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You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

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Do not disrespect me or violate my boundaries

Right after I finished eating my delicious sushi meal …I had a very strange urge to go online and Google up my public tantra page TANTRA BUTTERFLY and found this ugly and SLANDEROUS review which of course brought my score of 4.6 back down to 4.4

On Monday against my better judgment I accepted an extremely low almost HUMILIATING discounted price for my tantra massage services by a legally blind and EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE blind man who is a life coach who actually has a Facebook profile.

After going all the way from Schaumburg in the pouring rain and incurring my own personal expenses to take transportation to him I accepted a fee of $250 for 2 full hours of tantra massage.  Please note the price was agreed on for a tantra massage NOT an escort session!

I am not a prostitute nor am I an escort service. I am a trained Reiki Master and Licensed tantra educator from Source School of tantra with 25 years of experience in alternative healing, tantra massage, reiki and deep tissue massage.

During the final 30 minutes of our time together Muhammed Noman asked to go down on me not once but twice! I declined his PROPOSITION, packed up all my belongings and left unceremoniously. At this particular point I felt disgusted, disgraced, disrespected and dishonored.

He was warned that if he attempted to charge back our session or slander me online I would post his actions against me on my online blog and on all forms of my social media here and on my YouTube channel.

I’m warning people in my field not to take him on as a client because he chose to retaliate against me and because he has in some way defiled me online and tried to violate my personal boundaries and safety.

Here is the review he posted of me two days ago on my public business page:

Muhammad Noman Ahmed

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2 days ago

My personal experience with Diana was very obnoxious. I am disabled and her behavior towards me was very disrespectful. She is very unfriendly and rude and I would never recommend her services

TONIGHT I decided to include his behavior because I have every right to end a session if my boundaries are violated and my personal safety is threatened.

Please do not think that just because you have a disability you are entitled to a huge discount and that you are entitled to any services you wish to receive even though it is not part of the menu of offerings.

I will not tolerate being violated, slandered and blackmailed especially if I was overly generous and went out of my way to offer a greatly reduced price for my tantra massage services.

There is a VAST difference between what I offer and what an escort service chooses to offer.

I am not comfortable crossing that fine line with any of my clients. If I were a professional escort service I would be changing $600 per hour and not $250 for two full hours at a whopping bargain basement price for a selfish, manipulative, emotionally abusive misogynist like MUHAMMAD NOMAN AHMED.

I actually had a very strong premonition against working with him especially since he wanted to know if I give discounts to people with disabilities. I have no qualms offering a BIT of a discount but he actually received my services for less than half of what I normally charge.

From this point on I will need to be much more DISCERNING and careful about who I work with.
Just because someone has a DISABILITY doesn’t mean they are allowed to disrespect you or violate your work and personal boundaries.

Just because an individual is a professional therapist or life coach it doesn’t mean they are not emotionally unstable, retaliatory and MANIPULATIVE.

I have boundaries and I am allowed to state my boundaries and end a session prematurely or abruptly if I am not being honored and respected.

People in my field are often manipulated, taken advantage of, slandered, belittled and blackmailed if we refuse to offer certain services that violate our personal code of safety and ethics.

I have morals and boundaries just like any other trained business professional and I am allowed to have genuine feelings if I’m being emotionally abused by any of my clients.

I will not tolerate bullies who hire me under the false assumption that my VALUE and WORTH is less than any other human being.

No one has an right to force me to do any sexual act that goes against my freewill.
My body is sacred. It may be that this particular individual MOHAMMED NOMAN AHMED doesn’t feel I have value considering how much time he received from me for less than half my normal price but I see things differently.

I was sent in excess of 20 text messages from this unsavory, unethical man who calls himself a life coach. He was incessant that Monday was ideal for us to meet and that he could only afford $250 for 2 hours.

I personally had to travel all the way from the suburbs, incur my own traveling expenses and visit him in a dangerous neighborhood only to be insulted by him when he requested to EAT ME!

YES he asked me twice for sexually exploitive services for a BARGAIN BASEMENT PRICE.
Muhammed Noman Ahmed is an example of a client I DO NOT WISH TO WORK ON.

I May decide not to accept anyone who requests sliding fees based on this particular negative and exploitive experience.

