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Chicago tantra massage by Goddess Diana

Good evening!

I felt inspired to write on my blog this evening because I’m trying to attract certain types of energies and potential new cliebts to my offerings and unique skillset.

If you are seeking an Escort service kindly leave my blog or you are welcome to continue reading knowing that I’m not offering escort services nor am I a Tantra Courtesan or even a Sexual Surrogate.

I’m not interested in offering up my body to random strangers for a set price; nor am I a poor man’s substitute for people seeking a traditional escort service.  I’m not a professional prostitute because I don’t enjoy the act of sexual intercourse with anyone unless I feel a deep chemical attraction and or soulmate connection with that individual.

If you are seeking Usui Reiki,  sensual massage, bodywork, energy healing, cuddle therapy, lomi lomi massage, aromatherapy, yoga, meditation, visualization, and traditional tantra massage then I’m the perfect fit for your heart healing needs.

When you decide to contract my services you are doing so because of your strong desire to receive heart nurturing touch.  I also have enthusiasm for any individual seeking Goddess worship sessions which is the art of opening up a woman’s body and sensual energy to Sacred sensuality.

If I feel you aren’t coming from a place of knowledge or sincerity I might initiate you by solely working on your sensual energy first so you may experience what it’s like to be a receiver of Kundalini Shakti. My opinion is that you must feel comfortable receiving energy prior to learning how to be a give of sensual pleasure.

If I feel you are ready for the advanced Goddess honoring ceremonies then I strongly advise you to schedule a full 3 hour ceremony with me and the prices quoted on my website strictly for Goddess Worship will be set in stone and never offered at a discounted price because I’m using and offering up my body as a model in order to properly teach you a skill you can use with your partner forever.  These sessions and services must be respected and you will learn more about the Divine Feminine as I guide you into the art of serving the Goddess.  The Goddess Worship session isn’t about you nor is my body used for your personal pleasure.  Goddess ceremonies are for men seeking a greater understanding of healing a woman using sacred and intentional touch.  If you decide to contract me for Goddess Worship you will be guided and instructed on breath, reiki, eye gazing and yoni healing.  These sessions are for people who are emotionally mature and who have a desire to be selfless for their lovers.

When you contact me please understand I’m primarily a trained yogini and empath. I am highly skilled with sound healing, opening up chakras  and  I am very adept at activating your kundalini Shakti or sleeping serpent. I pride myself at understanding the subtle intricacies of your physical and energetic bodies and I truly enjoy setting up Sacred Space so that we can both co create something beautiful and memorable together.

My tantra massage sessions are currently held in slSchaumburg, Illinois and Chicago.  During our time together I will conscoously activate, soothe and electrify you.  My desire is to bring you waves of bliss and full body euphoria that will replenish and restore your sense of humor and inner peace.

When you read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com I hope you will decide to take the plunge and put your complete trust in me.  Please ask me about full or half day tantra spa retreats and or couples tantra if you are married but need a boost.

I’m available for sponsorship to your home city within the United States or you may schedule a paid phone consultation with me to discuss the possibilities of a future tantra ceremony with me exclusively.Tantra is a valid form of yoga and helps alleviate chronic pain, insomnia and depression.

Tantra massage and tantra yoga is a valid form of energy work if you take it seriously and practice it daily.

Sessions can last 90 minutes in length up to a full day and I can bring the session to you or we can set up the ceremony at a beautiful spa space with a deposit and a firm date.

You are encouraged to call me if these services interest you and if you feel emotionally prepared for the journey.

I’m a licensed tantra educator and reiki master and I have been formally trained in many massage modalities including energy work and chakra balancing.

If you feel more comfortable introducing yourself via email contact me here ~>
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Be honest about your budget, goals and time constraints. DO NOT request my most expensive sessions at a deep discount. I do my best to provide new clients some leeway with sliding fees scale options but Couples tantra and Goddess Worship sessions are never offered at a discounted price.

If you need me to appoint a space for our session to take place an advanced deposit is always required prior to our ceremony ( no exceptions ).  If your deposit isn’t paid the session will be canceled.

I do not work from home at this current moment in time.  It’s my personal choice at the present time to separate my living quarters from the healing and sacred work I do.

