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Reiki and Tantra complement each other nicely. Reiki focuses on opening up your body to receive energy which is free for all of us to use and access any time we need it. I have been practicing reiki for 20 years and I use it to relax my students before, during and after all my Tantra yoga sessions. Reiki can be practiced in a group setting or by yourself if you are filled with nervous energy and need to unwind.
Chocolate and a Discourse on Goddess energy 101
I don’t mind sharing my chocolates for as long as you don’t
mind reading my narrative on the components that make
up the Living, breathing, insatiable, romantic and heady
All empowering GODDESS
I don’t mind sharing my chocolates for as long as you don’t
mind reading my narrative on the components that make
up the Living, breathing, insatiable, romantic and heady
All empowering GODDESS
Well we all know that chocolate is food for the Gods and Goddesses and I have been indulging these past two days in some of the very finest chocolate goodies Chicago has to offer. Writing is also a passion of mine and as I write I learn more about myself so in essence this is about delving into my inner demons or embracing my divine self. I love sharing my definition of energy work and Goddess in all her healing aspects so I spent most of the day tapping into my own creative abilities and sharing my understanding of what Goddess stands for…so please enjoy
When you are able to honor yourself you are honoring your inner goddess
February 28, 2014 at 4:33pm
HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER MET WITH A GODDESS? SHE IS THE DIVINE PRESENCE OF EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR BEING. SHE IS YOU SHAKING THERE IN THE CORNER, CONFUSED AND NOT SURE HOW SHE HAS BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD? SHE IS YOU GIGGLING AND FLIRTING WITH HERSELF IN THE MIRROR..”HELLO BEAUTIFUL, GOOD MORNING I LOVE YOU FOR YOU FOR EVERY FLAW, EVERY FRECKLE, EVERY LAUGH LINE AND EVERY BEAUTY MARK.
WHAT DO YOU NEED FROM ANYONE ELSE THAT YOU DO NOT ALREADY POSSESS IN ABUNDANCE. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING WE CALL OUR “OWN”. MAYBE IT’S THAT LITTLE LAUGH THAT MAKES OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU FEEL LIKE LAUGHING AND PARTICIPATING.
A GODDESS ENTERS A ROOM AND EVERYONE SOMEHOW IS AWARE THAT THE ENERGIES HAVE SHIFTED AND THAT ROOM IS NOW ENRICHED SUBTLY. THE GODDESS IS NOT SELF CONSCIOUS WHY SHOULD SHE BE AND SHE IS THERE TO GIVE HERSELF THE SUPPORT SHE NEEDS EVEN IN THE FACE OF ADVERSITY THERE IS AN INNER SPARK THAT GUIDES HER DECISIONS AND MAKES HER PERSEVERE. SHE RECOGNIZED HERSELF AS A MYTHICAL, POSITIVE, MAGICAL BEING AND SHE CAN INSPIRE LOVE OR ANGER EQUALLY BECAUSE SHE IS A POWER ONTO HERSELF.
A GODDESS IS ALSO A NURTURER. SHE IS GENUINELY CONCERNED FOR THE WELL BEING OF A SISTER GODDESS. THERE IS NO NEED FOR HER TO FEEL THREATENED BY OTHER FEMALE ENERGY. THERE IS NO NEED FOR HER TO SHAME OR HUMILIATE AND OR DEGRADE ANOTHER WOMAN BUT SHE WILL DEFEND HERSELF AND SET HER BOUNDARIES IF SHE SCORNED AND SHE WILL CLARIFY THESE BOUNDARIES REPEATEDLY UNTIL HER VOICE IS HEARD.
A GODDESS HAS A QUIET ENERGY AND SHE IS A SENSUAL BEING NOT A SEXUAL BEING OVERTAKEN BY LUST OR BODILY NEED. A GODDESS PICKS AND CHOOSES HER PARTNERS BASED ON THEIR ABILITIES TO “SEE” HER TO SEE THE DIVINE LIGHT IN HER EYES. SHE CAN RETAIN SEXUAL ENERGY BY CONSERVING HER CHI AND INSTEAD OF AGING AND DEGENERATING SHE LEARNS THE SECRETS OF YOUTHFUL HEALTH BECAUSE OF THE KIND WAY SHE TREATS HER BODY AND RESPECTS HER OWN BOUNDARIES.
A GODDESS NEVER AGES IN THE TRADITIONAL SENSE OF THE WORD. A GODDESS GROWS MORE YOUTHFUL BECAUSE SHE IS ALWAYS IN AWE OF THE FRESH PROSPECT OF MEETING NEW CHALLENGES AND HONORING ALL PHASES OF HER SACRED LIFE CYCLE FROM MAIDEN TO CRONE. SHE IS A SHAMAN. SHE CHALLENGES YOU TO GROW AND THINK FOR YOURSELF. SHE SEES THE SACRED SEED IN ALL BEINGS AND COMPELS YOU TO CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE YOURSELF AS SHE GUIDES YOU IN HER GENTLE SPEECH AND MANNERS. SHE IS SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT BLAME CIRCUMSTANCES FOR HER POSITION IN LIFE RATHER SHE WILL SEEK SOLUTIONS AND ACCEPT HER ROLE IN ALL FACTORS THAT GUIDE HER INNER GROWTH. SHE CAN CRY IN A PUBLIC PLACES AND SEEK HELP WHEN SHE NEEDS ASSISTANCE OR SHE CAN STEP ASIDE FROM THE CROWD AND MOTIVATE HERSELF WITHOUT ANYONE’S HELP. SHE IS A SELF MADE GODDESS AND HER ACTIONS ARE BASED ON SELF LOVE NOT CROWD PLEASING.
