Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

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Sensual massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana of tantra butterfly

Sensual Massage Offerings by Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

Sometimes we just need to let go, surrender to touch and be allowed a few peaceful moments to ourselves. Sensual massage offers you the benefit of being truly touched,  truly recognized  and deeply healed without judgment,  self consciousness or the formality of a more conventional massage experience in  a public setting. During these sensual sessions I invite you to decompress and be in the moment of pure self indulgent sensuous touch and be nurtured back into a space of deeper peace with your own inner core and joy.  We all need to be in that space sometimes and these sessions are meant to be purely for you without expectations and without the need for talk if you truly just need to rest and be healed.

I now offer you the benefits of my healing touch and my sincere interest in your well being.  I offer you my vast knowledge of intuitive touch and  my intensive skill set I carry with me from my daily practice of TantRa yoga,  lomi-lomi massage and my Reiki hands.  When you schedule your sensual massage with me here in Chicago you will be indulged, catered to and you will receive a special session with your needs in mind.  I am not following a “recipe” because you are unique.  Your body will dictate what rhythm I follow and I will listen to your body as I lay my hands on you.

Some times we just need to be still and unlike my other Tantra massage sessions my sensual massage will heal you on a slightly different level without the Tantra breathing instructions offered in my other ceremonies.  Perhaps you are not yet willing to try that leap into Tantra so this can be our initial introduction to each other and a time for you to get to know me or know yourself better. I will blend pure organic essential oils in my carrier oil for you to enjoy and sumptuous music will lull you into a place of comfort, wonder and surrender We can spend our time in shared silence or shared laughter the choice is yours and I am here to help you integrate body,  mind and spirit in a space of beauty and healing.

If you are a novice to sacred touch you can let down your guard with me because I will not judge your body nor will I expect you to know everything about alternative healing and energy work.
I do know the healing benefits of soft, sacred, non invasive touch can move energy blocks in your body and help you to empty your mind of worries.  If you are personally going through a period
of grieving and you feel as if a massage is the last thing you need or want let me assure you that soft gentle touches can free you.  I will be focusing on your physical and spirit bodies as we pass time together and if you need to talk beforehand about a matter that concerns you I am a good listener.  I do have experience in grief counseling and I do know how it feels to lose more than one loved on within months of each other.  I can help you go through your period of grief or transition with grace.

Touch moves mountains and clears your mind.  As you relax and take in some of the smells of my essential oils you can let go and I will even guide you to take in an occasional deep breath and help you stay in the moment with me rather than allowing you to let worry take you over.  Sensual massage is just one modality that leads you to meditation and better health.
I would be honored to take you on that Sacred journey.

Goddess Diana of
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*

Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707
The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

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Enjoy an out call tantra massage in your hotel 🏨 in Chicago

Are you visiting Chicago for  a conference or personal trip?  I cater to business professionals who would prefer for me to visit their private space as an out call tantra massage provider in any area of Chicago especially the gold coast and River North.  It is my pleasure to work with you in the privacy of your own space and I will have my personal care kit with me for your out call massage which includes various essential oils,  crystals and incense.  You do not have to worry about anything because I love providing a special tantra massage in your home or hotel.

Once you contact me by phone (312) 339-7707 simply provide me with your name,  your goals,  your budget and your address in Chicago and I will make plans to head your way.  If you need a session in Chicago immediately I suggest you send a Lyft or Uber directly to me and I will not charge you an out call fee.  Sometimes you may have very little notice especially if you are in Chicago for a convention.  You are here in Chicago for a reason which is work and I truly understand that so if you find yourself with free time at the last minute just call me directly, send an uber my way and I can take care of my traveling expenses back.  I will not ask you for any additional out call fees; I would simply prefer to make your time as relaxing  and stress fee as possible.

You may have jet lag.  You may be pressed for time.  You may love to be in your own environment.  You may want to simply fall asleep directly after your massage so ideally you want someone as professional as I am to be your perfect tantra guide and out call massage provider in Chicago.