I had of course missed my last bus for the evening and I was forced to spend $30 of my own money just to get home safely and when I did get home trust me I had a good cry.

I hope that people understand that EMPATHY and COMPASSION and RESPECT should always be extended to any sex worker or sex educator that you encounter.

Please treat us as you would treat any business professional and if you are refused a service and you are told A FIRM NO then don’t be childish by retaliation with fake, unfair, unjust reviews.

Now I still have a lot left to say because I’m not quite over my anger.  I have two pets I take care of, no family members, two separate sets of storage fees, a huge monthly phone bill for my private business, ongoing website costs and high weekly rental fees. If you think I will tolerate abusive behavior and bullying I won’t.  I have ZERO tolerance for slander especially when I know I issued a genuinely generous discount to anyone who needed a sliding fee discount.

When I contracted to work with Muhammed Noman Ahmed (life coach at 310-536-6289) he claimed he had read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com in full. If you read my website CAREFULLY you will plainly see I have a full page dedicated to ETIQUETTE.  On my ETIQUETTE page you will read that I’m not a professional escort.  I am not offering services that you would receive from a paid escort. My fair pricing is not a substitute or POOR MAN’S version of a low budget option for clients who are seeking escort services but simply can’t afford these higher prices.  I was BEYOND ANGRY AT this man Muhammed Noman Ahmed for taking advantage of my generous discount then asking me twice towards the end of our session if he could EAT MY PUSSY.  Obviously this individual had shown me he regards me as a bargain basement cheap whore for rent because he devalues women in my field or all women in general.

I do not offer escort services.  I teach goddess worship, I offer tantra bathing ceremonies, I’m a level 3 reiki master and I’m a licensed tantra educator.  I am not for sale. My body is NOT FOR SALE.  I AM NOT a human punching bag. My services are available to anyone who genuinely seeks a traditional tantra session or a fully clothed reiki session or cuddle therapy session.  This particular individual thought he could get away with lying about what truly transpired during our time together in his small studio apartment on Foster Avenue.

Can you imagine how upset and violated I felt being PROPOSITIONED after I spent half my day traveling to his apartment in the rain, unpacking all my essential oils and incense and working DEEPLY on his major muscle groups?  I put everything I spiritually had within me to create a safe, loving, healing vibe to this unsavory, ungrateful, perverse pervert whose only true motivation was to see if he could take full advantage of me based on his disability then solicit me for something I don’t even offer on my website! If this is the way most Muslim men view women in my industry then I need to advise my fellow sex workers to be extremely cautious about who they choose to work on simply for safety reasons.  No one likes to be grossly taken advantage of or psychically abused.

I warned him that I would share publicly what he did to me on my social media if he chose to slander me and tonight I am sharing this factual story of what transpired in his home.  I of course had missed my last bus to my home and incurred an additional expense late at night just to make it back to my place by midnight.  I had a good cry that evening and felt deeply hurt, enraged and disappointed with how I was treated with complete disdain and disrespect.  It is NOT OKAY for anyone to treat a sex educator or tantra yoga therapist this way.  Every individual has triggers and boundaries and I felt energetically raped that evening by a so called, self proclaimed life coach.  I definitely have a strong sense of foreboding before taking on certain clients and in Mohammad’s case I feel regretful that I worked with him despite my strong intuition against seeing him.

I’ve said everything I wish to say here this evening and I decided that tomorrow I’ll be creating a special video about how awful it feels to genuinely give someone your very best and then have that same individual cheapen the healing experience by soliciting illegal sexual favors that you are uncomfortable offering.  I also wish to add that when Muhammed Noman Ahmed chose to write a derogatory google review two days ago he not only insinuated I was abusive to people with disabilities but he lied about my normally kind and generous giving nature. If I wish to defend myself based on my moral code and end a session because I no longer feel safe and respected then that is my freewill and choice to make based on someone’s disrespectful and vile actions and behavior.  Being legally blind does not excuse anyone for acting disceitfully or being manipulative.  If I feel threatened and or dishonored I have every right to leave 20 minutes early especially after I’ve already overextended myself by giving someone an overly GENEROUS discount.

