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May 20, 2014 No comments

My favorite place to retreat is my chair and my writing table ✮☯

so you want to know the secret to creating opportunities? It’s not hard it is simple. You create opportunity by learning to say yes

and not saying no. You decide that when you elect to try something new if it seems like a bad idea you forge ahead and you try to the best of your ability to keep your mind unpolluted and see for yourself what the activity brings. Just imagine if you feel just a tinge of nervousness and you don’t create time or space to make something occur. Now that is an adventure you lost and you can’t retrieve it. I keep my heart open. I give people choices because everyone is allowed time to make up their minds to figure out what it is exactly they are seeking.

I am sure it’s not easy to say yes to meeting a complete stranger for the first time and try out for yourself what a tantra massage is like. But if you let your nervousness get in the way or if you let your “expectations” of what a tantra healers must look like you might miss what it is you were yearning to experience. It’s best not to judge people based on your fears but that is something that commonly happens. Once someone schedule a session with me but he was very cold to me and at the end of the session I had asked him why he was behaving so cautiously and he explained it really had nothing at all to do with me but in a way I looked exactly like his first girlfriend who had rejected him brutally and parted ways with him without healing his pain of abandonment. I tried my best to give this man a wonderful session but I can only perform to the best of my abilities as a healer when I am given complete trust.

Once in a while I get a weird gut intuition that a session will either be super powerfully infused with laughter and energy or I receive the strange feeling of a last minute cancellation based on an accident or a delay or cold feet from my new guest. I try my best not to take these signs personally but being human and having tender feelings I have to wonder how much of this was fate or how much of these strange events were based on my new guest’s unfounded fears. When you fear something you block love. When you block love you block your ability to perceive change and heal and grow.

If all you do is contemplate trying new experiences but you never make them happen you are dreaming away your life. When you connect with your healer don’t second guess your judgements, your sanity or yourself. You picked someone because they are a reflection of you. Your mirror is nothing for you to fear. If there are subtle blocks going on in your life your teacher or your mirror is going to reflect all those doubts and fears and energies right back at you and you have the unique ability to heal your wounds and resolve the subtle blocks by facing your prejudices and your fears head on.

I can’t stress this enough—do not turn away from the opportunity to rebuild your inner ego by having new experiences even if they are from people you do not typically meet daily during your work environment or within your inner circle of friends.

Sometimes my favorite place to retreat to is my chair and my writing desk. I find sanity here. I can collect my thoughts and pause and reflect and try to make sense of people and sometimes I don’t understand why someone does not try to reschedule after a last minute set back but I feel it’s not within my power to judge or doubt I just have to allow chances to unfold and be here open and capable of being judgement free. The only time I decide to turn anyone away is when there is a long term repetitive cycle of missed appointments or an established lack of trust either from my end or my new guests point of view. Where there is a lack of trust there is no ability for the body to heal itself of older and more wasteful energies.

We are here to heal each other. We are here to support each other. We are here to be in our power and also be in our truths. But if you are here in a stuck place the only one responsible for creating opportunities is your own inner and higher being. Your higher being knows what is best for your evolution so go with your gut intuition first and carry out your original intentions so you can get to the other side of any hurdle.

May 17, 2014 No comments

Jungle Flowers in the West Loop yes We have flowers in the West Loop

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“I am not the first person you loved. You are not the first person I looked at with a mouthful of forevers.
We have both known loss like the sharp edges of a knife. We have both lived with lips more scar tissue than skin.
Our love came unannounced in the middle of the night. Our love came when we’d given up on asking love to come.
I think that has to be part of its miracle. This is how we heal. I will kiss you like forgiveness.

You will hold me like I’m hope.
Our arms will bandage and we will press promises between us like flowers in a book.
I will write sonnets to the salt of sweat on your skin. I will write novels to the scar of your nose.
I will write a dictionary of all the words I have used trying to describe the way it feels to have finally,
finally found you. And I will not be afraid of your scars.
I know sometimes it’s still hard to let me see you in all your cracked perfection,
but please know: whether it’s the days you burn more brilliant than the sun or the nights you collapse into my
lap your body broken into a thousand questions, you are the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen.
I will love you when you are a still day. I will love you when you are a hurricane.”

