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You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

Treat me like you would treat a dear friend and I will easily be inspired to Mirror your thoughtfulness.IMG_20190828_200535_708

Do not disrespect me or violate my boundaries

Right after I finished eating my delicious sushi meal …I had a very strange urge to go online and Google up my public tantra page TANTRA BUTTERFLY and found this ugly and SLANDEROUS review which of course brought my score of 4.6 back down to 4.4

On Monday against my better judgment I accepted an extremely low almost HUMILIATING discounted price for my tantra massage services by a legally blind and EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE blind man who is a life coach who actually has a Facebook profile.

After going all the way from Schaumburg in the pouring rain and incurring my own personal expenses to take transportation to him I accepted a fee of $250 for 2 full hours of tantra massage.  Please note the price was agreed on for a tantra massage NOT an escort session!

I am not a prostitute nor am I an escort service. I am a trained Reiki Master and Licensed tantra educator from Source School of tantra with 25 years of experience in alternative healing, tantra massage, reiki and deep tissue massage.

During the final 30 minutes of our time together Muhammed Noman asked to go down on me not once but twice! I declined his PROPOSITION, packed up all my belongings and left unceremoniously. At this particular point I felt disgusted, disgraced, disrespected and dishonored.

He was warned that if he attempted to charge back our session or slander me online I would post his actions against me on my online blog and on all forms of my social media here and on my YouTube channel.

I’m warning people in my field not to take him on as a client because he chose to retaliate against me and because he has in some way defiled me online and tried to violate my personal boundaries and safety.

Here is the review he posted of me two days ago on my public business page:

Muhammad Noman Ahmed

2 reviews

2 days ago

My personal experience with Diana was very obnoxious. I am disabled and her behavior towards me was very disrespectful. She is very unfriendly and rude and I would never recommend her services

TONIGHT I decided to include his behavior because I have every right to end a session if my boundaries are violated and my personal safety is threatened.

Please do not think that just because you have a disability you are entitled to a huge discount and that you are entitled to any services you wish to receive even though it is not part of the menu of offerings.

I will not tolerate being violated, slandered and blackmailed especially if I was overly generous and went out of my way to offer a greatly reduced price for my tantra massage services.

There is a VAST difference between what I offer and what an escort service chooses to offer.

I am not comfortable crossing that fine line with any of my clients. If I were a professional escort service I would be changing $600 per hour and not $250 for two full hours at a whopping bargain basement price for a selfish, manipulative, emotionally abusive misogynist like MUHAMMAD NOMAN AHMED.

I actually had a very strong premonition against working with him especially since he wanted to know if I give discounts to people with disabilities. I have no qualms offering a BIT of a discount but he actually received my services for less than half of what I normally charge.

From this point on I will need to be much more DISCERNING and careful about who I work with.
Just because someone has a DISABILITY doesn’t mean they are allowed to disrespect you or violate your work and personal boundaries.

Just because an individual is a professional therapist or life coach it doesn’t mean they are not emotionally unstable, retaliatory and MANIPULATIVE.

I have boundaries and I am allowed to state my boundaries and end a session prematurely or abruptly if I am not being honored and respected.

People in my field are often manipulated, taken advantage of, slandered, belittled and blackmailed if we refuse to offer certain services that violate our personal code of safety and ethics.

I have morals and boundaries just like any other trained business professional and I am allowed to have genuine feelings if I’m being emotionally abused by any of my clients.

I will not tolerate bullies who hire me under the false assumption that my VALUE and WORTH is less than any other human being.

No one has an right to force me to do any sexual act that goes against my freewill.
My body is sacred. It may be that this particular individual MOHAMMED NOMAN AHMED doesn’t feel I have value considering how much time he received from me for less than half my normal price but I see things differently.

I was sent in excess of 20 text messages from this unsavory, unethical man who calls himself a life coach. He was incessant that Monday was ideal for us to meet and that he could only afford $250 for 2 hours.

I personally had to travel all the way from the suburbs, incur my own traveling expenses and visit him in a dangerous neighborhood only to be insulted by him when he requested to EAT ME!

YES he asked me twice for sexually exploitive services for a BARGAIN BASEMENT PRICE.
Muhammed Noman Ahmed is an example of a client I DO NOT WISH TO WORK ON.

I May decide not to accept anyone who requests sliding fees based on this particular negative and exploitive experience.

I had of course missed my last bus for the evening and I was forced to spend $30 of my own money just to get home safely and when I did get home trust me I had a good cry.

I hope that people understand that EMPATHY and COMPASSION and RESPECT should always be extended to any sex worker or sex educator that you encounter.

