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Tantra Massage Retreats In Chicago by Goddess Diana

I highly recommend all new students of tantra plan ahead for a unique and celebratory 3 hour to 6 hour t antra retreat with me here in Chicago, Illinois.
The benefits are endless for as long as you feel you deserve the pampering and the self healing.
Many people however have a hard time simply receiving pleasure. They prefer to give to their partner but they themselves don’t feel deserving of caring, nurturing touch.

The purpose of tantra yoga and massage is to teach you bodily awareness, mindfulness and sensitivity.

I will strive and do my best to awaken your latent and dormant pleasure zones and energy centers (chakras) by using pleasing touch, light caresses, deep trigger point release and Usui reiki on your physical body.

My tantra ceremonies are meant to revitalize and restore you. If you are a writer or director or CEO you need something to inspire your creative spark and encourage your writing or your brain power.

Musicians also need to release their potential through the expression of their sexuality and sexual energies.  Many successful entrepreneurs and musicians have a very open base or Mulhdara chakra and find g spot massage helpful to their mental outlook and in the creation of new musical material

Tantra inspires creativity and intuition
We will focus together on chakra balancing, chakra baths, mutual cuddle therapy, bodywork, reiki, goddessworship, intimacy training, reiki, aromatherapy, soundhealing, and basic tantra yoga exercises that you can use for your daily practices for yourself or with your partner at home.

Do give my services a try.  I genuinely love what I do and I love setting up sacred space
here in Chicago, Illinois.

For a more comprehensive listing of all my services and unique offerings please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend at least 90 minutes there.

I have written articles on what tantra is and everything tantra yoga can offer you.  I have written articles on my main website that might inspire you to dive in and try a tantra massage or spa retreat and get your energies flowing for the better.

Let’s Co create something positive and beautiful together. Married couples are also encouraged to schedule a tantra retreat or any shorter length session with me in the privacy of your home or hotel room.

Remember the *Magic* begins within you.  I am here to simply remind you of how powerful you are and help you release hour own kundalini energies.  I am a Catalyst and an empty Receptacle connecting to Source.  I am not giving you any of my energy nor are taking on any of my energy or Karma.

Tantra is about the co creation of Sacred Space, the establishment of loving boundaries, and Divine touch that activates the Fires within you.

Let’s create memories together and start you on your own journey of transformation and rising Kundalini.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

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You are also encouraged to follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my YouTube channel for additional information on my personal character, firsthand experiences and mini tantra lessons.

I am intentionally transparent so you feel more comfortable with meeting me in person; but for anyone here who is still undecided on what ceremonies to choose from you are encouraged to book me for a paid phone consultation and we can discuss your goals, budget and concerns.

I’m delighted you found me here today and hope we can meet in person soon.  I also have chakra balancing sessions available via a live and interactive phone conversation for anyone who can’t visit with me here in Chicago.

 

Chicago Tantra Goddess Diana

Greetings! Today is Monday February 10th and we are now formally immersed in the tail end of our Chicago winter season.

The purpose of today’s new blog entry is manifold and so I hope everyone reading this article today will be compelled to let go of their fear, introduce themselves to me soon and begin their first journey into tantra here in Chicago.

In the past I was virtually one of three major tantra teachers and tantra providers available for hire within the city of Chicago.  I started my career path as a sensual massage therapist in my early twenties and in the past my clients could easily find my nude massage services printed in a free publication known as The Chicago Reader.

The Chicago Reader had a section known as Adult Classifieds and because the newspaper was privately owned the Reader would allow all sex educators, bdsm professionals and sex workers to purchase advertising.

Our advertising fees are what helped keep the Chicago Reader thriving and business was stable and always good for me because all of Chicagoland had easy access to our content and contact information.

Life was so much less complex and convoluted back in the 1980’s and 1990’s because we didn’t rely so heavily on social media platforms to be found online.  Clients could simply pick up a copy of the Chicago Reader and turn to the Adult section to acquire the services of their favorite providers and or new providers to satisfy their needs for adult fun or sensual healing.

At a very young age I was always studying alternative healing techniques and learning more about the chakra bodies and reiki.  I decided that I’d love to try out the sex industry field because it seemed intriguing and a fun way to make money and meet new people.

I had no premeditated thoughts regarding the adult entertainment industry; I simply plunged in by purchase a pager because we didn’t have cell phones yet and I purchased my first ad with the Reader.

Now the Chicago Reader no longer has an adult section and let’s be honest people now rarely read printed papers anymore because they can just use their cellphones and search for services using a Google search.