All that yummy energy we shared together co creating Sacred Space will be in your own private hotel room and you will be able to drift off to sleep with the subtle scents of lavender, lemon and sage essential oil on your sheets and pillow cases.  My mission as an out call massage provider is to keep you calm  and balanced.  Your body will instantly feel loved and embraced.  The positive energies we share together will be left with you and when it comes time for me to leave you don’t have to worry because you are already in bed and you will wake up completely vibrant and recharged for you business meetings the next day.

I consider myself to be quite intuitive and with my 16 plus years of experience as a licensed tantra professional I think you will be delightfully pleased not only with the sensual touch but with my knowledge of Chakras,  three dimensional breath and the blending of essential aroma blends.

All your senses will be engaged and every inch of your body will be catered to and explored.  I truly take my time and work my massage strokes in slow motion.  I will use my hands to electrify your Chakras and hover over your body.  Your body will be hypnotized and you will both be deeply relaxed and awakened to sensual pleasure.

My sessions include a short instruction on how to properly breathe from your stomach and diaphragm and this is called rebirthing breath or Holistic three dimensional breath.  When you breathe with me you send a signal to your central nervous system that you are relaxed and serene.  You will no longer hold onto any negative emotion that does not serve you.  The breath keeps you here in the moment with me and you will not be aware of time passing you by.     A three hour massage session with me might feel more like an hour if you are on “tantra time”.

Tantra time is an opportunity for you to let down your guard, turn your cell phone off and keep your thoughts clear.  Ideally you will not be thinking of anything nor will you be judging yourself or anticipating an outcome or goal.  The benefit of clearing your mind is that your body will adjust itself automatically and your energy will shift where it needs to shift.  When I work on your sexual energy your deep breath acts like an ocean and carries these  sensual vibrations throughout your entire physical and spiritual bodes known asChakras or wheels.  You will amplify your own Kundalini energy normally dormant during its resting state and you will safely increase your psychic abilities as you patiently breathe in and out.

I will train you to have more control over your sexual stamina and at the same time your metabolism will be increased if we successfully interact with the breath.  I am very patient with teaching beginners introductory tantra just as much as  I take my time with each of your muscle groups when I apply trigger point massage to your body.  My belief is that sexual energy travels more efficiently and is more beneficial if you have a pain free body first so no tightness in your body will be left unexplored.

Give me enough advanced notice so I can prepare ahead of time or simply provide me with a driver if you can not provide me with any notice.  I love spontaneity and I will always be open to your call.  Sometimes I feel it’s just perfect *Kismet* when I happen to be moments away from your hotel just by accident.

Never feel shy about inviting a trained massage professional to your home or hotel in Chicago.   I am on linkedin, facebook, twitter and have many wonderful testimonials on my website at  I own two blogs and I am well traveled so I am used to setting up sacred space in hotels everywhere and at a moment’s notice or with advanced planning.
I look forward to being your Tantra massage out call massage provider here in Chicago

Goddess Diana
(312) 330-7707
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Couples Tantra Coach
Massage Instructor
Tour Guide
Massage Therapist and hopefully a friend  ♞

Goddess Diana of
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*

Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Tantra massage in Chicago 💓 and reasons to engage in tantra

If you have not already engaged in your first tantra massage or sensual massage here in Chicago I would be honored to have you try your first session of sacred healing touch with me soon.  I have been a firm believer all my life that heart healing, nurturing touch and erotic massage is essential to help you feel more alive and creative.  I have lived in Chicago most of my life and I try to get at least one deep tissue massage a month for myself since I am doing physical work.  All forms of massage are good for your productivity and feeling of completeness.

My sensual massage and tantra massage sessions here in Chicago will include a thorough cleansing of all your CHAKRAS,  sound healing,  lomi lomi massage, deep tissue trigger point massage and Tantra Yoga.  Have you visited my site yet?  I specialize in erotic and sensual healing in Chicago and my primary site is .   I have articles on the subject of Tantra Yoga,  a page full of testimonials,  gallery photos I have taken since 2005 and videos you might find interesting.

My techniques in alternative healing is always evolving.  I never want all my sessions to be duplicates I want to get to know you and your unique journey before we even have our first session together so I always encourage new guests to fill out the contact form on the front page of my website

I want to know what you are expecting from our first Tantra massage experience together and I want to know if you are passing by and are visiting Chicago or if you consider yourself a permanent resident.  I welcome all genders and I feel better having an in depth conversation with you over the phone so I can meet your goals.

