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Consciously Awaken Your Anahat Chakra to Bliss ♥♡

♡♥ Consciously Awakening Your Anahata Chakra to Bliss ♥♡

Your Heart is the Most intelligent Muscle in your Body. Be proud of who you are and share yourself freely with others. Be open to receiving praise and be open to bliss ~>♥ the Path of least resistance is the Easiest Path to follow ~> ♥

♡ Your Anahata Chakra ♡

Your Heart Chakra is centered in your sternum a thriving shade of green when she is at her healthiest strumming her chords of infinate trust and joy just like a musical instrument you play ♬♫

She is the Anahata Chakra literally meaning “un-struck.”

The heart chakra has subtle chords that sound similar to guitar or violin strings being plucked. For this reason we like to use tuning forks and gentle toning sounds using our vocal chords to open up the heart chakra and envelope her in a cradle of sweet harmonious sounds. If you think about it we are all vibrating instruments of sound affecting each other’s vibrations with our pitch and our unique forms of verbal expression. It is for this reason that we only wish to express ourselves in the most harmonious and pleasing way to carefully allow our partner’s heart chakra to open up in complete trust. Any discordant or jangling sounds simply do not offer anything of value to our heart chakra and we wish to shift the energies of our hearts using only the most pleasing of sounds and choosing our words wisely lest we upset the gentle balance of our heart flow. Feeling butterflies in one’s stomach is also in direct co relation to the heart center because you first sense love and excitement by activating your heart chakra and her subtle energies have a direct influence on your lower chakra bodies like your solar plexus which is the chakra directly below your Anahata. Our dreams, our ideologies and our thoughts are all directly influenced by how our heart chakra perceives the world and whether or not our heart chakra feels safe to express her love freely without threats from an outside source or from emotional wounding and mistrust. ♬♫

You use your Anahata Chakra to heal and send unconditional love to others using your compassion. This does not mean you blindly allow others to take advantage of you but it does mean you are willing to give someone a chance to affect you. When you formulate opinions with an open heart you are able to give and receive love without fear of rejection or paranoia. It is only the experience of repeat abuse from others that we learn to close our heart chakras and learn not to give love so readily so you must learn to “check” yourself every now and then and learn not to judge everyone but allow love in from a view point of an innocent child even if it means you must willingly take a chance. Sometimes we lose the great opportunity of Divine connection if we continuously make the same mistake of coming from a place of judgement. State your boundaries in a loving way but do allow someone into your heart with new “eyes”.

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We know our Heart Chakra is in balance when you feel a free energy and newness in your body. You are like a child with your hands in the air~>ungrounded and self accepting and others. You are blindly trusting and compassionate towards all beings and the thought of being potentially betrayed or mislead will never occur to you for you are as a child beaming your light and love wisdom to all.

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And like a Sun Child ☼ openly giving and receiving love, you are enabling your Heart Chakra to receive more trust and more inner light strengthening her inner chords and tuning her strings. The Heart Chakra manifests ideas into reality. She is the Core the Solar system that Cleans and purifies the upper and lower chakras. This is called Heaven on Earth because the Spritual body meets the physical body and anything is possible and We become the Manifestors of our own realities. It is very important for you to NOT LOOK A GIFT HORSE IN THE MOUTH. Too many times we make the mistake of doubting our Heart’s natural ability to manifest and we manifest a most powerful wish only to doubt our ability to receive it once we create that reality. This happens when we do not know how to receive pleasure with grace and humility. Sometimes we are simply overwhelmed when we are in the position of receiving pleasures and we might turn away from it because we feel we truly do not deserve it — we feel unworthy deep inside. This of course is self deceptive and does not serve you. I must always remind myself that once my heart leads me to success and rewards I must humble myself and say to myself that yes I truly do deserve this gift and yes I am worthy of being honored and deeply cared for and I am a beautiful soul wothy of being adored.

Now if your Heart Chakra is out of balance you might be too flighty and non focused so you are not in your personal power and others might take advantage of you because you are sending that message out to the Universe that you are not in your body and you are not in your heart integrity.

If your Heart chakra is shut off you might feel deeply alienated from others and you might isolate yourself because you lack faith and you are now afraid of incurring further hurt. You will stop reaching out to others and you might stop attempting any contact because you feel your situation is now hopeless and nothing can remedy the pain in your heart. You might feel bogged down with the depression and you can lose your ability to create and manifest. Stop this! We can all lose ourselves in self pity and yes it is good to honor your feelings of deep pain so wallow in this grief and honor your heart as she weeps but make sure to care for her gradual awakening with loving thoughts and self massage and beautiful music to heal her in your own time. Shutting your heart chakra down for any extended length of time is a dangerous proposal you should not invest in for too long. We need sunlight and encouraging words even your own hands placed in stillness over your sternum is a wonderful medicine for Heart Chakra and acknowledging her strength and courage will gradually reawaken her chords ♡ so she can remain “un – struck”.

