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Eros Guide continues to Ban established providers from advertising on their site

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.

And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.

I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.

Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.

I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.

In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.

Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.

I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.

Here is the copied text:

I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:

Hello Mary,

I hope this email finds you well.

We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.

We wish you well with any future endeavors.

Regards,

Eli
Customer Service Representative

WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH

I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.

Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?

They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.

I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.

My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707

Current Advertisers I Suggest you Boycott the Eros Guide indefinitely till Changes are made to benefit you.

diana-soft-focus-nudes-tantra-butterflyAs the title of this blog states I am strongly urging all current advertisers to formally BAN the site known as http://www.erosguide.com indefinitely until changes are made to benefit YOU the consumer.

You are the consumer. You pay a ton of your money to receive inferior services. I know this because I do remember when the eros guide was actually a great place to find wonderful clients. I remember when my phone “used to” ring off the hook because the earlier version of the eros guide was basic and much more pleasing to the eye. Now as you notice the site now known as http://www.erosguide.com has been taken over by a new group of people and the original owner who was a former prostitute/sex worker no longer owns this business.

You the consumer hold all the cards not the other way around. If everyone would simply not use the eros guide for several months I can assure you many positive things would happen. I found out the hard way that long years of loyalty meant nothing to them. They certainly no longer needed my business because I was just pennies to them and not a real human being with genuine feelings. Eros guide did not care about my well being and they do not care about you. All it takes is for you to use one word that they deem “illegal” and you are banished promptly from their site and all evidence of your ad will be destroyed forever. They won’t let you argue your way back or listen to you. You will be another banned useless commodity because the truth is Eros guide is also a privately owned Brothel.

About a year ago after I was banned I noticed a change in the way I was being treated. My opinions were ignored and instead of positive changes made I did notice the eros guide was actively seeking “models’ or paid sex workers and they wanted these new women to send them Id’s and photographs. All women who were attractive and between the ages of 18 to 36 were encouraged by the eros guide to send in their information online and if they were selected they could earn 2,000 and up to 5,000 per week as “models’ or escorts in New York city. I saw this ad because I researched top escort sites on google in New York city. I found that ad quite by accident and the ad stated that these women could have a two week trial period just to see how it worked out. I believe in all fairness that eros guide is now serving as a huge “brothel” and has every desire to promote their privately hired entertainment prospects and get rid of people like me and other well known major providers in the industry that serve as a threat to their personal adult entertainers or shall we say it—prostitutes and GFE’s.

There is nothing wrong with being a GFE or a prostitute but it is highly unethical to promote a handful of women and play favorites allowing these women to say what they wish to say in their ad copy then get rid of innocent women like me whose accounts are being closely monitored and restricted then BANNED permanently.

I also remember a time when I called the eros guide because I noticed changes to my text were made and I could hear a manager in the background scream out “oh it’s that BITCH again…”

So here we go again. If you want to advertise at the erosguide I can’t stop you but just know there are women that receive special favors from the staff so that their ads are outstandingly attractive and there are other people like you and me who will eventually be BANNED for using a phrase they deem incorrect. In the meantime if you still advertise with the eros guide you are feeding their fat wallets and potentially exposing yourself to being victimized by undercover stings because police troll the eros guide much much more than backpages.com to receive their easy prey. If you advertise on http://www.erosguide.com the way it is now and they way it is currently corrupt you are playing Russian Roulette.

Here is more information including a conversation via email I conducted with the eros guide last week when I was invited to enjoy a premier service because of my “loyalty”. Obviously the eros guide made a huge mistake and forgot that they banned me. When I applied to get back on I was told to send money first then told I was Banned. If you are into “bait and switch” then by all means continue to use the eros guide.
Dear potential consumer of the new http://www.erosguide.com I wish to share the following information with you since I do have experience in the adult industry and I have been a well known advertiser with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 15 years since the very beginning of its inception.

I am suggesting all current advertisers to STOP advertising with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 6 month period until certain changes are met. You may be a new advertiser and you may have witnessed that some of your friends are currently being BANNED WITHOUT DUE CAUSE OR ANY PRIOR WARNING.