I hope anyone reading this article will digest everything I have written and KEENLY intuit that everyone has boundaries and everyone no matter who they are and no matter what profession they choose is entitled to complete respect as a human being with valid emotions and sensitivities.

Just because you choose to hire a sex worker doesn’t mean you own their soul or their body.

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Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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Chicago Tantra Massage is for Anyone ready for a healing Journey

I feel the need to write today mostly because I am always spot on correct when I read an email from a new potential client and know deep down they simply wanted to VENT to me but they honestly weren’t Emotionally prepared to begin a tantra ceremony in real life.

In all fairness tantra isn’t for everyone and everyone is motivated by different reasons to try a session whether it’s strictly curiosity, too much personal stress in their life or they love healing connection.

Half the people that reach out to me are high achievers who know what they want and how to get it. They love their partners, love their career and they want a session as a treat because they feel they deserve it.

Other people are involved in reiki, yoga, music and creative pursuits so they crave chakra balancing, and breath coaching along with the sensual touch.

I also receive requests from single mothers, caregivers, independent business owners and men whose wives are chronically ill.  These people are under a lot of stress and so they contract my services as a means of letting go and treating themselves.

Other people want and deeply desire tantra but they don’t fully understand what tantra is. They send me “novels” instead of a brief emails which to me is a “red flag” because it’s almost as if they are trying too hard to convince themselves and me that they are ready to jump in without having spoken to me on the phone or meeting me in person!

I’m not a guru and I truly don’t feel like conning anyone into the false idea that one or even several tantra sessions will shift you from previous abuse into a new paradigm of being victorious.

On the contrary I do believe if you personally have been molested or victimized or similarly violated emotionally and or sexually you need to visit a real counselor like a licensed psychiatrist or talk therapist first.

Sexual molestation is a very harmful blow to your psyche and I certainly don’t wish to trigger anyone who has been molested and hasn’t done some inner healing work first.

I know while reading these emails who is emotionally able to receive kundalini Shakti and who is lying to themselves by the way they express themselves through the written word. I also know that most sexual molestation victims typically can’t reach out on the phone to even talk to me in real time because they may not be ready to start the healing process just yet.

I do receive many earnest emails from new clients who won’t ever call me and that to me speaks volumes because if they can’t use their own throat chakra to express their goals and desires to me or anyone then their personal power is being blocked and it isn’t part of their truth to want a real shift or change to occur.

When I read emails I’m not expecting anyone to really follow through until I hear it in their voice first.  I can always tell who is ready to relax and be healed and who is just too nervous and kidding themselves .

I myself have had a few disappointments with psychic readers who just weren’t tapping into my consciousness. These readers might be great with other people who aren’t as self aware as I am but I do know what it’s like to seek real help and realize no one has the ability to fix me…I have to fix myself.

One tantra session with me will clear away some cobwebs of debris and make you feel more hopeful, motivated and refreshed; but then you yourself are responsible every day afterwards to pursue your own self healing journey, whether it’s counseling, journaling, self reiki, better diet, walks in nature or positive visualization.

Whenever anyone was traumatized I always suggest we meet eachother for coffee first and get together so I can take notes and ascertain what is the very best session I can offer to someone I don’t personally know. I will charge a small fee however because I’m a professional and I’d like to be honored for my time. The fee is nominal and is used as a deposit towards reiki, chakra balancing or tantra for a future session.

I do not feel it’s fair of anyone to expect me to give a free psychic healing or free consultation through email alone or a long phone conversation because it means the new client is feeling me out.  I can’t convince anyone that the time is right for a tantra ceremony or tantra massage.  I’m not dissuading anyone from plunging ahead but when I receive too much information in my first email from a complete stranger and no phone call after I respond to them then I know I’m being lied to.

Only a handful of people who have tried tantra before know that every teacher or tantra yogi presents their sessions individually and if the teacher is any good he or she will use their intuition along with a couple of goals from their new student as a guide.

If I suggest a meet and greet over coffee it’s because I do want to get to know you as a friend so that when we have our first tantra session you won’t be worried or self conscious or scared.

When I meet new guests for coffee it’s because I feel that person needs a nudge and because I feel that individual needs to vent and share more of their story with me.  I only charge $50 for our initial consultation fee and it’s used as a deposit towards any session you choose.

