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The Sacred Bath Ritual as a prelude to your tantra ceremony

You aren’t required to add a #tantra #bathritual to your session but it will definitely enhance your time with me.

if you want to prepare a bath ahead of time for yourself in your own home before working with me it would definitely help me work with your energy.

the seasalt bath is composed of baking soda (a half box) and seasalt (1 or 2 cups).


This is all you need to clear and cleanse your Aura so whether you choose to hire me for the bath ritual or you bathe yourself in your own home this is a perfect start to any tantra ceremony

I include seasalt scrubs and massage the salt scrub over all the major chakras in your body when we’re together and we will be breathing in synchronicity harmonizing the #bijamantras and amplifying your energy prior to your #tantramassage

if it’s within your means and budget please allow me 24–48 hours and a substantial deposit so I may procure a beautiful suite with jacuzzi for two.

You are always encouraged to Read my website first prior to calling or emailing me.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and get to know me from the videos. I post frequently and upload fresh content and flash sales and offers there.

Please introduce yourself via email tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

or call me directly to schedule a tantra ceremony when you’re ready 312 339 7707

All new students of tantra are welcome to try my beginner’s level offerings and more experienced students may book advanced level tantra.

I welcome men, women and couples and look forward to meeting you for a unique and blissful escape.

Choosing a tantra healer for skillset rather than physical appearance

Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.

I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website.  Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.

So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.

By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.

Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.

New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.

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If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.

Establish your goals & boundaries regarding #chicagotantra before we meet

No one likes to be disappointed after receiving a massage and so it’s completely up to you to delineate healthy boundaries prior to receiving a holistic service.

On Monday morning 🌄 I woke up in extreme pain…my jaw ached, my neck muscles ached, and my shoulders were stiff.

I was in so much pain I tried to force vomit to change the pressure in my skull 💀 cavity and that actually did bring me some form of relief.

I decided to book myself a last minute massage 💆‍♀️ and instead of my Therapist letting me relax all she wanted to do was pry about my life because I made the mistake of telling her I was a massage Therapist too.

She was incessant and I did tell her where the areas of pain were in my body and even though I mentioned it was sinus related she started me facedown in the massage cradle.

I should have spoken up and suggested we begin face up first but I deferred to her wishes instead hoping for the best.

After about 25 minutes of laying facedown I spoke up and stated it’s gotten to the point where laying face down is aggravating my sinus cavities and we need to finish face up so we can work on my TMJ issues.

She knew rudimentary moves but not advanced myofascial release and the massage was “decent enough ” but I still left the table in pain and felt a bit better.

What shocked me though is upon payment I was charged 165 for a 50 minute massage 💆‍♀️ because gratuity was built into the experience and this most definitely wasn’t a medical grade massage.

I left absolutely disappointed because I spent my session chit chatting and answering questions about my massage practice with my masseuse and entertaining her instead of being allowed to fully relax.

I’m sharing these details with all of you because I don’t wish to ruin anyone’s #tantra massage ceremony when booking a session with me.

I want you to tell me how much pressure you need, where the areas of soreness reside, whether you love chit chat or complete silence and how often you need a bathroom break.

it’s your session and your time to decompress so let me know more about your goals and don’t feel bad about interrupting the flow of the session by taking breaks, asking for water and telling me you need a blanket.

The co creation of #sacredspace is about both of us feeling comfortable and accepted. 
We both need to communicate our needs and honor one another’s boundaries.

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Let’s work together soon ❤

What exactly happens during a Couples Tantra ceremony

What actually happens at couple tantra sessions? Will having a 3rd person in personal space eventually lead us to a threesome?

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Diana Grossman

Tantra Master, Massage therapist, Reiki Master

Hello 👋 I find myself to be extremely ✨ helpful here because I’m a leading tantra educator and tantra practitioner in Chicago, Illinois.

I just received a call from a very deluded man who assumed if he hired me for couples tantra all three of us would be engaged in a sexual threescore.

I myself am celibate and never engage in sexual intercourse with my students.

During my couples tantra massage I teach both partners how to breathe properly during the art of giving their lover a tantra massage and help them access kundalini energy.

I focus on reiki, nurturing touch, Lingham..honoring, yoni worship and balancing of the Chakras. I do not want to witness these couples engage in the sexual act of kama sutra nor do I offer it to my clients.

Tantra is about aligning all your chakras with your partners, eye gazing, unconditional love and boundaries. Tantra is not about wild sex or engaging in orgies. Tantra involves the co creation of sacred space ✨ and honoring the divine within yourself and your partner.

I ask you to refrain from contacting me if your intentions as a couple are impure in nature. I’m not interested in watching the two of you engage in sexual intercourse in front of me. I’m also not interested in getting involved in a threesome.

I’m a tantra massage therapist and teacher. I’m not a kama sutra coach.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website if you’d love a list of options and by all means please send me an email if seeking an opportunity to learn couples tantra massage

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Celebrity restaurants: Evelyn Nesbit’s tea room

Jan Whitaker's avatarRestaurant-ing through history

Hundreds, maybe thousands, of celebrities have gone into the restaurant business when their careers waned. Their level of direct involvement may be high or low but all these ventures bank on the idea that a famous name will attract customers.

