Posts by goddessdianatantrabutterfly
April 13, 2013 No comments

Tantra Atlanta Chakra Sage Burning Rituals ❤

Diana-outstretched-arms-pasties-1

My favorite ceremony to begin setting up sacred space is the sage burning ritual. The sage burning ritual his its traditional roots based in Native American Indian tradition. I first became introduced to this cleansing ritual by a Reiki Healer in Chicago, Illinois. When I first lay on his table he began by using a huge, sage wand made of pure white sage and he lit it and waved the wand of sage all over my major chakra bodies.

I began to feel not only soothed and safe but deeply grounded. It was the most relaxing experience I had ever had in my life. I watched the swirls of blue smoke escalate around me, and the scent put me in a state of calm and deep trance.

He explained to me that the sage helps keep old negative energy I am holding onto away from our sacred time together. At the closure of his reiki session he again began to light the Sacred Sage wand and he traveled all over my auric field using the smoke to erase any excess energies from our time together. That was my first induction into the Native American Smudge ceremony and I have been using it on a daily basis to cleanse my Sacred Space before, during and after all of my Tantra Ceremonies in Atlanta and each city I decide to offer tantra.

Contact Diana to schedule your tantra massage in Atlanta or ask a question.

View Diana’s calendar to see if she will be visiting a city near you soon.

Click Here to Contact Diana to schedule
your tantra massage.

Phone: 312.339.7707 (mobile)
© Copyright 2013, TantraButterfly.com. All rights reserved. Contact 312.339.7707
Atlanta Tantra Goddess

Before we consecrate our shared Sacred space I offer all my guests the opportunity to use my sage wand or bundle and practice cleansing all my chakra bodies.

In essence this is a shared ritual and we will both have the opportunity to work on each other’s auras using the Sage ritual so that once you are home with your partner you will fully grasp what we have shared together in my home.

Sage can come in three forms as follows: White sage, cedar and sweetgrass. I personally prefer the clean smell of white sage because it does not lead to headaches and it is the least strong odor of the three forms of sage. During our smudge burning ritual I will use a huge sage wand initially and during our time together to sweep off any excess nervous energy you no longer wish to carry on you.

The purpose of this burning ritual is to cleanse not only you but our shared energy, our shared space, and to purify my intentions as your healer. This is a shared shamanic journey, and as we work together with all your chakras in a sensual and healing journey, the smoke from the sage will make you feel safer and will help you let go of the chatter in your mind or any energies blocking you from feeling sensual pleasure during our tantra session.

At the closure of any of my tantra ceremonies I will sweep you again with the sage smoke spending time where I intuitively feel you need to ground your energies and let out excess anxieties that no longer serve you. Some people find that the sage can break them of “bad” habits or negative thoughts and you can always bless your home throughout the day using the techniques I teach you during our shared sacred time together….
April 2, 2013 No comments

Goddess Diana visits Manhattan New York Explore Kundalini with me this week!

KUNDALINI SHAKTI….

She is our latent sexual power.
So where is the seat of sexual fulfillment? If we activate our sleeping serpent what do we gain? We gain so much more than just sexual arousal we gain empathy, we gain compassion, we are clear channels or vessels for energy to run through us. If our kundalini energy is somewhat esoteric for us to understand let me tell you a simple way to envision her.

Our chakras are full activated and aroused by intention, proper breathing techniques, hand placement and pulsation. The easiest ways for you to awaken any chakra in your body is simply to clench your muscles tightly in that one major chakra system of your auric body.

You can tighten and unclench your buttocks and your sphincter muscles for instance if you wish to open up your first chakra or base chakra. If you clearly envision flushing this part of your body with a rich red hue and breathe with the intention of sending forceful energy and healing into this area of your body then you have started to awaken your Root chakra. So what do we gain by awakening our root chakra in this fashion? We gain stamina with our sex partners, we gain greater body awareness, we learn to separate our second chakra from our first chakra and help heal and refreshen our energies that may have lay dormant with numbness and we create a passage way to receive healing and abundance. If we activate and focus on awakening our base chakra we become more secure in ourselves and our decision making.

Activation is not always a smooth road to clarity however. In fact you might have issues with rage, pain, spasms, muscles that can lock up because you have not used them in years and a myriad of other growing pains. All of these obstacles are clearly good signs you are headed towards greater awareness and fulfillment.

