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Tantra Massage Retreats In Chicago by Goddess Diana

I highly recommend all new students of tantra plan ahead for a unique and celebratory 3 hour to 6 hour t antra retreat with me here in Chicago, Illinois.
The benefits are endless for as long as you feel you deserve the pampering and the self healing.
Many people however have a hard time simply receiving pleasure. They prefer to give to their partner but they themselves don’t feel deserving of caring, nurturing touch.

The purpose of tantra yoga and massage is to teach you bodily awareness, mindfulness and sensitivity.

I will strive and do my best to awaken your latent and dormant pleasure zones and energy centers (chakras) by using pleasing touch, light caresses, deep trigger point release and Usui reiki on your physical body.

My tantra ceremonies are meant to revitalize and restore you. If you are a writer or director or CEO you need something to inspire your creative spark and encourage your writing or your brain power.

Musicians also need to release their potential through the expression of their sexuality and sexual energies.  Many successful entrepreneurs and musicians have a very open base or Mulhdara chakra and find g spot massage helpful to their mental outlook and in the creation of new musical material

Tantra inspires creativity and intuition
We will focus together on chakra balancing, chakra baths, mutual cuddle therapy, bodywork, reiki, goddessworship, intimacy training, reiki, aromatherapy, soundhealing, and basic tantra yoga exercises that you can use for your daily practices for yourself or with your partner at home.

Do give my services a try.  I genuinely love what I do and I love setting up sacred space
here in Chicago, Illinois.

For a more comprehensive listing of all my services and unique offerings please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend at least 90 minutes there.

I have written articles on what tantra is and everything tantra yoga can offer you.  I have written articles on my main website that might inspire you to dive in and try a tantra massage or spa retreat and get your energies flowing for the better.

Let’s Co create something positive and beautiful together. Married couples are also encouraged to schedule a tantra retreat or any shorter length session with me in the privacy of your home or hotel room.

Remember the *Magic* begins within you.  I am here to simply remind you of how powerful you are and help you release hour own kundalini energies.  I am a Catalyst and an empty Receptacle connecting to Source.  I am not giving you any of my energy nor are taking on any of my energy or Karma.

Tantra is about the co creation of Sacred Space, the establishment of loving boundaries, and Divine touch that activates the Fires within you.

Let’s create memories together and start you on your own journey of transformation and rising Kundalini.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

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You are also encouraged to follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my YouTube channel for additional information on my personal character, firsthand experiences and mini tantra lessons.

I am intentionally transparent so you feel more comfortable with meeting me in person; but for anyone here who is still undecided on what ceremonies to choose from you are encouraged to book me for a paid phone consultation and we can discuss your goals, budget and concerns.

I’m delighted you found me here today and hope we can meet in person soon.  I also have chakra balancing sessions available via a live and interactive phone conversation for anyone who can’t visit with me here in Chicago.

 

Goddess Diana tantra massage in Chicago and suburbs of Illinois

I believe with all my heart and soul that the strict quarantine we are undergoing now is completely unnecessary and extreme in nature; but I do agree in SOME form of social distancing. I have so many good ideas on how to make it work so no one goes broke but sadly I’m not in charge.

A strong NO to people filling up temples, churches and or sanctuaries being fully opened to the public. Places of worship should be half filled only and only if you tested negative to the virus.

Every person here in this country should have received the test by now FOR FREE….IF you  TEST positive you must quarantine and the government gives you paid work you can do at home safely; but ..if  you test negative for the virus you may participate as normal and go to work and meetings with your colleagues but refrain temporarily from hugging and or shaking hands just bow to eachother or hold hands over heart in Namaste.

Restaurants could accept advanced reservations prepaid for in house dining with spaces between every guest. Every 75 minutes the restaurant tells these diners to leave and a 30 minute deep cleaning of tables and chairs takes place to prepare for the next group of inhouse dining guests.

These measures I propose allows the restaurant to have longer hours for the general public to enjoy and waitstaff that tested negative will then be gainfully and happily employed without disrupting our economy.

These same procedures could be utilized with musical events and plays and half filled night clubs with people who tested negative for the virus. In this way no one has to feel dejected, left out or lonely and isolated. I believe in shades of grey not all or nothing.

I have so many beautiful ideas to keep our economy strong and people healthy at the same time.

I wish I was in a position to alter our draconian laws and wish people had more faith in the healing powers of their own body.

If you need a session I’ll be here for you
whether you are seeking long distance healing, a phone consultation or personalized home visit so you can receive healing tantra touch. I have every intention of offering multi hour spa immersions that will help you feel refreshed and hopeful about life again.