This new site http://www.erosguide.com is not the same ENTITY I enjoyed working with when it was just starting to become a huge “hit” on the internet. I used to religiously use the Chicago Reader when I first worked in this Adult industry and to be honest the true chaos began when I decided to enroll in a FREE advertisement as a trial basis for the new eros guide that was soliciting me and others in my industry for business.

In the very beginning we were treated with genuine kindness and respect. We had a great template that allowed us to upload a series of pictures of us fully nude without childish restrictions. We could write as much text as we wished and there were no “bad” no no words that would get us BANNED or BANISHED indefinitely and or without prior warning.

Everything was peaceful (at first) but then Erosguide.com decided to ad features, reduce the body of our text and change our pictures into tiny square blocks you had to click onto. Visually the erosguide.com was no longer aesthetically pleasing to the eye and of course customer service always encouraged your feedback but nothing would be done to pacify the advertiser. Our pricing was promptly hiked up but I noticed fewer callers and some clients told me the erosguide.com was harder to navigate.

I had no idea what was going on but as the years rolled by I did notice all these cumulative changes and new restrictions on photos were hurting my potential to attract new customers to me. I had to choose words that no longer offended and my one sentence which included the word “I will help you find your inner child” was BANISHED AND DEEMED FILTHY BY upper management at the erosguide.com.

Now my intentions were good so I suggested we change the word to inner psyche and so these small changes in wording were made. I however noticed a huge HYPOCRISY going on in upper management because while my ads were being picked apart there were other advertisers allowed to infer many more graphic and lurid sexual details in the body of their lengthy ads.

I even mentioned to customer service that other women in my field were mentioning the words “edge Play” and other women were allowed to include prose and poetry from well known authors but when I wished to include a phrase from Alice in Wonderland and gave credit to the author I was chastised for it and the few sentences were removed without reason or warning.

I still see so many ads on the current erosguide.com that is allowed to intimate “suggestive” sexual connotations and yet my harmless phrases “yoni healing” and “multiple waves of bliss” were removed and even when they were removed permanently I was BANNED the very next day from “Tim” from the legal department.

I was even given permission to use the word “yoni” by Lisa who was assigned to me about two years ago. I told her I no longer wanted to use the term “Goddess Worship” because callers were confused and expected me to offer them BDSM rather than a tantra healing and education about the “yoni”. I wanted to attract men and women who were already very comfortable in their bodies and had some prior experience in yoga and or tantra massage. My intentions were good when I picked that word and if you google the word Yoni it has many varying meanings and is Sanskrit for womb or birthplace. It can also mean lotus flower or “female genitalia” but according to the new rules on eros last summer it no longer met their standards. I was given a very frantic phone call by Lisa who was a nightmare for me to deal with explaining that the word yoni is not allowed and figure out something else. She suggested Yoni healing and or Yoni education and or yoni training. I complied and allowed her to make a living mess of my once beautiful advertisement.

I allowed Lisa to butcher my ad and remove words that other providers were using on their website. I let her make me look foolish online and then without any warning Tim from the legal department called me the next day and told me according to the “tape recorded” and “monitored” conversation that I had with “lisa” or Lysette or what ever they call her I was BANNED . So in essence I did comply with their rules; I did remove the necessary text and I see plenty of women that are their “favorites” receiving as much attention online as I used to receive but they are not BANNED OR BANISHED.

if you are a new customer expect the following treatment from the “nazi crew”
a. You will not be listened to when they ask for your opinions on ad
layouts. Your conversations are being recorded and they are seeking to trap you into making mistakes so they can label you as a trouble maker and have you gleaned off their site.

B. they are using you as window dressing only. I found proof online that eros guide is involved is sex work trafficking online. I saw strong evidence from erosguide.com offering women works as “models” or sex workers and eros requesting women between the ages of 18 to 36 to apply for “modeling” gigs that will pay them 2,000 to 5,000 a week in New York city.

C. You are supporting unethical people with illegal business practices.

I have so much proof that the Erosguide.com uses you the advertisor to money launder their more shady activities. They have cam girls online on their site 24/7 which by the way is a huge distraction and it makes it impossible for clients to even find an entertainer with all the pop up ads interfering. I saw many ads online where women are advised to apply for work as models in new york and honestly part of the reason that eros guide is okay with banning so many women is because they probably have their own privately owned brothel and using the eros portal as a front and advertisers who don’t know this are being used as “window dressing”.

