You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.
When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.
Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression. Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔 will wear down on your psyche.
Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.
Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony
If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork#soundhealing reflexology #reiki#cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini
I am here for you ❤
To me connection is everything ❤️ If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with.
I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.
Email 📧 me at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com butterflyshadows@aol.com
let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra
We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart. If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.
Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.
You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:
I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.
I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.
Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.
Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.
Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!
please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…
Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.
I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.
If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.
This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.
Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine
I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.
What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.
A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.
I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago. I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.
Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft. We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.
If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.
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So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!
Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.
Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨
Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707
Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties. Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result. For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.
A #Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras
When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.
I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️
Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely. In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤
I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments
If you are interested ✨ in working with me Let me know more about you! Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.
I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.
If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.
Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.
Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.
Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.
When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.
Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.
After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.
Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.
He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.
Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.
I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.
We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.
The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.
We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.
I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.
Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.
Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.
I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.
I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.
If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.
I’m not a shy person; but I do understand and empathize with anyone who is hesitant about embarking on a new journey ✨ when they barely understand what they are committing to.
I offer paid coffee consultations for couples and singles who are interested in tantra but never had prior experiences in energywork or sexual wellness.
My tantra ceremonies focus on full body well-being and healing. The focus isn’t just your sexual energy; it’s an organic experience that helps you understand your own body better and amplify the latent energies already stored within you.
I will help direct your focus on being fully present in the moment by guiding you with breathwork and visualization exercises. The chakras within your body respond to touch, sound and breath. If you’ve never had reiki or alternative healing before then all these techniques are going to seem esoteric to you.
A coffee consultation will give you an opportunity to digest all this information beforehand and you can ask me any questions you wish so I can alleviate your concerns and make some suggestions based on your goals and budget.
Let me know more about you by sending me an introductory email 📧
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Once we meet in person and become friends instead of strangers the process of self awareness and self healing becomes much easier.
I can help you make life changes, introduce you to new activities, develop more meaningful relationships and find the courage to become fully alive in your life.
A paid coffee date with me is like no other. I am an expert in alternative healing and have studied and practiced massage, Tantra, and meditation for many years. I can provide you with healing techniques and beneficial services that do not involve a physical touch. My recommendations and advice will help you to make better decisions and live a more balanced, fulfilling life.
I believe that everyone deserves healing, rejuvenation and empowerment. Through my paid coffee dates I can help you remove blockage, create new paths and adopt a better lifestyle. During our few hours together, I will guide you through spiritual healing processes and provide you with the tools to take responsibility for your life.
Booking a paid coffee date is your chance to learn from an experienced practitioner and start a new direction in life. Whether you’re shy, anxious or simply looking for something new and different, I will be there to support and guide you towards a happier and healthier version of yourself.
Did you know #tantra is the quickest route to access and take back your personal power?
There are no short cuts to Good Health but I’ve had clients tell me one session with me saved them trips and visits to a psychologist. I’m not bashing the mental health field; but I’m saying that how you view yourself affects your physical well being.
For instance if you suffer from chronic gut issues it indicates an imbalance in your 3rd chakra (solar plexus). You would need to understand how to send positive healing messages to your belly to help heal whatever is going on in your gut.
During my #chicagotantra ceremonies I employ breathwork, sound healing, Aromatherapy and nurturing touch. I help you activate any trapped energies encouraging your kundalini to awaken which is used like medicine 💊 for your body to heal itself.
When I first started my career in this industry I was a huge people pleaser. Other people’s needs including my client’s and friends always came before my needs. I wasn’t one to cancel a promise or a date unless I was DEATHLY ill. I didn’t realize what a huge disservice I was doing to myself by putting myself last till my physical well being and emotional frame of mind deteriorated. I’d stifle and store up my pent up frustration and disappointment till I’d explode breaking those bonds with friends and clients irreparably. Now I temper and pace myself and I’ve aligned myself to attract clients who understand and respect my limitations and boundaries.
tantra will Give you your backbone back
Your chakras will be activated and you will have no choice left but to find your own voice and use your intuition instead of relying upon others to make these choices for you. It’s #Martinlutherkingday and I’m here available to help set up and co create #sacredspace with you if you want the opportunity to clear out what doesn’t suit you anymore– whether it’s intolerable living conditions, a stale job, or unhealthy toxic relationships.
You shouldn’t spend your days walking on eggshells 🥚
chicagotantra 🕉 invokes empowerment
Never forget who you are Endeavor to protect those who haven’t found their voice.
Do you feel a connection to what I write ✍
Do you feel comfortable working with me based on my blog and my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋
If you are ready to choose me as your tantra guide please follow the link to my online Chicago based tantra website here—>
Send me an introductory email to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Please include your full legal name and profession for Verification purposes
Send me a few links to your social media profiles such as LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and Google and give me a brief synopsis of your goals, expectations and budget.
I accept new students and couples seeking a solid and unique journey of the Chakras.
Surprisingly many professionals would love to try my services; but they’re more in love with the idea and concept 💡 of #tantra and fearful of forging ahead.
#tantramassage is a wonderful way to amp up your energy while healing trauma and balancing your #chakras
I’m working with your #kundalini energy that you might not even be aware of.
Together we activate these #chakras (power stations) within your physical & spiritual bodies 🙌 to keep you in a positive place of self love & self awareness ❤
Join me soon & introduce yourself to me initially w/ an introductory 📧 email—Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com let me know who you are, what you do, your background in #alternativehealing and 2 major goals you wish to achieve
Im always accepting new students ✨ even if you haven’t had prior experience in #reiki or #chicagotantra
Interested in a Workshop? If you are a group of three couples let’s all plan an afternoon of fun together here in Chicago’s Gold Coast! I can work with your small group and teach all of you some basic fundamentals of tantra massage so all of you will leave understanding how to offer your spouse an authentic tantra massage.
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