The tail bone is where our Kundalini Shakti resides and she can either be full awakened or dormant and inactive. A more sensitive person–for instance someone who understands the complexities of subtle energy will be someone who was born with a full activated Kundalini center and for them they have an easier time seeing auras and feeling the sensations of intense energy. A person born with a fully activated Kundalini Shakti may experience intense emotion and might need to set strong boundaries so they can separate their energies from being bombarded from the energies of those around them.

For others they have a much harder time understanding the complexities of energy. They might be puzzled and think a bit too much rather than feel with their heart. If you have patience though anyone can receive the gifts of a fully awakened Kundalini shakti.

Let’s make the complex simple here.
A shortcut to helping you awaken Kundalini shakti is the simple act of using one index finger and firmly pulse pulse pulse that tiny spot of energy on your lower tail bone. Just breathe fully into your kundalini shakti slowly and rhythmically until you feel like you are falling into a slow trance. Be patient. Keep up the pulsing for a full 45 minutes if you feel you need to. If you are patient with yourself you will gradually feel heat sensations automatically pulsing in this area as you are going through your daily routine activities. You might feel her awaken and pulsate as you go through states of lucid dreaming when you are resting in your bed.

The key to arousing our sleeping serpent is focused intention and concentrated effort. Be kind to yourself always honor yourself and don’t question whether your end result will end in outstanding sex. Your focus should be on healing and opening up any trauma your body might carry.

Another short cut to Kundalini awakening is partnering up with a professional or a dear friend and when you feel the need for touch have someone you trust practice connecting your kundalini pulse point with all your other chakra systems in your body. If feelings of sadness or anger should occur bless that anger or that humiliation but don’t take it on. Let the anger leave you. Allow the pain if any to go through its natural course. Be the vessel but don’t take on the pain and allow it to congeal. We release energies that we don’t need through the vocal chords or throat chakra so if you need to scream or chant as you let go of sexual energy then scream and tone. Sexual energy is always released out of our throat chakras and our crown chakras so let that suppressed energy travel out of your mouth by emitting sounds to what you are feeling. If you feel bliss let out the bliss. If you feel pain put a vocalization to that pain.

Never second guess yourself. All feelings are uniquely your own but it is your responsibility to honor your feelings and realize they are not bad or wrong they are proof that you have been sleeping and now you are on a journey of wakefulness.

Kundalini awakenings are the goals of any tantra union. Our goal is centered so much on pleasure or orgasm or hot and spicy sexual union. Our goal is self awareness and self preservation with the healthy delineation of boundaries. All energy that you feel whether or not it translates into bliss or pain should be blessed and honored. There are no expectations and this is no race or competition with yourself or others.

One goal is to remember we want our Kundalini energy to reach our 7th chakra or our Cranium. Our Kundalini Shakti is in our lower tail bone or just directly above the perineum. This means any blow or major injury we may have incurred here can affect our ability to enjoy full kundalini bliss. But injuries and traumas can be healed. We don’t have to remain in a state of misunderstanding, denial and pain. We have choices and opportunities to explore our bliss in a safe place. If we try to awaken our sleeping energy we might feel the temporary pleasure and affects of arousal and enlightenment but the results might be fleeting or temporary.

If we are more patient with ourselves and we meditate on the breath and focused intention we can gain a more permanent state of bliss and this is when the transformational powers of Kundalini Shakti come into play. If we are stable and the energy running through us is more constant we can gain deeper insight and make profound changes in our lifestyle with confidence. In other words we become more Conscious Beings. We are more insightful and free once we have a greater command of our Kundalini Shakti.

Kundalini Shakti must reach upwards to all the higher chakras in order to help you open up your potential to be receptive to love and being in a state of bliss. If you were to only focus on your sexual pleasures and not attempt to carry it upwards into your heart chakra with concentrated breathing then you would not achieve the profound result of greater self awareness and heightened sensitivities. If you are following your bliss time will be warped. Several hours will feel like minutes to you and you will be in a state of trance bliss.

Now one thing you have to understand is this. We are all human. We all make mistakes. We are emotional beings but we have the capability of leaving the mundane and being more sensitive by practicing the art of compassion and imagining that with each breath we take we are pulling the energies of our sleeping snake slowly up her long journey from the base of our spine up till she reaches the tops of our skulls. Once you envision her ascent you want to pull her out of your Crown chakra and see that energy leaving your skull. Don’t make things more complicated than they should be. The easiest meditations lead the highest results and the small efforts you make each day are far more effective than rushing and forcing this process before you physically capable of receiving her in full force. We awaken her ascent with intention, compassion and gentle touch. We are all capable of being fully aware of our energies but it takes time and practice. These should be your guidelines in your practice of Kundalini Shakti and awakening Consciousness is the main goal and union of Tantra Yoga ♥

So bring a little bit of Technicolor back into your life.
Explore your Bliss.
Explore your rage
Break free of your numbness but realize you are in control of your own energy and you are full responsible for your own evolution ♥ You have a lifetime to explore your bliss so don’t rush it but don’t ignore it…!Image
February 28, 2013 No comments

How do we Choose to Honor the Goddess?