Well if you found me here now please have patience with my stream of consciousnessness writing. I promise I’ll always be honest and be as descriptive as possible when you read my blog or read information on my main tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

Times have most definitely changed and I’ve moved away from Chicago multiple times during my career only to find a huge surge of other tantra professionals have moved here permanently.

Most of the tantra professionals now divide their time between Chicago and their own hometown to keep their work opportunities fluid.  The market for tantra now here is overwhelming and oversaturated and my efforts to be seen here now on the internet have made it necessary for me to continue to be seen here on social media.

My budget is tight these days so I am much more conservative with my spending and I’m not investing in SEO services like my competitors.

My only endeavor is to spread positive energy with people who are seeking authentic traditional tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicagoland.

My focus is on alternative healing, tantra yoga, breathing instructions, cuddle therapy, sound healing, hypnosis, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and spa retreats.

Part if the reason I’m writing today is to emphasize to all new clients to formally introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable responding to your questions over the phone.

You need to provide your full legal name to be considered for a future session and I always accept and accommodate same day requests for tantra in Chicago from anyone who introduces themselves to me over the phone, via my contact form or my email address tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

I have so many interesting and informative articles on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com that you should not have too many questions for me. In the event that you find yourself unsure about which ceremony to choose I suggest we meet in person for a paid coffee consultation so you feel comfortable moving forward.

Just understand that the term tantra yoga itself is esoteric and reading about tantra yoga is not the same as experiencing a tantra massage for yourself in real time. You have to decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the plunge and indulge in a session.  You can spend money on a coffee consultation and at least meet me in person to carefully go over my website with me so I can advise you before you decide to invest on a half day, full day or 90 minute tantra immersion.

The following paragraphs you read are taken directly from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so you can understand more about my writing style and my tantra offerings. Please take time to read my main website at your leisure and only ask me educated questions if you’re still confused.

In accordance with traditional hindu Yogis and buddhist Tantra practices. The Sanskrit word Anahata literally means unstruck or unbeaten. The sound of this sacred chakra is the sound of serenity and completeness within one’s self and all chaos is destroyed by this powerful sound of self love.
Too many times during the day we can forget how important positive self talk can be after dealing with people we encounter either through our casual encounters or our repetitive dealings with people in our work environment.
Do you ever catch yourself hunching over and caving in your chest after receiving negative feedback from a colleague or after being misjudged by a new person who barely knows you?
It’s impossible for us to avoid pain or hurtful commentary but not impossible for us to have compassion for our mistakes and learn how to correct our self talk and correct our bodily posture so that we can open our heart to receiving love and make ourselves more ready to accept positive feedback.
For instance do you find it difficult to accept compliments? Are you able to smile and warmly receive a genuine hug from a close friend or stranger or do you feel guarded and awkward? I am not asking you to willingly accept all interactions, compliments and random hugs without setting your boundaries. I am simply suggesting that you empower your heart so you can make wiser choices and send loving messages to your own Heart chakra during times of stress.

To read more please log onto my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you would like to schedule a session you may call me directly at 312 339 7707.
When you call me introduce yourself to me formally. I do not answer more than 10 minutes worth of questions unless you introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable.

If you know you definitely have additional questions that last more than ten minutes of my time then commit to a full hour of questions and answers during a paid #coffeeconsultation. Your coffee consultation will allow you to share your goals with me and will also serve as a deposit towards your first tantra ceremony or reiki session.

My blog here serves a purpose.  I want you to have as much information on tantra massage and alternative healing as I can share with you via the written word. I want you to feel comfortable committing to a future session or at least understand that I’m passionate about what I have to offer you.

I don’t like wasting my valuable time with game players who hide their true identity eith aliases or blocked and restricted numbers. In order for me to answer your questions you must first gain my trust just as I’ve taken years to upload public information for everyone to read.

 

Your future journey with Tantra yoga begins with your research 🔮

I decided to address an issue that I’ve been noticing lately this past year while I’m currently living in Chicago.

Lately people reaching out to me by phone have admitted to me that they simply found my phone number on Google maps while either seeking a traditional sports massage or looking for a sensual massage. Very few people were looking up the word tantra; they just happened to come across my Google map page by accident.

I think it’s wonderful that they found me online  and if you yourself just found me here by happenstance I’m flattered and obviously maybe you were supposed to find me and learn more about tantra yoga and alternative healing.

Now that you found me I’d like to challenge you to do your own research on the true definition of tantra and the benefits of receiving a tantra yoga massage.  If you are considering a session it’s truly not my intention or responsibility to solicit you into trying one of my sessions.

