Hello 👋 as a current tantra healer you should expect an extremely soothing experience which will begin with a good conversation between you and your tantra goddess of choice.
I can only speak from my personal experience though and not all Goddesses. I am a low volume tantra goddess so my session begins with a conversation in person so I can discuss the goals of my clients. It’s very important to me that my guest is satisfied both physically and emotionally.
Once we discuss goals I may begin with some fun and playful exercises like breathing and gazing into one another’s eyes. We will hold hands and breathe deeply. Once we connect to one another energetically I focus on sensual touch, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy, sound healing and reiki.
My sessions don’t just focus on full body Kundalini activation. These are tantra ceremonies and I always encourage my clients to schedule a minimum of 90 minutes so we can include edging, and hold back as long as possible to help with issues such as PE and ED.
Many of my clients might have issues with post traumatic stress disorder so my sessions are composed of somatic healing with a strong emphasis on breathing deeply and slowly.
Tantra is about connecting to your partner and learning about creating safe boundaries. My male clients often request prostate massage and my female clients usually ask me to help them work through trauma so we focus on womb healing and yoni empowerment.
Tantra is the co creation of sacred space and learning how to love yourself unconditionally while tapping into your Kundalini energy. As you slowly awaken your Kundalini energy you help increase your intuition and you access your innate abilities like creativity, self expression, and self confidence. You can tap into your abundance as your chakras are gently awakened and aligned.
Tantra massage ceremonies help you feel more grounded and in tune with your inner joy. These ceremonies uplift you and keep you focused on the present moment. If you have a tendency to overthink a tantra healing will help you become more zen and meditative. Tantra yoga massage rituals help you transcend time and space as we slow down and exchange positive energy with one another. It’s like an out of body experience where you feel like you are dreaming yet you are grounded into your body.
visit my website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to schedule your first ceremony either for yourself to enjoy or as a couple seeking to enhance your spiritual and physical connection.
Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.
Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.
Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.
When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.
Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.
After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.
Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.
He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.
Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.
I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.
We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.
The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.
We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.
I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.
Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.
Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.
I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.
I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.
If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.
You aren’t required to add a #tantra #bathritual to your session but it will definitely enhance your time with me.
if you want to prepare a bath ahead of time for yourself in your own home before working with me it would definitely help me work with your energy.
the seasalt bath is composed of baking soda (a half box) and seasalt (1 or 2 cups).
This is all you need to clear and cleanse your Aura so whether you choose to hire me for the bath ritual or you bathe yourself in your own home this is a perfect start to any tantra ceremony
I include seasalt scrubs and massage the salt scrub over all the major chakras in your body when we’re together and we will be breathing in synchronicity harmonizing the #bijamantras and amplifying your energy prior to your #tantramassage
if it’s within your means and budget please allow me 24–48 hours and a substantial deposit so I may procure a beautiful suite with jacuzzi for two.
You are always encouraged to Read my website first prior to calling or emailing me.
Please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and get to know me from the videos. I post frequently and upload fresh content and flash sales and offers there.
Please introduce yourself via email tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com
or call me directly to schedule a tantra ceremony when you’re ready 312 339 7707
All new students of tantra are welcome to try my beginner’s level offerings and more experienced students may book advanced level tantra.
I welcome men, women and couples and look forward to meeting you for a unique and blissful escape.
Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.
I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website. Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.
So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.
By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.
Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.
New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.
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If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.
Hello 👋 I find myself to be extremely ✨ helpful here because I’m a leading tantra educator and tantra practitioner in Chicago, Illinois.
I just received a call from a very deluded man who assumed if he hired me for couples tantra all three of us would be engaged in a sexual threescore.
I myself am celibate and never engage in sexual intercourse with my students.
During my couples tantra massage I teach both partners how to breathe properly during the art of giving their lover a tantra massage and help them access kundalini energy.
I focus on reiki, nurturing touch, Lingham..honoring, yoni worship and balancing of the Chakras. I do not want to witness these couples engage in the sexual act of kama sutra nor do I offer it to my clients.
Tantra is about aligning all your chakras with your partners, eye gazing, unconditional love and boundaries. Tantra is not about wild sex or engaging in orgies. Tantra involves the co creation of sacred space ✨ and honoring the divine within yourself and your partner.