~ Clementine von Radics, “Mouthful of Forever”

May 15, 2014 No comments

If you wish to receive my best work I need something special of you ~your trust and your respect ❀

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So it’s the end of a very hectic and long aggravating work day for you and all you want to do is relax in your hotel space and not have to worry about leaving your comfortable room or having to flag a taxi in the rain or the sleet or the snow. You just crave touch and you randomly find my website on your lap top or you ipad or your phone. You really really need a healing NOW — not later, not tomorrow not the weekend but right NOW. There is only one major flaw in this missing recipe and special ingredient…you have made no prior plans or attempts to reach out to me during your hectic day not even a warning call to advise me that you have a deep desire for a special out call so I might not be in the right frame of mind to hustle over to your room at your convenience.

I am not trying to be rude I am simply going to give you an inside view into my world. First of all I love my career and I would never be in this field unless I really loved people. Innately I am a people pleaser and nothing makes me feel better than knowing I have healed some new guests simply craving and desirous of healing touch.

Please understand though that you will receive the very best I have to offer if you follow some very simple and basic guidelines.

If you know for sure you are going to be in my home city then give me a full day’s notice or at least call me very early in the day and tell me what time you expect me to go to your hotel. My preference will always be to offer sacred space from my own temple space because I don’t have to worry about finding a taxi at the last minute and not forgetting to bring oils with me. If you truly can not take the time to visit me here then I need a few hours notice from you so I can make sure I am near your hotel at least 45 minutes prior to our session. You will have to understand that it is rude of you not to include my taxi cab fare because I am going out of my way to make sure you are well rested in your hotel space at a special time and I should not have to incur extra traveling expenses to make sure you do not have to leave the comfort of your room.

Please know your hotel space is within your control so you can have a few candles lit with aromatherapy or some freshly cut flowers in a tiny bud vase to make the setting more soothing for our ceremony. Typically I might have some alter candles and incense burning in him sacred space so if you wish to create a loving setting have a bit of food for us to enjoy. It does not have to be elaborate but create a home like setting so we both feel at home and peaceful together. Music is very essential to a good tantra healing and I will always bring special music with me but if you know your hotel space does not have a stereo system you might want to borrow something from the hotel space so we can have a relaxing ambiance to enjoy together.

I really need a couple of hours notice for out call ceremonies. I would be less than inclined to hop in a cab at eleven o’clock in the evening without prior warning and without a bit of cab fare to take care of my expenses. If I am given ample notice or better yet if you can provide a driver for me at a specific time I can assure you I will arrive promptly at your hotel ready and willing to give you all the nurturing and pampering and unconditional love you deserve.

I create sacred space 24/7 in my home meaning I have soft Indian music playing here to create a higher vibration at all times. I love to light incense here and light special resins on charcoal brickettes so that my home is always uplifting and sweet smelling. I have candles lit and the temperature is always warm so you need not worry about drafts in my temple space. Please remember a hotel space can sometimes be a bit drafty and a hotel space has certain rigid rules about candles being burned and incense being lit. If you have even one candle burning sometimes the hotel staff will warn you about the fire alarm going off in your room. We can always make any space sacred with creativity and I certainly do not mind creating a space where you feel safe and loved but you must respect my boundaries as a healer and give me enough time to get to you without me feeling rushed or pressed for time. Include a tip that will cover my cab fare and a simple gift of flowers and you will receive much more than you anticipated. You will receive the very best I have to offer when you are prepared and respectful of my time.

Here is a brief recap:

if you require an out call tantra healing give me 2 hours notice

* have light food and beverages available for us

*have my ride waiting for me at a specific time or include an extra $50 for my time

*keep me informed through out the day if there are any changes in your schedule

*partial payment in advance will assure me you are serious and intent on keeping our appointment at your space

*Never call me after 10pm at the very last minute for an out call I will not be at my freshest and I won’t accept

*please use your real name and never an alias. I feel a deeper sense of trust when you use your real name

*I can not offer discounts when you expect me to do an out call but I can always offer sliding fees when you come to me

Courtesy and respect gives you best of my best and I want to give you the type of session you feel you deserve so please honor my simple boundaries so I can impress you with my skills!

Goddess Diana

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

May 4, 2014 No comments

How to process energy after your first tantra healing

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All energy healings deal with balance of the chakras and learning to make progress not only on a psychic level but a spiritual

level. It is not enough to walk away from a tantra healing or a reiki session and keep up with your old negative habits like a

lack of exercise or eating too much sugar. As you learn to evolve psychically your body naturally wishes to let go of these old patterns which opens up the potential to keep getting more fit on a physical level.