Please treat us as you would treat any business professional and if you are refused a service and you are told A FIRM NO then don’t be childish by retaliation with fake, unfair, unjust reviews.

Now I still have a lot left to say because I’m not quite over my anger.  I have two pets I take care of, no family members, two separate sets of storage fees, a huge monthly phone bill for my private business, ongoing website costs and high weekly rental fees. If you think I will tolerate abusive behavior and bullying I won’t.  I have ZERO tolerance for slander especially when I know I issued a genuinely generous discount to anyone who needed a sliding fee discount.

When I contracted to work with Muhammed Noman Ahmed (life coach at 310-536-6289) he claimed he had read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com in full. If you read my website CAREFULLY you will plainly see I have a full page dedicated to ETIQUETTE.  On my ETIQUETTE page you will read that I’m not a professional escort.  I am not offering services that you would receive from a paid escort. My fair pricing is not a substitute or POOR MAN’S version of a low budget option for clients who are seeking escort services but simply can’t afford these higher prices.  I was BEYOND ANGRY AT this man Muhammed Noman Ahmed for taking advantage of my generous discount then asking me twice towards the end of our session if he could EAT MY PUSSY.  Obviously this individual had shown me he regards me as a bargain basement cheap whore for rent because he devalues women in my field or all women in general.

I do not offer escort services.  I teach goddess worship, I offer tantra bathing ceremonies, I’m a level 3 reiki master and I’m a licensed tantra educator.  I am not for sale. My body is NOT FOR SALE.  I AM NOT a human punching bag. My services are available to anyone who genuinely seeks a traditional tantra session or a fully clothed reiki session or cuddle therapy session.  This particular individual thought he could get away with lying about what truly transpired during our time together in his small studio apartment on Foster Avenue.

Can you imagine how upset and violated I felt being PROPOSITIONED after I spent half my day traveling to his apartment in the rain, unpacking all my essential oils and incense and working DEEPLY on his major muscle groups?  I put everything I spiritually had within me to create a safe, loving, healing vibe to this unsavory, ungrateful, perverse pervert whose only true motivation was to see if he could take full advantage of me based on his disability then solicit me for something I don’t even offer on my website! If this is the way most Muslim men view women in my industry then I need to advise my fellow sex workers to be extremely cautious about who they choose to work on simply for safety reasons.  No one likes to be grossly taken advantage of or psychically abused.

I warned him that I would share publicly what he did to me on my social media if he chose to slander me and tonight I am sharing this factual story of what transpired in his home.  I of course had missed my last bus to my home and incurred an additional expense late at night just to make it back to my place by midnight.  I had a good cry that evening and felt deeply hurt, enraged and disappointed with how I was treated with complete disdain and disrespect.  It is NOT OKAY for anyone to treat a sex educator or tantra yoga therapist this way.  Every individual has triggers and boundaries and I felt energetically raped that evening by a so called, self proclaimed life coach.  I definitely have a strong sense of foreboding before taking on certain clients and in Mohammad’s case I feel regretful that I worked with him despite my strong intuition against seeing him.

I’ve said everything I wish to say here this evening and I decided that tomorrow I’ll be creating a special video about how awful it feels to genuinely give someone your very best and then have that same individual cheapen the healing experience by soliciting illegal sexual favors that you are uncomfortable offering.  I also wish to add that when Muhammed Noman Ahmed chose to write a derogatory google review two days ago he not only insinuated I was abusive to people with disabilities but he lied about my normally kind and generous giving nature. If I wish to defend myself based on my moral code and end a session because I no longer feel safe and respected then that is my freewill and choice to make based on someone’s disrespectful and vile actions and behavior.  Being legally blind does not excuse anyone for acting disceitfully or being manipulative.  If I feel threatened and or dishonored I have every right to leave 20 minutes early especially after I’ve already overextended myself by giving someone an overly GENEROUS discount.

I hope anyone reading this article will digest everything I have written and KEENLY intuit that everyone has boundaries and everyone no matter who they are and no matter what profession they choose is entitled to complete respect as a human being with valid emotions and sensitivities.

Just because you choose to hire a sex worker doesn’t mean you own their soul or their body.

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Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.

 

If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… http://www.Tantrabutterfly.blogspot.com 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach

312-339-7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.

Tantra Massage and Tantra Therapy in Chicago and all cities to keep you feeling loved ♥

So hello again everyone who takes the time to keep up with my blogs and Tantra musings.
Yes as you can see I am a fan of Amy Winehouse I just wish I could have had the opportunity to work with her in person and maybe help heal her heart Center and get her feeling more aligned and good about herself.