IF YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF IN FRONT OF YOUR CLOSEST FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS YOU ARE NOT ALLOWING THEM TO SEE THE REAL ASPECT OF GODDESS IN YOU. YOU ARE WEAKNESS, COMPASSION, SILENCE, MOTIVATION, ACTIVATION, HEALER, CONQUEROR, MOTHER AND FATHER TO ALL WHO MEET YOU EITHER BY ACCIDENT OR THROUGH YOUR WRITINGS OR YOUR VOICE. NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF OR SET YOUR BOUNDARIES. NEVER BE AFRAID TO SHOW YOUR TIMIDITY OR TO CLARIFY A MISUNDERSTANDING.
A GODDESS DOES NOT RELY SOLELY ON HER PHYSICAL BEAUTY TO GET WHAT SHE WANTS AND NEEDS. SHE USES HER INTELLECT, HER CURIOSITY AND HER INNATE SENSE OF JUSTICE TO MAKE POWERFUL CHANGES THAT INFLUENCE THOSE AROUND HER. SHE IS NOT AFRAID TO ADMIT SHE HAS MADE MISTAKES. SHE IS NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK OUT WHEN EVERYONE ELSE THINKS SHE IS WRONG. THERE IS A DIVINE SEED OF HOPE WITHIN HER THAT CONSOLES HER INNER CHILD. SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO PARTAKE IN THE SEXUAL ARENA TO BE A SEXUAL BEING. SHE CAN BE SENSUAL AND BE CELIBATE WITH A QUIET POWER THAT INSTILLS RESPECT.
SHE DOES NOT FOLLOW THE CROWD OR THE FADS OF THE DAY. SHE CREATES HER OWN UNIQUE LOOK ON HER OWN VISION OF WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL. A GODDESS CAN WAKE UP ON ANY GIVEN DAY OF THE MONTH AND CREATE SACRED CEREMONY FOR HERSELF EVEN IF SHE DOES NOT HAVE A LIFE PARTNER SHE CAN HONOR HER SPACE AND DO THOSE SPECIAL THINGS THAT REINFORCE SHE IS A SPIRITUAL AND CREATIVE DAUGHTER OF SOURCE AND ALL THINGS ARE MAGICAL WITH OR WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF A MAN.
She has powerful sexual aura that does not originate from her physical attributes rather she is comfortable in her own skin and she is proud of every aspect of her body even her flaws are not flaws the flaws make up the composite of her unique charm. When she moves in a room you can tell that she loves her body it’s in the sway of her hip the self confidence she carries with her as she plays with her hair flirtatiously. that’s not dependent on physical looks.
People in the room gravitate towards her for advice because they know she will not judge them they feel so safe with her because they know she will not abuse or betray their confidences as fuel for gossip and betrayal. They know and admire her outside and inner strength and she will teach another fellow goddess to generate her own self worth and put her on the right path of healing so that other goddess can shine and share her gifts with others just as skillfully.
Make no mistake a Goddess is Shaman, she is sacred mother to herself and those around her who trust her. She is a mother to everyone especially the motherless. She is not one to run away from commitments rather she seeks these challenges and volunteers her energy and time because it gives her a sense of joy and groundedness to heal others in need.
A goddess is a ravishing, tempting being no one can resist and rather than instilling envy or jealous people admire her and want to be near her sexual energy because they perceive it as pure love. A goddess can choose her partners and not feel as if she is losing her being by partaking in the sacred sexual act but rather that she is flowing with the divine order of Universe and creating a circle of manifestation and love. A goddess can also differential lust and bodily needs from love and if she prefers to walk the path of solitary goddess she can go months or years without sexual intercourse because she is taking some steps inward and healing her trauma or celebrating her inner passion without a significant other. She does not need a man to define her as being a Goddess she simply knows she is a Goddess.
A goddess will always endeavor to seek out the truth not half truths, not conjecture or heresay or gossip. She will want to listen to both sides of every matter because she is not narrow minded or judgmental rather she has an open ear and an open heart. She is one who easily forgives even if she refuses to forget an injustice. Her goal in this lifetime is illumine and bring light to the darkness that is within herself and found in daily interactions with others. This Goddess is pure love make no mistake but do not confuse her pure love for weakness. Her love is what guides her and her love is her food or her strength. She herself is the captain of her own destiny and if she is wronged she will share her story with you to prevent other women or men from being betrayed or wronged. She does not tolerate or put up with abuse. If she is violated she takes responsible action for herself and others that come after her so no one else will suffer the violation or injustice. She seeks to right wrongs not for vanity, self glorification or ego but because she is a leader and a healer and she is compelled to correct laws that are not just and she is driven by this passion to heal others on this planet.