I’ve already done most of the hard work on my own time and I’ve invested my own money into taking courses in alternative healing such as Usui Reiki, lomi lomi massage, sound healing, chakra chanting, tantra yoga retreats long distance in Hawaii and hot stone massage therapy.

I invested money into taking trips to Boulder, Colorado to learn about DNA activation courses and I spent my own personal savings to travel to los Angeles, California to learn basic techniques of pranic healing and receive certification.

All of my many years practicing the art of alternative healing, chakra balancing and sensual massage has helped me learn how to listen to the human body and create sacred space for anyone seeking a mind altering experience that transcends time and spatial constraints.

I am more than willing to share a half day or full day of tantra yoga spa ceremonies with any man, woman or couple who is open minded enough to learn the fundamental principles of energy work, chakra balancing and full body kundalini activation.

I’d like to know that new students of tantra have at least researched the meaning of the word tantra before calling me directly on my phone.  It’s not my responsibility to digest all the information on my website to anyone; nor is it my duty to help you reach an unknown of the term tantra yoga. You are invited to read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for yourself when you have a spare hour and you may go directly to the index page on my site entitled TANTRA.

I have prepared paragraphs of detailed and explicit information on tantra, chakras, my ceremonial options and articles I’ve written to help you gain insight on the journey of alternative healing.

Please have some patience and read more because I love writing and I do have a great passion for the work I do.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry .

The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole.

We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide.

A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.
My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Tantric journeying can align you with your higher being
To learn more please visit my site  http://www.tantrabutterfly.com 🦋

Call me to schedule your very first tantra massage here in the city of Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicago.
My sessions include Usui Reiki, tantra yoga, yoni worship, lingham honoring, aromaromatherapy, sound healing, tantra bath ceremonies, kundalini activation and traditional massage therapy.
Read my site first then call to schedule a paid coffee consultation; or if you’re already determined to commit to a session call me at 312 339 7707. I truly don’t feel it’s my responsibility to give you a long description of all my offerings.  Read my site when you have time and you are then welcome to ask me educated questions if anything on my website was too confusing for you to understand.

Please READ my website prior to contacting me. TANTRA BUTTERFLY was created in 2005. Since 2005 I have been perfecting my craft and creating more material for everyone to enjoy and read.  My website Tantra Butterfly is still a work in progress.  It costs me money and time to write fresh material because my web designer charges me a fee each time he needs to create a new page of information. The very least you can do is spend a full 90 minutes reading what I wrote. If you know you don’t have ample time to read my website then maybe you should just take a plunge and hire me on the spot.  During our session you are welcomed to ask me anything you wish about tantra yoga; or you can just quietly enjoy, close your eyes and receive a firsthand experience for yourself under my heart healing intuitive touch.

The average person or potential client contacting me this year hasn’t bothered to even click onto my website to even read ONE PARAGRAPH.  I have spent hours expressing myself through the written word to help everyone understand all the options we can explore together.  I wrote all this material because I want people to understand what they’re getting into before we even physically meet in person.

It isn’t my job to digest the contents of my website for you; nor is it my job to give you a detailed description of tantra. Do your research first prior to initiating contact with me.  If you want to view videos of tantra yoga and tantra massage on YouTube just be open minded because all teachers of tantra yoga have their own unique way of presenting tantra to their new students.  In other words I want you to expect the unexpected and be open minded before you meet me.  I might not be the only teacher you wish to employ but I can guarantee you I will do my very best to meet most of your goals if you did your due diligence on your own and spent time reading the many options on my website first.

Spend quality time researching what tantra yoga is and isn’t.  Tantra yoga isn’t instant gratification nor a substitute or a complete cure all for issues pertaining to your love life or emotional and or physical well being.

Tantra yoga is just one wonderful tool you can use on your daily quest to obtain and achieve optimal well being and personal joy.

Tantra is a journey you choose to help you create new opportunities to heal trauma, renew and rejuvenate and learn more about yourself and your boundaries.

After reading my website you may still be confused. I understand that many of you may not have experienced full body kundalini activation on your own during a traditional massage or yoga class.

My sessions are for people seeking an out of body experience that will activate all major chakra bodies and create a state of inner calm, well being and bliss.

You will become aware of your own latent energy centers and you will learn how to be fully present and consciously in the moment with me during our time together.

You will be instructed and encouraged to breathe properly because correct breathing techniques is crucial to reap all the benefits of kundalini activation and helps you achieve a higher level of relaxation.