Please note these extraordinary services will be brought to your home, Airbnb or hotel only.
If you would like for me to appoint a beautiful spa space for a multi hour spa journey in alternative healing and tantra massage I will require advanced notice and a Deposit must be secured for spa retreats in Chicago.

Please join me in the Co Creation of Sacred Space here in Chicago, Illinois and all surrounding neighborhoods.

I can work in #SCHAUMBURG #EVANSTON #OAKBROOK #OAKPARK #FORESTPARK
#ROSEMONT #OHAREAIRPORT #desplaines #hoffmanestates #Chicago #ARLINGTONHEIGHTS and most neighborhood suburbs that border Chicago, Illinois.

Contract me for couples tantra massage and coaching, reiki, alternative bodywork, chakra balancing, aromatherapy and full day tantra spa retreats with tantra bathing ceremonies for two.

I will work within the strict parameters of your budget, your goals and your time constraints so call me now to discuss all your options during this stressful period 312 339 7707.

If you honestly feel you have thirty minutes worth of questions and you are overwhelmed with the choices listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then you may hire me for a 30 minute phone conversation or full hour phone consultation and I’ll help you make an educated choice based on your needs and my intuitive guidance.

Please only call me if you are genuinely interested in contracting my services for reiki, cuddle therapy or traditional tantra massage and tantra spa retreats.

I will travel to you if you can provide me with full sponsorship to your home city within the United States of America.

Your #yogini
Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Tantra Butterfly

I’m a highly trained professional with over 25 years of experience cumulatively in traditional massage therapy, alternative healing, Usui Reiki, aromatherapy, sound healing and chakra balancing.  Tantra yoga and tantra massage will enhance your ability to achieve higher states of bliss and full body sensitivity which includes the activation and stimulation of your chakras and kundalini Shakti.

These sessions in alternative healing are a form of legitimate yoga and are not only deeply pleasurable but will help you achieve full body awareness, creativity and intuitive abilities.

I hope to work with you soon

Your yogini

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantra in Chicago March 2020 Goddess Diana

Good Morning Chicago!

We are here in the midst of the CORONAVIRUS quarantine order and  people here are worried, bored with nothing to do and or so incredibly busy they can barely breathe!

Every time I try to do a simple grocery run to whole foods my cat’s most favorite food is always sold out or my favorite sesame stick bulk snack is gone.  I just wish people in Illinois would relax because we aren’t experiencing a food shortage or any threat of the apocalypse; we are being challenged by a virus we know very little about.

I’m writing this article today not to complain about how we all ended up here. I’m not going to downplay or sugarcoat anything for you. I’m absolutely not thrilled that we are restricted from doing the activities we have grown to love such as attending a social event or a movie.

I’m writing this article today in the hope that I can be of service to anyone visiting Chicago or residing near our city who now has the free time to actually learn more about tantra massage in Chicago,  Illinois and all neighborhood suburbs surrounding our city.

My website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and there you can find articles, information on tantra and Ceremonial donations. I have so many diverse ceremonies to offer you and I’m I’m positive you’ll find the right service for your emotional needs and or budget. You might be interested in cuddle therapy (fully clothed) or reiki (fully clothed) if you aren’t fully committed to learning about tantra in Chicago.

If you already have your desires set to try tantra massage in Chicago I can offer you a tantra spa intensive for either a half or full day of tantra spa immersions that include a bathing ceremony for two.

During quarantine you can use this time to gain a new understanding of what tantra yoga can offer you and your partner.  I’m offering my services to anyone here in Illinois who knows they are physically healthy and who would love to use their spare time to heal, learn something invaluable and enjoy sacred touch.

If you have been diagnosed with this virus and know you are contagious you can still learn about tantra through a phone consultation which I offer to anyone who can’t physically see me in person for a coffee date meet and greet.  Usually when people are slightly nervous or inquisitive they do wish to meet me in person for coffee so they can share their goals with me.  But unfortunately our restaurants and coffee houses are no longer offering dine in options so I am substituting my phone consultation for a more personalized meet and greet experience.

You are encouraged to hire me for a paid phone consultation if you know you have thirty minutes to an hour’s  worth of questions for me regarding tantra massage in Chicago.  I have so much knowledge to share with you. I can even help you unblock your chakras by meditating with you on the phone and help you feel more balanced, centered and clear.

You can book a solid hour with me over the phone or a half hour if you just want to get a sense of what tantra yoga can do for you.

I can assure you I haven’t been abroad or traveled these past two years while I’ve been in Chicago.  I have been focusing on my clients here in Illinois and working with professional business people visiting Chicago all this time who are seeking pampering, reiki, tantra massage and chakra balancing.

