February 27, 2023 No comments

Choosing a tantra healer for skillset rather than physical appearance

Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.

I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website.  Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.

So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.

By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.

Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.

New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.

Thanks for following my blog.

If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.

February 15, 2023 No comments

Couples Tantra in Chicago’s Gold Coast by Goddess Diana

A Question to ponder ~>
Are all relationships Equal? 
When you find someone you feel a strong affinity for do you feel Butterflies 🦋
In your belly when they enter the room?
Do you feel crushed & devastated when they break plans with you? 🩺💔

One person may love  more than the other… The individual who gives more to the relationship is going to get hurt the most.

I see this ALL THE TIME when new couples reach out to me. It might be married partners or dating couples but I can always tell who is more committed and devoted to solidify the bond.

When one partner acts wishy washy and or hesitant about working with me it’s typically because that individual isn’t 100% committed to the relationship.

I remember a female CEO reached out to me last year around this time. She was gung-ho about scheduling several hours with me and said price wasn’t a factor and that her husband had been engaging in extramarital affairs but she still adored him, they had 2 kids and she felt comfortable with me and wanted to bring renewed excitement into her marriage.  It was worth it to her.
She was determined to book a #couplestantra ceremony with me–but guess what? Her husband wasn’t ready…he decided it wasn’t worth his time and there you have an answer

He was ok with how things were in their marriage.  He could indulge in affairs, remain married and continue on his path.  His wife I’m sure was crushed or maybe they found someone else to work with. I’m going to safely assume she was the Giver in the relationship.

I’m not suggesting all relationships are like this but most of the couples who end up not working with me chose not to because one person in the relationship didn’t want to progress and they were happy with everything as is because they didn’t have to work hard to please their partner.

My prerequisite before working on couples is very basic
I want the full legal name & professional background of both partners for verification purposes

I want to know the goals of each partner (separately)
I’m working on two different people so I need twice as much information

I want 24 hours & a substantial deposit

I’m doing most of the work and trust me I do get drained after teaching new students of tantra all the basic fundamentals of chakras, breathing, yoni worship, lingam honoring, sacred spot massage and therapeutic couples massage.

All couples must read my website thoroughly http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

After carefully reading my website please send me an email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or paid phone consultation with me to discuss anything you wish.

As always I welcome everyone to book a tantra ceremony with me whether you have a partner or not.

Couples tantra requires much more energy and attention to detail so there will be a considerable price difference.

Thanks for reading 📚 my blog and feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly to learn more.
February 8, 2023 No comments

Establish your goals & boundaries regarding #chicagotantra before we meet

No one likes to be disappointed after receiving a massage and so it’s completely up to you to delineate healthy boundaries prior to receiving a holistic service.

On Monday morning 🌄 I woke up in extreme pain…my jaw ached, my neck muscles ached, and my shoulders were stiff.

I was in so much pain I tried to force vomit to change the pressure in my skull 💀 cavity and that actually did bring me some form of relief.

I decided to book myself a last minute massage 💆‍♀️ and instead of my Therapist letting me relax all she wanted to do was pry about my life because I made the mistake of telling her I was a massage Therapist too.

She was incessant and I did tell her where the areas of pain were in my body and even though I mentioned it was sinus related she started me facedown in the massage cradle.

I should have spoken up and suggested we begin face up first but I deferred to her wishes instead hoping for the best.

After about 25 minutes of laying facedown I spoke up and stated it’s gotten to the point where laying face down is aggravating my sinus cavities and we need to finish face up so we can work on my TMJ issues.

She knew rudimentary moves but not advanced myofascial release and the massage was “decent enough ” but I still left the table in pain and felt a bit better.

What shocked me though is upon payment I was charged 165 for a 50 minute massage 💆‍♀️ because gratuity was built into the experience and this most definitely wasn’t a medical grade massage.

I left absolutely disappointed because I spent my session chit chatting and answering questions about my massage practice with my masseuse and entertaining her instead of being allowed to fully relax.

I’m sharing these details with all of you because I don’t wish to ruin anyone’s #tantra massage ceremony when booking a session with me.

I want you to tell me how much pressure you need, where the areas of soreness reside, whether you love chit chat or complete silence and how often you need a bathroom break.

it’s your session and your time to decompress so let me know more about your goals and don’t feel bad about interrupting the flow of the session by taking breaks, asking for water and telling me you need a blanket.

