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June 10, 2012 No comments

Proper Etiquiette for Seekers of Tantric Yoga By Goddess ☃ Diana

I have never shared any personal information on here before regarding proper etiquette but I think it is very very important for everyone reading this blog to know exactly how it feels to be trusted fully and exactly how it feels to be treated with mistrust.
I am sharing a very personal experience I have had today and for the days leading up to this day (today is Sunday a rainy rain day here in Atlanta, Georgia). I am a very firm believer that we each have strong, magnetic energies that can either contract or expand if we are trusted fully and or if we are in a place of synchronicity.
We can not always be in tune all the time. Sometimes people or situations can rub off on us the wrong way. What irks me though is if I choose to spend a delicious hour of good conversations with a new student on the phone and either never hear from that person ever again or this individual continues to come from a place of shame or mistrust.
Once I invest my time in someone’s potential for growth, shared pleasured pleasure and or relaxation I feel I have expended enough energy and I have shared myself fully. If someone has my complete attention for a 45 minute conversation and we are both in a comfortable place and in synch then there should (hopefully) be no doubt that our shared ceremony will be one of mutual healing and knowledge.
I decided though today that even though one can share a good conversation with someone there is no guarantee that the trust has been fully developed.
After today I realized that fraudulent names without a last name to go with it and fraudulent google phone numbers will no longer be accepted by me under any circumstance. Normally I love to be trusting and open especially due to the fact that some people still see tantric yoga as a new arena and they are confusing my services for those offered by “escort related activities”. Let me unconfuse the general public.
First of all there are many women who are self taught dakinis. They are “naturals” and there is no reason why you should not trust these very capable dakinis of treating your energy with gentleness, refinement and generosity. There are also women who are well read and they feel very comfortable with the idea of creating a more Kama Sutra experience for their students and they are very generous (with their bodies) and their time and their healing capacities. Then of course there are a group of women who are skilled at teaching groups, couples and workshops but they felt the need to begin formal training in alternative healing and therefore they felt compelled to invest their precious time and their money into certification programs with trained professionals in a professional workshop setting. These women felt the desire and the extra need to have the paperwork and the training to back up their good work. Some of these women work with men and women one on one and others simply decided to become couples coaches and lead seminars.
Other women have no training or experience at all and you can tell based upon the session you receive that they had no deep desire to provide you with a healing but they are merely playing at being a Goddess and playing guessing games.
Yes some of my students call me and have had extensive training with highly skilled goddesses and others are calling me randomly from an internet search and hoping and praying they have found “the right one”.

So if you hoping to meet your idea goddess here are some tips that will surely make this happen. Remember a healer can only do their best work if you come from a place of deep trust and few expectations.
When you contact a Goddess for the first time please realize that if they do have a web site it is for your knowledge and no one likes to be asked simply questions that can be answered in full if you had only perused the site at least once carefully and thoughtfully. If you must ask a question of the Goddess ask a question about a bit of terminology you might be unfamiliar with. If you truly have no clue what tantric yoga is or can do for you there are so many basic books I always recommend but a great book you can start out with is called “Jewels in the Lotus”. This book contains simple breathing exercises and if you take a bit of time to practice some of these exercises you will be in a better place to receive a better session with your goddess.
Please call from a non restricted number. There is nothing worse than answering a call from a blocked number or from a google number. Is there a reason why you wish to remain anonymous? Are you ashamed of your need to contact a highly skilled goddess to help amplify your energy? If you are ashamed to address these needs in a mature and adult way then save this experience for a rainy day and call from a real number. I decided after today I no longer will accept google numbers. I am not a call girl. I am not a hooker. There is no shame in what I have to offer and If I am able and willing to share my time and energy with you and communicate to you from a real number then I expect the same of you and there should be equal trust.
I can only do my best work when you place faith in me and the work I do. I spent a full hour cumulatively getting to know someone yet when they met me outside today they had even more questions for me. Sorry that is not only insulting it is just plain creepy. I try and separate myself from creepy energy and if you are seeking a healing then your standards should be set high and mine should be set even higher.
Fake names are for cowards. Fake and fraudulent phone numbers are for people who play games not only with themselves but with others. They do not trust themselves therefore they do not trust a good experience from a bad experience and they are seeking to either manipulate or control another person or situation which is not an exchange of equality but an exchange that debases the potential for shared trust and equanimity.
When you choose a Goddess are you choosing a Goddess for their physical attributes only? Are you choosing the Goddess for “entertainment purposes only”? If you are there is no shame in that none at all; but be fair to the Goddess in question and let them know the following:
(this is just an example)
“I chose you Goddess _____ because I find you cosmetically beautiful and you arouse me! I love your beautiful outfits and I love all your photos. I hope you look exactly like your photos because that has always been a dream or a secret fetish of mine. I truly don’t care about your skills but what is most important to me is just being touched and in the same room with someone that looks exactly like you !!!”

Now you are being fair to YOUR needs and to the needs of your future Goddess. Some people enter the realm of tantra for all the wrong reasons and some people just want to be touched by a living, breathing, beautiful Goddess and truly there is nothing at all wrong with that goal for as long as you are honest to yourself and the future Goddess who will be holding sacred space for you.
Other seekers of tantra truly could care less what their Goddess looks like so long as she has had formal training and she is sincere in her interest to help heal any issues that might be blocking someone’s bliss potential. The potential for bliss is always there. As goddesses we can not always promise a good result immediately nor can we promise that you will click with us with just one session. Not everyone is meant for everyone. There is no harm in sampling different energies and different practices. There are many pathways to reach your bliss but only you know which path is easier for you to trust and understand.
What I will no longer tolerate in my own personal growth and spiritual path is dishonesty. In fact I realized that when one person hides just a small aspect of their personality or hides their real name there is always discordance and stumbling blocks to bliss.
If I could give anyone good advice it is to share your needs fully with your goddess from the very beginning. Not everyone makes a perfect match but this is your session and you deserve to receive the very best. If you hide your truest intentions and or lie on the phone then once you do meet your goddess you can not go back and correct mistakes or lack of communication. Be a clear communicator from the very beginning. Share what is most important to you from the very beginning and share your true age, your true name and your true number because these are simply building blocks to trust and you will have all your needs met without conflict or drama.
Namaste— Now go after your Bliss!!!!

Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly
April 12, 2012 No comments

Goddess Diana ~> Awaken Your Third Eye The Ajna ✵ Chakra

Many Masters of Tantric Yoga may advise you it is not a good idea to rush Kundalini activation. They will advise you against focusing on the higher chakra bodies before achieving complete balance in your lower chakras.

The Kundalini Shakti (our sleeping Consciousness or our sleeping snake) is coiled up at the base of our tail bone. It is through gentle awakening that the coiled snake slowly awakens touching each chakra system upon her slow ascent up our spinal column to consciously and slowly open each of our lotus flowers with some prodding.

There is truly no harm on awakening the higher chakras first. In fact if we can recognize our godliness first and we are aware that we are complete unto ourselves and we are responsible for our karma and we create a karmic link in all we do and say then there is no harm in activating our mind first.