More and more I am seeing evidence of people who want to give up certain food groups because they have noticed their stomach reacts differently to the old food choices. For instance I recently decided to give up my addiction to sugars and breads and pastas because it felt as if my stomach was burning on fire after my bread and sugar consumption. I avoided all meats, dairy, sugars and breads since this past Easter and I feel so much better and lighter. My body is preparing me for a major shift and the planet is receiving new energies so our bodies are going to need to be prepared to receive the new energy so we can be better channels and better able to evolve.

Who wants to go to bed feeling achy inside? Why continue on the same path if you feel so good after your first reiki healing or tantra healing. You want to maintain that level of lightness and euphoria for as long as possible by practicing the breathing exercises daily on your own or sharing the exercises with a close friend or partner.

Now that the sun is out take advantage of these warmer days and go outside to enjoy the light without guilt. Take your work with you and do your work outside for a change. Be active, listen to your body because now that you tasted what it is like to feel complete bliss it’s wise to keep up the maintenance on your own and to schedule small sessions in intervals maybe once every three to four weeks.

There is nothing like body wisdom to teach you what you really need and not what you crave. What ever you decide to do immediately after any kind of tantra or reiki session you must drink a full gallon of water to flush out any toxins your body was holding onto. Let that old toxicity go. Feel what it’s like to have a pure, healthy and light physical body and if you notice certain food groups are creating pain or a heaviness in your solar plexus then make a note to yourself to substitute your old foods that were more acidic with a more alkaline diet. Alkaline foods are fresh fruit and vegetables. See how easy that is for you to remember? Meats are highly acidic and so are certain types of sugary deserts especially ice cream. At least figure out how your body reacts to certain types of foods and help your body heal by picking those foods that do not cause your digestive tract any stresses or strains.

It’s good to feel vital and infused with energy. All good reiki sessions and tantra massage sessions will make you feel lighter and better able to concentrate for longer periods of time. Keep up your new level of happiness don’t let yourself go back to square one. Now it’s up to you go enjoy reiki circles so you can receive energy and practice with others.

I am available to support you in your ongoing process and progress. Don’t be discouraged or hard on yourself. Sometimes it takes tiny bites of pure energy work to make a huge difference in your outlook.

Goddess Diana of

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

April 29, 2014 No comments

Reiki and Tantra Yoga are closely aligned during breakthrough energetic healings

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For those of you who have tried Reiki healing at least once in your life you might have instantly felt yourself feeling lighter, less worried and less concerned about any immediate worries you might have been carrying before your session.

Reiki sessions tend to make you feel more secure, more balanced, less panic stricken and calmer in general. A good reiki healing might in fact speed up any recovery process in your body whether it be valid, physical injuries or trauma or emotional depression or angst.

Reiki has proven to be a very valid tool that we can use to help aide our physical bodies in any healing process because the reiki opens up all your chakra bodies and unifies your entire body so you feel safe inside. You might have rested better than you have ever rested before or if you were tired and fatigued maybe the opposite occurred and you felt so energetic and hopeful you went home feeling a rush of energy and decided to keep active the whole night without sleep.

Reiki tends to be that energetic teddy bear that instantly brings you a sense of deep peacefulness so you feel less afraid and less alone. Tantra yoga concentrates on using your sexual energy as a healing tonic, a vital and potent life force that can heal any trauma or wound so you can move forward with grace in your life instead of constantly looking back at your mistakes.

Any Good Tantra instructor will teach you the basics of learning how to be at peace with yourself and being in tune with your body as you breathe and focus on each of your chakra systems. We do not selectively leave out any chakra and so in this aspect a tantra healing is more encompassing and holistic in nature than your traditional reiki healing because you are instructed on how to clench your sexual muscles with the breath and you are instructed to hold back on the pleasure and include your entire body in these waves of full body pleasure and orgasms.

You learn how to become orgasmic through the symbiosis of breath, intention, focus, visualization and muscle contraction.

