Many people have very little understanding of what an authentic tantra yoga ceremony will be like or what these ceremonies consist of.
All tantra practitioners have their preferences and their own unique spin on how they like to create sacred space. We all have our gifts and I suggest if you’re seeking a session for the first time you do your research and use your gut intuition on which Dakini aligns most with your goals and expectations.
My ceremonies are all inclusive and I will always implement a traditional therapeutic deep tissue massage during each session because physical pain in your body blocks the pathway to bliss. I always ask my clients beforehand where they are experiencing the most pain and then I focus on that particular area of discomfort first so that my client’s physical body is free of inflammation.
You are unique and you deserve to be treated to a beautiful array of healing sounds, mantras, breathwork instructions, Aromatherapy, tantra massage, intuitive, nurturing touch and chakra balancing.
Hello 👋 I’d be delighted to teach you everything I know about how energywork #tantra and #chakrabalancing can heal you from trauma, stress and depression.
I’m a certified tantra educator and reiki master; but first and foremost I’m a human being on a unique Karmic journey JUST LIKE YOU!
Because I’m so transparent on all forms of social media I’m highly selective about who I choose to work with.
I never turn anyone away who is completely honest about who they are and what they’re seeking. I also provide referrals to other people in my field if I personally feel I’m not able to fulfill a new student’s needs.
My basic requirements prior to meeting with new students of tantra includes a thorough and painless pre verification process.
Simply provide me with your full legal name during all your initial communications and correspondences with me via text, voicemail or email 📧
You may introduce yourself formally via email@example.com or Butterflyshadows@aol.com or both and always include your REAL legal name, not your nickname or Alias.
Be sure to also include a link to one or two forms of your social media accounts so I can visually see who you are.
I have a contact form on my primary website http:// http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so I strongly encourage you to fill out my contact form making sure to include your age range, background in energywork (if any), profession, social media accounts and your full legal name.
If you need a one on one conversation feel free to call me directly 312 339 7707 but be prepared to provide me with your legal name, age range and profession before I answer any of your questions.
Many people are not calling me from a real phone line. Most people are using the text message feature but not providing me with a full legal name which absolutely makes me feel uncomfortable since I’m transparent on all forms of social media.
I will always accept new students who have read the contents of my website and who are willing to share details about themselves before we meet or even have our first conversation.
Be aware that I’m a certified tantra educator and this is my profession.
I love meeting new people; but if I’m not comfortable because I’m being given aliases, fake email addresses and fake names I’m not able to work with anyone that can’t be transparent.
feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel and you can also view me on LinkedIn.
Better yet– book a paid phone consultation or paid in person coffee ☕ consultation with me prior to your first tantra ceremony.
I guarantee you that if I’m absolutely comfortable speaking with you on the phone then our future tantra ceremony will be deeply relaxing and satisfying for the BOTH of us!
My #tantra ceremonies here in Chicago, Illinois are multi dimensional; but I never force my agenda on anyone! You may create a unique compilation of #chakrabalancing#tantraeducation & massage or let me use my intuition when I work with you.
We will co create #sacredspace together and you are also welcome to just book me for a relaxing 90 minute session just to decompress.
The longer sessions include a #bathritual and are more involved.
Schedule a paid #coffeeconsultation w/me if you are overwhelmed & need my guidance prior to your first #chicagotantra ceremony or full day #tantraretreat
I work with couples, men and women and everyone is welcome to schedule a session with me who I am able to easily verify.
I prefer to be contacted by email first so please send all inquiries to firstname.lastname@example.org or email@example.com and introduce yourself to me making sure to include your full legal name, goals and budget.
My sessions will naturally include all the basics of tantra yoga which involves breathing techniques, sound healing, chakra balancing and Kundalini activation.
Hope to see you soon!
Certified tantra educator
It’s always so much more appropriate to call me directly and if I don’t answer directly leave me a voicemail.
Why do I need to stress this information so consistently? Because most people think text messages are just as good as verbal communication; but in reality it’s a poor substitution for verbal expression.