Being Jealous likewise harms your fragile Heart chakra. If you are jealous you push away love. Because the heart chakra is directly affiliated with the Air element it is wise to be like the air and freely allow the energy of constant flux and change to shift her chords and change her pitch. You can not greedily “hoard and stow away love” when it should be freely given and received. Allow love to restore you and accept it for what it has for you “in the moment” in that space and in that time. Try not to label or compartmentalize the love you feel. Try not to question it or question someone’s motives for you. Just be in a state of blissful acceptance and do not allow yourself to cave in inwards just let your sternum open wide when receiving a loving compliment and see the difference in your energy as you learn to open wider and soften your heart chakra to receiving more and more love from outside sources.

How can we open up our Heart chakra even wider? You might find this answer so basic but the easiest answer is the practice of mindful meditation. When you focus on your heart chakra you clear your ego and simply allow your emotions to take over giving your mind a much needed rest from all its mindless inner “chatter”. How can one clear their mind of negative self talk? You do so by laughing and giving your mind a mental vacation. Just once be light and free and if you can go outdoors in the open air to enjoy the element of wind then take some time to surround yourself in the elements and feel the full force of the wind rushing through the hollows of your heart chakra. Open your chest cavity wide and arch your back backwards taking in all the pranic energy from the sun and feed off the warm beaming rays as she melts into your Anahata. If you can not go outside then open as many windows in your home as you possibly can and get some circulation going on and just tune into the sounds of the wind pelting against your window pane. Have some window chimes next to you and delight in the sounds of chimes as they make music to the air stirring up your heart chords in melodic unison. ♬♫

Meditation
The Buddhist monks call this meditation “metta” or acts of loving kindness so allow the air element to empower you and flow through you as you become one with your heart or ONE Big Heart Entity ♥♡

And now for Self Affirmations as a Self meditative Tool ♁

“I empty my heart of Hurt, shame, guilt and pain”

“I am a firmly grounded Being but my Spirit body is free to fly”

“In infinite joy I was made to be free and open to receive unconditional love and bliss”

” I am a Soul deserving and able to receive unconditional love from the Universe and other Beings”

“I welcome only unconditional love into my life for I deserve to be Seen as the Divine and Unique Creation I am”

“I open my heart in complete Faith and blind trust and I am able to accept myself in complete love and share my truths and my love with others without fear of being judged”

“I am able to forgive my past hurts and dissapointments and I am open to the possibility of receiving infinite joy”

“I am able to share myself with others and share my truths with others without fear of being punished or judged”

” I can release my guilt and open my heart to lightness”

“I am a Being of change and the element of air supports my changes and guides me to a place of inner joy”

“I am able to trust myself more and my own judgements without relying on others approval”

“My heart Chakra is full of compassion and trust for myself and others”

If you can share your compassion with others and have pity and unconditional forgiveness for your past mistakes you can move on and reap the benefits of seeing your dreams manifest into reality. When you are ready to see yourself as a Divine Being you are finally able to reap what you sow and enjoy the profits of your harvest. Your greatest most richest commodity is your heart. Don’t doubt yourself. When you receive a compliment gush out and give that person a huge hug and thank them for being your admirer and Your Mirror. We can only see our reflections more clearly when we take the time to clean our mirror and sweep away the debris of self doubt and guilt. Forgive your past mistakes. Learn from your mistakes. Shift your energies with complete forgiveness and you will find out that it is so much easier to move freely from a place of self love rather than a place of mistrust and self loathing. We only stand in the way of ourselves when it comes to our Heart’s true potential. Learn from your mistakes and give of yourself freely. The path of least resistance shall and will always be unconditional love without blocks and without restraints.

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Your Heart is the Strongest Muscle in your body. Use her strength and inner Wisdom to keep you in touch with your Dreams and Tap into your Higher Vibrations . We were made to be loved and loveable ♋ So Be loved! And when you face yourself in your vanity Mirror today say the following really loud ~~> I DO SEE THE DIVINE IN YOU! ♡♥

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What is Tantra? Is Tantra Yoga Purely Sex? by Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly

Unfolding The bliss Goddess Diana Tantra butterfly

What is Tantra? Is Tantra Yoga Purely Sex?

Is Tantra Sex? Well Is Tantra Sex? I like to think of Tantric Yoga as the teaching of tolerance, self preservation, boundaries and at last self love. So many potential students call me on the phone and they are not sure what they are looking for but they know they want to be touched and understood. They know they are seeking a change in their outlook either in the way they approach intimacy with their love partner or in the way they wish to hopefully ignite more passion in the sensual well being.
Sometimes we simply shut down our sensual appetites and energies and we are focused on maintaining our daily work routines only cohabiting with our mate. But we as human beings crave touch and even though we can live in a state of temporary denial our bodies will eventually lead us to feed those simple and most basic of human needs — the sacredness of touch and intimacy.