So you are on your way to meet your new Goddess healer or shall we say Dakini or shall we say Tantrika. How flippantly we use these phrases but do we even care what they mean? I have been in my field for over 15 years and thank Goddess I still look young but that is because despite what I offer my sessions are not about my needs they are my student’s needs but they exclude my body meaning when someone wishes to learn Goddess Worship I am very careful about the energies we share depending upon the motivations of someone who comes to see me especially the first time they see me.

Some people do not understand what Goddess worship is. They assume that Goddess worship means the Goddess honors them blindly and will do anything in her personal power to make him happy (no matter what). No that is not the meaning of Goddess worship.

Other people new to Goddess worship assume that a Goddess is a Domina and she is a dominant which means the student will blindly worship her and he will subjugate himself to his Goddess do anything she wishes which includes house chores, humiliation or a light spanking and whipping with a paddle… and No that is not Goddess worship either.

Goddess worship is the art of seeking to heal your partner’s scar tissue and deep emotional wounds. The pelvis or pelvic cradle does carry much trauma and deep emotional scar tissue from early childhood upbringing and or abusive sexual and or personal relationships one has had with their parents, or elders or past loves and lovers.

Goddess worship is best explored in the context of putting one’s selfish needs to the side. Goddess worship does not mean you are having your Goddess as a Dessert. Goddess worship is not blind groping and fondling of the Goddess in front of you for your selfish needs and desires. In fact if you are in poor physical shape and you can barely breathe properly into your own heart there is going to be limited ability for you to breakthrough and heal the Goddess or heal her yoni scar tissue.

In order to approach Goddess worship in the correct spirit and manner you must approach your Goddess with complete reverence and a very bad way for you to begin any Goddess worship ceremony with your new Goddess teacher is by insulting her on her choice of clothing or coming to her Sacred Space with judgements on her taste of decoration or going through her things without her permission. Some people feel that because they have paid for a session they are owed a certain sense of entitlement or privileges. This is not the case at all. Typically a prior conversation with your Goddess is the perfect time to address any issues you have with personal hygiene and or living space arrangement. If you know your hostess has pets are you prepared to offer a kennel fee in advance so the pets will not be in her space. Are you willing to take allergy pills beforehand if you have allergies to dander? Are you coming to her space fully awake and refreshed or are you going to be doing some light drinking or coming to her home directly after a dinner party? All these things are very relevant and important to discuss with your Goddess.

Are you calling your Goddess just fifteen minutes before 11 pm at night expecting her to come to your hotel room and give you a healing and pampering session yet you decide you want a Goddess ceremony for a shorter length of time because it is the end of the day for you yet you wish to honor her. Does that feel respectful to you? If you are not giving adequate notice and you are not willing to come close to her price requirements then you are probably not truly honoring the goddess you are taking advantage of someone’s kindness..

Compassion and an open heart are key tools to honoring the Goddess. If you contact your Goddess early in the day and you have agreed to the correct tribute that honors her energy then you are on your way to understanding the nuances of Goddess healings.
Goddess worship is not about taking advantage of someone’s kindness and pressuring her to show her special techniques to you upon command. If you have only had a handful of tantra healings yourself and if you are not practicing these techniques daily or following up on DVD’s or workshops for beginners then you are not being fair to yourself or your goddess. You must be honest with your Goddess and tell her how little or how much practical experience you do have with honoring Goddess energy. As a beginner you start with baby steps until you yourself feel enough self confidence to learn more intricate ceremonial offerings. You want to approach this type of work with reverence and not rush the experience.

If you are on a budget and all you can afford is a mini session once a month then at least you are achieving and working towards a goal. Goddess worship sessions are most ideal when you already have someone special in your life and you simply want your partner or sacred other to reap the benefits of your new found joy and knowledge of sacred touch.

You should always let your Goddess do all the leading because the Goddess you chose is a unique guide and it is her intuition and her inner voice that feels your energy and she will intuitively pick up on how ready and prepared you are based on your confidence or awkwardness.

