Posts tagged “spirituality”
December 8, 2025 No comments

How to safely access your Kundalini Shakti 🐍

Maybe you’ve heard of Kundalini Shakti and read about it.  There is nothing harmful about learning how to activate your Kundalini energy if you practice gentle breathwork techniques and enjoy a bit of yoga 🧘‍♂️ every day.

Let’s define Kundalini Shakti the Power of the Serpent Goddess 🐍 who resides within your lower tailbone.

She is known as the coiled serpent Goddess who holds primordial, raw powers that will travel from the base of your spine and inch her way slowly by uncoiling…upwards through each of your #chakras leading you to be more spiritual, more intuitive and more aligned with your purpose.

Kundalini translated from Sanskrit literally means “coiled”. Once you learn to access your Kundalini energy you feel more connected to Source or a feeling of being connected and intertwined with Nature and Universal like force.

Once your own Lifeforce is activated you will feel tingling sensations, heat, cold shivers and you may laugh or release tears.  All of these energetic shifts are your body’s way of releasing trauma and shedding layers of stored memories.  

Meditation, yoga, chakra balancing, breathwork, pranayama, Tantra yoga and bodywork are all helpful activities that will help you slowly activate your dormant energy.

Never be fearful of my tantra massage ceremonies.  I will not be rushing you into a Kundalini awakening.  

A major traumatic experience like an automobile accident or other severe physical energy can potentially jolt your Kundalini Shakti awakening before your body is physically or spiritually prepared.  But one session with me will not shock or jolt your nervous system!

To book a paid phone or coffee ☕️ consultation please contact me via email 📧 

or by 📞 call me directly 312 339 7707

There is no charge to call me if you’re ready to schedule a tantra ceremony or reiki and sound healing session 

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Remember only a NDE (Near Death Experience) will be jarring to your Kundalini energy. A soothing tantra massage or Guided meditation with a Guru will not lead to any negative symptoms once your Kundalini energy is accessed. Some people see colors more vividly or feel tingly or hear buzzing but no one is physically injured during a gentle awakening of Kundalini Shakti.
November 24, 2025 No comments

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

November 21, 2025 No comments

Book me for a full day of Tantra for Thanksgiving Holidays

Yesterday was a new Moon 🌚 in Scorpio ♏ and what does Scorpio ♏ embody? Scorpio is mysterious and the opposite of shallow. Every Scorpio I’ve ever met values intensity with al their connections whether they are family, friends or lovers.

Scorpio ♏ seeks out intensity, drama, heightened spiritual exploration. If you have a good Scorpio friend or lover in your circle you understand their desire for meaningful communication not just a sexual encounter. Scorpios ♏ crave depth and they want to understand every part of you and be more than just a friend but a very important part of your Spiritual growth and your empowerment.

In honor of our New Moon in Scorpio ♏ I created a very special vessel of New Moon Water 💧 and you still have time to do this for yourself tonight and tomorrow as the New Moon waxes. Get yourself a glass jar with a lid and fill your jar with purified water 💧 and one or more crystals 🔮 like clear quartz or rose quartz. Add a pinch of Himalayan salt 🧂 or seasalt. Serenade your water with lovely sounds and place your jar on your balcony or by a window to absorb the energy of tonight’s New Moon. Make sure to bring your water inside before sun rise and drink a little bit of it daily. For more ideas 💡 please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and I post a full video of how to manifest using moon water.

Now how should we fulfill our desires on this New Moon? Focus on your dark side. Try to understand every aspect of your personality even the parts that embarass you or cause you to feel pain. Honor your dark aspects and understand exactly what you wish to attract to you. Wishing and manifestation takes patience and faith.

Try activities that will boost your self esteem and try to heal your sexual energy by strengthening your Kundalini Shakti.

My wish this new moon is attract some new serious students of tantra who want to spend hours exploring their power. When my guests heal I heal. When you breathe I breathe with you. Tantra is mutually beneficial. It is a sustainable power loop where we connect to one another’s energies. You will feel energized, empowered and seen for who you are.