And this is why I do the healing work I do. I am not saying I never make mistakes. I make plenty of mistakes because I blindly trust people who are in authority but I only give out my trust once. If I feel I can not personally be of healing service to a potential student I graciously let that person go and instead make myself available to someone else I think is a better energy match for me. I heal as I am healing I heal all my inner child vulnerabilities, self doubts and wounds. I respect my boundaries and my weaknesses and I let go of my pain by going deep inside and exploring the painful memories I have all memories are stirred up deep within me as I engage in someone’s energies as we are all mirror reflections and aspects of one another.
The image I am including here is Theda Bara from the movie Salome. For me Theda Bara represents everything a Goddess should be ~> creative, vital, sexual, forceful, willful, magical, empowering and skilled at her craft. She is unafraid to herself or create an image of Beauty or Goddess for the audience. She wanted a career in film and she planned her life accordingly so her talents and gifts would be fully appreciated. As goddesses we all have abilities and powerful intuitions. We need to learn not to admit defeat too early based on our early childhood impressions of what it means to be feminine. You don’t have to be self deprecating or subservient and docile to be a woman. You don’t have to wear shoes that make you feel uncomfortable to be recognized as a femme fatale. You don’t have to have long, flowing hair or any hair for that matter you can be completely bald. You don’t have to speak softly or loudly just be yourself and appreciate your gifts. We dwell in the shadows sometimes and at others we refuse the spotlight and allow other Goddesses to be our mouthpiece. You have your Sacred Journey on this plane to create heaven or hell you just have to pick and choose your battles and plan out the life you wish to manifest Every Goddess deserves to shine and be unafraid of challenge or condemnation. When you feel that complete inner beauty and light the world is more illuminated by your beacon
I wrote this article today fro a place of love
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
How do you reach that place of serenity within your being that makes you feel so content you are not consciously aware of your needs or the environment around you? When you are so agitated and frustrated that all you can think of is the big o you might become concerned and worried and question your abilities as a lover.
When we experience severe trauma our physical body goes into shock. We might receive triggers from our environment that sets off our body’s automatic reflexes. We become short of breath or we notice we are clumsier and not as clear thinking as we should be. Post traumatic stress disorder is a very common illness and like all illnesses can hinder our body’s ability to feel safe, loved and empowered.
Tantra yoga is an escape. Tantra by itself is a vital technique of body awareness and mindful, body meditation because you are allowing yourself to shut off stimulus and just go inwards to tap into your own energy. As you breathe you clench and unclench certain muscle groups and hold the energy inside your heart, your stomach region and your thighs and buttocks. As you learn to separate each muscle group from each other you are opening up that chakra system and becoming more mindful of what is going on in your body.
Your body carries your unique energy signature. Only you know your body and only you know how it feels to be stressed or full relaxed and open and flowing.
Tantra yoga teaches you not to second guess yourself. As you breathe energy up higher into your crown chakra and your third eye you tap onto any intuitive abilities you might have but never reinforced. If you want to learn how to have the most powerful, intense, life affirming orgasm you have to learn the secrets of your body’s landscape. If you can fully relax and involve your entire body with the experience of full body pleasure then inherently you are training yourself to be fully orgasmic with or without stimulus.
People can and will experience electrical and warm synapses of energy that feel like tingling sensations with repeated tantra meditation and practice. This is not just book theory this is full body healing at its finest. So what if you don’t have a beloved you can learn to feel these tingling sensations on your own by practicing the art of coming close to arousal then relaxing, breathing and backing off.
Tightening your kegels and tightening your sphincter muscles then isolating each area will keep you in the moment and fully aware of the build up of CHI energy in your body. You will even have orgasms in your sleep if you practice the pulsing and clenching of your muscle groups not just once in a blue moon but in a daily basis as part of your ritual.
So how do you prepare yourself for the big orgasm? Sensual massage and tantra massage with mindful breathing should be a complement to your weekly routine. If you can relax and not hold onto expectations of what you might have your reward is the full body arousal and build of sexual tension and flow.
What does a sensual massage mean to you? Is it a form of escape from your stress filled week? Is it a decadent pleasure you allow yourself to indulge in because you are craving gentle touch? Is it quiet time where you let go quiet your mind and drift off leaving your body far behind?
All I can say is that the students who have come to me without any expectations and without any pressure to perform are the ones who leave here deeply satiated and completely overwhelmed with a flood of energy that surpasses any of their expectations. If you can explore, enjoy and let your guard down you will potentially be so open to energy flowing that any and all touch will simply send you over the top from the moment of your first tantra healing to the moment of simply stepping into the shower unaware. You might be caught off guard and say WHAT WAS THAT? And you know very well that that is your own delightful energy unhindered by self judgement or self deprecation.
You are a marvelous being. You do deserve to feel complete full body pleasure and tantra is the art of being a fully desirable, sensual and creative being 
Won’t you come join me in setting up sacred space? I long to teach you how to love and adore your divine essence.
Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Define Goddess! What does it mean if a man yells out on the street to a gorgeous woman and says GODDESS !! Of course you would take it as a compliment right? I certainly would not mind if one of my clients honored me in a session, smiled at me with a genuine smile and told me he thought I was a goddess!
Goddess has so many meanings to different people though and sometimes a man might wish to hire a tantra professional and expect her to have the true qualities of a Goddess but his definition of goddess might be his personal opinion based on his belief systems and expectations.