Of course energy work is a form of healing personal trauma and I do have a lot of experience working with men or women who have been victimized as children.  I suggest investing two to three hours of your time with me if you wish to try a traditional tantra ceremony with me here in Chicago because I’d love that extra time exploring who you are and it takes a couple of hours for you to simply relax and let go.

I am a patient teacher but I do have my boundaries so before your initial contact with me email me here –> or here —–>

Let me know your real name,  your occupation,  what drove you to my website,  what goals you wish to accomplish and your time constraints and budget.   I am on linkedin, twitter, facebook and Google.  I have definitely been around for a long time and earned a Certificate from Source School of Tantra up to Level III. Even though I am a Certified tantra educator I have a long history of being a sensual muse since age 23 and I have never lost my enthusiasm for maintaining my healing practice.  I want to continue on this path until the day I retire and I’d love to be available as a personal tantra coach here in Chicago and other cities when I take my travels and tantra elsewhere.

I want everyone to try a sensual exploration at least once in their life and I will not limit you to just sensual touch I will expand your capacity to feel greater love for your own sensual power.  When two people are engaged in sacred touch or intimate healing there is a positive flow of energies that circulate from one being to the next.  Once you find your inner core and your own ability to heal your body you become a healing vessel for others to appreciate touch.

Come join me for Tantra Education and  Couples Tantra Coaching here in Chicago,  O’hare and Schaumburg, Illinois while I am still here.  We can plan a couple hours or a full day of sensual massage, erotic massage, tantra yoga and reiki that will leave you feeling fed and nourished.

Do not forget to visit my website first  My tantra website has been written by me solely and it is an ever evolving process during my career as a healer.  I wish to attract thoughtful people with open hearts who just want to experience a profound change energetically.  Changes come slowly.  So many people think that just one session will determine how they view tantra.  It is not sound to put all your eggs in one basket.  If you are overweight and out of shape tantra is one way to rev up your metabolism and get your chakras in balance but tantra DOES NOT REPLACE exercise and sound eating and drinking choices.  One tantra session is a tool or a gateway for you reach inside of yourself and start moving forward in a positivedirection but you must also engage in daily breathing exercises by yourself and practice tantra massage with your friends or lovers or partner.  You should not just enjoy one tantra massage a year or keep jumping fromone person to the next.  If you really trust someone stick with that teacher and practice daily by yourself or with a partner.  If you expect one session to heal all your old wounds you will be grossly unhappy.

Always keep trying to work on yourself and expanding your energy in a positive direction.  We all regress and we all go through periods of self doubt or challenges.  Use your challenges to strengthen your character and explore new realms of healing.

Goddess Diana
Tantra Educator in Chicago and many other cities within the United States
Contact information

View my site first
Fill out my contact form and send me an email about yourself and your goals
Call me when you have decided on a session and if you have additional questions AFTER perusing my website carefully.
If you are a MARRIED COUPLE and you are indecisive I do offer phone consultations at $50 for an hour of my time over the phone or a meet and greet in person over coffee so you can take your time.  If you know you would love a session as a couple a deposit is a good way of securing the exact time and date of our first tantra session in Chicago.  All couples sessions will take place in YFB_IMG_1526324100371

OUR home, condo or hotel.

I hope I have answered all your questions and that you are encouraged to have a true tantra massage or sensual massage in Chicago with me soon!  Sensual touch and Tantra is NOT FOR ENTERTAINMENT ONLY.  You will see a difference in your body.  You will have a glow.  You will react to the energies.  Your chakras will respond to sound, sight, smell and touch.  I use the highest grade of organic essential oils and you will feel completely different afterwards so drinking a lot of good water is strongly recommended after our session is over.  Your body will continue to process energies for days afterwards and you will need to drink more water than normal to flush out your body of toxins and lactic acid buildup.  You want to drink distilled or Spring water and no less than eight servings of water each day so you do not feel sluggish after our session is over.  You are fully responsible to take GOOD CARE OF YOUR BODY after we part ways.  Water is especially important after Reiki, Tantra Yoga and chakra balancing has taken place.