Please visit my primary website for a list of ceremonies.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I am always available for paid coffee consultations and phone consultations in case you have questions and concerns about tantra, reiki, breathwork and sound healing.

If you are a couple here in The suburbs like Long Grove, Illinois, Barrington, Rosemont and downtown Arlington heights I will be happy to introduce the two of you to basic beginning level tantra ceremonies to a full day of Advanced teachings. I also travel and accommodate my clients who live in city of Chicago.

Call me directly to book a full or half day of healing 312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

April 16, 2025 No comments

In honor of Papa Legba

I’ve had Beautiful encounters with Papa Legba most of my life 

And this past Sunday I called upon his energy and within seconds my wish was fulfilled. I’ve also had positive experiences with other Beings …one Angel in particular. When you believe in Absolutely nothing you are Hollow inside. When you believe in Nothing you Access Nothing 

[Guardian of the crossroads: He is the guardian of crossroads, a place where paths converge, and is seen as the first spirit encountered when seeking communication with the spirit world. 

Mediator and communicator: He acts as a bridge between humans and the loa (spirits) in the Vodou pantheon, translating prayers and petitions. 

Opener of doors and pathways: He is known for opening doors, both physically and metaphorically, to new opportunities and positive paths. 

Trickster deity: While a helpful and revered figure, he is also known for his mischievous and playful nature. 

Symbolism:

Cane or walking stick: Represents his role as an elder and the bridge between worlds. 

Dog: Symbolizes protection, loyalty, and companionship. 

Keys: Represent his control over communication and passage. 

Colors red and black: Associated with his power and the crossroads. 

Worship and Practices:

Often invoked at the beginning of rituals and prayers to ensure messages reach the correct loa. 

Offerings to him include candy, rum, smoking pipes and tobacco, or cigars. 

His veve, a geometrical symbol, includes the cane, keys, and colors red and black.]

[EXCERPTED FROM GOOGLE SEARCH]

I’ve always felt a connection to Legba , I’m always drawn to toys, pennies, the colors red and black 🎩

candies….DOGS 🐕 

Legba also symbolizes St. Peter, St. Lazarus & St Anthony 

He is both a protector and Caretaker of children 

He is a trickster and intermediary between the World 🌎 of Spirits and Humans 

Guardian & Gatekeeper of the Crossroads and Spirit Realm

#legba #Loa #Iwa #Voudou #Gatekeeper #Crossroads

#papalegba 

#foryourpage #Mystic #haitianvodou 

Who do you access in times of need? 

I promised I would explore Legba on my Social Media for the help he has given me repeatedly 

We rely on our Ancestral team, our Spirit Guides, our Angels
March 25, 2025 No comments

Tantra is my passion

Hello Everyone 👋 who has stumbled upon my profile
Let me just say that I love my job. Being a healer fuels me and working for myself and meeting unique people keeps me passionate about the work I do.

Lately there have been “posers” people “pretending ” to want a ceremony & asking for immediate availability.

I even offered some wonderful discounts to sweeten the deal
Unfortunately the discounts have also attracted some opportunistic people who are doing very well…like taking expensive luxury trips or getting lip augmentation.

Please value my time.
I charge what I charge because of the care and thoughtfulness that goes into all my ceremonies.

I never count the clock or push people out the door 🚪
We typically start by chatting. We spend a bit of time before your session begins conversing as friends.
I ask you what your goals and expectations are. You have time to enjoy water and use my bathroom.

You have time to chat about your past experiences with other healers and #tantra practitioners both positive and awkward encounters.
I want you to leave my space feeling content, honored, fulfilled and genuinely listened to.
I have different ceremonies all at a special price point from high to low.
Please don’t take advantage of my sliding fees unless you really need them.
Please refer my ceremonies to your good friends or business colleagues if you valued our time together ❤

chicagotantra

312 339 7707
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Preverification is part of the Screening process and your information is kept private
Deposits are Mandatory but if you feel more comfortable meeting me beforehand you may book a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me and use it towards your session if you see me within 24 hours