Our intuition (our 3rd eye) should be fully activated so we can make sound decisions for ourselves and not rely upon the advice of others whether it be random strangers on the street, friends or colleagues. Yes it is always good to have a sounding board but an imbalance in this chakra can make you too reliant and dependent upon others never fully trusting your own inner guidance. It is not good to just hand or give your power away to another. How can anyone else know you the way you know yourself.

Being fully self aware is the first step to honoring your self divinity. Trusting your gut intuition and allowing yourself to make your first choice and honoring your inner voice consistently is a way you can fully activate your third eye.

if you honor your intuition and honor your own Sacred power within you you are sending that inner light and helping to activate your latent ability to be a good and responsible Seer. Sometimes all it really takes is to know yourself intimately and if you see your inner beauty with clear vision then your third eye is aware of it powers of manifestation.

When you set simple goals for yourself and see reality with clear vision and honor the reality you can create and manifest any project your heart desires. it is this self knowing and self acknowledgement that changes and brightens your ajna.

The act of closing one’s eyes physically and envisioning yourself serene and beautiful and fully aware of yourself is the just the very beginning. You can imagine a beautiful lotus flower with her petals gradually opening up and glistening there in the center of your forehead. Each petal is forming soft dew at the tip and each drop of dew is magnifying your pineal gland and sending sweet nectar into your medulla Oblongata.

You can envision a beautifully peaceful bluish white light beginning as just a pin prick in the very center of your brow and growing with intensity and brilliance as you breathe deeply into your mind’s eye.

Any such exercise can send healing love into your sixth Chakra and you can softly encourage her awaking with positive self affirmations such as ~>

I am a full empowered God/Goddess I am able to see and envision clearly what it is I wish to manifest.

I am a fully awakened Being of Divine Light and I am able to create my own reality

I am an intuitive being capable of sensing all dimensions that might not be fully visible with my naked eye but are fully visible with my third eye that is gently awakening each day and each night.

These are just some random affirmations but making a choice to be open to other realities and understanding your role in your own karma is the beginning of opening up your third eye.

The following few paragraphs are taken from my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please enjoy!

SEAT OF KUNDALINI SHAKTI:

Why does the chakra system play such an important role in tantra?

We are both shiva and shakti male God and female Goddess. In tantra we are taught that we are a microcosm of the entire Universe and our bodies are a manifestation of pure energy from a common Source that was born from a uniting of both Shiva and Shakti. During 5000 B.C. a Cult was established around the Hindu God Shiva and his Goddess Shakti. Shiva was pure consciousness but could not transform energies around Him. Shakti was the embodiment of pure energy but she could actually affect and shift energy so when the two divinities met and connected sexually and spiritually Shakti gave Shiva a true solid form and gave birth to the Universe. Tantra is a practice of pure love; it is this joyful dance between Shiva and Shakti and this mutual exchange of male and female essence that creates a balance of beauty and unconditional love amongst us. If you can see the divine presence in yourself and acknowledge the female and male entities inside you you have the power to create a playground of delight all within your being. When you see the divinity within you, you can recognize the divinity within another and love someone else with that blind devotion and human empathy that will create a bridge between human physical life into a higher realm of ethereal space.

Tantra means weaving and so in the practice of weaving, we unify the fragmented pieces of ourselves like precious silken threads we honor and hold sacred. We honor the scary parts as well as the joyful pieces into this luminous quilt we learn to cherish and explore. Tantra also means expansion in that we learn to grow spiritually as our energy is unified and our Kundalini Shakti awakens us into our Higher Being.

I’d like to include this quote from Ajit Mookerjee that I found in a passage of Margo Anand’s book “The Art of Sexual Ecstasy”:

Shakti is the Power that creates and destroys,

the womb from which all things proceed and to

which all things return…….Shakti is spontaneous

vibration, the fullness of her blissful state and the

out bursting of her joy compelling her toward self-

unfolding.

Now you can understand what a strong role the Goddess or female energy plays in Tantra. Without Shakti we can not exist and the roots of all Tantric practices lie in a strong devotion to the Goddess in all her forms. The Goddess Kali is considered the Dark Goddess or Goddess of destruction and she is portrayed as a black goddess standing upon human skulls and her hands are clenching skulls, yet if you examine more closely she is the protective goddess taking care of her children and fiercely staking her claim willing to defend her creations from those that would destroy. I like to think of Kali as being the mother earth — nurturing those that would honor and bring life back to her. When we respect the Earth goddess she is mother, healer, care taker and guardian of us all. When we take her for granted or dishonor her she turns into the destroyer and yields her fiery side removing chaos. She becomes the multi armed goddess willing to cut away anything or anyone that does not serve her. In this way the Destroyer becomes the Creator of all because she will remove anything from her path in order to give birth to a gentler way of life. It becomes not an end but the end of a world as we perceive it. Each day we spend time creating and giving life to our thoughts manifesting and dreaming and scheming. Each day we destroy and we create and we recreate and reweave a tapestry connecting and sometimes disconnecting as we need to so we can become an authentic being!

So what exactly are Chakras and how do they play such a crucial role in Kundalini Shakti’s awakening? First we must define what a Chakra is. In Sanskrit a chakra is a wheel of light. A chakra is known to constantly open and close spinning clockwise and counter clockwise and since it is in a state of constant flux it alternatively serves as a filter which allows pure pranic energy to enter or be blocked out depending upon our needs. Sometimes a chakra may close itself off or shut itself down if it encounters too strong an energy, or an energy it deems harmful. During these times the chakra is in a closed state in order to protect itself. At other times the chakra may be overactive and will stay in a state of remaining open but somehow a chakra will “know” what it needs in order to maintain homeostasis. These chakras are interconnected to each other and they each have an affect upon the next chakra body all sharing an important role in the balancing of our physical and emotional well being.

Each chakra is associated with a specific color, function, sound and symbol or yantra.

Here is a detailed account of each chakra and their functions:

A. MULADHARA CHAKRA (first Chakra)

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The Muladhara Chakra or foundation is located just above the anus (the perineum) and it is an earth element which rules our material drive and motivates us to provide for ourselves. If this chakra is well balanced we feel secure in our own bodies and our power to make things happen. This chakra rules elimination and responds to the sound Lam. The yantra or geometric symbol for this chakra is a yellow square. The main sense this chakra rules is our sense of smell but the working organ for this chakra is the anus. Muladhara Chakra is the seat of Kundalini Shakti and she resides as a coiled snake goddess awaiting her awakening. The base chakra also houses the three most important Nadis or energy channels in our spirit body. The Ida, Pingala and Sushumna originate in the kanda, the fibrous material beneath the Muladhara Chakra. When these areas are stimulated through tantric breathing they travel upwards till they reach the Ajna Chakra which resides between the brows. The Ida and Pingala Nadis terminate in the left and right nostril and continue to charge up energy until reaching the crown chakra opening a state of deep bliss and a transcendence of time and being.

