Posts tagged “Energy Healing”
October 21, 2025 No comments

My personal experiences with Reiki


Unfortunately there is no predicted outcome for any reiki or healing services you pay for and receive. I cherish the few times I would leave the presence of a gifted reiki master and actually feel like I was giggly, full of hope and walking on clouds. It’s such a wonderful feeling to tap into your higher self after a reiki session that helped you tap into your inner joy.

However I’ve had horrible horrible nightmarish experiences with self proclaimed “healers” who didn’t respect me as an equal or even a human being with feelings and special gifts of my own. These two separate women were “holier than thou” types and both of them even mispronounced my true legal name because they obviously didn’t care about me. I left these sessions feeling worse about myself and very distressed.

My advice is this — if you feel like your reiki practitioner is triggered by you or they think too highly of themselves then don’t waste your time or money with them.

I’m not saying every session is joyous though. Your body is unique on how it chooses to process energy. You might store unprocessed grief or trauma that you are not aware of. Our body’s cells carry memories so after a reiki treatment you might remember something dark or unpleasant you chose to ignore or forget. There are many layers to peel away as you heal. Grief, loss and depression might be part of your reiki journey and so can intense joy and self awareness.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact:  312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!

Reiki is not a cure all nor a substitution for a mental disorder if you feel you have one. If you regularly suffer from a declining mental health disorder go consult with a mental health professional in conjunction with receiving alternative healing services.

I’ve met clients who vape or take cannabis during or right before or after a tantra and reiki ceremony with me but those drugs are depressants and they alter the positive affects of receiving work in the chakras.

All drugs especially alcohol will affect the central nervous system and it’s advisable not to drink before or after receiving reiki or tantra. You should be drinking a lot of fresh spring, distilled or purified what.

Receiving reiki, sound healing and authentic tantra massage is an investment in yourself. You will definitely feel physically and emotionally lighter after your visit with me. You will look younger and it will feel like a day at the spa. If however you haven’t faced your fears or done your shadow work you might feel a bit sad depending on the trauma your body might be carrying that you’ve never fully addressed. Just be honest with yourself and honor your body. Every emotion you feel and every sensation pulsing through you is valid. You can’t rush healing nor can you continue to suppress your emotions indefinitely.

I am always available whenever you are ready to shift your energies or simply feel human connection again.

When contacting me initially for a session please include your full name and current or past occupation (if you are retired).

I’d love to meet you ❤ for a paid coffee ☕ consultation if you have an hour’s worth of questions or goals you need to share with me prior to your first tantra ceremony. All of your questions and concerns are valid and will be honestly answered.

I work with men, women, non binary individuals and all couples who are seeking healing, connection, knowledge or just pure enjoyment or all of the above.

Hope to meet you soon while I am still in Chicago and all neighboring suburbs surrounding Chicago, Illinois!
November 18, 2024 No comments

A tantra ceremony should include reiki, massage, and chakra balancing

As a reiki master, massage therapist and certified tantra educator I can say all forms of healing modalities are geared towards full body holistic wellness and all help people heal through trauma and psychic 🔮 as well as physical pain.

Here is how I define reiki. I actually wrote a short article on my website Tantra Butterfly 🦋 http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive.

If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy. The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”.

Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force. The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras. The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

Now as for tantra I incorporate sound healing, deep tissue massage, Swedish style massage, chakra balancing and breathwork to open up the energy trapped within my client’s bodies. The purpose of tantra massage is to help activate Kundalini energies and we do this by employees alternative healing and sacred conscious touch. The intention is to help people heal trauma within their body’s cellular memories and help people achieve a feeling of euphoria and sensory bliss.

Massage includes manual manipulation of the muscles of the body while reiki is more about gentle manipulation of energy where the practitioner administering the reiki is just barely touching their client’s body or hovering over the major chakra systems.

All three modalities help you detox, ground your energies and promote self healing and self awareness. You will also learn to tap into your creativity, abundance and your intuition is greatly enhanced after receiving an authentic tantra massage ceremony. Any legitimate tantra therapist will include reiki, guided breathwork, sound healing and massage therapy during a tantra massage ceremony.

If you would love to explore your energy with me definitely reach out to me via an introductory email Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com 📧

I offer authentic tantra ceremonies to men, women, non binary, trans and couples

January 27, 2016 No comments

Check into your Feelings using Tantra as your Tool here in Virginia Beach

Chie-Yoshii-6 Good afternoon! Writing is part of my journey and part of my self medicating process because I spend a good part of the day alone when I am not in Sacred Ceremony.

I wanted to share some common knowledge about how Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage is a gateway to tap into your intuition, gain greater balance of your emotions and simply feel more hopeful.

I am also going to hopefully alert a few people here in Virginia Beach of my existence so while I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia I’d love to make myself available for any man or woman who needs and feels a desire to connect with themselves and feel more in command of their bodies and emotions.

Tantra is a shared energy ceremony where you and I connect. I breathe with you and my hands are always in contact with your body so I might coach you to breathe deeply into certain areas of your chakras so you are aware of how powerful your own energy is. Once again Tantra and Reiki are not separate entities. Just because you called me and you were drawn to Tantra to somehow rejuvenate your sensory awareness and sensual energy does not mean you will leave my space with only your sensual energy awakened; you will leave refreshed, more intuitive, more balanced, calmer and fully fed.