I tend to express myself better through the written word because I enjoy writing my thoughts down. However if I am being pelted and bombarded with non stop text messages and these are questions directed at me by new clients I get aggravated because a 10 minute phone conversation is all it takes to get your questions answered.
Hearing your voice allows me to establish a connection with you. If I personally feel we aren’t connecting well over the phone I will direct you to another person in my field who might energetically connect to you better. If you need certain services I’m not comfortable offering you at least we had a brief chat and I will happily guide you to your best options.
Time is precious and texts to me are annoying. The only reason anyone should text me is if they wish to introduce themselves to me formally prior to verbal communication.
The perfect text would be as follows: [HELLO DIANA, I’VE READ YOUR WEBSITE AND I FINALLY WISH TO MEET YOU IN PERSON. MY NAME IS JACOB SMITH AND I’M A FLIGHT ATTENDANT FOR UNITED AIRLINES. MY PLANE LANDS AT 3PM TODAY AND I HOPE YOU HAVE AVAILABILITY BETWEEN 4PM TILL MIDNIGHT. I PROMISE TO CALL YOU THE MINUTE MY FLIGHT LANDS ✈️]
You see that’s a text message I can respond to. It’s a concise message informing me who wishes to see me so I’m not in the dark. So many people text me; but they didn’t Google up my website first. I’m not comfortable answering text messages with complete strangers. I like communicating with people who can verify themselves first.
If you must text then introduce yourself to me and give me a time to call you.
Everyone should understand this is the most polite way to communicate with your future healer; but surprisingly the majority of new clients just pelt me with non stop questions without telling me who they are.
When in doubt call don’t text. If you must text introduce yourself to me first so I lnow more about you.
If you are more comfortable introducing yourself to me via email then send me information introducing yourself to me via my two email addresses Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and firstname.lastname@example.org. I will want you to include your full legal name, profession, chronological age range and social media presence. You can give me a brief summary on what you’re seeking and how long of a session you’d like so I know what to suggest for our time together.
I hope all the information I share with you proves to be useful whether you choose to see me for your Chicago tantra needs or whether you visit with other tantra goddesseses in your future.
We all love to be treated with respect; and in my personal experiences the human voice can not be replaced with a vacuous text message unless of course your text message includes information about yourself and your real legal name for screening purposes.
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I upload many videos explaining what ceremonies I can offer you as a beginning student of tantra.
Most of my clients prefer to hire me solely for relaxation purposes only; and honestly that’s fine too!
This labor day weekend (2020) I am making myself available 24/7 to all my loyal repeat guests at a discounted price for all Chicago tantra ceremonies that are two hours in length or longer.
New guests seeking my services this weekend will enjoy the gift of additional time to all Chicago bath ceremonies that are 90 minutes in length or longer.
All clients seeking a FULL DAY of alternative healing which includes a bathing ritual 🛁 for two and alternative bodywork will receive a 40 percent discount. If you can’t make it to see me this Labor Day weekend then you may purchase your discounted session in advance using a credit card and I would be delighted to reserve a future date with you using this weekend discount and applying it to your future session.
I book beautiful spa spaces in Schaumburg, Illinois Chicago, Illinois and Evanston, Illinois.
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You may use your legal name or anonymous alias and I will upload your testimonial to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com without including your email address.
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I invite you to learn about the sacred healing practice of tantra yoga here in Chicago! My intentions are for you to heal, revitalize, meditate and reconnect your energies.
As your tantra teacher and Goddess I will graciously prepare your body for deep healing, spiritual upliftment and the potential to create space in your life for deeper enrichment and growth.
Tantric massage will not only trigger you on a physical level but it can open up your energy body and retrain you into being fully present in the moment.
Tantric massage is a conscious heart opening skill that involves breathing, eye gazing, sound healing with chanting (mantras) energetic gestures with the hands (mudras) and geomentric symbols we focus on known as yantras.
Tantric massage is very akin to yoga in that we rely upon the breath to consciously awaken our chakra bodies and train ourselves to send our sexual energies from the lower base chakras with conscious breathing into our higher chakra bodies such as our third eye and our higher crown chakra. You will learn creative visualization techniques during your study of tantric massage and how each chakra represents a specific symbol or yantra that will amplify and heal that particular chakra.
