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Goddess Diana ❤ Benefits of Tantra Massage in Chicago ♡

Tantra is a skill and a form of meditation that has been practiced by Tibetan monks, Buddhists and Hindus for well over 9000 years. We can trace Tantra yoga’s origins to the mountains of India where religious sects practiced sexual, sacred ceremonies called Pujas for a specific purpose such as planting seeds of abundance for a good harvest or simply leading one to a path of higher enlightenment by using sexual energy as a magical component to awaken the third eye via Kundalini Shakti.

Today people are intrigued enough to meet with a Tantra provider to see if there is anything Tantra can do for their emotional frame of mind or simply out of complete curiosity.

Today’s culture embraces a more pragmatic ritual where we combine a full body hands on healing rather than a random puja ritual of meeting in a sacred circle to team up with a complete stranger for a sacred sexual act to consecrate the land.

Modern Tantrikas invest their time in you– teaching you the right way to breathe fully and connect with you so that you are fully in the moment and not distancing yourself or detaching from your own body.

Modern tantra yoga involves full body Tantra Massage, belly breathing, eye gazing, mutual touch, mutual connection, and opening up your boundaries during peaks of pleasure. All your erogenous zones are awakened playfully and are used to tenderly heal your old emotional wounds to prepare you for sacred space.

You will learn to give up your need to control as your tantra guide stimulates your sexual energies with compassion and slow, soothing strokes. This is not about an end result nor is tantra about obtaining an orgasm.

Tantra helps you use your own sexual energy as medicine for your body. If you have a hard time falling asleep at nights your tantra session will help get you in a more relaxed frame of composure; but if you are too tired all the time tantra can also give you that extra zing for life and boost your energy level because Tantra can either be a stimulant for those who are too tired to function or it can act as a sleeping aide for insomniacs. Your body will determine what it needs from the tantra session so what ever does happen will be for the best.

Here are some wonderful reasons to try a tantra session for the first time.

1. Relax and Restore your Body and Mind

Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.

I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation

My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.

Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.

As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

3. Emotional Healing

One’s journey into Tantra involves emotional healing and the pealing of all your layers so that you evolve and become more open and honest with yourself. Tantra is designed to help you receive love with a more open heart.

As I teach you breathing techniques your chest cavity is more open and this leads to emotional healing and more heart openness. You will deal more honestly with yourself rather than burying your feelings.

You might find yourself crying or laughing during your state of openness and all this leads to greater compassion for yourself and others. Your emotional blocks are skillfully addressed during an extended ceremony as you let down your shields and learn the art of self acceptance.

When you learn how to receive pleasure and unconditional love your self esteem grows and your relationship with others is enhanced and improved.

4. Experience PEACEFULNESS AND Pleasure

Peace of mind is achieved during our shared Tantra ceremony. We will both experience mutual pleasure because I love making sure you are enjoying yourself and getting lost in the moment which brings me pleasure because I love making people feel good.

Your pleasure will come in many forms which includes complete muscle relaxation, full body waves of bliss, emotional restoration and the physical release that comes from having a spiritually infused orgasm which is called Kundalini Shakti activation and leads to even more bliss.

5. Tantra leads to Self awareness

The true goal of any tantra student is to attain Nirvana in a very natural and non invasive way. As I teach you how to breathe deeply into your Chakra bodies I may have you visualize that your pineal gland is getting brighter and clearer and this helps activate your Crown chakra leading you to a greater connection to Source.

As you gain trust in your ability to connect to a higher Power or your own inner power you begin to trust in your inner voice and inner intuition. There will be no more room in your life for self doubt; you will simply trust yourself each time you schedule a tantra session. Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to breathe and simply “Be” the more you will begin to have faith in yourself rather than relying on others to guide you.

6. Your Quality of Life Improves

Tantra yoga teaches you self discipline because we do everything slowly together and I teach you how to curb your impulses and your natural inclination to get to the “good stuff” first.

Whether you decide you wish to hire me to focus on your pleasure only or you wish to learn the art of sexual orgasm I am here to teach you how to touch with intention and with slowness so that you are not rushing into anything for the sole purpose of an end goal.

There is no end result we need to achieve. Our shared time is considered sacred and life in itself is an act of celebration and we make mistakes and learn along the way. Its okay to make mistakes and repeat sessions for the sake of learning how to slow down.

