Posts tagged “Goddess Worship

When we lead with our Hearts there are no expectations there is only Eros.

Chie Yoshii Paciphae 2 5-27-14, 5/27/14, 2:02 PM,  8C, 4828x9531 (1702+562), 138%, Repro 1.8 v2,  1/20 s, R68.6, G67.3, B89.8

Chie Yoshii Paciphae 2 5-27-14, 5/27/14, 2:02 PM, 8C, 4828×9531 (1702+562), 138%, Repro 1.8 v2, 1/20 s, R68.6, G67.3, B89.8

The following article I am about to write is not gender specific and I am addressing anyone who desires a true healing to take place with their partner just for the sake of healing and not for any secret agendas.

There is no great mystery about the sacred rites of unconditional love but many are challenged if they did not taste that loving energy from their parents. We all suffer from small healthy doses of narcissism because if we did not we would not have that desire to remain here and survive or defend ourselves.

How do we learn to love selflessly when we did not receive that healthy, comforting womb of protection as children? I work with adults who either were showered with positive reinforcement as children or who were molested, neglected completely or raised without hugs and kisses.

When you never had that safety net as a child how can you approach you approach a potential lover with confidence? If you were never comforted by either of your parents as a child how will you know the right cues or how to make your partner feel safe and loved?

I have been traveling for 16 months and enjoying my stays in various cities but there is a common thread I see. I see so many men having problems breathing fully or having issues gazing into my eyes when I am teach tantra yoga.

I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia and I have met some super people here fully in touch with their male and female energies and excited to create a bond and be nurtured.

I am also meeting men who feel to me as if they are rediscovering their spiritual nature and trying to grasp what it feels like to be out of their body and connected to Source.

What is Source? When I try and become a vessel to receive energy from Source I see it as Universal flow that I can use anytime I wish when I am low on personal energy. I am eventually going to run out of energy if I go without rest or if I neglect my diet. Sometimes the men I work with do not know how to send energy to me and that’s okay because I am constantly connected to Source and by breathing deeply in and out I am constantly refueling my body and the cells of my body.

I only ask that when new guests arrive to see me that they let go of their need to be in control. Let me worry about coaching breathing techniques and let me be concerned with the time as it passes. When you worry about the minor things you are not there with me in Sacred Space.

Many men falsely believe that Goddess Worship ceremonies are about pleasuring the goddess only. Men get lost in their own needs and desires because they can be overwhelmed with anxiety or get too aroused to really focus on the woman they have right in front of them. When a man is truly desirous of a goddess worship he is going to need to learn humility and letting go of what he thinks he already knows about the female body so that he becomes a vessel of pure healing and good intentions.

When you are only focused on the carnal aspects of Goddess Worship you are shortchanging yourself because there is a certain energy and afterglow that comes with complete trust and that can only be achieved when you learn how to touch from a place of deep respect and integrity for your partner.

I welcome all new guests who have a natural curiousity to learn goddess worship here in Virginia Beach. You can connect with a woman better by believing in her, by listening to her without judgements and by touching her tenderly without any hidden agendas and motives.

Let me reteach you how to heal the goddess or help you learn more about being fully responsive when I work with your unique energies.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Worship is the Sacred Act of Pure, unconditional Love ❤♡

Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.

Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.

There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.

My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.

Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.

Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.

The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.

Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.

The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.

I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, Educator, friend, Holistic Healer,
Couples Coach and Tantra Massage therapist
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