Your enjoyment means the world 🌎 to me
Your Loyalty is paramount to my success

Sliding fees are for anyone experiencing financial hardship or excessive medical 🚑 issues
I never feel any resentment for anyone who genuinely needs a slight discount

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please visit my main website

http://Www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you have 20 minutes or more of questions for me just book a phone 📱 consultation for a nominal fee.

couplestantra #virtualtantra #holistic

#chicagotantra #yogini #tantramassage #soundhealing #reiki #breathwork #sensualmassage

November 14, 2024 No comments

What to expect during your first tantra journey with me

Hello 👋 as a current tantra healer you should expect an extremely soothing experience which will begin with a good conversation between you and your tantra goddess of choice.

I can only speak from my personal experience though and not all Goddesses. I am a low volume tantra goddess so my session begins with a conversation in person so I can discuss the goals of my clients. It’s very important to me that my guest is satisfied both physically and emotionally.

Once we discuss goals I may begin with some fun and playful exercises like breathing and gazing into one another’s eyes. We will hold hands and breathe deeply. Once we connect to one another energetically I focus on sensual touch, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy, sound healing and reiki.

My sessions don’t just focus on full body Kundalini activation. These are tantra ceremonies and I always encourage my clients to schedule a minimum of 90 minutes so we can include edging, and hold back as long as possible to help with issues such as PE and ED.

Many of my clients might have issues with post traumatic stress disorder so my sessions are composed of somatic healing with a strong emphasis on breathing deeply and slowly.

Tantra is about connecting to your partner and learning about creating safe boundaries. My male clients often request prostate massage and my female clients usually ask me to help them work through trauma so we focus on womb healing and yoni empowerment.

Tantra is the co creation of sacred space and learning how to love yourself unconditionally while tapping into your Kundalini energy. As you slowly awaken your Kundalini energy you help increase your intuition and you access your innate abilities like creativity, self expression, and self confidence. You can tap into your abundance as your chakras are gently awakened and aligned.

Tantra massage ceremonies help you feel more grounded and in tune with your inner joy. These ceremonies uplift you and keep you focused on the present moment. If you have a tendency to overthink a tantra healing will help you become more zen and meditative. Tantra yoga massage rituals help you transcend time and space as we slow down and exchange positive energy with one another. It’s like an out of body experience where you feel like you are dreaming yet you are grounded into your body.

visit my website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to schedule your first ceremony either for yourself to enjoy or as a couple seeking to enhance your spiritual and physical connection.
November 12, 2024 No comments

Tantra helps you transcend the mundane

A tantra ceremony with me will help you heal from trauma ✨ but will also help you recover fragments of your soul’s purpose. You might feel more tingly, centered and awakened. However you may also feel more vulnerable and tearful from these awakening cell memories.

One session with me will help you transcend from the mundane and you will feel like there is no concept of time as you leave your body and your worries behind.

Your heart will beat joyfully and everything ♥ you touch will feel magically infused and special throughout your day.

Your life force will be fully activated
Your intuition illuminated
Your face will transform and return to a relaxed
And youthful glow. I guarantee your complexion will improve and you will look years younger after just one tantra ceremony with me.

I promise your time with me will be both memorable and nurturing. I want only positive karma transferred between the two of us. I want you to be open minded, trust the process and let your body take in as much or as little energies as possible.

Your body will intuitively know how much energy you need. Your Kundalini energy will be 🐌 slowly awakened at your own pace. We do this by slowly breathing together at intervals during our time together. We quiet our minds and try our very best not to have expectations. We let our minds go trying our best not to think but to simply be in the moment. You can laugh during our ceremony and I won’t judge you. In fact a good belly laugh is great for your healing just like a good cry.

I only wish to attract gentle souls in Dire need of sacred touch; people who appreciate alternative healing, reiki, sound healing and holistic breathwork.

These are special memories we create together ❤
That I call co creation of sacredspace

Never be afraid to reach out to me for a paid virtual phone or coffee ☕ consultation. I can even offer you virtual chakra balancing and sound healing if you are miles away from me.