I truly do miss the old Erosguide.com and the simplicity of the site and the way the original owners treated you. There are new hands running this corrupt machine and providers are being banned for making mistakes in the bodies of their texts and nothing more.

I was even lured back two weeks ago. I was sent invitations to redeem coupons for Premier services so I thought maybe I was welcomed back. I jumped through hoops and sent the erosguide.com a money order but two days after my money was received my ad was not up. I asked what was wrong and said my old account had been banned so they would send my money back but I have not received my money back just yet.

No one from customer service would explain anything to me other than I am BANNED and when I explained Lisa had given me permission to use a word instead of Lisa being fired I was FIRED for being a victimized client.

The following information I am sharing with you is my communication with the people from the Eros guide. Please take all my information seriously. I have no reason to lie or make anything up and the information I shared with you is not slander since it is 110 percent true. There are very few legitimate places to advertise but I assure you if you are considering advertising with the eros guide you can and will be banned without any warning down the road. You are simply taking a gamble.

Eros Guide Customer Service
Fri, Dec 9, 2016 at 10:55 AM

Diana Grossman

Thu, Dec 15, 2016 at 2:44 PM
To: Eros Guide Customer Service
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Dear Brenda,
apparently I was BANNED permanently 17 months ago because a new
account manager with an alias of Lisa who is now known as Lisette gave
me permission to use the word Yoni healing . Three months after she
told me the word was deemed acceptable she called me to have me remove
the term. I complied and asked her why my account was being picked
apart since I was a loyal customer of 16 years. I was Banned. You
are now responsible for sending me back my money order which I sent to
you in the amount of 130. Failure to comply will lead to me writing
about how you treat your loyal customers on my blog which comes up
number one on google and the BBB and rip off report.

Yours
Diana

On 12/9/16, Eros Guide Customer Service wrote:
> Hello Diana,
>
> I hope this email finds you doing well.
>
> It was a pleasure speaking with you today, as promised here is the email
> with our best practices.
>
> Below are some things we recommend to you while building/updating your ad:
>
> 1. Update Your Tagline Often
> Your Tagline is your headline across our network! Update it often and keep
> it relevant.
>
> 2. Photo Updates
> Update your photos each time you are eligible. Standard ads can update
> photos once every 15 days. VIP ads can update photos once every 7 days. You
> can check your current status by clicking “More Details” next to your ad
> within the Eros Ads console.
> This update gets your ad on the What’s New page – one of the most popular
> destinations for our viewers when they first log onto our site.
>
> 3. Ad Text
> Make sure to update your text often and with relevant information. Don’t
> overwhelm your potential clients with too much information.
>
> 4. Ad Thumbnail/First Ad Photo
> Remember that the thumbnail is the reason why people click on the image to
> see more of your ad! Make sure to feature your best asset. Data we have
> looked at over the years suggests that breast shots and butt shots tend to
> get good results.
>
> 5. Keep Your Ad Online
> Keeping your ad online longer helps the returning visitors to our site find
> you. It also helps the search engines find your ad since its content that
> has been online, updated and indexed.
>
> 6. Available Now
> The “Available Now” option allows you to tag your ad so that viewers know
> that you are ready for them to contact you now. All you have to do is log
> into your Eros
> Ads
> account and turn the function on! Once turned on, the “Available Now” tag
> will stay online for 4 hours unless you turn it off. You can reset it as
> many times as you want for FREE! Activating “Available Now” also puts you in
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> on.
>
> 7. Photo placement
> First impressions mean everything! You want the viewer to see your best
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> photos in slots 1, 2, and 3!
>
> 8. Stats Box Information
> It is important to fill out as much applicable information as possible in
> your stats box to make your ad more searchable for MEG members (i.e.
> location categories, eye color, cup size, ethnicity, etc.)
>
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Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing, Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach, & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact: 312-339-7707

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An open letter to the free speach coalition regarding violations by eros guide

