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April 19, 2015 No comments

The healing Aspects of a Sensual Massage ☆★

When was the last time you were touched? Do you work long hours at your computer for the type of work you do? Are you in a job where you are consistently giving more and more of yourself and your time to your coworker? Do you give of yourself to your colleagues but don’t receive the same consideration back?

If you answered yes to any of these questions chances are your body and mind are eventually going to burn out and your ability to cope with stress will reach its limit. You will begin to feel a bit “rough” around the edges and might even feel yourself becoming “short” with people you converse with or a bit “nippy” when you meet people randomly on the streets.

How can this be happening to you so suddenly? If all you do is give of yourself 24/7 without receiving a bit of love or kindness back eventually your body will give out on you to the point where you can make yourself sick and run down or you will have an accident.

Yes — accidents are our body’s way of dealing with stress in stressful times because if you don’t treat yourself with kindness your body will give you an ENFORCED time out even in the form of a sprained ankle or a small mishap. I can assure you this will happen to you because little incidents like this used to happen to me in my past if I did not value time out and appreciate the fact that my body needs to be pampered once in a blue moon too.

Where does sensual massage factor into the Equation? If you have not been in a loving relationship in eons perhaps sensual massage is going to be more of a bridge for you to acclimate your body back into receiving mode and help you release some of your boundaries so you are better prepared to dive into a relationship once again with a healthy partner.

Good touch is most important not just for lifting our moods but so that we can know the difference between a healing and loving tender approach and the more unsettling touch that is not so loving and is very “conditional”.

Sometimes people have no clue how to approach us with tender care. Sometimes we can go out on a date and have an agenda in mind but the date ends in rough touch. Sometimes the people we go out with are seeking something more akin to friends with benefits. Friends with Benefits can work for some people but not all of us. Some people do not have tine in their lives for intimacy but others truly crave intimacy more than straight on sex and that is where sensual massage and tantra massage comes into play.

If you have gone months or years without touch your body can break down on you. Everyone needs a bit of tender loving care and people simply perform better under stress when they receive a hug or a gentle massage. Deep tissue massage, sensual massage, tantra yoga and reiki all are powerful sources of tenderness when we don’t have time in our lives for a real life partner.

Some of us have jobs that involve constant travel. If you travel a bit and you maybe only spend a quarter of your time in your home you still have needs. You can only go without touch for so long before you start feeling a bit “off” or imbalanced. Your immune system starts to shut down and you begin to feel a bit exhausted or confused during day to day activities.

Sensory pleasure, cuddling, gentleness and healing light energetic touch completes the balance inside of you and the back and forth positive interaction between you and your healer opens the pathway for greater things to come to you because you are in a better frame of mind.

I love making people feel whole again and needed and loved. This work I do is my passion and I can’t think of a more fulfilling path than helping people feel touch in a safe and sane arena of healing and sensual play.

Goddess Diana
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March 30, 2015 No comments

What makes a Tantra Ceremony special? ❤♡

There are many roads to happiness in this lifetime and my number one passion will always be the ability to carry the work I do anywhere I want to in the United States. There are some cities where tantra is well known and well received and other cities that are far more challenging such as New Orleans, Louisiana.
Let’s face it, this is a DRINKING town. People come here to let loose and this is one of the few cities that will allow anyone to walk around with cups of gargantuan sized lethal doses and quantities of alcohol so the fact that I exist here might not pique enough tourist’s interests because this city is known for stripping bars, great food, late night drinking establishments and of course casinos where you can win a lot or lose everything.

Why on Earth should anyone drop everything and come see me ? Well I can assure you during my sessions I work on tight areas first because sexual energy can only flow freely when your body is completely relaxed and muscle tension can and will inhibit your sexual energies from traveling where it needs to go.

Sexual energy can travel up towards the top of your skull or it can even travel downwards to your ankles and personally I feel the energy knows exactly where to go because if you have had old injuries anywhere in your body your sexual energy is going to go directly to that area of your body that needs some extra TLC.

Tender loving care is exactly what you will receive during any of my tantra ceremonies. Tantra is not simply a journey in arousal and testing your sexual boundaries; tantra is an exploration of you living completely in the moment and being aware of the weight of your body.
All tantra ceremonies involve a connection between me and you but also a deeper connection and link to your own body.

You will be made to be aware of the temperature of the room that we both inhabit and the feeling of my hands as I wander all over your body. You will be aware of the weight and pressure of your own body on the bed and you will be breathing deeply and slowly alternatively into your heart center and your abdomen as I touch you so you can feel energy open up where formally you were numbed out.

If all you do as a tourist is simply numb out by drinking you are missing you. You are missing the gentle nuances of energies and the subtle smells and tastes that bring about heightened awareness. You can numb yourself out when visiting New Orleans or you can spend some time getting to know your own body more intimately.