To me I refuse to simply offer tantra yoga without reiki because reiki is a gift of pure energy and warmth we can use to help create a feeling of trust and safety in your body. I am not giving you my energy but I become a pure receptacle of healing by opening up my crown chakra and using my body as a vessel for you to receive and become cognizant of the pranic energy that comes from Source. Universal energy or Chi is free for all of us to use so I love to infuse all my tantra yoga ceremonies with pure Usui Reiki so you can feel a better connection to your physical body and your spirit body.

The goal of tantra yoga essentially is to empower you and teach you to be more intuitive, more graceful in your own body and to learn how to create safe boundaries for yourself when you partner up with someone sexually. I become your partner and your close friend who helps guide you and make you aware of your own power and sexual capacity.

Tantra is beautiful. In essence tantra is the organic connection you feel with yourself and Source. You become more open to receiving love as you become a more skilled receiver of touch.

April 2, 2014 No comments

Heart Chakra awakening Ceremony for those who need Love❤♡

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Welcome to my newest ceremony. I am pleased to announce my excitement to awaken your dormant heart. It has been a harsh and long winter here in the city of Chicago and I moved back to my home town because despite the cold weather here I grew homesick for clients I missed and I just missed walking through my old neighborhoods and enjoying the food from own home town.

The Heart Chakra or Anahata Chakra in (Sanskrit) is one of the most important chakras in our auric body. The meaning of Anahata is Un struck and she plays a melodic chord which is the complete opposite sound of chaos…she is peaceful and in her more relaxed and open state she sounds out a strong message of unconditional love and complete acceptance.

When we have an imbalance in our heart chakra due to physical diseases, disappointment in love or stress our heart chakra closes up on us and we find it hard to breathe properly. You might notice phantom aches or chronic pain when you try and breathe fully into your diaphragm. You might suffer from panic attacks which are caused from the constriction of your diaphragm from not breathing fully into your lungs.

If you find yourself slumping over constantly and caving in your chest that is a strong indication that you are protecting your heart chakra from being exposed to hurt but as you are protecting your heart center you are also unwittingly closing off your opportunities and making it less likely for you to heal or open up to a new love interest.

Yes there are times when you should protect your heart. You learn signals from others and you can create situations where you no longer allow just anyone to enter your sacred heart space. We need to understand however that we are beings who need and crave and deserve love. It’s natural for the Heart center to constantly open and close so that you can open up to positive energies that enhance your ability to heal and grow as a creative individual and you also shut off any unwelcoming or harsher energy that is not for your higher good.

If you suffer from an imbalance of the Anahata you will KNOW. You might experience tightness of breath, chronic and annoying pain in our rib cage or your upper back and a feeling of uneasiness like a panic attack.

During the Heart chakra ceremony I will guide you into taking deeper breaths and help you honor and heal old wounds and negative patterning or negative self messages that no longer serve you on your journey of self healing.

All my ceremonies are shared journeys that WE co create to establish a safe haven of your self healing. Boundaries are learned and you are always encouraged to express your fears and talk out any negative memories that became STUCK in your physical and Auric bodies.

We will engage in Reiki, pranayama breathing, tapping exercises, the conscious cuddle and intuitive hand placements to awaken and heal any rawness that prevents you from fully feeling joy and warmth in your heart center.

If you suffer from heart disease I would never advise you to give up any of your traditional medications but I might suggest you continue with our ceremonies to instill a sense of self awareness and mindfulness in all that you do so this becomes a daily practice you can use in addition to your traditional medicine. The Heart is a powerful muscle and she can heal with a little bit of positive love and coaxing from you.
I will teach you how to administer self reiki on yourself and how to create a space of growth and self healing after you have left my healing space.

March 22, 2014 No comments

Tantra Butterfly Muse Goddess Diana offers exquisite healing for the Novice and the Advanced Student of Tantra

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GODDESS DIANA SENSUAL TANTRA MUSE!

Goddess Diana

I offer my authentic and caring touch, my empathy, my magical hands and my true love of all things sensual and nurturing.

I have been in my field for 15 years and this is my true passion in life– to heal, to connect, to exchange laughter and positive energies to all my guests that adore women and who are gentle souls.

I am a strong believer that healing massage, reiki and true tantra yoga can and will revitalize you, restore balance in your life, keep you young and forever youthful and maintain your ability to feel love and be loved.

Please visit my website for all my ceremonial offerings.

I work with couples, singles, men, women and transgender guests. I am not judgmental I am only seeking people who are open to tantra yoga and looking to learn some vital secrets about maintaining pleasure in the body and building stamina.