We focus on the present moment and we are not worried about where you were or what you need to become. We share a moment in time during our tantra ceremony and I teach you how to expand time so that you can no longer feel the passage of time and space.

Men who are concerned about ejaculatory control or premature ejaculation will find benefits to spending time practicing tantra massage and tantra breath with me. I will make sure you are not worried about an end result. You will feel more composed and secure so that your quality of life will improve as you keep yourself focused on the now.

8. Acquire Abundance

So you are probably wondering how abundance comes into play with our sacred ceremony. After all you are spending good money to see me and you wish to invest your money into a positive experience that will potentially benefit you emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially.

There is a special sacred ceremony we can partake in together during your session and it is called a Muladhara Chakra awakening or prostate activation.

Prostate massage is a gateway to help you establish a better sense of trust and self awareness. You learn to let go as I gently penetrate you with my finger and send you healing but powerful energy that will help awaken your kundalini energy and bring you the abundance you crave.

I personally find that men who are by nature very secure in their ability to make a good living love prostate massage the most and they are completely open and trusting feeling waves of insurmountable pleasures as I activate their prostate.

It is interesting to note that men who have a hard time giving up “control” and men who do not feel completely secure have a tendency to tighten up and feel nervous as I attempt to activate their kundalini energy this way.

Everything takes practice and patience and if the thought of acquiring abundance intrigues and excites you; but the thought of being penetrated repulses and alarms you then we can take slow steps getting you to the point where you trust me enough to stimulate you in this way.

I can assure you that if this idea appeals to you but you are too afraid you can let me know your boundaries ahead of time and I can still activate your prostate from the outside without fully penetrating your anal area.

Energy is energy and intentions can carry energy just as skillfully as a more firm touch or caress.

9. Combat Stress and Fatigue

Tantra massage is a gateway to helping you combat fatigue and stress due to adrenal fatigue failure.

During my sessions I place a very strong emphasis on your core which is your third Chakra or solar plexus. Your solar plexus is your mini solar system and helps you with your intuition as it helps you with body signals.

I am sure you know what it’s like to feel butterflies in your stomach right before a performance, a speech or before meeting with someone you have deep feelings for.

Your stomach carries a great deal of stress and so I will be massaging your tummy during our session so you can feel safe and loved. This massage aides your digestive system and encourages your body to produce less cortisol so you are not in a constant state of fight or flight.

If you see me on a regular basis I can assure you you will be on your way to greater rest, less stress, and you can start losing weight with ease.

During your belly massage I will encourage you to take deep, slow belly breaths and all this deep breathing will improve your energy levels and get oxygen flowing to your brain and other organs decreasing your fatigue and helping you to get to a prolonged feeling of ecstasy when we address your erogenous zones.

Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantra massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantra focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress levels as a result of your tantra ceremony.

In summary if you want to gift yourself the pleasure of unsurpassed sensuality, dedicated deep tissue massage and the ability to withhold and sustain heightened sensory awareness then call me immediately and schedule an extended tantra ceremony with me soon!

Please read my personal website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of ceremonial options then call me directly 312-339-7707

Goddess Diana
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*
Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Couples Massage and Couples Tantra in Chicago ♥❤

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.

You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breath into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.

I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.

I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.

My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist

Tantra Massage and Tantra Therapy in Chicago and all cities to keep you feeling loved ♥

So hello again everyone who takes the time to keep up with my blogs and Tantra musings.
Yes as you can see I am a fan of Amy Winehouse I just wish I could have had the opportunity to work with her in person and maybe help heal her heart Center and get her feeling more aligned and good about herself.

The main reason I write here is writing is very enjoyable for me and if you have not discovered my main website I would love for you to click onto to it and read my testimonials and the articles. I have not done any recent photo gallery changes because I was not particularly inspired with a special theme but I am getting close to a complete change soon enough and will do updates to my photo gallery once I change my “look” again.

I invite you to please click onto my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and when you feel the urge to finally meet me please set up a special time when you know you won’t be interrupted so you can finally taste tantra for yourself and understand how it is a building block to get you to better lifestyle changes.

In the meantime I do have facebook pages for you to enjoy and you can look up my pages which are Tantra Butterfly, Goddess Diana and Camouflage Butterfly. I have been on every form of social media for quite some time now because I want you to know I have nothing to hide and I am not ashamed of the career path I have chosen since I was in my early twenties.

