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How Tantra enhances your communication

Tantra yoga and tantra massage trains and teaches you how to be more firm about your boundaries helping you train your partner to understand what it is you need.

I have been contacted by many couples of the years and very few people understand it’s mostly about tenderness and connection. It’s truly that simple and if your partner is to shy to achieve an orgasm during our time together there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. This isn’t about having a full body orgasm on command. Tantra is about heart connection and building trust.

You should both feel centered and focus on the breath and mutual pleasure with healing and loving intentions. If the spark and mutual trust has been broken between the two of you hopefully on couples tantra ceremony will begin. Don’t worry about your performance and Don’t worry about looking glamorous because this is about mutual sharing and connection we aren’t performing a show together we are creating a sacred space for healing to take place.

Regardless of which ceremony you choose whether it’s strictly for yourself and your healing journey or as a couple your boundaries and needs will be addressed and clearly communicated before and during our session. You are allowed to change your mind about what we do and how much time we spend together. You can even ask for a break in the middle of our time together if you’re tired or need to take a hike. I literally am easy going for as long as you’re completely honest I won’t take it personally.

In fact one time I was hired by the sweetest older CEO who was having an affair with a younger woman and she had a long history of sexual abuse as a teenager. She panicked and took a thirty minute break during our session to smoke outside and process unhealed anger and emotions. When she returned she told her boyfriend that under no circumstances did she feel comfortable with me offering him prostate massage and so the session ended an hour earlier than what was originally planned. Initially my feelings were hurt to be evening dismissed like that however when we all met for dinner the evening before she warned me that she might not react well because she was only agreeing to couples tantra to please him. She was never comfortable being exposed and vulnerable and trying a new technique to restore intimacy. She literally warned me so I was almost expecting the drama to ensue during our actual session.

Unfortunately I never saw them again and he had expressed to me before we all met that they had a very physical and raw sexual relationship but that the spiritual aspects and breathwork was completely missing and it frustrated him. She also suffered from fibromyalgia a chronic nerve pain that made her sensitive to touch.

Everything that happens to us physically as children, young adults and throughout our lives here on Earth 🌎 has a profound affect on our thinking patterns and the way we process energy. If we have faulty thinking patterns from prior abusive relationships with our parents and family we may be paranoid or expect the worse from others. When we react in an illogical way we blick healing and new opportunities. We block love and we block abundance.

If you feel stuck and want to explore your sexuality i would love the opportunity to help you tap into and access your Kundalini energy.

My main website is

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

And my direct contact number is 312 339 7707

I am always available for virtual coffee ☕ soynd healing and chakra balancing via WhatsApp for $100 per hour.

I now offer intuitive phone Guidance

This past summer a new potential customer requested phone chats repeatedly and even though we never ended up meeting in person for a tantra ceremony I was kept quite busy with phone chats. I realized most people already know what they need to do in real life however they value feedback or rather an impartial non judgemental ear to listen to their life stories.

He wanted someone to listen to him even though his life is vastly different from mine and I listened, provided feedback, asked questions and after about two months we parted ways.

I enjoyed the fact that I was trusted with his secrets and I have absolutely no intention of sharing his personal life with anyone because as a professional that would be a violation of my code of ethics even though I’m not a licensed psychologist or social worker.

I ended up never meeting this CEO in person because it turns out he has greater needs and desires from someone in my field that go against my morals and personal boundaries. This doesn’t mean he’s a bad person but I feel that in order for me to give my very best I must feel safe, comfortable and feel like I am engaging in a healthy, karmically sound activity that won’t harm me energetically.

Even if I never meet you in person you are still welcome to schedule phone consultations with me and I actually enjoy the verbal interaction.

If you are a sensitive person seeking advice and you just need the opportunity to be heard and share ideas please consider booking me for intuitive phone guidance.

You are also encouraged to schedule a reiki and sound healing ceremony with me or a tantra massage ceremony that includes alternative healing, intuitive bodywork, cuddle therapy and authentic tantra massage.

Please refer to my website for additional options

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

3312 339 7707

How to awaken your Divine Feminine

Women empower your Divine Feminine energies otherwise known as Shakti by incorporating rhythmic movement such as gentle yoga stretches and belly dancing or any form of dance 

you don’t have to be perfect nor do you have to be a professional to access your Kundalini Shakti

As long as you incorporate movement, breath and presence you can harness your primordial feminine energies.

