Tantra yoga and tantra massage trains and teaches you how to be more firm about your boundaries helping you train your partner to understand what it is you need.

I have been contacted by many couples of the years and very few people understand it’s mostly about tenderness and connection. It’s truly that simple and if your partner is to shy to achieve an orgasm during our time together there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. This isn’t about having a full body orgasm on command. Tantra is about heart connection and building trust.

You should both feel centered and focus on the breath and mutual pleasure with healing and loving intentions. If the spark and mutual trust has been broken between the two of you hopefully on couples tantra ceremony will begin. Don’t worry about your performance and Don’t worry about looking glamorous because this is about mutual sharing and connection we aren’t performing a show together we are creating a sacred space for healing to take place.

Regardless of which ceremony you choose whether it’s strictly for yourself and your healing journey or as a couple your boundaries and needs will be addressed and clearly communicated before and during our session. You are allowed to change your mind about what we do and how much time we spend together. You can even ask for a break in the middle of our time together if you’re tired or need to take a hike. I literally am easy going for as long as you’re completely honest I won’t take it personally.

In fact one time I was hired by the sweetest older CEO who was having an affair with a younger woman and she had a long history of sexual abuse as a teenager. She panicked and took a thirty minute break during our session to smoke outside and process unhealed anger and emotions. When she returned she told her boyfriend that under no circumstances did she feel comfortable with me offering him prostate massage and so the session ended an hour earlier than what was originally planned. Initially my feelings were hurt to be evening dismissed like that however when we all met for dinner the evening before she warned me that she might not react well because she was only agreeing to couples tantra to please him. She was never comfortable being exposed and vulnerable and trying a new technique to restore intimacy. She literally warned me so I was almost expecting the drama to ensue during our actual session.

Unfortunately I never saw them again and he had expressed to me before we all met that they had a very physical and raw sexual relationship but that the spiritual aspects and breathwork was completely missing and it frustrated him. She also suffered from fibromyalgia a chronic nerve pain that made her sensitive to touch.

Everything that happens to us physically as children, young adults and throughout our lives here on Earth 🌎 has a profound affect on our thinking patterns and the way we process energy. If we have faulty thinking patterns from prior abusive relationships with our parents and family we may be paranoid or expect the worse from others. When we react in an illogical way we blick healing and new opportunities. We block love and we block abundance.

If you feel stuck and want to explore your sexuality i would love the opportunity to help you tap into and access your Kundalini energy.

My main website is

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

And my direct contact number is 312 339 7707

I am always available for virtual coffee ☕ soynd healing and chakra balancing via WhatsApp for $100 per hour.