Your goals, fears and worries will be addressed. You are important and if I personally feel I can’t help you I will refer you to other resources.

chicagotantra #yogini

I’m planning a long distance move when the stars 🌟 and opportunities align

Kindly reach out to me soon while I’m still in the

chicagoland area and surrounding suburbs

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

When emailing me non need to send me a novel about yourself. I just need to know your full name, age range, occupation and some form of social media so I have an idea of who you are. You can always book a 20 minute phone 📱 consultation with me if you have any questions about my services that aren’t covered on my website.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m available every day of the year. I never take a holiday off so please reach out if you are genuinely interested in tantra massage ceremonies and scheduling a tantra retreat or 90 minute journey of sacred space.
October 29, 2024 No comments

New Reviews make me proud to be a tantra healer

I’m sharing a recent review from a client i met two weeks ago.

The stars 🌟 were aligned and he finally made some time to visit me all the way from another part of Illinois that was 90 minutes away from me!

Part of the fun of my job is I get to work on some spectacular people with good hearts and even better intentions

[My Newest Testimonials:
I found Diana’s website years ago and was very intrigued, but due to life’s many unexpected detours I wasn’t able to see her until recently. Now I wish I had made the effort earlier! She is warm, friendly, empathetic, and easy to talk to. I immediately felt as if I had known her for years.

Diana describes what she does as an “experience,” which is no exaggeration. She offers a completely immersive encounter that will make you feel cocooned away from the real world. I literally lost track of time when I was with her, and I never felt rushed. Her positive attitude will stay with you long after you have left. I’ve known people who talked about tantra, but Diana actually lives it. She’s the real deal, and I highly recommend her!

Tobias]

You may find this new testimony on my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you were a recent or past client of mine just know I really appreciate your written testimonials because they attract the best energies to my tantra practice and I always want to help anyone needing an energy boost.

WordPress Family and Subscribers:
I’d love to meet you!  No matter what obstacles you face I’d like to be a part of your healing journey ✨ even if it’s just to escape reality for a few hours

facing financial hardship? Not to worry! let’s help you with sliding fees! Are you financially Abundant? please pay my normal rates as I’m an independent contractor & must cover all my costs for myself and my pet family.

#chicagotantra ceremonies will create more space ✨ in your heart ❤ ♥ ❤
benefits of #tantrayoga & #tantramassage are manifold including sending loving messages to your body with conscience touch and sound
speeding up your metabolism, increasing your intuition, helping your body detox and aiding you in #kundalini ascension slowly and safely
Daily breathwork helps your body process energies better and keeps you looking much younger than your Biological Age.

If you’re interested in scheduling your first tantra ceremony with me please call me directly here

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

July 20, 2024 No comments

Afraid to try Tantra? Meet me for coffee ☕

Hello 👋 this is Goddess Diana owner of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com which is my primary website here in Chicago, Illinois.

Not everyone fully understands that the true purpose of tantra is to gradually activate your Kundalini energy (at the base of your spine) and help you feel how powerful your sexual energy can be. It will be so intense and magnified that you will feel tingling sensations like tiny volcanic eruptions throughout your limbs and heat or cold 🥶 prickly tickles along your spinal column.

Tantra is about learning how to circulate your sexual energy to all your major chakra systems and your sexual energy is used as medication 💊 to heal past trauma and restore a sense of inner calm and balance with you.

I understand this isn’t a path for everyone so I invite you to meet me for coffee to chat about your experiences with other practitioners or maybe you just want to meet face to face just to potentially see if we have any chemistry between eachother.

If you have questions I even offer paid phone 📱 consultations so let’s get together soon and discuss your needs and desires for our shared time together.

Meet me For coffee ☕ this weekend learn about tantra & my background in energywork 312 339 7707
May 26, 2024 No comments

How to Empower your Divine feminine

You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]

We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.

All of us must learn to activate  our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies

You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘‍♀️ or hikes 🚶‍♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day


The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care.  Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.


Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.

Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.

Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing

Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies

As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows

Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.

Hope to meet you soon

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

activation of the Divine feminine