So again I ask of you. Is Tantric Yoga sex? Is Tantric yoga simply the study of having the most mind blowing sex you might ever have with your beloved? Each time I meet a new friend on the street they will always want to know what it is I do for a living and I smile and say I am a Tantric Yoga Educator and I teach couple’s tantra. They might be embarrassed or a light bulb will brighten in their crown chakra and they will beam and say “Oh I know what Tantric Yoga is! You teach people how to have better sex!” I smile a little to myself and I let them know that I go through rituals of celibacy where I maintain breathe and I simply coach couples on how to better preserve their sexual energy and learn the practice of Conscious touch. Yes learning the all important touch that activates your heart space and sends that loving energy into your partner’s body is what I teach and it does not necessarily involve sex but it does enhance your ability to be more sensitive, more thoughtful with your lover and better able to tune into your own body as you feel the energy pulsing through in a constant loop from your heart to your lover’s heart and back to you again.

Yes, everyone wants to understand the allure of Tantric Yoga and the role of the Dakini as the Sacred healer who plays the role of Sacred goddess and all nurturing being in the sacred art of Kundalini activation.

So many women visualize the Kama Sutra and they envision sexy Temple Dancers who seduce their lovers and who seem to know the mysteries of exotic sexual positions to keep their lovers content and happy so they will never think of straying. The art and the act of seduction is what most people think of when they conjure up thoughts of spicy tantric sex. Who wouldn’t want to learn
how to become a temptress or a Tiger or Tigress in bed? We have all seen movies at least once in our lifetime of Bollywood and the gorgeous and bold dancers who ultimately tease, entice, enthrall and control the object of their affection simply by rolling their eyes a certain way and swaying a bit of gauzy material seductively over their hips to increase their lover’s desire.

But is this the true reality of tantric yoga? Are we going to base our opinions on Bollywood and art and smoke and mirrors? Of course it is fun to play dress up and wear bindi or use henna to decorate our beautiful goddess bodies. But I try to avoid taking on students who are seeking pure fantasy and not the opening of pure energy that is shared between a Goddess and her student. Of course I do not mind a bit of role play and all allusion can open doors of pleasure, self discovery and some simple laughter which is healing too. But I would prefer to give someone a gift a new toy to play with so to speak in their trunk filled with old toys that no longer serve a purpose. I would prefer to take someone to a place of safety and complete self acceptance so that their doors are open to even more healing and better opportunities for greater love interests to come their way. There is no short cut to great sex. Great sex is a bonus when you can combine your heart muscle, your compassion to your love muscle your power of abundance. The two power centers once activated and combined can not only increase your intuition and abundance but can lead you to a permanent fountain of youth as you learn the art of having Tantric orgasms rather than short lived primal sex without focus.

My journey as a healer began 15 years ago when I learned the power of the chakra systems and I decided that I wanted to expand my practice of sensual massage and learn the practice of tantric yoga since I needed to learn how to incorporate the breath in my work. I never really focused on my own breathing practice or ritual and I never understood why certain healers were breathing so heavily when they did energy work or rolfing on me. I finally realized it was time for me to let go of my fear of learning and let go of my ego so I could learn the right way to take in the breathe completely. I will now relate a story of one of my workshops I took in Hawaii — a workshop that helped to change my outlook on what tantra truly is and what profound energies are opened up during a group self discovery class.

I remember one workshop I attended lead by a Charles Muir. A young and attractive woman he was dating was chosen as the class demo for the honoring of the yoni namely The Goddess Worship session. This woman, a theatrical and ravishing red haired goddess was very much in touch with her divine feminine and she was well aware of her gifts and her allure as a healer and muse. She was dressed beautifully like an Egyptian priestess and her long straight red hair hit her waist like sinewy snakes. Everyone’s eyes were pealed on her ivory skin– a garnet hip chain so delicately tracing the curves of her perfect hour glass shape. Each man and woman in the class was enthralled and could not keep their eyes off her natural beauty. It was as if the entire audience was hypnotized by the confidence she seemingly exuded. This was a woman who was in complete command of her divine feminine and she was there in a circle of classmates that all honored her divine feminine.

Namae was in complete ecstasy at one point and then alternatively cried and screamed out in pain as her g-spot was activated by our teacher. We were all well aware that Charles was not torturing her nor was he exuding any abnormal force on her pelvis or her sacred g-spot. We watched her writhing in pain and screaming for him to get out of her yoni and that it burned and he needed to get out of her immediately. We all watched deeply concerned and puzzled for we noticed only the most gentle of movements from his fingers and there was such a difference in her responsiveness from extreme pleasure to deepest torture. She later admitted to the class that she was molested as a child and certain explorations of her yoni could bring on the memories of this painful recollection and translated as a burning or extremely painful sensation.