Dear Audience I am sharing a private letter I have just finished sending to the Coaltion of Free speech. I believe it is hypocritical and ironic that within the past five years eros guide has been involved in eradicating certain harmless words used by their advertisers such as the words “child” edge play eros and many other coin phrases that are no longer permisable via the written word.
The eros guide (erosguide.com) is now taking ludicrous measures that violate civil liberties and create drama for their paid advertisers. Under this new “tyranny” a supervisor can now pick through your account deleting key phrases and whole sentences and paragraphs of written advertising text from Paid advertisers or they can deconstruct and take words out of context to contort your original meaning without any care or concern of your intended meaning. You will not be given a chance to correct certain words or phrases if you they decide to pick on you.
Once your ad is picked apart and you are given a call or email you will have to redo your text then risk their punishment which is simply being deactivated and banned from further advertisement permanently.
OUR civil liberties and right to free speech is now being threatened by eros guide team members who proudly boast of being members and supporters of the coalition of free speech.
Your phone conversations are recorded by the eros guide team who will judge you by your words and opinions and concerns after they ask you for your input. I myself was victimized by key members of the eros guide staff and my words were taken out of context and distorted. I was then banned for sharing my concerns and valid feedback. I don’t consider the eros guide to be a supporter of free speech I consider the eros guide (erosguide.com) to be deeply confused about what they wish to convey and in deep fear of freedom of speech.
Here is my open letter to the COALITION OF FREE SPEECH:

Dear Free speech Coalition,
I was a former advertiser banned from the eros guide for using certain Key words in the body of my text that they deemed inappropriate. I own a blog of my own GoddessDianaTantrabutterfly.com and my own private tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so I am very concerned that the eros guide boasts on its website that they are “proud” members of the free speech Coalition when they have been banning long standing and loyal advertisers for small words that are used out of context.
I was cajoled and harassed this past year every 3 to 4 weeks by supervisory staff that work for the eros guide. I was told not use the term “play with your inner child” so I changed that phrase to “play with your inner psyche”. I was told that I could use the term Yoni worship then six weeks later Lisa from the eros guide called me and pleaded with me not to use Yoni worship so she allowed me to use the word YONI training which is beyond ridiculous.
I was told I could no longer use the phrase “edge play” even though other tantra women in my industry were allowed to use much worse and edge play was used frequently.
I was warned that because I used the word multiple waves of bliss I would have my account deactivated and banned. I was warned never to use the term “eros” because eros guide holds all the legal rights to the word eros no matter how you phrase it.
They banned me after I expressed my worries and the next day Tim from the legal department called me and said based on the tape recorded message that was taped live during Lisa’s phone conversation with me I was deactivated. I lost all my lovely text as they did not send me a copy they simply destroyed all the lovely paragraphs of live text I had without having any consideration about my rights of speech. I was not given a copy of my text or my legal disclaimer or my pictures. They destroyed all traces of me and my prior existence banishing me without fairness or warning or respect for my rights.
I would love to speak with you about the violation of my freedom of speech and written words. I feel that you should not keep the eros guide on your membership list as a result of their misconduct and violation of civil liberties.

Yours Diana GrossmanDream-the-company-of-wolves-29634391-1280-716

Eros guide deleting Accounts for fear of being shut down permanently

This will be my final posting this evening regarding the DE EVOLUTION OF the eros guide otherwise known as http://www.erosguide.com which is a website created for the sole purpose of marketing women and men in the sex industry.

We all know what GFE means right? I had a brief chat with Lisa who has been mismanaging my online Eros guide account for over a year. To my dismay the eros guide assigned me a brand new marketing manager who encouraged me to always always take advantage of their VIP escort services even though I explained to her I am not an escort so technically I should just be listed under the categories of Tantra and Massage Exclusively.

In the past the eros guide had a very simple template that allowed the average advertiser to write pretty much what they wished and load up lovely pictures and longer versions of text. They then ruined a good thing by constantly updating and revising their outdated text to change http://www.erosguide.com into an arena that shows of web cam girls and porn star experiences online rather than legitimate massage and tantra healing.