True tantra teaches you how to be a better receiver and to have the unique ability to send shivers to your partner at home.

I am most reachable between 9am til 9pm 7 days a week
and I prefer direct contact by phone early in the day so we can chat
and feel comfortable with one another first.

Let me be your muse!

When you give me enough advanced notice and if you schedule a session with me during the earlier part of the day I am able to offer you some wonderful discounts ❤

2 hours of beginner’s tantra $350 for anyone serious about learning the basics of Tantra Yoga breathwork and Pranayama breath.
I offer these discounted prices between 9am till 3pm any day of the week for your convenience. Please allow a full two hours so that you are not rushed or pressed for time during our shared ceremony. I strongly suggest you shut off your cell phone so you are not disturbed by your worldly cares or incoming emails on your cellular devices. If you cared enough to contact me you deserve this time for yourself and you deserve my full attention without needing to worry about your work deadlines or your friends. This is time you make for yourself and you deserve to be selfish as we explore your energies and your body’s ability to heal and expand in consciousness!

3 hours of Advanced Tantra $550 for new guests who wish to explore Tantra and Goddess Worship with me
between 9am till midnight……Pre screening for new guests are required
and I always provide extra TLC and donate extra time for my loyal students and repeat guests who simply want to indulge and heal.

I am not an escort nor am I a GFE. Please do not ask me to engage in Sacred intercourse. This is strictly tantra massage and true tantra yoga with Goddess Worship instruction from a fully trained and licensed Dakini in the Tantra Erotic Arts.

I am available for 1 hr sessions or full day ceremonies.
if you think you can handle me I am always available to you for full weekend retreats and I make a genuinely loving
traveling companion for any tantra related event you might anticipate.
I am always available for sponsorship in any city with advanced notice and some advanced planning and partial payment in advance.

Goddess Diana
312-339-7707

For further information please enjoy my website:
www.tantrabutterfly.com
Email: butterflyshadows@aol.com

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Reiki and Tantra complement each other nicely. Reiki focuses on opening up your body to receive energy which is free for all of us to use and access any time we need it. I have been practicing reiki for 20 years and I use it to relax my students before, during and after all my Tantra yoga sessions. Reiki can be practiced in a group setting or by yourself if you are filled with nervous energy and need to unwind.

March 2, 2014 No comments

Bread, Chocolate and The Goddess we can not live without our Goddesses ❀

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Chocolate and a Discourse on Goddess energy 101
I don’t mind sharing my chocolates for as long as you don’t
mind reading my narrative on the components that make
up the Living, breathing, insatiable, romantic and heady
All empowering GODDESS

Well we all know that chocolate is food for the Gods and Goddesses and I have been indulging these past two days in some of the very finest chocolate goodies Chicago has to offer. Writing is also a passion of mine and as I write I learn more about myself so in essence this is about delving into my inner demons or embracing my divine self. I love sharing my definition of energy work and Goddess in all her healing aspects so I spent most of the day tapping into my own creative abilities and sharing my understanding of what Goddess stands for…so please enjoy

When you are able to honor yourself you are honoring your inner goddess
February 28, 2014 at 4:33pm

HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER MET WITH A GODDESS? SHE IS THE DIVINE PRESENCE OF EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR BEING. SHE IS YOU SHAKING THERE IN THE CORNER, CONFUSED AND NOT SURE HOW SHE HAS BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD? SHE IS YOU GIGGLING AND FLIRTING WITH HERSELF IN THE MIRROR..”HELLO BEAUTIFUL, GOOD MORNING I LOVE YOU FOR YOU FOR EVERY FLAW, EVERY FRECKLE, EVERY LAUGH LINE AND EVERY BEAUTY MARK.

WHAT DO YOU NEED FROM ANYONE ELSE THAT YOU DO NOT ALREADY POSSESS IN ABUNDANCE. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING WE CALL OUR “OWN”. MAYBE IT’S THAT LITTLE LAUGH THAT MAKES OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU FEEL LIKE LAUGHING AND PARTICIPATING.