The study of tantric massage will allow you to become a sexual magician and you will be able to recycle your own sexual energies for your own personal enrichment. You may find yourself sipping in the Beauty of this Earth rather than “devouring” it in greedy bites.
Before you schedule your first tantra ceremony why not schedule an in depth hour of questions and answers either over the phone for a paid phone consultation or a more personalized live consultation over a cup of coffee or chai? You will be charged a consultation fee but you may use your fee as a deposit towards your first tantra session with me here in Chicago or Schaumburg, Illinois.
Hope to meet you soon whether you decide to treat yourself or hire me as a couple learning tantra massage techniques for the first time.
Tantra massage and tantra yoga is all about creating healthy boundaries and maintaining balance in your spiritual and physical body. Sexual energy is best experienced and explored in a non judgmental environment and I would love the opportunity to create that for you.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com Prior to contacting me please click directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com Once you visit my main website Tantra Butterfly you will see many ceremonial options to choose from so please pick a tantra ceremony that fits your budget and meets your goals prior to calling me.
Once you decide which ceremony is best for you call me directly at 312 339 7707 🕉 or introduce yourself to me via my email addresses here: Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com Butterflyshadows@aol.com
You are also invited to subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly just to get an idea 💡 of what you might learn during our shared time together as we co create sacred space.
Please follow my blog for weekly updates and additional information on alternative healing and tantra ceremonies I offer. I hope my blog inspires you to schedule a session with me soon!
Good afternoon! It’s so beautiful today here in Schaumburg, Illinois and I just felt the urge to blog here and hopefully gain some new followers.
I think I would love to write about my ideal client because sometimes what we wish for magically manifests for us as we envision what we are actively seeking.
Who is my ideal client? If I could pick anyone, first I’d love to talk about the fact that most people who call me have not read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and don’t even know my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com exists! In fact many people who call me don’t even know my name which is legally Diana. My ideal client therefore is any individual who treats me like a real human being with real feelings and who addresses me by my real name (Diana).
There are many instances where I receive calls or texts from strangers who just call me “babe” or I pick up my phone and instead of being addressed as a person I’m objectified and a random stranger asks me my rates (which are printed on my site) or they ask me for my location. These strangers don’t sound incredibly kind nor do they introduce themselves to me.
Can you imagine how difficult it can be for me to not feel threatened or objectified during these brief exchanges?
My ideal potential new client would be a thoughtful individual who spent 90 minutes perusing my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and going through my options carefully before even calling me directly at (312) 339-7707.
My ideal tantra client who is indecisive will openly admit to me that they had no prior experience with tantra so they would like to hire me for an in depth coffee consultation in person so they can discuss their concerns and goals with me. The advantage of scheduling a meet and greet is the fact that you can meet me in person and not feel intimidated. You can ask me an hour’s worth of questions and then afterwards if you felt like proceeding with a session I will use your consultation fee as your first deposit towards any tantra session you choose.
My ideal potential client is willing to provide me with a real legal name and their social media accounts so I feel safe and relaxed knowing exactly with whom I’m speaking with.
A great client treats me with complete honesty about who they are, what they do professionally and what type of session they are seeking so I can make good suggestions based on their background in alternative healing.
My ideal client treats me like a friend and doesn’t force or push an agenda by seeking services that are not listed as offerings on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
My new client is open minded and communicative and will hopefully agree to refer me to their closest friends or write me a good review if they honestly enjoyed the services I provided them. They do not see my chicago tantra massage services as something shameful to hide nor do they view the experience as an embarrassment or a stigma.
Hopefully my potential client will realize that tantra yoga massage is going to be part of their monthly or weekly maintenance program on a route to spiritual growth, physical well being and mental balance. I’d love it if clients would see me more often and be honest about their monthly budgets so I can be a part of their ongoing ritual towards better self care and health.
If my services seem intriguing to you just introduce yourself to me by calling me directly at (312) 339-7707 or send me a detailed email about yourself via email here:
Let me know who you are; what you’re seeking; your budget and time constraints and your background in energy work.