Why is it important to awaken your divine feminine? Each time we meditate or take some time out for ourselves to visualize and be present in the moment we tap into our creativity and our intuition. Being intuitive and listening to your gut enables to be more self reliant and make better choices for yourself. You stop asking others for outside advice and you just flow into rhythm of being your authentic self.

Being immersed in nature is also a part of awakening your Kundalini especially being around water 💧 sources and walking along any body of water. If you can’t take time in your day to be near a beach or running river taking a long bath filled with seasalt will also help you awaken your divine feminine essence.

Women are especially vulnerable because we tend to overextend our energies trying to people please. We are more malleable and open to change and challenging our boundaries. In order to find your voice you need time alone to reset and this includes a self pampering ritual like preparing a bath for yourself or giving yourself a mini facial every evening to take care of your skin and beautify your body.

Self care isn’t an option it’s a necessity and life affirming. Everything you do for yourself is an act of self love and helps you set boundaries for how you’d like to be treated and cared for.

Book that massage for yourself and see how much better you feel! Get a manicure and pedicure or if you can’t afford one do these things for yourself. Buy yourself some fresh flowers 💐 or pick them and gather wildflowers and make your space welcoming and feminine.

Men if you’re reading my blog today everything I’m mentioning applies to you too. If you want to empower the Divine Feminine spark with you pamper yourself, meditate, do yoga stretches and dance or walk barefoot in the grass or water.

The divine feminine energies are contained within all of us. Feminine energy inspires you to become more compassionate and empathetic to others especially to yourself. Once your divine feminine is in full expression you communicate better both verbally and through the written word. You also listen better and become less rigid in thinking and more receptive to change and trying new things.

Tantra massage, reiki, breathwork and sound healing will help you access the divine feminine energies within you. Each time we help you achieve full body Kundalini activation you become better at communicating and you become more inspired and creative.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

To schedule a tantra ceremony or reiki healing call me directly from a non blocked smartphone not an APP and be sure to introduce yourself fully to me and I’d love to help you access the highest most creative version of yourself

Being aligned is a playful and sensual experience

How to Access your Solar Star Chakra


Close your eyes and for a few moments imagine how confident, how empowered and how extremely proud you would feel if you had full recollection of all your past lifetimes

I feel so sorry for Agnostics or anyone who doesn’t have a rich dream life or any remembrance of any of the dreams or experiences with the paranormal.

If you feel confused most of the time and lack motivation or walk around feeling spacey these issues can be resolved with time, patience and the right tools 🔧

Let me introduce you to your #8thchakra aka the #soulstarchakra she resides 6-12 inches away from your 7th chakra (#crownchakra)

She is the seat of your soul giving your life meaning, connecting you to your soul’s purpose and allowing you to receive a deeper connection and alignment with your karma

Once you understand the reason for your incarnation you feel more self confident more self aware and at peace….think of how much you could accomplish if you could remember what brought you here…

The soul star itself is iridescent gold and white and serves as a bridge between two separate worlds 🌎 the finite physical world and the infinite spiritual works where we Astral travel

If you feel out of alignment or disconnected from your life’s purpose or if you feel like you lead your life on automatic pilot Do the following to help you enhance your connection to your 8th chakra or solar star

1. Practice mindful breathing exercises
Consciously breathing deeply and Rhythmically serves as a bridge between the physical to the spirit world 🌎

2. Seek out crystals 🔮 and minerals affiliated with the soul star chakra
Choose selenite, clear white stones like clear quartz, phenakite…scapolite..Indigo kyanite…lodalite…etc…do your research
Pick out the stones that are most meaningful to you and meditate with them and carry these stones in your pocket to enhance your connection to your 8th chakra

3.Listen to sacred sounds music that truly calls to you and you alone  ..perhaps you’re a huge fan of the blues, jazz or classic opera choose the music 🎶 that makes you feel inner joy

Look into quartz singing bowls or Tibetan bowl music and do your research on which hertz frequencies activate your Soul Star 🌟

Listen to 272.20 Hz and 1074 Hz these frequencies help open your #pinealgland
Also listen to 341 Hz

All the above mentioned frequencies help you access your intuition, awaken your inner vision and self knowledge and help you gain access to your #Akashicrecords

And by the way
Hint hint hint

Scheduling just one #tantra ceremony with me will help you awaken the energies within your #kundalini through #breathwork intuitive bodywork, #soundhealing and co creation of sacred space