Energy is energy whether I choose to share my sensual energies with someone or simply administer healing touch that is non sensual in nature you are still going to feel a surge of your own energy running through you, streaming through each of your chakra bodies and giving you a sense of calm, inner strength and warmth.

So many people go around needlessly absorbing other people’s energies like a psychic sponge or toxic waste dump. If you are an empath or if you realize you are an extra sensitive soul you might feel agitated after immersing yourself amongst others and you might not realize it but you are carrying energies that do not belong to you. During these moments when you find yourself becoming irritable it is now time for you to administer a bit of psychic healing on yourself by breathing into all areas of your body and placing your hands on your crown chakra, your throat chakra, your solar plexus and other areas that give cause for concern because this is self administered reiki/chakra healing.

My other suggestion for ridding yourself of negative energies is to spritz yourself and your home with palo santo spray. A brand that I recommend is found in whole foods market and is made by The Crystal Garden, Inc. It is medicinal, high grade, organic palo santo placed in a spritz bottle and convenient if you are not allowed to use fire in your hotel room or work place. I spritz my aura with it throughout my sessions and spritz my guests before and after tantra ceremonies to simply cleanse and activate the chakras so there is no psychic debris carried into our ceremony from other unclean energies that may have been brought into our sacred circle.

Honestly breathing is the easiest way to cleanse your aura so when you consciously take time out in your day or evening to breathe slowly and deeply in and out you are allowing yourself to ground back into your body and place yourself back into a safe place with the forces of the earth. We can’t just rely on ourselves to replenish we have to ground with the earth’s energies and deep breathing allows you to feel your body connect back to Source.

When you commit to a tantra healing you are engaging in breath, touch, mindfulness and magic. Our shared time is about co creation and sending healing vibes back and forth with common touch, common breath and intentions. I will bring you back into your body with breath coaching and keep you in the moment as I touch you gently or forcefully. Touch is the most vital medicine when you are on a path of self healing. If you find yourself doubting your own choices or feeling extra “touchy” and or combative then it’s time for you to work on your spiritual body and visit me for Tantra yoga and massage. I am not asking your to separate your physical needs from your bodily needs I am simply making you aware that there is no separation from body and spirit when you are on a path of self discovery.

Let me be your Muse here in Virginia Beach. I would love to help you heal old wounds and be a master of your own body again.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Here in the body of my essay is a beautiful goddess painting by the artist Chie Yoshii who celebrates the Goddess form in all her works of art. I am quite fond of Chie Yoshii and her honoring of the divine feminine.
March 2, 2015 No comments

Connection Exercises that build trust between you and your Tantra Partner ❤♡

When you are fully prepared to connect with your partner’s energy be ready to honor your beloved and that means HONOR your beloved with praise and let all your passive aggressive anger fall to the way side. When you are fully present for your loved one you are going to agree that for this moment in time you are going to your hold your partner in the highest regard. Now is not a good time to mention that their eating habits are poor or that the hairstyle they chose is not suitable or becoming to their features. Forget all the bad things. Forget the buttons they seem to push when the two of you are arguing over something silly.

Here is what you need to focus on and these steps will instill a sense of trust and a fresh start.

Put aside your anger. You are going to heal your partner and you are going to gaze upon their features in a a completely calm steady gaze of unconditional love because this is your time to be a giver and you want to reassure your partner you find them stimulating enough to focus on. When you gaze quietly into their eyes try and keep a blank mind and don’t use a critical eye. We as humans are very intuitive and if your body language is giving off signals of anger or discontent your loved one will sense this in you and not feel comfortable enough to receive a healing from you.

Spooning and cuddling your partner is a simply connection exercise that is very tantra like in nature and very organic. You are holding a space for your partner and your cuddle will be soothing so pay attention to your partner’s body but don’t focus on the sexual areas. Avoid touching your partner’s nipples and avoid touching their gentles. This is not about “groping” or molesting your beloved to suit your urges; this cuddling exercise is about being the soothing embrace they need at the end of the day to fully unwind and be still. You will be breathing in synchronicity and breathing deeply and slowly using the gentle pressure of your bodies to fall into an even steady pace of trust and alignment.

When you have this spooning time try not to be in on a time clock. I want you to ditch your phones, turn off the television set and unplug your electronic devices. You are in the moment and your beloved needs to know they are more important than anyone or any work deadline. They alone are your world and the focus is on mutual healing and peacefulness.

Once you have had the time to cuddle ask your partner what kind of touch they might prefer. You can introduce stillness of hand placement where you hold your hands in stillness on their body for extended lengths of time and simply breathe with them. You can introduce light caress where you are lightly tickling their body with light strokes from your finger tips and your finger pads. You can ask them if they might prefer a hard, deep tissue massage that is invigorating. You can also introduce tapping and steadily but firmly tap on different parts of their body so they feel your energy. This is going to be a session determined on what THEY NEED and not what you THINK they might need.

Don’t play guessing games but truly ask your loved one what kind of touch they crave.

Remember this session is not about you and you need to leave your ego out of it. You are going to let your partner know how loved they truly are and how deeply honored and respected they should and will feel. It feels good to be honored and it feels even better to be listened to.Diana-breasts-in-mirror