I have copied and pasted some information for you from my facebook pages so feel free to visit my pages and like them on facebook if you feel inclined to support my cause.

Tantra Butterfly
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Hello beautiful people of Chicago! So I have not written anything here for a while but I do have a regular blog where I try and keep people informed of my visits to different cities and topics that interest me.
If you have not had time to view my blog please visit it here at http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com and I have written many essays when I am on road trips and when I return to Chicago.
As fate would have it I am still here visiting Chicago and I normally do not like spending my winters here but enough people from my past have kept me busy enough to warrant me staying for a while longer and I get requests once in a while from people out of town who wish to try one of my full day tantra retreats.
What I have learned about tantra is it keeps you in “hope”. A lot of people reach out to me because their energies are shut down and they have just left a relationship. Our chakras do shut down from non use and initially a chakra will shut down for its own protection but if you over do it you begin to realize that the shut down chakras like your heart energy or sensual centers can close down your creativity and all our energy centers flow into each other so you may notice or feel stagnation like you are in a stuck place and do not know where to start to get the energy flowing again.
When you are in love then you feel more “hopeful” about everything and challenges are not complicated because you feel supported from your loved one. Your body takes on a glow and you feel a rush of good vibes. Once your love is no longer there in the background like a loud support team you feel almost as if the love was never real at all. I am not saying all people feel crushed but typically there is a grieving process where your heart mourns and you are feeling a retreat and or a retractions of energy. Everything becomes more of a chore again and you are less inclined to want to socialize immediately.
if you find yourself feeling like you are no longer yourself you need to resist the temptation to keep to yourself indefinitely and consider participating in life again which means you should force yourself to attend plays, group activities and fun events by yourself or with platonic friends so you feel you can support your own joy.
I always welcome singles and couples to work with me when they are not feeling that “joy”. Your inner well being is very complex and you can’t expect yourself to be a lone wolf or solitary every day of the year. Pets are wonderful companions and we find kinship and solace from their company and unconditional love but they still depend on you so you should practice positive self care on a daily basis and pour self love into your heart just as much as you love your animals or your closest friends.
Let me be your support system when you feel you are ready to start opening up your chakras again. I have many sacred techniques I love to use and cuddling is one of them. I am a huge fan of massage and cuddles to help you feel so alive and refreshed that you are back to feeling more like you.
Every tantra muse or healer is here to help you feel more nurtured, more awakened and more abundant. Tantra keeps you here not there in the past mulling over regrets. I am not here to reprogram you but I am here to help you charge up your own chakra bodies and your own potential for self healing.

We need more than food, shelter and money to keep us feeling in tune. If you go without nurturing for too long it will affect your motivation and your creative purpose. Let me help you manifest more positivity in your life and I hope you feel motivated to call me for a tantra healing if you are in Chicago this week.

And I encourage you to call me with questions because I do know not everyone is familiar with what I do and there are many misconceptions and false assumptions.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse,
Tantra Yoga Educator
Lomi Lomi Massage therapist
Bodyworker
Healer
Chakra balancing
Sacred Space Facilitator
Couples Tantra Coach
312-339-7707

Beat the Winter Hibernation syndrome in Chicago with your Tantra Muse!

the-shining-jack-nicholson-stanley-kubrickWell I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.

So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.

So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.

My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.

I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!

Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.

Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.

You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.

During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.

Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.

I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.

Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.

Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.

If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.

Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!

Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
Muse
Tantra Massage therapist
Sound Healer
Rebirthing breath

Current Advertisers I Suggest you Boycott the Eros Guide indefinitely till Changes are made to benefit you.

diana-soft-focus-nudes-tantra-butterflyAs the title of this blog states I am strongly urging all current advertisers to formally BAN the site known as http://www.erosguide.com indefinitely until changes are made to benefit YOU the consumer.

You are the consumer. You pay a ton of your money to receive inferior services. I know this because I do remember when the eros guide was actually a great place to find wonderful clients. I remember when my phone “used to” ring off the hook because the earlier version of the eros guide was basic and much more pleasing to the eye. Now as you notice the site now known as http://www.erosguide.com has been taken over by a new group of people and the original owner who was a former prostitute/sex worker no longer owns this business.