Please consider subscribing to my YOUTUBE channel TANTRA BUTTERFLY and if you’re reading my blog and you’ve already seen me before in the past please reintroduce yourself to me!
Goddess Diana Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Certified Usui Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Certified massage therapist
Certified pranic Healer
Licensed lomi lomi massage therapist
Licensed hot stone therapist
Please note I require a small deposit towards all ceremonies where I am asked to host a spa tantra ceremony. The more notice you give me the better able I am to prepare something memorable and exquisite. I care deeply about creating a beautiful session that will incorporate healing sounds, heady and aromatic scents and an eye catching, colorful environment that enhances our shared time together as we co create sacred space.
Ah before I forget! Back in the day before we used Smartphones my best clients would simply call me directly rather than inundate me with text messages. You see, your voice reassures me you are serious about seeking one of my healing tantra ceremonies. I am very intuitive and I’m able to better assist you if you call me directly and I can tune into your energy to see if the two of us would make a great energy match. There are so many people out here who have replaced text messages in lieu of a simple less time consuming and direct phone call. The only time a text message is appropriate is if you are at work and would like to schedule a real phone call or if you’re at an airport and would love a session with me once you physically land in my city.
The perfect text message would include your full legal name, your profession and the reason for your call.
Let me give you an example of the ideal and concise text message I prefer to receive from potential tantra students:
[Hello Diana, I’ve already read your website extensively and I definitely would enjoy a session with you soon. My name is Earnest Young and I’m a teacher at Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois. I have time to see you between Monday through Wednesday of this week. What time shall I call you to discuss the arrangements?]
The above paragraph meets my standards for the perfect text message. This individual was considerate and polite enough to introduce himself to me so I feel safe. He willingly volunteered as much personal information as he could so I feel comfortable once we chat live. It makes a world of difference on how I perceive my new potential client if I’m treated with complete respect. I do not enjoy endless text messages from complete strangers who keep me guessing as to who they are.
I hope this particular blog entry has enlightened you on the very best ways you should introduce yourself to your future tantra goddess. Please treat us as equals so that we can provide you with the very best!
Late yesterday evening I received a few very ugly, inappropriate and disturbing text messages sent to my business cell phone.
You can’t possibly imagine how people are still jealous and threatened by healers and educators in my field. People with weak, fragile feelings of self worth find time to attack strangers they never met before.
We who provide healing tools are still treated with complete disdain and misguided anger from strangers daily.
For these reasons I always verify new guests because in a world full of fearful and aggressive people I take nothing for granted. I feel I’ve been extremely transparent on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and you can find information about my services on all social media sites including YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn. Because I hide nothing I deserve to receive the same respect by my potential clients seeking a potential tantra massage ceremony in Chicago, Illinois.
A client of mine had a stroke last week. He only calls me randomly when he got past the point of too much stress. My intuition told me to reach out to him and he is in a hospital bed. Unfortunately he let his levels of stress get to the breaking point by placing work first, money priorities second, his family needs third and his personal health last.
Do you work past your stress limits? You see tantra is a form of yoga and I teach you how to breathe, meditate, slow down your senses and be in the moment. I honor all paths that lead to complete healing; yet I encounter dark energies daily because of the stigma attached to the work I do.
Tantra weaves your Soul with a Universal Source and Grounds your energies. Contact me for #chakrabalancing #reiki #massagetherapy and #tantramassage & #bathceremonies
Please visit my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com You will find many options from cuddle therapy, reiki and heart chakra ceremonies to a full day of Advanced tantra spa retreats.
These sessions are for students seeking alternative healing services, opportunities for spiritual growth and immunity boosting options for self care rituals ❤
My sessions are meant to be a meaningful respite from the noisiness of the World we interact with. You will receive caring, sacred touch, guided breath coaching, Aromatherapy, sound healing, usui reiki and I’m open to helping you with a simple tantra retreat for a half day or full day of an enjoyable journey into the chakras.