Goddess Diana of
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*

Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:

I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Decriminalize sacred sensuality 🐦

Hello! My name is Diana Lynn Grossman , shapeshifter 🐼 playful muse   reiki master, and psychic, alternative healer for over twenty five years and proud to be a part of the sexual industry.

I have a sweet tooth, adore my cuddly pets, am playful, and strongly passionate about working with a select few of incredibly sensitive and consciously aware individuals who accidentally find my website while seeking a tantra massage in Chicago!

Lately the government has passed a new law which has shut down many adult oriented websites such as Backpage, the massage sections of Craigslist, cityvibe, foxylist, the erotic reviw in the united states and many others I may have left out.

This new law will criminalize any adult message board forum or certain adult content advertising portals and hold them legally responsible for sex trafficking!

I am strongly against sex trafficking but now sex workers have lost a viable and safe option for advertising their services online indefinitely unless you the general public decide to get involved and pass laws decriminalizing sex related fields and finding new healthier options to keep escorts and sex workers educated, safe, regulated and legalized.

I propose any woman or man who is truly excited to teach sexual education or offer healing massages or escort services be screened for mental and physical health including a criminal background check to see if they are emotionally prepared to create sacred space for their potential clients.

Potential clients will also be pre screened by the government prior to a sensual encounter and they will also go through the same rigorous testing to make sure they are disease free and of sound mind before being eligible to hire a sex worker.

My proposal will benefit everyone creating mutual rules, boundaries and self respect.  Sex workers will be regulated and licensed with free health insurance benefits and increases in salary based on their client’s feedback and positive reviews.

Clients who act harmfully or disrespectfully towards any escort or sex surrogate will be penalized and subject to counseling until they are deemed harmless to any sex worker they choose to employ.


Sex workers must take classes in alternative healing, abnormal pychology, classes in tantra yoga and traditional massage therapy modalities.  Sex workers will take new classes every  year and earn more money based on their increased skill set rather than their good looks and youth.  The younger, more inexperienced sex workers first starting out will earn less but they will have the potential to grow income based on good reviews and the willingness to take on extra classes in alternative healing and traditional bodywork like chakra balancing.

Each month, sex workers will go through a health check preventing any unforeseen illness or STD.  Every sex worker must also pass a drug test to ensure they are clear headed and emotionally fit to heal others.

Every sex worker will have gracious tax deductions for being independent contractors and their tax dollars will go to their retirement fund and health insurance because they are providing a needful service to anyone who is touch starved or going through marital challenges.

As the sex worker ages he or she will go through a fully subsidized retraining program meaning they can now be trained to become sex educators in schools, lead tantra yoga retreats or go into a completely brand new career with free housing until they are fully capable of embarking on a brand new career path.

Does this sound fair and comforting to all of you? Would you like to see these new ideas being implemented soon?  Please support your sex workers and fight the new bill that has been passed.  Sex workers typically love what they do!  Let us be respected, honored, adored, educated and legalized so we can finally be protected by the law rather than violated and raped by law makers who have not given this new law serious thought.  We want to protect our civil liberties not destroy what we have fought so hard to uphold!

Get in contact with Congress and legalize sacred sensuality 🐦large

Engaging in a tantra massage enhances your intuition 🐦

Picture 5Happy Mercury retrograde 💓 I’ve always found this a challenging time personally in my career as a tantra guide because most of my days are spent communicating with the verbal and written word and Mercury retrograde can invoke miscommunication and even irritability.

I’m going to celebrate this retrograde by focusing on intentions and being more patient with people contacting me for the first time.  Be careful with how you phrase your words and my best advice is to be clearly honest before you speak or write to avoid arguments and confusion.

My sessions will benefit you in multiple ways but mostly you will leave my space being more open, more communicative, less inhibited and more empathic.  Empathy is the ability to place yourself deeply in someone’s situation.  You understand fully all the emotions of anyone whether they are content, confused, angry or despondent.  An empath can tune into the wavelength of a single individual or room full of people and feel that distinctive vibe as if it was their own emotion.

A natural born empath must be cautious not to confuse other people’s emotions as their own mood and so an empath is s psychic sponge able to soak up all the joy or drama of anyone they are close to.  Because of their strong intuitive nature’s they do need to protect their own aura by perfecting some grounding and self cleansing rituals so they won’t take on the psychic debris of people they have interacted with.