For instance does goddess simply mean supernatural beauty in all aspects? Does goddess mean she must be tall, lean, statuesque, white or black, asian, oriental, arabic or harem like in all her aspects?
Does she have to be perfectly mannered or poised? Must she be perfectly manicured and have her hair long, wavy and in a cascade of curls or stick straight?
The more narrowly you define your goddess the more close minded you are becoming and the more close hearted you are to receiving the energy of the GODDESS.
Now why am I capitalizing the word Goddess? If you can’t see the divinity and spiritual beauty of any woman you are shortchanging yourself. You are now giving yourself a strict wish list by which to judge all women and you are missing the point of Goddess worship.
Goddess worship is the honoring of all women despite their physical appearances and attributes. If you are only seeking a physically perfect woman to give you instructions on tantra yoga you are never really going to understand the true meaning of tantra yoga which is the teaching of honor the divine SEED in everyone no matter how short, fat, tall, lean, awkward, clumsy or attractive your partner is.
When you partake of tantra yoga workshops, unless you yourself take your own partner you will be paired up randomly with someone you might not be physically attracted to and this in some way will challenge you to learn about unconditional love as you stare into your partner’s eyes for indefinite amounts of time and breathe together and chant.
Sooner or later you might find yourself in a group situation where you do not choose your partner but does this mean you can’t learn to honor her for certain aspects of her personality that might make you fall in love with her goddess energy? Can you let go of your expectations of what is true beauty and just allow yourself to fall in love with her smile or her laughter or her healing hands?
The term Goddess is used often. Some people confuse the title Goddess as a female dominant. I receive phone calls from men who think I am going to enslave them or gag them or punish them in a BDSM scenario. Yes there may be trouble makers out there on the internet who group me in with Masters and Slaves and Submissives but that is because they are not doing their research. They don’t do the reading on tantra yoga or the meaning of Goddess and how the energy of the goddess is akin to healer or shamaness.
I like to define the word Goddess as a benevolent being who is here, confident, ready and proud enough to show you your higher power. A goddess is like a teacher someone who is not here to judge you but not afraid to let you know what boundaries are and educate you on how you can share your love with your partner by being mindful, fully present and gentle when you speak or touch your lover at home.
If I were to gently correct you and educate you would you be able to step aside of your own ego just so you might learn a gentler way to be loving to your partner at home.
Just because I am a Goddess does not mean I am super human. I make mistakes all the time and sometimes my good intentions are confused for rudeness. I think listening and setting up safe boundaries are essential for any tantra session. If I am faced with prejudice even before our ceremony begins I then do not feel as comfortable or safe to do my part in honoring anyone who is a guest in my home or sacred space.
In Ancient Greece and Rome a Goddess is a Supreme Being who possesses supernatural powers and she can create rain or storms or sunlight. She can turn a man into a stag and she can ride a chariot across the skies. These are all fanciful stories that make up our archetypes and create mythology but a Goddess is a human a frail human that can only try and attempt to heal you if you are open and vulnerable enough to receive her for all her flaws and imperfections and healing abilities.
If you can honor any Goddess no matter what race, religion, creed and color and accept her as your friend, wife, mother and lover then you are ready to receive the Love of the Goddess and better able to heal the important women in your life that matter most to you.
I have been a healer for 20 years now and in all these 20 years I still believe I have a lot to learn and can even possibly benefit from going back to college and learning psychology.
My work takes a lot of patience. I have to learn the difference between one of my clients being passive aggressive or simply not having the understanding of reading my cues.
I recently let go of a client who I only now realized suffers from Asperger’s syndrome. I don’t know how to treat Aspberger’s syndrome or how to spell it but I really had difficulty understanding his compulsive behavior and his rigidity. I know he suffered from severe clinical depression and he was diagnosed with depression from a clinical psychologist. What I did not know was he only saw his psychiatrist once in a blue moon so it was not “talk therapy” like a social worker but a twenty minute chat to figure out if the medication dosage was still strong enough and to find out if it was still the correct medicine for his treatment since bodies become tolerant and sometimes the antidepressant will stop working its magic.
What upset me was his admission to me that he was still a hardcore drinker and he paired his meals with a bottle of wine or more even though he was seeing me for tantra healings. I thoroughly enjoyed his company but one evening early this month he called me unannounced out of the blue and told me he was literally a mere 20 minutes away from me so could he stop by for a session.
He ended up being drunk and I saw him for all of three hours when he simply fell asleep on my bed. I did not mind as he had already paid me but usually when people schedule a longer session with me I am to be paid appropriately for my time but what do you do when your client falls asleep on your bed?
I tried maintaining boundaries with him but once we became face book friends he saw when I was online because during days when I am NOT busy I like to post pictures or poetry or write short essays here like journal entries so I can learn from my mistakes. He started sending me private messages not once or twice a day but 30 times a day and then wanted to make me cake and bring it on over to my home without booking a session just drop by here on the weekend. He also wanted another sleep over but I do not really offer sleep overs unless someone understands this is going to be an educational retreat and we are not going to “sleep together” but learn together and share sacred space with teachings. I am flexible I will share my time during the day OR evening but my bed and my space are my sanctuary and I like to have something for myself.