She was very forceful and very expressive as the healing took place and her extreme vocalizations were piercing so that anyone witnessing her healing was deeply touched and reverent. We all bowed our heads in Namaste as the ceremony was concluded and the teacher gently withdrew his fingers from her yoni and thanked her for allowing us to witness her yoni’s healing.

We were left speechless and deeply impressed with her Goddess energy and the unfolding from bliss to agony and from agony to bliss.

One woman was brought to tears and she felt deeply inadequate and shared her fear with the entire group of men and women

that she herself was afraid that she might never feel that amount of pain, agony, ecstatic bliss and complete beautiful abandon

as this beautifully expressive Goddess who was just healed. She was so scared that she would feel nothing and she instantly compared her lack of expression as a form of deep wounding and inadequacy. She just exploded in tears and complete despondency and she shared her hopelessness with the group. Something deep within her psyche was triggered after viewing this great goddess healing. How would she be able to let herself go with such forcefulness and complete abandon as this wondrous red haired goddess who just shared her soul with the entire class watching on. Yes this work can shatter you. Yes watching a yoni healing can change your opinion of your own self worth and make you more self conscious about your own journey and the great steps you must take to heal yourself. But we learn to honor our own baby steps and we learn not to compare our progress with others’ evolution because we have our paths before us and we must honor our body’s cues.

That is what Tantra yoga can do for you. Tantric Yoga is not a path of instant gratification to ecstatic bliss . In fact you might have several rounds of Tantric Yoga healing sessions with someone you deeply trust and feel absolutely nothing. And that nothingness in itself is a rare gift because you are undergoing a healing. Healing need not be dramatic. Healing can take as little as one earth shaking session or it can take years of patient trial and error and diligence.

You might attend a few workshops and simply “never get it”. You might feel lost or unsure of yourself and your place with the others in your group. You have to understand Tantric yoga is a process and the energy you build up and the trust you build up with your own body and your partner are sacred stepping stones to enlightenment.

You might find your mind is willing but your body is just not quite there yet either because of poor health, poor nutrition, lack of exercise and or a deep wounding you have not fully confronted yet.

So is Tantric Yoga the art of simply having good sex? I like to think of Tantric Yoga as a healthy and sex positive way you can clear old and negative or outworn messages you send your body. Our bodies carry memories and the cells of our body carry your earlier childhood memories like imprints. A good tantric healing can present you with the unique opportunity to be yourself and simply let go of your will so you can let down your guard more. We bury so many repressed memories in our earlier childhood because sometimes that is what we need to do in order to survive and function with society and our day to day work. You can suppress only so much pain and the pelvis our second chakra can carry so many woundings that it becomes necessary to explore the terrain and unlock any keys that might be preventing you from receiving the bliss that is your birthright. Yes everyone deserves to feel pleasure and when we are allowed to feel this pleasure without shame or guilt we can unblock our creative life force and use these hidden joys as a source for a fountain of youth and to stimulate our pineal glands and the healthy secretion of our endocrine glands natural mood stabilizers and other hormones that promote a positive outlook on life.

Whether you are a man or a woman the second chakra represents creative life force and the opportunities to receive abundance so when you stimulate and send healing messages of unconditional love into your pelvis and use contraction exercise and pelvis thrusts you are opening up your second chakra and stimulating your waters. We call this stirring the waters in the Divine Feminine and whether your goal is to charge up and enliven your female energy (Shakti life force) or empower your male energy (shiva life force) your ultimate end result will be the unity between your entire chakra systems so that you are not cut off from your life force but you are reunited and empowered.

Tantra yoga therefore is the allowance of sexual abundance and the teaching of being present for your partner. The study of tantric yoga is not just the esoteric art of Divine Female and Divine Male; it is a practical, organic, healing and meditative practice that can enhance your ability to be more present and to be your more authentic self. Our goal is to extend and prolong the feelings of pleasure and to allow the pleasure to heal and empower our entire chakra system so we can draw up the divine sexual life force up our spinal column and activate our pineal glands allowing us to enhance our innate abilities and our psychic expansiveness and awareness.

It’s good to be grounded and to be aware of our physical bodies. People who suffer from sexual addictions can learn how to activate their heart awareness and become more empathic as a result of the heart and sacral chakra connection which forms a circular loop feeding itself and into each other. You can learn how to acknowledge your divinity and how to turn your baser desires into a more connective and intimate experience. Sometimes there is an imbalance and one is either overly sexually activated or they are completely shut down either from issues dealing with emotional traumas or physical abuse.

Being with a Tantric yoga practitioner that you trust can help you overcome these blocks and you do it with guided breathing techniques, creative visualization, toning and singing into the chakras and Conscious touch. In time you will learn the breathe and pulsation exercises almost like a good habit and it will be up to you to enhance these exercises with continued practice with a partner you trust at home and additional reading materials and workshops.