These aren’t just words
These are simple actions you can take daily and once you get into the habit of activating and accessing your soul star chakra you will feel ✨ a sense of peace
As you begin to rely on your intuition ✨ instead of relying on empty habits and what society dictates

During your #tantra ceremony I will help you take your sexual energy from your root chakra and use your breath to send your energy up through your higher chakras eventually traveling through your heart chakra portal until your energy exits and flows out from your crown chakra to your solar star….this transmission of electricity leads you to the highest version of yourself
In the spiritual realm

All forms of #yoga help you regain access to your lifeforce and your life’s purpose

#sacredintimate #sacredsexuality
#sensualwellness #chicagotantra

I hope this article convinces you to reach out to me to try at least one tantra ceremony with me. I can confidently guarantee you that you will begin the process of healing from trauma or numbness just by scheduling one ceremony with me.

Please follow this link to access my main website Tantra Butterfly

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Learning how to activate your 8th chakra should be fun and playful and if you invest in yourself you will feel more confident and less confused and scattered.

Hope to hear from you soon

(312) 339-7707



Google My Business suspended my profile (again)

This is a message to whomever reported my business profile on Google– I wish you nothing but bad karma. I’ve always been caring and extremely generous to all my clients. The only people I don’t work with are unkind, self entitled men who hate women. Men who think that I don’t deserve to know their real legal name because I’m not worthy of respect and my safety isn’t important.

My services are for people who actually respect me and feel absolutely no sense of shame when they reach out to me. I am not a scary, cruel person. I don’t mistreat people who visit me. I work with plenty of wonderful people and then there are a handful of people who don’t listen. They don’t know how to listen and honor my boundaries or they choose not to listen because I’m the service they hired.

There are also people who think my pricing is unfair and an absolute rip off because they think the work I do is extremely easy. Others think I charge way too little because some of my competitors charge $800 for two hours of tantra and so new guests assume I must not be any good at what I do because literally I don’t charge anywhere near that.

Some people decide against working with me because via email they ask me if I’m still working in my field and when I reply and give my pricing information and deposit procedure they never call me at all. Instead they passive aggressive and shop around for the most submissive practitioner who will take them on as a new client without requiring a deposit.

They disappear not asking me why I need a deposit. They move on and pick someone else because I wanted to be treated with respect and like a real business professional.

Anyway now that my page is gone I don’t have to worry about the petty retaliation from angry men who flag my profile because I refused them my services. I can be just as cruel as the men and women who contact me, ask me questions and move on to the next person.

Another possibility is the fact that I uploaded five new photos to my Tantra business profile then created an update and a coupon code offering couples a discount. Now that could have triggered the AI robots 🤖 since I added so many changes to my profile within three business days. Perhaps the AI Bots are now directed to go after business accounts with the words tantra as a keyword.

Well this is literally the fifth and final Business profile I create. My long-term account was removed two years ago because I used a PO Box as a physical address to protect myself. I didn’t want to use a real physical address and have strangers visit me unexpectedly and ring my doorbell. Having a PO box used to be legally acceptable for small business owners to use on Google Maps for many years. Two years ago Google stated they no longer accept PO Boxes so instead of sending all of us a warning with enough time to change our addresses on Google Maps the AI BOTS suspended every business owner with PO Boxes not caring that our business opportunities would be negatively impacted.

So here I am it’s late at night and I’m in a city that no longer offers me the same flow of work I used to enjoy. No matter how much I market myself people call, ask me rude or annoying combative questions and move onto the next person. Clearly I’m emotional ly ready to let go of this negativity and move to a different city where I am more welcomed or it could be opportunities are drying up because men don’t respect older tantra practitioners and they move onto booking an appointment with a younger woman they can mold and easily manipulate.

To anyone who flagged me may you receive the same treatment and loss of work opportunities.

I AM DONE….

The number one most hurtful question I was asked within 3 weeks

Well what shall I say. How do I begin even? A new client asked me two weeks ago If I would have a safe environment for her to visit. I replied by being genuinely confused and asked her why she might feel unsafe and what made her think she would be unsafe.

She Apologized and said she was just nervous and didn’t know what to ask. My reply of course is I can always prepare sacred space in your home, your condo or hotel as long as it isn’t super far away but if you are an hour away you can take care of my Uber fees round-trip and include a nice tip for my troubles.