During the entire month of March, April and beyond my passion is to work on making you feel more balanced and more connected to your own energy.  I feel my prices are extremely fair because I divided my offerings into two distinct sections namely pure energy work which is administered fully clothed and traditional tantra yoga which is performed sky clad or unclothed.

You have a choice now. You can be proactive and productive and use your free time to decompress and see what tantra yoga can do for you; or you can book me for a paid phone consultation to plan ahead and set your positive intentions for a future date that suits you.

I am available for half day and full day tantra massage spa immersions here in Chicago.  I am also available for shorter tantra sessions to he brought to you professionally and personally to your home environment.  I offer these options because I know I can be of service to you and help you focus on the moment at hand so you feel empowered and emotionally fed.

If you are having problems with Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety tantra yoga and tantra massage involves breathing techniques and simple muscle exercises that will strengthen your sexual core and lead to healthier sexual stamina.  If you have the time now to learn basic tantra yoga then please reach out to me soon at 312 339 7707.

I feel my pricing system is fair for the dedicated attention I provide for all my clients and my sincere interest in trying to help you achieve full body sensory bliss and kundalini activation.

Tantra in Chicago can be a simple full hour of relaxation to a more intricate day of chanting, bath ceremonies, alternative bodywork and traditional Goddess Worship where I teach you how to honor your partner’s sensual energies.

Tantra yoga is about balance, connection with yourself and your partner  and using and harnessing your own sexual energy as a medicine you use to heal your entire spiritual and physical body.

Let’s use your spare time to develop a new skill!  I have so many wonderful ideas so that no matter what your current circumstances are you will definitely feel much better emotionally even if I am just your sounding board for the hour and you need to talk to someone over the phone.

My special gifts include reiki, intuitive touch, lomi lomi massage, alternative bodywork, hot stone therapy, sound healing, chanting and traditional tantra yoga massage.

I hope to hear from you as soon as this week so we can begin our journey together and co create sacred space.

Your dedication to learning and healing will help me create the tantra ceremony of your dreams.  If you meet me half way and try to be fully present during our shared time together I guarantee you will leave feeling refreshed, more youthful and more intuitive.

Enjoy my website first prior to calling me http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and if you prefer you may email me a little information about yourself to the following addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Or fill out the Contact form listed on my website and introduce yourself that way to me making sure to leave me your phone number and first and last name.

I have a strong social media presence if you search my name and look for the keywords Chicago tantra massage on Google.

I’m on LinkedIn, Facebook, Google maps, YouTube and have helped many people find their bliss.  I’m looking for to serving you soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Certified tantra educator Chicago, Illinois

Certified Usui Reiki Master

Certified pranic healer

Certified hot stone therapist

Certified lomi lomi therapist

Certified tantra couples coach Chicago, Illinois

312 339 7707

Www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Chicago Tantra Goddess Diana

Greetings! Today is Monday February 10th and we are now formally immersed in the tail end of our Chicago winter season.

The purpose of today’s new blog entry is manifold and so I hope everyone reading this article today will be compelled to let go of their fear, introduce themselves to me soon and begin their first journey into tantra here in Chicago.

In the past I was virtually one of three major tantra teachers and tantra providers available for hire within the city of Chicago.  I started my career path as a sensual massage therapist in my early twenties and in the past my clients could easily find my nude massage services printed in a free publication known as The Chicago Reader.

The Chicago Reader had a section known as Adult Classifieds and because the newspaper was privately owned the Reader would allow all sex educators, bdsm professionals and sex workers to purchase advertising.

Our advertising fees are what helped keep the Chicago Reader thriving and business was stable and always good for me because all of Chicagoland had easy access to our content and contact information.

Life was so much less complex and convoluted back in the 1980’s and 1990’s because we didn’t rely so heavily on social media platforms to be found online.  Clients could simply pick up a copy of the Chicago Reader and turn to the Adult section to acquire the services of their favorite providers and or new providers to satisfy their needs for adult fun or sensual healing.

At a very young age I was always studying alternative healing techniques and learning more about the chakra bodies and reiki.  I decided that I’d love to try out the sex industry field because it seemed intriguing and a fun way to make money and meet new people.

I had no premeditated thoughts regarding the adult entertainment industry; I simply plunged in by purchase a pager because we didn’t have cell phones yet and I purchased my first ad with the Reader.

Now the Chicago Reader no longer has an adult section and let’s be honest people now rarely read printed papers anymore because they can just use their cellphones and search for services using a Google search.

Well if you found me here now please have patience with my stream of consciousnessness writing. I promise I’ll always be honest and be as descriptive as possible when you read my blog or read information on my main tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

Times have most definitely changed and I’ve moved away from Chicago multiple times during my career only to find a huge surge of other tantra professionals have moved here permanently.

