Posts tagged “Couples massage Chicago

What does the title “goddess” trigger in you?

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.

First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.

I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.

Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very yin in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.

I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.

A Goddess 🌹 is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.

The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.

A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play which is the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self.  🎈

When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.

Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!

Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

 

 

New couples in Chicago I would have been delighted to see you but….

You did not give me advanced notice!!!! Don’t let this happen to you and don’t let me have to turn you away due to bad timing, bad scheduling and zero notice. Yes I know most couples come to Chicago for a purpose; I know you most of the time you did not come to Chicago specifically for me or you would have called a week before.

In the event that you did come to Chicago specifically as a potential treat of relaxation for you and your partner and you decided to visit me for couples Tantra Massage in Chicago then by all means give me several days notice so we can brainstorm together. Brainstorming means we all have a three way conversation on the phone like a phone interview. You both have your chance to discuss boundaries and goals and what you love or don’t love.

I will give you suggestions and give you my recommendations on the best hotels to stay at in the suburbs or inner city of Chicago. I will give you the best times that work for YOU both so you don’t need to worry if I am available or not available at a moment’s notice. I do not want to turn you away– I want this to work out for everyone and plan out my own transportation needs in advance so you do not need to worry.

Yes I know sometimes couples find me online at the very last minute and it’s very rare for me to promise you a session with less than four hours notice so you are always welcome to try me at the last minute and if it’s meant to be I might literally be a mere half hour away from you and have all my massage oils with me (but I might not). I might have to give you a strong no but I might give you a yes or a maybe if you are extremely flexible with what time we begin our session and If I even have the energy to devote to both of you after working on others that same day. Do you understand? Tantra is about mutual shared respect and circulating only the best most positive energies between the three of us so wouldn’t you want to give me as much notice as possible so I am fresh for you and have not over scheduled or feeling healthy and refreshed that day?

So yes I know most people find me by accident and you might not have another day in Chicago to spare. In that event work around my schedule, send me an uber, have payment ready and we are good to go because I want to be of service to you but you have to meet me more than halfway for that to happen.

Here is an excerpt I pulled directly from my own personal tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please read and enjoy!

Couples coaching and Sacred bodywork

Couples, during our ceremony I invite you to join me in the timelessness of tantric shamanism. All three of us will comingle our unique energies and learn the art of Just “being” letting all our cares go as I teach you the fundamentals of Yoga breathe work and holding sacred space and forgiveness for your partner. I will teach the both of you how to send and transmute unconditional love and healing from your heart and hands into your lover’s most intimate places of wounding, hurt, shame and deep joy.

Our time together will be spent in a place of healing and reverance and we can use this time as you wish. It can be a time of quiet meditative discussion and connecting or we can each take turns learning the sacred art of being “giver” and “receiver”.

I can teach the two of you Beloveds special practices that will allow you to be the perfect, compassionate lover to your mate. Some examples of these practices are aura massage, Heart to Hand breath, spoon breathing, chanting, and traditional effluerage strokes that will bring your partner to a sense of deep peace and complete trust.

I will spend our time together teaching you both the art of energy sensing and nurturing the senses in tenderness.

I would consider our time together a sacred journey that will enable the two of you to grow as healers to each other.

I consider myself to be a very intuitive and compassionate teacher and I would ask the two of you to refrain from any activities in my prescense that would lead to Kama Sutric Sex. If after our time together my sessions enabled the two of you to be more tender and passionate together that would be a blessing. If our time together ignited a spark of deep love and exploration I would ask that you hold that dear sacred space in your hearts and share that passion with eachother in the sanctity and privacy of your own home after we have concluded our special time together. I do not consider myself to be merely a “fluffer”, I am a deeply respectful and nurturing soul, a student just like you but I would not wish to be present during any Kama Sutric explorations while we share sacred tantric space together.

There will be moments during our time together when I will ask for your help as we work on your partner’s sensual energies and I would teach you four handed massage and kundalini massage so you can take these practices home with you to begin your own unique Tantric Journies.

