Posts tagged “Tantra

Why did you reach out to me?

I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.

Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.

I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.

After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.

In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.

Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.

The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.

Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.

I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.

Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.

What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.

I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.

If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.

My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.

Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Afraid to try Tantra? Meet me for coffee ☕

Hello 👋 this is Goddess Diana owner of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com which is my primary website here in Chicago, Illinois.

Not everyone fully understands that the true purpose of tantra is to gradually activate your Kundalini energy (at the base of your spine) and help you feel how powerful your sexual energy can be. It will be so intense and magnified that you will feel tingling sensations like tiny volcanic eruptions throughout your limbs and heat or cold 🥶 prickly tickles along your spinal column.

Tantra is about learning how to circulate your sexual energy to all your major chakra systems and your sexual energy is used as medication 💊 to heal past trauma and restore a sense of inner calm and balance with you.

I understand this isn’t a path for everyone so I invite you to meet me for coffee to chat about your experiences with other practitioners or maybe you just want to meet face to face just to potentially see if we have any chemistry between eachother.

If you have questions I even offer paid phone 📱 consultations so let’s get together soon and discuss your needs and desires for our shared time together.

Meet me For coffee ☕ this weekend learn about tantra & my background in energywork 312 339 7707

Tantra is about self love & safe boundaries

You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.

When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.

Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression.  Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔  will wear down on your psyche.

Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.

Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony

If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork #soundhealing reflexology #reiki #cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini

I am here for you ❤

To me connection is everything ❤️
If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with. 

I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.

Email 📧 me at
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra

We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart.
If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.

Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.

You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

you may also subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Tantra helps you love yourself unconditionally

Reasons why we Never Met :(

Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.

I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.

However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.

The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.

I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A

Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.

http://youtube.com/@DianaGrossman?si=UgqovSMGLyhd6C3j

Come join me in the co creation of sacred space ✨ #Tantra heals

I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.

I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.

Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.

Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.

Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!

please read my main website here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then send me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…

Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.

I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.

I Love & appreciate ❤ testimonials from my Guests

If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.

This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.

Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.

What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.

A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.

I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago.  I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.

Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft.  We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.

If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.  

Marvin from Dekalb… 

So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!

Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.

Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨

Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707

Let’s Define what Tantra truly is

#tantra is #yoga We include breathwork, energy work, #somaticrelease, emotional release, intentional touch, co creation of #sacredspace #soundhealing #chakrabalancing and techniques for expanding pleasure

People experience waves of bliss when #kundalini is activated


You will experience tingling, warmth ✨ vibrations It’s a perfect way to increase mental clarity & activate your 3rd eye #Ajna #pinealgland #reiki is included #chanting & #mantras all used to activate, awaken & heal the trauma stored within the cells of your body & reproductive organs

I’m a licensed and certified tantra educator and I’ve been active in my field for thirty years and still have a great passion for healing people 🙏 and co creation of sacred space despite all the challenges I’ve met in recent years. I even made myself fully available for old guests and new clients during the pandemic when other people in my industry chose to retire or go online instead of offering healing touch in person.

Being sensitive is part of living on this planet 🌏 🌍 🌎 Learn how to establish boundaries while have fun at the same time….
Being more open will definitely make you more vulnerable but you will be in alignment with who you truly are— not what people expect you to be….

I’ve always maintained positivity despite the hatred, bullying and cruelty from my peers. I could care less what others think of me or how they perceive me. I’ve stayed strong and grounded because I have an understanding of how energy works and how to create a sacred space within me.

If you feel drawn to my offerings please read through my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and enjoy some short videos I’ve created to help define what tantra is. Just keep in mind tantra is yoga and we must take time to breathe deeply during our time together ❤ to help enhance your body’s ability to process energy, pain and emotions.

Hope to see you soon

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

312 339 7707 🕉

Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly 🦋

As we honor the Yoni we heal & love ourselves

Yoni what does this word invoke within you?

Yoni is directly affiliated with #GoddessShakti She is a #HinduGoddess she is the #divinefeminine she is the Womb and Birthplace & flower

#tantra invokes honoring the Divine essence within us all

We all have within us the God/Goddess spark of Consciousness

#Tantra is #yoga we practice tantra to honor the divinity within ourselves and others

if you can not honor the Divine force that exists within you; you will have trouble respecting the Divinity in others.  if you can’t respect and love yourself unconditionally you will not be able to consciously express love for another Being.

I have set up a code of Ethics for myself and others who come to see me for my #chicagotantra ceremonies.

You would be surprised at how many texts and calls I receive from prospective clients who refuse to honor my boundaries by fulfilling my Verification process.