Most of the tantra professionals now divide their time between Chicago and their own hometown to keep their work opportunities fluid.  The market for tantra now here is overwhelming and oversaturated and my efforts to be seen here now on the internet have made it necessary for me to continue to be seen here on social media.

My budget is tight these days so I am much more conservative with my spending and I’m not investing in SEO services like my competitors.

My only endeavor is to spread positive energy with people who are seeking authentic traditional tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicagoland.

My focus is on alternative healing, tantra yoga, breathing instructions, cuddle therapy, sound healing, hypnosis, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and spa retreats.

Part if the reason I’m writing today is to emphasize to all new clients to formally introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable responding to your questions over the phone.

You need to provide your full legal name to be considered for a future session and I always accept and accommodate same day requests for tantra in Chicago from anyone who introduces themselves to me over the phone, via my contact form or my email address tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

I have so many interesting and informative articles on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com that you should not have too many questions for me. In the event that you find yourself unsure about which ceremony to choose I suggest we meet in person for a paid coffee consultation so you feel comfortable moving forward.

Just understand that the term tantra yoga itself is esoteric and reading about tantra yoga is not the same as experiencing a tantra massage for yourself in real time. You have to decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the plunge and indulge in a session.  You can spend money on a coffee consultation and at least meet me in person to carefully go over my website with me so I can advise you before you decide to invest on a half day, full day or 90 minute tantra immersion.

The following paragraphs you read are taken directly from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so you can understand more about my writing style and my tantra offerings. Please take time to read my main website at your leisure and only ask me educated questions if you’re still confused.

In accordance with traditional hindu Yogis and buddhist Tantra practices. The Sanskrit word Anahata literally means unstruck or unbeaten. The sound of this sacred chakra is the sound of serenity and completeness within one’s self and all chaos is destroyed by this powerful sound of self love.
Too many times during the day we can forget how important positive self talk can be after dealing with people we encounter either through our casual encounters or our repetitive dealings with people in our work environment.
Do you ever catch yourself hunching over and caving in your chest after receiving negative feedback from a colleague or after being misjudged by a new person who barely knows you?
It’s impossible for us to avoid pain or hurtful commentary but not impossible for us to have compassion for our mistakes and learn how to correct our self talk and correct our bodily posture so that we can open our heart to receiving love and make ourselves more ready to accept positive feedback.
For instance do you find it difficult to accept compliments? Are you able to smile and warmly receive a genuine hug from a close friend or stranger or do you feel guarded and awkward? I am not asking you to willingly accept all interactions, compliments and random hugs without setting your boundaries. I am simply suggesting that you empower your heart so you can make wiser choices and send loving messages to your own Heart chakra during times of stress.

To read more please log onto my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you would like to schedule a session you may call me directly at 312 339 7707.
When you call me introduce yourself to me formally. I do not answer more than 10 minutes worth of questions unless you introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable.

If you know you definitely have additional questions that last more than ten minutes of my time then commit to a full hour of questions and answers during a paid #coffeeconsultation. Your coffee consultation will allow you to share your goals with me and will also serve as a deposit towards your first tantra ceremony or reiki session.

My blog here serves a purpose.  I want you to have as much information on tantra massage and alternative healing as I can share with you via the written word. I want you to feel comfortable committing to a future session or at least understand that I’m passionate about what I have to offer you.

I don’t like wasting my valuable time with game players who hide their true identity eith aliases or blocked and restricted numbers. In order for me to answer your questions you must first gain my trust just as I’ve taken years to upload public information for everyone to read.

 

When should you receive and request a Reiki healing?

Ideally I shouldn’t have to remind you; but ideally your body will let you know when you positively NEED a reiki atunement.

Here are the following symptoms, bodily signals and symptoms that indicate you’re in need of attentive care.

The first obvious signs are social withdrawal from all activities you once loved. You have difficulty leaving your home yet you still don’t “feel at home”.  Does this make sense to you? You feel restless yet mopey and when you try to get genuinely good rest or sleep you wake up tired, as if you never even had a good sleep cycle.

Another symptom is you feel shy almost as if you are contracting your energy rather than expanding energy.  You have a hard time thinking clearly and creating anything.  It feels like you are stuck or stagnant without making progressive moves forward.

When you are confused, isolated and deeply depressed you should find a Reiki Master and schedule a chakra cleansing for an hour or 90 minutes just to clear your mind and get rid of psychic debris you are holding onto.

Trust me; there’s nothing worse than spinning I’m circles and getting mired down in self doubt or endless grief.  Reiki is a perfect way to process your grief and shorten your mourning period whether it’s from a lost job, an end of a love relationship or a hard transition period you are currently experiencing.

