Posts tagged “self healing”
September 29, 2026 No comments

How Tantra enhances your communication

Tantra yoga and tantra massage trains and teaches you how to be more firm about your boundaries helping you train your partner to understand what it is you need.

I have been contacted by many couples of the years and very few people understand it’s mostly about tenderness and connection. It’s truly that simple and if your partner is to shy to achieve an orgasm during our time together there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. This isn’t about having a full body orgasm on command. Tantra is about heart connection and building trust.

You should both feel centered and focus on the breath and mutual pleasure with healing and loving intentions. If the spark and mutual trust has been broken between the two of you hopefully on couples tantra ceremony will begin. Don’t worry about your performance and Don’t worry about looking glamorous because this is about mutual sharing and connection we aren’t performing a show together we are creating a sacred space for healing to take place.

Regardless of which ceremony you choose whether it’s strictly for yourself and your healing journey or as a couple your boundaries and needs will be addressed and clearly communicated before and during our session. You are allowed to change your mind about what we do and how much time we spend together. You can even ask for a break in the middle of our time together if you’re tired or need to take a hike. I literally am easy going for as long as you’re completely honest I won’t take it personally.

In fact one time I was hired by the sweetest older CEO who was having an affair with a younger woman and she had a long history of sexual abuse as a teenager. She panicked and took a thirty minute break during our session to smoke outside and process unhealed anger and emotions. When she returned she told her boyfriend that under no circumstances did she feel comfortable with me offering him prostate massage and so the session ended an hour earlier than what was originally planned. Initially my feelings were hurt to be evening dismissed like that however when we all met for dinner the evening before she warned me that she might not react well because she was only agreeing to couples tantra to please him. She was never comfortable being exposed and vulnerable and trying a new technique to restore intimacy. She literally warned me so I was almost expecting the drama to ensue during our actual session.

Unfortunately I never saw them again and he had expressed to me before we all met that they had a very physical and raw sexual relationship but that the spiritual aspects and breathwork was completely missing and it frustrated him. She also suffered from fibromyalgia a chronic nerve pain that made her sensitive to touch.

Everything that happens to us physically as children, young adults and throughout our lives here on Earth 🌎 has a profound affect on our thinking patterns and the way we process energy. If we have faulty thinking patterns from prior abusive relationships with our parents and family we may be paranoid or expect the worse from others. When we react in an illogical way we blick healing and new opportunities. We block love and we block abundance.

If you feel stuck and want to explore your sexuality i would love the opportunity to help you tap into and access your Kundalini energy.

My main website is

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

And my direct contact number is 312 339 7707

I am always available for virtual coffee ☕ soynd healing and chakra balancing via WhatsApp for $100 per hour.

November 29, 2016 No comments

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707
October 7, 2015 No comments

Please don’t judge me based on my career Path!

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I wanted to share this with everyone here today! Sadly the work I do is not always revered or regarded with respect by a majority of people who reside here in the United States or other countries for that matter.
Just two days ago I was victimized on Craigslist because I responded to an ad from a man seeking a “gal friday” in exchange for reduced or no rent and a potential to earn extra money on the side.

I was toying with the idea of spending a month in Miami beach soon and I was hoping to find a nice live in situation where I could work and trade my skills which includes writing and cooking for a place to live.

I innocently responded using my email address butterflyshadows@aol.com and I asked how I could be of use to this man so I could share a space in exchange for work. This man without even responding to my email somehow linked me to my tantra website and started sending me text messages to my cell phone accusing me of being an “unwelcome pet” and he was going to monitor my account and my IP address as a violation of conduct.

So why am I the victim of harassment? Why did he decide that I am unworthy and I am a horrible human being because I teach tantra yoga and because I work with sacred sensuality? Am I committing a crime for wanting to help people and restore balance in someone’s life? Am I a horrible human being because I wanted to offer my skills or my ability to cook and clean and organize someone’s office space?

Instead of people judging first I wonder why people can’t be more civilized and humane and simply call directly on the phone rather than project their fear and their previous bad experiences or “wrongs” onto others. I feel this man had the need to misjudge and victimize me and report my account because he was taken advantage of by someone from his past and he felt the need to judge me and lash out on me because he sent me three angry text messages and said my account was going to be reported and monitored simply because I wanted to have reduced rent and respond to his ad using my real email address.

We have such a long long way to go before sex workers and healers are considered as equal as any other professional in this country. I don’t feel ashamed of who I am or what I represent I just wonder why there is so much ignorance and anger sent towards people in my field.
There seems to be so much misdirected angst and anger and so much healing that needs to be done on our inner psyche.

Why should we project a sense of anger or unworthiness unto anyone without first getting to know that person first? Shouldn’t we be judged by our actions and our conduct first?