Lisa and Tim of the legal department insinuated that my text which included Yoni worship and yoni honoring is vile and illegal. Yet in the meantime I pointed out to Lisa yesterday on the phone that the term GFE technically implies that a man engages in unprotected sex with a woman who is pretending to be his girl friend for the hour or hours and that paid sex is technically not a true girl friend experience because a real boy friend and girlfriend do not expect to paid at the end of the day but your average eros guide advertiser who is marketing herself on the eros guide as a GFE or a porn star is accepting payment in exchange for sexual intercourse.

I had an in depth discussion with Lisa from the Eros guide team yesterday understanding that our phone conversation was being tape recorded. It will just be a matter of years or months before I see that the eros guide team will probably be forced to close down permanently because they will no longer be allowed to hide their “fuzzy terms” such as GFE or “porn star experience” for that much longer.

In a panic the Eros guide has started harassing providers like me who are not technically prostitutes because the eros guide is coming up with a brand new image of unattainable porn star hot and heavy experience catering to the high end hobbyist who relies on the erotic review before contacting an escort from the eros guide.

All you have to do is google up http://www.erosguide.com and they use key words such as escort, Vip escort and GFE. There is no hiding the fact that the eros guide is the number one escort site supporting people who are in the sex industry and for $300 or more an hour you can hire an “entertainer” and pretend she is your girl friend because that is how the eros guide is now mostly making its money. All of these activities are illegal yet the eros guide legal department had the nerve to accuse me of engaging in illegal activities because I told Lisa they are favoring Vip escorts and GFE’s and trying to get rid of people like me who have actually had formal training in alternative healing and Tantra massage.

If anyone from the adult industry is reading my blog tonight you must understand the eros guide is calling the “kettle black” because they are accusing me of engaging in illegal services for wanting to actually teach men how to honor the feminine energy via goddess worship and yoni worship but they are allowing porn stars to offer illegal services to men for a price that is astronomical.

I can not understand the hypocrisy of the Eros guide but in due time they will eventually lose the faith of your typical viewer and with their “new standards” soon most advertisers will lose their accounts that have been fully paid for just like me.

I had been an advertiser with the Eros guide for over 15 years and I honored all their bizarre requests taking down beautiful text I had written with love, shortening up my text, using alternative words for my text, and then removing perfectly beautiful pictures of me when they accused me of complete nudity. I know soon enough the eros guide will receive the proper karma they deserve.

WWW.erosguide.com is now a shady enterprise at best. They have increased the rates of all their ads yet the amount of quality calls has drastically fallen due to all the bad changes they have made. They have literally turned the Eros guide into a three ring circus and their hypocritical treatment of their advertisers hopefully will cause them their eventual shut down which hopefully will happen sooner than later.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Shaman, Muse, Energy healer, Tantra Yoga
instructor and educator
no illegal services implied
I am simply here to service the Goddessalbino girl with bear

Providers Beware Eros guide Scams Paid advertisers !

Dear Audience,
It is now becoming a popular trend for representatives from http://www.erosguide.com to deactivate older accounts that have been active since 2005 and earlier. I have been a very loyal advertiser for many years and would have liked to have continued my relationship with the eros guide but it seems that the legal department namely TOM of http://www.erosguide.com and Lisa of http://www.erosguide.com has promptly banned my paid account even though I had agreed to let them remove my text from my website explaining what Yoni worship is.

I was deleted and deactivated for now reason today since I agreed to their text changes and I agreed to many things over the years they decided to do to my account.

I copied and pasted another complaint made from an unhappy advertiser who wrote a letter to the legal department and i wish to share this on my blog so others will be warned that http://www.erosguide.com is no longer an appropriate place for anyone from the sex industry to join.

Please read the following:

To the Legal Department and the CEO and President of the Eros-Guide

I am contacting you, because yesterday, April 12th I received a phone call from a supervisor called “Sharon” or “Sharol” I don’t know how she spells her name exactly.
But she is an older lady.
She said that my account has been deleted yesterday, because I put the phrase “15 minutes French” in my ad today. This is a special that I intended to run for 2 weeks.
Yes, this morning as many mornings since 2007 I placed an ad and I did put the phrase “15 minutes French” in the ad indeed.
My attorney and I do agree that that may be interpreted as an ambiguous phrase, but we do not agree that it is a direct expression for sexual language
or an offer for sexual services.
There are already a lot of advertisers out there who had problems with you in the past and I intend to make sure that we join together to file a class action suit followed by creating an another website to put our ads. We need to ask the court dissolve Darkside Productions.