Talk therapy is most definitely useful; but when you truly need to kick start a brand new beginning then Reiki helps ready you gracefully and graciously into the next major life change with greater ease.

When we get depressed our natural inclination is to withdraw from our friends. Most people don’t like to burden their family and friends with their personal emotional drama. In fact, most business professionals would prefer to appear emotionally strong and without any emotional weaknesses.   Keeping all these anxieties to yourself leads to blocks in your chakra bodies and these emotional blocks eventually lead to physical stress like ulcers, eating disorders, insomnia, chronic pain and hopelessness.

When you isolate yourself and guilt yourself into thinking you don’t deserve healing touch you create a vacuum of sadness and normal daily tasks become insurmountable.

Take a moment and schedule some sacred touch with me here in Chicago.  All my tantra ceremonies will include sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, trigger point massage and sacred tantra yoga massage.  Reiki is implemented in ALL my tantra massage sessions in Chicago; but you are also welcome to schedule a stand alone reiki atunement for an hour or 90 minutes just to get you feeling better again.

I have copied and pasted the following information from my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com to help you fully understand the healing benefits of Usui Reiki.

 

Reiki

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive. If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy.

The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”. So Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force.

 

The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras.

The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

It would be my greatest desire to introduce you to my unique approach to traditional tantra yoga massage.

Please dont allow yourself to get to the lowest point in your energy level before reaching out to me.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Tantra massage in Chicago

About Diana offull-image-for-tantra Tantra Butterfly

Many of my prospective clients ask me the all important question:

“What exactly is Tantra?”

My initial reaction is to pause and think to myself if I were a new student to this tantric path what would make me wish to continue or begin this new journey? If I were a new student to Tantra what would make me grasp this concept and take this belief system from its place in the esoteric realm to a more solid level of my own understanding? What would I gain in experiencing a tantric healing? Does Tantra simply mean sex? Will the study of this practice heal my old wounds or would it take me into a scary place I do not wish to explore? Of course all new students of Tantra may share these fears and some new students might even fear it will be a shallow or even disappointing experience. All these fears are valid and this is why I am now taking the time to explain a little bit about the word Tantra and what it is I do and the role I play as your tantric teacher and tantric healer.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry . The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole. We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide. A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.

My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Do you have additional questions? Your questions can be answered if you directly follow the link to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My website is explicit and directly to the point. In the event you have issues understanding the tantra verbage then I advise you to schedule a one hour coffee consultation with me and your consultation fee acts as a deposit towards your future tantra massage here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly

Tantra massage in Chicago is geared towards your specific goals.

Tantra massage in Chicago aides in your ability to stay focused in the moment and be fully present to receive healing energies.

Your chakras will be fully accessible and activated during our tantra ceremony here in Chicago.

Kindly read all the information on my tantra massage services here in Chicago or if you are already prepared for this healing journey and process call me directly at 312 339 7707 and let’s share positive energies.

You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

Treat me like you would treat a dear friend and I will easily be inspired to Mirror your thoughtfulness.IMG_20190828_200535_708

Do not disrespect me or violate my boundaries

Right after I finished eating my delicious sushi meal …I had a very strange urge to go online and Google up my public tantra page TANTRA BUTTERFLY and found this ugly and SLANDEROUS review which of course brought my score of 4.6 back down to 4.4

On Monday against my better judgment I accepted an extremely low almost HUMILIATING discounted price for my tantra massage services by a legally blind and EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE blind man who is a life coach who actually has a Facebook profile.

After going all the way from Schaumburg in the pouring rain and incurring my own personal expenses to take transportation to him I accepted a fee of $250 for 2 full hours of tantra massage.  Please note the price was agreed on for a tantra massage NOT an escort session!

I am not a prostitute nor am I an escort service. I am a trained Reiki Master and Licensed tantra educator from Source School of tantra with 25 years of experience in alternative healing, tantra massage, reiki and deep tissue massage.

During the final 30 minutes of our time together Muhammed Noman asked to go down on me not once but twice! I declined his PROPOSITION, packed up all my belongings and left unceremoniously. At this particular point I felt disgusted, disgraced, disrespected and dishonored.

He was warned that if he attempted to charge back our session or slander me online I would post his actions against me on my online blog and on all forms of my social media here and on my YouTube channel.

I’m warning people in my field not to take him on as a client because he chose to retaliate against me and because he has in some way defiled me online and tried to violate my personal boundaries and safety.