Tantra massage is an organic art and ritual which will include all the basics of helping you become more aware of your boundaries and better able to implement tools to keep your energy vibrant and cleansed.

Breathing deeply is the first step we engage in to activate our chakra centers.  I’ll change into your energy bodies and you’ll learn how to use seed sounds to cleanse, heal and activate your aura.  Each breath we take helps create a circular flow of positivity between the two of us and with just one session you’ll feel comfortable enough to share these breathing techniques with a good friend or your love partner so you can create a bond of understanding and trust with anyone you care about.

Many of my tantra massage sessions involve mutual cuddling and sacred touch.  As everyone knows human beings thrive on healing, compassionate touch and our moods improve as well as our  ability to learn about ourselves and others.  Touch is a gateway to understanding your limitlessness as well as your boundaries.  During our shared tantra ceremony you’ll be sharing your boundaries with me and we’ll be giving each other feedback on what feels comforting and loving or what feels threatening or unpleasant.  Your tantra massage is a time for you to grow but also a time for you to unplug and escape mundane concerns.

If you really wish to blow away your veil I’d suggest a three hour journey which includes a bath ceremony similar to watsu where I will be partially supporting your weight in the bouyant water and you will be guided in three dimensional breathing while I sing into your chakra bodies.  Your third eye or ajna in Sanskrit  will be gently coaxed into awakening.  Nothing will feel rushed to you as I chant into your body.  You’ll simply feel comforted and loved as your body vibrates to the bija mantra chants.  These are baby steps to awakening your intuition.  As your kundalini energy is coaxed into awakening your ability to see and feel emotions will increase your capacity to love without condition and potentially be more compassionate.

There is a difference between being empathic and having compassion for others.  Being compassionate involves actively seeking to create a better condition of mental well being for anyone who you see is suffering.  You are consciously activating your heart center and you are making a choice to help someone so you are using your gift of empathy but actively seeking to create a positive change in a being’s life.

When  you actively engage in energy exchanges you practice heart centered and mindful touch activating your heart chakra with the intention of sending unconditional love to your partner.  All your chakra centers are pleasantly engaged in compassionate touch and your intuition is at the forefront allowing you to take pleasure at the lightest of caresses to move the greatest energies.  You will learn the difference between subtle touch and baser more clumsy non sensate energies.


Visit my website for a complete understanding of what tantra massage and reiki can offer you!  You will have an opportunity to explore your aura and learn how to be an empath while exploring the sensual realms of kundalini Shakti 🐍 I can briefly summarize all your immediate benefits in my final paragraph.  Tantra enables you to be more present, more focused, more compassionate and more intuitive.  You will be both giver and receiver and you will be a student and teacher.  Your chakras will be cleansed, honored and rebirthed.  Your sense of inner calm will be restored as your core is centered and reawakened.  You will be calm but joyfully teased and aroused as we go from edge play to soothing breathing practices.  Your sensual energy will become your body’s restorative medicine and you will leave our shared space a completely different person.  It will be up to you to decide to practice this healing journey a little bit every day until our next session.  You will become more sensitive to your own energy as your intuition and empathy awakens within you.   You can return to being numb again or continue on this meditative path by joining tantra workshops or practicing with a partner.  Tantra yoga opens portals of pleasure, gratitude and self awareness.  We always attract exactly who we are as our mirrors so isn’t it wonderful to see through clear,  untainted glass?

🌷 how to know your psychic reader was a fraud 🌷

Hey audience, I decided to write this article mostly as a reminder to myself and perhaps a cautionary tale to you that not all psychic readings are balanced or particularly healing.

I hadn’t had a legitimate reading in two years mostly because my traveling expenses and separate sets of storage fees give me limited access to fund all my desires.  I was perusing my Facebook feed a few months ago and noticed this well meaning young woman raving about her Facebook friends healing skills.  Naturally I love networking with other healers so I promptly sent this healer a friend request and found out she lives in the Chicago land area.

Later I realized the well meaning girl from new York had never received an actual healing she just thought based on their friendly interactions that Kerri had great healing abilities without actually receiving a real reading over the phone or in person.