Please understand I am not a sex worker. I am primarily a healer, a teacher and an empath here to facilitate a major opportunity for your personal intimate growth and I would not be able to provide tantric sex during our sacred time together nor would I feel comfortable teaching you sexual positions or any practices that were too explicit. We would all be nude in a state of comfortable undress or you may even bring saris and light robes to our ceremony if that made you more relaxed. Our time together would be a celebration of the mind, soul, and physical pleasures with conscious heart connection.

Namaste,
Goddess Diana

You can find these paragraphs specifically at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/couples.htm

Do you want to call me on impulse? It’s flattering that you need me but are you prepared for me to tell you that I am only available at 1 am or 4pm or not in the evening hours like you wanted. Are you willing to drop anything and everything for me if I say yes I am available for both of you? If you are very malleable and you can change all your plans at the last minute then the answer is a firm yes I can see you, you can hire an uber, or lyft or driver for me and we are in agreement!

If you have a life and important plans in Chicago like a play to attend or friends to visit then give me three days notice and let’s all make sure I get there at the time you need without you having to pay my cab fare because I will make sure I take a train to see you and be ready fifteen minutes early just to make sure I am not late for you! Treat me like a professional and you will receive the best I have to offer you.

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Chicago Tantra Massage presented authentically by Goddess Diana

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Couples Massage and Couples Tantra in Chicago ♥❤

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.

You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breath into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.

I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.

I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.

My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist

Tantra Etiquette before contacting your Muse Goddess Diana

amy-winehouse-black-and-whiteHello everyone! I am here to share a new page I have uploaded to my main website which is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com. I am human just like you! I have good days and foul days. I speak to many people on a daily basis and most people don’t have a clue what I am offering because they think I am a “madam” with “girls” working for me or they looked at my photo galleries and they are assuming I am offering much more than tantra massage. I am assuming most of these people are finding my main google page but they never bothered to read my main website at all.

I even speak to a great deal of Indiam men from India who seem super excited that I am offering traditional tantra yoga massage but then after I spend a good thirty minutes speaking to them on the phone they bombard me with extra GFE requests asking me for the same price will I spend the night?! So tell me how would you feel after speaking to a majority of men or women who have not read your site and after explaining repeatedly what you do and don’t offer and the still expect much more than tantra massage?

For anyone that is deeply confused with what I am offering I am sharing all my information here on etiquette so there is no more confusion again.

Etiquette for the Optimal Tantra Experience

Dear potential new Guest, due to the large numbers of calls I receive, I felt it necessary to include this index page to help you understand how to make a good connection with me initially.

I do know how “awkward” it can be to reach out to a complete stranger you find on the internet. New guests might be fearful or have misconceptions about the nature or definition of Tantra. After reading the contents of my site you may still be confused about what i am offering or you might be genuinely shy. You are welcome to engage in a thirty minute question and answer over the phone with me but I will charge you a fee for my time.

My site is extremely informative in fact the testimonials section will give you a very graphic idea of what I can offer you. If however you are still in doubt you are encouraged to arrange a private and in depth phone conversation with me for the fee of $50 for a full thirty minutes. I am happy to answer your questions but I will not spend my time with anyone explaining in a graphic nature what we will be doing on the phone for FREE. My website is very detailed and I am happy to hear from you only if you are prepared to hire me for your first tantra session or only if you are prepared for the simple verification process before I receive you as a new guest.

All new Guests are expected to provide me with a real legal name, age range and occupation. I am not comfortable working with anyone who provides me with an “alias”. All your information will be kept private and I will never share your personal information with anyone but I do need to know who you are before we meet in person. If you have met with me before in the past feel free to remind me of who you are again and if you send me a photograph that will definitely jar my memory. I want this process to be seamless, and your cooperation and willingness to share yourself with me will make me feel more comfortable about seeing you either for the first time or for a repeat session.

I am always polite and I work best with people who respect me as a good friend or confidante. If I feel a lack of concern or brusk tone in your voice, I might not wish to see you, especially if you are awkward and nervous on the phone when you communicate with me. I suggest you be yourself and help me understand what your goals are for our shared time together even if your only goal is relaxation therapy. Introduce yourself to me and If we have a bad connection on the phone where we are both in an area of bad reception please do not be aggravated with me or frustrated if I ask you to repeat yourself twice. I know cell phones are not perfect and I’d love to be able to see you and answer your “brief” concerns over the phone. If you honestly think you have too many questions for me then be honest with yourself and hire me for a thirty minute conversation before you commit to seeing me for the first time.