I sincerely can’t figure out why my environment would be frightening to anyone but the only suggestion to counter initial fears would be to schedule a coffee ☕ consultation with me and see me in person or create an appointment for a virtual coffee and Q & A session for $100.

I feel a lot of people are afraid of strangers working with their energy especially if they’ve never even tried reiki or tantra yoga in a group setting let alone a more private space where the focus is on you.

All I can say is you have to start somewhere and if the experience is positive then continue practicing tantra massage until you feel an improvement in your energy and your outlook on your issues. If the experience was underwhelming or you felt uncomfortable then at least you tried it once and you can wait a few months or a year and try it again when you feel more emotionally ready.

The key is to let go and release all your fears and expectations of what you think you’re supposed to feel and experience. If you decide to book me for a coffee ☕ consultation in person bring a few index cards with you with prepared goals and questions to ask me. I promise to bring you my full attention and a journal and jot down everything you wish to share.

You can’t learn anything about Kundalini energy by reading books or watching videos. You learn how to access your sexual energy by experiencing an authentic tantra ceremony where breathwork and chakra balancing are implemented to help you harness and restore your emotional and spiritual well being.

I hope you give my tantra ceremonies a chance without doubting yourself or creating a barrier of fear based on self doubt.

Please read my website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly 312 339 7707 and send me a short email introduction

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

when contacting me by phone or email or text message please include your full legal name and occupation for the verification process

I pride myself on being an extremely friendly and outgoing person who never judges anyone. Please don’t judge me without at least meeting me in person

Your fears are valid but don’t allow your fear to prevent you from discovering your own personal reserve of healing energies within you.

How to safely access your Kundalini Shakti 🐍

Maybe you’ve heard of Kundalini Shakti and read about it.  There is nothing harmful about learning how to activate your Kundalini energy if you practice gentle breathwork techniques and enjoy a bit of yoga 🧘‍♂️ every day.

Let’s define Kundalini Shakti the Power of the Serpent Goddess 🐍 who resides within your lower tailbone.

She is known as the coiled serpent Goddess who holds primordial, raw powers that will travel from the base of your spine and inch her way slowly by uncoiling…upwards through each of your #chakras leading you to be more spiritual, more intuitive and more aligned with your purpose.

Kundalini translated from Sanskrit literally means “coiled”. Once you learn to access your Kundalini energy you feel more connected to Source or a feeling of being connected and intertwined with Nature and Universal like force.

Once your own Lifeforce is activated you will feel tingling sensations, heat, cold shivers and you may laugh or release tears.  All of these energetic shifts are your body’s way of releasing trauma and shedding layers of stored memories.  

Meditation, yoga, chakra balancing, breathwork, pranayama, Tantra yoga and bodywork are all helpful activities that will help you slowly activate your dormant energy.

Never be fearful of my tantra massage ceremonies.  I will not be rushing you into a Kundalini awakening.  

A major traumatic experience like an automobile accident or other severe physical energy can potentially jolt your Kundalini Shakti awakening before your body is physically or spiritually prepared.  But one session with me will not shock or jolt your nervous system!

To book a paid phone or coffee ☕️ consultation please contact me via email 📧 

or by 📞 call me directly 312 339 7707

There is no charge to call me if you’re ready to schedule a tantra ceremony or reiki and sound healing session 

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Remember only a NDE (Near Death Experience) will be jarring to your Kundalini energy. A soothing tantra massage or Guided meditation with a Guru will not lead to any negative symptoms once your Kundalini energy is accessed. Some people see colors more vividly or feel tingly or hear buzzing but no one is physically injured during a gentle awakening of Kundalini Shakti.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Book me for a full day of Tantra for Thanksgiving Holidays

Yesterday was a new Moon 🌚 in Scorpio ♏ and what does Scorpio ♏ embody? Scorpio is mysterious and the opposite of shallow. Every Scorpio I’ve ever met values intensity with al their connections whether they are family, friends or lovers.

Scorpio ♏ seeks out intensity, drama, heightened spiritual exploration. If you have a good Scorpio friend or lover in your circle you understand their desire for meaningful communication not just a sexual encounter. Scorpios ♏ crave depth and they want to understand every part of you and be more than just a friend but a very important part of your Spiritual growth and your empowerment.