B. SVADHISTHANA CHAKRA (second chakra)

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The second chakra or sexual chakra is located above and behind the genitals and its element is water. Its function is sexual drive and procreation so in a healthy manifestation of this chakra one feels an openness and a strong but “healthy” feeling of aliveness when this chakra is stimulated. Indications of a closed chakra will be a feeling of numbness if this chakra is touched. The yantra for the second chakra is a moon color crescent and the seed sound is VAM. The literal meaning of the name is Dwelling Place of the Self and if this chakra is open it can enhance our creative spark and our own inner fantasy realms. The ruling organ is the tongue and the sense that is stimulated is our sense of taste. The organs that work here are the genitals and so when we stimulate this chakra with conscious kegel pulsations we activate this chakra. The daily practice of holding the Bandhas (muscle locks and tightening of our anal and genital areas) will activate this chakra and super charge our bodies preparing and opening up new channels of sensual pleasure and healing.

C. MANIPURA CHAKRA (third chakra)

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The third chakra is the navel and it is a fire element and the seat of our will power. The name for the Manipura Chakra is City of Jewels. This chakra represents our drive to get things done and our digestive tract. It is also the seat of our emotions and so if we feel a sense of balance and harmony in this chakra our digestive system should be balanced but if we are feeling distressed or out of control then we can develop major illnesses such as ulcers. The seed sound is Ram and its ruling element is fire so its predominant color is a fiery red and the yantra is a red triangle. The predominant sense ruled by this chakra is sight and the organs that work the most for this organ are the feet and legs. Just as the sun is the source of life for earth so is our third chakra or naval chakra. It is here we come from our true strength and our own ego. The fire element that resides in this chakra fuels our body allowing us to absorb nutrients and gain health from the foods we eat and acts towards our own basic needs for survival but fire can also be highly destructive if it rages out of control.

D. ANAHATA CHAKRA (fourth charkra)

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The Anahata Chakra literally means Heart Lotus and unstruck and not so surprising its ruling planet is Venus (Goddess of love).The location of the fourth chakra is to the right of the physical heart and the center of the chest. The element is air and the ruling force here is the love drive and its function is respiration. If this chakra is well balanced one can feel this surge of unconditional love and openness towards others and themselves. If there is an imbalance there can be feelings of self loathing or a lack of self worth. We can open this chakra with the seed sound ya and its yantra is a smoky grey hexagon with a triangle of green. The sense organ for this chakra is our skin and our hands are the working force behind the heart chakra. Despite our traditional conceptions of the heart chakra the color is not Valentine’s Day red but green the color of an emerald forest so lush and healthy it radiates unconditional love. Kundalini Shakti appears now as a radiant Goddess in the anahata chakra and she is garbed in a white sari sitting serene and centered. She has changed her form from elusive and coiled snake goddess into a goddess of selfless devotion. We can activate our fourth chakras by performing self less acts of service to others and it is normal for a woman to have a more open heart chakra when she gives birth to a child. If we can enjoy each moment of our life just as it is without self judgment or expectations we can heal and open our heart energies in a modest but profound way.

E. VISHUDDHA CHAKRA (fifth chakra)

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The fifth chakra or throat lotus is the throat chakra and its element is the ether. The functions of this chakra are spiritual drive and it rules our glandular functions. If this chakra is well balanced we are able to clearly state our truths without fear of judgment. We can speak in a loving but truthful way at all times. If however this chakra is not clear we are afraid to speak our own truths and the resulting manifestation of a blocked throat chakra can result in throat maladies. We can activate this chakra through the act of singing or chanting. The seed sound is Ham and the yantra is crescent moon with a white circle around it. The predominant sense of the fifth chakra is hearing and the working organs are the mouth and the vocal cords. When we consciously meditate on opening our throat chakra we can gain a sense of inner peace, serenity, purity, a soothing voice and an ability to compose poetry! The act of singing or chanting creates a spiritual state of being and affects our hearts opening us in a way that prepares us for the vibratory power of our throat chakras.

F. AJNA CHAKRA (sixth chakra)

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The ajna is our third eye (the point between our eyebrows) and rules our intellect and our ability to see and feel what is not physically there but what is spiritually present. The ajna is well balanced if our intuition is highly pronounced but if this chakra is out of balance we do not trust ourselves or our inner voice. The sound OM can activate this sixth chakra and if we visualize the yantra which is a full moon color and shape we can increase our powers of perception and open our third eye to activate Kundalini energy and the potential to receive enlightenment. If this chakra is blocked one can experience head aches or confusion. In the Hindu tradition men and women place a vermillion dot in the center of their foreheads to activate the third eye. Our physical eyes can perceive our current reality but it is our third eye which reveals the unseen or what will transpire. When a yogi is able to achieve kundalini shakti awakening the Ajna Chakra is fully activated and a pure light will form around the head and auric field. The yogi then enters a place where there are no boundaries of time but he becomes a seer having the abilities to visit all realms of realities past present and future. It is here we develop a sense of cosmic awareness and we cease to be separate entities coexisting; we indeed become the mirror of divine love to others and ourselves.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
April 11, 2012 No comments

❤♥ Shaktipat ♥❤ The Descent of kundalini Shakti from Guru to Seeker ♡♥

If you were to take the time to search for the word SHAKTIPAT on google you would surely be bombarded by many different and Image conflicting view points all from masters like Osho to private practitioners who claim they have the ability to awaken your Kundalini Shakti (your sleeping serpent).

Let me be very basic and let us start with the word Shaktipat in itself.  Shaktipat is the descent of pure divine energy from Guru to student.  Shaktipat is a Sanskrit word with origins in Vedic religions of pure Tantric Yoga.  In order to activate the latent Kundalini energy that is within all of us we can consciously choose to meditate upon our awakening through pranic breathe and visualization exercises either by ourselves or through the assistance of a guru or Master we feel comfortable with.  If the student is open to receiving a healing the Master can simply pass on their aura which is advanced and energetically charged.  The seeker can receive a full kundalini awakening from the Master for as long as the Master is a clear conduit of energy.

Through consistent and patient practices the now awakened kundalini energy is enabled to travel from the first chakra (base chakra) to the crown chakra (7th chakra) at the top of the skull.  Once the crown chakra has been fully activated by Kundalini Shakti one is able to receive a state of Samsara or bliss in which complete contentment is reached and one has no sense of judgement of self or others.  There is no awkward sense of self consciousness nor is there any sense of anger or jadedness.  There is only contentment when the crown chakra lotus flower has been activated by Kundalini.  At this state of sacredness the journey of future kandalini awakening has now just begun!

Now you might be puzzled by the nature of Shaktipat itself.  How can a guru give a kundalini awakening to their student?  A master at kundalini exchange can simply transmit their aura through a glance, conscious touch, a gift such as a flower, a letter or simply by the intention.  One can even receive a luscious piece of fruit and if the fruit was activated with the Guru’s divine grace one can receive that activation simply by biting into the piece of fruit.

Upon reading these words you might be mystified and you might get a sense that I am a true romanticist but what we are involving here is the devise of true alchemy and the transference of energy from one person to the next through focus, intent and energy.