I find that the continued practice of Tantric yoga can alleviate stress, depression, self doubt and self consciousness. You will find yourself to be more confident and much more self aware. Your ability to state your boundaries will also be enhanced as you become more grounded and more aware of subtle energies. The act of prolonging sexual pleasure can take years off your appearance and the art of learning these tantric arts for the sake of creative life force can take away the pressure of performance anxiety because it is not so much the act of orgasm but the act of prolonging pleasure and your ability to feel pleasure. There is no true goal during a healing but the goal is open expression and expansiveness. So many times men feel the unnecessary pressure of performing for his lover and lasting longer but the art of tantric yoga keeps you focused on the act of intimacy and enjoying the moment of love making rather than the goal of simply achieving orgasm.

Just as it is unhealthy and unbalanced to be overly preoccupied with sexual energy and appetites it is also very dangerous to shut yourself off to pleasure and give up on the idea of feeling sexual energy ever again due to age or poor health. It is unhealthy and unnatural to ignore the first and second chakras and simply to pretend that your needs do not exist. If you shut down and close off one or more chakras you harm and hinder the healthy flow and abundant life force of the higher chakra systems and an imbalance can occur creating an unhealthy ripple effect which can ultimately hurt your physical and mental well being.

In conclusion I have an answer to your question. Is Tantra Sex? No you do not have to make love to someone in order to make Tantric love to their physical body. We are dealing with the chakra system a delicate system of circulating energy and you can easily learn to bring yourself to orgasm by becoming more proficient at opening your sexual energy with simple muscle exercises and focused breathing but this takes time, practice and patience. If your goal is to shift your energy and shift your consciousness then the natural flow of energy take place and the potential to receive Tantric Orgasms is within your grasp.

The study of Tantra helps you learn to alleviate your feelings of powerlessness or guilt. You can become more proactive as you learn to send healing and loving messages to your body as you create a healthy bridge connecting your higher chakras with your lower sexual chakras. We can not function if we cut off one chakra from the other almost like a “shadow box” effect. The chakra system simply does not work like that! Chakras are in constant flux shutting off and turning themselves on and always sending signals to each other. As you become skilled in the art of breath you are allowing your body to fully feed efficiently and heal and grow. You will eventually learn how to simply be in the moment rather than having to be in control. You will become more self aware and more self confident during your love making and you will get over your fears of intimacy. Ultimately the study of tantric Yoga is the study of honoring the Divine seed in yourself and to honor your sacred sexual energy as a Vessel of unconditional love and a fountain of inner healing and mental growth.

Tantric Love Making The Art of Traveling without Moving

Tantric Love Making Traveling without Moving

Subtle touch also known as “water touch” is the most healing and powerful form of shifting your partner’s energy. Everyone feels safe and if you remember that the aura is the opening portal to sexual energy then you can allow your heart and good intentions to set the right mood to heal your lover.

The physical body responds to sound, touch, taste, sight, ether and smell. We are sentient beings so powerful in our responsiveness that even the gentlest of touches can shift our well being.

Have you ever stepped into a room full of tension and chaos and just felt your neck muscles tighten up or your belly contract? These are all normal responses that your body reacts to based on the energy waves and patterns of your environment. Just like a sweet ripple effect the sound of laughter is so inviting and intoxicating that you would naturally wish to be a part of that joyous energy and you will enter and partake in that playful energy willingly almost like a healing balm.

Energy is free. If we learn how to breathe in this energy purely and deeply enough we need never feel a lack of. And if you have nervous tension or if you feel you have too much nervous energy that is not yours all you need to do is realize you can take in some nurturing deep breathes into your heart and your body naturally wishes to heal itself of drama and trauma.

All you need to remember before healing or touching your lover is to take in some nurturing, healing and loving deep breathes into your own heart chakra so that you can open up to more love in your heart space and be aware of all that loving and free energy from the Universe. Once your heart chakra is fully activated and pulsing with vitality you can then begin to sweep gently over the aura of your partner without even touching their body. Just by hovering over your lover’s body you are smoothing out their auric body caressing and making love to their aura their gentle energy imprint.

Our bodies are more yielding to a gentle non invasive stroke much like wind which gently moves a the tender and delicate wings of a butterfly. So sweep your lover’s energy body first and take your time playing with their energy almost as if you were tickling their energy with a peacock feather.

Using Sage or Sage wands is another perfect example of nurturing your lover’s energy bubble and sweeping out any chaos or debris or excess nervous energy from the day’s events. Make sure of course you leave the window slightly cracked open to allow the smoke to depart and allow the old energy to leave your home.