I welcome men, women, gender fluid and couples into my tantra practice here in Chicago and neighboring suburbs.
Please email me at email@example.com
Or firstname.lastname@example.org and introduce yourself if you are seeking alternative healing services and traditional tantra yoga massage in Chicago.
I understand we live in a major city and how stress can build up to the point where your immunity is weakened and your thoughts become irrational and cloudy. There is no time in my heart for drama and misdirected anger. I personally make sure I go on meditative walks daily and that I take a chakra bath as often as I need to.
Well, I decided to GET REAL and share some of my personal feelings here tonight. I must admit I’m no longer able to accept a lot of what we’re being fed by the media with regards to our current crisis. I’m actually deeply annoyed and saddened that major large businesses weren’t forced to shut down their doors yet small, independent businesses owned by private entrepreneurs were forced to shut down completely for a very long period of time.
I mean this with all my heart when I say that Chicago is still part of the Midwest and it isn’t a congested city like New York or San Francisco. People here are NOT piled on top of one another. There is still plenty of room in our stores, movie houses, restaurants, sidewalks and tiny farmers markets so that people are never tightly clustered together.
I work for myself so if I decide to take a personal day off I can break up my afternoon and enjoy pastries at any cafe in the city I pick and not once did I notice any of these independent establishments being overcrowded because most people in the city or suburbs are working during the middle of the day.
I’m in strong disagreement with how everything here was handled because advanced reservations and limited seating could have been enforced very early on during this “pandemic” so that tiny businesses could have survived and people would have felt less isolated.
Today I shared my personal feelings on my Facebook wall and since I rarely lie or fake my emotions I decided to make my private thoughts PUBLIC here on my blog for all to see whether they agree with me or not. These are my feelings and opinions and might not be anyone else’s reality; but I truly need to share my disappointment this evening because it’s in my nature not to hide my voice.
Today I’m throwing a pity party for myself and the Hotel industry and all the Beautiful people in this world who are being affected negatively by the shutdown of all the Major Conventions that normally would have brought a FLOODING of Creatives and High Achievers and Doctors to our city.
I’m CRUSHED because every summer usually is PEAK SEASON for tourists and Medical professionals to come to Chicago for a visit. I literally would take a train into the city with my backpack filled with crystal beings, essential oils, my bluetooth wifi and other goodies and as soon as I’d sit down for a beverage my phone would ring and a business professional or Researcher would request my tantra services to their hotel room for the afternoon or evening.
Now that traveling is being monitored and banned these happy, spontaneous moments don’t happen for me anymore.
I had a long list of Repeat clients who remembered me from years back when I used to visit their home cities; and it’s always enjoyable to be reunited with people who deeply appreciate you.
It wasn’t unusual for me to receive invitations from new clients to visit them in their Corporate apartments or hotel room and if the session went extremely well they would inquire and request I come back later for a 2nd visit after all their business meetings were concluded for the day .
I’m grieving today because I miss being trusted and needed. I’m positive there are many others just like me still in deep shock and feeling a combination of denial, hopelessness and a sense of deep loss.
Who doesn’t LOVE being needed. I always appealed more to the visiting businessman than people who already reside in my home city.
To all the professionals, artists and healers finding so much extra spare time on their hands I completely EMPATHIZE with you 🧸
I’ve said all I needed to say. Every dime I’ve earned I’ve always given back to small independent business owners. Each time I dine out and have an extraordinary experience I’m the first one to write a positive review to peak people’s interest and to increase the chances of that restaurant to generate more income.
I’ve been generous with my reviews and my Instagram posts; but honestly I have yet to receive the same reciprocity because very few Native Chicagoans feel that my tantra offerings and reiki sessions are worth exploring or experiencing. Very few people here in Chicago even know or understand what the meaning of tantra yoga or kundalini activation is. The average person here in Chicago has never actually experienced an authentic tantra yoga session where chanting and proper breathing techniques are utilized to activate kundalini Shakti.
I definitely receive inquiries and calls and genuine compliments from people who appreciated my services; but the bulk of work opportunities I receive are from tourists and visiting business professionals who come here from other countries or other cities within the United States.