A GODDESS ENTERS A ROOM AND EVERYONE SOMEHOW IS AWARE THAT THE ENERGIES HAVE SHIFTED AND THAT ROOM IS NOW ENRICHED SUBTLY. THE GODDESS IS NOT SELF CONSCIOUS WHY SHOULD SHE BE AND SHE IS THERE TO GIVE HERSELF THE SUPPORT SHE NEEDS EVEN IN THE FACE OF ADVERSITY THERE IS AN INNER SPARK THAT GUIDES HER DECISIONS AND MAKES HER PERSEVERE. SHE RECOGNIZED HERSELF AS A MYTHICAL, POSITIVE, MAGICAL BEING AND SHE CAN INSPIRE LOVE OR ANGER EQUALLY BECAUSE SHE IS A POWER ONTO HERSELF.

A GODDESS IS ALSO A NURTURER. SHE IS GENUINELY CONCERNED FOR THE WELL BEING OF A SISTER GODDESS. THERE IS NO NEED FOR HER TO FEEL THREATENED BY OTHER FEMALE ENERGY. THERE IS NO NEED FOR HER TO SHAME OR HUMILIATE AND OR DEGRADE ANOTHER WOMAN BUT SHE WILL DEFEND HERSELF AND SET HER BOUNDARIES IF SHE SCORNED AND SHE WILL CLARIFY THESE BOUNDARIES REPEATEDLY UNTIL HER VOICE IS HEARD.

A GODDESS HAS A QUIET ENERGY AND SHE IS A SENSUAL BEING NOT A SEXUAL BEING OVERTAKEN BY LUST OR BODILY NEED. A GODDESS PICKS AND CHOOSES HER PARTNERS BASED ON THEIR ABILITIES TO “SEE” HER TO SEE THE DIVINE LIGHT IN HER EYES. SHE CAN RETAIN SEXUAL ENERGY BY CONSERVING HER CHI AND INSTEAD OF AGING AND DEGENERATING SHE LEARNS THE SECRETS OF YOUTHFUL HEALTH BECAUSE OF THE KIND WAY SHE TREATS HER BODY AND RESPECTS HER OWN BOUNDARIES.

A GODDESS NEVER AGES IN THE TRADITIONAL SENSE OF THE WORD. A GODDESS GROWS MORE YOUTHFUL BECAUSE SHE IS ALWAYS IN AWE OF THE FRESH PROSPECT OF MEETING NEW CHALLENGES AND HONORING ALL PHASES OF HER SACRED LIFE CYCLE FROM MAIDEN TO CRONE. SHE IS A SHAMAN. SHE CHALLENGES YOU TO GROW AND THINK FOR YOURSELF. SHE SEES THE SACRED SEED IN ALL BEINGS AND COMPELS YOU TO CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE YOURSELF AS SHE GUIDES YOU IN HER GENTLE SPEECH AND MANNERS. SHE IS SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT BLAME CIRCUMSTANCES FOR HER POSITION IN LIFE RATHER SHE WILL SEEK SOLUTIONS AND ACCEPT HER ROLE IN ALL FACTORS THAT GUIDE HER INNER GROWTH. SHE CAN CRY IN A PUBLIC PLACES AND SEEK HELP WHEN SHE NEEDS ASSISTANCE OR SHE CAN STEP ASIDE FROM THE CROWD AND MOTIVATE HERSELF WITHOUT ANYONE’S HELP. SHE IS A SELF MADE GODDESS AND HER ACTIONS ARE BASED ON SELF LOVE NOT CROWD PLEASING.

IF YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF IN FRONT OF YOUR CLOSEST FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS YOU ARE NOT ALLOWING THEM TO SEE THE REAL ASPECT OF GODDESS IN YOU. YOU ARE WEAKNESS, COMPASSION, SILENCE, MOTIVATION, ACTIVATION, HEALER, CONQUEROR, MOTHER AND FATHER TO ALL WHO MEET YOU EITHER BY ACCIDENT OR THROUGH YOUR WRITINGS OR YOUR VOICE. NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF OR SET YOUR BOUNDARIES. NEVER BE AFRAID TO SHOW YOUR TIMIDITY OR TO CLARIFY A MISUNDERSTANDING.