You the consumer hold all the cards not the other way around. If everyone would simply not use the eros guide for several months I can assure you many positive things would happen. I found out the hard way that long years of loyalty meant nothing to them. They certainly no longer needed my business because I was just pennies to them and not a real human being with genuine feelings. Eros guide did not care about my well being and they do not care about you. All it takes is for you to use one word that they deem “illegal” and you are banished promptly from their site and all evidence of your ad will be destroyed forever. They won’t let you argue your way back or listen to you. You will be another banned useless commodity because the truth is Eros guide is also a privately owned Brothel.

About a year ago after I was banned I noticed a change in the way I was being treated. My opinions were ignored and instead of positive changes made I did notice the eros guide was actively seeking “models’ or paid sex workers and they wanted these new women to send them Id’s and photographs. All women who were attractive and between the ages of 18 to 36 were encouraged by the eros guide to send in their information online and if they were selected they could earn 2,000 and up to 5,000 per week as “models’ or escorts in New York city. I saw this ad because I researched top escort sites on google in New York city. I found that ad quite by accident and the ad stated that these women could have a two week trial period just to see how it worked out. I believe in all fairness that eros guide is now serving as a huge “brothel” and has every desire to promote their privately hired entertainment prospects and get rid of people like me and other well known major providers in the industry that serve as a threat to their personal adult entertainers or shall we say it—prostitutes and GFE’s.

There is nothing wrong with being a GFE or a prostitute but it is highly unethical to promote a handful of women and play favorites allowing these women to say what they wish to say in their ad copy then get rid of innocent women like me whose accounts are being closely monitored and restricted then BANNED permanently.

I also remember a time when I called the eros guide because I noticed changes to my text were made and I could hear a manager in the background scream out “oh it’s that BITCH again…”

So here we go again. If you want to advertise at the erosguide I can’t stop you but just know there are women that receive special favors from the staff so that their ads are outstandingly attractive and there are other people like you and me who will eventually be BANNED for using a phrase they deem incorrect. In the meantime if you still advertise with the eros guide you are feeding their fat wallets and potentially exposing yourself to being victimized by undercover stings because police troll the eros guide much much more than backpages.com to receive their easy prey. If you advertise on http://www.erosguide.com the way it is now and they way it is currently corrupt you are playing Russian Roulette.

Here is more information including a conversation via email I conducted with the eros guide last week when I was invited to enjoy a premier service because of my “loyalty”. Obviously the eros guide made a huge mistake and forgot that they banned me. When I applied to get back on I was told to send money first then told I was Banned. If you are into “bait and switch” then by all means continue to use the eros guide.
Dear potential consumer of the new http://www.erosguide.com I wish to share the following information with you since I do have experience in the adult industry and I have been a well known advertiser with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 15 years since the very beginning of its inception.

I am suggesting all current advertisers to STOP advertising with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 6 month period until certain changes are met. You may be a new advertiser and you may have witnessed that some of your friends are currently being BANNED WITHOUT DUE CAUSE OR ANY PRIOR WARNING.

This new site http://www.erosguide.com is not the same ENTITY I enjoyed working with when it was just starting to become a huge “hit” on the internet. I used to religiously use the Chicago Reader when I first worked in this Adult industry and to be honest the true chaos began when I decided to enroll in a FREE advertisement as a trial basis for the new eros guide that was soliciting me and others in my industry for business.

In the very beginning we were treated with genuine kindness and respect. We had a great template that allowed us to upload a series of pictures of us fully nude without childish restrictions. We could write as much text as we wished and there were no “bad” no no words that would get us BANNED or BANISHED indefinitely and or without prior warning.

Everything was peaceful (at first) but then Erosguide.com decided to ad features, reduce the body of our text and change our pictures into tiny square blocks you had to click onto. Visually the erosguide.com was no longer aesthetically pleasing to the eye and of course customer service always encouraged your feedback but nothing would be done to pacify the advertiser. Our pricing was promptly hiked up but I noticed fewer callers and some clients told me the erosguide.com was harder to navigate.

I had no idea what was going on but as the years rolled by I did notice all these cumulative changes and new restrictions on photos were hurting my potential to attract new customers to me. I had to choose words that no longer offended and my one sentence which included the word “I will help you find your inner child” was BANISHED AND DEEMED FILTHY BY upper management at the erosguide.com.