Aromatherapy is a delicate and mood enhancing elixir and all you need to do is carry some key fragrances such as lemon, lime, grapefruit, vanilla, lavender and any citrus scent to offer a selection and variety to your lover so they can choose which scent they intuitively need as a healing balm. We all gravitate towards certain “comfort” scents so some may prefer flowery, some spicy and pungent, citrus and astringent or bitter and robust. Have a variety of incense sticks and scents so that your lover feels comforted and more open to receive a healing and your touch.

Prepare the room in such a way that enhances calmness, serenity and beauty. If you choose to decorate the room or sacred space with fabrics and feathers choose colors your lover prefers. This is their ceremony so choose colors they gravitate towards. If you wish to use candles try and stick to one color only as this enhances harmony and simplicity. Set the stage for play and make it highly personal. Ask your partner beforehand if they have candle scent preferences and or colors and fabrics that make them feel comforted and not overwhelmed.

Use your voice in a soothing pitch and feel free to sing and hum into your lover’s body. This is called toning and the chakras and energy bodies respond to sounds so sing away and breathe and blow gently on your lover’s body before even laying one finger on their physical being.

Using all senses be creative as you introduce a variety of spices and foods that your lover might want to taste. You might want to have them bite into delicate spices or sweet delicacies as part of their tantric love making adventure.

Tantric love making should involve and engage all the subtle energies in the body before you even decide to engage in physical touch. Just close your eyes and breathe in all the possibilities. Each Sacred Ceremony is a chance for you to reconnect with your inner child and bring you closer to your intuitive divine seed.

My Goddess Eyes a Key to Tantric Love Making by Goddess Diana ☉☀

The simplest thing you can do on your way to improving and enhancing your love making is to create
a safe Mirror and Haven for your lover to gaze into.
Have you ever stared into a newborn’s eyes? Have you ever watched the way an infant just beams and gushes over with complete glee and complete trust — no holding back —no posturing just complete infinite infantile joy at the very presence of you as you capture their interest.

This is how we were born and this is what we need to remember and emulate on our daily journey to becoming the infinite Healer and Boundless Tantric Lover.

Remember that Phrase “Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder”? Have you ever been in a room and locked eyes completely mesmerized with a complete stranger someone you think you might really get to know.
The eyes begin the flirtatious stage of play and getting to know you.

And if the Eyes are the Mirror of Our souls what greater and powerful magic can we manifest just by allowing ourselves to deeply lock our gaze without any inhibitions or sense of self consciousness.
What can we do for our lover when they feel unloved or confused? Have you ever seen a mother bending over her crying child and lifting his/her chin cupping it delicately in her hand and lifting the child’s face so they can have eye contact?

All we need to do is remember we are simple Beings. We need to be acknowledged for our gifts, our Power, our Beauty and our Divine Grace.

Are you afraid of looking directly into your lover’s eyes because you do not feel worthy of being loved? How often do you stare into your lover’s eyes and without looking at their style of dress or their disheveled hair or their wrinkles or freckles just stare without judgment and stare as if you had never gazed at anything so beautiful as those eyes before you.

When you find time this week just take time to sit across from your lover and do nothing but simple be in the moment taking this hour as a unique opportunity to open up that portal of unconditional love.
Hold hands and breathe in eachother’s divine Essence and gaze into their eyes as if you had never never encountered any art work more profound than the eyes you are blessed to gaze into.

If you can be in this moment of bliss together you are performing a ritual known as Tantric Love making. So many people overlook that the love begins in you and you have that power and ability to heal someone’s wounds just by acknowledging that Star Seed they carry and silently greeting them in a locked eye gaze as if to say “I see you God/Goddess I see the God/Goddess in you.

One thing that attracts me most are the eyes. Some women might say they are attracted to good hair or teeth or a strong, muscular and lean body build. For me it has always been and always shall be the eyes. The eyes hold mystery to me. The eyes are like balm to the Soul and the Eyes are a Dream Pool of fantasy and Reality as we can not hide who we truly are when we take time to “see” without boundaries and judgment.

Can you yourself stare into a Mirror and look upon yourself in awe? Can you see the Bright being you truly are and how very lucky you are to have the power of Manifestation and Beauty right before you? We are born with complete trust not tasting the bitter seed of prejudice, or mistrust or cruelty. We only learn this behavior as we age and as we grow in our environments. But children SEE through unclouded vision. They simply are Beings of light and the Beam that Miraculous light back to us as we can’t help but stare into their Open souls.

You can captivate an Audience through direct Eye contact. You can mesmerize the man/woman of your deepest desires when you let your barriers down and send them a pure and sincere gaze. You can tell the difference when someone is being themselves and at ease just by the way they lock eyes with you but you can also tell when someone is disinterested in you if they look away almost as if to say you are not worthy of their time.

Try this the next time you have an interest in someone. Just lock eyes with them not in a threatening or confrontational way but in a way that sends comfort and peace of mind.