If you are perplexed about which ceremony is best for your needs I encourage you to schedule a  paid coffee consultation with me in the near future so we can discuss all the options on my website that may help you unlock your energies and kickstart your goals for greater self awareness.

These tantra coffee consultations serve as a deposit towards your first session with me so your consultation will provide you with information and a sense of what you can expect when we co create sacred space together.

Contact me this week after spending a bit of time navigating my website.

Goddess Diana
Level 3 Reiki Master

Certified Tantra educator
Licensed lomi lomi therapist
Trained and certified pranic Energy healer
Certified hot stone therapist
Empath and Psychic healer

 

Please only contact me after spending QUALITY time reading my website first.

When you call me please REFRAIN from using graphic language.  My website is already very explicit and graphic in nature.

If you are seeking the following modalities:
Reiki, Yoga, visualization, hypnosis, alternativehealing, energy, chakrabalancing chakraalignment, chanting, soundhealing, aromatherapy, tantra yoga, couples tantra, mindfulness, massage, bathing ceremonies and learning how to set up sacred space
Then I may be the right fit for YOU 🔮

YOU HAVE ample time to pick and choose the proper tantra master for your journey. If my website speaks to you; but you are still puzzled then hire me for a coffee meet and greet. It will be an investment in yourself to find out more about your future journey and goals. I can’t guarantee you that I can meet all of your goals in just one session;

but if you schedule enough time with me in the very beginning it will definitely help you understand more about this unique journey and our time together will help you understand the basic building blocks and tenets of alternative healing and chakra balancing.

Hope to see you soon!  I’d be delighted to work with you or introduce you to beginner’s tantra during a full, half day or 90 minute introduction to tantra yoga.

Just two wonderful reasons to schedule a tantra ceremony soon ⭐

The following information has been written by me last year or so because I wanted to discuss the fact that tantra yoga is a legitimate form of yoga. Yoga’s purpose is to teach you mindfulness and help you stay in the present time.

Honestly tantra yoga helps balance your metabolism and heals your endocrine system while stimulating your endorphins.

If you’d like to read the full article in it’s complete entirety then just click directly to my main website online
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
And click onto a tab entitled ARTICLES.

Please read and enjoy this excerpt from my website and if you are inspired you may schedule a session with me soon if you are visiting Chicago or Live in Illinois.

Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.

2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.

If you have any hesitation you may schedule a paid coffee consultation with me. You have absolutely nothing to lose by meeting me in person prior to a session.  You sending me a long narrative via email won’t allow me to help you confront your unnecessary fears and anxieties either.

Once we schedule your first paid coffee consultation I will be listening to you face to face and you will have an opportunity to see how we interact with each other in real time.

Your fee is used as your deposit towards any tantra ceremony of your choosing. You are not obligated to work with me if you decide against scheduling a session with me; but at least your questions were answered and you and I met in person.

I’d love to be your very first tantra guide so once you do decide to meet with me please do not text me as an introduction. I’d rather you send me either a brief introduction or just call my number directly 312 339 7707.

I look forward to meeting you hopefully soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

The process of wellness and healing yourself should be carried out in a joyful and playful way.  Remember that when we begin this process together we are Co Creators of Sacred Space.  The key word here is “together “.

I use my personal powers of intuition, magical intentional touch, reiki, aromatherapy, chakra balancing and tantra knowledge to bring you to a state of deep calm and bliss.  My goal is to awaken and empower you and help activate the dormant kundalini energy within you.

I look forward to helping you receive the healing energies you were born to experience and explore.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

 

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

 

Why you should boycott the Eros Guide♥️

I’m having a hard time staying cheerful this week.  I’m sure all of you out there in social media are used to mostly cheerful, uplifting and inspiring messages; but I’m not a fake person.  I’m a very honest transparent woman who has literally been involved in the healing arts and sensual massage practice for over 25 years.  Many of my peers can’t say the same of themselves though.

Today I noticed a ton of visiting goddesses from San Francisco visiting Chicago this week especially for the holidays.  Trust me the majority of these women are in my age range from mid 40’s to 50 yet they are posting fake chronological ages because they are not forced by the Eros Guide to share their true chronological age.  I also wish to mention that San Francisco has much better weather than we currently have here in Chicago but the reality of the situation is the tantra and sensual massage markets are extremely over saturated for these visiting Goddesses who come here and charge almost twice to three times what I charge my guests. You have to understand that if these women were not struggling financially in their own market they certainly wouldn’t wish to suffer the colder climates here not to mention incur costly travel fare and hotel fees.