Now my intentions were good so I suggested we change the word to inner psyche and so these small changes in wording were made. I however noticed a huge HYPOCRISY going on in upper management because while my ads were being picked apart there were other advertisers allowed to infer many more graphic and lurid sexual details in the body of their lengthy ads.

I even mentioned to customer service that other women in my field were mentioning the words “edge Play” and other women were allowed to include prose and poetry from well known authors but when I wished to include a phrase from Alice in Wonderland and gave credit to the author I was chastised for it and the few sentences were removed without reason or warning.

I still see so many ads on the current erosguide.com that is allowed to intimate “suggestive” sexual connotations and yet my harmless phrases “yoni healing” and “multiple waves of bliss” were removed and even when they were removed permanently I was BANNED the very next day from “Tim” from the legal department.

I was even given permission to use the word “yoni” by Lisa who was assigned to me about two years ago. I told her I no longer wanted to use the term “Goddess Worship” because callers were confused and expected me to offer them BDSM rather than a tantra healing and education about the “yoni”. I wanted to attract men and women who were already very comfortable in their bodies and had some prior experience in yoga and or tantra massage. My intentions were good when I picked that word and if you google the word Yoni it has many varying meanings and is Sanskrit for womb or birthplace. It can also mean lotus flower or “female genitalia” but according to the new rules on eros last summer it no longer met their standards. I was given a very frantic phone call by Lisa who was a nightmare for me to deal with explaining that the word yoni is not allowed and figure out something else. She suggested Yoni healing and or Yoni education and or yoni training. I complied and allowed her to make a living mess of my once beautiful advertisement.

I allowed Lisa to butcher my ad and remove words that other providers were using on their website. I let her make me look foolish online and then without any warning Tim from the legal department called me the next day and told me according to the “tape recorded” and “monitored” conversation that I had with “lisa” or Lysette or what ever they call her I was BANNED . So in essence I did comply with their rules; I did remove the necessary text and I see plenty of women that are their “favorites” receiving as much attention online as I used to receive but they are not BANNED OR BANISHED.

if you are a new customer expect the following treatment from the “nazi crew”
a. You will not be listened to when they ask for your opinions on ad
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I have so much proof that the Erosguide.com uses you the advertisor to money launder their more shady activities. They have cam girls online on their site 24/7 which by the way is a huge distraction and it makes it impossible for clients to even find an entertainer with all the pop up ads interfering. I saw many ads online where women are advised to apply for work as models in new york and honestly part of the reason that eros guide is okay with banning so many women is because they probably have their own privately owned brothel and using the eros portal as a front and advertisers who don’t know this are being used as “window dressing”.

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No one from customer service would explain anything to me other than I am BANNED and when I explained Lisa had given me permission to use a word instead of Lisa being fired I was FIRED for being a victimized client.

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Diana Grossman

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Dear Brenda,
apparently I was BANNED permanently 17 months ago because a new
account manager with an alias of Lisa who is now known as Lisette gave
me permission to use the word Yoni healing . Three months after she
told me the word was deemed acceptable she called me to have me remove
the term. I complied and asked her why my account was being picked
apart since I was a loyal customer of 16 years. I was Banned. You
are now responsible for sending me back my money order which I sent to
you in the amount of 130. Failure to comply will lead to me writing
about how you treat your loyal customers on my blog which comes up
number one on google and the BBB and rip off report.

Yours
Diana

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Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing, Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach, & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact: 312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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Healing aspects of Sensual Massage and Sensual Surrender

jean harlow faceHello! I am inspired to graze over the topic of sensual massage and Tantra Eros on my blog today. I can’t promise there is a cure all to what ails you but I can only offer my humor, healing presence and gentleness to teach you how to be more loving to your partner.
If however you have deep seated anger issues against your significant other or if you have an axe to grind against women in general I would prefer to suggest you seek professional counseling because my sessions are more suitable for men who love women and honestly I would prefer you seek counseling if you have passive aggressive tendencies.

I value anyone’s feelings who come to me for a sacred healing. I am currently visiting the Washington D.C. and Maryland borderline and I hope to attract men or couples who do have a desire for connection. I am not a licensed psychotherapist so if you feel anger towards your partner please seek a licensed therapist and I think you can move on with a greater perspective on your life and what’s eating you.