No one likes to feel pressured into doing something that is against their free will. Each goddess is a Sacred Other and if you are in tune with her energies and her needs and you can simply slow down and let go of your needs and your ego and impulses then you can build your ability to tune into your own innate Divine Feminine energy which runs through you in the form of Kundalini Shakti.

We don’t try to conquer the Yoni we try to heal her and send her focused love with the intentions of having her awaken on her time table NOT YOURS.

Goddess worship is Sacred. Goddess Worship is a Sacrament. Each time we touch the yoni we have the unique opportunity to gaze upon her loveliness and feel her powerful energy as Sacred mother and Source. If we do not approach the yoni with reverence we only injure her and harm ourselves karmically. We can only build trust and love by going inwards and stopping ourselves in our tracks to give some positive reflection of what we seek when we seek to touch yoni.

If you are prepared to give a Goddess healing honor your Goddess. Bring her a special house warming gift. Bring her a piece of your genuineness and share your softness with her but do not be demanding or threatening or withholding because that will close off her yoni flower and the yoni is the most positive representative of Divine creator we have so she shall not be Squandered or dismissed.

Be aware that each time you breathe into your heart chakra you have the unique power to bless the sacred mother simply by being a present and conscious lover.

Goddess Diana Sacred Space Tantra Butterfly

The yoni is a Sacred Temple
February 11, 2013 No comments

Goddess Diana My Sacred Yoni of Empowerment…

My yoni is a healer.  She deserves to be honored.  My yoni is a Sacred vessel of unity and divine light.  The yoni is not only an object of devotion but she actually sends out a radiance of pure healing light.  During ceremony I am constantly pulsing my yoni for it is this act alone that sends a powerful message of love.  I find that if I just focus on my breathing alone and I do not contract my yoni muscles my partner simply does not feel the full benefit of my healing touch. 

We consciously send forth powerful love pulses with each simple contraction.  Must a Goddess be  breathtakingly beautiful in order for a man to feel her sacred healing vibe?  This is confusing to many men who simply have no idea what a tantra ceremony involves.

Tantra is a portal of honoring the Sacred other.  The more we learn to accept and honor all forms of beauty the more open our hearts become.  We as goddesses should not mock the work of our sister goddesses nor should we steal or copy or plagiarize their unique styles.

The yoni is a vessel of rebirth and so many emotions are experienced during a tantra healing.  First there is the emotion of fear and nervousness.  It is not easy to bare your soul or share your sacred sexual energy with another.  If you have gone without genuine tenderness for months or years and you decide to invest in yourself and spent time and money on a tantra ceremony then you want to feel safe and you may want to feel you were listened to and you were genuinely cared for.  Sometimes we go through layers of hidden rage and you hold in that rage and never communicate with your healer but you decide to take out that buried anger by using the tactics of slander or outbursts to heal your wounds.  The yoni is a Sacred vessel and she might take you on a journey of fear and rage.  We have to let go of the rage and hurt to explore our inner magic.  If we have numbed ourselves to the point where we have not even cuddled another person the act of simply spooning someone is painful. 

During my many ceremonies I worked with men who were desensitized to the point where they could not feel their own energy circulating in their bodies.  They got discouraged after just one session but tantra uncovers all your layers and there is no quick fix to years of pain.  Talk therapy along with tantra is wise.  If there are buried energies inside your second sexual chakra you have to somehow release that pain and let it out through the throat chakra and other channels. 

When the time is right you will naturally want to let go and release and relax.  The yoni is the Sacred mother … the Sacred Womb and the Sacred Birth place. If you send out so much anger at your healer you are only sending out misdirected anger at your childhood.  None of us had the chance as young children to fully verbalize all our needs.  We had no voice …we could only cry if we were hungry or scared or discouraged or uncomfortable.  Now as adults we do have a voice and we can release in a very healing and positive way.  Tantra is an exploration of honoring your Divine feminine even if you are a born a male.  All women and men carry the spark of God and Goddess energies equally.  This is called the yin and the yang.  All our organs are either yin or yang and we attract and repel.  If you can send unconditional love to all aspects of your personality then you are in touch with your unique gifts.  It takes a lot of work to love your weaknesses and to forgive those that sent cruelty your way.  If you encounter anger when you meet your teacher step back for a bit and ask yourself what is it about this person that scares you?  If you are simply not ready for the journey of self discovery then you may wish to hold off the ceremony for a future date but if you plunge in and you work with your healer then you can uncover some shaky truths and work on your foundation. 

Image
January 24, 2013 No comments

The Karmic Role of the Goddess By Goddess Diana ☉☼

First of all let me say my personal email address is tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and butterflyshadows@aol.com.  There is an imposter by the name of Stephanie who embedded my website title Tantra Butterfly into the body of a phony gmail account and she owns a personal blog known as the The Sensual Foodie.