Please respect my boundaries 🦡

You will need to introduce yourself to me properly by including your social media presence, your full legal name and your profession in order to be considered for a future potential session.

If I’m unable to accommodate your specific needs I’ll gladly refer you to someone else in my field.

I’m on LinkedIn, Google, Facebook, Twitter and many other Social Media networking platforms.  I purposefully make myself transparent to allow future clients to feel more comfortable about contacting me. I expect the same transparency from you.

You are invited to follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly.

If I refuse you services perhaps you didn’t honor my boundaries. I will not purchase a special space unless I receive a deposit first and I will not accept a potential student of tantra who is either attempting to exploit my pricing system, generosity or using my services for ulterior motives that go against my personal boundaries.

Don’t use graphic language in the body of any emails you send me.
If I’m unable to accommodate you because my intuition informs me we aren’t a good energy match do not send me harassing messages and or texts.  There is no reason for you to take my rejection personally.  If you are seeking an escort service or girlfriend experience I will decline your offer to book a session with me and refer you to an Escort site instead.

There are so many wonderful tantra Goddesses here in Chicago and other cities that might be more suitable for your needs and I use my intuition and integrity to decide if we should meet for a session in person.

If I ask you for a deposit to secure a space please do not play games with me. I will not spend money on a space without first securing a deposit from you first to assure you are serious about committing to a firm date and time.

I am a trained professional with many years of experience and positive feedback and reviews from clients who have trusted me.  When you contact me over the phone please treat me like you would any professional career person or business colleague.

I require all new students of tantra to honor my boundaries and have the emotional maturity to communicate with me with politeness and proper etiquette.

Tantra yoga will include breathwork, sound healing, aromatherapy, reiki, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy and above all Mutual respect.

If I feel you don’t respect me over the phone the process of healing simply will not work.

I ask that you please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com thoroughly.  Be fair to me and spend at least 90 minutes reading a site that took years for me to develop.

If you call me be ready to book a session with me. It’s truly not my responsibility to solicit you over the phone and attempt to go over every little detail or nuance that is described on my website.  If however you are genuinely confused and not sure which ceremony to select I suggest you HIRE me for a phone consultation and I’ll spend 30 minutes or a full hour on the phone with you to discuss all your options and goals.  A phone consultation might clarify everything for you and it might make you more comfortable and confident before our first meeting.

I’m truly seeking new students of tantra who have already done their own personal research and who are committed to learning more about energy work, chakras and alternative healing.

Goddesses make sure you are sincere about your intentions when you meet others in your field

Giorgione_-_Sleeping_Venus_-_Google_Art_Project_2So have not posted in a while (all of two days to be precise). What prompted me to write this article is the fact that my browser was acting up on my face book page but I really felt the need to share about the “theatrics” that I have encountered with my fellow tantra practitioners. I wish we could all be “friends” but since I have been touring the United states these past five years I found out the hard way that some people are more concerned about creating a false “marketing image” for themselves than actually letting down their guard long enough to be good friends with fellow healers or at least try to want to be of service to each other rather than being sneaky and creating issues for each other.

I am sharing this post so clients can see the real human side to the women or men they give their complete trust to. I am not perfect but I love the work I do with a passion and I always wish for the best when I meet someone new that something positive or at least something beneficial was exchanged during our time together whether it was healing, relaxation or some laughter.

I wrote this essay or rambling though form not to create “trouble” for anyone but to enlighten people about my own journey, my challenges and my attempt to make some friends if I could while I offered tantra massage in the United States these past five years. I won’t complain though because I am doing something I truly love but I met a lot of hypocrites in my field as well as finding out I don’t mind being a longer for as long as I am staying true to who I am —an imperfect Being trying to create a handful of memorable experiences with some outstanding people.

Here is my writing from my heart tonight and I pray this information is read with love and understanding.