I have had some exceptional clients and good friends write me positive reviews which I deeply appreciate; but I’ve also had complete strangers write me fake negative reviews online just because I wasn’t available for their needs so they took it personally and slandered me online.
I feel deeply sorry that we continue to suffer and are being kept completely in the dark about when we will finally be allowed to convene again and restart conventions and major events like summer festivals and art block parties that give everyone an opportunity to meet like minds and let go and relax.
Life doesn’t sit still indefinitely based on fear. Being fear based and withdrawn doesn’t support Spiritual growth. I hate how we’re going backwards in time and becoming more Volatile and less tolerant.
We all need eachother. We all need to support one another and be open and honest about our needs. When you take and take and take remember to give something back. Don’t deplete all the Resources you enjoy— learn to replenish and support every person you met who brought you joy. Don’t take anything for granted indefinitely because when you turn around it might not be there anymore.
When you schedule a tantra ceremony with me this summer you are supporting a Native Chicagoan— not a transplant from another city. You have taken the time to do your research on Google under two simple key words— Chicago tantra. Perhaps you ran into my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com a year ago or three months ago but you didn’t have time or you weren’t sure the experience would meet your expectations.
I cordially invite you to enjoy my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend quality time reading my About Tantra section and of course please read my Articles about tantra massage and its many benefits to your health. As you get comfortable with my website you might decide to explore my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly. I uploaded numerous educational and also playful videos about what you can expect when we meet for a tantra ceremony in Chicago.
Please subscribe to my channel and watch a few videos. If you are still confused meet me for a paid coffee consultation so you have a chance to be heard and SEEN by me prior to our first ceremony and journey into chakra balancing and kundalini massage.
In this article I openly discuss my personal definition of the Term GODDESS. Goddesses are portrayed in Greek Mythos, Roman Mythology, Druid Cults, Germanic Fables and are known for having certain Qualities and Unique Gifts that we worship and honor them for.
The word Goddess is also used to describe an incredibly beautiful, Ethereal Being who supercedes our normal definition of the word Beauty. She is not just considered Gorgeous and cosmetically pleasing to the Eye; but she is Immortal, Super Human, Magnetic and Mesmerizing. A Goddess is an Enchantress who can either bestow Blessings or Curses on the Mere Mortal dependent upon how they treat her.
The BDSM community also uses the term Goddess to describe a powerful woman who controls the men and women who choose to worship her and pay her handsomely for the privilege of receiving her punishment and praises. Of course I myself am NOT a BDSM professional and there is a strong community that will give you much more information on BDSM than I care to elaborate on here.
When I however use the Title “Goddess” on myself; I am doing so because I am doing the healing and Magical work of the Goddess as I co create Sacred Space during my Tantra ceremonies for my Guests.
I use my nurturing hands and my intuition to reopen portals of untapped energy and bliss within your body known as Kundalini Shakti. As we share a tantra ceremony together we are both actively exchanging energies as we breathe together and gaze into one another’s eyes.
I hope you will subscribe to my YouTube channel under my Company website name Tantra Butterfly.
Prior to contacting me I would love for you to spend at least 90 minutes on my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I can assure you most of your questions will be answered there. Once you carefully read through my website you are invited to call me (NO TEXTS) on my mobile at (312) 339 7707. If you have never tried a tantra ceremony before and you genuinely have an hour’s worth of questions for me; I strongly recommend you hire me for a one on one in depth coffee consultation and I’ll help guide you and help you choose the best tantra ceremony for your goals and needs.
If you are drawn to my services we can arrange to meet initially via a paid coffee consultation here in Chicago or you may dive right into my teachings and schedule a two hour journey in tantra yoga, reiki, chakra balancing and alternative healing that will both delight and refresh your senses.
If you choose to email me initially please include your full legal name, age range social media presence and occupation so I know more about you. Please remember to include a phone number so that I can reach out to you directly.
The video I created in my article here can be viewed in it’s full entirety on my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly. You are encouraged to subscribe to my channel and you are welcome to join my network of professionals on LinkedIn. ❣