Although Stephanie looks nothing like me she used pictures from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and promised certain students that they would be meeting up (with me) but instead she is an escort service as a side job and a chef by trade.

This outrages me especially since I put in a lot of effort to educate myself and when I found out what Stephanie was doing I was not only hurt but I requested she cease and desist.  She now linked  this blog to her TER review message board profile under her fake alias otherwise known as Butterfly.

I don’t go by the name Butterfly I use my birth name which is Diana.  Eventually anyone who does follow the tantric path will begin to see a shift in their personality.  It will be harder for a true tantrika to be able to handle baser energies from seekers or competitors.

I can not be held responsible for plagiarism and since Stephanie won’t cooperate with me and take down her fake gmail account and unlink her profile from this blog eventually I will have to invest in the legal services of a good attorney.

To avoid confusion the best way to reach me will always be my one and only cellular number which is 312-339-7707 and my email accounts affiliated with http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Tantra is a journey of self love and boundaries.  We honor our own choices and we learn from our students and our teachers integrating each new technique and making it our own.

Have you ever felt an instant connection with someone just by feeling their vibe on the phone? Sometimes all it truly takes is a voice vibration and you feel deeply connected to your student or teacher or you simply feel uncomfortable and uneasy.

Go with your initial instinct.  Don’t be afraid to state your goals when you first meet your teacher. 

 

A true Dakini or Tantra priestess is a woman who is in her spiritual power.  She does not need to look behind her or ask the counsel and advice of other Goddesses.  She is self assured and in her spiritual power because she has experienced a Kundalini awakening most likely a strong feeling of energy rush through her prior to engaging in the Tantric path. 

In tantra yoga the woman is both healer, priestess and Sex Goddess but her power lies not just in her beauty or the shakti power between her genitals– her true power is in her ability to see her Goddess hood.  

So now I ask of you — What does it take for a woman to own her power and call herself a true Goddess?  A goddes is poised and she does not seek approval from men in order for her to feel her divine feminine energies awaken.  A Goddess inspires a man to feel like a God.  Must a Goddess wear make up and tight mini dresses and high, spiky heels to prove to her man that she is worthy of his love and approval?  Is A Goddess required to wear an erotic harem outfit for her lover in order for him to feel fully aroused as he greets her?  A true goddess does not rely on plagiarism or copying someone else’s style.  She is self possessed without being “selfish”.

A true goddess does not jump to conclusions when her lover withdraws his affections and isolates himself in his thoughts.  A goddess is a healer who conspired to honor herself and seek the truth from her lover establishing healthy boundaries so her lover can follow her conscious lead.  Women are natural healers and Shamans.  We need to take back our power that we gave to someone else and realize that we should never be afraid of disapproval just because society dictates that women must act or look a certain way to appease others.

My path is a Conscious path to awaken my heart and my student’s heart through Conscious touch, Sacred breath and a contract to heal and not harm.

Please visit my main website and enjoy the beauty I have created for you! 

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com  Image

 

 

Women’s role as dispenser of ‘spiritual attainments’ was undertaken not just for pleasure, but out of compassion for the world. One example of this is the story of  King Dombia and low-caste female tantric Dombiyogini, who transformed themselves into Buddha’s through their sacred union.  Dombiyogini composed many songs of realization (vajra-songs). In one song she celebrates how communion between female and male Buddha’s generated waves of harmony, nectar that satisfied “the spiritual hunger in the hearts of living beings everywhere.”

 

 

 
October 3, 2012 No comments

The Chastity Belt Challenge ♡♥

I challenge you as a Conscious, evolved, Spiritually evolved Being to wear a Chastity Belt during our first or second session together.
One of my most satisfying and energetic healings took place two years ago in the city of Chicago when I met with a physician whose wife demanded he wear a Chastity belt when she had to travel on weekends.

Let me share my story with you and hopefully during your next lingham healing you might consider this intense experience in holding back pleasure and being a more mindful Shiva ❤

Learning to Heal the Lingham by wearing a Chastity Belt!

yes you seem very puzzled. Lingham honoring and Lingham worship is interpreted typically with hands on healing and a more assertive yang touch but you can also use mindful meditation, chanting, subtle breathing and pure Reiki to bring energy flow to the lingham.
I speak from first hand knowledge because of the requirements of one particular student whose wife insisted he must wear a Chastity belt on weekends away from
her.