A GODDESS DOES NOT RELY SOLELY ON HER PHYSICAL BEAUTY TO GET WHAT SHE WANTS AND NEEDS. SHE USES HER INTELLECT, HER CURIOSITY AND HER INNATE SENSE OF JUSTICE TO MAKE POWERFUL CHANGES THAT INFLUENCE THOSE AROUND HER. SHE IS NOT AFRAID TO ADMIT SHE HAS MADE MISTAKES. SHE IS NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK OUT WHEN EVERYONE ELSE THINKS SHE IS WRONG. THERE IS A DIVINE SEED OF HOPE WITHIN HER THAT CONSOLES HER INNER CHILD. SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO PARTAKE IN THE SEXUAL ARENA TO BE A SEXUAL BEING. SHE CAN BE SENSUAL AND BE CELIBATE WITH A QUIET POWER THAT INSTILLS RESPECT.

SHE DOES NOT FOLLOW THE CROWD OR THE FADS OF THE DAY. SHE CREATES HER OWN UNIQUE LOOK ON HER OWN VISION OF WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL. A GODDESS CAN WAKE UP ON ANY GIVEN DAY OF THE MONTH AND CREATE SACRED CEREMONY FOR HERSELF EVEN IF SHE DOES NOT HAVE A LIFE PARTNER SHE CAN HONOR HER SPACE AND DO THOSE SPECIAL THINGS THAT REINFORCE SHE IS A SPIRITUAL AND CREATIVE DAUGHTER OF SOURCE AND ALL THINGS ARE MAGICAL WITH OR WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF A MAN.

She has powerful sexual aura that does not originate from her physical attributes rather she is comfortable in her own skin and she is proud of every aspect of her body even her flaws are not flaws the flaws make up the composite of her unique charm. When she moves in a room you can tell that she loves her body it’s in the sway of her hip the self confidence she carries with her as she plays with her hair flirtatiously. that’s not dependent on physical looks.

People in the room gravitate towards her for advice because they know she will not judge them they feel so safe with her because they know she will not abuse or betray their confidences as fuel for gossip and betrayal. They know and admire her outside and inner strength and she will teach another fellow goddess to generate her own self worth and put her on the right path of healing so that other goddess can shine and share her gifts with others just as skillfully.

Make no mistake a Goddess is Shaman, she is sacred mother to herself and those around her who trust her. She is a mother to everyone especially the motherless. She is not one to run away from commitments rather she seeks these challenges and volunteers her energy and time because it gives her a sense of joy and groundedness to heal others in need.

A goddess is a ravishing, tempting being no one can resist and rather than instilling envy or jealous people admire her and want to be near her sexual energy because they perceive it as pure love. A goddess can choose her partners and not feel as if she is losing her being by partaking in the sacred sexual act but rather that she is flowing with the divine order of Universe and creating a circle of manifestation and love. A goddess can also differential lust and bodily needs from love and if she prefers to walk the path of solitary goddess she can go months or years without sexual intercourse because she is taking some steps inward and healing her trauma or celebrating her inner passion without a significant other. She does not need a man to define her as being a Goddess she simply knows she is a Goddess.

A goddess will always endeavor to seek out the truth not half truths, not conjecture or heresay or gossip. She will want to listen to both sides of every matter because she is not narrow minded or judgmental rather she has an open ear and an open heart. She is one who easily forgives even if she refuses to forget an injustice. Her goal in this lifetime is illumine and bring light to the darkness that is within herself and found in daily interactions with others. This Goddess is pure love make no mistake but do not confuse her pure love for weakness. Her love is what guides her and her love is her food or her strength. She herself is the captain of her own destiny and if she is wronged she will share her story with you to prevent other women or men from being betrayed or wronged. She does not tolerate or put up with abuse. If she is violated she takes responsible action for herself and others that come after her so no one else will suffer the violation or injustice. She seeks to right wrongs not for vanity, self glorification or ego but because she is a leader and a healer and she is compelled to correct laws that are not just and she is driven by this passion to heal others on this planet.

And this is why I do the healing work I do. I am not saying I never make mistakes. I make plenty of mistakes because I blindly trust people who are in authority but I only give out my trust once. If I feel I can not personally be of healing service to a potential student I graciously let that person go and instead make myself available to someone else I think is a better energy match for me. I heal as I am healing I heal all my inner child vulnerabilities, self doubts and wounds. I respect my boundaries and my weaknesses and I let go of my pain by going deep inside and exploring the painful memories I have all memories are stirred up deep within me as I engage in someone’s energies as we are all mirror reflections and aspects of one another.