If you can understand that energy or (chi life force) is everywhere and it is free to anyone and everyone that will be open enough to call it in to their bodies then the idea of Shaktipat is a purely organic mode of healing through energy vibration and meditation.  We can simplify the theory even more by seeing the Guru as the uncorrupted Ego able to receive this divine life energy.  The Shaktipat in essence become the pure Channel and or Vessel and is able to transmit this pure life force into their disciples simply by not thinking and standing aside so that the pure energy can use the body as a vehicle only and be shared with others as a gift.

 How will you know if you Kundalini energy has been awakened?  Some symptoms may include the  following manifestations: you will feel an intense feeling of anger, fear, grief or intense joy; you might feel tingling sensations in your limbs, your mouth and your fingertips; you may feel a sense of unity with other people and you will no longer feel the separation between your body and another person’s body.  Maybe you will feel an overwhelming need to sleep or you have all this pent up nervous energy running through you now and you feel like running around and getting things done.  Kundalini rising is different for everyone but just know whether or not you hear tinkling bells or whether or not you feel waves of heat running through you each effort you make to open your Kundalini energy is time well spent.

You might also ask yourself what are the long term benefits of opening up your Kundalini energies? Wed ll perhaps you have some buried trauma something you have not examined in a while and holding onto that trauma is a burden to your chakra system  keeping you trapped so you are unable to evolve?  What purpose does this buried trauma serve you?  Awakening your Kundalini energy is a short cut to many years of psychotherapy.  The act of slow and consciously awakening your energy will help you shift from a state of numbness to a state of fully body sensory awareness.  During your newly awakened state you might see lights, you might see colors more vibrantly, you might hear sounds more profoundly in various pitches or you might even think you are going crazy but if you realize that these are all new tools for you to play with you will gain a new understanding of the Creative vital Being you truly are.

We are all manifestations of light and pure energy.  Once you are fully aware of your own energy in its purest form you will no longer fear the unknown but you will become an active participant in the flow of energy able to receive and transmit that force to yourself and others.

Thus in conclusion the descent of pure energy or Shaktipat is a powerful all embracing form of vital life force.  When we engage in Shaktipat we are sending good medicine to our Chakra bodies opening up gates that may have been closed down (for a while) due to trauma, ongoing depression or unawareness.  When you are fully awakened you become aligned to your Higher Being and you are aware of your inner light.  Questions that have been troubling you will be answered by your own inner guidance or intuition and you are a more perceptive being no longer shut off from the power of your own physical and spiritual bodies.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com  312-339-7707

 

The descent of Divine Grace or Shaktipat touches and penetrates the very depths of a Yoga student’s being. The awakened Kundalini Shakti will transform all aspects of your being as chakra system.

 

 
April 11, 2012 No comments

♡Shaktipat ~> The Transmission of Kundalini Energy from Guru to Disciple ♥

I have been reading a lot lately about Shaktipat a Sanskrit word which broken down to its most base form means the transfer of Kundalini energy from one person to the next either by thought, touch,

mantra (sound) or even the gift of a flower of a piece of fruit.

Wow! I do remember one cold winter in Chicago and I decided I was going to explore Jamaica for

four months rather than suffer through another uninviting, bitter season so I signed up for a rainbow

exploration retreat for 10 days in Ocho Rios and I found ways to stay a lot longer on a meager $2,000 I had saved up in my bank account. I kept meeting friends of friends of friends and I was allowed to stretch out my 10 day trip to a full four months.

I met many interesting people during my stay and I enjoyed spending most of my time with the Rastafarians

finding their company the most relaxing and invigorating. I remember upon meeting each new person they would often present me with a piece of fruit namely an orange. I was puzzled of course and asked my friend Earl if he could explain this . He smiled and said it is what you present an “adept”.

I understood this to mean each person considered me worthy of receiving a gift and something like a piece of fruit represented chi or life force and it was an honor worthy of a God/Goddess to have a juicy orange presented.

Some people might take an inanimate object such as a mojo bag and they will use meditation, placing the bag near the heart chakra and they will invoke the bag with loving intent before giving it to their friend thus transferring their good intentions and their positive energy as a good will gift to the receiver.

At last I understand what Shaktipat is. Many gurus consider themselves as vessels. They are not the Source but they receive Kundalini energy activation from a higher power namely the power of the Divine Goddess. Shaktipats may consider themselves (accidental) transmitters of such divine energy and if they are properly humble they will see this gift as divine grace as they help awaken their students kundalini energy simply by focus, intent and or mantras.

The goal is to awaken the third eye the ajna and the gift is passed on from a guru to their disciple under the condition that the student is of an energy to be able to receive this gift. If the Master has a strong aura they can bestow their advanced kundalini awakening to their student but only if the student is open to receiving this powerful energy.

I believe each tantric session is a wonderful opportunity to open Kundalini energy slowly, sanely and safely. Shaktipat is broken down into simple words. Shakti is psychic energy and pata means (to fall) so if you translate this word you have energy that is bestowed.

There are many conflicting view points of Shaktipat but I wish to simplify it. If my intent is to help awaken my student then my intent can help open the opportunity for an awakening to occur. It matters not how evolved I am it is my conscious heart and my conscious mind and intent that sends that energy out there to the Universe for the Highest good that my student receives all the benefits from my teachings and my positive energy. I am sending out a radar — a clear signal the Universal Mother that I am willing to use my

body as open channel and vessel of healing for the greater good and that there is an equal exchange of energy between student and healer.

As I actively pulse my Yoni and as I send soothing nurturing air into my Heart Chakra I am activating my Chakra systems and amplifying my Shakti (female Goddess energy) so my student or partner is able to feel

the healing benefits of my chakras and potentially feel an awakening of their Kundalini energy.

If you can imagine that the Kundalini energy is a sleeping serpent coiled up at your tail bone waiting to be awakened you can envision her slow awakening and her slow ascent up each of your vertabrae. She slow uncoils and without harm she makes her slow journey up each Chakra system until she passes upwards to your sinus cavities reaching your third eye and filling your seventh Chakra with pure bliss and light allowing you to feel samsara a state of complete bliss and enlightenment.

If you can envision this for yourself then you can be your own Shaktipat and you can imagine and focus on all your Chakras filling with pure light and healing energy receiving all the Blessings from the Universe in your own time without pain and without a sense of rush.
March 31, 2012 2 Comments

Consciously Awaken Your Anahat Chakra to Bliss ♥♡

♡♥ Consciously Awakening Your Anahata Chakra to Bliss ♥♡

Your Heart is the Most intelligent Muscle in your Body. Be proud of who you are and share yourself freely with others. Be open to receiving praise and be open to bliss ~>♥ the Path of least resistance is the Easiest Path to follow ~> ♥

♡ Your Anahata Chakra ♡

Your Heart Chakra is centered in your sternum a thriving shade of green when she is at her healthiest strumming her chords of infinate trust and joy just like a musical instrument you play ♬♫

She is the Anahata Chakra literally meaning “un-struck.”