This man came to me about two years ago to my temple space in Chicago with one special need. He said he would be allowed to enjoy one of healing ceremonies but his wife required him to wear a Chastity belt at all times when she is not in his presence. I told him there is no need for me to place his hands on his lingham and through joined breathing and kegel exercises I could bring him to state of heightened arousal through my Goddess presence, my voice, my toning and Reiki.

He was very curious to see what energies we could achieve together and he had never had a tantra healing before so his curiosity was peaked and I agreed to honor his boundaries for our shared Sacred Space.

He was a delight for me to work on and I truly did feel honored as a Goddess. I wore a tiny hip skirt with coins to shield part of my yoni and focused on contracting and relaxing my kegel muscles and opening up my Shakti flow so he could feel my intense Goddess energy. The act of constantly contracting and restricting your yoni opens up your own divine female energies and if you focus on the breathing deeply into your heart chakra while contracting and relaxing your kegel muscles you can open your heart to receiving your own Goddess energy and help transmute that message of Sacred Goddess love and Goddess yoni healing into your partner’s energy body.

At one point during our time together he gasped and warned me that my hair was slightly brushing against his lingham by accident through his Chastity Belt so I held my hair back in a pony tail and allowed him to simply feel the gentle breath from my mouth arouse and heal his lingham with my warm heart and throat chakra energies.

I encourage him to deeply breath my Goddess energy into his heart chakra slowly and with the intention of sending my energy into his heart chakra. I had him constantly contract and relax his lingham through the Chastity belt allowing him to forcefully send him Shiva energies up to his heart and his higher chakras.

He was able to send and protract all the sensual pleasures of his lingham into his third eye, his Crown Chakra and his heart center all through mindful meditation.

Although we were both challenged by the limitations of “no direct or forceful touch” this was a very rewarding ceremony for me and I did feel completely honored as a strong Goddess being mindfully present and perhaps even more energetically connected through this sensory deprivation than my more traditional Lingham honoring sessions.

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Photo: Learning to Heal the Lingham by wearing a Chastity Belt! yes you seem very puzzled. Lingham honoring and Lingham worship is interpreted typically with hands on healing and a more assertive yang touch but you can also use mindful meditation, chanting, subtle breathing and pure Reiki to bring energy flow to the lingham. I speak from first hand knowledge because of the requirements of one particular student whose wife insisted he must wear a Chastity belt on weekends away from her. This man came to me about two years ago to my temple space in Chicago with one special need. He said he would be allowed to enjoy one of healing ceremonies but his wife required him to wear a Chastity belt at all times when she is not in his presence. I told him there is no need for me to place his hands on his lingham and through joined breathing and kegel exercises I could bring him to state of heightened arousal through my Goddess presence, my voice, my toning and Reiki. He was very curious to see what energies we could achieve together and he had never had a tantra healing before so his curiosity was peaked and I agreed to honor his boundaries for our shared Sacred Space. He was a delight for me to work on and I truly did feel honored as a Goddess. I wore a tiny hip skirt with coins to shield part of my yoni and focused on contracting and relaxing my kegel muscles and opening up my Shakti flow so he could feel my intense Goddess energy. The act of constantly contracting and restricting your yoni opens up your own divine female energies and if you focus on the breathing deeply into your heart chakra while contracting and relaxing your kegel muscles you can open your heart to receiving your own Goddess energy and help transmute that message of Sacred Goddess love and Goddess yoni healing into your partner’s energy body. At one point during our time together he gasped and warned me that my hair was slightly brushing against his lingham by accident through his Chastity Belt so I held my hair back in a pony tail and allowed him to simply feel the gentle breath from my mouth arouse and heal his lingham with my warm heart and throat chakra energies. I encourage him to deeply breath my Goddess energy into his heart chakra slowly and with the intention of sending my energy into his heart chakra. I had him constantly contract and relax his lingham through the Chastity belt allowing him to forcefully send him Shiva energies up to his heart and his higher chakras. He was able to send and protract all the sensual pleasures of his lingham into his third eye, his Crown Chakra and his heart center all through mindful meditation. Although we were both challenged by the limitations of “no direct or forceful touch” this was a very rewarding ceremony for me and I did feel completely honored as a strong Goddess being mindfully present and perhaps even more energetically connected through this sensory deprivation than my more traditional Lingham honoring sessions. ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
August 18, 2012 No comments

Being Spritual has Nothing to Do with Suffering ♥❤

The healing work I do is in service first and foremost to the Goddess and The Wounded Warrior.