The co creation of #sacredspace is about both of us feeling comfortable and accepted. 
We both need to communicate our needs and honor one another’s boundaries.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

click on my website and blog to learn more

subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly  to feel comfortable about meeting me

send me an introductory email 📧
to
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

312 339 7707
call me directly to book a session

Let’s work together soon ❤
January 26, 2023 No comments

What exactly happens during a Couples Tantra ceremony

What actually happens at couple tantra sessions? Will having a 3rd person in personal space eventually lead us to a threesome?

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Diana Grossman

Tantra Master, Massage therapist, Reiki Master

Hello 👋 I find myself to be extremely ✨ helpful here because I’m a leading tantra educator and tantra practitioner in Chicago, Illinois.

I just received a call from a very deluded man who assumed if he hired me for couples tantra all three of us would be engaged in a sexual threescore.

I myself am celibate and never engage in sexual intercourse with my students.

During my couples tantra massage I teach both partners how to breathe properly during the art of giving their lover a tantra massage and help them access kundalini energy.

I focus on reiki, nurturing touch, Lingham..honoring, yoni worship and balancing of the Chakras. I do not want to witness these couples engage in the sexual act of kama sutra nor do I offer it to my clients.

Tantra is about aligning all your chakras with your partners, eye gazing, unconditional love and boundaries. Tantra is not about wild sex or engaging in orgies. Tantra involves the co creation of sacred space ✨ and honoring the divine within yourself and your partner.

I ask you to refrain from contacting me if your intentions as a couple are impure in nature. I’m not interested in watching the two of you engage in sexual intercourse in front of me. I’m also not interested in getting involved in a threesome.

I’m a tantra massage therapist and teacher. I’m not a kama sutra coach.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website if you’d love a list of options and by all means please send me an email if seeking an opportunity to learn couples tantra massage

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

January 24, 2023 No comments

Empowerent via a Tantra ceremony

Did you know #tantra is the quickest route to access and take back your personal power?

There are no short cuts to Good Health but I’ve had clients tell me one session with me saved them trips and visits to a psychologist. I’m not bashing the mental health field; but I’m saying that how you view yourself affects your physical well being.

For instance if you suffer from chronic gut issues it indicates an imbalance in your 3rd chakra (solar plexus).  You would need to understand how to send positive healing messages to your belly to help heal whatever is going on in your gut.

During my #chicagotantra ceremonies I employ breathwork, sound healing, Aromatherapy and nurturing touch.  I help you activate any trapped energies encouraging your kundalini to awaken which is used like medicine 💊 for your body to heal itself.

You are encouraged to send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com 

if you wish to explore your energy in a safe, non judgmental setting

Please visit my main website 🙏 for a full list of possibilities http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Contact me directly 312 339 7707 to book either a session or paid coffee ☕ consultation

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

#chicagotantra empowers you
January 16, 2023 No comments

Tantra teaches us to establish boundaries & be honest with ourselves

When I first started my career in this industry I was a huge people pleaser. Other people’s needs including my client’s and friends always came before my needs.
I wasn’t one to cancel a promise or a date unless I was DEATHLY ill.
I didn’t realize what a huge disservice I was doing to myself by putting myself last till my physical well being and emotional frame of mind deteriorated.
I’d stifle and store up my pent up frustration and disappointment till I’d explode breaking those bonds with friends and clients irreparably.
Now I temper and pace myself and I’ve aligned myself to attract clients who understand and respect my limitations and boundaries.

tantra will Give you your backbone back

Your chakras will be activated and you will have no choice left but to find your own voice and use your intuition instead of relying upon others to make these choices for you.
It’s #Martinlutherkingday and I’m here available to help set up and co create #sacredspace with you if you want the opportunity to clear out what doesn’t suit you anymore– whether it’s intolerable living conditions, a stale job, or unhealthy toxic relationships.

You shouldn’t spend your days walking on eggshells 🥚

chicagotantra 🕉 invokes empowerment

Never forget who you are
Endeavor to protect those who haven’t found their voice.

Do you feel a connection to what I write ✍

Do you feel comfortable working with me based on my blog and my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋

If you are ready to choose me as your tantra guide please follow the link to my online Chicago based tantra website here—>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Send me an introductory email to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Please include your full legal name and profession for Verification purposes

Send me a few links to your social media profiles such as LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and Google and give me a brief synopsis of your goals, expectations and budget.

I accept new students and couples seeking a solid and unique journey of the Chakras.