I would prefer several hours notice if you would like a late evening session with me. I try and keep myself available for scheduling sessions between the hours of 10am till midnight but this does not mean I want to accept your call at 10 pm or later. If you are seeking an evening session please call me between the hours of 10 am till 9pm. Do not assume I am available at YOUR beck and call. You may come across one of my ads online late at night at the very last minute impulsively but I may not be able to receive you on your “whim”. Treat me like a professional and give me a few hours notice if you want a late evening session. I can work with your late schedule but I need to be prepared to receive you for a late night session. If you know you need a session with me early in the morning then please call me the day before so I am ready for you before my normal business hours.

I have the right to refuse any caller who I do not feel a good connection with. If you seem brusk, inebriated, irritated, or otherwise rude I may not wish to see you. I am always willing to work with your schedule as long as you give me adequate notice. If this is your very first time calling me and I do not know you personally I will not answer your text messages or answer your questions by text ever. Text messages are reserved for clients who I already recognize as being part of my contacts list of known guests. I will delete all your text messages to me unless I already know you and unless you introduce yourself to me so I know who you are. Text messages do not take the place of a good email or a good phone conversation. Please only contact me by email at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and call me directly on my cell phone at 312-339-7707 when you are ready to schedule your session with me.

If you are a couple seeking Couples Tantra, contact me by email first and give me as much information about the two of you as you possibly can. Tell me what your goals are and let me know what days and times suit your schedules. I require a small deposit for all new couples who are visiting me — no exceptions. I need at least a full 24 hours notice for all couples Tantra sessions and need both of you to be prepared to commit to a full three hour session or longer. Do not expect me to shorten your first session with me but if you have seen me at least once before we can condense our second session to a full 2 hours.

Gender and Races

I cordially welcome all gender fluid people to my Tantra Services whether you are a same sex couple or you identify as both masculine or feminine or in transition. All races are accepted to receive my services the only requirement I have is that I feel safe so all new guests or old guests may verify who they are using their real legal name and treat me with the kindness and respect that I will give to you whether you call me directly over the phone or decide to email. If I have seen you before I again must remind you I would love it if you would email me your photograph and legal name and occupation so I can remember you as our safety and discretion will always be foremost in my mind. My only requirement is that you are polite and courteous to me on the phone or by email during our initial contact. The only people I refuse to see are individuals I can not even carry out a good conversation with. All polite, educated, caring and thoughtful beings of any race or gender is always welcomed to try one of my Tantra Ceremonies.

I would also like to include boundaries as a subject matter of importance for both you and me. Tantra is about establishing healthy, positive boundaries and being able to communicate your goals and boundaries in a healthy, positive and loving way. I never want you to feel violated in any way during our shared time together. If you have never met me before you are welcome to send me an email with a list of your goals and healthy boundaries. Let me know what you feel safe exploring and please let me know what your limits are. If you were violated, raped or molested please let me know this important information. The very last thing I wish to do is make you feel unsafe or frightened. Tell me what your limitations are and let me know again when you meet me for the first time in person.

I myself have boundaries that I will share with you now. I am not an Escort service but I do consider myself to be a Muse and a companion. I do not feel comfortable being expected to engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients. I am an educator, a friend, a professional tantra massage therapist and a Reiki master but I do not wish to engage in intercourse during my tantra ceremonies under any circumstance. When you agree to hire me for the first or second or fifth time you are contracting my healing services solely for your pleasure or education but not as your Sacred Prostitute. Do not expect me to bend these rules for you. I also do not feel comfortable working with you if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If you are inebriated chances are you won’t remember much about our session and it will be a complete waste of your money. Treat me with respect and make sure to give me adequate notice if you want to see me. If you are too drunk for the session I may decide not to work with you at all until you are sober at a future date and time. Our shared ceremony is sacred and I myself will be prepared to be clear headed and lively enough to give you the attention you deserve so I expect the same etiquette from you.