What is a wounded Warrior?  The wounded warrior is healer who selflessly sets aside time to his closest friends.  He is a shaman, he is a poet, he is a thoughtful friend and he will go out of his way to make sure you are comforted during a crisis.

And here is where I come in the picture.  I am a Muse or a divine priestess of unconditional light.  Now

this does not mean that I am a punching bag for what ails you but I am here to assist in any way even if only to make you relax in the present with me and focus on sensory pleasures through essential oil scents or the lightest stroke of my fingertips on your skin.

Sensual healing or abandon in Eros is a gift we must receive. It keeps us alive and it gives us hope if we can find something joyful to look forward to.  In order to give your very best you must restore and balance your own energy and to deprive yourself a natural impulse is to deny that your body even exists in this space and time.   We ground our senses through the first chakra known as the base chakra.  When we get a true sense of our sexual energy we cord firmly to the present and we align ourselves to the very core of the Earth.  We are like trees.  We need water, sunlight and a pristine environment that sends us unconditional love.   We branch out when we feel secure and loved. 

 

Goddess Energy is healing energy and it is the fountain of hope and youth.  When you are able to achieve full body orgasm you remain vital, active and refreshed.  Your skin glows and your mind becomes clearer with your truest intentions.  During Tantric yoga we learn that the initial intention directs our focus and our energies.  Don’t simply exist in your present reality.  Learn how to master your sensory gifts and expand your consciousness.  Set aside some ME time and be decadent!Image
August 16, 2012 1 Comment

Tantra teaches us how to honor Our Divine Feminine ❤♡

Ideally I recommend women schedule a two hour healing with me for their first journey into tantra and Yoni empowerment.

Why do we need so much time?  Because women were born with the natural ability to have multiple waves of orgasmic bliss and thus we are very blessed and very fortunate –we are naturally tantric!

Our goals may all be varied.  Perhaps you are out of tune with your own body’s needs.  Maybe it has been a long time since you experienced the pleasure of touch without limiting goals and expectations.  Some of us are very blessed and we can achieve full body bliss naturally with little guidance.  Some of us are very much attune and in the moment as we open up to receive full body pleasure with expectations. 

But what do we do if are not multiorgasmic?  How do we express our unique needs to our partners unless we uncover our hidden treasures and our strong divine feminine presence?

We all want to feel feminine and empowered.  We want to carry ourselves as Goddesses and we want to explode in passion for our lovers being overcome in the joy of Goddess hood.

But what do we do if we came from repressive childhood experiences?  What if we were not honored but simply “controlled” by our parents and we were not made to feel safe or powerful?  This complicates our sexual aura and we might have challenges picking partners who reflect our powerful Goddess energy.  If we feel powerless and misunderstood how can we attract a man or a woman in our lives who can honor our creative life force?

Tantric yoga is the empowering of your yoni.   A goddess reawakening is like a Baptism and we are allowed to really feel for the first time in our lives.  Our gentle yonis can become numbed if our backgrounds did not allow us to receive the gentle touch we deserve.

The work we do together is necessary work and one of these days you might wake up realizing time has gone by too quickly and you still have needs and strong desires that have not been fulfilled or explored.

Women are sensitive, caring, sensual creatures.  When we are fully awakened our sexual energy has the power to create more abundance in your life and make you a far more intuitive being with a grounded confidence and assuredness.  When you are allowed to release your pent up sexual energy in the form of amrita you gradually awaken your pineal gland and you heal your endocrine system without the need for medication.  We can poison our bodies with negative self thought and medications or we can become empowered healers and shaman women who are fully in control of our bodies and our choice in partners.

When you focus on the moment and we learn circular breathing techniques we become fully alive and we have the potential to achieve orgasms anywhere and everywhere in the body if we learn to release guilt and expectations of ourselves and others.  Even the mere touch of a feather will send mind blowing waves of electricity throughout your being.  We learn to activate our chakra system with light, water touch a touch so powerful it supersedes the need for a deep tissue massage.

When you focus on healing your yoni your physical pain subsides and your pelvis is freer and less tight to the touch.  When you have a juicy yoni and a relaxed pelvis you activate the waters in your second chakra and this is known as “stirring the waters”.  It is not necessary for you to engage in sexual intercourse in order to heal your trauma.  It is a conscious touch activated with your conscious breath that allows you to open up the opportunity for kundalini shakti or full body awakening.