Kerri and I had casual interchanges via Facebook messenger and I was seeking someone who could not only give me a clairvoyant reading but karuna…arch reiki for lower back pain I was experiencing.  I told Kerri that I was primarily intrigued about karuna and I was seeking more of an energy healing to open up any potential blocks in my chakras with an emphasis on opening up my opportunities for greater abundance.  Kerri assured me she would do her best to help and also suggested a psychic reading.  She mentioned she hosts a radio show and would even love to have me as a guest speaker to hopefully promote my tantra practice and gain a broader audience.  Of course that never happened ever as I would eventually discover for myself.

One week pain in my body made me  decide to hire a professional massage therapist in Humboldt park who I found to be incredibly profound.  Neil took his time with my spinal column and even tried cupping with me so at the end of our time together I opened up to neil and admitted I would be hiring a psychic for a reading soon.  Neil got very quiet and warned me about giving too much of my power to a complete stranger.  I assured him I’d be careful and as I left his massage studio I noticed how happy I looked and felt.  I felt tingly and much lighter energetically than I had felt in such a long time!

I then contacted Kerri and she was open to the idea of actually picking  me up at the closest train station to her home.  I don’t drive a car  and rely on trains and buses so she would agree to meet me at the closest blue line to her home.  The  next day however I realized there were two completely different Harlem ave stops on the blue line which was confusing and really changed the dynamics of me getting to her. I accidentally got off at the wrong stop and finally about two hours later met Kerri for the first time as she drove up to get me in her car.

Upon meeting Kerri I noticed she wasn’t smiling much but she seemed sincere about wanting to help me so when I entered her home I felt comfortable and confident but she was definitely lacking humor and her stern demeanor made me feel worried.  In fact I had every right to worry because as she shuffled her cards sternly I never felt like a human being I felt judged by her and belittled.  Not once during our session did she even seek anything positive to share with me it was just gloom, doom and tomb!  My God she never even cracked a smile and then when I needed to vent and genuinely express my concern and worries Kerri went on a long rant about her journey as an ex Playboy bunny who is now a single mother and how she just recently got ghosted by her boyfriend.  I spent a good twenty minutes listening to how she continues to prevail amidst all her challenges as a single mother! Then she had the nerve to suggest that I remove all the gallery images on my website so that I could attract better clients because she personally felt I wasn’t conveying an image of spirituality!  If you go online and do your own research you will find not hundreds but thousands of erotic photographs of miss Kerri Kendall touching other women, exposing her vulva, making suggestive sexually explicit poses and then you accidentally find her new age website with her psychic readings available and her model mayhem account.  Does that make her less credible?  What made her less credible to me was how horrible I felt about myself as a healer after she spent two full hours belittling me and assuming I had absolutely no knowledge of healing or the chakra bodies after I had told her many times prior on Facebook that I had learned about alternative healing, chakra balancing, reiki, pranic healing, tantra yoga, and hot stone therapy since my early twenties.

Kerri pointed to her rudimentary chakra chart and I simply had to interrupt her and ask her why she didn’t realize that I would already have a real understanding of chakras based on the fact that I practice tantra yoga with my clients.

She apologized and finally lead me to her table where I instantly drifted off and practically fell asleep.  It wasn’t the healing or the reading I was hoping for so at the conclusion of our time together she suggested I purchase an abundance candle for $15 and she then drove me back to the blue line without even using a sage stick on my aura or sealing off my energies!

I finally got back to my space feeling so emotionally raped and unlovable that I went online, did sincere research and actually did find a legitimate psychic reader by the name of Aria who felt my sadness instantly and gave me a real healing!  Aria empowered me and helped me understand the Dynamics of energy vampirism and the techniques energy vampires use to steal their victim’s energy by making their victim feel an emotion strongly.  A vampire doesn’t need happy or positive energy rather the energy can be morose, fearful or purely anger based.  After I got off the phone with Aria Norman I felt instant relief and Aria insisted on letting me know I was so intuitive I didn’t have to hire psychics ever again and she refused to charge me for her advice just so I could heal.

My advice to anyone is to be super selective about choosing your clairvoyant reader.  A good reader will want to give you positive solutions and any true psychic doesn’t need to rely on tarot cards as a crutch or tool!  A legitimate psychic reader is never judgmental of your path! If they can’t comprehend what true gifts you already possess yourself then you can assume they are purposefully placing you in a weakened emotional state so that you become doubtful and dependent upon their future assistance with endless readings that will ultimately leave you spiritually bankrupt.