I sent him a long private message delineating my boundaries and explained to him that I have extended myself enough already and offered him deep discounts knowing he needs the attention but we are not “friends” or boyfriend and girlfriend and I don’t private message anyone 30 times a day because I have no desire to connect with anyone so often.
At first he seemed fine with the fact that I established my boundaries but then he got passive aggressive and said he would see me in two weeks even though I explained to him I don’t plan my life that far in advance just in case I wish to travel and enjoy some warmer weather elsewhere.
He then said plans were only tentative and so I let it go had some much needed energy work done on myself and came home only to find my phone was flooded with work from some very positive people visiting Chicago. After a day filled with sessions I opened up my email box only to find that he was commanding me to remove the testimonial he had written me a year ago. I told him he need not worry I will not encroach up his space and his legal name is not being displayed on my site so he should not be concerned. He sent me hate mail indicating that I am hard to figure out and I have the early symptoms of bipolar disorder. I know for a fact I don’t have bipolar disorder but I did recommend he stop mixing his antidepressants with alcohol because it distorts the mind and makes you act impulsively. So there after a full year and a half of giving of my time generously and supporting his progress I realized I may have potentially harmed this person more than helped him as he misread my generosity for “love”. I took him at face value I accepted his behaviors and never judged but my actions gave him the idea that this was a “relationship” not a Healing. I did enjoy his company and his opinions but what I did not understand till now is he has asperger’s syndrome and he lacks the skills necessary to read me or know how to behave based on my cues. I had no intention of ever abandoning him but I was advising him that talk therapy is very crucial to treating depression. I am going to assume that his depression is caused because of his loneliness and his divorce. I don’t believe his divorce was his idea because he told me that every Valentine’s day who ever he is dating he “dumps” and so this week he decided to break all ties with me so he could live out that same scenario.
I can only hope he decides for himself that this is no longer a life he wishes to lead if each time he connects with anyone he must abandon them before they abandon him. He does have anger around him and I am still trying to cleanse my space to let that anger leave my home and not affect me.
Here are the cues that someone has asperger’s syndrome :
Engaging in one-sided, long-winded conversations, without noticing if the listener is listening or trying to change the subject
Displaying unusual nonverbal communication, such as lack of eye contact, few facial expressions, or awkward body postures and gestures
Showing an intense obsession with one or two specific, narrow subjects, such as baseball statistics, train schedules, weather or snakes
Appearing not to understand, empathize with or be sensitive to others’ feelings
Having a hard time “reading” other people or understanding humor
Speaking in a voice that is monotonous, rigid or unusually fast
Moving clumsily, with poor coordination
I ONLY now found this online and it matches most of the aspects of my former client’s personality. I wish I would have understood more fully the nature of his condition so I could have handled his feelings more carefully. I have a lot to learn. I am not a licensed clinical psychologist but I do understand a lot of human nature since I come into contact with many people over the phone and in my tantra yoga practice. I feel upset that his “therapist” is not insisting that this man receive talk therapy 2 or 3 times a week so he can learn social clues and boundaries. I like to withdraw from all contact because I need space to process the energy I receive but something tells me this man would heal if someone could teach him about empathy and reading cues.
When someone lacks empathy they can not place themselves in anyone’s shoes. They can not fully understand why someone has spiritual values or has faith or cries or worries. They don’t feel they think things through. When I worked with this man’s energy I would ask him to pause, breathe and share with me any energetic sensations he might be having. Instead of sharing feelings with me he told me he felt floaty and was at peace. Well that is all fine and good but he never shared rage, or pain, or tingling sensations or hunger pangs. I felt at times that I was working with a cold, emotionless robot but I would not get upset I would just try to understand where he was coming from. I shared with him my out of body experiences and he seemed fascinated with my tales but to him these were just “tales” artful pieces of fiction I shared with him not my real experience as a healer. I believe in the paranormal simply because I have had so many intangible experiences that I either saw, heard or felt spirit move me. I truly felt sorry for this man and I don’t know how some people can go through the functions of leading normal lives but not having anything “move” them to tears or propel them to change their actions and try something different.
This man lead a very rigid, routine life. He would go home at a certain time or participate in “betting” while having a cocktail at a betting place. If he was not betting he would prepare himself a dinner then take photos of his dinner and describe what he had prepared. Another constant in his life was me so he placed me in that same “box” of “things” to do rather than a ceremony to share with sacred other.
Sometimes you just have to let go and I learned some important things this year about patience, understanding and learning how to just let go.
Tantra is the Psychic Narration of full body healing and manifestation ♬♫
January 31, 2014 at 4:48pm
Lately I am seeing an unwelcome trend these days. Everyone seems to want quick and expedient results. They don’t want to wait they want to get to the top of their field in days not years. They want to lose weight in weeks not months. Anyone who truly cares about an ideal understands it is through patience, visualization and self healing that we achieve our goals. We now live in a world where we can microwave almost anything we want. We get bored –we flip on our television set or put on a DVD rather than get dressed, deliberate on a good film and go to the cinema. If we get scared some of us go to the bars to hide from our loneliness.
What tantra teaches us is patience. First we understand that there is a power or source of energy out there that feeds us. If we learn to tap into this source of strength we can then have a stronger sense of self and we no longer simply ourselves as all male or all female we are both the convergence of yin and yang. We embrace our strengths as divine male essence and divine female essences. Here we are vulnerable and fresh and hopefully willing to release our need to control our emotions. We are here not to control or enforce our will on others we are here to share ourselves and quietly acknowledge another person’s strength and weakness as our own.