Sometimes due to social conditioning women are expected to be vocal or orgasm on command or simply fake it for the sake of not injuring the fragile ego of her lover.  Some women have shut down their sexual drive because of their religious belief systems or a sense of guilt or a feeling that sex is not important.  Some unfortunate few have never known the pleasure of gentle foreplay in a non rushed and loving environment.  Here is where tantric yoga becomes the healing agent of the Divine feminine.  We have a right as women to state our sexual needs so that we can be honored and held sacred in a state of complete honor and non judgement.  We have the right to receive pleasure without feeling guilty.  We deserve this and bliss is our birth rite!

Tantric massage focuses on openness and teaches us how to accept our bodies and be fully present and relaxed during the sacred act of receiving pleasure from ourselves or from our partner.

Did we even begin to mention that this pathway can change our outlook on life and can change your opportunities for enhanced confidence and more creative flow?  You are a sexual being.  You are a fully energized being with Kundalini Shakti energy just waiting to be active and empowered.  Our possibilities are endless and our bodies should be honored and explored as sacred temples.  If you can learn to control and connect your breath with your body and your sexual power you can lose yourself for that one moment in time and taste unbridled passion.  I am not saying this will happen all at once in session.  In fact I am not even promising you can achieve all this in the span of a year.  Since we are constantly changing and evolving we can explore our orgasmic potential and realize we are expanding heart and yoni consciousness safely and intuitively ON OUR TIME and no one else’s time table.

  Our heart chakras hold the key to our Yoni. When we massage around our breasts and tap our sternums we awaken our fragile emotions.  We circumvent the yoni initially starting with our hearts and holding hands because our inner palms are an extension of our heart chakra energies. 

In a Tantric Massage, your whole body will be sensually awakened.  As we know, it takes time and a full body approach to arouse women fully.   As a woman’s positive sexual pole is in her heart, around your breasts will be massaged to open your heart, which then opens the channel between your heart and your yoni.   Only then would a woman be ready for yoni massage, and only if she wants it.  It may take a couple of sessions before you feel ready, and that’s ok. 

The main goal of a tantric massage is to help you learn more about your body and to help you establish healthy boundaries on touch.  You will be in complete control during our shared time together.  You will actively give a voice to all your needs and goals.  I am here to help you uncover trauma with gentle and intentional touch.  Our vaginal walls can collect tension, stress, scar tissue and armouring from years of neglect or abuse.  If we send out harmful thoughts to our yonis our yonis contract energetically and become shut down.  The purpose of our time together is to help you open up these wounds and help you get rid of unneeded and unhealthy negative self talk.  We don’t necessarily look for a full body orgasm when we honor and heal the yoni but we do send healing light and try for a tender approach so that you feel honored and you can slowly get in touch with your feminine desire.
Image
August 16, 2012 2 Comments

We Goddesses Form the Collective Juicy Shakti Pat ☼★ So be Juicy!!!

Hello Loverly Ladies….Have you been touched lately?
Are your Lush, rivers flowering or have they been neglected?
Did you know a loved yoni can attract the most positive and attentive energies towards you? Are you stuck in a career or cross roads in your life where you are not sure of your footing anymore? Who isn’t a bit “stuck” now in again. We can not always be “in flow” or in a state of gr

ace so that is where tantric yoga fits into your ritual of healing. We have Reiki for smoothing out our aura bodies. We have true, trigger point massage to drain the exhaustive and toxic waste from our muscles. We have sound healing to bring tears to your eyes. We have deep breathing and re birth breathing to help you along with your daily anxieties and panic attacks. And we have Conscious touch which allows us to be better in alignment with our bliss.
Tantric yoga like any other Yogi ritual is a dance you learn. We share a Sacred Space where we can simply unfold and get “lost” in our Divine Feminine Essence.
We are not “weak” by exploring our Goddess side we are actually far more strong than our Masculine energies and we can move more energy and influence with our tenderness more so than our roughness.
Let me be your patient Guide and reawaken your Divine Feminine energies again.
Open your yoni in a safe sacred space. Perhaps it has been a while since you were tenderly touched. Perhaps your yoni needs the remembrance of a soft voice or gentle encouragement again that she can come out to play.

Women tend to naturally “tantric” in nature so once we teach you how to send positive thoughts into your yoni you will be in a state of emotional release and the time we spend will feel un rushed and soothing to you.
Women tend to need two full hours of tantric healing whereas a man typically can be satiated with a full 90 minute healing. I always recommend women schedule two hours for a thorough reawakening to bliss session and if you feel your husband or partner should participate and be fully present we can invite him as my assistant during a slow moving four handed massage.

Your joy is our shared journey and each healed Yoni yields so much Divine life force we are each powerfully activating Universal Shakti Pat ♥Image