As it is I am from Europe, lived in France and learned French in Paris through a language program, “15 minutes French”, which I also attached to the e-mail I sent to Eros-Guide yesterday.
And the language CD can be processed here:

Here is a sample of the CD.program:

The expression”15 minutes French” is very broad and indeed can be misunderstood.
However for me and other people who took this language program it comes naturally and by no means is interpreted as anything sexual.
In fact if the supervisor never studied or gave French lessons, she might be out of practice and we highly suggest her to start with this language program, 15 minutes at time.
It can do wanders and it may save her job. She only has a job, because of the French lessons that I and other of your clients distribute to your distribution chanel,
http://www.eros-guide.com

I would like to politely ask the Eros Guide to give us 24 hours to edit my ad.
That is to put back my account today and give us by tomorrow say 5pm, to edit the ad in an acceptable form. Then, your supervisors can revise the ad to make sure that does not violate your guide lines and if does not, I would like to see my ad up in Eros-NY section by midnight today, April 13th.
I understand that Eros-guide revises the ads before final submission, so if yesterday the supervisor who is mentioned above saw the expression she should of send me an e-mail or a phone call and warn me about it and give me some time to edit my ad before she made that decision to have my account suspended. I believe that Eros Guide owes me with that favor.
As a 4 year client and at least a 2 year prospective client you are still about to receive a lot of income from me, even if I only choose to spend $300 a month on your website, but most months I spend more. As a loyal client, I expected to get a phone call saying that I have 24 hours to edit my ad and took out the ambiguous expressions, or my account will be suspended. I believe it was very unethical to suspend my account without warning.

That being said I have a message for the president and CEO of the Eros-Guide
If you have supervisors like this old jaded lady, who suspends an account of an account holder, who was a costumer since 2006 and intend to be a costumer for a few more years, you might be loosing a lot of business. And I have friends who advertised on Eros Guide and their account has been suspended without warning.
So it might be a lucrative idea to replenish your staff with people who are helping you bringing in more business as oppose to reduce existing cash flow.
We all know that all your employees are there for the mercy of our business. If there is not enough business you cannot afford to hire these individuals and if this economy they would be starving or remain unemployed.

And I also have a message for the supervisor who deleted my account today;
“You only have a job because of the mercy of my and other Eros Guide advertisers French lessons. If not for us you will be unemployed. You are only there because of us.
You are at the mercy of our cash flow and if you suspend clients account we need to take our business somewhere else. That doesn’t only put your livelihood in danger, but it also put the livelihood of your boss in danger, which of course puts the entire stuff’s livelihood in danger.

Sincerely yours,
Ivanka Carrington

Paid advertisers watch out for illegal practices by the Eros guide www.erosguide.com

The Eros guide otherwise known as the Adult entertainment industry’s premier source for BDSM, Tantra, Massage, VIP Escorts and Porn stars has decided to Ban me because I decided against being a VIP Advertiser and preferred to keep my services completely legal in nature.

All anyone now has to do is google up http://www.erosguide.com and they will see numerous unhappy advertisers who illegally had their photographs removed by their site and text removed by this hypocritical team of con artists for not complying with their “new standards”.

For God’s sake when I lived in New Orleans for several months I was lucky if my phone rang once a week because no one even heard of the Eros guide or knew how to google http://www.erosguide.com so they had to find me on google first then they found the eros guide.
The eros guide now obviously plays favorites promoting Agencies, Porn stars, Vip escorts and GFE’s but they decided to ban me today even though I agreed to honor their wishes and comply fully with their new publishing standards. Their publishing Standards by the way keeps changing once or twice a month and without warning or reason they will willingly remove paragraphs of texts or pictures that you have uploaded to be a part of their expensive marketing campaign.