I enjoy teaching beginners how to breathe deeply for maybe the very first time of their life. We tend to breathe very shallowly as we get older. We become more self conscious and when we listen to others we might even stop breathing altogether. The central nervous system relies on proper breath to work properly and to sustain our bodies. If you constantly breathe shallowly this leads eventually to stress and over taxes your body. Little things and annoyances begin to bother you. Tantra yoga allows you to learn how to gain more control of the way you breathe and it sets a pace so that you feel you have more control and command over your nervous system and your body’s ability to heal.

Tantra massage is a very unifying, healing exploration in full body orgasmic bliss. We start with blockages in both your physical body and then your astral body. The focus is on healing and preparing you for extreme weightlessness and timelessness. A good session should feel as if you are floating and your natural breathing rhythm will set the pace so you feel as if time has never passed.

Share some sacred time during your next vacation. There will always be time enough for drinking but there is never enough time to learn more about your body’s natural abilities to heal itself.

Goddess Diana
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February 25, 2015 2 Comments

Tantra is cooperation and flexibility ♡❤♡

Tantra is not a rigid arena — Tantra is a playful seduction of letting yourself go without any self judgments and without any expectations. You say you want to become Tantric? Do you always have to have YOUR way or can YOU be more flexible and positive? Can you change your plans at the drop of a hat or are you always Wanting to control the people in your life?

The more we study and practice tantra yoga the more we realize it’s not about what we can get but what we can mutually learn from each other. I approach each tantra session as a mutual arena and opportunity for play. It is not about ME and it’s not about YOU– it’s about US.
We exchange energies therefore we learn what buttons to push or not to push. You have a chance to learn more about your body and how your body reacts to mutual healing and breathing.

We might not be able to breathe in and out at the same pace but once we calm our minds and slowly match our energies we can focus on how similar we are and we become ONE unit and one main source of SHARED energy. IN time the breathing practice will become so organic and natural to you that you won’t be thinking about having to breathe while receiving and giving touch; you will feel this natural desire to take in a breath of air every time you sense a reaction in your body.

I like to think of tantra yoga and tantra massage as a pure transference of energy and there is no need for control and there is no right or wrong way to touch because we make the rules as we share and participate together. I want you to give me feedback because I am NOT you but I deeply desire to get to know you as we share sacred space.

When you think upon the idea of sacred space truly there is no such law that states that sacred space MUST be in one’s home or sacred temple. I can make any space sacred with my intentions, focus and positive affirmations. We together Co Create sacred space with the intentions of combining our energies, our chakras and our hearts to create shared harmony and unconditional love.

You can spend time at your friend’s home and create Sacred Space simply by being filled with Gratitude. The act of being deeply grateful leads to openness and abundance because you are acknowledging the blessings of what you already have therefore you are attracting more love to you based on your open spirit.

No matter where you are and no matter what hotel you are in even when you travel on a plane you are in solely responsible for your outlook and your open heart. You can practice gratitude and self healing affirmations when you are in line at the bank!

Change your outlook on what a Tantra Ceremony must be or SHOULD BE because there is no wrong time to cherish yourself and honor your boundaries. Chant your first and middle name aloud and empower yourself in a mantra of a state of positive being. Shout out all your positive traits and why others should honor you and find you Sacred. We all have some wonderful qualities and we can take time out each day to call upon our higher power and acknowledge ourselves for our gifts. If we can recognize ourselves as being all powerful and capable of positive changes then we begin to really believe we can have anything we wish because we do deserve it!

Sacred Space is you. Sacred Space is any environment you experience and any locale you trespass. The magic is within you not the Temple Space itself. Be kind to yourself and be kind to your own Temple –your own physical body does so much for you already and be grateful for what you already have because we only have the present to enjoy!

Goddess Diana
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January 9, 2015 No comments

Are you following your passion?

Hello I can’t help but waking up feeling positive about life even though at times I wonder where I am headed! I try and make every city I visit my home so for right now while I am here in New Orleans, Louisiana I am considering this my home even if I leave in a month or two.
I don’t start every tantra session the same. Sometimes I feel someone might be so open we just sit in front of each other with our foreheads touching and breathing circular breaths together just so we can slow down and get a sense of being ONE person instead of two separate beings. I don’t always get that clear signal from someone and if so just a wonderful deep tissue massage starting with the shoulders and neck can be comforting enough for anyone to let down their guard.

Sometimes a couple will hire me or rather a really caring husband with wonderful intentions will want me to come over and work on his wife’s energy but we always have to respect the fact that the yoni must be healed only when the Goddess in question is safe, comfortable and ready to learn.

So I have a question for you! Are you living your passion? Most people who are passionate about the work they do thrive when it comes to relaxing and extra curricular activities because they have already possessed skills and enthusiasm in their day to day ritual. I find that most men or women who are in their complete power are very comfortable working with their sexual energy and most of the time they want their husband and wife to participate more in life which includes tantra massage and tantra sex.

I can instantly detect when a man or a woman is comfortable sharing their sexuality with me and they want a “tune Up”. We can learn from being in any situation and we can always get better at a skill when we possess PASSION. I am passionate. I wake up and remember all my dreams and share it with people on my face book page because I do want to learn and I do want to process anything negative or positive from my past and present.