If you are lucky enough in this lifetime to meet a soul mate or twin flame then you will naturally have this experience where there are no boundaries between you and your Sacred other because you are full of trust and you naturally want to give and share your energy with your beloved so you are free to express yourself without judging yourself –you just naturally pour out love and there is a circular rhythm of giving that forms a bubble of love back and forth. This give and take is a chording or a bond of energy that is plugging your entire chakra system with your beloved. Instead of these chords depleting your source of energy you feel the energy is limitless or without parameters or bounds. It is a complete symbiosis of healing and you are joined as one. You even enter each other’s dream time without even trying and or you might find your phone rings right as you are thinking of your lover. These energy chords become conmingled but instead of you feeling trapped or stifled you welcome the energies and you crave more. Instead of you feeling Psychically drained you are fed and fully alive with awareness and self love by the reflection of your partner’s love for you.
If you are not yet on this journey of twin flame you might know what it means to feel a quieter or more serene rapture which is the sacred act of self love. You have come to rely solely on yourself. You yourself may have had a rougher journey than most. Maybe you grew up without siblings or sound parentage. You might have had to parent yourself and found a couple of strong role models who supported you and offered you guidance. You might have learned the craft of self sufficiency but you might also be over armoring yourself and preventing any future soul mate connections by being so guarded. Being guarded is NOT a bad thing. These shields you created were set up to protect yourself from pain or manipulative behaviors. A closed Chakra is NOT a bad thing but our energy needs to experience both the force of open flow and outpouring of loving energy and the natural stop of self preservation so you can take a healthy time out from too much infusion of other people’s energies bombarding you.
Tantra is the exploration of exploring safe and sane boundaries within yourself and your tantra partner. As you exhale out your tantra partner learns to accept your vibration and inhales your breath taking your energies fully into their heart and blessing your energy with theirs then sending you back that blessing directly into your heart space. You learn to share energy not label it. You experience the heaviness and the lightness of energy that is not your own but you learn to accept it as your own without anger or judgement. No one can steal or “take” your energy from you because we all receive energy from Source –we just have to know how to tap into that free energy from Source and clear our filters properly so we can make better use of the energy that is in abundance all around us.
Having faith in a higher power is the first step in fine tuning your higher Chakra. If you have complete trust that your higher power is there to support, uplift and sustain you then your crown chakra like an antennae will open up more easily. When you have faith in a higher power you are better able to receive the warm energy flow and allow yourself to allow this source to sustain you and know there will be no lack of energy for you to feed freely and no lack of energy for you to share with your partner or people around you. If you feel drained about a situation that is not in your “control” that is the perfect time to shower yourself with this radiant self love or get together with someone you trust and just breathe together. Having a ritual in your life connects you to source. You might find a particular song soothes your soul. You might have a movie that forces you to connect with your more loving, vital nature. Perhaps you just adore being immersed in water especially salty waters. These rituals are part of the Divine Sacred act of making love to your Higher Being.
We were created to be love. We were created to experience our love and vibrate with creativity. If a song compels you to close your eyes and envision yourself fully empowered then you owe that time and blessing for yourself. If you can only feel loved by being nurtured or caressed then go to a spa or seek out a tantra healing so you can free your ability to be touched without shame or anger. I have met people who have never even had a massage in their entire lifetime even though they were involved in jobs which required stamina and strength. They never believed they were deserving of the experience but in order to give of yourself you must know what it feels like to receive touch and kindness.
When you learn to flow with energies and when you learn to just let go and trust you expand your heart consciousness and you reunite with your higher grace. Sacred union is not just the meeting of two twin flames Sacred Union is making love to yourself and feeling your full energies expand and quake all through your central nervous system.
When you see how powerful, bright and full of hope you truly are you might first feel overwhelmed at having met yourself but I can assure you you won’t ever feel along again. Our journeys take us forward to our goals but we always take a few steps backwards because of a bit of self doubt. It can be kind of scary when you realize you are the captain of your own ship ❤
It’s snowing even harder today —no end in sight! For sure this weather is challenging everyone’s mood today and all this week. Water pipes are bursting and some people are having their water shut off temporarily.
As I was walking my dog and trying to walk sideways to escape the sideways moving snow shuffle an angry driver shouted at me with his window wide open…
As I was walking my dog and trying to walk sideways to escape the sideways moving snow shuffle an angry driver shouted at me with his window wide open…
HEY LADY WATCH WHERE YOU’RE GOING THAT IS WHAT THE MAIN STREET SIGNS ARE FOR…!!!
oh whatever I was only concentrating on carrying some heavy candles as my huge dog guides us to safety.
For as long as I am not spraining my back or slipping on a banana peel life is good.
People have to be more watchful during this kind of weather because as you cross these slippery and slushy streets some cars might be gliding past and you want have much time to react.
In the meantime now is the perfect season for taking care of you! Are you recuperating from surgery? Well this weather won’t be doing you any favors. Even just subtle movements can stress you or add to injury and you might find yourself re injuring your body if you are not careful. Immediately after surgery you will find yourself “armoring” or guarding your every movement to avoid further stress. You will find yourself experiencing stress or tension headaches or grinding your jaws at night because of this extra stress on your central nervous system. It is now that you should invest in yourself and your path to wellness.