The eros guide otherwise known as WWW.erosguide.com now promotes under age web cam girl, porn star actresses and Vip escorts so if you are a massage therapist or tantra yoga teacher the general audience will most likely overlook your ad in favor of a more illegal experience.

I am warning new people NOT to give your money to http://www.erosguide.com because after you pay for your online advertising they will change all the rules on you and remove your ad completely even after you have paid for the advertising and certain pictures will be pulled off their site even if the pictures are perfectly beautiful and legitimate pictures of you. One time http://www.erosguide.com removed a nude picture of me with a rose flower covering my genitals because they said it was a superimposed image over a picture of me and therefore did not meet their standards.

If you go online and google up http://www.erosguide.com you can find plenty of angry advertisers who used legal text and legal pictures who were kicked off the site permanently. I see now that Stormi and Lisa now probably receive kickbacks from paid agencies and little people like me who work for themselves are being weeded out from being able to be a part of their website. Since the Eros guide or http://www.erosguide.com has now gone a much shadier route they are probably not a company anyone should trust. After all why should you trust a company who has to use DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS as their fake alias or psuedonym? What is the Eros Guide or http://www.erosguide.com trying to hide anyway that you are billed by DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS AND not their company name?

Be wise choose not to advertise with http://www.erosguide.com. You would be much better served using a google adwords campaign.

Yours
Goddess Diana
of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
no longer a paid advertiser with http://www.erosguide.comDiana jean harlow polar bear

Parting ways with The Eros guide

Dear Audience,
A few months ago I noticed a drastic change on the Eros Guide and mostly the quality of calls I received were now a lot more inappropriate due to a change of template style and a new woman that had been assigned to my Eros Account.
A new marketing representative by the name of Lisa had been assigned to go over my account and she would literally call me multiple times during my work week mentioning the Premier Services Section and how it would benefit my Ad campaign if I chose to offer ILLEGAL SERVICES namely Vip Escort and GFE. Lisa would ask me if I was satisfied with the changes the Eros guide was making and she invited me to share commentary. When I was brutally honest and calmly told her the site was wonderful when they were more streamlined Lisa would get irrationally upset with me and PUNISH me for sharing my viewpoint.
I would always receive a nasty call the next day from one of the Eros guide Representatives whether it was Tim from the Legal department or Stormi who is in charge of marketing and Sales.

They would delete text from my ads which included the word Yoni. I mean the word YONI based on Sanskrit simply means birthplace or womb. Yoni is a sacred word and to me Yoni means flower. The eros guide basically called me up yesterday when I was having a bad day. Lisa was quite rude to me as I was waiting to visit a doctor and I was in the middle of a medical emergency. The eros guide should be ashamed of itself. They now victimize women in my industry and because I chose to use the word YONI Worship which in Tantra means HONORING THE DIVINE FEMININE AND HONORING THE GODDESS IN ALL OF US I have had my account deactivated completely even though I was an advertiser for over 15 years.

The Eros guide now only wishes to promote Cam girls and GFE and VIP Escorts but because I chose to keep my ads pure and only stay within the bounds of True authentic Tantra healing energy work and True Massage related services Lisa chose to harass me for the past 7 months constantly barraging me with inane requests to change certain “words” that she deemed inappropriate or illegal. They even removed a text that stated that I would be able to train men to sustain full arousal and full body waves of energetic bliss using a technique known as Edge play. Now everyone that uses the Eros Guide knows Edge play is a word known in the field and is perfectly acceptable and legal with no sexual connotations.

When I recently looked up the Eros guide online I also noticed they received a number of major complaints from people in my industry who were also very displeased with services rendered from the Eros guide. If you take the time to look up THE RIP OFF REPORT you will see many providers of healing services similar to mine have been ripped off by the eros guide having paid good money to the Eros guide only to have beautiful text removed and pictures removed from off their site or advertising removed completely even though the advertising was paid for in full.

I suppose I am deeply grateful that after all these years I have been penalized now by the Eros guide because I chose to be true to myself and not wish to become a CAM GIRL or a GFE OR an ESCORT OR shall we say A PIECE OF MEAT.