It’s Martin Luther King Day
January 10, 2023 No comments

Celebrity restaurants: Evelyn Nesbit’s tea room

Jan Whitaker's avatarRestaurant-ing through history

Hundreds, maybe thousands, of celebrities have gone into the restaurant business when their careers waned. Their level of direct involvement may be high or low but all these ventures bank on the idea that a famous name will attract customers.

When Evelyn Nesbit opened her NYC tea room in May of 1921 she made sure that her name was prominently displayed. Located on West 52nd street just off Broadway, the sign saying “Evelyn Nesbit’s Specialty Shop” was visible from the theater district’s Great White Way.

She was then in her mid-30s, years away from her peak as a teenage artist’s model [above, age 16], “Gibson Girl,” Floradora showgirl, and millionaire’s wife. Her fame derived not only from her former good looks – from the years her image was displayed everywhere – but also from her involvement in a romantic triangle with prominent architect Stanford White and her insanely jealous husband…

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January 9, 2023 No comments

Don’t be shy! Book your Chicago tantra ceremony with me soon!

Surprisingly many professionals would love to try my services; but they’re more in love with the idea and concept 💡 of #tantra and fearful of forging ahead.

#tantramassage is a wonderful way to amp up your energy while healing trauma and balancing your #chakras

I’m working with your #kundalini energy that you might not even be aware of.

Together we activate these #chakras (power stations) within your physical & spiritual bodies 🙌 to keep you in a positive place of self love & self awareness ❤

Join me soon & introduce yourself to me initially w/ an introductory 📧 email—Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
let me know who you are, what you do, your background in #alternativehealing and 2 major goals you wish to achieve

Im always accepting new students ✨ even if you haven’t had prior experience in #reiki or #chicagotantra

Please refer to my main website here —>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Interested in a Workshop? If you are a group of three couples let’s all plan an afternoon of fun together here in Chicago’s Gold Coast! I can work with your small group and teach all of you some basic fundamentals of tantra massage so all of you will leave understanding how to offer your spouse an authentic tantra massage.

Contact me soon 312 339 7707 🕉
December 30, 2022 No comments

My work as a tantra practitioner is fulfilling hope to see you soon!

I intend to work this weekend–> not because I have to; but because I want to.


A new client from India visited me recently this week and asked me questions and one of his questions really stuck out.


He asked me if I get bored with my job since I do this every day.  I was very surprised and amused and gave him the simplest answer.
I said If I were miserable and bored I’d find another job to do.


I love my job…I hate NOT BEING BUSY!

I AM available every day at any time with proper notice, Preverification and a Deposit….

#tantra is a fulfilling and satisfying journey of self awareness, self healing and self empowerment.

When a client meets me in the middle, follows the breathing instructions and allows the process to unfold Miracles happen within one’s body and mind.  It’s not a fluffy for entertainment purpose experience although I will not judge anyone for needing a blissful escape as their main goal.

I’m available this weekend
contact me if interested in a #chicagotantra ceremony for yourself or as a couple

#soundhealing #chakrabalancing #couplestantra

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
312 339 7707
December 22, 2022 No comments

Rituals and Sacred Space define Tantra

Have a lovely #chanukah & #Merryyule no matter what you practice & where you are on your path I consider myself to be Spiritual but not Religious.

I practiced #Judaism in my family home but once my Hebrew studies were formally over & I left my parent’s home I consider myself to be a Mystic and not a strict  follower of any religion or religious figures.

I love Ritual and I love playing with energy, balancing #chakras & connecting people with their higher power.  We all have the capability of opening our 3rd 👁 and our unlocking our #kundalini

email me tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com if interested in learning more

#chicagotantra #yogini #reikimaster #soundhealing

You don’t have to be religious to engage in the co creation of sacred space. You don’t have to be an expert with the breath or practice yoga daily to get something out of our time together.

I welcome anyone who sincerely wishes to try alternative healing with a sensual twist. My sessions will enhance your intuition and empower your latent energies. You can be Catholic, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim ☪️ or an Agnostic to reap the benefits of reiki combined with chakra balancing and full body kundalini activation.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I have mini half day workshops for couples and singles and you can begin a basic tantra ceremony with a commitment of 90 minutes on up to a full day.

Happy holidays and I hope to see you as soon as this weekend. I will be available on Christmas Eve 🎄 Christmas 🎄 Day and New years Eve. Hope to see you