Eat foods that contain as much water as you can handle. Water is vital especially during this colder weather because cold weather can be just as dehydrating and taxing on your system as hot, torturous weather. Pick juices instead of cola products and beef up on your watermelons and pineapples. Warm soup broths will help you feel less sluggish and so will more frequent visits to a body worker.
Lymphatic drainage massage helps you flush out toxins from your body and keeps your immunity strong and prepared for this harsher weather.
How does tantra yoga fit into all of this? Typically all my sessions are focused on five elements. These elements are sound healing, aromatherapy healing, focused intention, proper breathing, and lymphatic drainage. Want to lose a bit of weight this winter? Visit me I can help you move energies through your body and help clear out anything in your lover base chakras that no longer serve you.
All creative people which include singers, graphic artists, poets and actors know that sexual energy helps them focus for longer increments of time. We all have writers block and we all experience that bump in the road if we don’t take enough time out for our own development or healing.
I am sure Jean Harlow had her moments where she needed to travel outside of her normal boundaries.
Escape a bit with me here in Chicago. I will lovingly prepare a session for you that meets your energy vibe whether you need to be amped up or set your mind to a peaceful hum
Well I just returned to my native soil last weekend and it’s just like that old saying…you take yourself with you no matter where you go.
I will be honest I was thrilled to be back but not thrilled to be greeted to such cold last weekend from Atlanta, Georgia. Atlanta, Georgia to me was an experiment and even though I truly loved the warmer climate and the lush plant life it was aggravating for me to figure out a way to maneuver myself around the city without a car and without knowing how to drive. I guess I could have taken driving lessons and honestly I will make that my goal (again) for the year 2014 so the next time I leave Chicago I will feel more “settled” and I won’t fee “trapped”.
Tantra yoga is the study of how to let go of all sense of what you know and let go of your mind so you don’t feel so cloistered. I always have so much to learn. It is so simple for me to relax someone thoroughly who trusts me to their bare energy and I must say there is no greater joy for me to receive than to share my knowledge of tantra massage to couples or give someone their first taste of real medicine work the taste of their own unique energy as it is tapped and set free through Kundalini shakti.
I not only moved out of the city of Chicago for the warmer weather but I wanted to get to know a very special man I had grown very fond of that I had met through face book. We initially met on that venue but only flirted a few times casually but I fell in love with his posts, his spirit and his gorgeous looks. Remember that old saying ….beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Well to me he was the perfect being both in his sensitivities to subtle energies and his raw sexual animal appeal to me. When I showed his picture to some of my clients they thought he looked a bit like a rock star but others thought he looked a bit “touched”. NO matter to me he was everything I wanted to get to know so we spent a full year on the phone together three years while I was living full time in the city of Chicago.
Patrick filled a void in me I knew I had been missing and we spent almost every day on the phone together typically from 1 a.m. until 7 or 8a.m. just creating stories and mythos and I fell in love with his voice, his sense of play and his hopefulness. We had some fights every so often but we seemed to resolve them quickly and it felt so bittersweet and heavenly to get to know this man through our agreements, our shared laughter and his astral visits. I guess you could say he had a remarkable talent for astral travel and to me that is likened to any session I wish to receive during a therapeutic massage and during a private one on one healing with any client of mine who trusts me enough to share their spirit and their energy with me.
I decided to move to Atlanta, Georgia so i could have the chance to not only feel Patrick’s energies on the astral plane but actually have the chance to be with him in real time and in the real moments that make up a real relationship. Sadly though once I lived in Atlanta full time Patrick did seem awkward to me and ashamed that he was not in a greater position of strength in his life. He used to be a very affluent muralist and artist but life circumstances and our shaky economic system put a damper on Patrick’s abilities to take care of himself so he admitted the truth to me about not having enough money sometimes to even put gas in his truck and that interfered greatly with his pride and his ability to even pay me enough visits to keep me company.
I became frustrated with this scenario and as I struggled to market my service in Atlanta, Georgia I also tried to assure Patrick I required more of his free time and attention but somehow when he had the rare chance to work he also needed to reserve what little gas money he had to use it as transportation money to and from his odd and end jobs. Another thing that got in the way was his ailing father who needed Patrick’s assistance almost every single major holiday and each weekend so I felt as if I had moved to Atlanta Georgia for nothing. Patrick was so ashamed of his inability to look good in my eyes that he shut me out a lot more and decided against inviting me to meet his immediate family. To all of you I am sure you are smiling an all knowing smile and thinking Patrick surely must have been married but no Patrick was living a Co dependent existence with his brother who was mentally unwell and his parents who gave Patrick a free house to stay in in exchange of course for Patrick’s care taking abilities.
What does this say about me? It says I am beyond patient because for two full years I went on the hope alone of eventually having Patrick include me more in his life. I had hoped I would gradually be getting much busier in Atlanta but somehow people did not find me online or maybe there was a strong lack of desire for tantra massage in Atlanta. And now that I am back here full time in Chicago I am saddened because it seems I was more welcome as a visiting Tantra Goddess than a full time tantra massage therapist.