If you are seeking a half day or full day of Tantra with me please give me a full 24 hours notice so I can prepare a very elegant ceremony you will find memorable. I require a small deposit for half day and full day Tantra ceremonies and if you have a true emergency please give me as much notice as you can and your deposit will be used for a future session. I do understand that sometimes medical or family emergencies can prevent you from seeing me so you are welcome to rebook for a future session without any drama. If however it is your first time seeing me and you cancel an hour before our session you will be expected to pay for a future session in FULL before we establish trust.

Overnight Stays are Possible for night owls like you and me:

I am always available to help you achieve a well thought out Tantra Escape and my fees for an overnight stay are 1600 which covers an exclusive overnight stay package with foods you wish for me to stock up on ahead of time and a very posh setting for our overnight Tantra Ceremony. My rate for this overnight stay is not up for negotiation under any conditions and you will be able to modify the time we begin our session if there is a delay in your schedule. A deposit for an overnight stay is required before our evening together and you are welcome to pay me the remainder once you arrive. My rates reflect the time, energy, and creativity I put forth to make our overnight stay a memorable one so please do not ask me graphic or explicit questions via text, phone or email or I will not be able to accept you as a new Guest.

POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS and PRAISE for the Goddess

If you have enjoyed our shared time together please provide me with a paragraph or two in a private email to me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com You can provide me with an alias you wish for me to use and naturally I will keep your legal name a mystery as I will never betray your confidence ever on my public website. I can always use wonderful new reviews and testimonials on my testimonials section and I will only use the name you have provided at the end of your review. If you feel moved I would especially love it if you referred me to your close personal friends or business coworkers and you are welcome to write me a review on TER or any review board. If you were not especially pleased with our time together I would prefer if you would share that feedback with me in private by email so that I can improve my performance and see what I am doing wrong but please refrain from airing your grievances in a public forum I’d rather receive these messages from you in private just like I would never place your real name in a public setting If I were unhappy with an event.

GIFTING MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED AND LOVED

I never expect gifts from you but in the event you wish to surprise me with something special and it’s a gift from your heart I would love to list my favorite items to receive:

Gift Certificates: Free People, Verizon Wireless, Sephora, AMC movie theaters, Top Shop, and Agent Provacateur a lingerie boutique in Chicago and New York.

Scent: I love organic essential oils so you may indulge me with pure essential Vanilla oils, Lavender oil, Bergamot oil, chocolate oil or pure organic coffee essential oils.

Computer: I am in dire need of a new laptop as my apple computer here is out of date and I would love to add new features which I can not do with my current laptop from 2008 🙂

Edibles and Perishables I love a good dessert wine such as Moscato or Sauterne. My favorite chocolates are from Leonidas, Teuscher and La Maison du Chocolat. My most favorite flowers to receive are roses or any purple flower you can find such as a french tulip

I hope all your questions have been answered after reading these brief paragraphs. I enjoy meeting new guests and I love it when I hear from old clients from my past. I want you to feel completely safe and loved during all of our shared ceremonies and I truly want to keep our phone interactions just as positive, professional and loving.

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Namaste, Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator A Specialist in Unconditional Love* Journey with me Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

Phone: 312.339.7707 (mobile)

Beat the Winter Hibernation syndrome in Chicago with your Tantra Muse!

the-shining-jack-nicholson-stanley-kubrickWell I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.

So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.

So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.

My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.

I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!

Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.

Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.

You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.

During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.

Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.

I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.

Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.

Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.

If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.

Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!

Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
Muse
Tantra Massage therapist
Sound Healer
Rebirthing breath

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707

The Art of Becoming or evolving into a Sacred ♡♥ Intimate ❤

What to you is the true definition of Intimacy? What does the word Sacred mean? I believe that if you infuse an act with love and meaningful intentions that is creating a state of Being holy or Sacred. The word Sacred is used in many religious cults and belief systems. When we call someone or something sacred we immediately create a Silent act of consecrating that person or that belief system with an out of this body experience or Spiritual connotation.

I myself would rather be referred to as a Sacred Intimate rather than a “provider” yet we all use the word “provider” because we are of Service and we can be of use to someone as a service during a time of need. I see myself as a Sacred healer, a shaman, a muse, a confidante and a Guide but I still have human needs and I still possess weaknesses, ego struggles and inner conflict just like every one else on this Earth.