They are all allowed to continue using The Eros Guide and announce their visits to Chicago consistantly and their ads are never banned or modified like mine were in the past when I once was a paying advertiser on the eos guide.
I of course was permanently banned two years ago because my supervisor who was in charge of my ongoing advertisement decided I could no longer use certain key words because I was in violation of their new terms.
When Lisa (my eros supervisor) called me I was visiting St. Louis, Missouri with my two pets and spending most of what I earned on our hotel costs, storage fees and other ongoing bills I must pay.
I was in the midst of a very bad menstrual cycle and I suffered a lot of blood loss during each of my cycles while traveling abroadI was very tired and in absolutely no mood or mindset to argue with anyone.
Lisa asked me to give her new text or rather she DEMANDED that I change the words on the spot that she had physically removed from my tantra advertisement.   I asked her to let me replace the words later in the day when I could return to my hotel room and correct the text on my laptop.
I asked her what she had against me and why the Eros Guide allowed my competitors to post paraphrased text from poems; yet I myself was never allowed to use a line of poetry and include credits to the author’s works.
I asked Lisa why the Eros Guide played favorites. I told her I’m most definitely not an escort service and that I was a Sex Educator and a formally trained professional, licensed tantra massage therapist.
I told Lisa that I don’t sell sex; rather I teach people how to feel more sexual energy within their entire body through breathing techniques and intentional interactive guided touch.  I told her I never engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients and that I’m not a GFE or girl friend experience like most of the women that currently advertise there.
The next day Tim from the legal department announced they had now banned me for life. I had paid handsomely for many years to an entity known as Dark side productions A.K.A the Eros guide; yet Tim said that based on my tape recorded phone conversation with Lisa I could never advertise with Eros again.
Why is this devastating? Because Eros guide was created in San Francisco, California and it appears it’s no more than a 3rd party source or Brothel which caters to the Eros guide administrator’s personal group of friends.
In the past I had noticed my ads and tiny banners would receive a total of 2,000 clicks from visitors  to my website per week; so I’m assuming my ongoing presence on their website was harmful and direct competition to the staff of the eros guide team.  The Eros Guide was formally created in San Francisco and the staff’s  close personal friends consistently visit Chicago from San Francisco every major holiday season and during our Conventions.
I logged onto the Eros Guide today and noticed most of the ads are from visiting tantra Goddesses who only live in Chicago part time and only visit our city during major conventions and holidays.
I’m no longer allowed to advertise on the Eros Guide and I’ve even asked another site called Sacred Eros if I could be included but Betty Martin who owns Sacred Eros told me I could not advertise with her because she had issues with my cc card in the past when I had been the victim of cc fraud living in new Orleans.

It’s the lack of overall loyalty here in Chicago that is the brunt of the problem though. You see as we all know men tend to enjoy variety. They stick with a woman for a limited amount of time and then they like to explore other options.  If these visiting goddesses were truly busy in San Francisco with their loyal group of clients then trust me they would have no desire to wish to visit Chicago during the dead of our typically brutal winter seasons. It isn’t so much that these Goddesses have more knowledge of tantra; it’s simply that their clientele lost interest and now they rely on travel to other cities to stay busy.

Men in general tend to like variety over consistency. I’m not saying all men do; but the majority of men I have seen as clients are now hiring these women who “just visit Chicago” temporarily. In fact I know that one Goddess who goes by two different aliases rents a loft space near The United Center and she splits the cost of this space between her and her other tantra colleagues who all come from San Francisco.  These women take turns renting the space on a weekly basis but no one lives there full time. These women are merely here to hustle their services; makes as much money as they can within a time frame and return to San Francisco which is where they reside full time.

It’s hard for me to stay afloat when I’m not afforded the same opportunities that these women are given. I’m no longer allowed to market myself on these two websites and the clients that live here are less keen and inclined to stay loyal to the people that live here permanently.

I’ve been abnormally slower than I should be.  It could be many factors like lack of professional SEO services and the fact that tantra sites I once used no longer exist on the internet. The market here for tantra is now completely and utterly oversaturated with competitors that don’t live here full time but just visit Chicago temporarily to SEIZE AND PLUNDER and fatten their wallets to be able to afford their expensive loft properties in San Francisco, California.

I truly hope people understand the stress I’m under now. I have fewer websites to advertise on and there is now an oversaturation of tantra goddesses who visit and or have permanently relocated to Chicago.
It’s been a tough holiday season for me just trying to subsist and what hurts most is I myself am not allowed to advertise on the same equal leverage as everyone else who just visits here.