I also encourage everyone to read my website at least once so that they can ask me educated questions rather ask me what my fees are. My fees are determined by the session you choose.  I have many choices on my website from cuddle therapy to reiki to advanced tantra, to Goddess Worship.  I have basic sensual massage all the way up to a full day of spa tantra retreats for people who have the time and the budget.

My ideal candidate is anyone emotionally mature to enjoy a journey of chakra balancing, therapeutic bodywork, reiki, aromatherapy and kundalini tantra massage.  I do not solicit anyone who isn’t psychically ready because that’s a waste of time for everyone involved. I’m not a free, unpaid, advisor.  I am not obligated to continue emailing anyone who can’t simply pick up the phone and find ten minutes out of their day to talk to me like a mature adult.  I do not need to read your life’s history in order to give you a good healing.  I do understand it takes a lot of trust to begin any alternative healing journey and that’s why I recommend meeting me for a paid consultation if you have any doubt prior to meeting me.

I needed to write this article today because I do get frustrated and disappointed when new guests make prejudgments about my skillset or my motivations.  My motivation is to work with new clients who will benefit from my healing touch and who will appreciate and enjoy my services.  I do this work because I’m good at moving energy and I love healing through touch.  I do not however like being used as a free psychotherapist.  I do not need to read through lengthy emails from people who are fooling themselves and trying to fool me.  I do offer paid talk therapy and paid coffee consultations for anyone that has even a shred of doubt.

I hope this article helps you understand that tantra is just one of many healing paths to help you achieve self awareness and balance; but you yourself have to continue following your own path of magic and self love.

If you know you are ready for one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago please call me today at 312 339 7707.  If you want to meet me for coffee this week in Chicago or nearby suburbs I will work around your schedule and have a real time honest discussion with you so you can make an educated choice and give you advice.

My main website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so spend an hour reading it prior to calling me in person.  If you want to break the ice by sending me a brief email you can use my primary contact form or either of these email addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Introduce yourself briefly using your real name so I know you are sincere and so I know you are a legitimate new student of tantra.

You do not need to send me your life story; in fact I discourage you from divulging too much information because part of our tantra ceremony will include us meeting together and chatting briefly before our tantra massage even begins in real time.  We will have ample time to talk about anything you wish once we have our first tantra session together.

Do not be worried if you do not have prior experience in energy work. You are contacting me because you are either curious about what tantra truly is or you’ve had tantra massage and you absolutely love it so you wish to repeat your positive experience with me as your guide.

I’d be delighted and excited to meet you here in Chicago which includes the suburbs of Schaumburg, O’hare, Oakbrook, Elk grove Village, Rosemont and the Magnificent Mile near River North.  I will travel anywhere to you within the city of Chicago or neighboring suburbs.

When you call me directly let me know who you are and briefly introduce yourself to me .  Everything we decide to do will be planned based on your time constraints, budget and personal goals.  FB_IMG_1557631910360

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.

 

If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… http://www.Tantrabutterfly.blogspot.com 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach

312-339-7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.

A full day of tantra with goddess Diana 💓 in Chicago 🐦

So hypothetically, you randomly found me while doing a Google search using two key words–tantra and massage respectively.  You may have searched under alternative healing, chakra balancing, sounds healing and reiki.  Tantra includes all of these aspects and if you want to really delve into the realm of tantra yoga and tantra massage here in Chicago, I’d strongly advise you to plunge in and indulge yourself in a five hour or full day and night of sensory overload 🌒!

I’m professionally trained to help you reconnect to your power centers which includes a full body awakening 🐯 called kundalini Shakti 🐍.  You will be engaged in sound healing, fresh fruit, trigger point massage and a chakra bath that I will prepare for you so you feel embraced and safe.

Our tantra journey will begin with an intimate conversation so I can understand all your goals fully 🎈.  We will be holding hands, touching our heart centers, chanting and laughing.  Laughter is the most healing and empowering medicine and you will feel your pelvic muscles loosen up as I use my intuition to help you create more flow and energy in your power centers we call chakras.

Tantra is about mutual touch, mutual trust, mutual connection and breaking through all the stumbling blocks currently preventing you from acquiring abundance and creativity.  We work together creating a space of healing and gentleness.