The main reason I write here is writing is very enjoyable for me and if you have not discovered my main website I would love for you to click onto to it and read my testimonials and the articles. I have not done any recent photo gallery changes because I was not particularly inspired with a special theme but I am getting close to a complete change soon enough and will do updates to my photo gallery once I change my “look” again.

I invite you to please click onto my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and when you feel the urge to finally meet me please set up a special time when you know you won’t be interrupted so you can finally taste tantra for yourself and understand how it is a building block to get you to better lifestyle changes.

In the meantime I do have facebook pages for you to enjoy and you can look up my pages which are Tantra Butterfly, Goddess Diana and Camouflage Butterfly. I have been on every form of social media for quite some time now because I want you to know I have nothing to hide and I am not ashamed of the career path I have chosen since I was in my early twenties.

I have copied and pasted some information for you from my facebook pages so feel free to visit my pages and like them on facebook if you feel inclined to support my cause.

Tantra Butterfly
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Hello beautiful people of Chicago! So I have not written anything here for a while but I do have a regular blog where I try and keep people informed of my visits to different cities and topics that interest me.
If you have not had time to view my blog please visit it here at http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com and I have written many essays when I am on road trips and when I return to Chicago.
As fate would have it I am still here visiting Chicago and I normally do not like spending my winters here but enough people from my past have kept me busy enough to warrant me staying for a while longer and I get requests once in a while from people out of town who wish to try one of my full day tantra retreats.
What I have learned about tantra is it keeps you in “hope”. A lot of people reach out to me because their energies are shut down and they have just left a relationship. Our chakras do shut down from non use and initially a chakra will shut down for its own protection but if you over do it you begin to realize that the shut down chakras like your heart energy or sensual centers can close down your creativity and all our energy centers flow into each other so you may notice or feel stagnation like you are in a stuck place and do not know where to start to get the energy flowing again.
When you are in love then you feel more “hopeful” about everything and challenges are not complicated because you feel supported from your loved one. Your body takes on a glow and you feel a rush of good vibes. Once your love is no longer there in the background like a loud support team you feel almost as if the love was never real at all. I am not saying all people feel crushed but typically there is a grieving process where your heart mourns and you are feeling a retreat and or a retractions of energy. Everything becomes more of a chore again and you are less inclined to want to socialize immediately.
if you find yourself feeling like you are no longer yourself you need to resist the temptation to keep to yourself indefinitely and consider participating in life again which means you should force yourself to attend plays, group activities and fun events by yourself or with platonic friends so you feel you can support your own joy.
I always welcome singles and couples to work with me when they are not feeling that “joy”. Your inner well being is very complex and you can’t expect yourself to be a lone wolf or solitary every day of the year. Pets are wonderful companions and we find kinship and solace from their company and unconditional love but they still depend on you so you should practice positive self care on a daily basis and pour self love into your heart just as much as you love your animals or your closest friends.
Let me be your support system when you feel you are ready to start opening up your chakras again. I have many sacred techniques I love to use and cuddling is one of them. I am a huge fan of massage and cuddles to help you feel so alive and refreshed that you are back to feeling more like you.
Every tantra muse or healer is here to help you feel more nurtured, more awakened and more abundant. Tantra keeps you here not there in the past mulling over regrets. I am not here to reprogram you but I am here to help you charge up your own chakra bodies and your own potential for self healing.

We need more than food, shelter and money to keep us feeling in tune. If you go without nurturing for too long it will affect your motivation and your creative purpose. Let me help you manifest more positivity in your life and I hope you feel motivated to call me for a tantra healing if you are in Chicago this week.

And I encourage you to call me with questions because I do know not everyone is familiar with what I do and there are many misconceptions and false assumptions.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse,
Tantra Yoga Educator
Lomi Lomi Massage therapist
Bodyworker
Healer
Chakra balancing
Sacred Space Facilitator
Couples Tantra Coach
312-339-7707

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707

Couples Tantra in Chicago to help regenerate trust in your relationship and self awareness.

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Dear Audience, I hope everyone here had a peaceful Labor Day Holiday. I myself balanced play, work and some wonderful fun self love activities into my weekend.

I met a wonderful couple this weekend from Missouri and it was their first opportunity to receive couples Tantra so not only were they open to touch but they came here to Chicago without any misconceptions, bias, bad experiences or expectations.