I wish to add one more important fact.  Perhaps you aren’t aware of this but The Eros Guide was raided by homeland security two years ago at their headquarters in North Carolina.  Every woman that was still advertising actively on that site had their legal names, social security numbers and physical addresses shared by these people who raided the Eros guide.  I also need to let the general public understand that Eros Guide will most definitely agree to cooperate with the FBI and any court of law and share their data base and the advertiser’s names with the police and with the Feds.  If you continue to contract the services of women on the Eros Guide then you need to know their personal information is being shared with the authorities and with the Eros Guide’s consent.

Please understand I’m not a mean spirited person.  I do however understand the dynamics now of how this game is run. THE EROS GUIDE is here first and foremost to serve themselves.  MANY of the advertising team members were or currently are escorts themselves.  If the team members at Eros take notice that any individual is attracting a huge portion of clicks they may choose and will decide to deactivate any known competition. If you haven’t noticed, the Eros Guide was barren for a while. They got rid of more than half the regular and loyal advertises like me from ever being able to advertise again.  New people and or close friends of the eros guide staff are only permitted to advertise there now.  New rules were always being made by the Eros Guide legal team and every phone conversation we ever had with our representatives were being recorded without our knowledge or consent.

When you continue to advertise with the Eros Guide you must understand that your physical identity state cards will be shared with law enforcement services and the Eros Guide must comply and give your information away to these entities.

When you as a client contract the services now from women who currently advertise on the Eros Guide then you are hiring a circle of women who probably already have a close friendship with the staff team members of Eros so in essence you are most likely indirectly contracting the services of a state wide brothel.

I’m wishing everyone here a safe holiday.  Knowledge is power.  Two years ago after the Eros Glllllllllllllllluide banned me I consulted with a professional psychic.  She told me that being banned was a blessing in disguise because she saw exactly what was going to happen when homeland security invaded the Eros Guide’s main headquarters. She said I was spared so much trouble and that the women who advertise on the Eros Guide are technically just “window dressing” for the higher crimes and money laundering currently going on that these people hide from you the consumer and me the former advertiser.

Everything I shared with you today comes from my heart and from my personal knowledge after having dealt with these dishonest group of people.  If you don’t believe most of what I’ve written today all you need to do is go on Google and type in The Eros Guide RIP off Report in your browser.

The Eros Guide is no longer owned by the same group of people I originally advertised with back in the 1990’s.   There are so many innocent providers who have paid the Eros Guide faithfully for many years that are now formally banned for life for reasons unbeknownst to us. The original staff is probably long gone or may have changed the way they do things; but regardless they have cheated a lot of people and played favorites to their personal friends and colleagues.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am an independent tantra educator and massage therapist.  I use reiki, intuitive touch, chakra balancing, tantra yoga massage, sound healing, chanting and aromatherapy during my tantra massage ceremonies.

You are welcome to visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a comprehensive list of ceremonial options or you may arrange to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and discuss your goals and budget with me prior to your first tantra session with me here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana 312 339 7707

 

When should you receive and request a Reiki healing?

Ideally I shouldn’t have to remind you; but ideally your body will let you know when you positively NEED a reiki atunement.

Here are the following symptoms, bodily signals and symptoms that indicate you’re in need of attentive care.

The first obvious signs are social withdrawal from all activities you once loved. You have difficulty leaving your home yet you still don’t “feel at home”.  Does this make sense to you? You feel restless yet mopey and when you try to get genuinely good rest or sleep you wake up tired, as if you never even had a good sleep cycle.

Another symptom is you feel shy almost as if you are contracting your energy rather than expanding energy.  You have a hard time thinking clearly and creating anything.  It feels like you are stuck or stagnant without making progressive moves forward.

When you are confused, isolated and deeply depressed you should find a Reiki Master and schedule a chakra cleansing for an hour or 90 minutes just to clear your mind and get rid of psychic debris you are holding onto.

Trust me; there’s nothing worse than spinning I’m circles and getting mired down in self doubt or endless grief.  Reiki is a perfect way to process your grief and shorten your mourning period whether it’s from a lost job, an end of a love relationship or a hard transition period you are currently experiencing.

Talk therapy is most definitely useful; but when you truly need to kick start a brand new beginning then Reiki helps ready you gracefully and graciously into the next major life change with greater ease.

When we get depressed our natural inclination is to withdraw from our friends. Most people don’t like to burden their family and friends with their personal emotional drama. In fact, most business professionals would prefer to appear emotionally strong and without any emotional weaknesses.   Keeping all these anxieties to yourself leads to blocks in your chakra bodies and these emotional blocks eventually lead to physical stress like ulcers, eating disorders, insomnia, chronic pain and hopelessness.