Here is the review he posted of me two days ago on my public business page:

Muhammad Noman Ahmed

2 reviews

2 days ago

My personal experience with Diana was very obnoxious. I am disabled and her behavior towards me was very disrespectful. She is very unfriendly and rude and I would never recommend her services

TONIGHT I decided to include his behavior because I have every right to end a session if my boundaries are violated and my personal safety is threatened.

Please do not think that just because you have a disability you are entitled to a huge discount and that you are entitled to any services you wish to receive even though it is not part of the menu of offerings.

I will not tolerate being violated, slandered and blackmailed especially if I was overly generous and went out of my way to offer a greatly reduced price for my tantra massage services.

There is a VAST difference between what I offer and what an escort service chooses to offer.

I am not comfortable crossing that fine line with any of my clients. If I were a professional escort service I would be changing $600 per hour and not $250 for two full hours at a whopping bargain basement price for a selfish, manipulative, emotionally abusive misogynist like MUHAMMAD NOMAN AHMED.

I actually had a very strong premonition against working with him especially since he wanted to know if I give discounts to people with disabilities. I have no qualms offering a BIT of a discount but he actually received my services for less than half of what I normally charge.

From this point on I will need to be much more DISCERNING and careful about who I work with.
Just because someone has a DISABILITY doesn’t mean they are allowed to disrespect you or violate your work and personal boundaries.

Just because an individual is a professional therapist or life coach it doesn’t mean they are not emotionally unstable, retaliatory and MANIPULATIVE.

I have boundaries and I am allowed to state my boundaries and end a session prematurely or abruptly if I am not being honored and respected.

People in my field are often manipulated, taken advantage of, slandered, belittled and blackmailed if we refuse to offer certain services that violate our personal code of safety and ethics.

I have morals and boundaries just like any other trained business professional and I am allowed to have genuine feelings if I’m being emotionally abused by any of my clients.

I will not tolerate bullies who hire me under the false assumption that my VALUE and WORTH is less than any other human being.

No one has an right to force me to do any sexual act that goes against my freewill.
My body is sacred. It may be that this particular individual MOHAMMED NOMAN AHMED doesn’t feel I have value considering how much time he received from me for less than half my normal price but I see things differently.

I was sent in excess of 20 text messages from this unsavory, unethical man who calls himself a life coach. He was incessant that Monday was ideal for us to meet and that he could only afford $250 for 2 hours.

I personally had to travel all the way from the suburbs, incur my own traveling expenses and visit him in a dangerous neighborhood only to be insulted by him when he requested to EAT ME!

YES he asked me twice for sexually exploitive services for a BARGAIN BASEMENT PRICE.
Muhammed Noman Ahmed is an example of a client I DO NOT WISH TO WORK ON.

I May decide not to accept anyone who requests sliding fees based on this particular negative and exploitive experience.

I had of course missed my last bus for the evening and I was forced to spend $30 of my own money just to get home safely and when I did get home trust me I had a good cry.

I hope that people understand that EMPATHY and COMPASSION and RESPECT should always be extended to any sex worker or sex educator that you encounter.

Please treat us as you would treat any business professional and if you are refused a service and you are told A FIRM NO then don’t be childish by retaliation with fake, unfair, unjust reviews.

Now I still have a lot left to say because I’m not quite over my anger.  I have two pets I take care of, no family members, two separate sets of storage fees, a huge monthly phone bill for my private business, ongoing website costs and high weekly rental fees. If you think I will tolerate abusive behavior and bullying I won’t.  I have ZERO tolerance for slander especially when I know I issued a genuinely generous discount to anyone who needed a sliding fee discount.

When I contracted to work with Muhammed Noman Ahmed (life coach at 310-536-6289) he claimed he had read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com in full. If you read my website CAREFULLY you will plainly see I have a full page dedicated to ETIQUETTE.  On my ETIQUETTE page you will read that I’m not a professional escort.  I am not offering services that you would receive from a paid escort. My fair pricing is not a substitute or POOR MAN’S version of a low budget option for clients who are seeking escort services but simply can’t afford these higher prices.  I was BEYOND ANGRY AT this man Muhammed Noman Ahmed for taking advantage of my generous discount then asking me twice towards the end of our session if he could EAT MY PUSSY.  Obviously this individual had shown me he regards me as a bargain basement cheap whore for rent because he devalues women in my field or all women in general.

I do not offer escort services.  I teach goddess worship, I offer tantra bathing ceremonies, I’m a level 3 reiki master and I’m a licensed tantra educator.  I am not for sale. My body is NOT FOR SALE.  I AM NOT a human punching bag. My services are available to anyone who genuinely seeks a traditional tantra session or a fully clothed reiki session or cuddle therapy session.  This particular individual thought he could get away with lying about what truly transpired during our time together in his small studio apartment on Foster Avenue.