My sessions are for men going through hunger pains either due to physical illness, transitions in career paths or divorce. If you have been without touch my sensual massage sessions will include cuddling exercises that will help you feel more grounded and centered. I allow cuddling, mutual conscious touch, light feathery sensory touch and exercises that can amp up your energy into a full body tingling awakening. If you are ready for a full body kundalini activation I include male g-spot massage during my traditional tantra ceremonies and all tantra ceremonies include sensual touch. You may find my g-spot massage helpful if you are feeling a bit stuck in life or if you are doubting your ability to manifest what you want in your life.

Sensual Massage is good for your brain activity and your central nervous system. The lightest touch can make you feel more hopeful about life and help you find more creative approaches to problem solving. Sensual Massage does not always have to culminate in the most mind blowing orgasm because that may not be where your body is in the moment. There will be alternative times where you feel blissfully awakened and vibrating with energy and other moments when you feel trance like and calm. You might leave your body and drift off peacefully for a while as you receive my healing sensual touch but I will always allow you to be what you need to be in the moment.

Please join me this week in Washington D.C. for sensual massage, traditional tantra ceremonies and Reiki. I can to the best of my ability focus on your needs and I can promise positive results for as long as you are open to the healing aspects of sensuality without guilt or shame.

You are welcome to read my testimonials on my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/testimonials.htm and get a feel for what is possible. No two people can expect the same results but I can assure you what ever aspects you carry in your consciousness will come out more clearly after you receive a sensual massage or a traditional tantra activation.

Visit my main website for a full listing of offerings at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and feel free to ask me questions prior to your first visit. My best contact number is 312-339-7707 and feel free to address me as simply Diana.

Sensual massage is offered during my visit to Washington D.C. and I love to include essential oils, aromatherapy, reiki, tantra and breathing exercises to help lift you up and bring you to a brighter place. My sessions are best suited for men or women who are touch starved and who have an open and loving heart and or sensitivity to touch.

Hope to hear from you when you are ready to shift your energy.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Astral travelling while receiving Sacred Spot Massage during Kundalini Shakti

Maya Derren The relector (meshes)I promised I would write a brief essay on a couple of experiences I had with clients who did actually go into a lucid/dream trance and were able to coherently share bits and pieces after our session so we could both enjoy the story of their “whereabouts” in the astral plane!

The first incident and the most profound took place during a trip I made to visit San Diego, California a few days after my mother died of cancer. At the time I was living in New Orleans and visiting my mother once a month in Chicago while keeping my client base in Chicago. I decided to visit San Diego and walk along the ocean and I attracted one individual who said he’d always wanted a session with me and was following my website for a long time but we were never in the same city during his business travels.

He admitted to me that he practiced yoga and meditation for a long time now and he enjoyed vision quests, transcendental meditation and tantra yoga was now part of his path so he told me he was very comfortable with me exploring his sacred spot and to feel free at the end to do this since he had no boundaries and was excited to try anything.

I had some beautiful music and in the background a man was taking you on a journey to the depths of the earth and you could hear sounds of the cave and dripping water from caverns.

At the end when I was triggering his sacred spot I noticed he actually convulsed steadily and his eyes rolled back till all I could see were the whites of his eyes. He was no longer with me and I did not know how to pull him back in but I figured I would just let him ride and not panic. After his eyes were rolled back for a considerable time he spoke in an Ancient language that sounded like Ancient Hebrew or Aramaic but it was incredibly real and lovely to listen to. Again I refused to panic and I just held the space for him to do what he needed to do.

Finally after he was triggered into full body orgasm he came back to me gradually breathing deeply and I asked him if he remembered speaking in tongues.

He looked blankly at me and said he had no recollection but could I share with him what he was saying. I said I can’t translate ancient hebrew but it was beautiful like a reverent chant and I really was not sure of the language origin but it was pretty so i was not scared.

He did say he had visions during his awakening and he said it involved two different goddesses. The first Goddess that encountered him danced around him in circles and she had a gold body and long, blood red hair. She danced and left. The second Goddess was the white goddess and she had long, silver hair and as she danced around him he realized she was going to become famous and author many books on tantra yoga.