I ask you to refrain from contacting me if your intentions as a couple are impure in nature. I’m not interested in watching the two of you engage in sexual intercourse in front of me. I’m also not interested in getting involved in a threesome.
I’m a tantra massage therapist and teacher. I’m not a kama sutra coach.
Did you know #tantra is the quickest route to access and take back your personal power?
There are no short cuts to Good Health but I’ve had clients tell me one session with me saved them trips and visits to a psychologist. I’m not bashing the mental health field; but I’m saying that how you view yourself affects your physical well being.
For instance if you suffer from chronic gut issues it indicates an imbalance in your 3rd chakra (solar plexus). You would need to understand how to send positive healing messages to your belly to help heal whatever is going on in your gut.
During my #chicagotantra ceremonies I employ breathwork, sound healing, Aromatherapy and nurturing touch. I help you activate any trapped energies encouraging your kundalini to awaken which is used like medicine 💊 for your body to heal itself.
When I first started my career in this industry I was a huge people pleaser. Other people’s needs including my client’s and friends always came before my needs. I wasn’t one to cancel a promise or a date unless I was DEATHLY ill. I didn’t realize what a huge disservice I was doing to myself by putting myself last till my physical well being and emotional frame of mind deteriorated. I’d stifle and store up my pent up frustration and disappointment till I’d explode breaking those bonds with friends and clients irreparably. Now I temper and pace myself and I’ve aligned myself to attract clients who understand and respect my limitations and boundaries.
tantra will Give you your backbone back
Your chakras will be activated and you will have no choice left but to find your own voice and use your intuition instead of relying upon others to make these choices for you. It’s #Martinlutherkingday and I’m here available to help set up and co create #sacredspace with you if you want the opportunity to clear out what doesn’t suit you anymore– whether it’s intolerable living conditions, a stale job, or unhealthy toxic relationships.
You shouldn’t spend your days walking on eggshells 🥚
chicagotantra 🕉 invokes empowerment
Never forget who you are Endeavor to protect those who haven’t found their voice.
Do you feel a connection to what I write ✍
Do you feel comfortable working with me based on my blog and my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋
If you are ready to choose me as your tantra guide please follow the link to my online Chicago based tantra website here—>
Send me an introductory email to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Please include your full legal name and profession for Verification purposes
Send me a few links to your social media profiles such as LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and Google and give me a brief synopsis of your goals, expectations and budget.
I accept new students and couples seeking a solid and unique journey of the Chakras.
I intend to work this weekend–> not because I have to; but because I want to.
A new client from India visited me recently this week and asked me questions and one of his questions really stuck out.
He asked me if I get bored with my job since I do this every day. I was very surprised and amused and gave him the simplest answer. I said If I were miserable and bored I’d find another job to do.
I love my job…I hate NOT BEING BUSY!
I AM available every day at any time with proper notice, Preverification and a Deposit….
#tantra is a fulfilling and satisfying journey of self awareness, self healing and self empowerment.
When a client meets me in the middle, follows the breathing instructions and allows the process to unfold Miracles happen within one’s body and mind. It’s not a fluffy for entertainment purpose experience although I will not judge anyone for needing a blissful escape as their main goal.
I’m available this weekend contact me if interested in a #chicagotantra ceremony for yourself or as a couple
Well I haven’t been inspired to post for a while because I ran out of ideas; but last Thursday I met a very lovely Indian Ceo who provided me with an exciting outlook on his experiences during our two hour tantra ceremony.
I’m a believer in the healing powers of sacred touch and I make the time to receive at least one type of bodywork per week just for myself and to heal my mind and decompress.
I have not been busy unfortunately since last Thursday because everyone calling me was either extremely rude, very shy or misunderstanding the purpose of tantra massage. I tend to turn people away who are not in alignment with alternative healing and tantra yoga. I’d rather work with new guests who would appreciate my offerings and enjoy subtle energy and bodywork.
Last Thursday was different though because I noticed my new client knew exactly what he wanted– an opportunity to let go and receive vital energy.
During our time together he told me he saw a black tree in his mind’s eye 👁 and that beautiful colors of white, green, and purples were surrounding the 🌳 tree’s branches and flowers 💐 gathered everywhere. I let him go into great detail of everything he saw and felt. He shared that most of the energy was pulsating around his heart and torso during his kundalini Awakening.