Time for a second career I say and time does indeed heal all wounds but I became disgusted with Patrick’s treatment of me in all of this. I am the partner who was waiting or him to make up his mind. In Patrick’s eyes he felt my move was all my idea yet for a full year he said he would love it if I would give Atlanta Georgia a chance and be near him. Patrick initially had promised to include me in his tribal gatherings so I could connect with his friends and feel a true sense of community. What soured the city of Atlanta for me was the disappointment in knowing Patrick had no intentions of ever introducing me to his dearest friends or including me in any sacred ceremonies because he was jealous of me and what I do for a living.
I traveled for two full years spending each holiday abroad and getting to know people from all over the United States just immersing myself in my work and truly enjoying the freedom of travel without relying on anyone else to bring me joy.
I am now regrettably not even friends with Patrick but to be honest with you I have no deep desire to ever meet with him again or hear his voice because he could not honor the work I represent he could only feel insecure and jealous of who I am as a Goddess.
I love to share myself and I love to share my passion. As I am trying to ground my energy here in Chicago I sense this city has changed and people are more fearful and less trusting than I remember them to be. I am contacted quite a bit when people find me online but only a handful of people feel that sense of trust to just plunge in and try a session with me.
Here I am and I have nothing but myself to share. I am open and I am an open vehicle of healing if someone is honest enough with me about doing the work. This work involves mutual sharing of energies and mutual sharing of trust. When you trust someone implicitly you receive more than you bargained for.
I invite you to share a bit of magic with me this December. I have went through a lot of changes get to know one of my soul mate energies and I am fully present to focus my time with anyone here in the city of Chicago who is ready to journey with me and let go of their armoring. You can only hold onto armor for so long and then you simply realize it’s just weighing you down and is hindrance to bliss.
Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
It is a beautiful day here in Atlanta, Georgia and each day should be spent in reflection and lusciousness even if you do not particularly feel up for it. So the topic for today is Shared Bliss and Tantra Yoga in Atlanta. How can we better prepare ourselves to heal when we decide to set up sacred space or when we finally do decide to indulge in a private and sacred healing with a Tantra Yoga teacher? First of all you must realize you chose this time for your personal healing and you must be completely clear with your intentions and completely selfish.
When you do meet with your Tantra teacher in Atlanta or anywhere else in the world just realize your teacher is NOT a mind reader and this is your chance to express your secret goals and desires because this is called Shared Sacred Space. You are completely responsible for the outcome of the tantra session you have chosen. Will you choose to suffer in silence and not have your needs met or will you choose to be fully responsible for your own personal growth and let your teacher know exactly what it is is you wish to learn and experience as a new student to tantra yoga.
Please realize this is NOT the time to leave your cell phone on unless of course it is a major crisis. How can you be fully present and healed if you are constantly focused on something that is not within your control. The mere fact and action that you have actively decide to focus and concentrate on the moment should give you an indication that stresses and worldly cares should now be laid to rest for a rainy day and your focus should be on breathing, ejaculatory control and bliss interaction.
This is not a game and yes this is your time to finally have center stage and be pampered and made to feel special. If you have one or two or even three goals have you set aside that time properly or are you concerned about what is going to happen after your tantra ceremony.
If you can only think or worry about your responsibilities know that that is mind chatter and that is your indirect way of preventing yourself from exploring your bliss either out of guilt or out of a sense that you are not worthy of the pampering.
Please consider this Sacred Space a time of reflection and healing. You can worry about the dinner meeting after your Tantra Ceremony. You can contact your significant other after your ceremony and after you have had time to regenerate and heal your heart. Do not allow distractions to interfere from your personal ME time .
Every environment you enter is going to change dependent upon who you decide to see as a teacher. Is your teacher a visiting Goddess to your city? Will you be requiring your healer to travel to you to your appointed hotel space as a convenience? Have you both agreed as student and teacher what is safe and healthy for you to explore? When was the last time you actually received a Tantra yoga massage or healing?
Do not cheat yourself or your tantra teacher. Be fully present and let your concerns rest to the side for how many hours you have chose to set up sacred space. Sacred Space is an opportunity to grow. You use sacred space as Sacred magic and as a playful interchange that will affect your creative flow after your tantra session has been completed.
Are you open minded enough to realize that each teacher has a unique presentation of tantra yoga and you can learn and heal and be nurtured by varied styles? There are no accidents. Like energies attract like energies so just know what ever state of mind you are in and what ever physical blocks you are experiencing will be reflected in the teacher you choose and you become Sacred Healing mirrors to each other.
And on that note I truly wish you luck on your journey and I hope you celebrate the Full moon today in beauty ❀
Come visit me here in Atlanta Georgia or host me in your city today. I offer healing one on one for individuals seeking a vast change and improvement in their well being and I am also available for couples and intimate group workshops for a small gathering. Please never be offended if I ask you politely to verify who you are. There is a bridge of trust that we can get over together. Let me share your unique journey with you and be open about who you are, where you want to be and what your goals are. We share sacred space together we are both equally responsible as Tantra Healers and Tantra Shamans for the Co creation of Sacred Space.
Namaste.. and in complete non judgement let me open sacred Tantra yoga for you.
Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Mobile contact 312-339-7707
Please always be prepared to share yourself with me and let’s work on your bliss!
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or butterflyshadows@aol.com
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