I did not know what to say but I thanked him for sharing his story with me. I do know one thing with regards to tantra yoga. If a student comes to you with a pre knowledge of proper breath and the yoga postures then he or she will have a more profound experience rather than just telling you they felt some “heat”. He obviously trusted me enough to go into the astral plane and just zone out there for a while so I was very grateful to be a witness to his journey!

My second experience with astral travels occurred years later in the city of Chicago. I met a really nice, slightly out of shape man with a huge teddy bear heart. He was just so open and caring and when he arrived at my apartment he hugged me and he kept saying repeatedly that he felt like he has known me forever.

He also gave me permission to work with his prostrate and again I noticed he got very quiet at me towards the last half hour of our session. We were still together and I could still feel his energy near me but somehow his breathing became much heavier sounding and when it was again time for his full body awakening his entire body became electrical like a wire overflowing with energies. I did bring him back to reality and I encouraged him to speak about his journey.

He told me he saw the two of us in a very dark room, dimly lit only by the light of candles. He was wearing a heavy ceremonial crown upon his head and he felt the vibe was joyful and festive rather than being sombre. He knew for a fact we were together enjoying a joyous occasion in Ancient Egypt. I was so excited to hear this and I wanted to know what I looked like because when I participated in a DNA activation ceremony in Boulder, Colorado I heard a song of the Goddess Isis during my activation ceremony so I knew I was of her DNA lineage and she had importance to me.

He said it was too dark for him to see my face clearly but he knew it was me from my energy and my vibration. Well you can’t believe how excited I was to share this experience with a new client whom I had never met before! I felt deeply grateful that he was able to remember such detail as he traveled back into one of his past lives with me.

If anyone needs to know why I am so passionate about assisting people with the Sacred Sensual energies I think it is the unknown and all the wonderful unexpected surprises you can find and feelings of deja vu when you meet new clients who seem familiar to you on your path.

It takes a strong sense of self to put yourself in such a vulnerable and open position and if you can let yourself zone out and can fully trust your body takes you places and your spirit tunes into Universal flow so easily and so readily. Being receptive to these sexual energies is a gift and involved maturity, trust, joy and complete openness. One thing both of these men had in common was inner joy and a blind belief in the miracles of energetic healing. Both men trusted me with their sacred energy implicitly without holding anything back and without any cynicism.

If anyone wishes to learn more Sacred Spot Massage there are wonderful authors everywhere on the internet who compile a collective of stories but you can only “conjecture” when you read a book. If you are brave enough and willing to let go then I welcome you to take your first step with Sacred Spot Massage and we can go as slowly as you need working within your comfort zone and your boundaries.

Please visit my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and if you feel ready and if you do feel a connection to me I would be flattered to be your first Tantra Muse on your new path to self discovery and greater body awareness. Your third eye takes it’s own sweet time to awaken and Sacred Spot Massage assists you in your awakening process with gentleness and arousal of all your erogenous zones.

Goddess Diana Sensual Muse
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(312)339-7707

Tantra Goddess Diana offering tantra healing in Washington and Maryland

Goddess Diana visiting Washington D.C. offering Tantra massage in D.C.

Goddess Diana visiting Washington D.C. offering Tantra massage in D.C.

I just arrived in Maryland a few days ago offering tantra to a handful of wonderful men fully in touch with their divine feminine! I always enjoy my trips to Washington D.C. and part of the reason for this post is that some clients from my past might be able to find me here again and reunite with me!
My main website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I began my journey in tantra in my early twenties but I actually started my studies in spirituality by age twelve.
What people don’t realize is part of my passion for tantra is the fact that I have always been fascinated with energy and as a child I used to have this ability to hear Spirit during moments of joy or stress. I also felt comfortable around so called “haunted” areas because I understood that energy is carried over and has a distinct feel to it no matter how many years have passed after an event took place.
I have lived in haunted lofts and apartments in both Chicago and New Orleans, Louisiana so when I work with people’s energy I am especially careful to make sure that when we part ways after our ceremony we seal off the energy circuits with dignity and I always make a silent prayer that our energies separate delicately from each other because when we work with sacred sensual energy we are a bit enmeshed in each other for a while and it’s very important to set up boundaries when we part ways.
I have not been to Washington D.C. in a while and I hope that while I am here the right people will be drawn to my healing services. I am familiar with Chakra balancing, polarity, deep tissue massage, and so many techniques to teach you how to prolong ecstasy. I am very skilled with working with men who have premature ejaculation issues or who just feel overwhelmed in general and need to feel a bit more in touch with their inner core.