If I am fully aware of what I need to learn I can be more present for you. Some people can try and relax and be present but they find it a deep challenge. Some people are embarrassed to express their needs even to someone they deeply love. Some people are afraid to give up the control and relax so they might smoke, drink, fidget, constantly check their cell phones for messages and pretty do anything BUT connect with their friends, their healer, or their close family members. This is cheating everyone. It’s cheating yourself if you avoid the NOW.

Being full present and accepting who you are NOW and trying new things without any sense of fear or judgement is a challenge but a challenge that is very important for you to achieve and meet head on.

Avoidance of being in the NOW is crippling. It’s like you are separating yourself and fragmenting yourself so every one if your life is only receiving and understanding a small part of you.

Tantra massage addresses the organic you, the sensuous you, the timid you, the ornery you, the relaxed you, the authentic you! When you receive a tantra healing it’s similar to peeling the skin off an apple. In order to get to the sweet, juicy meat of the fruit you have to be patient and peel away that tender outer skin that outer shell of you.

I hope to meet you where ever you are on your journey and maybe it will take a few more months or a few more years. The journey is about being Passionate and Accepting yourself and accepting unconditional love and healing touch from your partner no matter what you look like and no matter what your goals are.Valentino and Diana nudes
December 16, 2014 No comments

Tantra in New Orleans an opportunity to Re open new doors and explore

Tantra does not appeal to everyone. Some states are more open to trying this experience because they were conditioned differently and I believe everyone should try tantra yoga at least ONCE in their lifetime. I know there is always going to be fear associated with tantra yoga. Maybe you had one or two or three bad experiences with other people but did you ever stop to think your body might not have been able to handle the intense energies?

Before you decide to try a tantra healing ceremony you need to be honest with yourself. Do you have goals that you trying to establish for yourself? Do you want to pleasure your partner differently? Hold on a second there! If you honestly do not know the kegel muscle exercises and the breathing techniques that might halt your progress.

Let’s slow down for a minute. What if you only goal is simply to be authentically YOU? What if you decide YOU deserve to lay back, breathe, be in the moment and SURRENDER? How can you be able to give a tantra yoni healing to your partner if you yourself are too frightened of being the STAR in your own GALAXY?

YOU ARE A STAR AND YOU DESERVE TO SHINE!!! I always suggest people see me for my beginner’s tantra ceremony. Be honest with me and be honest with yourself! Are you on medication? Medication won’t get in the way of your enjoyment nor will it affect your ability to perceive your own energies. Medication might affect your circulation and blood flow so you might receive different results but you can still empower yourself and be more self aware and self confident when you see first hand what tantra yoga feels like running rampant in your body.

Some people get cold feet. They think this might ideally be something that will open closed doors for them. They feel tantra yoga is a gateway to bliss that will unlock some secret door. Here is the secret. You have all the keys to unlocking the door already even if you never engage in a tantra healing ceremony. When the time is right you will know. If your body is shut down however you can still receive SOME benefit from tantra but you might be more patient with yourself and set up mini sessions until you gain enough confidence to practice tantra with your partner.

The goal of tantra is NOT be a more masterful lover but the REAL goal is to enhance your abilities to perceive what energy is. We have stored energy all the time waiting to be explored. We want to learn techniques that will teach us how to trust in our abilities to be more sensate to energy.

We all experience road blocks. If everything were good all the time we might not explore other skills we have. We might not question our abilities. My ultimate goal is to of course enhance your ability to last longer in a sustained state of bliss and TO HELP YOU HEAL FROM THE INSIDE OUT!!!!

We all have an inner core. We were all born with special gifts. Tantra yoga is a way for you to travel inwards and expand your consciousness. Tantra is a weaving of energy and your interaction with other people. You can numb yourself out only for so long before your body starts to feel real, raw, physical pain. Day in and day out we have goals and the body endures only so much stress before you get tired and run down.

When you get judgmental, jaded and run down run don’t walk to your nearest tantra healer. The heart shuts down when it is not honored. If you feel yourself worrying constantly and wondering if you are ever going to achieve your goals that is the perfect time for a bit of reiki energy work and or some tantra work.

What people do not understand is that TANTRA YOGA and Tantra massage are valid modalities to charge up your energy. We are energetic beings having a RAW PHYSICAL experience on the EARTH plane. We need love , we need nurturing we need cuddling. Use your own raw, sexual power to heal all the chakras in your body! Tantra sexual energy is the most raw but simple act of self love and when you learn to connect your sexual power centers with all your chakras you find yourself becoming more open but more intuitive.

Compassion is something that we need to give ourselves daily. If you see yourself growing impatient with your friends or colleagues over the phone or in simple conversation that indicates to me that you have grown impatient with your own needs. When you feel deep compassion for yourself it shows in the way you communicate and in your touch.

I hope to see you in New Orleans, Louisiana. I am here for the winter season and I hope to be one of tantra guides on your journey no matter how short or how long.
It’s NOT the destination or how quickly you get there it’s about continuity, humility and compassion no matter where you are spiritually, physically and emotionally ♡❤blue door in uptown