The heart chakra has subtle chords that sound similar to guitar or violin strings being plucked. For this reason we like to use tuning forks and gentle toning sounds using our vocal chords to open up the heart chakra and envelope her in a cradle of sweet harmonious sounds. If you think about it we are all vibrating instruments of sound affecting each other’s vibrations with our pitch and our unique forms of verbal expression. It is for this reason that we only wish to express ourselves in the most harmonious and pleasing way to carefully allow our partner’s heart chakra to open up in complete trust. Any discordant or jangling sounds simply do not offer anything of value to our heart chakra and we wish to shift the energies of our hearts using only the most pleasing of sounds and choosing our words wisely lest we upset the gentle balance of our heart flow. Feeling butterflies in one’s stomach is also in direct co relation to the heart center because you first sense love and excitement by activating your heart chakra and her subtle energies have a direct influence on your lower chakra bodies like your solar plexus which is the chakra directly below your Anahata. Our dreams, our ideologies and our thoughts are all directly influenced by how our heart chakra perceives the world and whether or not our heart chakra feels safe to express her love freely without threats from an outside source or from emotional wounding and mistrust. ♬♫

You use your Anahata Chakra to heal and send unconditional love to others using your compassion. This does not mean you blindly allow others to take advantage of you but it does mean you are willing to give someone a chance to affect you. When you formulate opinions with an open heart you are able to give and receive love without fear of rejection or paranoia. It is only the experience of repeat abuse from others that we learn to close our heart chakras and learn not to give love so readily so you must learn to “check” yourself every now and then and learn not to judge everyone but allow love in from a view point of an innocent child even if it means you must willingly take a chance. Sometimes we lose the great opportunity of Divine connection if we continuously make the same mistake of coming from a place of judgement. State your boundaries in a loving way but do allow someone into your heart with new “eyes”.

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We know our Heart Chakra is in balance when you feel a free energy and newness in your body. You are like a child with your hands in the air~>ungrounded and self accepting and others. You are blindly trusting and compassionate towards all beings and the thought of being potentially betrayed or mislead will never occur to you for you are as a child beaming your light and love wisdom to all.

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And like a Sun Child ☼ openly giving and receiving love, you are enabling your Heart Chakra to receive more trust and more inner light strengthening her inner chords and tuning her strings. The Heart Chakra manifests ideas into reality. She is the Core the Solar system that Cleans and purifies the upper and lower chakras. This is called Heaven on Earth because the Spritual body meets the physical body and anything is possible and We become the Manifestors of our own realities. It is very important for you to NOT LOOK A GIFT HORSE IN THE MOUTH. Too many times we make the mistake of doubting our Heart’s natural ability to manifest and we manifest a most powerful wish only to doubt our ability to receive it once we create that reality. This happens when we do not know how to receive pleasure with grace and humility. Sometimes we are simply overwhelmed when we are in the position of receiving pleasures and we might turn away from it because we feel we truly do not deserve it — we feel unworthy deep inside. This of course is self deceptive and does not serve you. I must always remind myself that once my heart leads me to success and rewards I must humble myself and say to myself that yes I truly do deserve this gift and yes I am worthy of being honored and deeply cared for and I am a beautiful soul wothy of being adored.

Now if your Heart Chakra is out of balance you might be too flighty and non focused so you are not in your personal power and others might take advantage of you because you are sending that message out to the Universe that you are not in your body and you are not in your heart integrity.

If your Heart chakra is shut off you might feel deeply alienated from others and you might isolate yourself because you lack faith and you are now afraid of incurring further hurt. You will stop reaching out to others and you might stop attempting any contact because you feel your situation is now hopeless and nothing can remedy the pain in your heart. You might feel bogged down with the depression and you can lose your ability to create and manifest. Stop this! We can all lose ourselves in self pity and yes it is good to honor your feelings of deep pain so wallow in this grief and honor your heart as she weeps but make sure to care for her gradual awakening with loving thoughts and self massage and beautiful music to heal her in your own time. Shutting your heart chakra down for any extended length of time is a dangerous proposal you should not invest in for too long. We need sunlight and encouraging words even your own hands placed in stillness over your sternum is a wonderful medicine for Heart Chakra and acknowledging her strength and courage will gradually reawaken her chords ♡ so she can remain “un – struck”.

Being Jealous likewise harms your fragile Heart chakra. If you are jealous you push away love. Because the heart chakra is directly affiliated with the Air element it is wise to be like the air and freely allow the energy of constant flux and change to shift her chords and change her pitch. You can not greedily “hoard and stow away love” when it should be freely given and received. Allow love to restore you and accept it for what it has for you “in the moment” in that space and in that time. Try not to label or compartmentalize the love you feel. Try not to question it or question someone’s motives for you. Just be in a state of blissful acceptance and do not allow yourself to cave in inwards just let your sternum open wide when receiving a loving compliment and see the difference in your energy as you learn to open wider and soften your heart chakra to receiving more and more love from outside sources.

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How can we open up our Heart chakra even wider? You might find this answer so basic but the easiest answer is the practice of mindful meditation. When you focus on your heart chakra you clear your ego and simply allow your emotions to take over giving your mind a much needed rest from all its mindless inner “chatter”. How can one clear their mind of negative self talk? You do so by laughing and giving your mind a mental vacation. Just once be light and free and if you can go outdoors in the open air to enjoy the element of wind then take some time to surround yourself in the elements and feel the full force of the wind rushing through the hollows of your heart chakra. Open your chest cavity wide and arch your back backwards taking in all the pranic energy from the sun and feed off the warm beaming rays as she melts into your Anahata. If you can not go outside then open as many windows in your home as you possibly can and get some circulation going on and just tune into the sounds of the wind pelting against your window pane. Have some window chimes next to you and delight in the sounds of chimes as they make music to the air stirring up your heart chords in melodic unison. ♬♫

Meditation
The Buddhist monks call this meditation “metta” or acts of loving kindness so allow the air element to empower you and flow through you as you become one with your heart or ONE Big Heart Entity ♥♡

And now for Self Affirmations as a Self meditative Tool ♁

“I empty my heart of Hurt, shame, guilt and pain”

“I am a firmly grounded Being but my Spirit body is free to fly”

“In infinite joy I was made to be free and open to receive unconditional love and bliss”

” I am a Soul deserving and able to receive unconditional love from the Universe and other Beings”

“I welcome only unconditional love into my life for I deserve to be Seen as the Divine and Unique Creation I am”

“I open my heart in complete Faith and blind trust and I am able to accept myself in complete love and share my truths and my love with others without fear of being judged”

“I am able to forgive my past hurts and dissapointments and I am open to the possibility of receiving infinite joy”

“I am able to share myself with others and share my truths with others without fear of being punished or judged”

” I can release my guilt and open my heart to lightness”

“I am a Being of change and the element of air supports my changes and guides me to a place of inner joy”

“I am able to trust myself more and my own judgements without relying on others approval”

“My heart Chakra is full of compassion and trust for myself and others”

If you can share your compassion with others and have pity and unconditional forgiveness for your past mistakes you can move on and reap the benefits of seeing your dreams manifest into reality. When you are ready to see yourself as a Divine Being you are finally able to reap what you sow and enjoy the profits of your harvest. Your greatest most richest commodity is your heart. Don’t doubt yourself. When you receive a compliment gush out and give that person a huge hug and thank them for being your admirer and Your Mirror. We can only see our reflections more clearly when we take the time to clean our mirror and sweep away the debris of self doubt and guilt. Forgive your past mistakes. Learn from your mistakes. Shift your energies with complete forgiveness and you will find out that it is so much easier to move freely from a place of self love rather than a place of mistrust and self loathing. We only stand in the way of ourselves when it comes to our Heart’s true potential. Learn from your mistakes and give of yourself freely. The path of least resistance shall and will always be unconditional love without blocks and without restraints.

