one word that they deem “illegal” and you are banished promptly from their site and all evidence of your ad will be destroyed forever. They won’t let you argue your way back or listen to you. You will be another banned useless commodity because the truth is Eros guide is also a privately owned Brothel.

About a year ago after I was banned I noticed a change in the way I was being treated. My opinions were ignored and instead of positive changes made I did notice the eros guide was actively seeking “models’ or paid sex workers and they wanted these new women to send them Id’s and photographs. All women who were attractive and between the ages of 18 to 36 were encouraged by the eros guide to send in their information online and if they were selected they could earn 2,000 and up to 5,000 per week as “models’ or escorts in New York city. I saw this ad because I researched top escort sites on google in New York city. I found that ad quite by accident and the ad stated that these women could have a two week trial period just to see how it worked out. I believe in all fairness that eros guide is now serving as a huge “brothel” and has every desire to promote their privately hired entertainment prospects and get rid of people like me and other well known major providers in the industry that serve as a threat to their personal adult entertainers or shall we say it—prostitutes and GFE’s.

There is nothing wrong with being a GFE or a prostitute but it is highly unethical to promote a handful of women and play favorites allowing these women to say what they wish to say in their ad copy then get rid of innocent women like me whose accounts are being closely monitored and restricted then BANNED permanently.

I also remember a time when I called the eros guide because I noticed changes to my text were made and I could hear a manager in the background scream out “oh it’s that BITCH again…”

So here we go again. If you want to advertise at the erosguide I can’t stop you but just know there are women that receive special favors from the staff so that their ads are outstandingly attractive and there are other people like you and me who will eventually be BANNED for using a phrase they deem incorrect. In the meantime if you still advertise with the eros guide you are feeding their fat wallets and potentially exposing yourself to being victimized by undercover stings because police troll the eros guide much much more than backpages.com to receive their easy prey. If you advertise on http://www.erosguide.com the way it is now and they way it is currently corrupt you are playing Russian Roulette.

Here is more information including a conversation via email I conducted with the eros guide last week when I was invited to enjoy a premier service because of my “loyalty”. Obviously the eros guide made a huge mistake and forgot that they banned me. When I applied to get back on I was told to send money first then told I was Banned. If you are into “bait and switch” then by all means continue to use the eros guide.
Dear potential consumer of the new http://www.erosguide.com I wish to share the following information with you since I do have experience in the adult industry and I have been a well known advertiser with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 15 years since the very beginning of its inception.

I am suggesting all current advertisers to STOP advertising with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 6 month period until certain changes are met. You may be a new advertiser and you may have witnessed that some of your friends are currently being BANNED WITHOUT DUE CAUSE OR ANY PRIOR WARNING.

This new site http://www.erosguide.com is not the same ENTITY I enjoyed working with when it was just starting to become a huge “hit” on the internet. I used to religiously use the Chicago Reader when I first worked in this Adult industry and to be honest the true chaos began when I decided to enroll in a FREE advertisement as a trial basis for the new eros guide that was soliciting me and others in my industry for business.

In the very beginning we were treated with genuine kindness and respect. We had a great template that allowed us to upload a series of pictures of us fully nude without childish restrictions. We could write as much text as we wished and there were no “bad” no no words that would get us BANNED or BANISHED indefinitely and or without prior warning.

Everything was peaceful (at first) but then Erosguide.com decided to ad features, reduce the body of our text and change our pictures into tiny square blocks you had to click onto. Visually the erosguide.com was no longer aesthetically pleasing to the eye and of course customer service always encouraged your feedback but nothing would be done to pacify the advertiser. Our pricing was promptly hiked up but I noticed fewer callers and some clients told me the erosguide.com was harder to navigate.

I had no idea what was going on but as the years rolled by I did notice all these cumulative changes and new restrictions on photos were hurting my potential to attract new customers to me. I had to choose words that no longer offended and my one sentence which included the word “I will help you find your inner child” was BANISHED AND DEEMED FILTHY BY upper management at the erosguide.com.

Now my intentions were good so I suggested we change the word to inner psyche and so these small changes in wording were made. I however noticed a huge HYPOCRISY going on in upper management because while my ads were being picked apart there were other advertisers allowed to infer many more graphic and lurid sexual details in the body of their lengthy ads.

I even mentioned to customer service that other women in my field were mentioning the words “edge Play” and other women were allowed to include prose and poetry from well known authors but when I wished to include a phrase from Alice in Wonderland and gave credit to the author I was chastised for it and the few sentences were removed without reason or warning.

I still see so many ads on the current erosguide.com that is allowed to intimate “suggestive” sexual connotations and yet my harmless phrases “yoni healing” and “multiple waves of bliss” were removed and even when they were removed permanently I was BANNED the very next day from “Tim” from the legal department.

I was even given permission to use the word “yoni” by Lisa who was assigned to me about two years ago. I told her I no longer wanted to use the term “Goddess Worship” because callers were confused and expected me to offer them BDSM rather than a tantra healing and education about the “yoni”. I wanted to attract men and women who were already very comfortable in their bodies and had some prior experience in yoga and or tantra massage. My intentions were good when I picked that word and if you google the word Yoni it has many varying meanings and is Sanskrit for womb or birthplace. It can also mean lotus flower or “female genitalia” but according to the new rules on eros last summer it no longer met their standards. I was given a very frantic phone call by Lisa who was a nightmare for me to deal with explaining that the word yoni is not allowed and figure out something else. She suggested Yoni healing and or Yoni education and or yoni training. I complied and allowed her to make a living mess of my once beautiful advertisement.