Five hours of tantra is as effective as five separate tantra sessions and it will help speed up your awakening through pranayama, third eye activation and an open heart center which helps you heal past the cellular level helping you find the courage to make dramatic changes in your physical and emotional bodies.

Please take some time to read my main website http://www.tantabutterfly.com because i want you to read about my journey as a healer, reiki master, and tantra educator.  Read the testimonials and see if you feel a connection to the words I’ve written over the years.

Each tantra session in Chicago and other cities is unique and we focus on issues you wish to heal or maybe you are innately curious and you wish to let down your guard and help co create sacred space with me.

I welcome your questions so you may email me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or simply call me at 312-339-7707.

Tantra will change your body, electrify your spirit and help you regain your sense of connectedness.

Goddess 🌹 Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Goddess Diana ❤ Benefits of Tantra Massage in Chicago ♡

Tantra is a skill and a form of meditation that has been practiced by Tibetan monks, Buddhists and Hindus for well over 9000 years. We can trace Tantra yoga’s origins to the mountains of India where religious sects practiced sexual, sacred ceremonies called Pujas for a specific purpose such as planting seeds of abundance for a good harvest or simply leading one to a path of higher enlightenment by using sexual energy as a magical component to awaken the third eye via Kundalini Shakti.

Today people are intrigued enough to meet with a Tantra provider to see if there is anything Tantra can do for their emotional frame of mind or simply out of complete curiosity.

Today’s culture embraces a more pragmatic ritual where we combine a full body hands on healing rather than a random puja ritual of meeting in a sacred circle to team up with a complete stranger for a sacred sexual act to consecrate the land.

Modern Tantrikas invest their time in you– teaching you the right way to breathe fully and connect with you so that you are fully in the moment and not distancing yourself or detaching from your own body.

Modern tantra yoga involves full body Tantra Massage, belly breathing, eye gazing, mutual touch, mutual connection, and opening up your boundaries during peaks of pleasure. All your erogenous zones are awakened playfully and are used to tenderly heal your old emotional wounds to prepare you for sacred space.

You will learn to give up your need to control as your tantra guide stimulates your sexual energies with compassion and slow, soothing strokes. This is not about an end result nor is tantra about obtaining an orgasm.

Tantra helps you use your own sexual energy as medicine for your body. If you have a hard time falling asleep at nights your tantra session will help get you in a more relaxed frame of composure; but if you are too tired all the time tantra can also give you that extra zing for life and boost your energy level because Tantra can either be a stimulant for those who are too tired to function or it can act as a sleeping aide for insomniacs. Your body will determine what it needs from the tantra session so what ever does happen will be for the best.

Here are some wonderful reasons to try a tantra session for the first time.

1. Relax and Restore your Body and Mind

Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.

I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation

My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.

Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.

As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

3. Emotional Healing

One’s journey into Tantra involves emotional healing and the pealing of all your layers so that you evolve and become more open and honest with yourself. Tantra is designed to help you receive love with a more open heart.

As I teach you breathing techniques your chest cavity is more open and this leads to emotional healing and more heart openness. You will deal more honestly with yourself rather than burying your feelings.

You might find yourself crying or laughing during your state of openness and all this leads to greater compassion for yourself and others. Your emotional blocks are skillfully addressed during an extended ceremony as you let down your shields and learn the art of self acceptance.

When you learn how to receive pleasure and unconditional love your self esteem grows and your relationship with others is enhanced and improved.

4. Experience PEACEFULNESS AND Pleasure

Peace of mind is achieved during our shared Tantra ceremony. We will both experience mutual pleasure because I love making sure you are enjoying yourself and getting lost in the moment which brings me pleasure because I love making people feel good.

Your pleasure will come in many forms which includes complete muscle relaxation, full body waves of bliss, emotional restoration and the physical release that comes from having a spiritually infused orgasm which is called Kundalini Shakti activation and leads to even more bliss.

5. Tantra leads to Self awareness

The true goal of any tantra student is to attain Nirvana in a very natural and non invasive way. As I teach you how to breathe deeply into your Chakra bodies I may have you visualize that your pineal gland is getting brighter and clearer and this helps activate your Crown chakra leading you to a greater connection to Source.