When you isolate yourself and guilt yourself into thinking you don’t deserve healing touch you create a vacuum of sadness and normal daily tasks become insurmountable.

Take a moment and schedule some sacred touch with me here in Chicago.  All my tantra ceremonies will include sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, trigger point massage and sacred tantra yoga massage.  Reiki is implemented in ALL my tantra massage sessions in Chicago; but you are also welcome to schedule a stand alone reiki atunement for an hour or 90 minutes just to get you feeling better again.

I have copied and pasted the following information from my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com to help you fully understand the healing benefits of Usui Reiki.

 

Reiki

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive. If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy.

The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”. So Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force.

 

The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras.

The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

It would be my greatest desire to introduce you to my unique approach to traditional tantra yoga massage.

Please dont allow yourself to get to the lowest point in your energy level before reaching out to me.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

 

Today is Father’s Day 🧸

Today is Father’s Day but I don’t miss my biological father who physically kicked my mother in the stomach when she was carrying me in her womb. In fact I still don’t respect my own mother who is also deceased because what kind of mother remains married to a man who would attempt to threaten the life of her unborn child?

I’m posting this information not to garner any sympathy but to help people understand that not all of us here had desirable childhoods or pleasant memories of our parents during these traditional Hallmark card American created Holidays.

I’m not even a tad bit sentimental or regretful today because both my parents failed me and they were in a sick codependent relationship with one another and when my mother found out my father was schizophrenic she was even considering an abortion and deeply worried that I myself would develop schizophrenia like my father since it is after all hereditary.

Well my father had a complete nervous meltdown when my mother became pregnant and she told me he had kicked her hard then spent several months in treatment in the hospital for his mental condition.

Medication and talk therapy can only do so much for anyone suffering from delusions and I knew my father became a completely different person when he got angry with me or my mother. You could literally see his dark, black pupils become so enlarged his brown eyes became pitch black and he no longer looked human.

My father was very abusive to me…I have good memories of him when he showed genuine compassion towards me but his cruelty outweighed anything good he showed me and If I could go back in time as a young child I’d love to relive all those scary instances but ideally I would have left my home physically and spent more time outdoors or at the library and escaped his blind rages.

Not every father is ideal for the position of parenting so only a handful of lucky people out there had good, healthy relationships with their mothers and fathers. At the very least some of us as children were blessed to have a good role model either in the form of an uncle, a teacher or a close family friend.

I myself spent a good part of my childhood and puberty hiding in fear from my father who was not only diagnosed with schizophrenia but truly possessed by demonic entities. I’d love to understand what on earth I must have done in a previous incarnation to deserve such a frightening childhood but I know it shaped my character and made me a more sensitive child more empathetic than my peers.

I remember also being bullied by children my own age from five years old to age 16. At times I’d defend myself and the children would eventually learn to steer clear of me if I decided to defend myself properly. Most of the time I didn’t do anything to defend myself and I’d just cry quietly to myself at home. If my mother found out I had been bullied she usually didn’t have sympathy for me at all; in fact she genuinely became angry at me and wanted to know how I could let any of these peers take advantage of me or beat me up.

I learned to avoid and isolate myself from children in my school and at times I’d fight back when enough was enough and I had had my fill. I certainly didn’t mind fighting back and I at times learned how to adequately defend myself from my father’s tantrums and misdirected anger.

I never celebrate Father’s Day here on my Facebook wall but I know it’s a special day for at least a few blessed people out there in social media who knew what it felt like to be deeply loved unconditionally and respected by their fathers.

I leave this here on my wall not to garner sympathy but to help others understand that we don’t all celebrate this Holiday. Some of us don’t to this day understand why we ended up with the parents we had. I know a psychic reader I hired last year acknowledged to me what I had already known. My father was indeed a Channel for Spirits…all Spirits even Malevolent Spirits. He couldn’t control what he received so the doctor’s misdiagnosed his clairvoyance and prescribed him with pills and other medications that no doubt made his visions that much worse and skewed his reality further.

My parents were VESSELS …they were important in that they brought me here. I’m alive and I myself am clairvoyant and clairsentient and clairaudient. I know how to ground my own energies and I’ve never allowed any entity to ” take over the steering wheel ”

I can filter what it is I wish to receive and I function well on my own independently . I truly do not desire nor crave anyone else to “compliment” or “complete” me. I’ve had so many things taken from me but I’ve endured it and I’m content. I would never refuse genuine help if it were offered up to me but I learned the hard way that help is rarely offered unless there are “strings” attached.