We make love through the eyes. Be mindful of how you use your treasured Jewels today.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

What unfolds for you A DAY OF UNFOLDING BLISS ♧♣♡

What unfolds for you this Day of unending bliss
by Diana Moon Cycle on Wednesday, January 18, 2012 at 4:23pm

Can one practice tantric yoga alone? Can you find inner peace in your own solitude and just focus

solely on you to raise your own Kundalini energy and Awareness?

I have to say that I dabble between two worlds. I consider myself to be a very very private person. I treasure the company of other people in fact I allow myself to feed of the laughter of a crowd and any time I see a group of people smiling I definitely want to be a part of that Circle.

And then there are the Winter Times. I call this the Retreat Time and I go into my Cave and Hide for a while mulling over what could have been what Might have been What Shall I be? I have this urge to thing and these times are necessary and yes they can be healing. But if I find myself dipping into the Cave once too often I notice my energy changes and shifts into a potential not for Healing but for

Melancholia.

At this point am I a healing Vessel unto myself or am I in danger of falling deeper into this state of dwelling and not accomplishing a Higher Vibration of Energy.

We can say We are are thoughts and we Manifest more of What we are but I do not like to call these shiftings of Energy something so simple when it is more complex than all that.

Being alone can be a healing tool. Our bodies and our minds need some private time so we can recapture and learn from our Experiences.

But in the end we need people and I always recommend everyone new to Tantric Yoga or any Energy Practice to have a partner because you can learn from that shift of back and forth energy and once you practice playing ENERGY BALL and throw the Energy Ball back and forth You can understand how to make an Energy Ball by yourself (if you have to).

There is nothing wrong with a party of one but We are not Islands we are Social Beings and The power of Manifestation is more Profound in groups of Two or more.

Playing with any type of Energy whether it be Sensual or Strictly Reiki or Internally Meditative is a Practice of Love and Makes you open your heart energy more and helps ground you. We can lose sight of the Play if we only Surround Ourselves with our Selves. It is not good to be too Selfish and horde all the energy for yourself. When we Circulate energy back and forth from our heart to our partner’s heart center We Create an Arena of Abundance and Yielding.

All our Chakras are in alignment with our partner’s Chakras and good or bad energy it is a flow and our body’s will intuitively know what is good food for our soul and what food might be a bit toxic. Our chakras are a Miraculous Power Center of Energy constantly spinning closed and spinning open in a state of Constant flow and flux.

Our Chakra Systems know how to balance themselves and they will close off for a while protecting their functions or they will open up more when the Energies are particularly Delicious to the Taste.

When you are with your Tantric Partner share in your Delicious Energy Meal and Vocalize in a loving way what you need more or less of .. this is Co Created Sacred Space and your Playground should be endless and not self limiting ❦♡❤

Tantric Yoga the Art of Loving Without Conditions… ❤☟♡

When was the last time you were satisfied deeply and profoundly satisfied with the person you see in the Mirror?

Yes we all have our flaws and some of these flaws can not be changed but we can change our outlook and feel a

deep deep compassion for the beauty and the gifts we do have.  In essence this is called Gratitude and in deep gratitude we can practice the Grace of Mindfulness for the Beauty of this world the Beauty of the Bodies we were given and the knowledge that our Beauty our soul is unique and we have no right to be jealous of what someone else has because we have our own unique grace and Karma to fulfill.

I woke up this morning eager to log onto my face book account only to find out that because I posted one nude photo of my body face book deactivated my account without any warning they just did.  I lost my beautiful short stories and my beautiful poetry including a number of people I have grown fond of.

Am I angry?  No but I am a bit miffed.  I will not look at this from a different perspective.

All the beauty that I did share was released into the Universe and all the stories and lines of poetry that was released and set free is somehow echoing and carries with it some of that strength I so deeply wanted to share with people who do not know me personally but

who I grew very very attached to.  Perhaps there is a message here.  Perhaps I was feeding the wrong plants and spending so much of my time on face book was an unhealthy activity so now my prime focus is steering me here onto this blog and making me realize the true ultimate connection can not be shared so much on the internet in a world of complete fantasy but should be shared with each beautiful being I have the good luck to meet on my

daily walks in the sun or my daily meditations.  Yes the internet is a source of connection but have you been neglecting the stranger on the sidewalk streets that do not know you personally but would love that chance to get to know your Unique Beauty.  We are all Unique we share our innate feeling of wanting to be admired and appreciated.

Tantric Yoga is an expression of Free Will to Co create with someone else and share their energy.  It is a Sacred and Treasured Dance of Co Divinity and we Salute the very essence

of our Higher Selves each time we see that Seed Star of divinity in someone else.  Yes I can walk around today muttering to myself about my huge loss but I think maybe in some way because I am a Student of Tantric Yoga and because I do teach of Unconditional love I would rather forgive myself for my mistake last night since I posted a nude picture of myself that I thought my face book friends would enjoy.