I have been very quiet lately mostly because I realize how very much alone I am in this “tantra world” or maybe just the world in general. Before I went to florida I contacted a few “face book friends” just in case they might want to get together or offer me a bit of advice but no one wanted to meet up with me …one person did hire me but it was only because he was “fixated” on my photos and loved tantra so his curiosity got the better of him and he schedule a session with me for all of 90 minutes at my savagely discounted florida rate. I have no issues giving discounts but tips mean a lot to me since I am a nomad living in hotels now.
I was disappointed and let down these past three years because when I kind of needed real help or just to network or meet for coffee from a fellow goddess no one stepped up to the plate. No one wanted to really “get involved” and I do understand I am a stranger so there is always going to be a fear factor.
I was let down when I finally meet someone in person and realize they have nothing of value to offer me or anyone else.
I did meet one outstanding goddess many years ago when I was living in New Orleans. I still did not have established clientele in New Orleans so I enjoyed travel everywhere and used the eros guide (which banned me this year) to market my traveling so no matter where I went I was greeted with enthusiasm and I loved feeling needed and meeting new clients. There were times when new tantra goddesses moved to Chicago and never introduced themselves to me. I also found a group of goddesses in New Orleans but again they never wanted to establish contact with me. The one person who actually cared was a tantra goddess who called herself Sofia del terra. She responded to an email I had sent her when I was in New Orleans and I love Manhattan New York especially in the summer so I asked if she would meet me and SHE DID!
Sofia met me for a day of fun and of course she was curious about me so i told her about being “set up” by my condo neighbors and How I no longer felt safe in Chicago since I was forced into doing a short sale of my condo that I only owned for 3 years. Sofia listened to me without judgment and she shared her stories about receiving some “problems” in New York and how she had to use an alias to protect her privacy. She advised me to increase my pricing in New York a notch or two and sympathised with me all the while she let me have a mini tour of New York and we agreed on splitting some belgian Frittes before she had to go. She ended up cheering me up, giving me advice and I found out she had referred most of her clients to visit me each time I went to New York. I have nothing but good things to say about this beautiful goddess. She did not listen to any gossip about me she just wanted to help me.
What people do not understand is the value of making good friends in this field is invaluable. People may not realize it but I am number one on Google for the city of Chicago and each time I have been away on my traveling sprees I receive 2 or more sincere requests a day from tourists and locals who ask me if I know of anyone or have any partners to refer them to. I let them know I truly do not have any partners or good friends in Chicago because when I reached out trying to get to know the few goddesses who now make their home Chicago they never returned my calls or wished to get involved. I truthfully say in my field it’s mostly about who shines the proudest amongst which clique of people and I am a harsh judge of character. I was even “checked out” and sized up as competition from a “goddess” who lived in New Orleans and wanted to meet me not so much to help me or network with me but to drill me with questions and pry into my personal life not out of polite curiosity but to find out if I am a potential threat. After meeting with me she promptly reduced her own rates and copied some links I had on my website to better her “cause”. The silly older woman made an enemy of me and encouraged her friends in the Quarter to harass me. I don’t forgive such stupidity and cruelty and when I did leave the French Quarter I did receive a ton of calls but I chose not to refer her to any of my future clients because she did not know how to act like a Goddess.
Goddess is a term used broadly these days. If you are going to use that word spread some love and spread some truth. When you go out of your way to hurt people it lingers for a long time down the road. I was not impressed with the fellow students I met on many retreats I took in Hawaii with Charles Muir as figurehead. I was even physically ill during level III and certain people in his group were making my stay a living hell rather letting me rest and be in the moment with my physical pain. I remember how one of his co teachers took me to the side while I was bleeding through my skirts telling me she just did not see the “goddess in me”. I already knew she did not have a Goddess in her. Her name was Judy and at the time she was not a fully certified teacher of tantra but she was a certified real estate agent…and I have been a sensual healer since the age of 21. I was thinking surely she had a lot of “catching up to do”.
To the few people I met in my lifetime I am deeply grateful and yes I did refer my clients to some wonderful healers here on my page. For the others who could not even bother to call me on the phone I have nothing to say good or bad…I just don’t involve myself that way.
You can’t judge someone by their face book wall. I never take anyone for face value I am hard to please but once you have impressed me you have a secret ally for life ❤
Goddesses remember how Karma circles and circulates. Unless you have let go of your ego you are simply playing with the job title and all it entails.
I have nothing further to say for the evening….
Here is a painting entitled Sleeping with Venus ❤ by
Giorgione~