If you yourself are in need of reiki, healing touch, guided visualization and traditional tantra massage please go directly to my website now and spend time reading my articles, my testimonials and my chakras section.  I’m a highly intuitive tantra guide with over twenty years of experience in alternative healing practices and the paranormal.  Once you feel you are ready for your own special journey simply call me directly at 312-339-7707 and feel free to fill out my contact form being completely honest about your short term goals and expectations.  Tantra is a heart  💓 conscious journey and I am sincere in my intentions to help you feel limitlessness, weightless and transcendental.received_10102650271916000.gif





Chicago Tantra massage by Goddess Diana of Tantra butterfly 💓

mr valentino in my scarfIMG_20180202_145017IMG_20180202_144958.jpgwelcome to my world where you are allowed to be yourself.  You will be listened to, your body will be held sacred and we can both be real together.  If I have advice to give you based on my intuition during our session I promise I’ll be fair to you because I make plenty of happy mistakes which lead me here to you right now.

You’ve created your reality and your story whether you found me by someone who encouraged you to try reiki, energy work or tantra massage.  Maybe you suffer from depression, post traumatic stress disorder or you’ve numbed your needs out because your last relationship was disastrous or unfulfilling.

This is the part where I tell you I’ve likewise made poor judgements that kept me in toxic, unfair, unbalanced relationships because I didn’t realize how powerful I am just by myself and that I contain within me the capacity to heal my own wounds.  In tantra a sense of fairness and healthy boundaries are explored as part of your healing process.

I’m here to help you breathe self love back into your being and help you recapture your sense of innocent play.  Tantra massage encompasses more than sports massage and reiki; tantra works with your desire and creativity using three dimensional breathing and visualization.  As as I lay my hands in stillness I’m consciously awakening your vitality, your DNA, your life force and your inner child.

Do you wake up not remembering your dreams?  Do you wake up in pain stressed out even before your day has begun?  Have you silenced who you are because someone or done life event silenced you into submission?  Tantra yoga is a lavish ceremony that celebrates life and if you have the time to spend on yourself I will engage you in activities for self healing that are highly playful, stimulating and decadent.

You can join me for a half or full day of alternative tantra delights here in Chicago or we can plan a full weekend of touch positive, sensually healing and life changing retreats in your city if you wish to sponsor me.

So many tantra body workers neglect to tell you how powerful you truly are and that just one focused session of tantra yoga can permanently change you, making you more intuitive and determined to alter your current path.  The primary reason for you to engage in a tantra ceremony is because you are ready to seek change and you’re tired of feeling shut down energetically or half awake.

I see so many sex workers here using fake aliases, rebranding themselves, hiding behind a fake persona and I’m amazed at the fact that they can’t be real and can’t admit to their clients that they themselves are in need of healing and compassion!

When you choose me as your guide you are choosing a fellow being who understands abuse and gas lighting because I myself am a survivor of emotional and physical abuse as a child and I have every desire to continue growing my skills as not just a healer but as an evolving human imperfect in so many ways but willing to conquer my own fears.

I welcome gender fluid couples, male and female singles,  newly married couples and just about everyone out there recuperating from illness or tolerating chronic pain or self doubt.

Let me help build your confidence back and while doing so we’ll both create new challenges in ourselves because as you grow and heal I’ll be fine tuning my skills and transfer my positive energy back into you like a sacred circle of woven cloth.  You deserve to feel passion, inner strength, laughter and hopefully rediscover who you essentially are. You will learn to breathe not just for survival but breathe fully to expand your energy and your inner intuition.  Once you have tried at least three separate tantra sessions you won’t feel as if you have to rely on others for making important life decisions.  You also will understand that you yourself contain everything you need to manifest your own reality with or without a life partner.

I welcome your call after you’ve had time to explore my website  💓

Become more psychic, become less afraid of claiming your right to be powerful and filled with creative fire 🔥 besides all these wonderful goals….you get to hear me sing!!!! No extra charge for sound healing ^_^







Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.


If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach


Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.