In honor of our New Moon in Scorpio ♏ I created a very special vessel of New Moon Water 💧 and you still have time to do this for yourself tonight and tomorrow as the New Moon waxes. Get yourself a glass jar with a lid and fill your jar with purified water 💧 and one or more crystals 🔮 like clear quartz or rose quartz. Add a pinch of Himalayan salt 🧂 or seasalt. Serenade your water with lovely sounds and place your jar on your balcony or by a window to absorb the energy of tonight’s New Moon. Make sure to bring your water inside before sun rise and drink a little bit of it daily. For more ideas 💡 please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and I post a full video of how to manifest using moon water.

Now how should we fulfill our desires on this New Moon? Focus on your dark side. Try to understand every aspect of your personality even the parts that embarass you or cause you to feel pain. Honor your dark aspects and understand exactly what you wish to attract to you. Wishing and manifestation takes patience and faith.

Try activities that will boost your self esteem and try to heal your sexual energy by strengthening your Kundalini Shakti.

My wish this new moon is attract some new serious students of tantra who want to spend hours exploring their power. When my guests heal I heal. When you breathe I breathe with you. Tantra is mutually beneficial. It is a sustainable power loop where we connect to one another’s energies. You will feel energized, empowered and seen for who you are.

Please visit my primary website for a list of ceremonies.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am always available for paid coffee consultations and phone consultations in case you have questions and concerns about tantra, reiki, breathwork and sound healing.

If you are a couple here in The suburbs like Long Grove, Illinois, Barrington, Rosemont and downtown Arlington heights I will be happy to introduce the two of you to basic beginning level tantra ceremonies to a full day of Advanced teachings. I also travel and accommodate my clients who live in city of Chicago.

Call me directly to book a full or half day of healing 312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

My personal experiences with Reiki


Unfortunately there is no predicted outcome for any reiki or healing services you pay for and receive. I cherish the few times I would leave the presence of a gifted reiki master and actually feel like I was giggly, full of hope and walking on clouds. It’s such a wonderful feeling to tap into your higher self after a reiki session that helped you tap into your inner joy.

However I’ve had horrible horrible nightmarish experiences with self proclaimed “healers” who didn’t respect me as an equal or even a human being with feelings and special gifts of my own. These two separate women were “holier than thou” types and both of them even mispronounced my true legal name because they obviously didn’t care about me. I left these sessions feeling worse about myself and very distressed.

My advice is this — if you feel like your reiki practitioner is triggered by you or they think too highly of themselves then don’t waste your time or money with them.

I’m not saying every session is joyous though. Your body is unique on how it chooses to process energy. You might store unprocessed grief or trauma that you are not aware of. Our body’s cells carry memories so after a reiki treatment you might remember something dark or unpleasant you chose to ignore or forget. There are many layers to peel away as you heal. Grief, loss and depression might be part of your reiki journey and so can intense joy and self awareness.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact:  312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!

Reiki is not a cure all nor a substitution for a mental disorder if you feel you have one. If you regularly suffer from a declining mental health disorder go consult with a mental health professional in conjunction with receiving alternative healing services.

I’ve met clients who vape or take cannabis during or right before or after a tantra and reiki ceremony with me but those drugs are depressants and they alter the positive affects of receiving work in the chakras.

All drugs especially alcohol will affect the central nervous system and it’s advisable not to drink before or after receiving reiki or tantra. You should be drinking a lot of fresh spring, distilled or purified what.

Receiving reiki, sound healing and authentic tantra massage is an investment in yourself. You will definitely feel physically and emotionally lighter after your visit with me. You will look younger and it will feel like a day at the spa. If however you haven’t faced your fears or done your shadow work you might feel a bit sad depending on the trauma your body might be carrying that you’ve never fully addressed. Just be honest with yourself and honor your body. Every emotion you feel and every sensation pulsing through you is valid. You can’t rush healing nor can you continue to suppress your emotions indefinitely.

I am always available whenever you are ready to shift your energies or simply feel human connection again.

When contacting me initially for a session please include your full name and current or past occupation (if you are retired).

I’d love to meet you ❤ for a paid coffee ☕ consultation if you have an hour’s worth of questions or goals you need to share with me prior to your first tantra ceremony. All of your questions and concerns are valid and will be honestly answered.

I work with men, women, non binary individuals and all couples who are seeking healing, connection, knowledge or just pure enjoyment or all of the above.

Hope to meet you soon while I am still in Chicago and all neighboring suburbs surrounding Chicago, Illinois!