The image I am including here is Theda Bara from the movie Salome. For me Theda Bara represents everything a Goddess should be ~> creative, vital, sexual, forceful, willful, magical, empowering and skilled at her craft. She is unafraid to herself or create an image of Beauty or Goddess for the audience. She wanted a career in film and she planned her life accordingly so her talents and gifts would be fully appreciated. As goddesses we all have abilities and powerful intuitions. We need to learn not to admit defeat too early based on our early childhood impressions of what it means to be feminine. You don’t have to be self deprecating or subservient and docile to be a woman. You don’t have to wear shoes that make you feel uncomfortable to be recognized as a femme fatale. You don’t have to have long, flowing hair or any hair for that matter you can be completely bald. You don’t have to speak softly or loudly just be yourself and appreciate your gifts. We dwell in the shadows sometimes and at others we refuse the spotlight and allow other Goddesses to be our mouthpiece. You have your Sacred Journey on this plane to create heaven or hell you just have to pick and choose your battles and plan out the life you wish to manifest Every Goddess deserves to shine and be unafraid of challenge or condemnation. When you feel that complete inner beauty and light the world is more illuminated by your beacon

I wrote this article today fro a place of love
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

February 25, 2014 No comments

So how does one prepare oneself for the Big O ♬♫♩

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How do you reach that place of serenity within your being that makes you feel so content you are not consciously aware of your needs or the environment around you? When you are so agitated and frustrated that all you can think of is the big o you might become concerned and worried and question your abilities as a lover.

When we experience severe trauma our physical body goes into shock. We might receive triggers from our environment that sets off our body’s automatic reflexes. We become short of breath or we notice we are clumsier and not as clear thinking as we should be. Post traumatic stress disorder is a very common illness and like all illnesses can hinder our body’s ability to feel safe, loved and empowered.

Tantra yoga is an escape. Tantra by itself is a vital technique of body awareness and mindful, body meditation because you are allowing yourself to shut off stimulus and just go inwards to tap into your own energy. As you breathe you clench and unclench certain muscle groups and hold the energy inside your heart, your stomach region and your thighs and buttocks. As you learn to separate each muscle group from each other you are opening up that chakra system and becoming more mindful of what is going on in your body.

Your body carries your unique energy signature. Only you know your body and only you know how it feels to be stressed or full relaxed and open and flowing.

Tantra yoga teaches you not to second guess yourself. As you breathe energy up higher into your crown chakra and your third eye you tap onto any intuitive abilities you might have but never reinforced. If you want to learn how to have the most powerful, intense, life affirming orgasm you have to learn the secrets of your body’s landscape. If you can fully relax and involve your entire body with the experience of full body pleasure then inherently you are training yourself to be fully orgasmic with or without stimulus.

People can and will experience electrical and warm synapses of energy that feel like tingling sensations with repeated tantra meditation and practice. This is not just book theory this is full body healing at its finest. So what if you don’t have a beloved you can learn to feel these tingling sensations on your own by practicing the art of coming close to arousal then relaxing, breathing and backing off.

Tightening your kegels and tightening your sphincter muscles then isolating each area will keep you in the moment and fully aware of the build up of CHI energy in your body. You will even have orgasms in your sleep if you practice the pulsing and clenching of your muscle groups not just once in a blue moon but in a daily basis as part of your ritual.

So how do you prepare yourself for the big orgasm? Sensual massage and tantra massage with mindful breathing should be a complement to your weekly routine. If you can relax and not hold onto expectations of what you might have your reward is the full body arousal and build of sexual tension and flow.

What does a sensual massage mean to you? Is it a form of escape from your stress filled week? Is it a decadent pleasure you allow yourself to indulge in because you are craving gentle touch? Is it quiet time where you let go quiet your mind and drift off leaving your body far behind?

All I can say is that the students who have come to me without any expectations and without any pressure to perform are the ones who leave here deeply satiated and completely overwhelmed with a flood of energy that surpasses any of their expectations. If you can explore, enjoy and let your guard down you will potentially be so open to energy flowing that any and all touch will simply send you over the top from the moment of your first tantra healing to the moment of simply stepping into the shower unaware. You might be caught off guard and say WHAT WAS THAT? And you know very well that that is your own delightful energy unhindered by self judgement or self deprecation.

You are a marvelous being. You do deserve to feel complete full body pleasure and tantra is the art of being a fully desirable, sensual and creative being