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The true intention of tantra massage is Not about achieving orgasm; it is about activating your ability to feel pleasure!

Everyone wants to know what it feels like to achieve a full body orgasm but few people understand that the true intention of tantra massage is to attain greater body awareness, mindfulness and a better connection to your own body. How do we learn to let go of our expectations? We learn to let go of our goals by simply focusing on our body. If you can be still and relax in the moment during a tantra healing or a tantra massage your body will feel “safe” and you are then giving your body permission to do what it needs to do to let go and feel blissful.
Bliss can either be attained through a yoga class, meditation, tantra massage or any pleasurable activity that takes you away from your ego or your mind. Yes I know this sounds very esoteric or erudite but tantra massage is so much more important than just a bodily response to pleasure.
It is true that we trigger all our pleasure zones or centers during a teasing tantra massage and light touch can be just as healing as a deep sports tissue massage. Never underestimate that a light, sensual stroke can uplift your spirits and heal your heart center in a way that is far more profound than a swedish massage. I recommend that if you are to fully appreciate a light touch you let go of all your prior expectations of what you have heard about tantra.
Some people are under the misconception that tantra is just about the sensual pleasure and the art of Eros; but true tantra is a spiritual journey and a real oasis you can return to often anytime you wish to balance out your body’s desires to be held sacred and your raw sexual energy. I would not go into a tantra ceremony with a long list of goals but focus on the breath and the results you achieve gradually over a few month’s time.
One needs to be patient with their tantra teacher and once you realize that the orgasm is simply a wonderful after affect of the energetic process of sensual awareness you can overcome your sense of fear and your lack of confidence with others.
You approach a tantra massage with an open heart and a willingness to learn more about yourself and your boundaries. If a touch is exceedingly pleasurable this is where you want to stretch out the breath and try and enjoy the sensations without guilt and without judgment. Do not think of having an orgasm. The major goal here is to feel a sense of being out of your body and out of your own mind. Do not think, do not doubt and just let the sensations unfold slowly. When you begin to feel numbness or tingling or warmth that is a good sign that your energy centers are beginning to communicate with each other and your sexual energy is traveling through all the different conduits slowly. Do not be disappointed with yourself if you only feel numbness. Do not worry if nothing seems to be build into the ultimate pinnacle of pleasure. You should relax and breathe in every sensation allowing the energies to flow where they need to be because energy tends to congregate in those areas of your body that needs the most healing.

Tantra is about renewal, regeneration and being fully present in each moment. We need to be patient with ourselves no matter how much or little we feel during a tantra ceremony. It is important to know that our body’s are wise and our body’s have an innate knowledge of what we are ready to experience regardless of whether we are able to achieve orgasm or not.The Mermaid

How Tantra can change your outlook on life and well being ♬♫

First of all if you are one who always resists change the practice of tantra and allowing a tantra Muse or tantra Guide to work with your intimacy issues or open your chakras will help you release old belief systems. You can hold onto your anger, your grudges, your sadness and your fear but in time your body will be rebel and you will be forced to change whether you are ready for the change or not.

We are in a constant state of flux day to day, second by second and as years go by we release our patterns or find road blocks showing us that if we don’t change our health may suffer or we might lose jobs that we once thought were always stable. If we don’t adjust our outlook and become a bit more creative and flexible we find that opportunities might cease to exist.

The practice of yoga, tantra massage, deep tissue massage and breathing helps us “release” anything in our consciousness that no longer serves us. Have you ever noticed the same body injuries repeating themselves in your life? Repeat illness or injuries are strong signs that you are going to need to change because there is a pattern in your life that you may be overlooking and you might ignoring your psyche.

We evolve each time we have a reiki healing and we can release old energy patterns each time we try something new. If you have never before tried Tantra with your partner I suggest contacting me in the city of Chicago this week because I wish to explore Couples Tantra with Beginners.

Tantra Couples for beginners need only take 90 minutes of your time and one of you will be the recipient of my Conscious touch with breathing instructions and guidelines so that your partner can learn some basic touch and breathing skills that you can practice on each day during your work week. If you can make time out in your lives for this Co creation of Sacred Space you can release all the negative toxins that may be preventing you from learning and growing together in your partnership.

I am here in Chicago and so excited to help you release your fears and help you move onto a better place within yourselves ready and able to change and move forward.

Goddess Diana
Reiki Master, Conduit, Tantra Muse,
Counselor and Couples Tantra Educator
http://www.tantrabutterfly.comDiana soft focus nudes 4

Happy July 4th to all of Chicago land ♡❤

Marilyn monroe 4th of july

Have you ever wanted to try something new but you told yourself NO? Have you been delaying your first Tantra journey because you feel out of sorts or out of shape or you have been running yourself ragged and are so exhausted the thought of doing something relaxing never even occurred to you?
Well I am guilty of those sins myself. I remember not wanting to hire any of my Reiki Usui masters for a healing simply because I felt like isolating myself. I was tired, cranky, depressed and just negative. I finally called one of my favorite healers and when he spent quality time with me to help open up my blocked chakras I told him the truth about not wanting to be TOUCHED by anyone because I felt so depressed and fatigued. He paused and giggled a bit and said “WELL that’s what I am here for!!! That is the time when you should be calling me–when you are NOT feeling well!”

Yeah shame on me. Sometimes I get caught up on healing others and my true delight is to work with a few people who have a deep desire to heal. I feel good about myself when I can put someone back into “the game” but for some reason I seem to ignore my own body’s needs.
Well this is a time for healing and July 4th tends to be a very joyous occasion for many but not necessarily a fun time for people who need to retreat or fade away because of all the fireworks and fan fare. How can you just hide away from the world when Kaboom noises are everywhere and almost every event you wish to attend is filled with lively people screaming and in long lines?

Save a little time for yourself if you have to. Designate just a bit of “me” time into the mix and I think you will be okay. If you are always in the company of others and you don’t have enough time to do just “be” you are going to be resentful so store away some of your energy and DO NOTHING or get a relaxing massage or spend some time in nature.

Everyone have a safe and soothing July 4th Weekend!!!
Love Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com