The Eros guide has changed their advertising tactics and is now appealing to a completely different audience mostly men seeking BDSM or PROSTITUTION RELATED SERVICES. I won’t be sorry if the FEDS choose to shut down the eros guide permanently for insinuating illegal services online so real hard core PORN QUEENS are allowed to post but not real healers. The energetic vibration of the Eros Guide has now been lowered to a much lower vibration and a much shadier audience of men who are seeking a quick fix. Everyone knows that GFE means unprotected sex. The literal term of GFE according to Lisa of the Eros guide means she is going to pretend she is your girlfriend but everyone in the sex industry can google up the catch phrase GFE and understand that literally and technically GFE means french kissing which leads to herpes simplex II, unprotected sex which means you are not using a condom and GFE also implies oral sex which of course leads to a host of diseases like syphillis not to mention other sexually transmitted diseases.

If Lisa is implying that someone like me who really wants to promote whole body health is simply not legitimate then I wish to post on my blog for all to read that Tim from the Legal department banned me from every advertising my massage services and my tantra healing ceremonies because I chose not to be part of their VIP ESCORT SECTION. I once made the mistake of purchasing their VIP program and Lisa harassed me with upgrades trying to get me to purchase premium services, banners and other wasteful services that truly never made my phone ring ever because they have shortened the text on their templates and they have certain words banned on their site so the viewer is completely confused about what is offered.

Today they deactivated my Tantra and Massage account because yesterday during a tape recorded conversation with Lisa I mentioned to her that I am a true tantra teacher. I love teaching men how to honor and worship the Goddess and that YONI is a perfectly beautiful word to use. I stuck to my guns. I told her I am not offering sex to any of my clients nor do I wish to offer sexual intercourse but I prefer the sacred art of sustaining my energy and practicing celibacy keeps me emotionally balanced and better able to receive my new guests with a happier frame of mind.

My experiences with the Eros Guide these past two years has been very combative, humiliating and a true waste of my time, energy and money. They have constantly changed their template and changed their service to strictly online interaction. Each time they asked me for feedback I told them the truth and I stated their original template and design brought me the most work from the most desirable group of people. Now it appears backpages is the new source for anyone to find out about my services. I even asked other women in my field if they were still receiving calls using the Eros guide and they were quite honest with me and said since Eros has changed its template and standards and changed its content they are lucky receive 3 inquiries a week. I noticed that most of my calls from people on backpages or google search engines but no longer from the Eros guide. I even asked clients from New Orleans how they found me and they told me they had never heard of the eros guide. I asked a client of mine from St. Louis if he even uses the Eros guide and he said he found the women to be a bit overpriced and nasty to him on the phone so he stopped searching for women from the Eros guide since the Quality of women who advertise their has gone down too.

I even notice that AGENCIES posing as independent contractors such as THE KEY NAME penelope Waters is now posing as an independent contract so not only is Eros guide now playing favorites to Agencies they are now excluding small private tantra educators from using their site to promote their legal services. It appears to me that Lisa is now formally playing favorites and promoting professional agencies, professional GFE’s and professional prostitutes on their site and now getting ride of trained massage therapists and trained Tantra educators.

If you go online and view the women who are currently on the Eros guide they will even show you their TER id’s. Everyone who is a professional hobbyist knows that TER stands for The erotic review. The erotic review board is a place where hobbyists can rate and review their experiences with a professional porn star and with a GFE or a Prostitute. I am not prejudiced against the industry but I am stating a fact that because the Eros guide chooses of their own free will to ban someone like me yet promote porn stars who include their TER reviews I am going to assume I no longer fit into the mold that the Eros guide is now leaning towards.

It appears to me that if you are a VIP escort, GFE, professional BDSM or Madame you are going to be welcomed into their fold and allowed to post your services online for all to see but if you are a trained professional like me with over 16 years of experience with tantra yoga training and massage you might be banned from being included into their new “look.”

I was penalized today by Lisa and Tim from the Legal department of the Eros guide because I was upset that they decided to remove two beautiful sentences delineating Yoni worship.
I am no longer allowed to advertise with the Eros guide because I chose to defend myself and use the word Yoni.
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Yours Goddess Diana of
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com