My upbringing made me more sensitive and strong. I learned not to expect too much from anyone and I learned as I got into adulthood that people you date can abandon you when you need them the most especially if you let your guard down and bared your true feelings to them.

Anyone can disappoint you at anytime. The key to being truly happy is self reliance, self respect and unconditional self love. You must be there for yourself and learn to hold your own hand during the darkness.

By the way I do not give readings to anyone.  I sometimes might give my clients advice and pick up information they may need to hear from their Spirit Guides or “higher power “; but I don’t want to “probe” anyone I don’t know personally and interfere in their journey.

My psychic abilities have lead me to understand that I should place complete faith in myself first because of my own bodily signals or slight panic attacks.  I learned from firsthand experience that if I do not honor my own intuition I will be misled or reap the consequences of being completely taken advantage of by people who don’t have my best interests in mind.

I have experienced what it feels like numerous times not to be listened to and not to be taken seriously especially by people who were in a position to guide me or offer me help.

I suggest that if any of you reading my blog get a nagging gut feeling within you that some path isn’t right for you that you honor yourself first and pay close attention to your body’s signals.  If you feel nauseous or sweaty or truly ill before a decision you’ve made you may need to change your intended course of action and back away and try another alternative plan.

No one will be able to predict an outcome for you because we always have free will and the ability to change our minds frequently.  In honor of Father’s Day seek out answers within you more often.  Never question your own intuition and never put all your faith in one entity or one set way of doing something.

In honor of Father’s day learn to create sacred space within yourself first. When you wake up each day keep track of your thoughts.  Are you sending comforting thoughts to yourself and your physical body or are you silently criticising yourself ?

You alone carry all the answers within you and you alone intuitively understand how and where to begin the process and long journey of self healing and renewal.

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Here’s to a bright new 2019 ♡

Health goals

Hello everyone who happened to find my blog either out of happenstance or because you followed the link directly from my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com!

If you aren’t familiar with astrology I myself always loved reading up on both Eastern and Western astrology ever since I was a teenager and my enthusiasm for Occult studies, Astrology and the Paranormal never wanes instead just like the waxing of the new Moon my curiosity always grows.

During our new moon last week I made sure I focused on some new goals for myself so I lit a very special manifestation candle because candle magick is especially powerful and magically infused as the moon gains in strength.

I trimmed my wavy hair just a bit at the ends to promote healthier growth and I did some self marketing to increase the potential for new clients discovering my offerings online. I also realized that my physical health should be examined more closely. I tend to love sweets especially good chocolate so I did a bit of personal research and read up on the proper way that fruits should be consumed for optimal health and that fruit consumption should be strictly on an empty stomach!

I read up on how fruits are better absorbed when you eat them raw and always before any other food group never after. In other words fruit should be eaten as a dessert rather fruits should be eaten early in the day prior to any other meals you intend to consume. I’ve naturally followed this new diet regime and I must say not only does my stomach feel better but my skin seems to glow more!

Ginger, turmeric and carrot juice

I have also made more of an effort to drink more raw vegetables so it’s much easier to make sure my new health goals are met painlessly and with very little effect on my part.

Tonight and tomorrow our super moon will be in Virgo which translated into Layman’s terms simply means we’ll be shedding layers and unhealthy, unrealistic expectations of what we should be and just be easier on ourselves.

Part of this super moon energy will be our willingness to part ways with toxix situations and or people interfering in our progress to achieve self awareness and contentment. We will stop comparing ourselves to others and become more self accepting rather than materialistic.

This year is also the year of the Boar in Chinese astrology which to me is wonderful news because I was born during the year of the Goat and Boar, Goat and Rabbit make up a triad of creative, peace loving, and emotionally based signs that go very well together! I am prepared to see beautiful changes unfold for 2019 and I hope all of you reading this message will be more mindful of creating small, positive changes in your life rather than focusing on what you don’t have.

If you focus on tiny projects that you know you can potentially accomplish then the impossible goals that no longer serve you won’t seem that essential to your personal happiness.

Goddess Diana
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
I am always available for sponsorships to your city or you can schedule sacred time for yourself here in Chicago while I’m still here.

Eros Guide continues to Ban established providers from advertising on their site

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.

And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.

I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.

Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.

I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.

In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.

Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.

I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.

Here is the copied text:

I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:

Hello Mary,

I hope this email finds you well.

We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.

We wish you well with any future endeavors.

Regards,

Eli
Customer Service Representative

WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH

I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.

Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?

They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.

I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.

My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707