I feel that when you are open to what the energy of Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage can do for you and your relationship you end up receiving so much more than what you could have possibly anticipated. Of course when you have misconceptions and you base your new experience on sex videos then yes you might be let down. Not everyone is going to receive multiple orgasms the first time they come to work with me with their partner. Some people feel a tingling in their limbs or a gentle heat vibration along their spinal column but do not actually have the ability to reach orgasm in front of their partner especially not if they are shy or self conscious when meeting with a sex educator.

I am so pleased when people are just open to sensing their own energies and finally being aware of the transference of energy from their own body to their partner’s body. We have a tendency to numb our body’s ability to sense touch and tantra yoga and massage helps your body open up so that your concerns are gone and all you are aware of is your own body. You might feel weightless or timeless during a couples tantra ceremony and my goal is to make both of you feel more vital, awakened but centered and calm.

The following is a testimonial I just received and I am happy to share it with all of you especially if you have never tried a couples tantra session before in the hopes that you will understand what Tantra Massage can do for you and your frame of mind.

Goddess Diana,
Thank you for your gift of touch this past weekend and thank you for accommodating my wife and I for our second year anniversary and making this a most unique Labor Day Holiday. My wife encouraged me to try tantra through out the years we dated but I really was not ready for the journey and honestly I had no real idea besides videos we had watched together what Tantra Massage or Tantra yoga practices involved. I don’t normally even receive massages and when you touched me and I could actually feel your presence I understood exactly what I’ve been missing all this time and now I do realize I have a lot of “catching up” to do.

I could feel your energy move through me and when you and I started working on my wife I felt a tingling sensation vibrating between my fingers and my wife’s skin as if we were electrically charged and feeding each other energy. I almost felt weightless and timeless if I can put all this into words for you. We scheduled you for a full three hours and to me it felt like we spent a good seventy five minutes together because our session moved through so quickly and without effort. I had no expectations and I just trusted you to guide me.

My wife and I were tingling for hours after our session and we both felt awake but peaceful at the same time. I can say I felt safe, loved, renewed and peacefully content after our couples session. Also I am so happy with your hotel suggestion because we had a gorgeous view of the city and loved the spa bath that we all shared together so now I even know of a great place to stay in the future the next time we visit Chicago.

I want you to know I am more open now to the possibility of exploring other aspects of Tantra and I do now wish to learn more about the energy centers involved especially when you helped activate my sexual energy. Our session as a couple this weekend meant a lot to us and I am now better prepared to want to explore other venues like tantra workshops because I feel a lot less self conscious about this entire journey. Your patience, your compassion and your ability to infuse laughter into our ceremony has left a strong impression on me. I guess I never valued touch till I saw the smile on my wife’s face this weekend and I never felt so open and ready to learn more! Thank you for being so generous with your time. I know I paid you for three hours but I noticed maybe it went on a bit longer even though the time went so fast. Next time we might see you for a whole day if we have the time and if you are still in Chicago.

Thank you again for taking the time to reach deep within me and helping me feel and sense energy I never felt before. I never realized how touch starved I was or how energetically charged a good massage could be till I experienced your touch! I realize now that touch, sexual chemistry, love, connection, and energy are all interwoven. I am even expressing myself much differently than I used to and I am thankful for people like you that actually do have passion for the work they do! I don’t ever want to let myself get so “shut down” again.

Jonathon and Krysten from Kansas, Missouri

As I leave you with this information and thoughts to ponder I invite you to peruse my website for additional offerings just in case you have that urge to free up your own energy or come visit me here in Chicago or sponsor me in your city for Couples Tantra Massage. Please visit my main site at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly here at 312-339-7707

I look forward to your call.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Kundalini Awakening is different for everyone but always uniquely yours to experience

What is kundalini Energy? Unless you have had a lucid dream or unless you have awakened in the middle of the night with an out of body experience it’s hard to understand exactly what a kundalini activation feels like.

I have had several kundalini experiences and MOST of them were non sensual in nature. I do have good memories of a rather soothing kundalini activation right after I received a good sports massage that was not sensual at all but rather healing. After my therapist left the room I received warm, soothing vibrations of gentle electricity along each of my vertabrae. I was unable to move my limbs or even open my eyes. I heard a gentle humming vibration buzzing and sounds in the room became muffled. I was a bit scared but realized it was me. My own energy was surging and I just had to go with it and relax without being scared and without judging. I must admit it is a bit scary when you feel your limbs are going numb or tingling but if you simply allow the energy to flow it can be revitalizing, uplifting or emotional. You might find yourself especially raw or over emotional for a day or two afterwards so I am not saying it’s fuzzy and cotton candy enjoyable. Sometimes a kundalini awakening is raw and jagged and jarring. You feel like you are becoming more irritable but if you see it as a process or a building block towards enlightenment then it is a trip worth taking and it is completely organic in nature.