I strive to create a sense of play, sacredness, enthusiasm and Reverence during my daily walks with my dog or errands or healing tantra massage ceremonies. The term ceremony is an act of creating a time out of body experience that establishes boundaries, communication, symbols and intention. I am not just giving a “session” I am giving of myself. I want to infuse our time together with all of my positive energy and connect with you in a way that you feel “touched” and held sacred.

Sometimes it can be a struggle for any two people to connect and form a bond of intimacy. The act of having a conversation is intimate and just as important as sitting in silence, gazing quietly into your partner’s eyes. I allow you to simply be you, in the moment with me. I am offering much more than a deep tissue massage or a few hours of pampering; I am actually offering you the capacity to heal fully and transcend through trauma or pain to full joy.

You can always contract the services of an escort if you crave a bit of touch but you can make a conscious choice to select a Guide with real skills in the healing arts who can offer you not only a bit of companionship but true tools and skills you will learn and be able to integrate with all your future partners and relationships.

A Sacred Intimate wants to see your heart soar and take flight. A Sacred Intimate possesses intuition. She can see clearly into your pain or your craving to be seen and touched. She will cherish you and make you feel free to experience unconditional love for yourself. She is the Empath, the Mother and the Muse who awakens your Spirit and causes you to Question yur identity and current belief systems.

The Sacred Intimate is the Sacred Mother always smiling upon you and allowing you to make choices even if they are poor choices she never judges. The art of Sacred Intimacy involves safe boundaries. You both agree or make a Sacred pact and contract to speak to each other with complete attention and full respect. If anything triggers you or makes you feel unsafe or enraged you delicately request of the Sacred Intimate to stop and speak with you about your feelings as they are occurring. You share your joy, your memories and your fears. You explore these array of feelings with her because you know she will not judge you or the situation. If you feel the need to stop the session midway through you share that with her and you may want to continue at a later date or never again. Again there are no judgements here for as long as you are willing to try and be who you are in your authenticity.

Your agreement to begin your journey is all that your Sacred Intimate requires of you. If you are willing to at least let go of your fears and feel what the energy is like as opposed to just “imagining” what it can be like then that is all that matters. Try new things with your Sacred Intimate. Go outside and explore the city with your Sacred Intimate; you don’t have to be restricted or confined into one activity in an inside area. You are free to explore every sensual aspect of yourself.

I hope you join me this week in Chicago or maybe you might wish to sponsor me in your home city.

Goddess Diana
Sacred Intimate, Muse, Reiki Master, Massage therapist
and Confidante

Couples welcome!
http://www.tantrabutterfly.comDiana Sacred Intimate

How Tantra can change your outlook on life and well being ♬♫

First of all if you are one who always resists change the practice of tantra and allowing a tantra Muse or tantra Guide to work with your intimacy issues or open your chakras will help you release old belief systems. You can hold onto your anger, your grudges, your sadness and your fear but in time your body will be rebel and you will be forced to change whether you are ready for the change or not.

We are in a constant state of flux day to day, second by second and as years go by we release our patterns or find road blocks showing us that if we don’t change our health may suffer or we might lose jobs that we once thought were always stable. If we don’t adjust our outlook and become a bit more creative and flexible we find that opportunities might cease to exist.

The practice of yoga, tantra massage, deep tissue massage and breathing helps us “release” anything in our consciousness that no longer serves us. Have you ever noticed the same body injuries repeating themselves in your life? Repeat illness or injuries are strong signs that you are going to need to change because there is a pattern in your life that you may be overlooking and you might ignoring your psyche.

We evolve each time we have a reiki healing and we can release old energy patterns each time we try something new. If you have never before tried Tantra with your partner I suggest contacting me in the city of Chicago this week because I wish to explore Couples Tantra with Beginners.

Tantra Couples for beginners need only take 90 minutes of your time and one of you will be the recipient of my Conscious touch with breathing instructions and guidelines so that your partner can learn some basic touch and breathing skills that you can practice on each day during your work week. If you can make time out in your lives for this Co creation of Sacred Space you can release all the negative toxins that may be preventing you from learning and growing together in your partnership.

I am here in Chicago and so excited to help you release your fears and help you move onto a better place within yourselves ready and able to change and move forward.

Goddess Diana
Reiki Master, Conduit, Tantra Muse,
Counselor and Couples Tantra Educator
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