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❀Healing the Warrior within β€

steampunk cat 2I have not logged on here for a while and maybe it’s because I really did not feel the need to say much. I was online browsing a Tantra group on face book earlier this afternoon and there were several different tantra practitioners all debating about the true meaning of tantra. Besides involving the sexual aspects of Tantra yoga and Tantra massage we must closely examine our intentions as healers and students of tantra.

I can tell you honestly more than half the men who come to see me are simply “touch starved”. I work with men who are in loveless, sexless marriages where there is no loving touch or cuddling exchanged. I work with men who are single and have no time to be settled into a meaningful relationship because their focus in life in their work and career path. I work with men who are retired from the work force and they may have suffered as severe stress related injury and so they either rely on pain medications or find they can not be involved in a normal sexual relationship with anyone either out of shyness, a social phobia or a lack of desire from their injury.

I find that these past few years for me have been a harsh lesson in feast or famine. I either am so busy and in demand that I find myself turning away callers or I can go days without work due to bad timing issues and the fact that I have a life too and I can not always receive a guest just because they happen to have the time to see me for a tantra session.

I have been traveling for two full years now simply getting a taste of every city I have toured and everyone’s purpose for wanting a session is pretty much the same. Everyone needs touch. Everyone craves touch and everyone has a need to be desired and to feel lovable by someone who has time to be attentive.

I think every tantra Guide, healer or Muse is here to be authentic and present for their guest. I myself chose this path because I believe that the human body craves touch and we become more creative, more joyful and more loving when we are touched in “just the right way”.

We as healers present our sessions in such different ways and I decided that the best way to be is simply be your authentic Self no matter where you are in life and you can’t go wrong.

When you are a healer there is no need for arrogance. I have witnessed that what happens to many healers is they are judged inappropriately. When we focus on any kind of energy work whether it is sexual energy or working innocently with someone’s “tummy” aches we are shifting someone’s perspective of “being”. Some people can feel deeply threatened when they do not understand the changes they are undergoing after leaving the healer’s sacred space. Surely if you have been touched inappropriately in the past or if you have been traumatized emotionally you will have to take time out to “process” the healing touch you have received whether the touch is sexual or purely energetic healing touch like reiki.

I witnessed some of my clients crying, feeling anger (misdirected at me) or laughing so jovially I felt genuine happiness oozing out of me.
What ever happens it’s best to be without judgment.

I have been ridiculed, falsely accused of being a “trust fund kid” online and harangued by former clients of mine who were hoping I was a traditional escort service (GFE) when that was never my intention. When I graduated from a well know tantra yoga school I still had a lot left to learn but my true intention was to learn more about the circular breath and to learn how to breathe deeply while I focused on sending female energy to my mostly male clientele. I was not offering my “body” up but rather giving men choices. I wanted to use my body as a living model so that men who are shy or less aware of bodily sensations can practice with me and I could give them feedback as to whether their touch was sensitive enough or a bit too harsh and jarring.
Some past clients of mine came to me with all the wrong intentions and selfishly assumed that the term Goddess Worship meant they could do as they please to me or my body without worrying about whether or not I was feeling “used” or abused during our time together.

Goddess Worship is not a chance for you to learn how to “grope” or molest a woman by the hour. Goddess Worship is learning how to yield to the Divine Feminine or the Divine Mother that is in all women. Women are delicate Vessels of light and unconditional love. We deserve and crave to be honored and loved without conditions meaning we want to be adored no matter what our body shape or age. The true meaning of Goddess honoring is to heal your past relationships with your lovers, your sisters and your mother. Yes we all have deep wounds from our past but Goddess Worship Ceremonies present you with the opportunity to tap into your past feelings and process the pain or the misunderstanding so you can release your fears and your anger and your sense of abandonment and finally be fully present with real love to offer your future partner.

You might have misdirected anger at me during our time together because I might remind you of your past frustrations or be a Mirror to you while you process any pain from your childhood. I can only guide you and clear out those negative patterns if you give me feedback and speak up during our shared time together but I can not help you if you wait till our session is completely over or if you decide to hold your silence and never share your feelings of anger with me.

I can say that all energy workers perform a vital service and like energies attract like energies meaning no matter your level of expertise you will be able to help and heal those who have a similar issue that you have.
If you are a healer and If you experienced abuse as a child you will tend to attract those clients who were also abused by their parents. If you led a carefree life but just wanted to learn more about your sexuality in a safe and loving way you will attract individuals who also seek “play”. When you limit yourself and point the fingers of blame on other healers you are performing and committing an act of self hatred and self loathing.
Healers focus on your own gifts. Focus on what needs to be honed and well refined in your own sacred body . Focus on who you are now and where you want to be and forget about making comparisons between you and other healers if you want serenity.

I want to also include that anyone who comes to me to receive any of my services has the potential to become a tantra Healer or Daka. I am a Dakini by choice. I fell into this career path when I was in my early twenties constantly taking classes on the chakra systems and learning about subtle energies that affect our moods and ability to self heal. I can only assume that any new Guest I meet is trying to heal that child inside that wants a taste of true contentment and bliss

When we lead with our Hearts there are no expectations there is only Eros.

Chie Yoshii Paciphae 2 5-27-14, 5/27/14, 2:02 PM,  8C, 4828x9531 (1702+562), 138%, Repro 1.8 v2,  1/20 s, R68.6, G67.3, B89.8

Chie Yoshii Paciphae 2 5-27-14, 5/27/14, 2:02 PM, 8C, 4828×9531 (1702+562), 138%, Repro 1.8 v2, 1/20 s, R68.6, G67.3, B89.8

The following article I am about to write is not gender specific and I am addressing anyone who desires a true healing to take place with their partner just for the sake of healing and not for any secret agendas.