During tantra we breathe a lot together. In fact during a session I will often take a moment to breathe deeply into my heart so I can activate my heart more fully and give more of my heart energy to my guest. I will encourage my guest to breathe fully so that energy is not just trapped in one chakra or space but circulates everywhere.

Last night I felt a more intimidating activation that was more forceful in nature. I was awakened from a lucid dream to a “back massage” and my spinal column felt as if there was a hand held back massage machine going over each area of my spinal column. By the time the vibration hit between my shoulder blades I even felt my heart palpitating! Obviously the kundalini energy I was storing these past few months was released and the energy was deeply felt by me to the point where my own heart chakra was being awakened and healed.

If you think Tantra massage and Tantra yoga is for “entertainment” purposes only then think twice. If you think you are ready to be awakened and make progressive baby steps towards becoming more spiritually and physically alive and awakened then tantra is a viable tool that will allow you to let go of what you don’t need. You will find that your priorities are changing and you will find yourself being more open to engaging in new activities and new routines or people and places.

Because kundalini energies can express themselves differently depending upon your energy level and where you are right now you can expect that your own sensitivities will be much different from mine because you are unique and my journey is not yours. I can only promise you that you will eventually be able to have a “safe” kundalini activation when the time is right for you for you to receive YOUR OWN unique ENERGIES.

If you feel ready to begin your first tantra healing with me I can be reached at (312) 339-7707. I strongly advise you to combine tantra massage, tantra kundalini yoga, white tantra and reiki together so that you feel more benefits. You will potentially become more open minded and less fearful of trying new ways of being and existing. You will definitely become more aware of your body and potentially become more in tune or psychic. I am open to working with you in tiny baby steps or you can explore a full day of tantra with me and learn all the basics in one day.

Sensual Muse Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.comAlexander Veronkov swan girl

The true intention of tantra massage is Not about achieving orgasm; it is about activating your ability to feel pleasure!

Everyone wants to know what it feels like to achieve a full body orgasm but few people understand that the true intention of tantra massage is to attain greater body awareness, mindfulness and a better connection to your own body. How do we learn to let go of our expectations? We learn to let go of our goals by simply focusing on our body. If you can be still and relax in the moment during a tantra healing or a tantra massage your body will feel “safe” and you are then giving your body permission to do what it needs to do to let go and feel blissful.
Bliss can either be attained through a yoga class, meditation, tantra massage or any pleasurable activity that takes you away from your ego or your mind. Yes I know this sounds very esoteric or erudite but tantra massage is so much more important than just a bodily response to pleasure.
It is true that we trigger all our pleasure zones or centers during a teasing tantra massage and light touch can be just as healing as a deep sports tissue massage. Never underestimate that a light, sensual stroke can uplift your spirits and heal your heart center in a way that is far more profound than a swedish massage. I recommend that if you are to fully appreciate a light touch you let go of all your prior expectations of what you have heard about tantra.
Some people are under the misconception that tantra is just about the sensual pleasure and the art of Eros; but true tantra is a spiritual journey and a real oasis you can return to often anytime you wish to balance out your body’s desires to be held sacred and your raw sexual energy. I would not go into a tantra ceremony with a long list of goals but focus on the breath and the results you achieve gradually over a few month’s time.
One needs to be patient with their tantra teacher and once you realize that the orgasm is simply a wonderful after affect of the energetic process of sensual awareness you can overcome your sense of fear and your lack of confidence with others.
You approach a tantra massage with an open heart and a willingness to learn more about yourself and your boundaries. If a touch is exceedingly pleasurable this is where you want to stretch out the breath and try and enjoy the sensations without guilt and without judgment. Do not think of having an orgasm. The major goal here is to feel a sense of being out of your body and out of your own mind. Do not think, do not doubt and just let the sensations unfold slowly. When you begin to feel numbness or tingling or warmth that is a good sign that your energy centers are beginning to communicate with each other and your sexual energy is traveling through all the different conduits slowly. Do not be disappointed with yourself if you only feel numbness. Do not worry if nothing seems to be build into the ultimate pinnacle of pleasure. You should relax and breathe in every sensation allowing the energies to flow where they need to be because energy tends to congregate in those areas of your body that needs the most healing.

Tantra is about renewal, regeneration and being fully present in each moment. We need to be patient with ourselves no matter how much or little we feel during a tantra ceremony. It is important to know that our body’s are wise and our body’s have an innate knowledge of what we are ready to experience regardless of whether we are able to achieve orgasm or not.The Mermaid