I work with Reiki so if you are in Alexandria, Virginia, Maryland or Washington D.C. I would be delighted to teach you the sacred arts of the Goddess. i would love to teach you how to align yourself with your divine male and feminine energies again and help you unlock your sensual power centers in a safe and loving environment.

Please contact me directly with questions at 312-339-7707 and if you know you will be in Washington D.C this week or Maryland you will be pleasantly surprised at how quickly your body will retrain itself to receive greater full body bliss and awareness.

I am highly skilled with energy work while here in Washington D.C. and my training in alternative healing and deep tissue massage will place you in a mood to help you cultivate more joy in your life and even enhance your communication with others and your ability to create. When you work with me here my focus will be connecting with you and helping be in touch with your authentic self. We will connect with some easy breathing exercises that will help expand your ability to feel energy more profoundly and keep you fully present in the now.

Please visit my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of Ceremonial Options and if you are a couple I can also work with you both! I will be offering Sacred Tantra Ceremonies for men, women and all couples who live in Maryland, Virginia and Washington D.C. so Please contact me now while I am here and let me know what I can do to make you feel more passionate about life!

When we lead with our Hearts there are no expectations there is only Eros.

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Chie Yoshii Paciphae 2 5-27-14, 5/27/14, 2:02 PM, 8C, 4828×9531 (1702+562), 138%, Repro 1.8 v2, 1/20 s, R68.6, G67.3, B89.8

The following article I am about to write is not gender specific and I am addressing anyone who desires a true healing to take place with their partner just for the sake of healing and not for any secret agendas.

There is no great mystery about the sacred rites of unconditional love but many are challenged if they did not taste that loving energy from their parents. We all suffer from small healthy doses of narcissism because if we did not we would not have that desire to remain here and survive or defend ourselves.

How do we learn to love selflessly when we did not receive that healthy, comforting womb of protection as children? I work with adults who either were showered with positive reinforcement as children or who were molested, neglected completely or raised without hugs and kisses.

When you never had that safety net as a child how can you approach you approach a potential lover with confidence? If you were never comforted by either of your parents as a child how will you know the right cues or how to make your partner feel safe and loved?

I have been traveling for 16 months and enjoying my stays in various cities but there is a common thread I see. I see so many men having problems breathing fully or having issues gazing into my eyes when I am teach tantra yoga.

I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia and I have met some super people here fully in touch with their male and female energies and excited to create a bond and be nurtured.

I am also meeting men who feel to me as if they are rediscovering their spiritual nature and trying to grasp what it feels like to be out of their body and connected to Source.

What is Source? When I try and become a vessel to receive energy from Source I see it as Universal flow that I can use anytime I wish when I am low on personal energy. I am eventually going to run out of energy if I go without rest or if I neglect my diet. Sometimes the men I work with do not know how to send energy to me and that’s okay because I am constantly connected to Source and by breathing deeply in and out I am constantly refueling my body and the cells of my body.

I only ask that when new guests arrive to see me that they let go of their need to be in control. Let me worry about coaching breathing techniques and let me be concerned with the time as it passes. When you worry about the minor things you are not there with me in Sacred Space.

Many men falsely believe that Goddess Worship ceremonies are about pleasuring the goddess only. Men get lost in their own needs and desires because they can be overwhelmed with anxiety or get too aroused to really focus on the woman they have right in front of them. When a man is truly desirous of a goddess worship he is going to need to learn humility and letting go of what he thinks he already knows about the female body so that he becomes a vessel of pure healing and good intentions.

When you are only focused on the carnal aspects of Goddess Worship you are shortchanging yourself because there is a certain energy and afterglow that comes with complete trust and that can only be achieved when you learn how to touch from a place of deep respect and integrity for your partner.

I welcome all new guests who have a natural curiousity to learn goddess worship here in Virginia Beach. You can connect with a woman better by believing in her, by listening to her without judgements and by touching her tenderly without any hidden agendas and motives.

Let me reteach you how to heal the goddess or help you learn more about being fully responsive when I work with your unique energies.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com