Can you imagine how upset and violated I felt being PROPOSITIONED after I spent half my day traveling to his apartment in the rain, unpacking all my essential oils and incense and working DEEPLY on his major muscle groups?  I put everything I spiritually had within me to create a safe, loving, healing vibe to this unsavory, ungrateful, perverse pervert whose only true motivation was to see if he could take full advantage of me based on his disability then solicit me for something I don’t even offer on my website! If this is the way most Muslim men view women in my industry then I need to advise my fellow sex workers to be extremely cautious about who they choose to work on simply for safety reasons.  No one likes to be grossly taken advantage of or psychically abused.

I warned him that I would share publicly what he did to me on my social media if he chose to slander me and tonight I am sharing this factual story of what transpired in his home.  I of course had missed my last bus to my home and incurred an additional expense late at night just to make it back to my place by midnight.  I had a good cry that evening and felt deeply hurt, enraged and disappointed with how I was treated with complete disdain and disrespect.  It is NOT OKAY for anyone to treat a sex educator or tantra yoga therapist this way.  Every individual has triggers and boundaries and I felt energetically raped that evening by a so called, self proclaimed life coach.  I definitely have a strong sense of foreboding before taking on certain clients and in Mohammad’s case I feel regretful that I worked with him despite my strong intuition against seeing him.

I’ve said everything I wish to say here this evening and I decided that tomorrow I’ll be creating a special video about how awful it feels to genuinely give someone your very best and then have that same individual cheapen the healing experience by soliciting illegal sexual favors that you are uncomfortable offering.  I also wish to add that when Muhammed Noman Ahmed chose to write a derogatory google review two days ago he not only insinuated I was abusive to people with disabilities but he lied about my normally kind and generous giving nature. If I wish to defend myself based on my moral code and end a session because I no longer feel safe and respected then that is my freewill and choice to make based on someone’s disrespectful and vile actions and behavior.  Being legally blind does not excuse anyone for acting disceitfully or being manipulative.  If I feel threatened and or dishonored I have every right to leave 20 minutes early especially after I’ve already overextended myself by giving someone an overly GENEROUS discount.

I hope anyone reading this article will digest everything I have written and KEENLY intuit that everyone has boundaries and everyone no matter who they are and no matter what profession they choose is entitled to complete respect as a human being with valid emotions and sensitivities.

Just because you choose to hire a sex worker doesn’t mean you own their soul or their body.

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Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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Chicago Tantra Massage is for Anyone ready for a healing Journey

I feel the need to write today mostly because I am always spot on correct when I read an email from a new potential client and know deep down they simply wanted to VENT to me but they honestly weren’t Emotionally prepared to begin a tantra ceremony in real life.

In all fairness tantra isn’t for everyone and everyone is motivated by different reasons to try a session whether it’s strictly curiosity, too much personal stress in their life or they love healing connection.

Half the people that reach out to me are high achievers who know what they want and how to get it. They love their partners, love their career and they want a session as a treat because they feel they deserve it.

Other people are involved in reiki, yoga, music and creative pursuits so they crave chakra balancing, and breath coaching along with the sensual touch.

I also receive requests from single mothers, caregivers, independent business owners and men whose wives are chronically ill.  These people are under a lot of stress and so they contract my services as a means of letting go and treating themselves.

Other people want and deeply desire tantra but they don’t fully understand what tantra is. They send me “novels” instead of a brief emails which to me is a “red flag” because it’s almost as if they are trying too hard to convince themselves and me that they are ready to jump in without having spoken to me on the phone or meeting me in person!

I’m not a guru and I truly don’t feel like conning anyone into the false idea that one or even several tantra sessions will shift you from previous abuse into a new paradigm of being victorious.

On the contrary I do believe if you personally have been molested or victimized or similarly violated emotionally and or sexually you need to visit a real counselor like a licensed psychiatrist or talk therapist first.

Sexual molestation is a very harmful blow to your psyche and I certainly don’t wish to trigger anyone who has been molested and hasn’t done some inner healing work first.

I know while reading these emails who is emotionally able to receive kundalini Shakti and who is lying to themselves by the way they express themselves through the written word. I also know that most sexual molestation victims typically can’t reach out on the phone to even talk to me in real time because they may not be ready to start the healing process just yet.

I do receive many earnest emails from new clients who won’t ever call me and that to me speaks volumes because if they can’t use their own throat chakra to express their goals and desires to me or anyone then their personal power is being blocked and it isn’t part of their truth to want a real shift or change to occur.

When I read emails I’m not expecting anyone to really follow through until I hear it in their voice first.  I can always tell who is ready to relax and be healed and who is just too nervous and kidding themselves .