As you gain trust in your ability to connect to a higher Power or your own inner power you begin to trust in your inner voice and inner intuition. There will be no more room in your life for self doubt; you will simply trust yourself each time you schedule a tantra session. Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to breathe and simply “Be” the more you will begin to have faith in yourself rather than relying on others to guide you.

6. Your Quality of Life Improves

Tantra yoga teaches you self discipline because we do everything slowly together and I teach you how to curb your impulses and your natural inclination to get to the “good stuff” first.

Whether you decide you wish to hire me to focus on your pleasure only or you wish to learn the art of sexual orgasm I am here to teach you how to touch with intention and with slowness so that you are not rushing into anything for the sole purpose of an end goal.

There is no end result we need to achieve. Our shared time is considered sacred and life in itself is an act of celebration and we make mistakes and learn along the way. Its okay to make mistakes and repeat sessions for the sake of learning how to slow down.

We focus on the present moment and we are not worried about where you were or what you need to become. We share a moment in time during our tantra ceremony and I teach you how to expand time so that you can no longer feel the passage of time and space.

Men who are concerned about ejaculatory control or premature ejaculation will find benefits to spending time practicing tantra massage and tantra breath with me. I will make sure you are not worried about an end result. You will feel more composed and secure so that your quality of life will improve as you keep yourself focused on the now.

8. Acquire Abundance

So you are probably wondering how abundance comes into play with our sacred ceremony. After all you are spending good money to see me and you wish to invest your money into a positive experience that will potentially benefit you emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially.

There is a special sacred ceremony we can partake in together during your session and it is called a Muladhara Chakra awakening or prostate activation.

Prostate massage is a gateway to help you establish a better sense of trust and self awareness. You learn to let go as I gently penetrate you with my finger and send you healing but powerful energy that will help awaken your kundalini energy and bring you the abundance you crave.

I personally find that men who are by nature very secure in their ability to make a good living love prostate massage the most and they are completely open and trusting feeling waves of insurmountable pleasures as I activate their prostate.

It is interesting to note that men who have a hard time giving up “control” and men who do not feel completely secure have a tendency to tighten up and feel nervous as I attempt to activate their kundalini energy this way.

Everything takes practice and patience and if the thought of acquiring abundance intrigues and excites you; but the thought of being penetrated repulses and alarms you then we can take slow steps getting you to the point where you trust me enough to stimulate you in this way.

I can assure you that if this idea appeals to you but you are too afraid you can let me know your boundaries ahead of time and I can still activate your prostate from the outside without fully penetrating your anal area.

Energy is energy and intentions can carry energy just as skillfully as a more firm touch or caress.

9. Combat Stress and Fatigue

Tantra massage is a gateway to helping you combat fatigue and stress due to adrenal fatigue failure.

During my sessions I place a very strong emphasis on your core which is your third Chakra or solar plexus. Your solar plexus is your mini solar system and helps you with your intuition as it helps you with body signals.

I am sure you know what it’s like to feel butterflies in your stomach right before a performance, a speech or before meeting with someone you have deep feelings for.

Your stomach carries a great deal of stress and so I will be massaging your tummy during our session so you can feel safe and loved. This massage aides your digestive system and encourages your body to produce less cortisol so you are not in a constant state of fight or flight.

If you see me on a regular basis I can assure you you will be on your way to greater rest, less stress, and you can start losing weight with ease.

During your belly massage I will encourage you to take deep, slow belly breaths and all this deep breathing will improve your energy levels and get oxygen flowing to your brain and other organs decreasing your fatigue and helping you to get to a prolonged feeling of ecstasy when we address your erogenous zones.

Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantra massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantra focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress levels as a result of your tantra ceremony.

In summary if you want to gift yourself the pleasure of unsurpassed sensuality, dedicated deep tissue massage and the ability to withhold and sustain heightened sensory awareness then call me immediately and schedule an extended tantra ceremony with me soon!