I allowed Lisa to butcher my ad and remove words that other providers were using on their website. I let her make me look foolish online and then without any warning Tim from the legal department called me the next day and told me according to the “tape recorded” and “monitored” conversation that I had with “lisa” or Lysette or what ever they call her I was BANNED . So in essence I did comply with their rules; I did remove the necessary text and I see plenty of women that are their “favorites” receiving as much attention online as I used to receive but they are not BANNED OR BANISHED.

if you are a new customer expect the following treatment from the “nazi crew”
a. You will not be listened to when they ask for your opinions on ad
layouts. Your conversations are being recorded and they are seeking to trap you into making mistakes so they can label you as a trouble maker and have you gleaned off their site.

B. they are using you as window dressing only. I found proof online that eros guide is involved is sex work trafficking online. I saw strong evidence from erosguide.com offering women works as “models” or sex workers and eros requesting women between the ages of 18 to 36 to apply for “modeling” gigs that will pay them 2,000 to 5,000 a week in New York city.

C. You are supporting unethical people with illegal business practices.

I have so much proof that the Erosguide.com uses you the advertisor to money launder their more shady activities. They have cam girls online on their site 24/7 which by the way is a huge distraction and it makes it impossible for clients to even find an entertainer with all the pop up ads interfering. I saw many ads online where women are advised to apply for work as models in new york and honestly part of the reason that eros guide is okay with banning so many women is because they probably have their own privately owned brothel and using the eros portal as a front and advertisers who don’t know this are being used as “window dressing”.

I truly do miss the old Erosguide.com and the simplicity of the site and the way the original owners treated you. There are new hands running this corrupt machine and providers are being banned for making mistakes in the bodies of their texts and nothing more.

I was even lured back two weeks ago. I was sent invitations to redeem coupons for Premier services so I thought maybe I was welcomed back. I jumped through hoops and sent the erosguide.com a money order but two days after my money was received my ad was not up. I asked what was wrong and said my old account had been banned so they would send my money back but I have not received my money back just yet.

No one from customer service would explain anything to me other than I am BANNED and when I explained Lisa had given me permission to use a word instead of Lisa being fired I was FIRED for being a victimized client.

The following information I am sharing with you is my communication with the people from the Eros guide. Please take all my information seriously. I have no reason to lie or make anything up and the information I shared with you is not slander since it is 110 percent true. There are very few legitimate places to advertise but I assure you if you are considering advertising with the eros guide you can and will be banned without any warning down the road. You are simply taking a gamble.

Eros Guide Customer Service
Fri, Dec 9, 2016 at 10:55 AM

Diana Grossman

Thu, Dec 15, 2016 at 2:44 PM
To: Eros Guide Customer Service
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Dear Brenda,
apparently I was BANNED permanently 17 months ago because a new
account manager with an alias of Lisa who is now known as Lisette gave
me permission to use the word Yoni healing . Three months after she
told me the word was deemed acceptable she called me to have me remove
the term. I complied and asked her why my account was being picked
apart since I was a loyal customer of 16 years. I was Banned. You
are now responsible for sending me back my money order which I sent to
you in the amount of 130. Failure to comply will lead to me writing
about how you treat your loyal customers on my blog which comes up
number one on google and the BBB and rip off report.

Yours
Diana

On 12/9/16, Eros Guide Customer Service wrote:
> Hello Diana,
>
> I hope this email finds you doing well.
>
> It was a pleasure speaking with you today, as promised here is the email
> with our best practices.
>
> Below are some things we recommend to you while building/updating your ad:
>
> 1. Update Your Tagline Often
> Your Tagline is your headline across our network! Update it often and keep
> it relevant.
>
> 2. Photo Updates
> Update your photos each time you are eligible. Standard ads can update
> photos once every 15 days. VIP ads can update photos once every 7 days. You
> can check your current status by clicking “More Details” next to your ad
> within the Eros Ads console.
> This update gets your ad on the What’s New page – one of the most popular
> destinations for our viewers when they first log onto our site.
>
> 3. Ad Text
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> overwhelm your potential clients with too much information.
>
> 4. Ad Thumbnail/First Ad Photo
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> see more of your ad! Make sure to feature your best asset. Data we have
> looked at over the years suggests that breast shots and butt shots tend to
> get good results.
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> 5. Keep Your Ad Online
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> you. It also helps the search engines find your ad since its content that
> has been online, updated and indexed.
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> 6. Available Now
> The “Available Now” option allows you to tag your ad so that viewers know
> that you are ready for them to contact you now. All you have to do is log
> into your Eros
> Ads
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> will stay online for 4 hours unless you turn it off. You can reset it as
> many times as you want for FREE! Activating “Available Now” also puts you in
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> on.
>
> 7. Photo placement
> First impressions mean everything! You want the viewer to see your best
> photos as soon as they open your ad, so always make sure to put your best
> photos in slots 1, 2, and 3!
>
> 8. Stats Box Information
> It is important to fill out as much applicable information as possible in
> your stats box to make your ad more searchable for MEG members (i.e.
> location categories, eye color, cup size, ethnicity, etc.)
>
> 9. Eros Authenticated – Get a red “Eros Authenticated” seal on your ad
> and be placed in the Authenticated category for additional exposure and
> views. This is FREE and we only require a few documents in order to be
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>
> 10. YouTube Video! – We now offer a 3 minute or less video so you can
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> Our publishing standards do apply and contact me for more details.
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> 11. If you are looking for additional exposure, we also offer Premier
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Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing, Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach, & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact: 312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!