I myself have had a few disappointments with psychic readers who just weren’t tapping into my consciousness. These readers might be great with other people who aren’t as self aware as I am but I do know what it’s like to seek real help and realize no one has the ability to fix me…I have to fix myself.

One tantra session with me will clear away some cobwebs of debris and make you feel more hopeful, motivated and refreshed; but then you yourself are responsible every day afterwards to pursue your own self healing journey, whether it’s counseling, journaling, self reiki, better diet, walks in nature or positive visualization.

Whenever anyone was traumatized I always suggest we meet eachother for coffee first and get together so I can take notes and ascertain what is the very best session I can offer to someone I don’t personally know. I will charge a small fee however because I’m a professional and I’d like to be honored for my time. The fee is nominal and is used as a deposit towards reiki, chakra balancing or tantra for a future session.

I do not feel it’s fair of anyone to expect me to give a free psychic healing or free consultation through email alone or a long phone conversation because it means the new client is feeling me out.  I can’t convince anyone that the time is right for a tantra ceremony or tantra massage.  I’m not dissuading anyone from plunging ahead but when I receive too much information in my first email from a complete stranger and no phone call after I respond to them then I know I’m being lied to.

Only a handful of people who have tried tantra before know that every teacher or tantra yogi presents their sessions individually and if the teacher is any good he or she will use their intuition along with a couple of goals from their new student as a guide.

If I suggest a meet and greet over coffee it’s because I do want to get to know you as a friend so that when we have our first tantra session you won’t be worried or self conscious or scared.

When I meet new guests for coffee it’s because I feel that person needs a nudge and because I feel that individual needs to vent and share more of their story with me.  I only charge $50 for our initial consultation fee and it’s used as a deposit towards any session you choose.

I also encourage everyone to read my website at least once so that they can ask me educated questions rather ask me what my fees are. My fees are determined by the session you choose.  I have many choices on my website from cuddle therapy to reiki to advanced tantra, to Goddess Worship.  I have basic sensual massage all the way up to a full day of spa tantra retreats for people who have the time and the budget.

My ideal candidate is anyone emotionally mature to enjoy a journey of chakra balancing, therapeutic bodywork, reiki, aromatherapy and kundalini tantra massage.  I do not solicit anyone who isn’t psychically ready because that’s a waste of time for everyone involved. I’m not a free, unpaid, advisor.  I am not obligated to continue emailing anyone who can’t simply pick up the phone and find ten minutes out of their day to talk to me like a mature adult.  I do not need to read your life’s history in order to give you a good healing.  I do understand it takes a lot of trust to begin any alternative healing journey and that’s why I recommend meeting me for a paid consultation if you have any doubt prior to meeting me.

I needed to write this article today because I do get frustrated and disappointed when new guests make prejudgments about my skillset or my motivations.  My motivation is to work with new clients who will benefit from my healing touch and who will appreciate and enjoy my services.  I do this work because I’m good at moving energy and I love healing through touch.  I do not however like being used as a free psychotherapist.  I do not need to read through lengthy emails from people who are fooling themselves and trying to fool me.  I do offer paid talk therapy and paid coffee consultations for anyone that has even a shred of doubt.

I hope this article helps you understand that tantra is just one of many healing paths to help you achieve self awareness and balance; but you yourself have to continue following your own path of magic and self love.

If you know you are ready for one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago please call me today at 312 339 7707.  If you want to meet me for coffee this week in Chicago or nearby suburbs I will work around your schedule and have a real time honest discussion with you so you can make an educated choice and give you advice.

My main website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so spend an hour reading it prior to calling me in person.  If you want to break the ice by sending me a brief email you can use my primary contact form or either of these email addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Introduce yourself briefly using your real name so I know you are sincere and so I know you are a legitimate new student of tantra.

You do not need to send me your life story; in fact I discourage you from divulging too much information because part of our tantra ceremony will include us meeting together and chatting briefly before our tantra massage even begins in real time.  We will have ample time to talk about anything you wish once we have our first tantra session together.

Do not be worried if you do not have prior experience in energy work. You are contacting me because you are either curious about what tantra truly is or you’ve had tantra massage and you absolutely love it so you wish to repeat your positive experience with me as your guide.

I’d be delighted and excited to meet you here in Chicago which includes the suburbs of Schaumburg, O’hare, Oakbrook, Elk grove Village, Rosemont and the Magnificent Mile near River North.  I will travel anywhere to you within the city of Chicago or neighboring suburbs.

When you call me directly let me know who you are and briefly introduce yourself to me .  Everything we decide to do will be planned based on your time constraints, budget and personal goals.  FB_IMG_1557631910360