He had no idea why all these colors were everywhere so I explained that when our chakras are aligned and activated you can actually see the colors affiliated with each major chakra body. Seeing the color green means your heart ❤ chakra is open; seeing white and purple 💜 lights signifies your crown chakra and Ajna have been activated. Our crown chakra is our connection to our higher selves and pranic..energies such as Chi. When our crown chakra is activated we can see beautiful white and purple lights and have a stronger more vital connection to Source or God energies.
You see you simply can’t learn about tantra yoga by reading a book or scanning information on YouTube or online on Google. Tantra is a legitimate and viable form of yoga that heals parts of your Soul, aligns your energy bodies (chakras), speeds up your metabolism, detoxifies, and opens up your intuition (ajna).
My new client got up to use my restroom frequently during our time together too because all forms of massage and energywork encourages waste product to move out of your body. He said he felt lighter like he had lost weight which obviously is a positive side effect of tantra yoga and massage therapy.
Tantra isn’t just about receiving a sensual massage. Tantra isn’t a fluffy experience where I merely focus on your pleasure. My tantra sessions are a unique journey of the chakras where I implement sound healing, breathwork coaching and deep tissue massage on your tight muscles. You will definitely feel lighter, more grounded and centered. You will feel tingly and the world 🌎 around you will be more rich and colorful.
If you are seeking compassionate and nurturing touch please visit my main website first–>
Read my website and then simply call me directly 312 339 7707 or email 📧 me for a faster response here
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com
You don’t have to write me a novel in your email but do include your goals, your full legal name, your profession, social media about yourself online and how many hours you’re seeking. I’d love to work with you if you are trying to achieve full body kundalini Shakti. If you are extremely sensitive to energy you will appreciate my offerings.
Hope to see you soon in Chicago’s Gold Coast ✨
Goddess Diana
certified tantra educator
certified reiki master
certified massage therapist
Available for paid coffee ☕ consultations and phone consultations
Couples tantra is available and tiny workshops in groups of three couples are welcomed if interested 🌟
My unique tantra ceremonies are a landscape of reiki, sound healing, breathing lessons, chanting, intuitive touch, aromatherapy, deep tissue trigger point massage and kundalini activation.
You will leave your tantra ceremony coming away with knowledge about your own body and how your chakras work. Your lips, fingers, toes and skull will tingle with warmth and your heart ❤ will be more open and responsive.
Another wonderful benefit of tantra yoga is an increase in your self awareness and intuition. Your crown chakra will be more receptive to Universal Chi giving you a feeling of reassurance and being less alone.
As we breathe together and focus on increasing your sexual energy you will feel an expansion of your Auric field. As your aura expands you will be more aligned with your purpose ✨ and more receptive to the opportunities around you to achieve your goals.
Your sexual energies will travel from the base of your spinal column all the way up your vertebrae to your stomach (solar plexus) and heart chakra. As your kundalini is awakened you will feel a tingling sensation within your fingertips and toes all the way up to the top of your skull 💀 (your crown chakra).
If you are unsure about which ceremony would suit your needs or you’re confused about my offerings please feel free to schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me this month.
All men, women and married couples are encouraged to schedule a multi hour journey of alternative healing, sound healing, therapeutic massage and authentic tantra yoga.
Call directly for additional information 312 339 7707
Don’t be caught off guard during our upcoming Mercury Retrograde which starts tomorrow (March 10) and lasts till June! During Mercury Retrograde expect last minute travel snafus, arguments, breakups, miscommunications and internet issues to occur.
It’s so important you distance yourself from the “drama” by realizing you do not have control over all these challenges. You should focus on relaxation, being centered and engaging in peaceful communication. Whatever you do, don’t sign new leases or contracts during a Mercury in Retrograde. Be mindful with the words you use; whether it’s verbal or written communication.
Book me during this Mercury Retrograde for an adventure of alternative healing, chakra balancing and kundalini activation. Once your body is fully relaxed you will be fully able to conquer any challenges that get thrown your way. Just focus on self care ❤ and I promise you this Mercury Retrograde will be a breeze!
Chicago tantra in the Gold Coast by Tantra Butterfly 🦋
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