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Your Heart is the Strongest Muscle in your body. Use her strength and inner Wisdom to keep you in touch with your Dreams and Tap into your Higher Vibrations . We were made to be loved and loveable ♋ So Be loved! And when you face yourself in your vanity Mirror today say the following really loud ~~> I DO SEE THE DIVINE IN YOU! ♡♥

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February 28, 2012 No comments

What is Tantra? Is Tantra Yoga Purely Sex? by Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly

Unfolding The bliss Goddess Diana Tantra butterfly

What is Tantra? Is Tantra Yoga Purely Sex?

Is Tantra Sex? Well Is Tantra Sex? I like to think of Tantric Yoga as the teaching of tolerance, self preservation, boundaries and at last self love. So many potential students call me on the phone and they are not sure what they are looking for but they know they want to be touched and understood. They know they are seeking a change in their outlook either in the way they approach intimacy with their love partner or in the way they wish to hopefully ignite more passion in the sensual well being.
Sometimes we simply shut down our sensual appetites and energies and we are focused on maintaining our daily work routines only cohabiting with our mate. But we as human beings crave touch and even though we can live in a state of temporary denial our bodies will eventually lead us to feed those simple and most basic of human needs — the sacredness of touch and intimacy.

So again I ask of you. Is Tantric Yoga sex? Is Tantric yoga simply the study of having the most mind blowing sex you might ever have with your beloved? Each time I meet a new friend on the street they will always want to know what it is I do for a living and I smile and say I am a Tantric Yoga Educator and I teach couple’s tantra. They might be embarrassed or a light bulb will brighten in their crown chakra and they will beam and say “Oh I know what Tantric Yoga is! You teach people how to have better sex!” I smile a little to myself and I let them know that I go through rituals of celibacy where I maintain breathe and I simply coach couples on how to better preserve their sexual energy and learn the practice of Conscious touch. Yes learning the all important touch that activates your heart space and sends that loving energy into your partner’s body is what I teach and it does not necessarily involve sex but it does enhance your ability to be more sensitive, more thoughtful with your lover and better able to tune into your own body as you feel the energy pulsing through in a constant loop from your heart to your lover’s heart and back to you again.

Yes, everyone wants to understand the allure of Tantric Yoga and the role of the Dakini as the Sacred healer who plays the role of Sacred goddess and all nurturing being in the sacred art of Kundalini activation.

So many women visualize the Kama Sutra and they envision sexy Temple Dancers who seduce their lovers and who seem to know the mysteries of exotic sexual positions to keep their lovers content and happy so they will never think of straying. The art and the act of seduction is what most people think of when they conjure up thoughts of spicy tantric sex. Who wouldn’t want to learn
how to become a temptress or a Tiger or Tigress in bed? We have all seen movies at least once in our lifetime of Bollywood and the gorgeous and bold dancers who ultimately tease, entice, enthrall and control the object of their affection simply by rolling their eyes a certain way and swaying a bit of gauzy material seductively over their hips to increase their lover’s desire.

But is this the true reality of tantric yoga? Are we going to base our opinions on Bollywood and art and smoke and mirrors? Of course it is fun to play dress up and wear bindi or use henna to decorate our beautiful goddess bodies. But I try to avoid taking on students who are seeking pure fantasy and not the opening of pure energy that is shared between a Goddess and her student. Of course I do not mind a bit of role play and all allusion can open doors of pleasure, self discovery and some simple laughter which is healing too. But I would prefer to give someone a gift a new toy to play with so to speak in their trunk filled with old toys that no longer serve a purpose. I would prefer to take someone to a place of safety and complete self acceptance so that their doors are open to even more healing and better opportunities for greater love interests to come their way. There is no short cut to great sex. Great sex is a bonus when you can combine your heart muscle, your compassion to your love muscle your power of abundance. The two power centers once activated and combined can not only increase your intuition and abundance but can lead you to a permanent fountain of youth as you learn the art of having Tantric orgasms rather than short lived primal sex without focus.

My journey as a healer began 15 years ago when I learned the power of the chakra systems and I decided that I wanted to expand my practice of sensual massage and learn the practice of tantric yoga since I needed to learn how to incorporate the breath in my work. I never really focused on my own breathing practice or ritual and I never understood why certain healers were breathing so heavily when they did energy work or rolfing on me. I finally realized it was time for me to let go of my fear of learning and let go of my ego so I could learn the right way to take in the breathe completely. I will now relate a story of one of my workshops I took in Hawaii — a workshop that helped to change my outlook on what tantra truly is and what profound energies are opened up during a group self discovery class.

I remember one workshop I attended lead by a Charles Muir. A young and attractive woman he was dating was chosen as the class demo for the honoring of the yoni namely The Goddess Worship session. This woman, a theatrical and ravishing red haired goddess was very much in touch with her divine feminine and she was well aware of her gifts and her allure as a healer and muse. She was dressed beautifully like an Egyptian priestess and her long straight red hair hit her waist like sinewy snakes. Everyone’s eyes were pealed on her ivory skin– a garnet hip chain so delicately tracing the curves of her perfect hour glass shape. Each man and woman in the class was enthralled and could not keep their eyes off her natural beauty. It was as if the entire audience was hypnotized by the confidence she seemingly exuded. This was a woman who was in complete command of her divine feminine and she was there in a circle of classmates that all honored her divine feminine.

Namae was in complete ecstasy at one point and then alternatively cried and screamed out in pain as her g-spot was activated by our teacher. We were all well aware that Charles was not torturing her nor was he exuding any abnormal force on her pelvis or her sacred g-spot. We watched her writhing in pain and screaming for him to get out of her yoni and that it burned and he needed to get out of her immediately. We all watched deeply concerned and puzzled for we noticed only the most gentle of movements from his fingers and there was such a difference in her responsiveness from extreme pleasure to deepest torture. She later admitted to the class that she was molested as a child and certain explorations of her yoni could bring on the memories of this painful recollection and translated as a burning or extremely painful sensation.

She was very forceful and very expressive as the healing took place and her extreme vocalizations were piercing so that anyone witnessing her healing was deeply touched and reverent. We all bowed our heads in Namaste as the ceremony was concluded and the teacher gently withdrew his fingers from her yoni and thanked her for allowing us to witness her yoni’s healing.