When Evelyn Nesbit opened her NYC tea room in May of 1921 she made sure that her name was prominently displayed. Located on West 52nd street just off Broadway, the sign saying “Evelyn Nesbit’s Specialty Shop” was visible from the theater district’s Great White Way.

She was then in her mid-30s, years away from her peak as a teenage artist’s model [above, age 16], “Gibson Girl,” Floradora showgirl, and millionaire’s wife. Her fame derived not only from her former good looks – from the years her image was displayed everywhere – but also from her involvement in a romantic triangle with prominent architect Stanford White and her insanely jealous husband…

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Rituals and Sacred Space define Tantra

Have a lovely #chanukah & #Merryyule no matter what you practice & where you are on your path I consider myself to be Spiritual but not Religious.

I practiced #Judaism in my family home but once my Hebrew studies were formally over & I left my parent’s home I consider myself to be a Mystic and not a strict  follower of any religion or religious figures.

I love Ritual and I love playing with energy, balancing #chakras & connecting people with their higher power.  We all have the capability of opening our 3rd 👁 and our unlocking our #kundalini

email me tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com if interested in learning more

#chicagotantra #yogini #reikimaster #soundhealing

You don’t have to be religious to engage in the co creation of sacred space. You don’t have to be an expert with the breath or practice yoga daily to get something out of our time together.

I welcome anyone who sincerely wishes to try alternative healing with a sensual twist. My sessions will enhance your intuition and empower your latent energies. You can be Catholic, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim ☪️ or an Agnostic to reap the benefits of reiki combined with chakra balancing and full body kundalini activation.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I have mini half day workshops for couples and singles and you can begin a basic tantra ceremony with a commitment of 90 minutes on up to a full day.

Happy holidays and I hope to see you as soon as this weekend. I will be available on Christmas Eve 🎄 Christmas 🎄 Day and New years Eve. Hope to see you

It’s the slow 🐌 season for sex workers

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and it’s just come to mind that I point out the obvious to my clients who live here in Chicago that the winter months are the slowest time of year for people who live here full time.

Chicago tends to have much more tourism and conventions during our most desirable seasons such as Spring and summer and if you pay close attention hotel rates are extremely high during our warmer months because EVERYONE wants to be a part of our outside music, art and restaurant events.

If you want to take advantage of cheaper hotel rates though I’d advise all tourists and Businesses to visit Chicago during our dead 💀 season…our coldest months like December, January and February. Book 📖 a session with your favorite Tantra Goddess; whether it’s me or another person you prefer. I guarantee your tantra practitioner will be grateful 🙏 for the opportunity to work since our phones go quiet at this time of year and our work opportunities go fallow.

Perhaps you live too far away to make a visit happen or you yourself are feeling the economic crunch. You can still send gift cards to your favorite Goddess or write ✍ positive reviews of their services online as a means of showing your support.

We all need your support; especially if we run our own tiny tantra practice. We rely on word of mouth so if you know of a close friend or family member that might need healing touch let them know we exist. Send your friends links to our websites first though just to give them extra information beforehand so they can make an educated choice for themselves. Tantra massage isn’t everyone’s cup of tea so give them detailed information before you give them the phone number of your favorite tantra Goddess here in Chicago.

Here’s my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Happy Holidays and if you found yourself losing your sense of humor or inner joy be sure to take care of yourself. Tantra is a soothing way to explore your energy ✨ while activating your heart center ♥

Tantra helps you clear trauma, heal your heart, activate your intuition and express your boundaries.

Never forget to honor yourself as you take care of people around you. Book sessions on a regular basis with someone you trust instead of just once in a blue moon. And don’t forget to keep your tantra Goddesses busy and appreciated during Chicago’s slow season.

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

#chicagotantra #yogini #couplestantra #reikimaster #tantraretreats

Misconceptions about Tantra and Delightful side effects of the healing process of tantra massage ceremonies

Well I haven’t been inspired to post for a while because I ran out of ideas; but last Thursday I met a very lovely Indian Ceo who provided me with an exciting outlook on his experiences during our two hour tantra ceremony.

I’m a believer in the healing powers of sacred touch and I make the time to receive at least one type of bodywork per week just for myself and to heal my mind and decompress.

I have not been busy unfortunately since last Thursday because everyone calling me was either extremely rude, very shy or misunderstanding the purpose of tantra massage. I tend to turn people away who are not in alignment with alternative healing and tantra yoga. I’d rather work with new guests who would appreciate my offerings and enjoy subtle energy and bodywork.

Last Thursday was different though because I noticed my new client knew exactly what he wanted– an opportunity to let go and receive vital energy.

During our time together he told me he saw a black tree in his mind’s eye 👁 and that beautiful colors of white, green, and purples were surrounding the 🌳 tree’s branches and flowers 💐 gathered everywhere. I let him go into great detail of everything he saw and felt. He shared that most of the energy was pulsating around his heart and torso during his kundalini Awakening.