There is no great mystery about the sacred rites of unconditional love but many are challenged if they did not taste that loving energy from their parents. We all suffer from small healthy doses of narcissism because if we did not we would not have that desire to remain here and survive or defend ourselves.

How do we learn to love selflessly when we did not receive that healthy, comforting womb of protection as children? I work with adults who either were showered with positive reinforcement as children or who were molested, neglected completely or raised without hugs and kisses.

When you never had that safety net as a child how can you approach you approach a potential lover with confidence? If you were never comforted by either of your parents as a child how will you know the right cues or how to make your partner feel safe and loved?

I have been traveling for 16 months and enjoying my stays in various cities but there is a common thread I see. I see so many men having problems breathing fully or having issues gazing into my eyes when I am teach tantra yoga.

I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia and I have met some super people here fully in touch with their male and female energies and excited to create a bond and be nurtured.

I am also meeting men who feel to me as if they are rediscovering their spiritual nature and trying to grasp what it feels like to be out of their body and connected to Source.

What is Source? When I try and become a vessel to receive energy from Source I see it as Universal flow that I can use anytime I wish when I am low on personal energy. I am eventually going to run out of energy if I go without rest or if I neglect my diet. Sometimes the men I work with do not know how to send energy to me and that’s okay because I am constantly connected to Source and by breathing deeply in and out I am constantly refueling my body and the cells of my body.

I only ask that when new guests arrive to see me that they let go of their need to be in control. Let me worry about coaching breathing techniques and let me be concerned with the time as it passes. When you worry about the minor things you are not there with me in Sacred Space.

Many men falsely believe that Goddess Worship ceremonies are about pleasuring the goddess only. Men get lost in their own needs and desires because they can be overwhelmed with anxiety or get too aroused to really focus on the woman they have right in front of them. When a man is truly desirous of a goddess worship he is going to need to learn humility and letting go of what he thinks he already knows about the female body so that he becomes a vessel of pure healing and good intentions.

When you are only focused on the carnal aspects of Goddess Worship you are shortchanging yourself because there is a certain energy and afterglow that comes with complete trust and that can only be achieved when you learn how to touch from a place of deep respect and integrity for your partner.

I welcome all new guests who have a natural curiousity to learn goddess worship here in Virginia Beach. You can connect with a woman better by believing in her, by listening to her without judgements and by touching her tenderly without any hidden agendas and motives.

Let me reteach you how to heal the goddess or help you learn more about being fully responsive when I work with your unique energies.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Virginia Beach, Virginia is for Lovers of Tantra ❀ and couples Coaching.

david-bowie-1-800My travels have now taken me to Virginia Beach Virginia this week and I am quite in awe of the few wonderful new guests and lovers of Tantra I have met here!
Tantra is a very organic, natural experience which takes you into a state of deep trance and peacefulness. Many people here in Virginia Beach are already aware of the serenity of Tantra Massage and Tantra Yoga but I love to take my practice a notch or two or step above and beyond what you should normally experience during a Tantra frame of mind.
If you find yourself listless or just craving touch Tantra will recharge you because all touch held with sacred intentions can release your body’s abilities to heal itself.
Tantra is about conjoining your sacred energy with the person in front of you and being in a state of non judgement as you pass positive energy back and forth between each other.
If you feel yourself getting nervous or self conscious during a session with your Tantra Partner here in Virginia Beach just know I can help you feel less aware of your separateness just be the act of holding hands with me and breathing deeply or spooning each other with slow deep rhythmic breathing techniques.
I have never before been to Viginia Beach, Virginia and this happens to be the “off season” where people tend to want to stay at home during the colder weather. This is the ideal moment to join me for intimate healing and letting lose and shedding your layers.
I personally invite anyone here traveling through Viriginia Beach to receive my unique tantra healings. For me ❀ Tantra is always heart centered, mindful touch that transcends you, stimulates you, challenges you to reach deeper and simply makes your body and mind smile.
I love the interaction and cuddles that come as a care package with my vocation. If I were not such a lover of sensitive and caring, thoughtful touch I would never wish to engage on this level of deep intimacy with anyone. There is a difference here between raw, carnal, empty touch and skilful, respectful touch that heals you, vibrates you and makes you feel sacred.
Please give me a try. My main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com is entertaining and I wrote each article from my heart as I keep changing my mindset and my personal journey as a Tantra healer and educator.
I hope to work with open minded lovers of Tantra yoga here in Virginia Beach and I am always excited to be sponsored if you have a workshop setting where you would like me to teach your small group of excited tantra couples anywhere in the Virginia or Washington D.C. area.

I try and keep myself child like and refrain from judging as I meet new people in all cities. What is most important to me is connecting with the right energies and the right group mind set where new guests are seeking to exchange some moments of blissfulness here in Virginia beach and elsewhere. Tantra is not about changing who you are but about the enhancement of your unique sensitivities. When you become more sensitive and self aware you become more “mystic”. We are all mystics on a journey. We learn that colors can heighten and intensify as we become one with the breath. Breathing and eye gazing are just two focal points of Tantra Yoga. When we let go enough simply to surrender to the moment we realize we are not separate from each other but intimately connected to each other no matter how different we “appear” to be.

Being separate is only the “illusion” and the natural state of Being is attaining a mindset of non judgement where touching is sacred and the placing of our hands from heart to sacrum helps open up our old wounds and “scarring” or scar tissue from the battle of being misunderstood.