We were left speechless and deeply impressed with her Goddess energy and the unfolding from bliss to agony and from agony to bliss.

One woman was brought to tears and she felt deeply inadequate and shared her fear with the entire group of men and women

that she herself was afraid that she might never feel that amount of pain, agony, ecstatic bliss and complete beautiful abandon

as this beautifully expressive Goddess who was just healed. She was so scared that she would feel nothing and she instantly compared her lack of expression as a form of deep wounding and inadequacy. She just exploded in tears and complete despondency and she shared her hopelessness with the group. Something deep within her psyche was triggered after viewing this great goddess healing. How would she be able to let herself go with such forcefulness and complete abandon as this wondrous red haired goddess who just shared her soul with the entire class watching on. Yes this work can shatter you. Yes watching a yoni healing can change your opinion of your own self worth and make you more self conscious about your own journey and the great steps you must take to heal yourself. But we learn to honor our own baby steps and we learn not to compare our progress with others’ evolution because we have our paths before us and we must honor our body’s cues.

That is what Tantra yoga can do for you. Tantric Yoga is not a path of instant gratification to ecstatic bliss . In fact you might have several rounds of Tantric Yoga healing sessions with someone you deeply trust and feel absolutely nothing. And that nothingness in itself is a rare gift because you are undergoing a healing. Healing need not be dramatic. Healing can take as little as one earth shaking session or it can take years of patient trial and error and diligence.

You might attend a few workshops and simply “never get it”. You might feel lost or unsure of yourself and your place with the others in your group. You have to understand Tantric yoga is a process and the energy you build up and the trust you build up with your own body and your partner are sacred stepping stones to enlightenment.

You might find your mind is willing but your body is just not quite there yet either because of poor health, poor nutrition, lack of exercise and or a deep wounding you have not fully confronted yet.

So is Tantric Yoga the art of simply having good sex? I like to think of Tantric Yoga as a healthy and sex positive way you can clear old and negative or outworn messages you send your body. Our bodies carry memories and the cells of our body carry your earlier childhood memories like imprints. A good tantric healing can present you with the unique opportunity to be yourself and simply let go of your will so you can let down your guard more. We bury so many repressed memories in our earlier childhood because sometimes that is what we need to do in order to survive and function with society and our day to day work. You can suppress only so much pain and the pelvis our second chakra can carry so many woundings that it becomes necessary to explore the terrain and unlock any keys that might be preventing you from receiving the bliss that is your birthright. Yes everyone deserves to feel pleasure and when we are allowed to feel this pleasure without shame or guilt we can unblock our creative life force and use these hidden joys as a source for a fountain of youth and to stimulate our pineal glands and the healthy secretion of our endocrine glands natural mood stabilizers and other hormones that promote a positive outlook on life.

Whether you are a man or a woman the second chakra represents creative life force and the opportunities to receive abundance so when you stimulate and send healing messages of unconditional love into your pelvis and use contraction exercise and pelvis thrusts you are opening up your second chakra and stimulating your waters. We call this stirring the waters in the Divine Feminine and whether your goal is to charge up and enliven your female energy (Shakti life force) or empower your male energy (shiva life force) your ultimate end result will be the unity between your entire chakra systems so that you are not cut off from your life force but you are reunited and empowered.

Tantra yoga therefore is the allowance of sexual abundance and the teaching of being present for your partner. The study of tantric yoga is not just the esoteric art of Divine Female and Divine Male; it is a practical, organic, healing and meditative practice that can enhance your ability to be more present and to be your more authentic self. Our goal is to extend and prolong the feelings of pleasure and to allow the pleasure to heal and empower our entire chakra system so we can draw up the divine sexual life force up our spinal column and activate our pineal glands allowing us to enhance our innate abilities and our psychic expansiveness and awareness.

It’s good to be grounded and to be aware of our physical bodies. People who suffer from sexual addictions can learn how to activate their heart awareness and become more empathic as a result of the heart and sacral chakra connection which forms a circular loop feeding itself and into each other. You can learn how to acknowledge your divinity and how to turn your baser desires into a more connective and intimate experience. Sometimes there is an imbalance and one is either overly sexually activated or they are completely shut down either from issues dealing with emotional traumas or physical abuse.

Being with a Tantric yoga practitioner that you trust can help you overcome these blocks and you do it with guided breathing techniques, creative visualization, toning and singing into the chakras and Conscious touch. In time you will learn the breathe and pulsation exercises almost like a good habit and it will be up to you to enhance these exercises with continued practice with a partner you trust at home and additional reading materials and workshops.

I find that the continued practice of Tantric yoga can alleviate stress, depression, self doubt and self consciousness. You will find yourself to be more confident and much more self aware. Your ability to state your boundaries will also be enhanced as you become more grounded and more aware of subtle energies. The act of prolonging sexual pleasure can take years off your appearance and the art of learning these tantric arts for the sake of creative life force can take away the pressure of performance anxiety because it is not so much the act of orgasm but the act of prolonging pleasure and your ability to feel pleasure. There is no true goal during a healing but the goal is open expression and expansiveness. So many times men feel the unnecessary pressure of performing for his lover and lasting longer but the art of tantric yoga keeps you focused on the act of intimacy and enjoying the moment of love making rather than the goal of simply achieving orgasm.

Just as it is unhealthy and unbalanced to be overly preoccupied with sexual energy and appetites it is also very dangerous to shut yourself off to pleasure and give up on the idea of feeling sexual energy ever again due to age or poor health. It is unhealthy and unnatural to ignore the first and second chakras and simply to pretend that your needs do not exist. If you shut down and close off one or more chakras you harm and hinder the healthy flow and abundant life force of the higher chakra systems and an imbalance can occur creating an unhealthy ripple effect which can ultimately hurt your physical and mental well being.

In conclusion I have an answer to your question. Is Tantra Sex? No you do not have to make love to someone in order to make Tantric love to their physical body. We are dealing with the chakra system a delicate system of circulating energy and you can easily learn to bring yourself to orgasm by becoming more proficient at opening your sexual energy with simple muscle exercises and focused breathing but this takes time, practice and patience. If your goal is to shift your energy and shift your consciousness then the natural flow of energy take place and the potential to receive Tantric Orgasms is within your grasp.

The study of Tantra helps you learn to alleviate your feelings of powerlessness or guilt. You can become more proactive as you learn to send healing and loving messages to your body as you create a healthy bridge connecting your higher chakras with your lower sexual chakras. We can not function if we cut off one chakra from the other almost like a “shadow box” effect. The chakra system simply does not work like that! Chakras are in constant flux shutting off and turning themselves on and always sending signals to each other. As you become skilled in the art of breath you are allowing your body to fully feed efficiently and heal and grow. You will eventually learn how to simply be in the moment rather than having to be in control. You will become more self aware and more self confident during your love making and you will get over your fears of intimacy. Ultimately the study of tantric Yoga is the study of honoring the Divine seed in yourself and to honor your sacred sexual energy as a Vessel of unconditional love and a fountain of inner healing and mental growth.
February 14, 2012 No comments

Tantric Love Making The Art of Traveling without Moving

Tantric Love Making Traveling without Moving

Subtle touch also known as “water touch” is the most healing and powerful form of shifting your partner’s energy. Everyone feels safe and if you remember that the aura is the opening portal to sexual energy then you can allow your heart and good intentions to set the right mood to heal your lover.