 

Yes this is sad but we are living in a strict age where we are always being monitored and some photos that I think are beautiful might be misconstrued for smut or filth or pornography but I have the good sense to know that my body is beautiful no matter what face book thinks no matter what others feel no matter what my relatives think of me I am a Healer I am a Shaman.  I believe in the Power of the work I do and I believe that in Unity we were created to be Beings of Light and Inspiration for each other and if this is the path I am destined to continue to follow then I must accept that my imperfections are the only means that will enable me to Shine on a Goddess.

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See Beauty in Yourself first So you Can see Beauty in Others ☼☀☌☉

You know that saying? Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder? We can only see Beauty in others if we see Beauty in ourselves. When I dated certain men I like to call my Beloveds I know or knew something is SERIOUSLY WRONG with their egos or they upbringing if they become outraged and self conscious with my stares. If I am with my Beloved what an honor it is to gaze forever on their perfect face…. Yet I must be honest with you so many men I loved saw only their flaws and sometimes they would lash out at me and point out my flaws. Like isn’t it time my nails were done or maybe I should stop bleaching my hair so much or maybe my eyebrows should be darkened yet you can make all these steps to please someone else and they are still unhappy? Why are they so sad? Why are they so discontent with you? Because they can not see how Beautiful and unique and loved they are. and yes I had Sister Goddesses lash out at me with the same Story and the same Condemnation? Why Goddess Why is it you can not see the Goddess in yourself? I smile my Cat like smile and I do not care if someone wishes to diagnose me as being a huge NARCISSIST BECAUSE IF YOU DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF COMPLETELY IT IS SO HARD TO LOVE THE PERFECTION IN OTHERS AND YES I WANT TO SEE THE WORLD THROUGH FUZZY VISION IN FACT I WAS BORN WITH FUZZY VISION BECAUSE THE IMPORTANT THING IS OUR AURA AND YES WHEN I REMOVE MY READING GLASSES OR REMOVE MY CONTACTS ALL I CAN SEE IS THE PERFECTION AND THAT ANGELIC HALO AROUND OTHER BEINGS. So see only the beauty in yourself even if you have to remove your perfect vision do not focus on your freckles or your pimples or your frown lines or your tummy or your less than perfect profile. YOU are so beautiful you can only imagine what bright light is echoing to other stars sending and shooting an endless trail of blinding light. AND NO I DID NOT TAKE ANYTHING THIS MORNING TO SAY ALL THIS. I DRANK SOME WATER AND HAD A SLICE OF BREAD. see the beauty in yourself first AND THEN SIGH AND THINK HOW FREAKING LUCKY YOU ARE TO BE ON THIS PLANET AT THIS TIME WITH ALL YOUR SO CALLED WORRIES BECAUSE IT IS AN ILLUSION AND A HUGE PLAYGROUND OF TOYS AND BEAUTY AND OTHER BEINGS FOR YOU TO PLAY WITH … YOU HAVE ALL THE TOOLS TO COPE YOU HAVE EYES TO SEE EVEN EYES WITH POOR VISION SEE CLEARLY…have a beautiful wondrous day and MANIFEST BEAUTY!See More

The Throat Chakra Her function is to state boundaries in a Loving Way ☆★

The Throat Chakra… The bEaUtY of speech is you truly do not have to say anything to be heard but if you choose to use your throat today turn the speech into MaNtRa ♥ the Goddess of speech is Sakti. what motivates speech? Are you speaking because the silence makes you feel uncomfortable or are you speaking because you wish to draw attention to your Being and attract more energy to you? Someti…mes we are afraid listen and we chatter aimlessly because we are afraid of what we might hear or we might hear something that does not go along with our belief system. Therefore you must ask yourself why you choose to speak. Are you trying to justify your actions or are you trying to motivate or collect pity from others or are you trying to entertain others and make someone think or laugh and relate a story that binds both of you in shared laughter. When you choose to use your throat chakra are you speaking loudly or are you barely audible. Is your speech barely a whisper due to passive aggression or are you simply afraid of being heard and or offending someone and afraid that your speech will cause someone distress and they might not act kindly to you anymore if they heard you above a whisper. Sometimes I work on people and even though I am highly keen on healing them and guiding them I still need their input, their feedback their voice to guide me on their delicate energies so I know if I have to do less of something or more of something to activate or lower their energy and shift with their body in a loving way. You have a voice. Choose to use your voice to defend yourself and your boundaries. Choose to use your voice to soothe something or someone. Choose to share your anger and your outrage if you feel you are being violated and grossly misunderstood. Take time to silence your voice and gently withdraw your energy when it becomes time to listen. Your voice has power so use your intention to guide your speech and taste of all delicate meats raising the volume and amplifying the energy like toys in a playground ♥See More