He had no idea why all these colors were everywhere so I explained that when our chakras are aligned and activated you can actually see the colors affiliated with each major chakra body. Seeing the color green means your heart ❤ chakra is open; seeing white and purple 💜 lights signifies your crown chakra and Ajna have been activated. Our crown chakra is our connection to our higher selves and pranic..energies such as Chi. When our crown chakra is activated we can see beautiful white and purple lights and have a stronger more vital connection to Source or God energies.

You see you simply can’t learn about tantra yoga by reading a book or scanning information on YouTube or online on Google. Tantra is a legitimate and viable form of yoga that heals parts of your Soul, aligns your energy bodies (chakras), speeds up your metabolism, detoxifies, and opens up your intuition (ajna).

My new client got up to use my restroom frequently during our time together too because all forms of massage and energywork encourages waste product to move out of your body. He said he felt lighter like he had lost weight which obviously is a positive side effect of tantra yoga and massage therapy.

Tantra isn’t just about receiving a sensual massage. Tantra isn’t a fluffy experience where I merely focus on your pleasure. My tantra sessions are a unique journey of the chakras where I implement sound healing, breathwork coaching and deep tissue massage on your tight muscles. You will definitely feel lighter, more grounded and centered. You will feel tingly and the world 🌎 around you will be more rich and colorful.

If you are seeking compassionate and nurturing touch please visit my main website first–>

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Read my website and then simply call me directly 312 339 7707 or email 📧 me for a faster response here

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

You don’t have to write me a novel in your email but do include your goals, your full legal name, your profession, social media about yourself online and how many hours you’re seeking. I’d love to work with you if you are trying to achieve full body kundalini Shakti. If you are extremely sensitive to energy you will appreciate my offerings.

Hope to see you soon in Chicago’s Gold Coast ✨

Goddess Diana

certified tantra educator

certified reiki master

certified massage therapist

Available for paid coffee ☕ consultations and phone consultations

Couples tantra is available and tiny workshops in groups of three couples are welcomed if interested 🌟

Testimonials make me feel fulfilled 🐉

There’s nothing more satisfactory than meeting new tantra guests who are open to giving me a chance and an opportunity to work with them and introducing them to authentic tantra.

There are many tantra goddesses here in Chicago now all with different skill sets, techniques and unique gifts

Every Goddess has preferences including a special rapport with clients who are extremely receptive and responsive to energy work.

If you accidentally found this blog online please 🙏 go directly to my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com it’s taken me years to perfect my craft and my techniques are always evolving to suit the needs of my clients.

Running a blog and a website brings me such pleasure and the reason why I continue to create fresh material 🙌 for my readers is because I wish to attract the right guests who will appreciate my combination of tantra yoga, chakra balancing, trigger point massage, reiki, kundalini activation and aromatherapy.

New Testimonials also help me align myself to the best audience seeking a journey of the chakras. I always appreciate new Testimonials so if you’ve seen me in the past please consider sending me a couple of thoughtful 💕 paragraphs describing your experience and simply include how the energy made your body feel. I do reward guests with discounts towards a future session for well written reviews. Send one to my email 📧 account tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and your confidentiality will be assured if you prefer to use an Alias instead of your legal name.

Here’s an example of a review that was recently sent to me this Sunday afternoon–>

My experience with goddess Diana was such a blissful experience! I was quite nervous in the beginning, even during booking the appointment. However, the anxiety lifted the minute we spoke on the phone. I felt like I had known her for years, and I’m very introverted so this was a big deal for me. She was extremely helpful in suggesting what sessions would be best for what I was looking for and made me feel more comfortable asking questions.

My actual session was just incredible! Although I did bring a bit of those nerves with me upon initially meeting her, she quickly dissolved them with a relaxing series of breathing and connection exercises. I learned how to remove those walls that I tend to naturally put up with in meeting new people and learned to simply just be! I felt so relaxed and relieved by the time our session ended, that I am already looking to book another session with my new Goddess! 

As you can see my client’s legal name hasn’t been revealed nor his email address. I would be so grateful if any of my old or new clients would take some time out to write ✍ me a testimonial so I can help people understand the value of alternative healing, breathwork and kundalini activation.

Don’t forget to Breathe!

It’s so easy for us to forget to breathe; and yet our central nervous system relies on proper oxygenation to keep us vibrant and in our best most optimal physical & mental health.

As we breathe deeply we send life affirming messages to ourselves that we are here for a purpose, we are worthy and we are deserving of love.

We don’t always receive love from others but we can give it to ourselves through the act of deep breathing.

As you fill your diaphragm with a focused breath, you send a positive affirmation that you are sacred, worthy and loved.  Keep remembering to do this daily and nightly as a means of maintaining a healthy central nervous and relaxing your muscles.

Shallow breathing leads to panic attacks and a slower more sluggish metabolism.

Can’t remember to breathe? Book me for a #reiki treatment or schedule a 90 minute #chicagotantra ceremony and breathwork coaching, chakra balancing and energywork is included within your #kundalini activation.

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312 339 7707
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Book me for a paid phone consultation or coffee consultation if you’re shy and or just have tons of questions and goals.

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