I request a first and last legal name and deposit before we work together.  This is the bare minimum and should be easy and drama free

In order to be qualified for my Goddess worship ceremonies you should read 📚 up on Goddess energy first by purchasing reading material beforehand and understanding that healing the #Yoni is not for Entertainment purposes only or your Self Gratification

When new students are intrigued about Goddess healing they must understand that yoni healing involves mutual respect 🙏 and kindness…

I have sessions that are specifically geared towards male honoring and relaxation therapy to help align and empower the Divine Male Essence and I have Goddess Worship Ceremonies to help men honor and heal the beautiful Goddesses in their lives.

It bears repeating that Goddess worship is meant to help heal and release trauma found within the yoni.

We tend to store shame, pain, guilt and trauma within our genitalia, our pelvic cradle and our psoas muscles. Yoni and pelvic massages are used to help gently awaken the sacral chakra with kind, loving touch and positive intentions.

Yoni honoring or Goddess Worship is not meant to gratify your sexual desires. You are offering your goddess unconditional love and support while helping her release stored pain and trauma.

You are invited to visit my main website here

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

After reading my site send me an introductory email and tell me more about yourself and your interest in tantra.

Please include your legal name, profession and background if any in alternative healing 🙏

What are the main reasons we should receive a massage?

All forms of massage whether it’s gentle and light or more aggressive like deep tissue and trigger point will definitely help increase your circulation, help rid your muscles of lactic acid build-up and create positive feelings of euphoria to help you deal with stress.

If you suffer from depression, chronic pain, insomnia or overall fatigue a full body massage will increase your metabolism, help lower your cortisol levels and help you achieve a good night’s sleep.

My favorite type of massage to receive is a combination of trigger point release, myofascial release and chakra balancing.

Your physical body affects your mental frame of mind and your psychic 🔮 body or aura.

Being around too many people or experiencing negative situations will definitely deplete you of your energy and sour your mood.

Full body massages which include hand and foot reflexology also target all organs in your body because all our nerve endings end at our extremities so when you focus on the reflex points of the hands and feet you are helping to stimulate the body’s endocrine system, your sinus cavities, your stomach, kidneys, lungs, liver, reproductive organs and central nervous system.

Receiving thoughtful, healing, nurturing touch is essential for all human beings to experience especially if you are a caretaker or if your job is physically demanding.

We all become touch starved when we lack a comforting hug or word of encouragement.

Massages help ground your energy 🙌 and keep your heart ❤ open and your outlook positive.

If you give and give and give and have a mental block regarding receiving energy you should definitely book a healing session for yourself soon!

My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com is informative and entertaining so please read it first before contacting me….

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Whether you book me for reiki or authentic tantra massage I would be delighted to help you work through any energetic blocks and trauma that no longer serve you.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

3312 339 7707

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Chicago Tantra Massage lessons by Goddess Diana

Diana Grossman
Diana Grossman
Massage Therapy, Usui Reiki Master, Tantra Educator at Tantra Butterfly

I would be delighted if you would subscribe to my YouTube channel. I share a bit of information on tantra yoga and it’s also an opportunity for me to vent and share some personal life events that happen to me here in Chicago, Illinois.

I’m a native Chicagoan but I’ve enjoyed traveling throughout the United states with my pets during my career as a licensedtantra educator,  reiki master and yogini.

I offer traditional authentic tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and always implement nurturing  reiki touch, energetic healing, massage,  yoga and chakra balancing during my sessions.

One way to explore Tantra is through eye-gazing. As we gaze deeply into one another’s eyes we keep our mind and heart open and free of judgments. Your heart will expand and unfold like a blossoming flower and you will begin to be fully in the moment and honor the soul of another being.

When we gaze and focus upon the left eye of the one facing you you can look directly into their Soul. We mirror eachother and learn Empathy for another.

We are all human beings making mistakes but we can take time away from the Mundane and learn how to connect to our Higher Selves by co creation of Sacred Space.

The simple act of joining hands, looking into each other’s eyes and breathing together is part of how we establish and Co create sacred space.  We honor one another with the breath and acknowledge the Divine Creator within each of our physical bodies.

Tantra is a very intimate and Sacred way of sharing your compassion with another being. We are focused solely on the current moment and we try and empty our minds and free ourselves of self judgment.

Join me if you are seeking a journey in transcendence.   My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com will provide you with a full array of options from the non sensual to a complete day of tantra spa ceremonies that encompass chakra balancing, nurturing tantra sensuality and bathing ceremonies.

You are encouraged to schedule a paid phone consultation if you simply wish to connect with me and ask me questions prior to scheduling a session with me.  I can even take you on a journey of the chakra bodies through chanting and breathing exercises if you would like to be fully prepared prior to our session and practice a bit of tantra yoga before we meet.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

You may send me an email and introduce yourself to me or call me directly if you are ready to schedule your first tantra massage with me in Chicago.