The physical body responds to sound, touch, taste, sight, ether and smell. We are sentient beings so powerful in our responsiveness that even the gentlest of touches can shift our well being.

Have you ever stepped into a room full of tension and chaos and just felt your neck muscles tighten up or your belly contract? These are all normal responses that your body reacts to based on the energy waves and patterns of your environment. Just like a sweet ripple effect the sound of laughter is so inviting and intoxicating that you would naturally wish to be a part of that joyous energy and you will enter and partake in that playful energy willingly almost like a healing balm.

Energy is free. If we learn how to breathe in this energy purely and deeply enough we need never feel a lack of. And if you have nervous tension or if you feel you have too much nervous energy that is not yours all you need to do is realize you can take in some nurturing deep breathes into your heart and your body naturally wishes to heal itself of drama and trauma.

All you need to remember before healing or touching your lover is to take in some nurturing, healing and loving deep breathes into your own heart chakra so that you can open up to more love in your heart space and be aware of all that loving and free energy from the Universe. Once your heart chakra is fully activated and pulsing with vitality you can then begin to sweep gently over the aura of your partner without even touching their body. Just by hovering over your lover’s body you are smoothing out their auric body caressing and making love to their aura their gentle energy imprint.

Our bodies are more yielding to a gentle non invasive stroke much like wind which gently moves a the tender and delicate wings of a butterfly. So sweep your lover’s energy body first and take your time playing with their energy almost as if you were tickling their energy with a peacock feather.

Using Sage or Sage wands is another perfect example of nurturing your lover’s energy bubble and sweeping out any chaos or debris or excess nervous energy from the day’s events. Make sure of course you leave the window slightly cracked open to allow the smoke to depart and allow the old energy to leave your home.

Aromatherapy is a delicate and mood enhancing elixir and all you need to do is carry some key fragrances such as lemon, lime, grapefruit, vanilla, lavender and any citrus scent to offer a selection and variety to your lover so they can choose which scent they intuitively need as a healing balm. We all gravitate towards certain “comfort” scents so some may prefer flowery, some spicy and pungent, citrus and astringent or bitter and robust. Have a variety of incense sticks and scents so that your lover feels comforted and more open to receive a healing and your touch.

Prepare the room in such a way that enhances calmness, serenity and beauty. If you choose to decorate the room or sacred space with fabrics and feathers choose colors your lover prefers. This is their ceremony so choose colors they gravitate towards. If you wish to use candles try and stick to one color only as this enhances harmony and simplicity. Set the stage for play and make it highly personal. Ask your partner beforehand if they have candle scent preferences and or colors and fabrics that make them feel comforted and not overwhelmed.

Use your voice in a soothing pitch and feel free to sing and hum into your lover’s body. This is called toning and the chakras and energy bodies respond to sounds so sing away and breathe and blow gently on your lover’s body before even laying one finger on their physical being.

Using all senses be creative as you introduce a variety of spices and foods that your lover might want to taste. You might want to have them bite into delicate spices or sweet delicacies as part of their tantric love making adventure.

Tantric love making should involve and engage all the subtle energies in the body before you even decide to engage in physical touch. Just close your eyes and breathe in all the possibilities. Each Sacred Ceremony is a chance for you to reconnect with your inner child and bring you closer to your intuitive divine seed.
January 29, 2012 No comments

My Goddess Eyes a Key to Tantric Love Making by Goddess Diana ☉☀

The simplest thing you can do on your way to improving and enhancing your love making is to create
a safe Mirror and Haven for your lover to gaze into.
Have you ever stared into a newborn’s eyes? Have you ever watched the way an infant just beams and gushes over with complete glee and complete trust — no holding back —no posturing just complete infinite infantile joy at the very presence of you as you capture their interest.

This is how we were born and this is what we need to remember and emulate on our daily journey to becoming the infinite Healer and Boundless Tantric Lover.

Remember that Phrase “Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder”? Have you ever been in a room and locked eyes completely mesmerized with a complete stranger someone you think you might really get to know.
The eyes begin the flirtatious stage of play and getting to know you.

And if the Eyes are the Mirror of Our souls what greater and powerful magic can we manifest just by allowing ourselves to deeply lock our gaze without any inhibitions or sense of self consciousness.
What can we do for our lover when they feel unloved or confused? Have you ever seen a mother bending over her crying child and lifting his/her chin cupping it delicately in her hand and lifting the child’s face so they can have eye contact?

All we need to do is remember we are simple Beings. We need to be acknowledged for our gifts, our Power, our Beauty and our Divine Grace.

Are you afraid of looking directly into your lover’s eyes because you do not feel worthy of being loved? How often do you stare into your lover’s eyes and without looking at their style of dress or their disheveled hair or their wrinkles or freckles just stare without judgment and stare as if you had never gazed at anything so beautiful as those eyes before you.

When you find time this week just take time to sit across from your lover and do nothing but simple be in the moment taking this hour as a unique opportunity to open up that portal of unconditional love.
Hold hands and breathe in eachother’s divine Essence and gaze into their eyes as if you had never never encountered any art work more profound than the eyes you are blessed to gaze into.

If you can be in this moment of bliss together you are performing a ritual known as Tantric Love making. So many people overlook that the love begins in you and you have that power and ability to heal someone’s wounds just by acknowledging that Star Seed they carry and silently greeting them in a locked eye gaze as if to say “I see you God/Goddess I see the God/Goddess in you.

One thing that attracts me most are the eyes. Some women might say they are attracted to good hair or teeth or a strong, muscular and lean body build. For me it has always been and always shall be the eyes. The eyes hold mystery to me. The eyes are like balm to the Soul and the Eyes are a Dream Pool of fantasy and Reality as we can not hide who we truly are when we take time to “see” without boundaries and judgment.

Can you yourself stare into a Mirror and look upon yourself in awe? Can you see the Bright being you truly are and how very lucky you are to have the power of Manifestation and Beauty right before you? We are born with complete trust not tasting the bitter seed of prejudice, or mistrust or cruelty. We only learn this behavior as we age and as we grow in our environments. But children SEE through unclouded vision. They simply are Beings of light and the Beam that Miraculous light back to us as we can’t help but stare into their Open souls.

You can captivate an Audience through direct Eye contact. You can mesmerize the man/woman of your deepest desires when you let your barriers down and send them a pure and sincere gaze. You can tell the difference when someone is being themselves and at ease just by the way they lock eyes with you but you can also tell when someone is disinterested in you if they look away almost as if to say you are not worthy of their time.

Try this the next time you have an interest in someone. Just lock eyes with them not in a threatening or confrontational way but in a way that sends comfort and peace of mind.

We make love through the eyes. Be mindful of how you use your treasured Jewels today.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com