Please read my personal website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of ceremonial options then call me directly 312-339-7707

Goddess Diana
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*
Journey with me
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The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Chicago Tantra Massage presented authentically by Goddess Diana

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Tantra Massage and Tantra Therapy in Chicago and all cities to keep you feeling loved ♥

So hello again everyone who takes the time to keep up with my blogs and Tantra musings.
Yes as you can see I am a fan of Amy Winehouse I just wish I could have had the opportunity to work with her in person and maybe help heal her heart Center and get her feeling more aligned and good about herself.

The main reason I write here is writing is very enjoyable for me and if you have not discovered my main website I would love for you to click onto to it and read my testimonials and the articles. I have not done any recent photo gallery changes because I was not particularly inspired with a special theme but I am getting close to a complete change soon enough and will do updates to my photo gallery once I change my “look” again.

I invite you to please click onto my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and when you feel the urge to finally meet me please set up a special time when you know you won’t be interrupted so you can finally taste tantra for yourself and understand how it is a building block to get you to better lifestyle changes.

In the meantime I do have facebook pages for you to enjoy and you can look up my pages which are Tantra Butterfly, Goddess Diana and Camouflage Butterfly. I have been on every form of social media for quite some time now because I want you to know I have nothing to hide and I am not ashamed of the career path I have chosen since I was in my early twenties.

I have copied and pasted some information for you from my facebook pages so feel free to visit my pages and like them on facebook if you feel inclined to support my cause.

Tantra Butterfly
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Hello beautiful people of Chicago! So I have not written anything here for a while but I do have a regular blog where I try and keep people informed of my visits to different cities and topics that interest me.
If you have not had time to view my blog please visit it here at http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com and I have written many essays when I am on road trips and when I return to Chicago.
As fate would have it I am still here visiting Chicago and I normally do not like spending my winters here but enough people from my past have kept me busy enough to warrant me staying for a while longer and I get requests once in a while from people out of town who wish to try one of my full day tantra retreats.
What I have learned about tantra is it keeps you in “hope”. A lot of people reach out to me because their energies are shut down and they have just left a relationship. Our chakras do shut down from non use and initially a chakra will shut down for its own protection but if you over do it you begin to realize that the shut down chakras like your heart energy or sensual centers can close down your creativity and all our energy centers flow into each other so you may notice or feel stagnation like you are in a stuck place and do not know where to start to get the energy flowing again.
When you are in love then you feel more “hopeful” about everything and challenges are not complicated because you feel supported from your loved one. Your body takes on a glow and you feel a rush of good vibes. Once your love is no longer there in the background like a loud support team you feel almost as if the love was never real at all. I am not saying all people feel crushed but typically there is a grieving process where your heart mourns and you are feeling a retreat and or a retractions of energy. Everything becomes more of a chore again and you are less inclined to want to socialize immediately.
if you find yourself feeling like you are no longer yourself you need to resist the temptation to keep to yourself indefinitely and consider participating in life again which means you should force yourself to attend plays, group activities and fun events by yourself or with platonic friends so you feel you can support your own joy.
I always welcome singles and couples to work with me when they are not feeling that “joy”. Your inner well being is very complex and you can’t expect yourself to be a lone wolf or solitary every day of the year. Pets are wonderful companions and we find kinship and solace from their company and unconditional love but they still depend on you so you should practice positive self care on a daily basis and pour self love into your heart just as much as you love your animals or your closest friends.
Let me be your support system when you feel you are ready to start opening up your chakras again. I have many sacred techniques I love to use and cuddling is one of them. I am a huge fan of massage and cuddles to help you feel so alive and refreshed that you are back to feeling more like you.
Every tantra muse or healer is here to help you feel more nurtured, more awakened and more abundant. Tantra keeps you here not there in the past mulling over regrets. I am not here to reprogram you but I am here to help you charge up your own chakra bodies and your own potential for self healing.

We need more than food, shelter and money to keep us feeling in tune. If you go without nurturing for too long it will affect your motivation and your creative purpose. Let me help you manifest more positivity in your life and I hope you feel motivated to call me for a tantra healing if you are in Chicago this week.

And I encourage you to call me with questions because I do know not everyone is familiar with what I do and there are many misconceptions and false assumptions.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse,
Tantra Yoga Educator
Lomi Lomi Massage therapist
Bodyworker
Healer
Chakra balancing
Sacred Space Facilitator
Couples Tantra Coach
312-339-7707